Love to hear this ❤️ Same exact thing happened to me except he tried to shelf me, not realizing it was going to be a final discard. Met an amazing man right after and we’re going on two years strong. Life gets so much better when you leave these clowns behind
I'm beginning to realize that I was married to a Polygamist the whole 32 years of our marriage. He was actually living double, triple, and quadruple lives with others while he was married to me. And, when we divorced, he tried to manipulate me into becoming one of his side pieces. He tried very hard with me, but I was DONE, DONE! Thank God for removing that demon from my life.. These creatures are pure evil. Thank God for delivering me and setting me free from my enemy...
I wasn't married but I dealt with one for 8 years....now when I reflect I can see in so many ways how he just did not love me, goodness I was so blind it's 🤢 sickening, but I did inforce the final discard and I did it so cold lol I take pride in tht!...God bless you and your healing....these people are absolutely disgusting
@@kendraheard1097 My mother was a narcissist. So, I went straight from her abuse to being married and abused by him. It's been a rough life. But, GOD has stayed right by my side and protected me the whole time. God is the only reason that I survived their abuse. God Bless You! I hope that you are healed, and able to live in peace now. ❤🙏❤
So true, they're just time wasters. Recently, he gave a car dealership my number, and they were texting calling.. I told the lady no one lives here by that name. He was expecting me to call him and say they're trying to reach you. Not today or tomorrow, silent. I'm done with foolishness. Thank you, Lord, for healing and this platform. ❤
My soon to be ex husband that I have been married to has been a complete time waster. About 5 years ago when his mom was living with us, she didn’t try to act like she couldn’t stand him. She told him that “he was time consuming “ and “to go to hell”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
All they want is, "Chaos, Confusion, and Control." Nobody has ever said it better than that. I have to write that down, so that I never forget it. It's the whole essence of narcissism, in a nutshell.
I thought I had posted I remember him mailing love notes and cards to me , asking for us to be friends… I did NOT want him as my friend. I wanted no connection to him whatsoever…
I went back a few times but the more I learned the less I went back. The more I watched videos the smarter I got and I'm done with the covert narcissist. It's a waste of my time. He's not worth it. Never was never will be. I went through all the stages but nothing physical. God was watching over me. I'm one of his chosen.
So my ex narcissist tried to shelve me after the sudden devaluing period (that was triggered by me trying to create a boundary by refusing to accept him disrespecting me).. he put me in such a mind***kery emotional hell for a few weeks, then he said he is now going to ‘open’ the relationship, and he literally said I’m now in his watch-and-wait list, and we should be ‘friends’, and expect me to still be there for him in the future when it’s time to ‘revive the relationship’ again.. I was like no thank you, and I discarded him and went completely no contact.. it took him completely by surprise.. he is so disgusting, don’t know why I fell for this immature clown in the first place
Had a stray show up At my house when the narc first moved in. I looked through peephole. Asked him did he know her. Smirkingly said no. She came wit no shoes on and shorts wit midriff tied shirt to fight or shoot or stab. I just didn’t open the door. The narc said why not open it up Hated me from forever. Glad to be rid of this backwards walking giraffe
The town I come from these women hate me can't give a reason y. Half of them don't know me but wanna b me and can't just my presence alone scare them. I make the impossible possible
I stand alone I'm go getter I'm cool as a fan. I walk in my own lane and they can try to be me but u never will better ask somebody check my credentials. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Omg sounds just like my ex husband. Mrs. Tee you are on point. Honey I had to pray to break free from that mess. Im still praying 2yrs after the divorce. Thank you for sharing this message today.
Yes he used to say to me im not good enough for you, im a failure you can do better, the amount of goodbyes i used to get 😂 but still comes back every couple of months asking how im doing. Well they know im doing better without them in my life iv glowed up & living my life to the fullest not letn anybody bring me down ever again.
