Konstantin Kisin | Facial Scar Discrimination Experiment

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  • @serak3403
    @serak3403 Рік тому +31328

    It's called confirmation bias: when you find what you were looking for because you were looking for it and not because it was there anyway.

    • @blackloki9
      @blackloki9 Рік тому

      The only thing this experiment proves is confirmation bias can affect the experiment. Right now your confirmation bias is allowing you to believe that discrimination doesnt exist when it does. Why are we trying to tell people to give people the benefit of the doubt when its not warranted.

    • @pc_buildyb0i935
      @pc_buildyb0i935 Рік тому

      So if he was lying, and this study never actually happened but you want to believe it does because "woke" people are bad or something, would that not mean you are actually demonstrating confirmation bias by buying into the narrative that "wokeism" is bad BECAUSE this study is 100% false but you believe it because it's what you look for in the left's behavior?

    • @manuelmanolo7099
      @manuelmanolo7099 Рік тому +196

      That's not an example of confirmation bias. Self fulfilling prophecy is a better description

    • @papercamera2989
      @papercamera2989 Рік тому +84

      @@manuelmanolo7099 What prophecy are they self fulfilling?

    • @Garvin285
      @Garvin285 Рік тому +224

      @@manuelmanolo7099 that's exactly confirmation bias and "self-fullfiling prophecy" lol isn't even a thing

  • @alexanderlyon
    @alexanderlyon Рік тому +8869

    Just looked up the study. This is a fantastic example of bias. If you think of yourself as a victim, you'll find that you see yourself being victimized virtually everywhere you go.

    • @charlesopurum6261
      @charlesopurum6261 Рік тому +139

      Any link to it?

    • @roystonrichards1556
      @roystonrichards1556 Рік тому +201

      Were the interviewers in on the study? Were they genuine interviews? It could be that the interviewers were instructed to make loaded statements or ask loaded questions to fit in with the object of the study.

    • @ronnietexan
      @ronnietexan Рік тому +125

      @Royston Richards Then the women would not be complaining about perceived slights; there would have been actual slights.
      As the study was to see if people felt they were being victimised when they were not, they would have to be very careful not to ask questions or in any way give the impression that they were victimising the women. The interviewers would have to be impartial, most likely reading from a script, so each woman would have the same experience. The amount of "adlibbing" would be zero, I suspect. Any deviation from the script between interviews would invalidate the whole experiment.

    • @casteretpollux
      @casteretpollux Рік тому +200

      I just looked for it and couldn't find that study. Would you give the reference for it please. There are multiple studies showing discrimination against men and women with facial disfigurement. People with facial disfigurement feel mortified. The women who thought they had fake scars could not possibly all acted as "their normal selves" as they didn't feel normal and had a rational belief they were liable to be treated differently.

    • @Osiris382
      @Osiris382 Рік тому +2

      Following

  • @edswope28
    @edswope28 Рік тому +29130

    "If you go around constantly looking for things to be offended by, you'll find them."

    • @Steelmage99
      @Steelmage99 Рік тому +143

      What is truly amazing is the amount of people, who feel they are exempt from this...

    • @SparkssSparkss
      @SparkssSparkss Рік тому +55

      Or racial issues which are real or perceived

    • @jussayinmipeece1069
      @jussayinmipeece1069 Рік тому +183

      But if people weren't actually being discriminated against in the first place those people would not be looking for discrimination.
      Think about the fact that white people under the same circumstances don't feel that way. It's because they do not generally face discrimination so it's not something to look for.
      Here is an example.
      I live in Canada and in more than 30 years of driving I have been stopped by the cops a total of THREE times all for speeding. I was speeding.
      Last year I decided to visited my sister in Florida and between Ontario and Florida. I was stopped a total of 18 times. I ha e 360 cameras on my car which records sound inside and out. I have external speakers so I don't need roll my windows down but it seems to me that a black man driving a Maserati is a magnet for American ops.
      So now every time I cross the border and I see a cop I expect him to stop me and when he does I immediately think it's racially motivated.
      If a Canadian cop stops me I would never think that no matter his race.
      Do this little experiment as interesting as it may be is really saying absolutely nothing about the realities of human interactions.

    • @Steelmage99
      @Steelmage99 Рік тому +79

      @@jussayinmipeece1069
      "But if people weren't actually being discriminated against in the first place those people would not be looking for discrimination. "
      Have you met a Radical Evangelical Christian?

    • @jussayinmipeece1069
      @jussayinmipeece1069 Рік тому +31

      @@Steelmage99 lol. My bad.
      But you get me though😳🤣🤣🤣

  • @Samuelnicole483
    @Samuelnicole483 Рік тому +139

    Literally black America today. We’re all thinking it no one is saying it

    • @geneshaw9314
      @geneshaw9314 11 місяців тому +7

      Nothing like black south africa my man, thats all we know here, victims apon victims

    • @Markhyde-ws3qf
      @Markhyde-ws3qf 11 місяців тому +1

      So if you watched your grandparents and your parents get beat up by cops dog's turned loose on thim and even sometimes children. Redlining exc. You are not a victim? Well you clearly don't have a good concept of time. 19th century is not gone just in ower rear view meror. Healing takes time isn't that ironic?

    • @ramonmcgee2240
      @ramonmcgee2240 11 місяців тому +5

      Except that this man is describing the results incorrectly. The experiment PREDICTED complaints of bias but found NONE. Read for yourself. Kleck and Strenta, 1985, for reference

    • @davidbroadfoot1864
      @davidbroadfoot1864 11 місяців тому +10

      @@ramonmcgee2240 You are referring to the wrong experiment. This one is "Perceptions of the Impact of Negatively Valued Physical Characteristics on Social Interaction" by Kleck and Strenta (1980)

    • @ramonmcgee2240
      @ramonmcgee2240 11 місяців тому +1

      @@davidbroadfoot1864 Roger that. I read the study you referenced (the full report.) The interesting thing about the juxtaposition of the Kleck study and the speaker's point is that the "disfigurement" was apparent to the test subjects and then surreptitiously removed. In the context of race, it can hardly be denied that physical attributes associated with minorities has not been social and historical laced with demeaning and degrading descriptors. In that sense it cannot be said that the "disfigurement" is only the minds of minorities. In the Kleck test, there was no disfigurement to be viewed by the testors. That is not the case socially and historically for majority members looking at minorities.

  • @dullthud2825
    @dullthud2825 Рік тому +2622

    Any details on the study? Like effect size, sample size, what journal it was published in, or if there was a control. Those are all very important for interpreting the results of just about any study.

    • @Shade01982
      @Shade01982 Рік тому +281

      Exactly. I'd also like to see if they did the exact same experiment with a group of men. Or if there was a control group setting for comparison (since he mentions 'increased', but compared to what?).

    • @ootdega
      @ootdega Рік тому +38

      Very important for twisting the results to somehow be racist

    • @mattdombrowski8435
      @mattdombrowski8435 Рік тому +151

      @@ootdega are you familiar with the concept of peer review?

    • @Shade01982
      @Shade01982 Рік тому +125

      @@ootdega If you're already biased before seeing the results, you're not doing a good job.

    • @ootdega
      @ootdega Рік тому +35

      @@mattdombrowski8435 Yes. I am also familiar with the reality that "peer review" is just as much of a political tool as anything else in current year.
      There was a fake study done to "prove" that men were the cause of literally every single problem in society. Everything in it was literally made up. It was peer reviewed and published based exclusively by its title and conclusion.

  • @yamihere1989
    @yamihere1989 Рік тому +1785

    “If you look for the light, you can often find it. But if you look for the dark, that is all you will ever see.” ~Iroh

    • @lindsaymowatt3404
      @lindsaymowatt3404 Рік тому +20

      10/10 comment/ quote lol. This sums up a lot of what’s wrong with the world these days. 👍🏻

    • @Masowe.
      @Masowe. Рік тому +4

      oh year, th Legend of Korra

    • @vantaesthetics
      @vantaesthetics Рік тому +11

      leaves on the vine, falling so slow

    • @jerryhawk8434
      @jerryhawk8434 Рік тому

      Amen

    • @farikcr522
      @farikcr522 Рік тому +5

      ​@@vantaestheticslike fragile tiny shells, drifting in the foam

  • @doleo_metal
    @doleo_metal Рік тому +4523

    This is also a good lesson in self esteem.

    • @oddhate
      @oddhate Рік тому +64

      That's why part of an interview is being told to look your best, because when you look your best you feel your best.

    • @lanthanumlanthanium6373
      @lanthanumlanthanium6373 Рік тому

      It's a lesson to become a Nationalist and seek Jesus, since everywhere else you go is the synagogue of satan.

    • @jordach545
      @jordach545 Рік тому

      Look it up. This "experiment" never happened. It was literally made up. Don't you wonder why it's so vague, no clips, no actual testimony? Because it isn't real THIS GUY JUST MADE SOMETHING UP TO GET ANGRY ABOUT

    • @ltsgobrando
      @ltsgobrando Рік тому +11

      This has absolutely nothing to do with self-esteem 😅

    • @insanemind5321
      @insanemind5321 Рік тому +101

      ​@@ltsgobrando yea it actually does. If you had any braincells you would understand that

  • @JGDD7190
    @JGDD7190 Рік тому +137

    This is so true, I worked in dermatology for years, women would come in with complaints of horrible disfigurement on their faces. When asked where they would ask for a mirror to point out where the problem was. Our mirrors were normal and 2x magnification. They would then demand a 10x magnification mirror so they could find the spot that "everyone was staring at" I always wanted to know who all these people were carrying 10x magnifiers to star at people were.

    • @suew4609
      @suew4609 11 місяців тому +4

      Yes, those mirrors are oppressive!

    • @cjjuszczak
      @cjjuszczak 10 місяців тому +1

      @@suew4609 2x and 10x more oppressive than your average mirror :)

    • @Bloodhoven
      @Bloodhoven 9 місяців тому +1

      isn't this also claled the "blue dot effect"?

    • @JGDD7190
      @JGDD7190 9 місяців тому

      @@Bloodhoven I've never heard that term before.

    • @Bloodhoven
      @Bloodhoven 9 місяців тому

      @@JGDD7190 look it up. there are 2 to 3 minute videos on yt summing it up. pretty interesting. basically it's about people being more and more hyperfixated and paranoid avout things. best example: especially here in the western world we're living in literally one of the safest periods humanity EVER lived in. and yet people (especially women) over the last 2 decades startes to feel as unsafe as they did the last time over 100 years ago, because they hyperfocus on increasingly trivial things and make them bigger than they actually are.

  • @CristianNazare
    @CristianNazare Рік тому +3977

    My dad once said: if you think EVERYONE is against you, then there's something wrong with YOU.

    • @solofilmproduction
      @solofilmproduction Рік тому +63

      As a general life rule that's true but not when facing a mob, an increasingly common social confrontation these days.

    • @pichelen
      @pichelen Рік тому +49

      Tell that to Jews from Nazzi times.
      But I know there is some truth to your statement.

    • @CristianNazare
      @CristianNazare Рік тому

      @@pichelen This answer is both for you and the other comment. You are confusing a GROUP with EVERYONE. Nazis were a group, not EVERYONE. GROUPS tend to follow the same ideology, so a GROUP will act (wait for it) AS A GROUP.
      If the whole Planet Earth would've hated and acted as the Nazis against the Jews, then your statement would've been right. But at least 90% of the world condemned the Nazis.

    • @skorpers
      @skorpers Рік тому +17

      @@pichelen Everyone wasn't against them. Not even the military let alone every citizen. All of that is from the SS officers, many of whom were executed in trial.

    • @thedude4682
      @thedude4682 Рік тому +14

      Yep, reality is most people you think don’t like you may not even notice you exist because they are only thinking about themselves.

