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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2023
  • My HoneyDew this week is comedian Mike Vecchione! (Mike Vecchione Investigates, The Attractives) Mike Highlights the Lowlights of his estranged relationship with his father, his father’s death, and teaching special education.
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  • @Real_Iceout
    @Real_Iceout 6 місяців тому +48

    Mike saying he was ok at wrestling and went to penn state is insane. That’s crazy. His work ethic and standards must be insane.

    • @8thlvlMage
      @8thlvlMage 6 місяців тому +5

      Hardly anyone that's really good at something will admit it! That's one way you can tell he's for real.

    • @jessebremner5209
      @jessebremner5209 6 місяців тому +4

      When you get humbled by top talent only then can you fully appreciate what good is.

    • @davidjacquez965
      @davidjacquez965 6 місяців тому

      Humble Mike, in some circles.

    • @korbindallas4552
      @korbindallas4552 6 місяців тому +4

      Penn State is typically a top 10 wrestling program. Just making it there is a feat in itself.

    • @winingtheday
      @winingtheday 6 місяців тому

      Exactly

  • @Br_ittany1119
    @Br_ittany1119 6 місяців тому +11

    I want Mike to tell me bedtime stories. I love that voice.

  • @lindsayfletcher4831
    @lindsayfletcher4831 6 місяців тому +17

    Yay! Love Mike Vecchione. Ryan Sickler has the best podcaster laugh ever. He brightens my day with just his laugh. Through happy stories or sad ones, he finds the light.

  • @homierodriguez4080
    @homierodriguez4080 6 місяців тому +26

    Ryan u should do an episode with your brothers 😮

    • @abidesthedood3490
      @abidesthedood3490 6 місяців тому

      You would think he’d have this idea since he is a twin. But alas…..he’d rather have ..Prof or who ever that didenis again. #ComediansHateTheirFamilies #NoneHaveThemOn

    • @jasminemoorehead9710
      @jasminemoorehead9710 6 місяців тому

      I think that’s a good idea. I like learning more about Ryan. Maybe they will be on the way back.

  • @tabularasa820
    @tabularasa820 6 місяців тому +7

    Vecchione is hilarious. He’s such a great stand up.

  • @MikeHunt-md4bq
    @MikeHunt-md4bq 6 місяців тому +5

    So stoked for this one!! Two great comedians and two of the nicest comics you could ever meet

  • @kneelanb1
    @kneelanb1 6 місяців тому +3

    Mike Vecchione is an underrated, super sharp comic who kills at the Comedy Cellar in New York. Makes it look effortless. See him if you get the chance, you won’t regret it!

  • @jeanettehuestis3124
    @jeanettehuestis3124 6 місяців тому +5

    Can't wait for the new pod cast! Love the honeydew! Your the best Ryan!

  • @layzboy2545
    @layzboy2545 6 місяців тому +2

    Word of the day… Tumultuous. 🤣🤣. HellYeah Sicker. Vecchione rules🤘🤘

  • @Bluemagoo2002
    @Bluemagoo2002 6 місяців тому +2

    I wish that I could break down my family dichotomy like this. We’re all broken, financially successful, and miserable people. Three brothers, struggling to conceal how we actually feel. You’re not alone out there

  • @grantpowell4135
    @grantpowell4135 6 місяців тому +3

    Sick dog i died laughing when you did the jesse petterson. Lol

    • @schweber10
      @schweber10 6 місяців тому

      Can you give me an example of racism?

    • @grantpowell4135
      @grantpowell4135 6 місяців тому

      @schweber10 it was covered on ymh I never watched any Peterson before lol

    • @8thlvlMage
      @8thlvlMage 6 місяців тому

      @@grantpowell4135 They were quoting the interview.

    • @grantpowell4135
      @grantpowell4135 6 місяців тому

      @8thlvlMage I know and with Ryan giving back story on how he ended up there while they were playing clips was hilarious

    • @schweber10
      @schweber10 6 місяців тому

      @@grantpowell4135 yea I know. Thus the quote

  • @jencook3287
    @jencook3287 6 місяців тому +2

    Vecchione!!! I love these 2 genuine human beings❤

  • @katieg9178
    @katieg9178 6 місяців тому

    Omg this episode was awesome....literally cried love Mike!!!!