❤ Thanks to Tea and the other channels like this we get the education and wisdom, and give ourselves a real closure which is impossible to get from a narc we left behind. I'm grateful for your teaching, it is a big moral support. 🙏☀️ Peace and good luck to everyone in the community.
He kept abandoning me 4 years taking jobs in other cities only to find out that he was also sleeping around, I went through living with a narcissist, liar,manipulator, he played victim to his friends once I called him out on his cheating, I forgave him but a leopard 🐆 never changes it's spots! I suffered from depression, anxiety, mental torture he put me through!
He gave me chaos and confusion. He couldn’t gain control so he went back to his wife. He moved out and kept saying that he was going to get a divorce but didn’t after an entire year. She stalked me and would call me to argue and compete for him. I told her that she’s like the circle k, revolving door
Good morning I couldn't watch due to me being at work I'm watching now Ms Tea always dropping facts yesterday heading to work around 12 something pm . I get a picture of me and that dusty bozo narc I was like 😂 now weirdo been trying to come back I put thee end to the end after two times nah not falling for the devils advocate again God took me out I'm staying out 🤓🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I dumped that pigeon with the missing feathers that backward walking giraffe did too much for me to take him back he gave me the silent treatment mine is forever no contact forever 🤫💪🏾🙏🏾
I went back once. I had enough. I filed for divorce. He finally signed the papers today. Je can never come back. I shut every front door, back door, windows and vents😅. I've blocked him on every media platform. I'm done done. I'm healed and whole.
Being away from the relationship now for over 6 mnths i can clearly now see that this was happening. Thankyou so much for your video I appreciate your support lovely. x
That just happened. But this is the last time. I ended it yesterday because we had words on Thursday morning and note I'm menstruating and all I asked was he backed up sexually joking just like he does me. He went off getting loud trying to say I was accusing him of cheating all the time. A man can't take that all the time.🙄 And I'm need to chill because he is upset his uncle is dying. I said Bye mich 👋🏾. You just showed me a whole lot of guilt. 😅. Friday morning I called to see if he was still mad, he stated yes and that his uncle passed last night. I asked why he didn't call me and. He said "What am I going to call you for"? 😮I have been very understanding and trying to be comforting to him and he just pushes me away keep secrets. So when he said that I felt that was my final que to exit for good. This not forget he has said number of times before, What I need you for. He is going to learn this year. Im done done. So he is talking about me causing more stress knowing he just lost his uncle. I asked God to forgive me for letting go at a time like this, but I got to think of myself just like he has been.
My first narc locked me out of my iphone, youtube, icloud account. Stole stuff when picking up her things 9months later. This new one started crying when discarding me because I don't do friends with exes. Dropped off her things and went no contact asap, been getting unknown calls for 4months. Yep new female supply first, ex still in the picture & new male supply. After the discard they want you chasing them.
These individuals are getting tormented every single day with their thoughts, the fact tht they live a life full of the same cycle like a hamster on a wheel is God delivering his wrath every moment of their living lives....we are able to get off the hamster wheel and begin healing....they stay on the hamster wheel their entire lives!!!.how sad when u think about it let that really sink in....and the older they get it becomes harder and harder to maintain supply some of them actually kill themselves or may even kill u when trying to leave!
Left him alone he wasn’t what thought he was seeing other people I was agreeing to it but he got serious with somebody else then married that’s his business I will never want him in my life he’s fraud now his wife no full story on me
They hate me so bad cause they can't be me can't touch me on a bad day and they know it. Thats y i smile. Better get ur weight up while you trying to be me. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t know why you Always talk about narc’s giving YOU closure. You have to give YOURSELF closure by never forgetting the abuse cheating and disrespect. That is the only closure you ever need. stop mentioning “ narc’s don’t give you closure “. Ppl are probably thinking this will happen “eventually “. You must give yourself closure.