  • @joshualavender
    @joshualavender Рік тому +2672

    And the reverse is true too: if you constantly believe the ideology of victimhood is behind typical claims of discrimination, you can ignore discrimination which ought to be staring you in the face. The door swings both ways. But pretending it doesn’t is a good excuse not to have to think about prejudice or privilege, ever.

    • @ashleyirvin7350
      @ashleyirvin7350 Рік тому +92

      Beautifully said. This is very true

    • @thegammakat
      @thegammakat Рік тому +62

      This is the sort of thing that people pushing blanket ststements like him seem to conviently forget about.

    • @derpfluidvariant0916
      @derpfluidvariant0916 Рік тому +49

      Very true. The worst part is, people are very aware of it. There are people who will use the ideology of Victimhood to dismiss any disagreements about how people are treated, but there are also people who will falsify oppression because they know it will be taken seriously and use it as a tool for personal gain rather than getting someone help they need.
      Both of these types of people make the other side point and go "look, see! We were right! You all are really oppressors/professional victims!"
      It's made a rather simple issue way more complicated than it ever should have been and it frankly pisses me off.

    • @LeakyOrifices
      @LeakyOrifices Рік тому +25

      @@umbrellabirb3206 Growing up undiagnosed autistic and realising one day that “not everyone gets bullied for seemingly no reason” was really depressing

    • @ironsnowflake1076
      @ironsnowflake1076 Рік тому +23

      It's almost like nuance exists in all things, and rash generalizations somehow miss these....

  • @andres.e.
    @andres.e. Рік тому +790

    The study is "Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued physical characteristics on social interaction.", by Robert Kleck and Angelo Strenta.
    *Edited with the correct study after someone pointed it out.

    • @nickj.7876
      @nickj.7876 Рік тому +14

      You are a hero. Thank you.

    • @h83301
      @h83301 Рік тому +5

      You are the MVP

    • @financethis3411
      @financethis3411 Рік тому

      Are you joking? I had to listen to this 3 times before I understood what he was saying! 😂😮😂

    • @ghostmail8052
      @ghostmail8052 Рік тому +5

      Thank you for citing the study.

    • @everettpadgett862
      @everettpadgett862 Рік тому +13

      You look for Evil You'll find it.
      You look for good you'll find it.

  • @claytonopinionbartlett8930
    @claytonopinionbartlett8930 Рік тому +8

    Perfect analogy . now get this out to the entire world.

  • @HighFrictionZone
    @HighFrictionZone Рік тому +798

    Since nobody here wanted to link to it, the study is called Perceptions of the Impact of Negatively Valued Characteristics on Social Interaction, it was published November 1980. It actually consisted of four studies.
    Broadly speaking, the participants who had been primed to believe they had a visible disfigurement (not all were given the scar, some were told that the interviewer was told they some non-visible deviancy such as allergies) were more likely to focus on gaze behavior in social situations.
    Importantly, the authors went on to point out in their conclusion that this modification in behavior by the test subjects for an experiment that involved temporarily interacting with one person while believing to be showing a physical impairment may not be consistent with the behavior patterns of individuals who live with physical disfigurement full time.
    Quote from the conclusion to the study:
    "The leap from these results, therefore, to
    the conclusion that they support Wright's
    (1960) assertion that physically handicapped persons are often prone to articulate their social
    reality entirely in terms of their handicap, even when the objective facts do not support such a construction, is tenuous at best."
    In short, this study really doesn't support the conclusion implied in this short. At best, it opens the door to further studies to determine if this is a valid conclusion or not.
    www.researchgate.net/publication/232481827_Perceptions_of_the_impact_of_negatively_valued_characteristics_on_social_interaction

    • @MarcieIsForager
      @MarcieIsForager Рік тому +56

      Been honestly trying to articulate something along these lines the study did seem to focus nocebo induced self conciousness in someone whi hadnt previously had to deal with it rather than the framing of someone who does
      At least thats what i got from the shorts summary

    • @plasmocat1863
      @plasmocat1863 Рік тому +16

      Thank you. :)

    • @Lillith.
      @Lillith. Рік тому +50

      I found an extension on this study from 1998.
      'The effects of having a facial scar on state self-esteem and face-to-face social interactions'
      "targets were rated as more tense in the scar believe condition than in the no scar condition. There was, however, no support for a self-fulfilling prophecy theory"

    • @YaYa-zm3wu
      @YaYa-zm3wu Рік тому +118

      But most of the people who watch this short will take it at face value and apply it by and large to social inequalities and assert that this proves that social inequality does not exist, specifically racism and sexism…

    • @halcyon63
      @halcyon63 Рік тому +11

      underrated comment. thank you!

  • @justaninkling
    @justaninkling Рік тому +2007

    The study is called" Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued physical characteristics on social interaction" by Kleck and Strena (1980) . Its important to note that theres no interview, no use of discrimination language or asked how they were discriminated, and there was more than just scarring, such as epilepsy. They were asked how they felt the interaction with the person they talked to went and what they were thinking at the time, it was more the internal conflict more than the actual subject of discussion, ie they felt stressed and nervous about the scarring and felt self conscious. Interesting study, shame its misrepresented to try and shut down the "woke crowd".

    • @psicologiajoseh
      @psicologiajoseh Рік тому +138

      Thanks for taking the time to clarify.

    • @truelightseeker
      @truelightseeker Рік тому +276

      When someone cites a study, without naming the exact source, it's always a bit sketchy.

    • @jukkahamalainen2454
      @jukkahamalainen2454 Рік тому +72

      Thank you! Already gave this video a thumbs up but changed it to down after reading your comment.

    • @angelparada9904
      @angelparada9904 Рік тому +82

      I'm glad there's still people on UA-cam capable of critical thinking and actually understanding how to read studies 😅

    • @praevasc4299
      @praevasc4299 Рік тому +18

      So, are you sure this is the study, and that this is the ONLY study?

  • @Pyranders
    @Pyranders Рік тому +1184

    All that proves is that confirmation bias is a thing and if you tell people they're in a study of discrimination they're going to be actively looking for signs of discrimination.

    • @miclowgunman1987
      @miclowgunman1987 Рік тому +43

      isn't that the exact point he made? If you tell people they are always facing discrimination, they are going to be looking for signs of discrimination. This effect works both ways, in that telling someone they are a victim causes them to actively look for signs, but also being on the receiving end of even a small amount of discrimination can also create this effect.

    • @royeskilidaiii2922
      @royeskilidaiii2922 Рік тому +8

      Ok, well, people get discriminated against all the time. It is happening, and it's causing certain people who are under certain circumstances to fail. There really isn't anything we really can do to completely stop it either.

    • @wenr4479
      @wenr4479 Рік тому +60

      No, the point this short seems to be getting across is that the discrimination people face is actually made up; however, the study basically conditioned the women to look for possible discrimination, making it a biased and worthless study if you are attempting to prove said point.

    • @yakopc6600
      @yakopc6600 Рік тому +5

      ​@@miclowgunman1987 As if discrimination was the same as confirmation bias? No.
      Where have I seen this movie before?

    • @pileofsaltOG
      @pileofsaltOG Рік тому +6

      ​@@miclowgunman1987 I think the point of the comment is that this will happen to any study even if it's not about discrimination.
      this doesn't say much about how we think discrimination is happening when it's not. it just shows if we look for something specific our brains will make connections even if there is none
      ex: if you start the day off thinking it's bad you will probably only notice the bad stuff that happens

  • @hh71vmcaad_5g9
    @hh71vmcaad_5g9 Рік тому +233

    Absolutely true. Victimhood is nowadays a high status marker.

    • @manuelzeferino2950
      @manuelzeferino2950 Рік тому +3

      Or the lack of empathy towards other people who suffer that leads to the refusal of accountability for the well-being of others that leads to the cruelty we now see in our society.

    • @andrewaar
      @andrewaar 11 місяців тому +1

      It’s definitely not a status marker, people just think it is and the left begrudgingly now goes along with it since they championed it for so long.
      But I can’t name anyone who looks up to someone with a victim complex.

    • @jimmyjackson3117
      @jimmyjackson3117 11 місяців тому +5

      That's right...everyone's a victim today there's a lot of weak minded people around today

    • @Thecommentator-hc1fz
      @Thecommentator-hc1fz 11 місяців тому

      @@manuelzeferino2950You need your pills.

    • @paddymaxwell
      @paddymaxwell 11 місяців тому +1

      Cruelty that we now see in our society?
      I would firmly believe that we have never lived in a less cruel society, think about it?
      To say otherwise is to completely make us into 'victims'.

  • @realrealwarpet
    @realrealwarpet Рік тому +4217

    Now ask people with REAL facial scarring if they face discrimination. The answer, I guarantee, is yes.

    • @handsomelarsandhisfabulousjars
      @handsomelarsandhisfabulousjars Рік тому +248

      There's a post right next to yours where they say their scars never caused them to be discriminated against 😂

    • @bobbyhempel1513
      @bobbyhempel1513 Рік тому +102

      Not nearly as much as you would think.

    • @realrealwarpet
      @realrealwarpet Рік тому +268

      @@bobbyhempel1513 depends on the scarring. Small ones, probably not. But huge gashes, far more likely.
      Though it does depend on the job. If your face is covered in scars, you wont easily get a job dealing with people.

    • @excelior1
      @excelior1 Рік тому +3

      ?

    • @deusex9731
      @deusex9731 Рік тому +48

      @@handsomelarsandhisfabulousjars i dont think scars are seen as bad in general? it works for this experiment, because its only about the perception, but in reallife with people that have scars i dont think its generally seen as negative

  • @gillyjorden3262
    @gillyjorden3262 Рік тому +1269

    As a woman with actual scars on my face due to a car accident when I was a child, I can say that some and I do mean some people do discriminate. Most look more for what you can do for them than what you look like.

    • @dika_hilman
      @dika_hilman Рік тому +26

      Yeah, but as the experiment suggests, I believe you should not think that THAT'S the default of what people think about you. Those 'mean' people were some special cases/the anomaly/the unsual. There are many of them, but they're not the default. It's healthier to think this way.

    • @scoobydoo2587
      @scoobydoo2587 Рік тому +8

      I mean, people care a lot more about your general looks than any scars, it's a subconscious thing.

    • @icantthinkofagoodnameso1954
      @icantthinkofagoodnameso1954 Рік тому +7

      Sure, not everyone is a perfect angel and there will be bad apples out there but I think we should never try to assume bigotry as the first thing to come to mind whenever something like this happens.
      For every person who would descriminate against your scars there is another person who won't and if you always assume bigotry then that's a very unfair generalization.

    • @budle89
      @budle89 Рік тому +6

      The discriminations exist. But this ahort video isn't talking about that.
      Like it barely deny it.

    • @Victoria_Huot
      @Victoria_Huot Рік тому +6

      This. Discrimination exists but sometimes people who are insecure will see it where it’s not

  • @user-pj3ig5iq7l
    @user-pj3ig5iq7l Рік тому +1746

    As someone with actual facial deformities, I can confirm you get treated differently. Not in a good way. You'd think only children who don't know any better will point, snicker, and say something about you, NOPE adults do it too. It's just sad when adults do it because they _should_ know better.

    • @ashlouw5350
      @ashlouw5350 Рік тому +31

      Can I ask you question..Don't you find it easier if kids ask you instead of just staring. I know some people isn't always in the mood to answer but I find when younger kids asked and they get their answers they move on and the staring stops whereas adults are worse then kids. They ignorantly stare and will do it till you randomly ask what's up

    • @6ColourMeRainbow9
      @6ColourMeRainbow9 Рік тому +9

      As an artist, I've always wanted to ask about deformities, especially the facial ones, as I find them very cool and interesting, but I always ignore it and just interact normally cuz I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, and i especially dont want to direct bystander's attention to it. Maybe the only people who don't make fun are the people most interested, haha.