  • @brooksdurham8244
    @brooksdurham8244 6 місяців тому +1

    This was a great podcast very relatable from Mike’s story you did a great job as always giving good questions, insight, & humor along the way. Can’t wait for more and to watch The Way Back 🎉😊

  • @ryantupac24
    @ryantupac24 6 місяців тому +2

    Keep em coming love the honeydew

  • @nightcat87
    @nightcat87 6 місяців тому +1

    Mike I know and understand and appreciate your story. Much Love.

  • @davidjacquez965
    @davidjacquez965 6 місяців тому +2

    Love Vecchione. Detective Mike letting the hair get over regulation for an undercover gig.❤

  • @only_son5040
    @only_son5040 6 місяців тому +1

    Vecchione investigates was a hilarious podcast. Sad it's over now but whatever he does next will be great! Happy holidays

  • @TJsCustoms
    @TJsCustoms 6 місяців тому

    These are highlights to my work week. Fuckin love crankin this up in the headphones while I do body work all day. Solid escape from sore knees and elbows 🤣

  • @beachbunny329
    @beachbunny329 6 місяців тому

    Mike V doing time teaching in Delco! Shout out him, he has a really compassionate perspective on troubled folks and I am here for it. Love that he’s a comedian but this is the kinda guy you want in schools teaching ✨

  • @vinnya99
    @vinnya99 6 місяців тому

    From the wrestling relation to the situation with his father & the advice of letting someone have power over you / wasting time being something I’m currently navigating this was THE episode of the show I was meant to hear.

  • @larrybirdjr
    @larrybirdjr 6 місяців тому +8

    Pretty funny mikes podcast ended two months ago. If this came out sooner maybe he’d still have it.