@@viewerwatching5712 she’s saying why they don’t give you closure. And I’m saying it’s NOT NEEDED for you to move on. There bad treatment is. Closure it’s so overrated. Ppl still secretly wait on closure from someone who nearly destroyed them. I’m just saying…🤷🏾♀️my thoughts
@@viewerwatching5712 I will always Rock with my girl T. She helped me recover and I’ll be forever grateful. I left the narc I married 4 yrs ago, whereabouts unknown, I am completely done no closure wanted or needed. I heard every video from T. Saved me from doing life 💯. I think when closure is mentioned it plants the seed that maybe it’ll make you “ feel better “ so you really can move it. The closure is your solid walk away game ❤️
I dumped him 2 years ago and met a great guy shortly after 😂❤ I’m fully provided for and loved ❤. Ladies pls move on and you’ll get better.
Can't wait to have the same testimony of meeting someone who values, loves and cares for me
Love to hear this ❤️ Same exact thing happened to me except he tried to shelf me, not realizing it was going to be a final discard. Met an amazing man right after and we’re going on two years strong. Life gets so much better when you leave these clowns behind
I'm beginning to realize that I was married to a Polygamist the whole 32 years of our marriage. He was actually living double, triple, and quadruple lives with others while he was married to me. And, when we divorced, he tried to manipulate me into becoming one of his side pieces. He tried very hard with me, but I was DONE, DONE! Thank God for removing that demon from my life.. These creatures are pure evil. Thank God for delivering me and setting me free from my enemy...
Belly crawling creatures 👹👿👺
I wasn't married but I dealt with one for 8 years....now when I reflect I can see in so many ways how he just did not love me, goodness I was so blind it's 🤢 sickening, but I did inforce the final discard and I did it so cold lol I take pride in tht!...God bless you and your healing....these people are absolutely disgusting
@@kendraheard1097 My mother was a narcissist. So, I went straight from her abuse to being married and abused by him. It's been a rough life. But, GOD has stayed right by my side and protected me the whole time. God is the only reason that I survived their abuse. God Bless You! I hope that you are healed, and able to live in peace now. ❤🙏❤
So happy for you.
@@viewerwatching5712 ❤
So true, they're just time wasters. Recently, he gave a car dealership my number, and they were texting calling.. I told the lady no one lives here by that name. He was expecting me to call him and say they're trying to reach you. Not today or tomorrow, silent. I'm done with foolishness. Thank you, Lord, for healing and this platform. ❤
My soon to be ex husband that I have been married to has been a complete time waster. About 5 years ago when his mom was living with us, she didn’t try to act like she couldn’t stand him. She told him that “he was time consuming “ and “to go to hell”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
All they want is, "Chaos, Confusion, and Control." Nobody has ever said it better than that. I have to write that down, so that I never forget it. It's the whole essence of narcissism, in a nutshell.
I can never be replaced It ain't but one of me. And i stand on business with that
...and the Devil is a Liar !
I thought I had posted
I remember him mailing love notes and cards to me , asking for us to be friends… I did NOT want him as my friend. I wanted no connection to him whatsoever…
Yes it was overrrrrr, no need to be friends, when we couldn’t be that, when we was together
They told me let’s be friends with benefits! I’m like…that’s what we doing anyway!
I went back a few times but the more I learned the less I went back. The more I watched videos the smarter I got and I'm done with the covert narcissist. It's a waste of my time. He's not worth it. Never was never will be. I went through all the stages but nothing physical. God was watching over me. I'm one of his chosen.
So my ex narcissist tried to shelve me after the sudden devaluing period (that was triggered by me trying to create a boundary by refusing to accept him disrespecting me).. he put me in such a mind***kery emotional hell for a few weeks, then he said he is now going to ‘open’ the relationship, and he literally said I’m now in his watch-and-wait list, and we should be ‘friends’, and expect me to still be there for him in the future when it’s time to ‘revive the relationship’ again.. I was like no thank you, and I discarded him and went completely no contact.. it took him completely by surprise.. he is so disgusting, don’t know why I fell for this immature clown in the first place
Had a stray show up
At my house when the narc first moved in. I looked through peephole. Asked him did he know her. Smirkingly said no. She came wit no shoes on and shorts wit midriff tied shirt to fight or shoot or stab. I just didn’t open the door. The narc said why not open it up Hated me from forever. Glad to be rid of this backwards walking giraffe
😂😔
Girl they come at you with everything they got to keep you around! Love you girl!
