He is a great communicator which is also a huge advantage to have in the field he is in. Many who come to him will lack this attribute. Also he displays a lot of intelligence and unbelievable commitment .
Your end speech is great, we not only help guys connect with women, but also with people in general., and also help women since most who teach this, don't seem to teach respect.
It could be both an IOI or an IOD, what it is more is a test to see if you are congruent. Have a default soundbite to say and stack forward to show savviness. Try thinking of one and i'll let you know if its good for infield.
Could be either or, I had a wing who was asked this question frequently, and part of it was that he was raised with a religious background and because of this he would demonstrate no attraction or seduction. He could hook the girls, show them cool dance moves, the girls would now give him 3+ IOI and he wouldn't kiss them; it was frustrating to him and the girls. His religious background later held him from sex closing as well. His personality was also 'too humble' and 'nice' like he wouldn't harm a fly type of vibe. His speech was a little too fast, his tone was soft, and when his friends would show up he would quickly get up fast and shake their hands with both hands while pecking forward. I pointed out to him he was giving people too much importance and treating them like celebrities. On the contrary the women would always flock towards me always having the same question, "How many skeletons do you have in your closet", "Were you in prison?", "You really strike me like someone that could snap and hurt someone", you would think these were IOI or IOD, but this was simply their intuition; they were attracted. I would usually asked them, "Do you believe you're in danger?" and they would respond, "No". Surprisingly this vibe I was putting out at the time didn't hinder my game, but rather enhanced it. I haven't been asked this question or heard this statement since 2018, so I guess the vibe has finally gone away. Women do love a sense of danger. I don't advocate you do evil things that will latch themselves to your vibe though, rather I advise you have a killer instinct (simply means you get to the point and waste no time) check out a show called "Keys to the VIP" and watch Kyle I believe was his name, this white guy, always smiling, looks like a quarter back with muscles, and has colored eyes; ignore his looks, simply look at how he see's the women as lambs and immediately slaughters them. His game is really basic, but his killer instinct is undeniable. Also if you think it's his looks doing the work for him, then you're missing the true source of his game, which is his demeanor, energy, emotional state, and mental state of I am successfully fulfilled and no matter what I know women want me and I will have them. (Successfully fulfilled, the guy owns a boat, you gotta have some level of success in life if you own a boat).
Just found this! I think you guys are overthinking it? Go to the club to have fun don't put pressure on yourselves, sounds a tad nerdy all this chit chat. I've never had any issues and I just go out and have a dance and laugh....
For good reason. It's super ceepy filming people (especially women) without their consent. Any girl in my life would find that just as odd as i do. I don't need infields to swing dicks with GUYS on the internet. Ask around, people know.
@@TheDatingArts ok sounds legit. You just followed me on Instagram and Im tbh at least intrigued by what u do. Im personally not a big fan of peacocking though
@@runningforver5958 Peacocking comes with a fine line between cool and weird. In general it should match your identity. Don't underestimate the power of having one interesting item and a story attached to it in case a girl is interested in you. She can use it as a conversational starter.
@@TheDatingArts Nice cop out. I'd suggest that using a mathematical formula looking series of tactics, with pre-rehearsed lines would be viewed as creepy by 'any girl in your life.'
Mystery and I do what we want. Including interupting each other. It's how HE likes to teach, i'm more structured, he likes the riff. Be thankful and quiet or keep it moving lol.
The 3 second rule is vital. If you hesitate, chances are, she'll blow you off...gives one the feeling a woman isn't the physical speciman you see, but a very psychic creature
Don't look at women like these unattainable things. Think about them as versions of yourself, as other people , its really not that hard. You're fine you got this !!! Get out there and talk talk learn talk
I love mystery but this material is so old and forced...I can't believe that for someone of his age he is still at this level. main thing is that clubs are the worst places to start to learn pick up and in general to pick up girls. Coffee shops = much better, plus the closes are much stronger, and the interaction is much more enjoyable
You don’t go to clubs to pick up women… up you go to practice social skills under heavy stimulus to make the coffee shop a breeze by comparison. Even after so many years most men don’t seem to understand this.
@@TheDatingArts come on really? why you don´t practice social skills in coffee shops then. Clubs are the worst places to practice social skills!!! heavy stimulus is so heavy that the practice becomes "wasted time" instead of take things slower (which you can do in coffee shops ) reflect on your behavior and improve. club game have been tought from dating gurus only because in clubs there is a majority of "targets" and they can bring more clients in it...and Clubs are visual places, that´s why mystery used to dress like a weirdo...you need to capture the eye...instead true seduction happens by words and behavior. Clubs are really for loosers that are attracted there only to spend money on drinks. Anyway, you go to practice your social skills in clubs while I pick up women in coffe shops. Peace
@@FRANCESCORE1982 I don’t disagree with a lot that you are saying, but again you are missing the point and missing a clear distinction. Nightclubs aren’t where you practice… one can’t even be heard. But a club/lounge is totally fine. Again one should look for difficulty when getting reps in and the night time venues with stimulus offer rep opportunities more than in the day. Concentrated amount of people looking to socialize as opposed to in the day where you are out there like a vulture to find 1-2 worthy interaction amongst the masses.