    • @spots_or_stripes
      @spots_or_stripes Рік тому +10

      @@6ColourMeRainbow9 I have lots of facial scarring and a skin condition. I think its difficult topic cuz I rlly don't mind if people ask about it, but I now its a personal preference. its always about time and place I guess. if u hardly know someone probs none of ur business to ask or bringing it up if ur in a big group. I mostly find myself bringing it up when I know someone reasonably well. but asking kindly is always welcome personally as I know the people that ask are interested and curious and not people who would silently judge. :)

    • @odietamo9376
      @odietamo9376 Рік тому +56

      But you’re missing the point. No one is arguing that people with deformities are not treated differently. It is about how people can talk themselves into being treated badly because of a deformity that doesn’t even exist! Very clever study.

    • @Sanquinity
      @Sanquinity Рік тому +5

      ​@Odi Etamo they don't talk themselves into being treated differently. The women in this study perceived discrimination and comments based on facial scarring, while there were none as there were no scars.

  • @ferret2313
    @ferret2313 Рік тому +5

    This is true. It's part of what makes discrimination so insidious. The fact that one might internalize their oppression does not necessarily mean that they are not being oppressed. This means that those from marginalized communities have to navigate both their own expectation of oppression as well as actual oppression. It is not, however, a reason to ignore the reality of discrimination in our society. It is rather yet another reason to call it out and take responsibility for it. Just imagine how the expectations of the participants in the study would have changed if they grew up in a culture that did not discriminate against people with scars. So you see, it is the discrimination that is the problem, not calling it out. Ignoring it makes it worse

    • @ferret2313
      @ferret2313 Рік тому

      @whocriesforbidennotme641 Indeed. I'm not sure in what way you disagree with what I said.
      It adds another layer to the suffering caused by discrimination. Therefore, you can be understanding and cut people a little slack when they are overly sensitive. And, you can do your best to be aware of the fact that sometimes we can act in discriminatory ways without consciously intending to do so

  • @michaeldorego7313
    @michaeldorego7313 Рік тому +2057

    People nowadays aren't easily offended. They're eagerly offended.

    • @linksbetweendrinks7032
      @linksbetweendrinks7032 Рік тому +16

      I think by "nowadays" you meant "throughout all of human history."

    • @R11T16_
      @R11T16_ Рік тому +9

      @@linksbetweendrinks7032people weren’t getting offended in the 1600s 🤦‍♂️

    • @immaturedemolitions8220
      @immaturedemolitions8220 Рік тому +24

      ​@@R11T16_i mean....the nobles probably get offended when a peasant simply breathes on em

    • @chelseylyn
      @chelseylyn Рік тому +4

      this! so true 😂

    • @michaeldorego7313
      @michaeldorego7313 Рік тому +10

      @@linksbetweendrinks7032 did I offend you?

  • @nikolashumphrey-howell2478
    @nikolashumphrey-howell2478 Рік тому +399

    the one thing i learned in social research is that if they TELL YOU WHAT THEYRE LOOKING FOR, it's misdirection.

    • @bxyxg
      @bxyxg Рік тому +7

      that and they are women ☕️

    • @Bandz4feetpix
      @Bandz4feetpix Рік тому +1

      ​@@bxyxg not that all women would, but most men wouldn't

    • @SagaciousDjinn
      @SagaciousDjinn Рік тому +1

      Keys.

  • @kurtweynegaso9773
    @kurtweynegaso9773 Рік тому +209

    "If you think everyone around you is judging you, then you might be the one judging them by assuming the worst of their character." - from a website I visited

    • @brianstrutter1501
      @brianstrutter1501 Рік тому +1

      My wife does that to me from time to time. I bought a loaf of bread a few weeks ago to make sandwiches for lunch at work that week. She fussed at me and called me a snob because i bought a loaf of bread different from her loaf of bread. I told her i bought it to make sandwiches to take to work. A week and a half later i told her she owed me an apology because i had eaten the entire loaf of bread. She smiled and didn't say anything. Good thing she's not like this all the time i would have divorced her 20 years ago

    • @Getahelmet1
      @Getahelmet1 Рік тому

      Pornhub... i didnt know they were that deep 😳

    • @user-cp1ov2cf8h
      @user-cp1ov2cf8h Рік тому +2

      Being honest with myself I discovered I had fallen into this habit

    • @bohenry1836
      @bohenry1836 Рік тому

      @@brianstrutter1501 I would say: " I am snob, so what??? I save money being snob."

    • @linoleluminum2017
      @linoleluminum2017 Рік тому

      So absolutely everyone is judging everyone else

  • @DavidWWhite1973
    @DavidWWhite1973 Рік тому +76

    I used to do air conditioning and one day I was given a helper. It was a young girl that had a little bit of experience because her dad owned an ac business and yes, she knew how to do her job. She got paid the same as me but did about half the work I did because she wasn't strong enough to lift up the air conditioners or the condensers but she could crawl through the attics better than I could. I got paid for my strength, she got paid for her size.

    • @blest5132
      @blest5132 Рік тому

      🤔

    • @thebig_m4735
      @thebig_m4735 Рік тому +1

      Nice! If you want to narrow the pay gap, you need to bring just as much to the table.

    • @akboyz1
      @akboyz1 Рік тому +7

      Was up in an attic for much of the day yesterday, and would have happily traded it for heavy lifting...

    • @Callofthevoid3
      @Callofthevoid3 Рік тому +1

      Sounds like you’re all for what those video is speaking against. You’re acting like you’ve been victimized because a woman wasn’t as strong as you. She probably did all the other work, poor, oppressed white guy.

    • @DavidWWhite1973
      @DavidWWhite1973 Рік тому +25

      @@Callofthevoid3 wow...talk about completely missing the point. You are a prime example of what's wrong with this world. You see someone giving praise to another person, but because of your preconceived ideas, all you can see is negativity. How sad for you.

  • @Slumdog.
    @Slumdog. Рік тому +4202

    Imagine one woman deviates from the experiment and goes, “ You wanna know how I got these scars ?”
    The interviewer sat there like ,
    ” I’m sorry , what ? “

    • @jaglinuxmint
      @jaglinuxmint Рік тому +101

      underrated comment. This should get more likes. The classic joker dialog 😂😂😂

    • @shadowboxing7029
      @shadowboxing7029 Рік тому +36

      Most reasonable comment here.

    • @Bion05
      @Bion05 Рік тому +80

      That's probably why they chose women instead of men

    • @Nympho4Hire
      @Nympho4Hire Рік тому +79

      @@jaglinuxmint "And the result of the experiment is that we now have like 130 female Jokers running around causing havoc... But it's okay, we're gonna do another experiment where we tell a bunch of trust fund babies their parents were shot leaving the movies."

    • @rogerramjet6429
      @rogerramjet6429 Рік тому +13

      ​@@Nympho4Hire 🤣🤣🤣 that's hilarious.

  • @51gan788
    @51gan788 Рік тому +1641

    He is right, on a systematic level its imporant to not play the victim. HOWEVER, systemically its important to recognize that massive unjust inequalities still exist regardless of attitude.

    • @lunaw2174
      @lunaw2174 Рік тому +179

      honestly this feels more like it proves a person, who has never been discriminated against, thinks they know what discrimination is like.
      Best case scenario it proves that it's difficult to tell when someone is discriminating against you, nothing to do with the actual fact that discrimination exists

    • @pipthewarrior3738
      @pipthewarrior3738 Рік тому

      Good thing there is little to no discrimination now, most of it is actually against white straight people, complete overcorrection.

    • @juice6521
      @juice6521 Рік тому +12

      Humans will naturally discriminate because it is in our nature.

    • @BrianHamil
      @BrianHamil Рік тому +15

      It's not systemic.

    • @ReikoX7
      @ReikoX7 Рік тому

      @@juice6521 even those freedom fighters who are fighting against discrimination, they discriminate heavyly many people :D

  • @kaitlinf6929
    @kaitlinf6929 Рік тому +838

    I do have a facial scar. As a kid, people , usually boys, commented on it and made fun of me. I was about 29 when i no longer cared what people thought. A coworker commented the other day on the scar and was shocked that im not self-conscious about it. I told her i had a long time to get over insecurities of things i cannot control

    • @MrHorserider15
      @MrHorserider15 Рік тому +8

      So up until 29 you claimed victim hood according to this video.

    • @Death_the_Kid
      @Death_the_Kid Рік тому +126

      ​@@MrHorserider15Having insecurities and "claiming victimhood" are two, distinct things. This is where your critical thinking skills come in:

    • @jamalmahmoud2345
      @jamalmahmoud2345 Рік тому +6

      How could you be insecure about a scar you know you don't really have though? I don't see how this experiment would be tainted by insecurity, I think it is a good example of victimhood as they were primed with the idea that they will be judged.
      Edit: just realized I commented a reply, I wasn't targeting the op of this comment, just that some people argue that this experiment is tainted by insecurity which i doubt.

    • @archive8080
      @archive8080 Рік тому +5

      People notice, but they don't care. They may be curious about it though.

    • @Tazazak
      @Tazazak Рік тому +15

      @@archive8080that’s just not true. Some don’t care, some are curious, and some are cruel about it. There’s always at least those 3, maybe a mix of them, and maybe something else.

  • @dannypayne8150
    @dannypayne8150 Рік тому +16

    I’ve know people with disabilities that were stay at home and draw a check bad and had difficult jobs that were very demanding but acted like it no big deal. That’s true wealth. I remember one lady that would get up from her desk, got on crutches and come to the counter to wait on me. She always had a smile and treated me like I was the only customer she had all day. She doesn’t even know how that affected me even today. ❤

    • @All_Im_Saying_Is
      @All_Im_Saying_Is Рік тому +1

      I get what you’re trying to say here, but as a multi disabled person who works in advocacy, I’m absolutely begging you to hear me out when I say that *this is damaging*.
      That’s not playing victim-that’s just a fact.
      Disabled people are constantly praised for “not letting their disabilities define them” but do you know what that results in?? Burnout. Increased chronic pain. Depression. Anxiety. Ostracism. Poor hygiene and diet. Terrible sleep. More medications…
      The only time we seem to be appreciated is when we have something “valuable” to offer because if we don’t, then we’re considered deadweights to society.

    • @robynking-oq7kc
      @robynking-oq7kc Рік тому

      @@All_Im_Saying_Is You are describing "burnout" for anyone, not just disabled, who have tried to do
      their absolute best for a long time.

  • @deannatroy8113
    @deannatroy8113 Рік тому +761

    The interviewer probably commented on their expressions of fear, paranoia, and lack of confidence. I think it was real.

    • @Mike-hj7gg
      @Mike-hj7gg Рік тому +13

      thats the point..

    • @cs5384
      @cs5384 Рік тому +99

      It wasn't even about interviews. This man is lying about the study and how it was presented and what the raw findings might indicate. You can look the study up. It's not like he says. Makes you wonder why he'd be so deceptive.

    • @Americansikkunt
      @Americansikkunt Рік тому +23

      ⁠@@cs5384 How do we know YOU aren’t lying?
      Why don’t you provide a quote to confirm your claims?
      Maybe YOU are the one being deceptive.

    • @akinolakehinde9360
      @akinolakehinde9360 Рік тому +19

      @@cs5384 how about you make it easier for us to access the info by providing a link🤗🤗

    • @zeroceiling
      @zeroceiling Рік тому

      @@cs5384 What in the world are you talking about?? The study was described exactly as he does, in “The New York Times”…..It was conducted at Dartmouth University in 1991, with 27 participants. The results were exactly what has been revealed in this post. Why are you seemingly lying about this? What is your agenda?

