James English and Dapper Laughs Talk About Addictions and Making Changes

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  • @menacetosobrietypodcast
    @menacetosobrietypodcast Рік тому +205

    Loads of lovely comments on here - and a couple Nob heads lol thank you!

    • @chelseaboylucas25
      @chelseaboylucas25 Рік тому +1

      Great to see you back on top . 🤜🏻🤛🏻

    • @delbertgrady5288
      @delbertgrady5288 Рік тому +6

      Now is the time that Riske comedy is needed. You were talking the piss out of lad culture. You should continue with what you were doing. You have fans, you were never cancelled by your fans. You were cancelled by people who never even watched your vines.

    • @jamiehall8188
      @jamiehall8188 Рік тому +3

      Keep going bruv

    • @Johnsy1989
      @Johnsy1989 Рік тому +9

      My journey is so similar I went 6 months off the beak carried on drinking due to ego "I can still have a few" and "I don't want to miss out" the wheels came off relapsed heavy grand a week only thing that got in the way was work anyway 18 months clean now once I decided giving up booze would set me free it changed my life! 💙

    • @Johnsy1989
      @Johnsy1989 Рік тому +4

      Again my missus has stook by me 10 years 3 kids I'm so lucky, story so similar x

  • @danielclements5916
    @danielclements5916 Рік тому +40

    These two are more inspirational than they could ever know to many men .

    • @kurez677
      @kurez677 Рік тому +1

      Your easily pleased

  • @MrTibbs12
    @MrTibbs12 Рік тому +23

    Alcohol is probably one of the most evil addictions there is..i’m just getting myself out of alcoholism and its videos like this which help me a lot

    • @garypavitt6831
      @garypavitt6831 Рік тому +2

      So true well done keep up the good work

    • @MrTibbs12
      @MrTibbs12 Рік тому +1

      @@garypavitt6831 the lying,the hurt..we take it out on those who love us..vile addiction

  • @barrybamping8153
    @barrybamping8153 Рік тому +29

    This episode pointed out what a class act James is. He's silently been there for dapper without taking any credit for it jus understanding he needed someone. Respect james

  • @bluenose4903
    @bluenose4903 Рік тому +15

    Just by telling a man you love him and is proud of him can save him when in the darkest of places
    What a guy you are JE 💙

  • @Francie3183
    @Francie3183 Рік тому +35

    I travel 3 hours to and from work everyday and your podcasts have been a game changer for me James ..just keeps getting better mate keep it up!

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  Рік тому +6

      Thanks brother

    • @MyLiam22
      @MyLiam22 Рік тому +1

      @@JamesEnglish
      Fellas need blokes like you and Dapper talking about this stuff. Really helped me look at myself and get back on track. Full respect keep it up 🔥👍🏻👌🏻

    • @jamiehall8188
      @jamiehall8188 Рік тому +1

      Facts

  • @thebaldyorkshireman9019
    @thebaldyorkshireman9019 Рік тому +15

    I totally relate to this. I'm seven years sober, but it took me to pick up a drink after three years to realise that I can never drink again. I use that experience to remind myself what would happen if I were to drink again.

  • @matpeachey3946
    @matpeachey3946 10 місяців тому

    Im the same age as Dapper and have been through a very similar journey to sobriety. I’m almost two years clean and sober and life is so much better now. I was in a terrible place and genuinely thought I wouldn’t be here now if I didn’t stop. If you’re reading this and thinking about getting sober, just know nothing is beyond fixing. Life can be so much better. Get the help, talk to your mates and just stay focused. This was an excellent episode . Great to hear someone relatable talking about something most won’t with such honesty and vulnerability. Big love to you both ❤

  • @Jesusisthetruth2
    @Jesusisthetruth2 Рік тому +4

    I've been sober for almost 3 years. I miss the crazy times but I've had to admit that I cannot control it ! So I had no choice. Plus I want to remember the 2nd part of my life ! Lol (im 46) Keep it up lads. You both have the world at your feet. You would be fools to f it up ! ❤

  • @SmiffyPlaysGames
    @SmiffyPlaysGames Рік тому +16

    Genuinely hope dapper sees this -
    The guy changed my life with his motivational videos and message. And i listened! I started looking after myself a lot more start of new year. Ive lost 15 kilos( still long way to go ) ive got a job that im really happy with, and im so much more confident and healthier. Thank you for opening my eyes, i now see i needed a kick up the arse seeing how lazy and overweight i was🙏🏻 i can still enjoy a beer with my mates, and I’m much happier going out, been a big follower of him for ages. Hope i can get to one of his comedy shows when hes on tour.

