Boosie: Black Women Became Independent Because of Deadbeat Men (Part 19)

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    Boosie and Vlad addressed comments by Tyler Perry advising black women not to have such high expectations of their men. Boosie interpreted Perry's statement as urging women to follow their hearts, not money, as love based only on wealth is destined to fail. Vlad, on the other hand, expressed his personal point of view. He believes in taking on all financial responsibilities in a relationship, labeling men who split the bills as weak. Although acknowledging that not everyone is as financially fortunate, he also stated that even during his broke periods, he never expected the woman he was with to help with the bills. On the other hand, Boosie contended that while supporting a woman financially is important, it is equally vital to raise independent daughters who can identify their self-worth and not rely solely on a man's wealth.

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  • @jarvisjames
    @jarvisjames 10 місяців тому +119

    He's so ignorant. I get being proud of yourself and that it feels nice to take care of people but look, if you're a normal person and you're with another normal person, you do what makes sense for you both to survive. Period.

    • @latricetaylor7928
      @latricetaylor7928 10 місяців тому +16

      Yes Boosie answer was perfect. Vlad tripping

    • @Cjfrmda804
      @Cjfrmda804 10 місяців тому

      Exactly

    • @moisesguzman2750
      @moisesguzman2750 10 місяців тому +4

      Vlad thinks hes some type of Life Expert he always tries to make it about him and his ideals are always right🙄🙄🙄

    • @jarvisjames
      @jarvisjames 10 місяців тому +1

      @@moisesguzman2750 genuinely believes himself to be the perfect human being. He can adapt to any economical climate, no one can touch him because of his old police security, he's a financial genius, if you threaten his life he'll beat you nearly to death.. list is endless

  • @antarahibnshaddad7725
    @antarahibnshaddad7725 10 місяців тому +387

    Splitting bills and learning how to manage money together is apart of real relationships

    • @jcchambers7896
      @jcchambers7896 10 місяців тому +17

      I just don't think people have that mindset people wanna do sum on they own

    • @user-sb6qe4lz6k
      @user-sb6qe4lz6k 10 місяців тому +26

      Vlad reaching again

    • @JohnSmith-ey6hq
      @JohnSmith-ey6hq 10 місяців тому +26

      Men like this think paying everything means they get full control but as you said real relationships are 100/100. I give 100% of me and my effort and so does she. Splitting bills takes away money arguments and tit for tat bs.

    • @ТоняЗаліська
      @ТоняЗаліська 10 місяців тому +13

      Vlad did say that when he was once in a relationship with a woman who was making more than him, he felt insecure. So him wanting to pay for everything all the time seemingly makes him feel more secure and gives him some sort of underlying leverage

    • @windyc5206
      @windyc5206 10 місяців тому +4

      ​@jcchambers7896 Intertwining finances is a lesson in trust that is necessary for a relationship to last decades. Still need to have boundaries though. My wife and I have all of our accounts separate, but hers is mine and mine is hers.
      It allows us to be independent and still have each other's back.

  • @coryjackson6034
    @coryjackson6034 10 місяців тому +123

    Vlad you have no choice but to pay all the bills or you wouldn't have a girl just keep it real !!!!

    • @patrickbateman4208
      @patrickbateman4208 10 місяців тому +11

      Faxxxxx! Money is all he offers

    • @otarzan
      @otarzan 10 місяців тому +7

      Women told bro you gotta finance that puxxy so he don’t mind tricking 😂

    • @WillOnCode
      @WillOnCode 10 місяців тому +8

      That’s what he’s not saying

    • @marxman300
      @marxman300 10 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @tshiamisoukwuagu8804
      @tshiamisoukwuagu8804 10 місяців тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @oneangryblackman
    @oneangryblackman 10 місяців тому +266

    Paying all the bills for a chick that only brings kids and a trail of bodies to the relationship is insane

    • @123-z5o2c
      @123-z5o2c 10 місяців тому +19

      “Trail of bodies “..😂😂😂😂 got my dying over here cause they are some trail of bodies cause it’s rare after about 30, they either single cause they got lots of kids or ugly or crazy as hell and worse Is if they got all 3 those problems 😂😂

    • @lorelsimone4904
      @lorelsimone4904 10 місяців тому

      Fucking with a chick who only has bodies and babies is insane at any level.... rather paying bills or not

    • @lionelbodie8863
      @lionelbodie8863 10 місяців тому

      Vlad is sounding like a real jackass

    • @bosstaylor1112
      @bosstaylor1112 10 місяців тому +4

      Exactly I’m not taking vlads advice on this one

    • @DaFaak
      @DaFaak 10 місяців тому

      Lol immature response prolly from an immature man child 🤣

  • @mistersippiburning
    @mistersippiburning 10 місяців тому +78

    Do what works for you in your relationship.

  • @KashBeck
    @KashBeck 10 місяців тому +127

    Vlads a clown, most married couples split bills.

    • @SilentShot_609
      @SilentShot_609 10 місяців тому

      Anyone to say otherwise is a moron

    • @IAMHIM414
      @IAMHIM414 10 місяців тому +3

      Lies

    • @ariakpabio
      @ariakpabio 10 місяців тому +2

      no they don’t

    • @ace_getem3843
      @ace_getem3843 10 місяців тому +14

      Yes they do

    • @jedielliott
      @jedielliott 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@IAMHIM414how many married people do you know?