  • @rp8936
    @rp8936 Рік тому +541

    I agree with the dangers of victimhood. But you cant ignore the actual experience of being a victim. Some Persons arent preached discrimination they experience it.

    • @Jitzau
      @Jitzau Рік тому +13

      And? They didn't say that discrimination is impossible, they just said that if you look for discrimination you will find it in things that are not discriminatory.

    • @ootdega
      @ootdega Рік тому +6

      And most people "experience" discrimination because they are told it exists literally everywhere and they are a poor innocent victim who needs special treatment.
      In current year, "discrimination" is refusing to install a litter box in the school restroom because you identify as a cat.

    • @JadeRunner
      @JadeRunner Рік тому +5

      The point is that without objective observation it's virtually impossible to tell because of confirmation bias.

    • @vvhitevvabbit6479
      @vvhitevvabbit6479 Рік тому +3

      That's not the point of the video. He's simply pointing out that if people believe they are being oppressed, they will feel oppression whether it's there or not. Teaching people that they are at a disadvantage when they are not, really hamstrings society.
      We have way too many minorities that believe they are living unhappy lives due to white privilege, and women believing they can't achieve success due to a patriarchy.
      There's nothing stopping minorities from pursuing an education and starting a business and investing their money. In fact, it's easier for them to pursue an education due to minority scholarships and affirmative action.
      If anything, there's a real case of minority privilege, rather than white privilege. White males face more criticism and oppression than any other group in the US. It seems anything they do that is within their nature is considered toxic masculinity, and any success they achieve was the result of privilege. They can't win.

    • @ShantanuShinde1
      @ShantanuShinde1 Рік тому

      @@vvhitevvabbit6479 this must be the most dumb comment I have read in a while. oh while males are so oppressed even though stats show otherwise. you are the perfect example of confirmation bias

  • @bwane5961
    @bwane5961 Рік тому +526

    As a woman who has a scar on my forehead, I have never felt discriminated because of it. I actually became topic of conversation. People ask me how i got the Harry Potter scar 😆

    • @ASwordElite
      @ASwordElite Рік тому +6

      Same here I have a scar on my forehead. I wish people wouldn't feel bad for me though.

    • @clifford4081
      @clifford4081 Рік тому +2

      So how did you get that scar on your forehead?

    • @Tepity
      @Tepity Рік тому

      "If you think I got a scar out of it you should see how Lord Volde--- I mean, yea I could tell you the story."

    • @heitildeg
      @heitildeg Рік тому

      hehe, same here ^^

    • @Akagami-ub3pm2eq4q
      @Akagami-ub3pm2eq4q Рік тому

      Ah so ur the one who lived

  • @blahdedah1334
    @blahdedah1334 Рік тому +2

    The men had a heightened sense of confidence.
    Visual proof of past hardship gives credit to the wisdom and advice you share. It's the opposite of narcissism.

  • @welshwitch4832
    @welshwitch4832 Рік тому +92

    I had a friend with terrible facial scars, she was lovely, her personality not only made her scars of no consequence but she often said that she believed she got treated better simply because people felt sorry for her, which i thought was so sad :( but at the same time i appreciated that people tried so hard to not make her feel conscious of it, such a conundrum, so its difficult for people to react because either way can be deemed as wrong.

    • @cincin4515
      @cincin4515 Рік тому +11

      You're doing exactly what he said. You're making her scars everything. You're even "so sad" because people treat her nicely. You're definitely playing the victim about something that doesn't even affect you.

    • @jacobhargiss9909
      @jacobhargiss9909 Рік тому +10

      There is 2 ways to go. You can either try and pretend you didn't notice, or you can acknowledge the elephant in the room.

    • @adfdasdfadfadsfareae
      @adfdasdfadfadsfareae Рік тому +10

      @@cincin4515 and you're just a clod.

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 Рік тому +4

      ​@@cincin4515Well they said 'no consequence' about the scars so I'd have to disagree 😮

    • @arvinr.912
      @arvinr.912 Рік тому

      So what you're saying is that the West is so out of touch with reality that they're so afraid to speak the truth out of fear of hurting her so called feelings? I would wonder if she got into those jobs by being a charity case then. In my country, she would be grilled with how she'd interact with the company or the team. If she showed any signs of being a problem, she would never make it pass the initial interview.

  • @gwendalynnpaige3510
    @gwendalynnpaige3510 Рік тому +131

    I work in retail, so part of working in retail is greeting the customers and checking to see if they need anything. There were a few instance where I would check on someone and they would immediately say “I’m not stealing so you don’t have to follow me” or “I promise there’s nothing in my bag.” It always leaves me speechless.

    • @joedirt3563
      @joedirt3563 Рік тому +3

      Richard Nixon once said "I am not a criminal."

    • @minagelina
      @minagelina Рік тому +12

      I just had this a couple of months ago. I was the only person on the sales floor and so had to help customers and ring them out. I also had a cart of back stock to put on the shelves right where this lady was. I went into the aisle just to be there to help and took advantage of that time to get things on the shelf. She left and it looked like she was headed toward the register. I started back and she said she felt like I was following her. I told her no, and after I checked her out, I apologized for appearing that way. She thanked me for the apology. Having said that, I did nothing wrong to have to apologize. It was in her mind. I've done this with many people over seven years or more and have never had anyone say this.

    • @sol-leks6122
      @sol-leks6122 Рік тому +5

      You should understand some ppl definitely do get profiled when shopping and it makes you feel like a dog. So please give them grace, we can't tell who's being nice and who's just keeping an eye on us thinking we are nothing but a dirty thief, it tends to make you a bit defensive.

    • @prettystreetchic
      @prettystreetchic Рік тому

      @@sol-leks6122exactly! When i was in retail my manager always said "the best way to prevent shoplifting is good customer service."

    • @brianstrutter1501
      @brianstrutter1501 Рік тому +4

      That's when you know they're up to something

  • @hamtaru
    @hamtaru Рік тому +1828

    i feel like this only works if there also was a group that actually kept the scars, so that we can compare it to something.
    also self perception is a different thing, i wanna see results of which group was more likely to get hired.
    edit: this blew up and i am obviously not gonna read everything.
    just adding that i didn't mean to criticize the study. i understand the study itself is about perception, but in the context it is used for in the video makes it sound like people who say they face discrimination only have it all in their head.

    • @darrengillespie1258
      @darrengillespie1258 Рік тому +241

      This, its no good claiming discrimination is in our heads without gathering the data on the percentage of people with actual disfigurements that got hired vs those without. Yes sometimes we victimise ourselves, but this video seems to be saying that discrimination doesn't actually happen when it most certainly does

    • @TheRedfire555
      @TheRedfire555 Рік тому +124

      Sure, but it sounds like the experiment was only about how the scars changes their self-perception, not about how it actually changes their chances of getting hired. Point being that if you are primed to think you will be discriminated against, you probably will think your being discriminated against.

    • @theinvisiblewoman5709
      @theinvisiblewoman5709 Рік тому

      @@TheRedfire555 nope it’s just the part of the experiment he described. All experiments have control groups. So there has to be at least two other groups. One group who knows they have no scares and another who knows they have scares. Also was this experiment just in women or is he omitting the male arm. He doesn’t even give the name of the study or anything.

    • @darrengillespie1258
      @darrengillespie1258 Рік тому +55

      @@TheRedfire555 I totally get that, I just feel that they could have done more to point out that some discrimination is real, and we shouldn't go around thinking all discrimination is in our heads because sometimes it is real and if we think its just in the persons head we essentially ignore the victim, which I think is how a lot of people end up committing suicide, they feel unseen

    • @ambmamb8370
      @ambmamb8370 Рік тому +54

      @@darrengillespie1258 missing the point

  • @danya.9602
    @danya.9602 Рік тому +3

    Positive thinking + positive attitude = positive results.
    Negative thinking + negative attitude =
    negative results.

  • @moniquedefranca5759
    @moniquedefranca5759 Рік тому +602

    I have real scares on my face. Never been discriminated against. It does not bother me at all. Its actually a great conversation starter.

    • @MsZelda2012
      @MsZelda2012 Рік тому +24

      How scary are they?

    • @LambentLark
      @LambentLark Рік тому +18

      Hi, Seal. Love your work.

    • @chrismckell5353
      @chrismckell5353 Рік тому +24

      I think like many things how you carry yourself often matters more than how you look.

    • @Ed19601
      @Ed19601 Рік тому +17

      I hired a lot of people. I don't care about scars, unless they would be the result of auto mutilation or self scarification as that might suggest a mental issue

    • @mikegrace
      @mikegrace Рік тому +1

      ​@LambentLark you want to go clubbing,?

  • @viciousqueen5096
    @viciousqueen5096 Рік тому +260

    If you tell people they are in a study to examine discrimination based on facial deformities and show them the scars, of course they're actively looking for those things, and reporting them back, because that's what they expect to happen. That's why in most psychology experiments, you leave the subjects clueless about what they're trying to find out. Otherwise they're gonna be already influenced and won't behave like normal.

    • @butchcoolidge2533
      @butchcoolidge2533 Рік тому +35

      ​@@Mewmew-lv5iv insecurity and oppression are two different things. You literally only feel oppressed if you actually are oppressed. Feeling made fun of or insecure is not the same thing as feeling discriminated against and this study has absolutely nothing to do with oppression or perceived oppression

    • @hhbddjstar
      @hhbddjstar Рік тому +24

      Except that the study he mentioned did none of that. The study he referring to is called "gender and responses to disfigurement in self and others" and it didn't even have those women go look for a job. The purpose of the study was to see if facial discrimination differs in gender, and how the participants react to their own disfigurement and how it impacts their relationship...
      Dude just bs an entire study :)))

    • @indycraft7657
      @indycraft7657 Рік тому +27

      @@hhbddjstar I thought it sounded weird when he specified that women were the ones being tested on, because if you're looking for information about feelings of victimhood, it would be helpful to look at everyone. I feel like he's using the fact that they used a group of women in the study to subtly imply that feeling like a victim is a "female trait" along with saying that doing such is inherently bad. Kinda yucky all round

    • @kennethreed8746
      @kennethreed8746 Рік тому +4

      @@butchcoolidge2533 You're missing the fact perception isn't as black and white as you wish it was. Feeling oppressed and being oppressed aren't necessarily correlated. Idk, where you came up with the idea that you only feel that way through the action. You can translate an action of being made fun of into discrimination which would then be oppression. Perception is key

    • @thechloromancer3310
      @thechloromancer3310 Рік тому +3

      @@hhbddjstar Dude, the women in the study specifically mentioned people staring at their scars.
      Obviously their perception of how people were treating them had been very much influenced by their expectations.

  • @MacMashPotato
    @MacMashPotato Рік тому +443

    Now do one that shows how managers can look for bad behavior thats not there.

    • @parthon
      @parthon Рік тому +12

      Is that study based on my dad? :P

    • @FenLupimo
      @FenLupimo Рік тому +3

      @@parthon its based on everyone's family, specially if you're Asian

    • @AtotehZ
      @AtotehZ Рік тому +11

      It's the same study... You can call it victimhood if you want.. but it's not really about that.
      It's about confirmation bias which has already been said elsewhere. If the manager gets in his head that a worker is trouble, he'll confirm that suspicion even when it isn't true.

    • @JudgeHill
      @JudgeHill Рік тому +1

      @@AtotehZ it’s actually about the concept of “priming” in behavioural economics. Subtly different

    • @tubehound69
      @tubehound69 Рік тому +10

      I worked with a guy once who said his mother did hiring for higher level managers for a corporation. One thing he told me she would do is take them to lunch on the interview and if the interviewee salted or peppered their food before they tasted it she was unlikely to hire them because she thought that was an indication of them being a premature problem solver. I told him his mother seems to be the one with that problem.