  • @Bobbibouchersmumwasright
    @Bobbibouchersmumwasright Рік тому +8

    Great guest… think we can all relate to this on so many levels. Cheers James

  • @river3693
    @river3693 5 місяців тому

    Get your out there for the men who’re struggling, but my friend and I have really resonated with this podcast… all your sobriety podcasts JE… first time I’ve come across DL… what an inspiration! Thanks for getting this message out and giving us the courage! X

  • @sambartlett9703
    @sambartlett9703 Рік тому +4

    This deserves 6 million views we can all relate to this .Drink,drugs,cars,watch’s are all part of of the problem this has helped me so me much. Can’t thank you boys enough

  • @JackAlex1234
    @JackAlex1234 Рік тому +3

    Great podcast this. 2 proper down to earth blokes saying it how it is. Proud of Dapper and the way he is turning his life around.

  • @alwaysjmf
    @alwaysjmf Рік тому

    Brilliant informative, supportive, natural free flowing chat between two mates that will hopefully help those needing guidance and advice and even those that don't!

  • @chillwinstonuk
    @chillwinstonuk Рік тому +18

    James this a banger.
    So much respect for Dapper.
    He is A proper bloke.
    Brave and the perfect example of intelligence and humilty.
    Keep doing what you're doing man 💪🏻
    Big up 👊🏾

  • @ASOA_STRENGTH
    @ASOA_STRENGTH Рік тому +8

    My two favourite podcasts coming together for this 💙

  • @StephenLMW
    @StephenLMW Рік тому +7

    More and more men who suffer from mental health issues or addiction issues need to watch to videos like this to make themselves realise they are not alone, this podcast is like a therapy session plus I love how these two are highlighting the biggest issues in the world right now and making more and more people aware of how vulnerable kids are nowadays, James and Daniel you should be officially named as mental health ambassadors

  • @adamiqbal8847
    @adamiqbal8847 Рік тому +6

    James u a wonderful human being and your podcasts make my day. Keep up the good work mate 👍

  • @danielford6843
    @danielford6843 Рік тому +3

    Quality lads, myself and many others can definitely relate. Having a family definitely changed my outlook in life and gave me direction. Keep smashing it lads, for you're wife and kids to say they are proud of you is a better high than any drug fact. Mad how when off the beer and drugs you start to appreciate the little things in life which years ago you would of found boring. Could listen to you both all day,so relatable!

  • @kayleighsmith4976
    @kayleighsmith4976 Рік тому

    Refreshing to listen to, genuine with humour gives hope and motivation to others struggling ❤

  • @daandan5140
    @daandan5140 Рік тому +6

    Love this 3 years sober from the beer..still a daily battle with the drugs.

  • @Davidl98765
    @Davidl98765 Рік тому +3

    I think so many men needed to hear this. great chat 😊

  • @IRApaddymccourt
    @IRApaddymccourt 7 місяців тому

    This podcast has chamged my life, 2 weeks sober since listening to this. From 3.5 a day to sober & smashing the gym every day, next goal get a a job !

  • @GetDarker
    @GetDarker Рік тому +2

    Could listen to you two talk for hours. Looking well Dapper. 👏🏻

  • @sandrahenry6562
    @sandrahenry6562 Рік тому +1

    Absolute breath of fresh realist truth, be who you are (or who you pretend to be) but keep it all personal & away from children... not enough Men & Women are speaking out on the madness & that's exactly how madness takes hold.

  • @joncook1888
    @joncook1888 Рік тому +1

    Great listen guys. The hardest battle I’ve had in life ever is sobriety!!! Keep up the great work

  • @EJWEST333
    @EJWEST333 Рік тому +5

    Loving it James! Big respect ✊ 🎉❤

  • @mistypordage5745
    @mistypordage5745 Рік тому +3

    Bless you James for catching him when u could see he was falling ❤

  • @dollyg6783
    @dollyg6783 Рік тому +1

    getting sober is the best thing ive ever done- without doubt. great podcast x

  • @NaturalNat111
    @NaturalNat111 Рік тому +16

    Love you two together 💚down to earth blokes, great chat and keeping it real as always. Good to hear you diving down the rabbit hole James 😇 we are living in a satanic shit show right now and it’s great to hear you speaking out on this nonsense 💚

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  Рік тому

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @jimtheyid
      @jimtheyid Рік тому

      You mean the Sam Smith appreciation club😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @carlwatkins5560
    @carlwatkins5560 Рік тому +2

    Proper men. Great chat to watch guys keep them coming 😎👌🏼

  • @chelseaboylucas25
    @chelseaboylucas25 Рік тому +2

    Best pod cast on UA-cam right now . Keep it up !