You will become a revolving door and a floor mat
Get them goofies out of here! lol!
You are on point!!!! Your videos give me power❤
If you smart u won't even look that way. Thats a plane waiting to crash. Thats not our issue thats for her to take care of not mine
The town I come from these women hate me can't give a reason y. Half of them don't know me but wanna b me and can't just my presence alone scare them. I make the impossible possible
Yes siss . The friend card= is used also to catch u in a vulnerable moment . Hope 🙏🏽 that u cave in weak moment
So true, he tried to make his move on me after my Mother passed.
And u r right you can't melt none of these women and pour them in my shoes at all. Never😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I stand alone I'm go getter I'm cool as a fan. I walk in my own lane and they can try to be me but u never will better ask somebody check my credentials. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Facts
Omg sounds just like my ex husband. Mrs. Tee you are on point. Honey I had to pray to break free from that mess. Im still praying 2yrs after the divorce. Thank you for sharing this message today.
Lol😂
Yes he used to say to me im not good enough for you, im a failure you can do better, the amount of goodbyes i used to get 😂 but still comes back every couple of months asking how im doing. Well they know im doing better without them in my life iv glowed up & living my life to the fullest not letn anybody bring me down ever again.
Don’t need closure because iv become narcissistic injury, and I enjoy it!
When I say am out. I mean am out 💯
The end
I have never and will never go back
❤ Thanks to Tea and the other channels like this we get the education and wisdom, and give ourselves a real closure which is impossible to get from a narc we left behind. I'm grateful for your teaching, it is a big moral support. 🙏☀️ Peace and good luck to everyone in the community.
He kept abandoning me 4 years taking jobs in other cities only to find out that he was also sleeping around, I went through living with a narcissist, liar,manipulator, he played victim to his friends once I called him out on his cheating, I forgave him but a leopard 🐆 never changes it's spots! I suffered from depression, anxiety, mental torture he put me through!
He gave me chaos and confusion. He couldn’t gain control so he went back to his wife. He moved out and kept saying that he was going to get a divorce but didn’t after an entire year. She stalked me and would call me to argue and compete for him. I told her that she’s like the circle k, revolving door
Good morning I couldn't watch due to me being at work I'm watching now Ms Tea always dropping facts yesterday heading to work around 12 something pm .
I get a picture of me and that dusty bozo narc I was like 😂 now weirdo been trying to come back I put thee end to the end after two times nah not falling for the devils advocate again God took me out I'm staying out 🤓🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Excellent!!! Excellent truth!!!Amen!!! HalleluYah!!! Awesome!!!
Sayonara Frienemies!!!
😁🌍🌎❤️❤️🔥
I dumped that pigeon with the missing feathers that backward walking giraffe did too much for me to take him back he gave me the silent treatment mine is forever no contact forever 🤫💪🏾🙏🏾
I went back once. I had enough. I filed for divorce. He finally signed the papers today. Je can never come back. I shut every front door, back door, windows and vents😅. I've blocked him on every media platform. I'm done done. I'm healed and whole.
Hi Telsha can you do a video on how they take advantage of disabled people. I kicked my husband out and I’m disabled.
Mine kicked me out and HE's disabled I cared for him for 8 years til he was independent again
He moved his mother and her money in with him
Nothing but the truth!!
The three C’s… so true…🙌🏽!
Facts Telsha. The ex narc always said , I was sooo insured.
Being away from the relationship now for over 6 mnths i can clearly now see that this was happening. Thankyou so much for your video I appreciate your support lovely. x
Thank you Ms. Telsha. I'm glad you shared some of your knowledge today. God Bless You🤗❤🌹
Thank you so much! Yes, the other video was making awful noises. Thank you for making this one!