  • @-Evil-Genius-
    @-Evil-Genius- 6 місяців тому +2

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🎙️ *Introduction to "The Way Back" Podcast*
    - Ryan Sickler announces a new podcast called "The Way Back," a nostalgia podcast with episodes under 30 minutes.
    01:09 🌟 *Podcast Teaser and Format*
    - Teaser clip discussing favorite childhood moments and activities.
    01:56 🎤 *Acknowledgments and Patreon Promotion*
    - Ryan acknowledges audience support and encourages subscribing and checking out the Patreon for ad-free content and early access.
    - Promotion of Ryan's previous podcast, "The Crab Feast," emphasizing its continued popularity.
    03:20 🎙️ *Introduction of Guest Mike Vecchione*
    - Ryan introduces comedian Mike Vecchione, expressing excitement about having him on the show.
    - Brief promotion of Mike Vecchione's social media, podcast, and comedy special.
    03:48 🚀 *Background and Early Life*
    - Mike Vecchione shares details about growing up, his family's mushroom business, and the move from Youngstown, Ohio, to Boca Raton, Florida.
    09:37 🍄 *Mushroom Business Challenges*
    - Discussion on the challenges within the family's mushroom and canning business, leading to its eventual move from Ohio to Florida in 1981.
    - Insight into the dynamics between Mike's father and grandfather and the impact on their family life.
    14:09 🚗 *Move to Boca Raton and Early Struggles*
    - Mike Vecchione recalls the family's move to Boca Raton, Florida, and the financial challenges they faced despite the location's wealth.
    - Reflections on the contrast between their lifestyle in Ohio and the new struggles in Florida.
    17:10 🏈 *Youth Sports and Mentality*
    - Mike discusses the positive impact of playing contact sports, specifically football, on building mental toughness, discipline, and resilience.
    - A reflection on the significance of wrestling in revealing individual character and personal strengths and weaknesses.
    19:33 🤼‍♂️ *Wrestling and College Transition*
    - College wrestling was a significant shift from high school, with intense competition and hard work.
    - College wrestlers were exceptionally talented and hardworking, creating a culture of high standards.
    - Adversity and lessons learned from wrestling, such as handling losses and adversity, played a crucial role.
    22:06 🚗 *Moving Between Youngstown and Florida*
    - Mike's family moved between Youngstown and Florida due to business failures and family dynamics.
    - The impact of moving on Mike's education, friendships, and wrestling experiences.
    - The challenges of adapting to different communities and schools.
    23:45 🏡 *Family Dynamics and Moving Again*
    - Mike's father and grandfather's strained relationship and its effect on the family.
    - The family's return to Florida, dealing with issues, and the impact on Mike's life.
    - The significance of Mike's wrestling background in navigating life's challenges.
    25:05 💪 *Life Lessons from Wrestling*
    - Wrestling provided Mike with self-discipline, mental toughness, and the ability to handle adversity.
    - The parallels between cutting weight in wrestling and facing life's challenges.
    - The enduring impact of wrestling on Mike's mindset and approach to difficult situations.
    28:34 🤝 *Complex Relationship with Father*
    - Mike's complex relationship with his father, characterized by love, emotional turmoil, and fights.
    - The pattern of loving interactions followed by tension and explosive arguments.
    - The impact of Mike's wrestling background on his ability to endure and navigate the challenges.
    37:53 🤝 *Reconciliation After Eight Months*
    - A significant fight led Mike to cut off communication with his parents for eight months.
    - The importance of a thoughtful and meaningful apology for reconciliation.
    - Mike's requirement for an acknowledgment of wrongdoing and a genuine apology for forgiveness.
    39:30 🚶‍♂️ *Relationship with Father*
    - Mike Vecchione reflects on the strained relationship with his father.
    - After a period of not talking, they eventually meet, and Mike seeks an apology.
    - His father doesn't apologize but acknowledges the impact of his own difficult life.
    42:03 🧠 *Self-Reflection and Perspective*
    - Mike shares his realization of being on "house money" and not wanting to take on tasks beyond his skill set.
    - Reflects on personal growth through therapies, journaling, and understanding limitations.
    - Emphasizes the importance of not dwelling on the past and making positive changes in the present.
    43:25 🌟 *Overcoming Challenges and Family Dynamics*
    - Discusses going through therapy after a breakup and the hindsight realization of its benefits.
    - Talks about the hope for improved generations and the impact of family dynamics on personal growth.
    - Shares experiences of supporting his father during illness, bonding over boxing, and finding closure.
    49:23 💔 *Father's Regrets*
    - Mike's father expresses regret about giving his own father too much power over him.
    - Emphasizes the impact of unresolved issues and the importance of not idolizing flawed individuals.
    - Mike reflects on the lessons learned from his father's experiences and the danger of ruminating on the past.
    51:03 🌈 *Mother's Resilience*
    - Mike talks about his mother's resilience, self-sufficiency, and active lifestyle.
    - Highlights her supportive role during his father's illness and her positive mental outlook.
    - Discusses the strong bond between his mother and sister, both providing support to each other.
    52:10 🍎 *Transition to Teaching*
    - Mike Vecchione shares his journey from wanting to be a lawyer to becoming a special education teacher.
    - Explains the realization that being a lawyer might not align with his true calling.
    - Describes working in behavioral schools and the challenges faced, including physical confrontations.
    57:56 🏫 *Challenges in Behavioral School*
    - Describes the chaotic environment in behavioral schools, dealing with unmanageable students.
    - Shares experiences of physical altercations, the need for proper restraint techniques, and the challenges faced by law enforcement in similar situations.
    - Highlights the difficulty in judging the amount of force required during physical interventions.
    58:26 🚸 *Classroom Challenges and Restraints*
    - Dealing with disruptive students in a classroom setting.
    - Balancing the challenge of physical restraints with maintaining order.
    - Varied approaches by staff: some assertive, others pandering.
    59:49 🤔 *Strategies for Dealing with Aggressive Behavior*
    - Different staff approaches to handling aggressive behavior.
    - Using non-emotional communication to diffuse situations.
    - The importance of maintaining a job perspective and enforcing boundaries.
    01:00:16 🔄 *Daily Ground Restraints and Challenges*
    - Frequency of physical restraints in a school setting.
    - Challenges faced during daily transitions between classes.
    - The purpose of timeout rooms and their impact on maintaining order.
    01:02:11 📚 *Teaching Criminal Justice to Troubled Students*
    - Implementing a criminal justice class to engage students.
    - Creating a reward system with shared interests (e.g., wrestling).
    - Utilizing creative teaching methods to keep students engaged.
    01:03:45 💔 *Compassion and Discipline in Working with Troubled Youth*
    - Reflecting on the difficult backgrounds of troubled youth.
    - Advocating for a structured and disciplined approach.
    - Balancing compassion with the need for a tight program and discipline.
    01:06:02 🌟 *Advice to 16-Year-Old Self*
    - Encouraging focus, resilience, and positive self-talk.
    - Acknowledging the challenges of sensitivity in a competitive environment.
    - Emphasizing the importance of staying the course and remaining resilient.
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    • @cmgordon12345
      @cmgordon12345 6 місяців тому +1

      Oh shit. Thats nicer than atlassians confluence summaries

    • @-Evil-Genius-
      @-Evil-Genius- 6 місяців тому

      @@cmgordon12345 Indeed

  • @cruzinj
    @cruzinj 6 місяців тому

    Great ep Mike V gonna go watch your special now!