  • @ReginaMonroe-u2v
    @ReginaMonroe-u2v Рік тому

    This is so true! To many times I've been asked Are you depressed, do you suffer Anxiety; I tell these folks You must be talking about yourself! From the looks of things; they did not expect my answer to turn it back to where it comes from .them!

  • @MrPaulc222
    @MrPaulc222 Рік тому +470

    Yes, pre-conditioning can be powerful.

    • @cs5384
      @cs5384 Рік тому

      Yes and so can lying like this man has done. The study he's referencing isn't like what he said and their conclusions were not the same as his, because they are scientists are educated in their field and understand how scientific studies work... and Konstantin Kisin is a writer with no formal post-secondary education.
      But you are lucky today, as you can go look for this study. It takes three search terms. You can find this study and see for yourself how this man has deceived people in this video. And then ask yourself why he'd do such a thing.

    • @justinhobbs8646
      @justinhobbs8646 Рік тому +8

      It's why you agree with this

    • @RandomDeforge
      @RandomDeforge Рік тому

      Cuntstantine is a liar. that's not how the experiment was set up and its not what it found.
      look up "Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued physical characteristics on social interaction"

    • @betteroffdead
      @betteroffdead Рік тому

      It also works the other way. People coming into a country, unwilling to assimilate, feel empowered by playing the race card.

    • @Cyborg_Lenin
      @Cyborg_Lenin Рік тому +4

      Exactly why you don't let people what they are being tested on in a social experiment like this.

  • @majki113
    @majki113 Рік тому +628

    I'm wonder their reactions after they were informed that they had no scars on their faces.

    • @Iampatrix
      @Iampatrix Рік тому +164

      Probably blamed the patriarchy.

    • @shmosel_
      @shmosel_ Рік тому +46

      Double down

    • @melocoton7
      @melocoton7 Рік тому +41

      Probably whinged on about how that’s gaslighting or something

    • @blatterrascheln2267
      @blatterrascheln2267 Рік тому +53

      I love how guys immediately get biased because he's talking about women (without actually citing that "study" btw) and not recognize the whining men everywhere in the interwebs leave about feminism, about how women are too proud and whatever. Because that's what a lot of MRAs and PUAs do, talk men into some victim role 😂😂

    • @Iampatrix
      @Iampatrix Рік тому

      @@blatterrascheln2267 nerd.

  • @BackToNature123
    @BackToNature123 Рік тому +97

    I worked in the job centre and everyone would go on about they aren't given a chance because... their age, lack of experience, career break for children, disability etc. They all convinced themselves that they were not going to be successful. Mindset is the single most important thing for our success

    • @shelleyharris4176
      @shelleyharris4176 Рік тому +7

      Yes but people are judged on looks colour race religion language.
      Understand him but their is something wrong in his opinion also what would something said to think this unless knowing what was said cannot believe it

    • @KiXa1
      @KiXa1 Рік тому

      The fact is they are using it as excuses for things they don't want to do ...if people can play on things to benefit them .. that's exactly what they will do . More and more of these lazy people are multiplying as the years go on.

    • @warrenholmar1129
      @warrenholmar1129 Рік тому

      Yes but it is very hard when you are told to apply for x amount of jobs a week. And get just any job. I hated applying for jobs. The constant rejection. You find a job im an area where you would be able to excel. And you get turned down.
      I was trying to find a garage for my college placement. Ended up getting a place at the biggest garage in the district.

    • @cincin4515
      @cincin4515 Рік тому +1

      ​@@warrenholmar1129 you spelled it out. "College". People these days just hear "indoctrination camps for adult toddlers".

    • @warrenholmar1129
      @warrenholmar1129 Рік тому

      @@cincin4515 I should point out that it wasn't that sort of college. It was a technical college for trade skills. We are also talking 23 years ago.
      Back then woke meant to wake up.
      Now I think it means you are asleep...

  • @StarCitizenProof
    @StarCitizenProof Рік тому +1

    What a great experiment! I'll use this for my courses I give at work :-)

  • @CA-bw9vw
    @CA-bw9vw Рік тому +441

    I think that's a fair argument to make and certainly warrants more research. It's just important to remember that so much research has definitively proven that discrimination exists in job applications and many other settings. You can't ignore all of those studies just because you hate "woke culture"

    • @запрещнка
      @запрещнка Рік тому +56

      as some has already mentioned in the comments, he's pushing an agenda about "woke-ism". of course, people often misinterpret things based on their bias, just look at people with anxiety or depression. that doesn't mean that the feeling of being oppresed is barely valid as he implies

    • @highinfovoter8909
      @highinfovoter8909 Рік тому +18

      @@запрещнка Sure, but your feelings don't equal oppression. That's the point - it's all in your head

    • @запрещнка
      @запрещнка Рік тому +42

      @@highinfovoter8909 dude, you made exactly the same logical mistake this man did. learn to think properly Ig

    • @derunfassbarebielecki
      @derunfassbarebielecki Рік тому

      This experiment was also executed in the worst way possible. The experiment he talks about has no experts involved and doesn't control the results with a different group of people. You can easily influence peoples perception by using the wrong words and thats what they probably did for this experiment.

    • @Luuuma7
      @Luuuma7 Рік тому +22

      ​@@highinfovoter8909 sure it's all in our heads. Including the heads of those prospective employers.
      Maybe yours is empty enough that these things pass you by?

  • @magnusgallant8980
    @magnusgallant8980 Рік тому +242

    If you get told something enough times, you'll eventually believe it

    • @thezu9250
      @thezu9250 Рік тому +2

      No. If you have the thing youre told will happen… happen… you obviously believe itz

    • @Someoneonthisplanet1979
      @Someoneonthisplanet1979 Рік тому +2

      exactly right! like the story about God and all that stuff. crazy enough, people believe that too !

    • @justaguy3538
      @justaguy3538 Рік тому +1

      ​@@thezu9250yeah, but those in the experiment weren't discriminated against because of their scares, but they believed so

    • @thezu9250
      @thezu9250 Рік тому

      @@justaguy3538 I’m not talking about a situation where you don’t actually have the thing. This comment is about peoples paranoia around their gender or race. You can’t stop being a black person or a woman. It’s not some thing in your head like fake scars. So you can’t say that you are seeing some thing because of a trait you don’t have like this experiment.

  • @emj7336
    @emj7336 Рік тому +42

    Its a two sided problem, in that people often are victimised in one way or another, but viewing yourself as a victim makes it easier to see victimisation around every corner. It's a tough subject without many good answers, though it does highlight the importance of attitude.

    • @tiffles699
      @tiffles699 Рік тому +4

      Exactly, Ru Paul, the black drag queen said this...."If you are trigger-happy and you’re looking for a reason to reinforce your own victimhood, your own perception of yourself as a victim, you’ll look for anything that will reinforce that.”
      According to modern standards he is wildly and utterly oppressed... I'm pretty sure he has run into issues before, but he has an amazing attitude.

    • @moondust2365
      @moondust2365 Рік тому +2

      True. Essentially, it's a trauma-like response. You experience discrimination many times at one point in your life, you expect it to come that many times later on, unless you don't just stop experiencing discrimination, but someone actually affirms you and gives you proper self-confidence (as opposed to going too far and giving you an excessively heightened ego), in which case you're more able to tell which is actual discrimination and which is just badly worded or not discriminatory at all.

    • @williamjenkins4913
      @williamjenkins4913 Рік тому +1

      @@moondust2365 The scary thing this study showed is that it doesnt have to be the result of real discrimination or trauma though. Just living in a culture that lies to you about the discrimination you will face makes you more likely to invent discrimination.

  • @MariaMartinez-hg4nv
    @MariaMartinez-hg4nv 9 місяців тому

    Good Point!! When discrimination is preached to you, you have a tendency to believe it!

  • @jaclynrachellec
    @jaclynrachellec Рік тому +16

    A person who has *suddenly* experienced something that alters their idea of who they are as a person, isn't going to act the same way as a person who was born a certain way, and has been navigating their whole life as such.
    Even if the scars were real, the people would act differently, due to the newness of the change to who they are, than someone who had had scars for a lifetime.

  • @winslowguerra
    @winslowguerra Рік тому +93

    This was a test on self-confidence, not discrimination. Simple resume studies have been done as well. People with ethnic sounding names received a lot fewer calls than people with white names, and with the same experience and qualifications.

    • @VenusBlue-so8vw
      @VenusBlue-so8vw Рік тому +5

      Thank you 🎉

    • @kylemacdougall8355
      @kylemacdougall8355 11 місяців тому

      Why do you think white people can't also have ethnic-sounding names, like Sergei? Also...do you think someone with a name like Kleitus or Bubba (someone who sounds like a white redneck) would get as many calls as someone named Tom? I'm sure they wouldn't. People are naturally attracted to things they're familiar with. "Tom" is a more familiar-sounding name than "Sergei." Also, people are biased in favor of names that are easy to say and easy to spell: studies have shown that people are more likely to buy stock in companies that have simple, easy-to-pronounce names, like Apple. That's not racism...that's just the quirks of the human brain.

  • @p.j.degnan6099
    @p.j.degnan6099 Рік тому +31

    This is one of the biggest reasons racism is still alive. People are trained to look for it in everything from birth. Most often it isn't there but People will think it is

    • @slycat956
      @slycat956 11 місяців тому

      It's democrats only reason for being. They are useless but very dangerous

    • @chrismckell5353
      @chrismckell5353 11 місяців тому +1

      The demand for racism seems to far exceed the supply of same.

    • @nopers369
      @nopers369 11 місяців тому +2

      Morgan Freeman said it best, "Just stop talking about it".

  • @the_last_ballad
    @the_last_ballad Рік тому +2

    I like the part where he gave a link to the actual experiment or literally any information to allow people to find it and read about the methodology themselves, and then explained what they did for the control groups and what they reported.
    Such transparent reporting and not at all being used to push political beliefs to an audience who won't ask questions.
    Like, people are treating this as established fact despite there not being any info provided that indicates the study is real(like what group carried it out, what they named the study, when it was done... literally anything that would help someone seek out the information) let alone that it was properly carried out(yeah, methodology is important as how the researchers carry out an experiment will impact the results. And, based on the lack of transparency and lack of a control group, this study seems tailor made to generate this result).
    But it confirms what people already believe, so why question it.

    • @CandlepinBowlingNetwork
      @CandlepinBowlingNetwork 9 місяців тому

      I am hunting for a reference. Good point. Keeping my mind open though.

  • @notanotherbystander
    @notanotherbystander Рік тому +656

    It’s not that women were lying is that they adopted the scar and became insecure themselves and acted alongside that insecurity. It’s common sense. Tell someone their breath stinks and watch how they will speak as few words as possible

    • @Vaga-Bard
      @Vaga-Bard Рік тому +33

      Agreed. While there is confirmation bias involved, majority of the issue is insecurity.

    • @Dedded00000
      @Dedded00000 Рік тому +1

      They became insecure about a fake scar that would be gone after the experiment? No.

    • @Dedded00000
      @Dedded00000 Рік тому +48

      @@Vaga-Bard You don't get insecure about a scar that you know is not real. It's pure confirmation bias and bad judgement.

    • @notanotherbystander
      @notanotherbystander Рік тому +49

      @@Dedded00000 Scars are imperfections. They naturally incite insecurities. It’s like getting a bad haircut. There’s nothing inherently bad about a bad haircut, but it induces insecurity.