@@TheDatingArts ok, I don´t know how louges/club are in usa, but here in europe nightclubs are like clubs and lounges. Drunk girls and guys, too loud to develop any game...and I disagree that in the day there are less opportunity to socialize with beautiful women. Go to the beach, go to the university campus, go to the mall...there are plenty of places better than nightclubs.
@@FRANCESCORE1982 location is definitely something to factor in. But I don’t suggest guys go to places like the mall, beach, and campus to game… if you have to go there and there are opportunities… sure but to go there to do reps you’ll quickly be on Reddit as a creepy guy to avoid as many before you have found themselves…. Or u are just the PUA wasting time to go game instead of having a cool life that presents opportunities.
So much value in this talk. Erik is smart and detailed. His Method is effective.
He is a great communicator which is also a huge advantage to have in the field he is in. Many who come to him will lack this attribute. Also he displays a lot of intelligence and unbelievable commitment .
These are quality uploads. Thanks, homie!
You are welcome
Your end speech is great, we not only help guys connect with women, but also with people in general., and also help women since most who teach this, don't seem to teach respect.
Most of the guys teaching this are very bitter and hatful towards women. Worst is they are passing it on to other guys by the masses.
That's what it's all about. One must get good at handling a myriad of situations. That's pro level.
When a girl ask you if you are gay, is it IOD,IOI, a qualifying question, or what? And how to frame control when that happens? Any canned lines?
It could be both an IOI or an IOD, what it is more is a test to see if you are congruent. Have a default soundbite to say and stack forward to show savviness. Try thinking of one and i'll let you know if its good for infield.
Could be either or, I had a wing who was asked this question frequently, and part of it was that he was raised with a religious background and because of this he would demonstrate no attraction or seduction. He could hook the girls, show them cool dance moves, the girls would now give him 3+ IOI and he wouldn't kiss them; it was frustrating to him and the girls. His religious background later held him from sex closing as well. His personality was also 'too humble' and 'nice' like he wouldn't harm a fly type of vibe. His speech was a little too fast, his tone was soft, and when his friends would show up he would quickly get up fast and shake their hands with both hands while pecking forward. I pointed out to him he was giving people too much importance and treating them like celebrities. On the contrary the women would always flock towards me always having the same question, "How many skeletons do you have in your closet", "Were you in prison?", "You really strike me like someone that could snap and hurt someone", you would think these were IOI or IOD, but this was simply their intuition; they were attracted. I would usually asked them, "Do you believe you're in danger?" and they would respond, "No". Surprisingly this vibe I was putting out at the time didn't hinder my game, but rather enhanced it. I haven't been asked this question or heard this statement since 2018, so I guess the vibe has finally gone away. Women do love a sense of danger. I don't advocate you do evil things that will latch themselves to your vibe though, rather I advise you have a killer instinct (simply means you get to the point and waste no time) check out a show called "Keys to the VIP" and watch Kyle I believe was his name, this white guy, always smiling, looks like a quarter back with muscles, and has colored eyes; ignore his looks, simply look at how he see's the women as lambs and immediately slaughters them. His game is really basic, but his killer instinct is undeniable. Also if you think it's his looks doing the work for him, then you're missing the true source of his game, which is his demeanor, energy, emotional state, and mental state of I am successfully fulfilled and no matter what I know women want me and I will have them. (Successfully fulfilled, the guy owns a boat, you gotta have some level of success in life if you own a boat).
Say "No, but my boyfriend is"
@@TheDatingArts Oh I forgot to respond master colgate sorry. My respond will be "What do you think?" while being funny.
@@04dram04 Oh I like it. hope master colgate would critique this also.
I am, Mystery.
- Erik Von Markovik -
Just found this! I think you guys are overthinking it? Go to the club to have fun don't put pressure on yourselves, sounds a tad nerdy all this chit chat. I've never had any issues and I just go out and have a dance and laugh....
Not all come from the same looks departement, environment etc etc.
Who tf is colgate? Didnt see a single infield
For good reason. It's super ceepy filming people (especially women) without their consent. Any girl in my life would find that just as odd as i do. I don't need infields to swing dicks with GUYS on the internet. Ask around, people know.
