For Anyone Feeling Lost in Their 20s
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- Опубліковано 14 кві 2023
- Life likes paradoxes… Despite having the most direction, “success” and happiness I might have ever had in my life I feel as lost as ever.
Austin Kleon said "creative work runs on uncertainty; it runs on not knowing what you're doing." So I guess this might be a good thing?
Thank you Bartek.
Very inspirational this is exactly what I’ve been going thru lately. My 20s have been the toughest period of my life I was lost and didn’t know were I was going in life, my mental health was in a bad place, issues at home, my job one thing after another up until covid. But as time went by and the older I got things started to fall into place, Many valuable lessons learned, started focusing more on both my physical/mental health, self reflecting, setting good habits, discipline, taking risks etc. Many times our 20s are our growing stages to better thrive in our later years. Thank you very much and wish you all the best and a great new years!!
Thank you. I needed this reminder.
You plant the seed and as it grows, before blossom and fruit it gets covered by snow, frozen, out of sunlight. This is a natural part of its growth. And it doesn’t stop growing despite snow, frost and no light. It’s not lost, it’s growing in the dark, snow covered. Do you see that? No. Sometimes you even think the plant may have dried out. And then, one spring day you see new stems and leaves. Waitee Maj Frendee. The Purpose, The Value most of all Love is what matters. You are not lost, you are not alone. Keep on, your Spring will come.
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Hi Bartek!
I'm a 19 year old boy, I'd like to hear your brief opinion on my situation as you really seem like a nice guy... in June 2020, in the midst of the pandemic, I dropped out of my high school where I had spent 3 years.. bad years in which I was often bullied and I couldn't deal with the boys and girls in my class .. I was discriminated against or simply mobbed for no apparent reason.. I still can't figure it out today... I spent my fourth year in DAD, due to of the pandemic, in a private institute where I regularly attended lessons... I was starting to feel better, I was able to follow perfectly and also get good grades, I really worked hard.
At the end of my school year, I decided to move to a state classical high school in attendance, I felt ready to start over, i could finally go back to school!!
I lasted about a month.. on the bus to go home I was bullied again by some kids I didn't even know.. it seemed absurd to me! I found myself reliving what I often experienced in my three years, exactly the same things! that time I was paralyzed .. the kids vaped me like with an electronic cigarette on me for the whole trip back and I couldn't react, completely blocked by fear .. they laughed .. so, heartbroken, i transferred to my old private school and spent the semester of my fifth year in DAD...studying completely on my own...now I graduated from July...in the summer I had so much fun, I met so many old friends and so many new people that for a while they ''brought'' me back to normal...started the university of languages after a few months I abandoned it as partly not interested in the subjects of study, but above all because a constant thought afflicted all my days: that of having lost my ''ADOLESCENCE''.. that of not having made important friendships in high school and that of not having been and done enough, of not being ''normal'' like the rest of the college students.. that of not having worked hard enough, not reacting when I was teased.. it all went by so quickly.. I have remorse that constantly grips me in a state of hallucinating sadness.. the fact is that I'm not even the typical bullied kid movies.. i'm tall and blond, green eyed, sturdy and don't look bad at all generally.. i've always been turned away and i can't figure out why.. my dream in middle school was to spend at least a year in a American high school and that's why I started following you, unfortunately that dream is gone.. I would love to be able to recover what I haven't done up to now but I'm afraid I can't do it anymore because of my age, because of that time that has now passed, because of those days of this last semester that I should have spent in the school desks with beautiful people by my side and living many beautiful experiences, not alone .. I will no longer be able to do this stuff .. I I don't know what will become of me.. if it's worth going on.. now I have nothing in my hands.. just a stupid diploma that I don't even think I deserve.. few friends with whom I feel very little, few interests.. I really like photography, cinema and the world of music.. alas, I have few expectations.. the time of my days gushes like that of a river in full flow.. I'm losing control... I don't think I ever had it :(
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And you did this so beautiful film out of our most difficult journey!
Hey Bartek - thanks so much for sharing yet another beautiful video. I feel we are in the same boat, chasing our passions and feeling like we're running on a hedonic treadmill. But what you said about the mountain path...wow, that reminded me of the time I was in a hillstation hotel and it was early morning. The hotel was at the top of this really steep road. I really wanted to go explore the village but I had to brave this super steep road (which, bearing in mind, our car had stalled on the previous night because it was so steep). I'm not one for physical risks but...I decided to hazard this one. I took baby steps all the way down and tried not to worry about how the hell I'd get back up. I felt so accomplished both on the way down, walking through this village waking up to itself in this early morning, and then when I finally made my way back up to the hotel room...like you said, it just felt so worth it. It's a memory that has still stayed with me and I hope I get more of those moments. Thank you so much for reminding me of that.
Wow! Yeah, the funny part is I need my videos the most probably. I just need reminders. Comfy settings make us forget about all we learned in these uncomfortable moments. So it's super important to capture them. And revisit. Cheers!
Beautiful
Thank you
Ur good at this thing keep it up ur voice is calm and nice to hear but I think there was some problem with ur sound
Thanks! Yeah sound design is not my strongest skill :P
You have an amazing voice 😍
Thank you
What a helpful and uplifting video. Wow! Bartek, uczucie, ze nie jestem/śmy w tej gonitwie sami jest niesamowicie podbudowujące. Daje do myślenia, ze nawet osoby będące autorytetem dla wielu dalej szukają gdzieś tam tego „ja”. Do what you do cuz you’re good at it! Trzymaj się!
Why is the sound so low ?
Don’t know. Sound design is not what I’m best at hahah