  • @thehames
    @thehames 6 місяців тому +1

    Great episode.

  • @jackslam5113
    @jackslam5113 6 місяців тому

    Awesome thanks for the awesome podcast ryan

  • @einardilligaf7507
    @einardilligaf7507 6 місяців тому +2

    There he is! Got the notification on Spotify Monday and waited for the video here.😊
    Always fun to listen to but better when I can se the face behind the laughter. 😄🫡

  • @xalchemy3962
    @xalchemy3962 6 місяців тому

    Mike V loved ur interview really related to the tumultuous relationship with your parents going through that . Keep up the great work peace ✌️

  • @bensonbenson8729
    @bensonbenson8729 6 місяців тому +1

    Great episode

  • @jeffsiddron2460
    @jeffsiddron2460 6 місяців тому

    Great listen

  • @RipCitySav
    @RipCitySav 6 місяців тому

    Can't wait for the new pod!

  • @wakenow1
    @wakenow1 6 місяців тому +1

    Not ontly did we have to sit in the way back, me and my brother also got to see everything our parents saw on the way there, on the way back😂

  • @mikeburns262
    @mikeburns262 6 місяців тому

    What a great dude, top 10 of the year.

  • @El_hombre_malo
    @El_hombre_malo 6 місяців тому

    That restraint thing hits home, ive worked with different behaviors.
    Its tough cuz your not fighting but they are

  • @heavenwasfool
    @heavenwasfool 6 місяців тому

    Yayyy love Vecchione! ❤

  • @utlonghorn86
    @utlonghorn86 6 місяців тому +5

    Introduced to Mike from Nateland, he's a great guest. His special is so funny. Hope he blows up even more

  • @giggy3191
    @giggy3191 6 місяців тому

    Can not wait for The Way Back!!

  • @CoolHandRobb
    @CoolHandRobb 6 місяців тому

    Wrestling has saved my life more times than I can count, neat episode fellas.

  • @69UncleFrank
    @69UncleFrank 6 місяців тому

    MIKE!!! LETS GOOOO

  • @unclejimmyray
    @unclejimmyray 6 місяців тому +1

    This episode of The Honeydew is sponsored by the word "tumultuous"...

  • @Hameltoe
    @Hameltoe 6 місяців тому

    Mike vecchione investigates was the best show on gas digital.

  • @DemocracyJones
    @DemocracyJones 6 місяців тому

    tumultuous 😉 love ya Ryan and princess and crew!

  • @carlossantana3338
    @carlossantana3338 6 місяців тому

    Alright at wresting then states he went to penn gotta love the humbleness

  • @zoozercattacrezooz4646
    @zoozercattacrezooz4646 6 місяців тому

    This episode brought to you by the word tumultuous

  • @DelayedPenalty
    @DelayedPenalty 6 місяців тому

    I come from a family that isn't very affectionate. I never told my parents I loved them and vice versa until a couple of years ago when my Dad had a near-death experience. Now I make sure I don't leave or end a call without saying I love you.

  • @peterhawkins7130
    @peterhawkins7130 6 місяців тому

    God bless❤ happy holidays

  • @kyleb8596
    @kyleb8596 6 місяців тому +2

    Saw Mike open for Nate in Philly last year. Killed it!!! Been a fan since!!!

  • @956MoE
    @956MoE 6 місяців тому

    “tumultuous“

  • @ianholl9100
    @ianholl9100 6 місяців тому

    FTWB! Can't wait for the new podcast!

  • @frankiejdwm_edc1037
    @frankiejdwm_edc1037 6 місяців тому

    I live in Delco PA Kennett square still grows a whole lot of mushrooms. I wax always told that Kennett Square produces more mushrooms than the whole rest of USA

  • @rommelbaiza3782
    @rommelbaiza3782 6 місяців тому

    Mikey vechs 😂😆 I know this is gonna be a good one

  • @cmgordon12345
    @cmgordon12345 6 місяців тому

    I got you both. I was some guys 500th (maybe 300th) high school win. Kurt Angle was there to call the match at McGuffey since it was going to happen that day. 🤣. Most of us that wrestled were fed to the wolves at some point. It's a right of passage

  • @OUSS2004_
    @OUSS2004_ 6 місяців тому

    Youngstown Ohio has produced so many “famous” people. A ton of football coaches too. Bob Stoops and his brothers are all from Youngstown.