  • @trydatt904jax
    @trydatt904jax 10 місяців тому +36

    AT THE END OF THE DAY IF SPLITIN BILLS WORK FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP THEN DO THAT FUCK WAT THESE RICH PEOPLE TALKIN BOUT DO WATS BEST FOR YALL

  • @LilHondaCivic808
    @LilHondaCivic808 10 місяців тому +45

    White men and black men are 2 different worlds 💯

  • @pinkchrryblssm
    @pinkchrryblssm 10 місяців тому +155

    I think there’s a difference between some one who is lazy vs they live within their means. If we’re a couple and living together, and we’re both doing what we need to do, it’s not fair to measure a man’s worth by his pockets. His character, his values and his morals, the love and respect he has for you should be taken into account.
    These conversations lack nuance sometimes and I think that’s what Tyler Perry was alluding to. Not to settle for less, but to take other things that are also equally important into consideration.
    ***we should teach our daughters AND our sons to know their worth and their value. The boys need love, compassion and understanding as well. Maybe then we can stop this vicious cycle of self loathing men and bm/bd culture.

    • @Pinchabooty85
      @Pinchabooty85 10 місяців тому +7

      A freakin MEN!!!

    • @donaquiles495
      @donaquiles495 10 місяців тому +10

      We need more western women like you 💯💯💯

    • @Cjfrmda804
      @Cjfrmda804 10 місяців тому +6

      I agree 💯

    • @MotivationWeightLoss
      @MotivationWeightLoss 10 місяців тому +1

      Sista's Self Loathing For Choosing Gov't Over BM And Having Babies Before Marriage

    • @chevaileroberts1652
      @chevaileroberts1652 10 місяців тому +4

      Thank you that's what I'm saying

  • @akibetha3637
    @akibetha3637 10 місяців тому +80

    This is why Vlad is alone at 50

  • @Pop-fo7nc
    @Pop-fo7nc 10 місяців тому +54

    One thing my parents and grandparents taught me was that you have to do what works for your relationship. Don’t let other ppl dictate what you have going on in your household as long as the young lady is happy then you’re good

  • @NativeTribe2024
    @NativeTribe2024 10 місяців тому +64

    I been married for 25 years. My wife and I split everything 50/50. I can’t speak for no other marriages/ relationships, but it work great for us.

    • @erik15th
      @erik15th 10 місяців тому

      These dudes are single and say anything that makes them feel validated

    • @ronaldamonte2407
      @ronaldamonte2407 10 місяців тому +1

      How old are you?

    • @crunkin1t590
      @crunkin1t590 10 місяців тому

      According to Vlad you're a weak man

  • @Pinchabooty85
    @Pinchabooty85 10 місяців тому +134

    55 to 65 percent of America is living check to check. The economy doesn’t even allow the average man to cover all the bills or expenses. Although I partially agree with Vlad, the economy isn’t set up for those options

    • @jaye5926
      @jaye5926 10 місяців тому +1

      exactly..vlad is NOT in the real world..90% of this world is living pay check 2 pay check & it is NOT BY CHOICE! 🙄🙄🙄

    • @dontes5009
      @dontes5009 10 місяців тому +6

      Loser mentality. This 55% is out of 300 million. That's A Lot of variance in between. It honestly comes down to a choice. Tired of weak excuses

    • @_Car_Ideas
      @_Car_Ideas 10 місяців тому +34

      @@dontes5009loser mentality? I make close to $200k and my gf makes well over $100k and we split the bills. This isn’t 1950, we both have ability to have careers and make money, and if we just lived off my salary than we would have to reduce our quality of life. I’d love to know how much YOU make and see you live 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @ТоняЗаліська
      @ТоняЗаліська 10 місяців тому +5

      Also, ppl think "chasing the bag" at the expense of their health is some type of "boss move". Boosie admitted that he hustles alot and doesn't get much sleep. That's hustling backwards if your health isn't in optimum condition to enjoy life to the fullest

    • @_Car_Ideas
      @_Car_Ideas 10 місяців тому +8

      @@ТоняЗаліська yeah man, I completely agree. Money is absolutely important but it’s not the “end all, be all’ in life. And your finances definitely aren’t what defines you as a man. Some people don’t have anything else to them besides their money/career/status so they use that to make themselves feel big.

  • @joojoobaw
    @joojoobaw 10 місяців тому +128

    “If you can’t afford to take care of it, you shouldn’t have one” is the same way people talk about dogs & cars 😂 Brutal

    • @123-z5o2c
      @123-z5o2c 10 місяців тому +8

      Can’t have either one of those either without money 😢😢😂😂

    • @londonqueen6210
      @londonqueen6210 10 місяців тому

      And we know and accept that fact right?

  • @aM-nc8ix
    @aM-nc8ix 10 місяців тому +144

    our women would take a drug dealer over A bus driver with good benifits. Tyler Perry is right.

    • @diobrando1488
      @diobrando1488 10 місяців тому

      They are not "our" women!!!! Havent been since the plantations!

    • @kingsam23305
      @kingsam23305 10 місяців тому +1

      Gangstas need love too goofy 😒

    • @coreyadams1982
      @coreyadams1982 10 місяців тому +23

      Exactly, I have a few of my sisters that made that decision. They didn't choose the dude that was going into the military they chose the neighborhood drug dealer. They are now single mothers

    • @karletonmcbride8083
      @karletonmcbride8083 10 місяців тому

      ​@@kingsam23305shut up

    • @Handsoffblackgirls
      @Handsoffblackgirls 10 місяців тому +5

      It's benefits not "benifits". You tried it. 🐢

  • @btmusicman5589
    @btmusicman5589 10 місяців тому +23

    Only way I'm paying 100% of everything and be a traditional man etc then you better be a traditional woman and be a virgin bride and raised a traditional woman, no hymen no diamond

    • @khari3133
      @khari3133 10 місяців тому +3

      facts she better be cooking every single night and house better be spotless af

    • @JosePerez-tr5fj
      @JosePerez-tr5fj 10 місяців тому +2

      Yo that's the realest thing I've ever heard, 5589 you sir are gentleman and a scholar

    • @btmusicman5589
      @btmusicman5589 10 місяців тому +1

      @@JosePerez-tr5fj appreciate it

    • @forevermamba_2303
      @forevermamba_2303 10 місяців тому

      @@btmusicman5589facts

    • @latricetaylor7928
      @latricetaylor7928 10 місяців тому

      Lmboo

  • @ottomc560
    @ottomc560 10 місяців тому +49

    millionaires be like…Most married people split bills..the average USA income is like 52K you gonna pay all the bills on $3000 a month?