    • @sparklee5044
      @sparklee5044 Рік тому

      Yeah but conservatives will use the study to claim how the only oppressed groups are straight cis white christian men.

  • @Supbeeatch
    @Supbeeatch Рік тому +301

    This needs to be heard by every person on planet

    • @TeethToothman
      @TeethToothman Рік тому +4

      He completely misrepresented the entire study. Look it up.

    • @legshakermaker1968
      @legshakermaker1968 Рік тому

      Yep, Jimmy's right - he's pretty much just making this up. No such study ever happened and (if you give it a moment's thought) you'd realise the experiment he describes would never work.

    • @protocol3pd621
      @protocol3pd621 Рік тому

      Yep...

    • @vicsaturno7274
      @vicsaturno7274 Рік тому +2

      ​@@TeethToothmanThey don't care. They just want to feel "on the right side".

    • @Supbeeatch
      @Supbeeatch Рік тому +3

      @@vicsaturno7274 what a strange perception of how people you have never met want to "feel". Forget the experiment, the behaviour he is talking about is easily discerned just by witnessing how people act .

  • @tjbouch
    @tjbouch Рік тому +272

    “When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will.” - Pollyanna, 1965

    • @georgeherod4252
      @georgeherod4252 Рік тому

      Totally

    • @martingauthier7377
      @martingauthier7377 Рік тому +2

      When you are a nail everything is a hammer. Something like that anyway...

    • @alyaaearth4755
      @alyaaearth4755 Рік тому

      🙌

    • @zineguri8515
      @zineguri8515 Рік тому +1

      more like when you're looking soo hard into studies that you have to select some study from the 80s in order to make a random point across (and you also ignore the fact that same study involved men and women but you'll selective mention just one gender to make your point)

    • @vibaj16
      @vibaj16 Рік тому

      @@zineguri8515 You've clearly missed the point

  • @rgill2910
    @rgill2910 Рік тому

    Yes! This! I’ve been saying this to my students for the last few years!

  • @ophello
    @ophello Рік тому +169

    This experiment needs to be replicated and made larger.

    • @divergentsenior
      @divergentsenior Рік тому

      Do you accept polls extrapolating %ages for almost 350 million people’s beliefs based on 1000 responses that may be hand picked to create the desired numbers?

    • @ophello
      @ophello Рік тому +11

      @@divergentsenior no. Which is why a larger study is needed.

    • @divergentsenior
      @divergentsenior Рік тому +3

      @@ophello I don’t object to a bigger study and I detest polls, but I totally believe that someone unused to facial scaring would feel self conscious and project onto others an attitude not in evidence.
      I see it every time I am in public and someone goes off on a stranger who accidentally bumps into them.
      We live in a less civil world today where we ascribe intention here it may not be.

    • @cosmictreason2242
      @cosmictreason2242 Рік тому +2

      1000 is a perfectly reasonable number to do a study on that gives usable data for a population of a few hundred million. If you don’t understand statistics, you can be fooled into thinking bigger is better but the truth is 1000-3000 is ideal. If you get a sample that’s non-negligible compared to the size of the population, you actually fail to get a random sample and now the results are going to be biased to the majority. The difference in error between 100-1000 is small, and the improvement in error margin from 1-3000 is almost nothing. You can look this up if you don’t believe me

    • @davidmorgan6896
      @davidmorgan6896 Рік тому +1

      ​@@divergentsenior in the The Musketeers, D'Artagnan is challenged to a duel for bumping in to someone. Civility hasn't plummeted at all.

  • @floydlooney6837
    @floydlooney6837 Рік тому +53

    When you think you are a nail, everyone else becomes a hammer in your mind

  • @dennisdose5697
    @dennisdose5697 Рік тому +274

    Brilliant experiment!
    Once you are worried about how other people perceive you it's like a trigger in your brain waiting to go off.

    • @michaelleftwich8186
      @michaelleftwich8186 Рік тому +2

      Power of Suggestion. Works everytime. Right?

    • @TracyInsomiac
      @TracyInsomiac Рік тому

      How is this a good experiment? It sounds completely fake.

    • @peterrose5373
      @peterrose5373 Рік тому +5

      It doesn't just change how you interpret the behavior of people you interact with, it also changes how you act. which can't help but affect the entire interaction. You're not just seeing something that isn't there, sometimes you're creating it.

    • @dnporter5506
      @dnporter5506 Рік тому

      D*** I thought we understood this already

    • @cfri9332
      @cfri9332 Рік тому

      Aren't job interviews about how other people perceive you?

  • @BSDLIQUIDATORS
    @BSDLIQUIDATORS 11 місяців тому

    This has implications in so many different directions. Fascinating!

  • @christopheranthony1200
    @christopheranthony1200 Рік тому +683

    Thank god there are other smart people speaking up on the truth about this major issue

    • @Steelmage99
      @Steelmage99 Рік тому +7

      Funny you should mention "god".

    • @JennifuhhGilardi
      @JennifuhhGilardi Рік тому +6

      Oh yes because in this messed up world we all know the real issues are people not accepting it

    • @marius4iasi
      @marius4iasi Рік тому +18

      he's not. He's using a study from 1980. It says nothing about today. If anything it shows that women were massively discriminated against in 1980, regardless of the scars.

    • @pee-ray5760
      @pee-ray5760 Рік тому

      ​@Marius Malus Ding ding. It says nothing that he claims it does and sounds deeply, deeply flawed. Just another Right wing grifter or idiot preying on the layman's inability to think critically.

    • @Jaco059
      @Jaco059 Рік тому +11

      @@marius4iasi women were not massively discriminated against in the 1980s in the west you are the victim hes talking about

  • @honor9458
    @honor9458 Рік тому +258

    self perception definitely plays a role in perceived levels of discrimination
    I think this study would have benefitted from having a group WITH the scars to measure the levels of actual discrimination too

    • @AndyMann-vs3sf
      @AndyMann-vs3sf Рік тому

      Rubbish 🗑️!

    • @ryanrogers8211
      @ryanrogers8211 Рік тому +8

      The discrimination often comes from the people who are looking for it.

    • @AndyMann-vs3sf
      @AndyMann-vs3sf Рік тому

      @@ryanrogers8211 Rubbish 🗑️.

    • @wowmazin4399
      @wowmazin4399 Рік тому +6

      The study measured the self perception since the interview was obviously controlled.

    • @ryanrogers8211
      @ryanrogers8211 Рік тому +10

      @@wowmazin4399 most discrimination these days is self perception. I work with troubled youth and a lot of them have been brainwashed by their parents and schools.

  • @robroy1174
    @robroy1174 Рік тому +469

    Exactly, you're usually gonna find something negative every time you look for it, even if it doesn't exist.

    • @thomascromwell6840
      @thomascromwell6840 Рік тому +35

      Except people are discriminated against and those people who generally face it are also more likely to recognise it. I've seen it myself. I never put much stock in women complaining about some men being creeps or stalking them, until I got older and entered relationships and saw it happen with my own eyes.
      I think we need to be cognizant of discrimination also because it is a violation of our civil rights. Unless such people are held accountable by the legal process, they will have no reason to be careful about their discrimination.

    • @adsupermusone8875
      @adsupermusone8875 Рік тому +1

      Presentation is key to success in many realms of endeavour.

    • @egner7897
      @egner7897 Рік тому +17

      Yeah... But Holocaust is real, slavery is real, discrimination is real...

    • @axa3687
      @axa3687 Рік тому +17

      But injustice and oppression exist, so do we just ignore them?

    • @gracie9863
      @gracie9863 Рік тому

      ​@@axa3687 not nearly as frequently as before, at least not in the West. Before me. we're forced into extreme dangerous environments and women were denied education while Irish and African Americans had some of the most frequent history of being enslaved within 200 years ago. Now if someone were to even say the wrong thing to a minority group they are given death threats. We have moved past all this stuff and everyone needs to get over the last because that is the only way to move to the future. The past should be taught in school but if u tell kids that they are discriminated against and there are only 2 people the oppressed and the oppressors then u will have a repeat of history.

  • @michellec.cartwright1979
    @michellec.cartwright1979 Рік тому

    The best thing we can learn from this is when we judge someone, we must ask ourselves why? The immediate effect is that we will find out more about ourselves; the second effect is we become happier.

  • @RamonaQ
    @RamonaQ Рік тому +483

    "If the only tool you have is a hammer, it is tempting to treat everything as if it were a nail." -Abraham Maslow

    • @Managable_Mayhem
      @Managable_Mayhem Рік тому +3

      I very much LOVE this. I'll be writing that down somewhere for future reference!

    • @Sanquinity
      @Sanquinity Рік тому +2

      I believe the quote is "If all you have is a hammer, everything starts looking like a nail", but yes.

    • @Managable_Mayhem
      @Managable_Mayhem Рік тому

      @@Sanquinity I did a quick googling and yes, your version got more hits. Tho I can't deny that OP's version sounds a bit more fitting for some situations (and I like the fanciness of it too).
      Thank you for teaching me something new~.

  • @aldecursoe7173
    @aldecursoe7173 Рік тому +390

    "it's easier to be a victim than a victor"

    • @L3adb3lly
      @L3adb3lly Рік тому +11

      It's easier to believe anything that aligns with your biased opinion than it is to verify if something is actually true. This study "they" did, isn't real.

    • @СавоДраговић-з7н
      @СавоДраговић-з7н Рік тому +1

      ​@@L3adb3lly Actually, it is, I did the study. You're welcome.

    • @pattyliedel6485
      @pattyliedel6485 Рік тому +1

      No, it’s easier to be the victor, no question.

    • @Aaron0911
      @Aaron0911 Рік тому +1

      What if everyone was named Victor

    • @jeffgraham3113
      @jeffgraham3113 Рік тому +1

      I knew a Victor growing up, nice guy

  • @Its_Shaun_the_Sheep
    @Its_Shaun_the_Sheep Рік тому +150

    “I'm not crazy about reality, but it's still the only place to get a decent meal.”
    ― Groucho Marx

    • @rosc2022
      @rosc2022 Рік тому +2

      😂

    • @Cyborg_Lenin
      @Cyborg_Lenin Рік тому

      A decent meal? That's only something that everyone gets in a fantasy.

    • @Its_Shaun_the_Sheep
      @Its_Shaun_the_Sheep Рік тому

      @@Cyborg_Lenin It depends on what you were feeding yourself with before you ate what you called the decent meal!

    • @Cyborg_Lenin
      @Cyborg_Lenin Рік тому

      @@Its_Shaun_the_Sheep no it depends on you being able to afford a decent meal. Half of the world can't, and millions can't afford a meal at all.

    • @Its_Shaun_the_Sheep
      @Its_Shaun_the_Sheep Рік тому

      @@Cyborg_Lenin I guess you don’t know Groucho Marx

  • @rrrod1
    @rrrod1 Рік тому +1

    Excellent points.

  • @haleygray6443
    @haleygray6443 Рік тому +31

    I know this and I think my problem based on knowing this leads me to assuming people are not being mean to me when they actually are being mean. Its a confusing world.

    • @declancampbell1277
      @declancampbell1277 Рік тому +6

      i think that unless the people are taking advantage of you in some way, its always better to just assume theyre not being mean. If youre right, then those people are innocent and its fine. If youre wrong? You live in their head rent free while you go along happier in life than they ever will be.

    • @MrArtVein
      @MrArtVein Рік тому

      Depends on the situation. You're gonna survive longer than the others

  • @Rayq007
    @Rayq007 Рік тому +149

    We all know a positive attitude is the best approach towards success. Thinking of yourself as a victim is not a positive attitude.

    • @SoundBoss5150
      @SoundBoss5150 Рік тому +10

      Problem is that most of the people pontificating about not being a victim are the first ones to clutch pearls when they don’t receive the preferential treatment they feel entitled to.