@@TheDatingArts ok sounds legit. You just followed me on Instagram and Im tbh at least intrigued by what u do. Im personally not a big fan of peacocking though
@@runningforver5958 Peacocking comes with a fine line between cool and weird. In general it should match your identity. Don't underestimate the power of having one interesting item and a story attached to it in case a girl is interested in you. She can use it as a conversational starter.
@@TheDatingArts Nice cop out. I'd suggest that using a mathematical formula looking series of tactics, with pre-rehearsed lines would be viewed as creepy by 'any girl in your life.'
B H facts. Colgate is creep amongst creeps
This guy with the black 💅 polish gives of gay vibes...
It's Mystery, thats his pea cockoing.
Amazing stuff! You should post more videos like this.
legends
Thank you very much Kave! Pleasure working with you.
Does anyone know how? How I can find a workshop like this with mystery
Seeing Mystery aged saddens me a lot..His energy is like fading with time...#Anyways my respects for the man n Colgate
Fading? Guy is 50+ and looks SUPER good, jesus christ u ppl
@@sundvallen Why the drop on Christ? Have some respect.
There were several times where you interrupted Mystery. Never, I repeat, never interrupt the Grandmaster of Game. Other than that it was good content.
Mystery and I do what we want. Including interupting each other. It's how HE likes to teach, i'm more structured, he likes the riff. Be thankful and quiet or keep it moving lol.
@@TheDatingArts I was joking sweetheart. Live a little.
Fuck you Nick
Yall are hilarious, you both remind me of NPCs
Dirty nick
The 3 second rule is vital. If you hesitate, chances are, she'll blow you off...gives one the feeling a woman isn't the physical speciman you see, but a very psychic creature
that last bit through me off...your point is valid but reasoning is flawed. None the less, implementing the 3 Second Rule is what is important.
i'm 27 sad and miserable that i can't get women. am i a lost cause? :(
No you gotta try harder.
Don't look at women like these unattainable things. Think about them as versions of yourself, as other people , its really not that hard. You're fine you got this !!! Get out there and talk talk learn talk
I always thought this model was super complicated!
the rewards are high
Because humans are super complicated. A simple model would suggest over-simplification.
shalom ) do u have an upcoming boot camp somewhere at Europe soon ? Toda!
Stockholm and Rome
awesome
Amazing
Mystery hit the wall
He looks the same
@@ladev91 hes like a fine wine. The joys of well played manhood haha
Guy looks better than 99% of people even in their 40s, and he in his 50s lol
He's aged a lot, he looks old. He looks bad.
@@gizelle1 He looks fucking great
I love mystery but this material is so old and forced...I can't believe that for someone of his age he is still at this level. main thing is that clubs are the worst places to start to learn pick up and in general to pick up girls. Coffee shops = much better, plus the closes are much stronger, and the interaction is much more enjoyable
You don’t go to clubs to pick up women… up you go to practice social skills under heavy stimulus to make the coffee shop a breeze by comparison. Even after so many years most men don’t seem to understand this.
@@TheDatingArts come on really? why you don´t practice social skills in coffee shops then. Clubs are the worst places to practice social skills!!! heavy stimulus is so heavy that the practice becomes "wasted time" instead of take things slower (which you can do in coffee shops ) reflect on your behavior and improve. club game have been tought from dating gurus only because in clubs there is a majority of "targets" and they can bring more clients in it...and Clubs are visual places, that´s why mystery used to dress like a weirdo...you need to capture the eye...instead true seduction happens by words and behavior. Clubs are really for loosers that are attracted there only to spend money on drinks. Anyway, you go to practice your social skills in clubs while I pick up women in coffe shops. Peace
@@FRANCESCORE1982 I don’t disagree with a lot that you are saying, but again you are missing the point and missing a clear distinction. Nightclubs aren’t where you practice… one can’t even be heard. But a club/lounge is totally fine. Again one should look for difficulty when getting reps in and the night time venues with stimulus offer rep opportunities more than in the day. Concentrated amount of people looking to socialize as opposed to in the day where you are out there like a vulture to find 1-2 worthy interaction amongst the masses.
@@TheDatingArts ok, I don´t know how louges/club are in usa, but here in europe nightclubs are like clubs and lounges. Drunk girls and guys, too loud to develop any game...and I disagree that in the day there are less opportunity to socialize with beautiful women. Go to the beach, go to the university campus, go to the mall...there are plenty of places better than nightclubs.
@@FRANCESCORE1982 location is definitely something to factor in. But I don’t suggest guys go to places like the mall, beach, and campus to game… if you have to go there and there are opportunities… sure but to go there to do reps you’ll quickly be on Reddit as a creepy guy to avoid as many before you have found themselves…. Or u are just the PUA wasting time to go game instead of having a cool life that presents opportunities.