    • @Mr.McCann978
      @Mr.McCann978 10 місяців тому +22

      These MF's are out of touch with reality. Splitting bills is normal especially if you have kids

    • @ottomc560
      @ottomc560 10 місяців тому +3

      @@neutraliserjanine normal is synonymous with average and i just told u the average income so no its not normal😂

    • @ottomc560
      @ottomc560 10 місяців тому

      @@neutraliserjanine 😂ma’am so a police officer isnt a real man? A fireman? A teacher??? They make a average salary….

  • @TaylaFam
    @TaylaFam 10 місяців тому +70

    I don’t even let my girl split bills, but the way he’s judging other menbthat aren’t in as good of a financial space as him is sad

    • @zopound7688
      @zopound7688 10 місяців тому +1

      💯

    • @Cjfrmda804
      @Cjfrmda804 10 місяців тому +1

      Naw fr

    • @munchiee2560
      @munchiee2560 10 місяців тому +1

      It's not judging he literally said "that's just him " it's his opinion.

    • @RoamFM
      @RoamFM 10 місяців тому +2

      This subject is hilarious. Money doesn't make the man. The man makes the money. As for relationships, each one has is own agreements.

    • @philday2348
      @philday2348 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@munchiee2560 he also said if you split bills your a "weak man". He is definitely judging

  • @Golfislife94
    @Golfislife94 10 місяців тому +12

    that was some of the most clown shit you have ever said and I been following / watching for 10+ years

    • @reyjonhsmith
      @reyjonhsmith 10 місяців тому +3

      Yes, it’s so out of touch it’s ridiculous

    • @Lars13__
      @Lars13__ 10 місяців тому

      He be reaching fr

  • @LDFenego
    @LDFenego 10 місяців тому +10

    The most sucessful relationships is when both people work as a Team

  • @marcussylvas9411
    @marcussylvas9411 10 місяців тому +16

    1. Everyone ain't you, Vlad.
    2. Someone interview Vlad and ask why he's single despite paying for everything

    • @whayes8084
      @whayes8084 10 місяців тому +1

      @@neutraliserjanineWoman are you going to reply to every comment? You sound bitter. Go away.

    • @JewelryB
      @JewelryB 3 місяці тому

      isn't he married?

  • @615JOHNLEE
    @615JOHNLEE 10 місяців тому +9

    Listen fellas, if you out here with a girlfriend and not a wife, do not listen to this bullshit Vlad talking. ALWAYS have enough bread to cover ALL the bills if need be, that way you ain't up a creek if y'all split; but man you got to leave a woman with some responsibility and hold her ass accountable in 2023. Me bustin 70+ hours a week to come home to a hot plate and a clean house is not a fair exchange to me. Those traditional ways are out the window nowadays in my opinion. Having said all that though, I do feel that men should take the bulk of the load. In my house it's around a 80-20 split. I'll never been 100-0. But that's just me.

  • @johnwall725
    @johnwall725 10 місяців тому +4

    Russian man telling black men to step up

  • @iyonlionofficial8372
    @iyonlionofficial8372 10 місяців тому +16

    A father daughter relationship is different tho, no comparisons to a man woman relationship

  • @mikewilson5348
    @mikewilson5348 10 місяців тому +7

    Vlad is a weirdo lmao

  • @que5888
    @que5888 10 місяців тому +38

    When boosie said to follow ur heart and not the money bc when the money gone what do u have to love. That was powerful! Clearly vlad come from 2 different worlds, he’ll never understand the struggles of a Black man

    • @turquoisepurple7sky151
      @turquoisepurple7sky151 10 місяців тому +2

      You need both. You cannot afford to not have any money. You can be broke while you are young, cannot be broke while you are old

    • @TronLeonard
      @TronLeonard 10 місяців тому

      Real talk

  • @kingbc05
    @kingbc05 10 місяців тому +51

    I am so disappointed in Boosie right now not even speaking up to this bullshit Vlad is saying

    • @latricetaylor7928
      @latricetaylor7928 10 місяців тому +3

      Omg I was actually proud of him!!!!!! Boosie said it perfectly in my eyes!!! Teach your child worth

    • @JerZ_Grape17nOX
      @JerZ_Grape17nOX 10 місяців тому +2

      @@latricetaylor7928yes definitely teach them they’re worth but what we see alot is when a man is paying everything he feels like he can do everything or his ego gets to the point he feels she’ll have to accept everything because if I leave she won’t have nothing or be able to afford anything

    • @latricetaylor7928
      @latricetaylor7928 10 місяців тому +5

      @@JerZ_Grape17nOX true but you have to understand, Boosie said he was taught this way. I teach my son the same thing. You are the man, the provider. Your wife is your help mate, it’s nothing wrong with splitting bills like normal ppl but it’s also not wrong for a man to want to pay all the bills. There is no right answer. Vlad is wrong for calling men weak

    • @CuttaKane95
      @CuttaKane95 10 місяців тому

      Vlad pathetic for this one I will never watch him again he thanks everyone has to be having a lot of money why would I be with a women that’s not go help me it’s like she my child if I’m paying for everything he sounds stupid af

    • @alexinarodriguez2714
      @alexinarodriguez2714 10 місяців тому +2

      He's not speaking up because there's nothing to speak up about... whether he agrees or not, which he said that he was raised up on men paying all the bills. A lot of men were raised this way! & That's okay! You are obviously a man who wasn't raised this way... which is also OKAY! Everybody is different and have different outlooks on life and every relationship is unique. Vlad said he feel like men who can't provide 100% are weak men.... on the flip side, there's men who would say that a man who does EVERYTHING for a woman and pay all the bills is a weak man also... "SIMP" is what y'all call it lol. It's all about perspectives, damn if you do... damn if you don't. you shouldn't allow his opinion to disappoint you. I am a female who agrees with Vlad on this topic... but I also know that, I make my own money as a woman and if I meet the right guy and I love being with him... if he's not financially well off to take care of us both, we would just go 50/50.