  • @arranfield3037
    @arranfield3037 Рік тому +7

    The madness is I know once I give up I can never drink/sniff again so I keep putting it off and telling myself I'll do it one day....I think that one day is coming very soon 💯

    • @jason21jburg
      @jason21jburg Рік тому +1

      Exactly where I was a month ago and not looked bs k I e never felt so sharp

  • @becksarmour9922
    @becksarmour9922 Рік тому +3

    Been clean 4 years, also have Adult Adhd....but living my best life xxx ❤.

  • @Greeny2290
    @Greeny2290 Рік тому +1

    Two top fellas. Love both your stuff. Keep spreading the good word. 👊🏻

  • @83Bathie
    @83Bathie Рік тому

    This is an amazing podcast. Love both of you.

  • @abdulrahman-vz1lu
    @abdulrahman-vz1lu Рік тому +1

    Great watch. more videos on addiction and mental health james as so many people can relate.

  • @garypavitt6831
    @garypavitt6831 Рік тому

    Cheers lads for talking about your addictions I've had warnings and signs and hurt ppl I love and care for. I'm going use your story's for inspiration and realised it's better to talk about it rather than being ashamed peace and love ❤

  • @dv4092
    @dv4092 Рік тому +2

    This is one of my favourite episodes james, keep smashing it mate 💙 I go through this stuff myself. but i choose to keep it to myself and not really tell anyone anything anymore, as i got tired of hearing the phrase ''man up'' which i don't even understand what that means anymore, people still seem to live in the stone age.

  • @jamesmorris7420
    @jamesmorris7420 Рік тому

    This was a all very helpful for me. Thanks to you both.

  • @charlierox3190
    @charlierox3190 Рік тому +7

    You two are legends! Could listen to you both all day long ❤ so many serious topics covered but a good few laughs too

  • @edz619
    @edz619 Рік тому

    I could sit and listen to you boys all day!! Great conversation between 2 cracking lads!!!! Nice one James!

  • @colesautotechltd4217
    @colesautotechltd4217 Рік тому

    Brilliant podcast, very inspirational gents 👏

  • @natalieward4551
    @natalieward4551 Рік тому +2

    James, I’ve watched every single one of your podcasts but this for me was the absolute best 😍 can’t wait for you to go on Daniel’s podcast, well done darlings xx

  • @user-sj1ju5sd4t
    @user-sj1ju5sd4t Рік тому +5

    Listened to this twice and suspect I will again -- look forward to James being in Menace To Sobriety

  • @Swiss251
    @Swiss251 Рік тому +1

    LOVED THE PODCAST MATE
    My opinion from a 34 year old Aussie, who has over come cocaine and alcohol addiction.
    People , young men these days have no respect.
    Back in the day if you had something told to you by someone older even if it was over a beer you listened. And if it was something important you acted on it out of respect.
    This generation in my opinion is given too many easy options, no young man wants to not only learn a craft but take pride in it and be respected in it.
    To many options to take the easy way out.
    Keep up the good work. Big fan of the podcast

  • @martychappell7541
    @martychappell7541 Рік тому +1

    Look how clear his eyes are, great to see him looking so well.

  • @monsterenvey1280
    @monsterenvey1280 Рік тому +3

    Love this boys ! Men should be here for other men to support

  • @123takealook
    @123takealook Рік тому

    Iv managed to be able to change from alki to “normal” drinker, 2-3 pints and go home easily now. 1 macro dose of mushrooms 1-2 months has sorted me right out.
    Love dapper and James. Great combo 🤙🏻

  • @dazchalmers86
    @dazchalmers86 Рік тому +3

    Men who are suffering mentally might look like they are weak! But if your still fighting demons daily in your own head! Trust me your stronger than you think. The struggle is real

  • @kerriparr615
    @kerriparr615 Рік тому

    Absolutely loved this. You two are amazing. I watch both your Podcasts and love them. Don't ever stop, you's are the best. Thankyou for what you both do.