  • @lordfordification
    @lordfordification 6 місяців тому

    I always get the Italian comedians from the northeast mixed up. I'm glad Mike is getting out there more, he deserves it.

  • @genehunt598
    @genehunt598 6 місяців тому

    Shout out to Kennett Square Chester County!

  • @dustingaddis2423
    @dustingaddis2423 6 місяців тому

    Mikey! Go jackets!!!

  • @grantpowell4135
    @grantpowell4135 6 місяців тому +2

    Quick question but how tall is james brown?

  • @christianscacchetti9178
    @christianscacchetti9178 6 місяців тому

    Shout out to all of us that grew up in the dirty 330

  • @peezdoc
    @peezdoc 6 місяців тому

    Wasn't this episode already out? I could swear I saw this already....

  • @geneanderson5162
    @geneanderson5162 6 місяців тому

    Penn state is the TOP wrestling school in the country...mike just walked on and made the team??

  • @trustmeimapro
    @trustmeimapro 6 місяців тому

    Help me honeydew goung through a break up today, need some good stories

  • @styles430
    @styles430 4 місяці тому

    holy crap how many times can this guy say tumultuous

  • @eversayala9944
    @eversayala9944 6 місяців тому

    Dang, Ryan been holding this episode back. Mike promoted his podcast which he ended about 3 months ago, i miss Mike Vecchione Investigates. Whose going to remind me women can be astronauts too?!

  • @Mickey-ky9ew
    @Mickey-ky9ew 6 місяців тому

    That’s an Italian apology.

  • @urinetrubble4550
    @urinetrubble4550 6 місяців тому

    This episode of the Honeydew 🍈 is brought to you by tumultuous

  • @yellowleaf28
    @yellowleaf28 6 місяців тому

    Odd that he’s also living his dad’s relationship with his grandfather.

  • @ibeatupchucknorris
    @ibeatupchucknorris 6 місяців тому

    Isn't Hinchcliffe from Youngstown too?

  • @jasminemoorehead9710
    @jasminemoorehead9710 6 місяців тому

    My mom has a similar illness as Mikes dad.

  • @Conman17x
    @Conman17x 6 місяців тому

    Mike must have just learned the word tumultuous. listening to him describe his dad as such 12 times in 5 minutes was painful

  • @ericbasora4697
    @ericbasora4697 6 місяців тому

    YOUNGSTOWN OHIO......
    west side baby!!

  • @steven_dillon
    @steven_dillon 6 місяців тому

    Stop back logging things. Mike had an amazing podcast... Wish it was still a thing

  • @sirhappy9315
    @sirhappy9315 2 місяці тому

    Not true. Most mushrooms are grown in Pennsylvania around the gap area.

  • @StephenSalaz
    @StephenSalaz 6 місяців тому

    Show starts at 3:25 you’re welcome

  • @AfanOpiano
    @AfanOpiano 5 місяців тому

    My only question is WAS it tumultuous, or not??

  • @andrewfriedrichs9340
    @andrewfriedrichs9340 6 місяців тому

    Am I crazy or does mike look a lot like Brian Lagerstrom?

  • @its2easy21212
    @its2easy21212 6 місяців тому

    Love vecky… but is that a cyst on his cheek?

  • @gregallen7795
    @gregallen7795 6 місяців тому

    tumultuous

  • @m1911legend
    @m1911legend 6 місяців тому

    Would love to see my best friend nick mullen on here

  • @AaronHarver-dj4yq
    @AaronHarver-dj4yq 6 місяців тому

    I could not have anymore of a hype-boner than I do now for the wayback. Jan 4th cannot come fast enough!

  • @jacobmaslin5481
    @jacobmaslin5481 6 місяців тому

    Hey Mike Vecchione! You work out?

  • @sethfinnen5607
    @sethfinnen5607 6 місяців тому

    Mike vecchione ya work out?

  • @thepohCv
    @thepohCv 6 місяців тому

    For the alg

  • @bangsmccoy3924
    @bangsmccoy3924 6 місяців тому

    blood clots

  • @ryanparadissis9115
    @ryanparadissis9115 6 місяців тому

    what a cry baby to your dad sux it up bro.

  • @ryanparadissis9115
    @ryanparadissis9115 6 місяців тому

    You keep saying tumultuous. Please stop!

  • @nickg1743
    @nickg1743 6 місяців тому

    Vecchione is the man... the short, funny man

  • @jasminemoorehead9710
    @jasminemoorehead9710 6 місяців тому

    My mom has a similar illness as Mikes dad.