  • @laneryda
    @laneryda 10 місяців тому +43

    Thank you Vlad for persevering and perpetuating the stereotypes that plague the Black community. You serve your purpose as a vulture.

    • @hooligan5381
      @hooligan5381 10 місяців тому +1

      you know he not gon' see this right? lol

    • @AutisticBarbie
      @AutisticBarbie 10 місяців тому

      You are correct about Vlad, but what did he say in this video that was doing that ?

    • @laneryda
      @laneryda 10 місяців тому +1

      @@AutisticBarbie I'm referring to the concept of a man not going 50/50 with a woman he's involved with.

    • @AutisticBarbie
      @AutisticBarbie 10 місяців тому +1

      @@laneryda oh ok makes sense

    • @MiamiU4
      @MiamiU4 10 місяців тому +2

      @@lanerydanot to mention, the example he describes towards the end of the clip is a very small amount of those in said circumstances. The amount of men that simply do the bare minimum and/or comfortable “living off of” their woman is few and far in between. But in terms of men who go “50/50”, and I put it in quotes because realistically its more 90/10, we aren’t ASKING the woman to contribute; she’s CHOOSING to because 1 she has the ability to and 2 is an ASSET and instead of a LIABILITY. A partner regardless of if it’s man/woman, who only subtracts and never adds, isn’t really a valuable partner.
      So this imaginary reality that Vlad is trying to paint where the man should provide everything while the woman does absolutely nothing is asinine. And for him to say that he’s taken care of everything for every woman he’s been with since college sounds more like he’s the one getting pimped lol

  • @Backendralph
    @Backendralph 10 місяців тому +35

    A man can pay all of the women bills and the second she not happy she gone mess with the next dude and leave you broke looking dumb 😂😂 nahh im good on that vlad

    • @DaDonZanni-pd1tp
      @DaDonZanni-pd1tp 10 місяців тому +2

      Yep

    • @Almighty.htx1
      @Almighty.htx1 10 місяців тому +2

      Cook

    • @Vito44-c8p
      @Vito44-c8p 10 місяців тому

      Facts that’s why it’s better to have your own n if she wanna come in fuck around she can all that extra shit dead

    • @kylesmall6064
      @kylesmall6064 10 місяців тому +1

      Facts. I always say while a man is paying all the bills, the woman is stacking every penny so when she walks away she has a nice nest egg to restart. Meanwhile the dude is starting over with next to nothing.

  • @kelvinkelvin6200
    @kelvinkelvin6200 10 місяців тому +34

    Makes sense that Vlad feels this way. Without money what is he? Money grants him things and access to women. That he wouldn’t have if he didn’t have any money or as much money as he has. There’s men that don’t have the kind of money that he has. But with talent and attractiveness as well as skills. Could easily get the same type of opportunities & access he has without the money.

    • @sinez999
      @sinez999 10 місяців тому +13

      Facts. Clearly his "best" asset is his wallet. But as J Cole once said, 'Ferrari or Camry, I bet I look good in em both'. Broke or rich, deep down he's still a lame.

    • @kelvinkelvin6200
      @kelvinkelvin6200 10 місяців тому

      @@sinez999… Facts.

    • @ТоняЗаліська
      @ТоняЗаліська 10 місяців тому +2

      Vlad did say that when he was once in a relationship with a woman who was making more than him, he felt insecure. So him wanting to pay for everything all the time seemingly makes him feel more secure and gives him some sort of underlying leverage

    • @ogbc100
      @ogbc100 10 місяців тому

      Big facts mane

    • @ogbc100
      @ogbc100 10 місяців тому +2

      It’s always the dudes who when you take their money away they couldn’t pull a fine woman to save their life.

  • @certifiedsteppazpodcast
    @certifiedsteppazpodcast 10 місяців тому +4

    Those women only loved your money Vlad lol

  • @strongfriendzcheckin
    @strongfriendzcheckin 10 місяців тому +2

    I apologize for this long post, but I am passionate about this issue.
    People are confused about marriage (and the roles each party should play). People have become unloving, selfish, and greedy because intimacy is so “casual” now.
    Marriage is NOT for selfish people. Marriage is man’s most important ministry. God established marriage so man would have a helpmeet specifically created for him to assist in building HIS legacy/kingdom. Man is heir to God’s throne. Marriage should represent God’s love for his bride (the church). A man should love his wife as God loves the church. Remember, God IS love. Love is patient, kind, forgiving, longsuffering, etc.
    Promiscuity makes it difficult to recognize the person that God created FOR YOU because there is so much temptation and people lack self-control. Stop creating soul ties and trauma bonds with random people. Old-fashioned works!
    The husband is the HEAD of his wife. He leads, instructs, protects, and provides. He provides the vision for building the family’s legacy. He is the CEO.
    The wife is his helpmeet. She follows, obeys, honors, and respects her husband. She plays a supporting role like the COO or CFO. She is the FORCE MULTIPLIER.
    The husband should always have more responsibility (could be 60/40) because HE IS THE LEADER! Most of the men on my father’s side have been happily married for 30+ years. Their wives respect, honor, and OBEY them!
    TAKE YOUR TIME AND STOP BEING SO “CASUAL”. God will give you the WISDOM to choose the right person.
    BTW, Boosie’s desire to provide is admirable. However, his love for money hinders him from experiencing God’s abundance. God is trying to use him, but promiscuity blinds him. He can’t recognize the wife God created FOR HIM (his force multiplier).