  • @bradleywood7420
    @bradleywood7420 Рік тому

    Great podcast, ive been in the situations talked about sadly. Luckily im here today. Life isnt easy but one day at a time

  • @niall-b4902
    @niall-b4902 Рік тому +1

    Absolutely loved this, what a turnaround we’ll done dapper lad, personally I can’t kick the shit but if you can do it ❤

  • @geoffthompson9521
    @geoffthompson9521 Рік тому

    Sober 4 years day at a time thanks for sharing

  • @garriepeck-rv7tz
    @garriepeck-rv7tz Рік тому +2

    Fare play .I just gotten sober yet again done 16 years clean n sober .but deep down I still wasn't broken so started again I needed everything to be gone .mental health gone .I just needed everything to be completely gone this time around . Early days just feels very different this time around only one day at a time

  • @mickwalsh7878
    @mickwalsh7878 Рік тому +1

    great pod yet again james - dapper is sound , well done fellas

  • @aidananderson9855
    @aidananderson9855 Рік тому +8

    Half way through and I’m cracking up, this is completely different to the normal podcasts, you both just bounce off each other. Cheers for cheering me up

  • @Dadthirtyfive
    @Dadthirtyfive Рік тому +1

    Needed to hear this, great podcast and thank you 👌

  • @leebrown5464
    @leebrown5464 Рік тому

    Also James your one of the best podcasters I've listened too honestly 👏

  • @tw9341
    @tw9341 Рік тому

    I’m 4 years sober from booze, sniff the lot.
    Yet I say all this what dappers said about what we’re perceived as, lack of congratulations between blokes (presents etc)
    Glad to see someone saying it

  • @niallpowell1097
    @niallpowell1097 Рік тому

    Great podcast, makes you think a lot about a lot of things, cheers james and dapper 👍

  • @Ride_with_sienna
    @Ride_with_sienna Рік тому

    This is incredible. Massive respect

  • @KM-op6gj
    @KM-op6gj Рік тому +1

    I really needed this

  • @Liam-us3cq
    @Liam-us3cq Рік тому

    Two of my most inspirational figures , real talk ... thanks for the podcast lads. "Work on yourself" 🔥

  • @stephenbotting1589
    @stephenbotting1589 Рік тому

    Two good men there together talking the truth great work.! 👍

  • @barrymcdonald4663
    @barrymcdonald4663 Рік тому

    I love this pod cast , some many guys been in this situation it's hard am 52 it's a struggle need to hear this we are not the only ones who been through this is 😊

  • @ryanomahony9042
    @ryanomahony9042 Рік тому +1

    Great chat between to top blokes loved it

  • @Ianwright7919
    @Ianwright7919 Місяць тому

    The ADHD comments are absolutely spot on. I suffer every day with addiction and it always settles when I’m off my tits but the pain always comes back tenfold when I’m coming down

  • @sophieWright-di8xn
    @sophieWright-di8xn Рік тому

    Great interview

  • @jackharrison1175
    @jackharrison1175 Рік тому

    Love dapper from the vine days glad to see him back I’ve been watching his podcast and came across this awesome crossing of paths. Only just got into James recently too. This shit is fucking gold compared to any shit they feed you on tv

  • @kylebulldog2115
    @kylebulldog2115 Рік тому

    THANK YOU GUYS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast Рік тому +1

      thank you for watching

    • @kylebulldog2115
      @kylebulldog2115 Рік тому

      DAPPER. I couldn't believe it when you said about having your Mrs to Write shit down. I'm exactly the same. I NEED MY MOTHER, PARTNER , BEST MATE to write things down if they want or need me to do anything. I was diagnosed with ADHD very young. But it's getting worse. !! This podcast helped a lot. TOP BLOKE

  • @markryan7824
    @markryan7824 Рік тому +2

    Come on dapper you look so welllll mate keepppp it up bruvvvva👏👏👏

  • @shanlemon901
    @shanlemon901 Рік тому +6

    Omg - this collab was needed! 😁 The minute I saw it I knew it was gonna be 10/10 and it sure is. And I’m only halfway though 💫 incredible!