    • @Rayq007
      @Rayq007 Рік тому

      @@SoundBoss5150 There is a difference between someone feeling the World owes them something, and asking for assistance or something like professional courtesy (being in the same field). Those with negative attitudes don't expect much in life, most don't have positive role models, and their heroes (who they learn from ) are the older guys who seem cool.
      So they justify stealing, then robbing, then looting and riots to take what must seem that every privileged person has. So they don't feel guilty.

    • @pineappleflow2876
      @pineappleflow2876 Рік тому +15

      What about a person that is actually a victim of abuse? Should we just pretend like it doesn't matter, and guilt them with toxic positivity when they open up about their struggles?

    • @shredderofstrings3223
      @shredderofstrings3223 Рік тому +1

      ​@@pineappleflow2876 Those who are victims of abuse are encouraged to try to heal... Doubt that sulking in the trauma will heal anything at all

    • @Americansikkunt
      @Americansikkunt Рік тому +2

      @@pineappleflow2876 …Victims of abuse don’t need to “open up” during a job interview.
      They may be more likely to negatively internalize things the employer said,
      but their inner-dialogue (which is false) is irrelevant!

  • @jamestaylor5417
    @jamestaylor5417 Рік тому +825

    “Face discrimination”. That was the greatest pun I’ve ever heard and he didn’t even mean it.

    • @RS54321
      @RS54321 Рік тому +4

      Yes, I caught that too! Hehe.

    • @dnporter5506
      @dnporter5506 Рік тому

      Face discrimination, black discrimination😂😊😊😅

    • @n1kk3l9
      @n1kk3l9 Рік тому +8

      @@dnporter5506 ?

    • @seekfind9531
      @seekfind9531 Рік тому

      Wow! I’m going to use that pun 5 times today

    • @DoubleBassX2
      @DoubleBassX2 Рік тому +1

      He did smile a little though, maybe he caught it as he was saying it?

  • @lazgen
    @lazgen Рік тому +37

    I went into a job interview with a severely swollen face after having surgery. I went in and told the interview team that if they didn't make fun of my face I would hold it against them. We had a good interview, they didn't make fun of my face. I got the offer before I made it home. What I did is remove the tension around my appearance. I let them know that my appearance wasn't going to affect me.

    • @jesseberdowski3148
      @jesseberdowski3148 11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for making this about yourself

    • @rjvw3078
      @rjvw3078 10 місяців тому

      The example was that the people in the case had no scars but thought they had. You overcame yours and thats what the interviewers see.

  • @IsaacSchultz
    @IsaacSchultz Рік тому +51

    Well done. More people need to see these videos, thank you.

    • @religionkills4081
      @religionkills4081 Рік тому +2

      The Christian persecution syndrome is a perfect example of this guy's claims.

    • @BEAUTYnIQ
      @BEAUTYnIQ Рік тому +2

      ​@@religionkills4081so you're hanging onto your victimhood for all its worth, l see..

  • @kafkollectif525
    @kafkollectif525 Рік тому +85

    This is so important to keep in mind. It’s like passing a group of people and they suddenly start laughing so you think it must be about you. It’s so easy to project your own thoughts and insecurities onto someone else or a situation. Personally I always try and err on the side of being nothing to do with me, because even if it is about you, it usually isn’t. Meaning it’s not personal and they would say something to anyone because they aren’t happy people. Hurt people hurt people, and if you remember that it’s easier to have understanding for why they are like that. And if anything is blatant and I have time/energy, I always try to help them be less like that if I can because if you do it right you can really make a difference in the way they think and they’ll be nicer and happier.

    • @hollybrooke322
      @hollybrooke322 Рік тому +1

      I guess this is why when I pass people who are laughing or any similar situation I never think it’s about me because It has never entered my mind to do that to another person. Thank you. I never thought of that.

    • @ecMonify
      @ecMonify Рік тому +1

      i almost got beat up by a guy who happened to walk by me and a friend, when my friend said something funny to me and i laughed. the guy, walking down the street without a shirt in the middle of the night, stopped, turned around and went crazy on me asking why i laughed at him. he started pushing me and was extremely aggressive. he must have been on some kind of drug, i dunno how else a person could be so insecure and aggressive :D

  • @tsvkanta1336
    @tsvkanta1336 Рік тому +177

    So true. Dividing people by giving names to their physical and/or mental state and then talking about inclusiveness is the stupidest thing to do. Just treat everyone with respect.

    • @yonathansheldon2903
      @yonathansheldon2903 Рік тому +4

      Wouldn't treating them with respect be calling them by the preferred name or pronoun they ask to be called by?

    • @CouncilEstateRach
      @CouncilEstateRach Рік тому +6

      Yes i do agree with you but i also know hiwcfreeing it feels when you know youve been ill all yr life and soneone finally gives it a name, its fantastic to know it and be able to research it and improve my life and hopefully others around me.
      Sadly people use diagnosis as a reason for why they behave badly and that has to end.

    • @larrytherustyboii7442
      @larrytherustyboii7442 Рік тому +5

      ​@@yonathansheldon2903no it's just complacency. Respect aint what those people need, it's better understanding of what theyre going through, but no one even bothers.

    • @auntieambmiracleb2
      @auntieambmiracleb2 Рік тому +2

      Treating people with respect doesn't happen, which is why there is a need for inclusiveness. Imagine if you're tired of hearing about it, imagine living it? You think people want to be mistreated? People are so comical.

    • @NoPlanNoProb
      @NoPlanNoProb Рік тому

      @@larrytherustyboii7442Are respect and understanding mutually exclusive?

  • @Coops777
    @Coops777 Рік тому

    This was one of the first alarm bells in the process of my deciding to vote no in the referendum

  • @-.SpaceNoah.-
    @-.SpaceNoah.- Рік тому +17

    "If everywhere you go it smells like sh•t, maybe it's time to check your own shoes."
    I see this in groups a lot, can be religious, feminist, LGBTQ, BLM, etc. If you are always on a state of alert and jump at the smallest bit of discrimination, even if it's not actually that, then you make people upset and when those people start to recognise a patron, they will get upset at the group, which is anything but helpful.
    It's not bad to defend yourself and talk some sense to a discriminator, but not everyone who makes a comment is actually one at heart, they can be confused or misunderstood something and the human is a prideful being so insulting them is just going to make it worse. I can't count the amount of times I have chatted with people who, even though they didn't end up agreeing with me, we were able to have a normal conversation, I explained why I supported something and they explained their concerns about the matter, no one insulted eachother, no one attacked and no one tried to make the other feel dumb.
    Is it that hard to have a civil conversation and stop victimising yourself?

    • @BEAUTYnIQ
      @BEAUTYnIQ Рік тому +1

      ^ ^ this !! ^ ^ l too do this all the time.. it promotes unity as a people.. we be different, but we also are the same.. and connecting like that hopefully is passed along.. (ihisi)

  • @thalon8492
    @thalon8492 Рік тому +160

    when you're insecure, everything is perceived to be a threat

    • @thalon8492
      @thalon8492 Рік тому +2

      @Siegfried Sieger I know that feeling too, my friend. If a may offer some help, take care of yourself, find a productive skill you can master, and socialize when you can to build yourself up. It's not everything, but it's a start 👍

    • @jasonfranke5810
      @jasonfranke5810 Рік тому

      And what happens when you identify AS a threat?

    • @JahangirKhan-zt2nv
      @JahangirKhan-zt2nv Рік тому

      now that's how politics works...

  • @mfredcourtney5876
    @mfredcourtney5876 Рік тому +43

    Absolutely! If you endlessly rant rave and preach anything it will become the truth even if it's a lie.

    • @notpc48
      @notpc48 Рік тому +1

      Like every narrative from the left.

    • @apersonfromtheinternet3444
      @apersonfromtheinternet3444 Рік тому

      Like anti China narrative

    • @oopsydaizi3s824
      @oopsydaizi3s824 Рік тому +1

      ⁠@@apersonfromtheinternet3444 no. Free 🇹🇼

    • @雷-t3j
      @雷-t3j Рік тому +1

      @@notpc48 the right never does this. except for all the times it did

  • @michaelkindy3850
    @michaelkindy3850 Рік тому

    YES, YES, YES. I've been saying this for a long, long time, and I have absolutely zero psychological studies background.

  • @x3ko777
    @x3ko777 Рік тому +332

    Years ago i was the only asian in the office. I came into work one monday morning, a coworker gently asked for a quiet word, we went into an empty office, she then started telling me how she had been stressing all weekend, couldnt sleep, hadnt eaten, and felt sick, because of what she said to me on friday and thought that i must have been feeling the same all weekend (i hadnt). I was like "whatchu talkin bout willis", genuinely had no idea what she said and she didnt want to repeat it because it was so nasty. I laughed and told her i had no recollection and that we were good, she didnt believe me but i reassured her. Later on other coworkers asked if i was ok etc etc. I can see how some people are primed for victim hood. I just wanted to play video games.

    • @bunnyboonot4u
      @bunnyboonot4u Рік тому +33

      You don't have a victim frame of mind thus you're not a victim! 👍👍

    • @rRekko
      @rRekko Рік тому +50

      Saaame.
      I'm an imported latino here in the states, a co-worker thought it'd be a great idea to go for some tacos and asked me which ones my favorite. Loved her face when I told her down in south america tacos aren't a thing. She immediately assumed I got severely offended or something and another co-worker was also so worried about it because she was the one to come up with the idea of going out to eat Latinx good food with me (she actually said latin-ex) and I had to correct her, real latinos hate being called latin-ex and we find that racist and offensive, but thinking every latino loves tacos is just absolutely normal because we just assume muricans are extremely ignorant about anything outside the planet earth, i.e. USA.

    • @bankaltthree9139
      @bankaltthree9139 Рік тому +17

      @@rRekko Its more based on the fact that people in the United States have very little interaction with people actually from south america, and their cultures aren't in a ton of media.
      Id assume you know next to nothing about the cultures of people in say the baltic regions or east africa, but you likely have good/decent knowledge about the United kingdom, Russia, China, India. Even though you lived nowhere close to them.
      Most people around the world are too busy living their lives to learn about people thousands of miles away, who aren't a major impact on their day to day lives, this is not exclusively a murican thing.
      They can heck off with that latin-ex though.

    • @angelique707
      @angelique707 Рік тому +3

      How can you be a victim if you don’t even know what happened? You don’t know what she said and she wouldn’t repeat it. How is this story relevant to being a victim?

    • @rold-hx8bu
      @rold-hx8bu Рік тому +5

      ​@@rRekkowtf is "imported" latino?

  • @bpivr
    @bpivr Рік тому +91

    Of course, this doesn't measure whether someone with scars WOULD actually be treated differently. Having interviewed people for positions, I'd say it is very difficult to remove personal grooming and appearance from your assessment and concentrate on their qualifications.

    • @PixelSageYT
      @PixelSageYT Рік тому +5

      The experiment wasn't to check whether or not someone with obvious scars is discriminated against, it was to show that if you feel like a victim or if you are constantly told you are a victim you will take everything adverse as an attack.

    • @cd8048
      @cd8048 Рік тому +8

      ​@@PixelSageYTwell yeah, they had a "victim mentality" because the experiment asked them to look for discrimination, and it's very hard to do this kind of experiment without giving away the fact it's about discrimination, and there was apparently no accounting for changes in behaviour from the participants, it's basically not a good study lol

    • @PixelSageYT
      @PixelSageYT Рік тому +10

      @@cd8048 The point is that they primed people to look for discrimination. So everything that happened regardless of actual discrimination they attributed to them being the victim and discriminated against. Its a parallel to today's society where people are constantly being told they are victims and always feeling attacked or slighted. It isn't an exact science or a study, but more of a social experiment.