  • @kingbc05
    @kingbc05 10 місяців тому +4

    Lil Boosie a lot of these women are because you and Marlo Mike took their dads out

  • @JohnDoe-mv1sm
    @JohnDoe-mv1sm 10 місяців тому +6

    Smelling mad insecurity from Vlad 😂

  • @omgitsdev4568
    @omgitsdev4568 10 місяців тому +21

    im 31 with an MBA and I dont make my girl pay any of my bills. with that being said what Vlad said was insane
    50% of men in america makes $45k and under in this country. 70% of women thats married or in relationships have to go back to work 3 months after giving birth because they have to get back to paying bills
    Vlad does not live in reality. he makes alot of money on social media and that tends to cloud alot of people judgement thats in his same tax bracket. to say men is weak because they arent financially well off like Vlad/Boosie is a slap in the face considering how most of vlad viewers are everyday 9-5 workers

    • @Mikey90210
      @Mikey90210 10 місяців тому

      That the part that they all keep forgetting. I think any man that can afford it will love to take care. Of the bills/they women and the kids. But especially in today’s economy how can an average worker take care of everything by they self makin 45-60k… everyone can’t be a boss…

  • @Big..Rank..52
    @Big..Rank..52 10 місяців тому +3

    The black community is different those days of a man going to work paying all the bills while a woman staying at home with the kids have a good meal when you get home days are over everybody is on they grind some these kids raising they self the whole structure of life have been changed so two independent people spitting bills are common basically Vlad say hey girl come live off me and keep ya money 💰 big daddy got it lmao 😂 it ain't tricking if I got it but ain't nothing wrong with two people trying make it together happens in America everyday it's called having each other back plus if u pay all the bills and the woman don't cook u food and u bet not 🚫 say clean or its over lmao hell nah in return for the just the p$ssy nah bruh either we comin up together or i'm a batchlor # and go have fun every now and again but structure back then was best # plenty of good woman build up man back then # factz # go make your money come home to your family eat a good meal with the family wife and kids all yall had was each other thats how its suppose to be black family was gold 🥇 in still should be thats what the culture and the community missing # black is gold 🥇

  • @jallison5457
    @jallison5457 10 місяців тому +15

    You do what’s best for your relationship. And know what kind of relationship you are actually in. Money is power. If your mate is paying all of the bills, than that person is superior to you financially. Bcus when the argument happens the first thing your mate says is I’m paying all the bills , I run this. And like I said money is power. And it takes a special person to have power and not abuse that power. Your mate is either an asset or a liability . But most importantly if you are in a relationship don’t listen to outside people and their opinions, Do what works for your relationship.

    • @ТоняЗаліська
      @ТоняЗаліська 10 місяців тому +1

      Vlad did say that when he was once in a relationship with a woman who was making more than him, he felt insecure. So him wanting to pay for everything all the time seemingly makes him feel more secure and gives him some sort of underlying leverage

  • @ThatshykidDre
    @ThatshykidDre 10 місяців тому +4

    I think that whole taking care of a womens bills is an old time way of thinking. This is before women could work. Im not finna let no women sit on her ass while i pay for everything, either she gotta have that house together or she helping me pay the bills.

  • @pesocheco
    @pesocheco 10 місяців тому +2

    Once again wrong messenger. We know how yo baby moms and daughter feel about u boosie.. fake real

  • @Major2219
    @Major2219 10 місяців тому +5

    Vlad is trying his best to get Boosie to dislike Tyler Perry LOL

  • @georgeharris529
    @georgeharris529 10 місяців тому +17

    Me and my woman split bills and we're doing great we do want we want when we want we go were we want when we want a joint corporation! Easy to say a man is weak when you're worth millions but think what you want

    • @lamart3857
      @lamart3857 10 місяців тому +2

      Facts bro if vlad really felt like that he wouldn't have been splitting bills when he was broke in college a lot of times I think vlad says these things to stir up controversy and drive traffic

  • @kingbc05
    @kingbc05 10 місяців тому +5

    Listen to the Jewish Steve Harvey😂

  • @ronjefe7655
    @ronjefe7655 10 місяців тому +30

    seeing boosie now is great, and how he is answer questions with caution and sound clear and very verbal🙏🏾 i been rocking with boosie since he was on timing fr😂

  • @KKemp-bt6nl
    @KKemp-bt6nl 10 місяців тому +3

    Boosie don’t agree with VLAD. He’s just trying to be cool about it 😂

  • @Harlem1455
    @Harlem1455 10 місяців тому +2

    Title is crazy ! Bro never speak bad about Jewish women ! But Vlad Jewish mother left his father on his death bed ! LETS GET TO THaT!!

  • @Ms.Federally.Official-Matthews
    @Ms.Federally.Official-Matthews 10 місяців тому +10

    I'm not sure that what Tyler said was so bad. But, I think everyone should aspire to marry or enter a relationship with your equal.

  • @moneybagz82
    @moneybagz82 10 місяців тому +2

    Vlad don't understand the ugly rule. 😂😂😂 if u ugly u GOTTA pay. Thats the real reason why hes always been paying everything.. lol It's crazy when single ppl give advice on how have a successful relationship 😂

  • @charlesarnesworld
    @charlesarnesworld 10 місяців тому +4

    Vlad said that's way sisters date outside their race because we dead beats 😂 this WT boy getting more and more bold

    • @charlesarnesworld
      @charlesarnesworld 10 місяців тому

      @@neutraliserjanine naw that's bullshit there are plenty of brothers I know who hold they whole family down... plus a WT man is more willing to take care of another man's kids which most BLK women are single moms brothers aren't willing to be a sucker like that

    • @charlesarnesworld
      @charlesarnesworld 10 місяців тому

      @@neutraliserjanine because we don't want to help clean up black single moms mistakes

  • @moesunnyside8319
    @moesunnyside8319 10 місяців тому +8

    There a difference between a man that is working hard , loyal to his wife and kids and his wife works to add to the pot, VS a dead beat. Many strong black families during the 60s both husband and wife had to work to survive. That's not weak. Weak is hiding behind money, lawyers, and security

  • @foleydogg3470
    @foleydogg3470 10 місяців тому +3

    Vlad is delusional.