Thank you.
This is gold ! So accurate - thanks T ❤
You too good at this.
They'll get nothing and like it 😁
I hear no lies. Word to my momma !!!
That just happened. But this is the last time. I ended it yesterday because we had words on Thursday morning and note I'm menstruating and all I asked was he backed up sexually joking just like he does me. He went off getting loud trying to say I was accusing him of cheating all the time. A man can't take that all the time.🙄 And I'm need to chill because he is upset his uncle is dying. I said Bye mich 👋🏾. You just showed me a whole lot of guilt. 😅. Friday morning I called to see if he was still mad, he stated yes and that his uncle passed last night. I asked why he didn't call me and. He said "What am I going to call you for"? 😮I have been very understanding and trying to be comforting to him and he just pushes me away keep secrets. So when he said that I felt that was my final que to exit for good. This not forget he has said number of times before, What I need you for. He is going to learn this year. Im done done. So he is talking about me causing more stress knowing he just lost his uncle. I asked God to forgive me for letting go at a time like this, but I got to think of myself just like he has been.
My first narc locked me out of my iphone, youtube, icloud account. Stole stuff when picking up her things 9months later. This new one started crying when discarding me because I don't do friends with exes. Dropped off her things and went no contact asap, been getting unknown calls for 4months. Yep new female supply first, ex still in the picture & new male supply. After the discard they want you chasing them.
Ms. Tea...this is GOOD!!!
Thank you 🎉
This was very helpful!! Thank you!! ❤
Hello Family ❤️❤️❤️
This is on point!!🎯💯💀
Shalom
❤❤❤When God going getem ❤❤❤
These individuals are getting tormented every single day with their thoughts, the fact tht they live a life full of the same cycle like a hamster on a wheel is God delivering his wrath every moment of their living lives....we are able to get off the hamster wheel and begin healing....they stay on the hamster wheel their entire lives!!!.how sad when u think about it let that really sink in....and the older they get it becomes harder and harder to maintain supply some of them actually kill themselves or may even kill u when trying to leave!
Never
Memphis here now
Left him alone he wasn’t what thought he was seeing other people I was agreeing to it but he got serious with somebody else then married that’s his business I will never want him in my life he’s fraud now his wife no full story on me
I hear you
The end
💥 facts!
Hey! Love your videos! 💯
I believe it's mens to😮😮
They hate me so bad cause they can't be me can't touch me on a bad day and they know it. Thats y i smile. Better get ur weight up while you trying to be me. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Amen 🙏 OUT🧳
❤❤Exactly
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
I don’t know why you Always talk about narc’s giving YOU closure. You have to give YOURSELF closure by never forgetting the abuse cheating and disrespect. That is the only closure you ever need.
stop mentioning “ narc’s don’t give you closure “. Ppl are probably thinking this will happen “eventually “. You must give yourself closure.
If you listen she does explain that in depth
@@viewerwatching5712 she’s saying why they don’t give you closure. And I’m saying it’s NOT NEEDED for you to move on. There bad treatment is.
Closure it’s so overrated.
Ppl still secretly wait on closure from someone who nearly destroyed them.
I’m just saying…🤷🏾♀️my thoughts
💯💯💯
@@viewerwatching5712
I will always Rock with my girl T. She helped me recover and I’ll be forever grateful. I left the narc I married 4 yrs ago, whereabouts unknown, I am completely done no closure wanted or needed.
I heard every video from T. Saved me from doing life 💯.
I think when closure is mentioned it plants the seed that maybe it’ll make you “ feel better “ so you really can move it. The closure is your solid walk away game ❤️
The DISRESPECT IS MY CLOSURE & NO CONTACT
Glad I found your videos. I’m healing ❤️🩹
“A LOTTA YALL HAD TO GO BACK FOR SEVERAL DOSESSSSSSS” 🫠😝🤣🤣🤣🫠 1:51
AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!!!!
Thank you.