    • @cd8048
      @cd8048 Рік тому

      @@PixelSageYT yes the idea is simple but I'm saying the guy is an idiot lol 😂 obviously coopting the social science phenomenon of priming into a political message

    • @morose1990
      @morose1990 Рік тому +5

      ​@PixelSage no, they were told to look for discrimination specifically so they looked for it I don't think any of the people with scars were acting like victims they were just doing what they were told

  • @twsteele1977
    @twsteele1977 Рік тому +25

    One of these day's I'll figure out who "they" are and convince them to peer review their "findings"

  • @micahchaney1904
    @micahchaney1904 Рік тому

    I LOVE these types of experiments. I wish we would all sit back and reflect on what these results tell us. Now, I've got to find this experiment to confirm what was said here.

  • @onceamusician5408
    @onceamusician5408 Рік тому +532

    describes the whole victimhood narrative to a T. well done sir

    • @realitymatters8720
      @realitymatters8720 Рік тому

      Except when people ARE being victimized !
      Funny how you excluded that one..
      Are you a psychopath ?

    • @kingpeer14
      @kingpeer14 Рік тому

      there we have the next fool who thinks 'he know the truth' about something that is not a statement, my god you must be american....

    • @Buildinc1
      @Buildinc1 Рік тому +1

      Lol and I bet if you show them this they would call you racist for doing so. 🙈

    • @SamplingPercussion
      @SamplingPercussion Рік тому

      So white victimhood is a real thing then. Good point.

    • @barrydlive4602
      @barrydlive4602 Рік тому +1

      ​@@grantquinones ¿ juice ?

  • @dennisjones2414
    @dennisjones2414 Рік тому +102

    As a scared up man I can honestly say the average person is uncomfortable around someone with visible scars or disabilities it's on the "scared" to deal with it, it's just human nature

    • @MariaMaria-sr8zg
      @MariaMaria-sr8zg Рік тому +3

      I guess it depends on your environment . I dated a man for around 7 years who was burned over 90 percent of his body, including his face.He also had lost half an arm and his other arm and hand were burned badly as well. He said he was never discriminated against for it ,that he was aware of anyway, and rarely did he notice any people who were outwardly uncomfortable around him. Maybe people were uncomfortable but they didn't show it. Many people may have opinions based on what they have experienced and it seems like one thing is normal to some and not to others. There can be a lot of anecdotal evidence for situations.

    • @Karma-qt4ji
      @Karma-qt4ji Рік тому +4

      I have 6 skin grafts on my face alone from skin cancer excisions; first ones in 2008 and latest ones in January this year with more to follow. Being naturally fair skinned, the donor sites have always been areas that have not seen much sun at all -for I have an appendectomy scar where I never had my appendix removed lol - so there is a significant colour match for most of them.
      I can say in all honesty that strangers are uncomfortable around me and agree completely that that is exactly how society has programmed us.
      BUT.... it has never affected me at any job interview. Maybe because I am a guy?

    • @nicerides9224
      @nicerides9224 Рік тому +5

      The people you deal with are probably scared to say something about your scars or look like they are fixating on them. Not because they are scared of you. They don't want you to feel offended.

    • @cewkietron6571
      @cewkietron6571 Рік тому

      Humans, sadly are just naturally frightened by other humans who look radically different from most, especially from injury. On some primitive level we fear going through the same thing. But 100% agree that we should be empathetic and see past that with our conscious mind instead of our innate fears.

    • @JagLCUK
      @JagLCUK Рік тому +2

      *scarred, not scared. 🙏🏽😇💜☝🏽🫡

  • @This1sS0Stup1d
    @This1sS0Stup1d Рік тому +5

    This is the only reference I’ve seen to this study from a reputable source (the NYT): “Dr. Robert Cleck, a psychologist at Dartmouth College, has devised an experiment that illustrates how body image affects how people think. Using theatrical makeup, researchers fashioned a scar on female subjects before their interaction with a stranger hired for the experiment. Unbeknown to the women, the scar was removed before the face-to-face conversation with the stranger. Nevertheless, the women said the stranger had stared at the scar and made them uncomfortable.”
    They reported discomfort, not discrimination.

    • @sedunker5485
      @sedunker5485 Рік тому

      So what you're saying is that this guy was primed by his preexisting belief that "wokeism" is a problem, to read more into this study than was really there?

  • @user-ty5fd9hr2q
    @user-ty5fd9hr2q 8 місяців тому +3

    WHERE IS THE LINK TO THE STUDY?

  • @tenwaystowearit
    @tenwaystowearit Рік тому +8

    Your perception creates your reality. I always remind myself of that and my experiences as a Black person have been very unique. I refuse to feel oppressed and restricted. I refuse that reality. ✌🏾♥️

  • @StackingSurfer
    @StackingSurfer Рік тому +45

    Yup, people need to get past themselves and have internal confidence. What we have in the world today is a lack of knowing everyone is a beautiful child of God and we have every right to be confident knowing so. Love one another, help one another and love yourself.

    • @davidmorgan6896
      @davidmorgan6896 Рік тому +1

      Easily said.

    • @khajiithadwares2263
      @khajiithadwares2263 Рік тому

      Problem with all "We need to have theses" just as the "We need to be tolerant" is that is will mostly reflect in those that want to be that way, people that have no moral compass, children, the unread, will continue to discriminate freely at their leisure.
      Do Videogames increase violence? No, violent games appeal to people of that mentality, its an outlet of something thats already there.

  • @unchaineDLife
    @unchaineDLife Рік тому +53

    Oh I LOVE this.

  • @bnjm8868
    @bnjm8868 Рік тому

    Absolutely correct. It primes people to look for what they have been told. They come to have a predisposition with preconceived notions.

  • @lucasley20
    @lucasley20 Рік тому +15

    Exactly! If you're looking to be offended, you will find things that offend you.

  • @juneevans4394
    @juneevans4394 Рік тому +352

    Preach! I actually have a recent facial scar from surgery, and I just go on being my usual self, but I was very surprised to find most people didn't even notice it!

    • @metal4summer
      @metal4summer Рік тому +6

      Everybody notice dude, or it might really be unnoticable. But as someone who was burned on one half of my face, a lot of people ask me about it all the time, i just dont belive you😂

    • @benjaminmolnar3881
      @benjaminmolnar3881 Рік тому

      I got a laceration near my eye from a biking accident that needed 19 stitches. Just got them taken out today. Pretty mixed feelings about it. I hope it heals well. I know I just need to accept it but I wish it never happened.

    • @XWierdThingsHappenX
      @XWierdThingsHappenX Рік тому +3

      ​@@benjaminmolnar3881 get some silicon gel or silicon patches. Make sure to massage the scar daily. This really helps make your scar fade. I've been doing it with mine and it's faded a bunch and no longer feels ropey after 2 months.

    • @benjaminmolnar3881
      @benjaminmolnar3881 Рік тому +1

      @XWierdThingsHappenX I got the Mederma advanced scar gel, I was told to use it after the wound closes. You think this is good? Would you recommend something else?

    • @XWierdThingsHappenX
      @XWierdThingsHappenX Рік тому +3

      @@benjaminmolnar3881 I would recommend actual silicon gel. Which has been clinicly proven to help reduce scars. Mederma hasn't been as throughly tested. The number one recommend is silicon.

  • @TundraCrow
    @TundraCrow Рік тому +115

    Should have recorded the interviews and shown the ladies their body langue and facial expressions and ask them questions about how they were feeling in that moment believing they had something wrong with them and how it changed the way they behaved in the interview.

    • @kim-urban-edwards2083
      @kim-urban-edwards2083 Рік тому +26

      I'm sure they would have, if this experiment ever took place. It did not. This is a complete invention he's making up to support his biases.

    • @smallone2351
      @smallone2351 Рік тому

      I mean... that's literally what they did. He said that in the video

    • @L3adb3lly
      @L3adb3lly Рік тому +24

      They did record the "interviews" which weren't actually interviews. This study did not happen anything like what Kisin, the man in this video, is describing. He misrepresented both the method and the results. Maybe that's why he didn't say what the study was, or who conducted it.
      The study is called, Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued characteristics on social interaction by Robert Kleck of Dartmouth College 1980

    • @L3adb3lly
      @L3adb3lly Рік тому +9

      @@kim-urban-edwards2083 its a real study, limited, and grossly misrepresented in this video, but it did happen.
      Perceptions of the impact of negatively valued characteristics on social interaction

    • @samrobotsin
      @samrobotsin Рік тому +12

      @@kim-urban-edwards2083 exactly: For one, it's not an experiment because they didn't have a control group. Second, he makes a leap to his conclusion on objective data based on unrelated subjective data: We don't know if the discrimination exists because they didn't do that experiment, only that they felt discriminated based on their observations; but their observations were manipulated by being lied to about their appearance. Discrimination statistics have nothing to do with "feelings" they have to do with observable, objective data regarding hiring practices.

  • @mark2designs607
    @mark2designs607 Рік тому

    1000% TRUTH! Same with micro aggressions and unconscious bias. Not that these things don’t happen, but the degree to which people are victims of these things vs reality.

  • @pikaskew
    @pikaskew Рік тому +14

    That’s not exactly how the Dartmouth scar experiment was conducted, and that is not the conclusion that came out of the study. Yes the participants did have different gaze patterns when they thought they had a scar. Or in other words, yes they felt more self conscious. But that study did not prove that discrimination doesn’t exist. Which is the unfortunate awful take from this whole “anti-woke” movement.

    • @justadude1443
      @justadude1443 Рік тому +9

      Yep, it's total BS, and a disingenuous take on the study. I don't care either way, but I hate this deliberate lie.

    • @pikaskew
      @pikaskew Рік тому +6

      @@justadude1443 Thanks for speaking up about this is well. While this “there is no discrimination” propaganda movement is nothing new, I’ve been noticing it more and more on social media. Just hoping not a lot of people buy into the BS as the consequence is we start seeing further support for legislation that marginalizes groups of people. Another critique of this video is it primarily targets women where the study was actually near equal parts men and women, with slightly more men.
      If you’re stumbling on this discussion, pay attention to videos like these, find the actual studies (not news articles as there are too many propaganda sites that zero in on obscure topics like these and amplify false narratives). Dispel the negative connotation of “wokeism” as it is simply a propaganda campaign to ensure valid complaints and concerns cannot be recognized.

    • @angelawilliams599
      @angelawilliams599 Рік тому +2

      Moreover, the study actually included both sexes with more male participants than female (27:21). Stating that a group of women perceived a discriminatory bias where there couldn't have been any is rather disingenuously suggesting that women are more prone to this phenomenon when in fact there may have been no difference between either group. He does himself no service when he uses a study to support his narrative but misinforms the audience about the said study.

  • @cnrspiller3549
    @cnrspiller3549 Рік тому +6

    And that's why we should ignore micro aggressions. They're imagined aggressions.

  • @mattcorregan4760
    @mattcorregan4760 Рік тому +114

    The old placebo effect, just applied in another discipline. Makes total sense.

    • @DonnyNoMarie
      @DonnyNoMarie Рік тому +2

      Are we pretending that prejudices don't exist?

    • @agentstaple1
      @agentstaple1 Рік тому +1

      @@DonnyNoMarie No, we're saying the world is not black and white and we should be very very careful of how we view and measure it. Balance in all things.

    • @cs5384
      @cs5384 Рік тому +2

      No that's not placebo effect.

    • @vibaj16
      @vibaj16 Рік тому

      @@cs5384 It's related to it

  • @noras.9774
    @noras.9774 10 місяців тому

    A great experiment! The lack of confidence and preconceived ideas!