  • @JohnSmith-ey6hq
    @JohnSmith-ey6hq 10 місяців тому +7

    I can afford to pay for everything but i won't. No offense taking at all playa. You take care of every woman you desire.

    • @khari3133
      @khari3133 10 місяців тому +3

      Facts imagine paying everything and the girl still out here being a thot you gone be looking dumb af

    • @JohnSmith-ey6hq
      @JohnSmith-ey6hq 10 місяців тому +1

      @@khari3133 happens far more often than not. When they know you got it but know you wont pay her way through life they respect you more. If you got it or dont got it but still pay for everything they see you as a simp sucka type and either take advantage or be in the streets and sheets with other men. I was raised to provide for a woman but i also grew up and seen a different type of woman than the ones they were talking about me providing for so i changed the pimpin 😂 but fr though i noticed we livin in different times now. Im not goin.

  • @JerZ_Grape17nOX
    @JerZ_Grape17nOX 10 місяців тому +10

    You gotta take into the account most men who are paying for everything often work a lot and are away from home now yes a woman is happy she doesn’t have to pay anything but now her man/husband is always at work which then turns into a problem because women want attention. Nowadays women who aren’t only after money say they don’t wanna feel too dependent on a man because if he pays everything and decides to leave she now has to figure what to do to take care of herself.

    • @otarzan
      @otarzan 10 місяців тому +2

      She’s just going to get another sponsor

  • @shaunwordplay3111
    @shaunwordplay3111 10 місяців тому +5

    "If I had the right woman she will help me make more money" don't just be spending all your money on any woman.

  • @taykeyjonezes3503
    @taykeyjonezes3503 10 місяців тому +7

    It really depends on the couple and their financial situation. Aint nothing wrong with your man paying one bill as long as he cook, clean, and lay that pipe good, but if your man aint doing nothing at all, then he need to get put out.

    • @2cleeng
      @2cleeng 10 місяців тому

      😂

  • @jmoney8580
    @jmoney8580 10 місяців тому +6

    Deadbeats that THEY choose

  • @carlosyoung1630
    @carlosyoung1630 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm all man! Never a dead beat! But hell yeah my baby can kick in on bills. I used to dig Vlad and this channel. But it's starting to get a lil fake with Vlad braggin bout what he got while interviewing a guest. Need to know ya average viewer is basic working class people. Like me. I've never wanted for shit in life they I ain't get up and go get. Sounds ignorant talking bout men need 2 pay the bills. Women want to be treated equal. So why we can't split these bills equally? Boosie u bet not sit there and sign off on that bs Vlad talking. Get ya pass revoked. Outside all the internet, Hollywood, stunting bs, MFS just tryna make it out here. And the way shit is these days, yes it takes 2 stay above water in a house hold. Vlad you sound like a super trick. Str8 up bro. That 1989 Babyface I'll pay yo rent bs. LMAO. Foh. As matter of fact I do pay all the bills right now. But if baby can't hold this shit down when shit go left I don't need her. My Mama always told me if the women ain't capable, you gotta be a man that able. Ain't shit wrong with, especially married people, sharing the cost and building a life together. 💯

  • @steelerdynasty2007
    @steelerdynasty2007 10 місяців тому +2

    actually vlad... YOU are the weak one here.... if a woman who can financially contribute to your lifestyle intimidates you so much or makes you feel like less than a man, you weren't much of one in the first place... there's a difference between sharing and dependency

  • @user-sb6qe4lz6k
    @user-sb6qe4lz6k 10 місяців тому +2

    Vlad reaching again 😂

  • @Traveltip247
    @Traveltip247 10 місяців тому +11

    I agree with paying all the bills but my house better be spotless and meals on the table. If I’m paying all the bills and taking care of the house too what do I have her for?

    • @rubenparkerjr1531
      @rubenparkerjr1531 10 місяців тому +1

      I don't get that and my wife's 3 kids are under our roof, so we split the rent and I pay all the bills 💯

    • @kingofgames1986
      @kingofgames1986 10 місяців тому +1

      @@rubenparkerjr1531 you don't get what?

    • @JerZ_Grape17nOX
      @JerZ_Grape17nOX 10 місяців тому +1

      But in todays world that won’t be the case because you can do all that and guess what a woman will say she’s not a maid or slave and if she’s not her friends will be telling her that in the group chat. A lot of women today especially young women are entitled and feel you should pay for everything but not expect them to do everything else even tho you pay everything.

    • @rubenparkerjr1531
      @rubenparkerjr1531 10 місяців тому

      @kingofgames1986 the spotless house and cooked meals.

    • @WillOnCode
      @WillOnCode 10 місяців тому

      Nooo why does she have to take care of the house.. and cook you can’t tell a woman what to do lol.. only weak men do that

  • @DayonManley
    @DayonManley 10 місяців тому +3

    I’m getting tired of hearing this shit I’m not married I’m 25 I don’t have kids I work at hitachi astemo i get paid 21.95 dollars an hour. know a lot of couples regular people even people I grew up around if your working a regular job your most likely splitting bills it’s common not everybody is a influencer or a rapper or singer or athlete or UA-camr I have an aunt and uncle both have great jobs high paying jobs have a nice house big a great life and they split bills my uncle he pays more but she is ok with it they both make great money but it very common that a lot of relationships split bills idk why we keep having these conversations like this is new

    • @lionblood1268
      @lionblood1268 10 місяців тому

      @@neutraliserjanine or he could just rob kill and steal and call it colonization

  • @malb2382
    @malb2382 10 місяців тому +2

    Vlad you are so disconnected from our community. It’s crazy. Our people have only survived by a man a woman both paying bills.

