I feel like this was my story too but I never ditched school. I love going to school and learning. Was always an A student but ran off to hang out with my friends all the time. I did run off and got married at 14 though. Life wasn't always easy but that was my only out of being in a strict household. Was lucky to be in a loving marriage with great in-laws who supported me 100%. I'm forever grateful to them and my husband.
Not here to judge. I understand your mother was harsh and strict but ultimately it was your choice to be who you became. Your mother was a single mom and did everything she could to bring you up right. She taught you well but you disobeyed her and chose to do bad. I feel your mother’s pain and frustration. I and many others had strict parents during that time too but we chose different paths. I am a mother and feel sorry for your mom. She must’ve felt so sad and hopeless. Nrog koj niam tu siab thiab mob siab. Glad you turned your life around. Oh well we all have to learn to live with the choices we make. God bless your mom.
You are the nightmare and bad dreams that every parents fear. You are not alone, many Hmong girls went through the same. You continued to make the same mistakes because it started wrong. Skip school, lied to parents, drug and sex with anyone, unwanted pregnancy, druggy marrying druggy, criminal marrying criminal, divorce, unsecured home for children. Now you are a single mother but worse than your own mother, who is saint.
Ohmygosh!! Feels like you're telling my story! Rotflmbo!! We must've grew up in the same era! I went to juvie several times, not for stealing but for being a run away. 😂😂😂😂 Nowadays, I'm married with 5 kids. Just living life slowly. I've had my fun. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, though. Those of us who lived life dangerously back then are now more mature. We experienced it all in our youth, so now we all nyob taug taug. 😂😂😂 Bc of that, we learned to love our parents more. We make our own decisions. Even if our parents cob peb, peb siab tawv tawv. Yam uas lawv hais kom yus ua zoo ces yus mloog lawv hais tabsis yog lawv cob yus mus rau qhov phem ces peb tsis yuav. Unlike some of those goody 2 shoes back then, now that they're older, they party like no tomorrow, some get divorced and ua poj laib rau yav laus. 😂😂😂
OMG! You had a similiar life style to zaj neej neeg no thiab. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I grew up in the 80's, and my parents were very strict as well. Hmong girls playing volleyball then was very popular during my teen years, and I didn't get to play volleyball with friends. Pretty much being an old fashion girl remaining at home after school . No regrets though. Wow! How fun to share our teen years experiences!
I feel like this was my story too but I never ditched school. I love going to school and learning. Was always an A student but ran off to hang out with my friends all the time. I did run off and got married at 14 though. Life wasn't always easy but that was my only out of being in a strict household. Was lucky to be in a loving marriage with great in-laws who supported me 100%. I'm forever grateful to them and my husband.
Nyob zoo os tuaj koom koj os 57:38
Nyob zoo os tuaj koom koj os
Luag twb tias yus niam yus txiv cem yus tag los luag yeej yog tus muab txoj sia tau yus ces luag yeej tsis ntxub yus, luag yeej hlub yus tshaj.
Not here to judge. I understand your mother was harsh and strict but ultimately it was your choice to be who you became. Your mother was a single mom and did everything she could to bring you up right. She taught you well but you disobeyed her and chose to do bad. I feel your mother’s pain and frustration.
I and many others had strict parents during that time too but we chose different paths. I am a mother and feel sorry for your mom. She must’ve felt so sad and hopeless. Nrog koj niam tu siab thiab mob siab.
Glad you turned your life around. Oh well we all have to learn to live with the choices we make. God bless your mom.
You are the nightmare and bad dreams that every parents fear. You are not alone, many Hmong girls went through the same. You continued to make the same mistakes because it started wrong. Skip school, lied to parents, drug and sex with anyone, unwanted pregnancy, druggy marrying druggy, criminal marrying criminal, divorce, unsecured home for children. Now you are a single mother but worse than your own mother, who is saint.
Kuv pom tias koj niam yeej ua tau 1 leej niam zoo kawg. Nws txhawj txog nws cov minyuam ntawm kev safety thiab Xav kom nej tsim txiaj. Kuv hais rau koj tias seb koj puas yog kuv Phaum childhood tabsis oeb cov minyuam thaum 80-90 peb yeej mloog peb parent lawv. Lawv lectures peb los peb yeej tsis cav peb niam peb txiv, unlike the kids today. Cov minyuam hnub no, Kuv hais kuv cov ua ntej, yus hais lawv, lecture lawv mas lawv cam yus thiab tseem qhuab qhia yus. Yog li kuv paub tias cov minyuam uas mus ua laib lawm yog nej hang out with the wrong friends lawm xwb tsis yog tim koj niam mog
Yus xaum yus es yus thiaj ris siab os.. me ntxhais kuv pab hlub koj niam kawg vim nws yog single mom xwb
Tus neeg yuav xyaum zoo pib zoo thaum me nyuam yaus. Koj txawm rau siab mob siab baum li los koj yuav rov los pab koj tsis tau
Ohmygosh!! Feels like you're telling my story! Rotflmbo!! We must've grew up in the same era! I went to juvie several times, not for stealing but for being a run away. 😂😂😂😂 Nowadays, I'm married with 5 kids. Just living life slowly. I've had my fun. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, though. Those of us who lived life dangerously back then are now more mature. We experienced it all in our youth, so now we all nyob taug taug. 😂😂😂 Bc of that, we learned to love our parents more. We make our own decisions. Even if our parents cob peb, peb siab tawv tawv. Yam uas lawv hais kom yus ua zoo ces yus mloog lawv hais tabsis yog lawv cob yus mus rau qhov phem ces peb tsis yuav. Unlike some of those goody 2 shoes back then, now that they're older, they party like no tomorrow, some get divorced and ua poj laib rau yav laus. 😂😂😂
OMG! You had a similiar life style to zaj neej neeg no thiab. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I grew up in the 80's, and my parents were very strict as well. Hmong girls playing volleyball then was very popular during my teen years, and I didn't get to play volleyball with friends. Pretty much being an old fashion girl remaining at home after school . No regrets though. Wow! How fun to share our teen years experiences!
Did you use to hit the g line too? 😂
@@dookiehead187 Too old school. What is g line?
Better learn from other people's mistakes than your own.
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