    • @shanlemon901
      @shanlemon901 Рік тому +1

      Defo the top 2 podcasts for me atm!!

  • @GXDmusic
    @GXDmusic Рік тому +1

    Excellent chat guys 🙌

  • @chriswebb8069
    @chriswebb8069 Рік тому +1

    Brilliant watch

  • @leegreen6710
    @leegreen6710 Рік тому

    Well done dapper stay strong and learn as you go

  • @sarahsue4065
    @sarahsue4065 Рік тому +1

    So refreshing hearing guys speaking so openly about their emotions .. also your awareness of the trans issues stamping on women’s rights , it’s under the radar for most men , please can one of you interview Kellie- Jay Keen ( aka Posie Parker )? She’s been physically attacked at a recent rally by mainly men in dresses just for speaking on our rights being lost .
    Did you know the head of Rape Crisis In Edinburgh is a biological male - & he put posters out saying ‘it’s ok to orgasm if you’re raped ‘ - would a woman think or say that ??!! that’s one example Kellie has highlighted , this whole subject needs a light shining on it xx

  • @cp1830
    @cp1830 Рік тому

    Thanks for this lads.

  • @colquhoun2010
    @colquhoun2010 Рік тому

    Boss👏👏right up my street , been there done that in and out of it still. related to this so much

  • @dippymcdepper5825
    @dippymcdepper5825 Рік тому +1

    This is spot on, I can relate. Currently going through the shit and I’m fucking up big time. I need a guy like Dapper to shoot the shit with.

  • @W1ndsorLoyal
    @W1ndsorLoyal Рік тому +2

    Dan is a great guy. Takes a lot of courage to be honest with yourself and make massive change for a better life.
    Good people deserve good things and.

  • @scoucer89
    @scoucer89 Рік тому

    Great podcast can relate so much to everything, thank you.

  • @Inn50cent86
    @Inn50cent86 Рік тому +1

    Nothing but love Dan, keep smiling bro ❤️

  • @daz_on_earth
    @daz_on_earth Рік тому +1

    That was class, cheers for that

  • @lewispiritual
    @lewispiritual Рік тому +8

    “The best math you can learn is calculating the cost of your current decisions”

  • @Mrmarkymark
    @Mrmarkymark Рік тому

    Best one yet,for me personally 😊 well done guys!!

  • @DoN_PaBLo_1989
    @DoN_PaBLo_1989 Рік тому +1

    Love this fella!!

  • @danielparker6368
    @danielparker6368 Рік тому +1

    I’ll drink to these guys being sober, cheers 🍻

  • @nibzzy100
    @nibzzy100 Рік тому +2

    Good to see Daniel looking so good and fresh ❤

  • @Eagle356-f9o
    @Eagle356-f9o Рік тому +2

    James just keeps on giving.
    Fucking brilliant.

  • @KingdomRapperUK
    @KingdomRapperUK Рік тому +1

    Honest & straight up 👌🏽

  • @gxhhher3896
    @gxhhher3896 Рік тому +3

    It's mad how quickly the beer can get a hold of you

  • @PWizz91
    @PWizz91 Рік тому

    I Needed to hear this

  • @Hugo-and-Persia
    @Hugo-and-Persia Рік тому +1

    Brilliant! Definitely touched a few people there...not literally

  • @englishinoz4467
    @englishinoz4467 Рік тому +1

    Nice pod guys x

  • @mistypordage5745
    @mistypordage5745 Рік тому

    Loving this podcast nice 1 James and well done to you dapper ❤

  • @NiallJones1986
    @NiallJones1986 Рік тому +2

    With you both 100% brother, some dude tries walking into the toilet with my daughter were having it and I'm gonna mess that fucka up fact! Protect the kids no matter the cost to us

    • @NiallJones1986
      @NiallJones1986 Рік тому

      Either of you round Liverpool or the North West and you want any protection or just keep the idiots at bay feel free to contact me, best mate owns a close protection company and we look after VIP's and multi millionaires every other day brother 🙏 god bless both of you

  • @bigboundsy
    @bigboundsy Рік тому +2

    Can relate so much on what we put our partners through without even realising. Being a lad a geezer whatever we dress it up as. These women that stick by us are the strongest type of people. ❤

  • @hassanskien3989
    @hassanskien3989 Рік тому

    Love this one! Spot on content