  • @USER01237
    @USER01237 10 місяців тому +2

    Vlad always showing his naivety, for the vast majority of people splitting bills is the only way to survive. As long as both people are pulling their weight the best they can there shouldn’t be a problem. Vlads opinion is the reason why a lot of women have delusional expectations from life and relationships and why young men feel the need to take risks to provide a lifestyle above their means.

  • @hisunshine6502
    @hisunshine6502 10 місяців тому +2

    You guys are disappointing yes make our daughters smart and independent up to a point but make sure our sons aren't simps because this country made marriage a bad contract and some women not all are trying to get you in a bad contract so Tyler Perry and Kevin Samuels are right up to a point

  • @kingofgames1986
    @kingofgames1986 10 місяців тому +14

    Personally I agree a man should pay all the bills but what is this man getting in return for all this

    • @JerZ_Grape17nOX
      @JerZ_Grape17nOX 10 місяців тому +5

      Exactly because if your paying everything that means you’d probably working a lot unless you have a high paying job and the average income isn’t enough depending on where u want to live and what to have. Two car payments, rent, food, utilities, eating out, kids if you have so a man working that hard a woman’s gonna start complaining or feeling lonely which doesn’t end well🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @s-jaystephen425
      @s-jaystephen425 10 місяців тому +3

      304

    • @CuttaKane95
      @CuttaKane95 10 місяців тому

      Only a gold digger worthless woman a sit there in let her man pay everything

    • @Cutthroat5L
      @Cutthroat5L 10 місяців тому

      Damn fool you is you pay all the bills why she get to keep her money

    • @Cutthroat5L
      @Cutthroat5L 10 місяців тому

      @@neutraliserjanine what that gotta do with anything dj lad got his startup from a Rick Ross lawsuit he was broke at one point

  • @reginaldbstewart395
    @reginaldbstewart395 10 місяців тому +3

    You can’t step up and beat inflation.
    Only certain people can afford the full freight

  • @nickpenson8838
    @nickpenson8838 10 місяців тому +2

    Two single men talking about ppl in relationships is 😂😂

  • @cdizzub
    @cdizzub 10 місяців тому +2

    They are partly right.
    A man should strive to pay all the bills. But that doesnt mean a dude sets hisself up for the get over and let a chick putem in a trick bag.
    When that paper gone, she gonna slide too.

  • @tball2688
    @tball2688 10 місяців тому +2

    this shit makes my head hurt, you want to raise your woman not to need a man, while in the same breath you want a man to take care of everything... am i the only confused with all of this contradictions? why do we keep treating women like they are grown children... i pay all the bills but this sense of entitlement is beyond me.

  • @shawnwhite3662
    @shawnwhite3662 10 місяців тому +3

    I don't have a problem paying all the bills but the woman needs to 100% love me for me..not my money. People show their true colors when you broke.

  • @ogskullomania3119
    @ogskullomania3119 10 місяців тому +12

    This is facts....Like every woman i grew up with Cousins and all....have masters degrees and this is just from the 80s....my Mom was a single mom and completely changed her life....Shout out to them women proud of black women

  • @troydogg2716
    @troydogg2716 10 місяців тому +1

    If women want to be independent..and want the same Wage as Men... she would be splitting the bills. Even if it's a Phone,Cable and Car Note. If im a man paying majority of the big bills.. What is wrong with her contributing to her house also? She's my helper for a reason. Not every man is rich like Boosie and Vlad. We all need help in this system... Hell even the kids need to work now! lol Ijs

  • @I-Know-it-All-sc3jz
    @I-Know-it-All-sc3jz 10 місяців тому +4

    If u can’t afford to pay all the bills you need to focus on getting ya stuff together and not a woman

    • @MrSub132
      @MrSub132 10 місяців тому

      So every man needs to work to get rich (which usually happens when men are over 40 at least) before they are allowed to date an average non virgin non traditional modern woman? Yeah aight.

  • @nux2k
    @nux2k 9 місяців тому +1

    2. Millionaires talking about a man should pay all of a woman's bills married or unmarried or he should be single is crazy.
    I know when I was younger in dating. I'll let women know real quick I'm attractive enough to get women without having to pay that bills.
    You got a handful of times to ask me for some money before I go get what I need elsewhere.
    They have to be a separation between girlfriend and wife.
    My father made six figures and my mother still help pay bills by contributing with money.

  • @toneyjones688
    @toneyjones688 10 місяців тому +1

    LIES !! I pay every single bill and what you’re saying makes no sense don’t compare a Jewish man to a black man as well
    Talking about parents given you money to live somewhere name another black man that got that luxury first of all

  • @chevaileroberts1652
    @chevaileroberts1652 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm sorry but we black 🖤 and we help our man whenever through what ever, I been holding my husband down and we struggle together

  • @Joceanrell
    @Joceanrell 10 місяців тому +1

    Vlad this something you shouldn’t be discussing …. I hate that he think he has supremacy over black America

  • @malikkhalid2941
    @malikkhalid2941 10 місяців тому +2

    Call me weak baby! I don’t care if i made 200 million everybody has to contribute

  • @tronwilliams8781
    @tronwilliams8781 10 місяців тому +2

    Vlad clearly like alot of people didn't understand the context. Tyler perry was specifically talking about black women who make alot of money and cant find men who are in the same financial braket and end up single and childless. They should date a regular guy who cant afford the rich lifestyle but can only pay the lightbill and car insurance in the rich lifestyle.

  • @Thezayway_
    @Thezayway_ 10 місяців тому +3

    I might be too young or not financially there like Boosie & Vlad, but at 29 years of age I’m not taking care no woman. I rather us work and grind together and equally take care of bills if it reaches that level.

    • @WillOnCode
      @WillOnCode 10 місяців тому +2

      Yep and if she’s not adding to you leave her

  • @YoungLightOfficial428
    @YoungLightOfficial428 10 місяців тому +1

    vlad your not black so you cant speak for us about black relationships bruh

  • @theadskipper2928
    @theadskipper2928 10 місяців тому +1

    Money creates a power dynamic.. if your man pays all the bills you shouldn’t withhold sex. Women have babies and don’t want to lose weight.. they don’t wanna get dressed up any more.. she get bored at home all day and she start smashing the pool boy.. etc. idle hands are the devils play ground. Paying all the bills is like tipping a waitress it’s highly suggested but it shouldn’t make or break your restaurant experience.

  • @largegod77
    @largegod77 10 місяців тому +1

    Vlad u do nit know the plight of Black ppl .. u report u Neva lived it … stop the acting like u really know

  • @joepg1608
    @joepg1608 10 місяців тому +1

    Ain't nobody taking relationship advice from Glad or boosie.

  • @buckpreacher2283
    @buckpreacher2283 10 місяців тому +1

    Nha b that independent woman bs is just that bs and nonsense from Babylonian principles and it does nothing but blurr the lines fam period

  • @GuidedbyCrows
    @GuidedbyCrows 10 місяців тому +1

    For a traditional wife that lives with me yes. For a modern independent woman that I'm not letting live with me, no.

  • @PrettyAdrian804
    @PrettyAdrian804 10 місяців тому +1

    Naw i cant agree with this thinking as a normal person. Two leople who live on a normal income have to work together because we are the sum of our parts. Our combined income is how we live a decent middle class life. We work together to better the quality of each others lives. Real relationships flourish like this all the time!!

  • @itsascaryworld9788
    @itsascaryworld9788 10 місяців тому +1

    Vlad must have had an argument with his wife about being the man of the house the day he sat with boosie and ranted about himself. This little rant sounds personal.😂

  • @JohnSmith-n4e
    @JohnSmith-n4e 10 місяців тому +1

    I pay my own bills without and women just don't need and gold digger

  • @tomburkart7814
    @tomburkart7814 10 місяців тому +2

    Vlad and Boosie are the luckiest entertainers alive they both have no talent.

  • @Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH
    @Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH 10 місяців тому +3

    Living off of the government isn’t independent, cuh.

  • @DaDonZanni-pd1tp
    @DaDonZanni-pd1tp 10 місяців тому +1

    Boosie is the deadbeat dad the irony your daughter just cussed you out no long ago bw are skronnnng and indapendent theyll be just fine 😊

  • @mashamarahyash5541
    @mashamarahyash5541 10 місяців тому +1

    Vlad don't speak for black men in America.

  • @machomusprime50
    @machomusprime50 10 місяців тому +1

    Your female daughters? As opposed to? 😂

  • @2cleeng
    @2cleeng 10 місяців тому +4

    See this is what I don’t get about this dude at times. whether you’re working as hard as you can etc. etc. this dude was sleeping on peoples couches going through the struggles too and he’s rich already. So it’s so easy to judge, it took this man 15-20 years of trials and tribulations to get where he’s at so fellas who are probably like me. Being as independent as you can grinding, whether it’s school, starting your own business etc. even if you are going half on bills with your woman etc. it’s all a process and takes time. Don’t let someone who’s already established act like it’s all fairy dust and candy canes. We’re REAL people going through REAL struggles he’s an individual that’s capitalizing off our culture who’s established and wasn’t talking like this 15-20 years ago when he didn’t have it. I get sick and tired of these judge mental aspects from people who act like it’s just “work harder” blah blah blah. Some people get established at just the right time simple as that. We’re in a time where everything’s higher than it was shoot 5 years ago food,gas, living, expenses. Fellas keep ya head up stay grinding and when it’s your time it’s your time not based off of Man’s time.

    • @ТоняЗаліська
      @ТоняЗаліська 10 місяців тому

      According to Vlad's logic, brain surgeons aren't making as much as Steph Curry cuz they ain't "working hard enough". Vlad did say that when he was once in a relationship with a woman who was making more than him, he felt insecure. So him wanting to pay for everything all the time seemingly makes him feel more secure and gives him some sort of underlying leverage

  • @damnineedwater1859
    @damnineedwater1859 10 місяців тому +1

    If y’all do decide to pay all the bills in the house hold. Make sure youre doing it for the right woman. Bills be paid but the house be dirty.l everyday you finna be tight 😂

  • @J3R3MI6
    @J3R3MI6 10 місяців тому +1

    Boosie first 3 ex girls watchin this like 🤨

  • @orlondavis-qr2de
    @orlondavis-qr2de 10 місяців тому +1

    VladTV you got rich off our black culture

  • @vladtv
    @vladtv  10 місяців тому +2

    Watch the full interview now as a VladTV UA-cam Member - ua-cam.com/users/vladtvjoin

    • @C.I.T.H.
      @C.I.T.H. 10 місяців тому

      shut up Vlad and stop making it so hard on black men you rich bastard.

    • @Michael-ep5rw
      @Michael-ep5rw 10 місяців тому +1

      Stop acting like you speak for all men you can't speak for black men two different struggles

  • @bgriffin808b
    @bgriffin808b 10 місяців тому +9

    Lol this ain’t the 50s dawg. If Im paying for everything then the legs need to stay closed until I get home and a meal need to be prepared. I agree that if she with you then she shouldn’t be struggling. But if you decide to marry her then she decides to leave you, 9 times out of 10 she gone get half anyway. So why not be ahead of the game from jump by going 50/50🤣. This ain’t about the money it’s about principle

    • @desmondwallace
      @desmondwallace 10 місяців тому

      real talk

    • @bgriffin808b
      @bgriffin808b 10 місяців тому

      @@neutraliserjanine spoken like a true colonizer

    • @bgriffin808b
      @bgriffin808b 10 місяців тому

      @@neutraliserjanine good bot

  • @davidjean-louis8885
    @davidjean-louis8885 10 місяців тому +1

    Forget about the money when the money is gone they will leave real quick