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  • @StoicQuotes365
    @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому +1

    Epicurus' advice about surrounding ourselves with those who elevate us is a game-changer. It really makes you reflect on the impact of your inner circle. This video perfectly encapsulates how stoic philosophy can help us filter out negativity and embrace personal growth. Thanks for these insights!

  • @japhethodudu6445
    @japhethodudu6445 11 місяців тому +13

    I have encountered the Victim, Gossiped, Complainer, Pessimist, etc BUT I have chosen to guard my space from all anything that does not positively influence my growth in this journey of life.

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому +1

      Wise decision! In the realm of Stoicism, guarding your inner citadel against negativity aligns with the pursuit of virtue and tranquility. May your commitment to positive influences continue to fortify your journey. If there are specific aspects you'd like to explore or discuss, feel free to share. Here's to a flourishing and Stoic path ahead.

    • @StoicQuotes365
      @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому

      The comparison between complainers and leaky faucets draining your energy is such a powerful metaphor! It reminds me that mental peace is something we should actively protect. Stoicism truly teaches us to focus on what we can control, and I love how this video breaks it all down.

  • @AllanTanui
    @AllanTanui 11 місяців тому +10

    Yes I last night a person I know she would be a couple of these at once. She is a complainer and also has a victim mentality and also a bit of manipulation in her in how she acts and comes across.
    But I am trying to cut her out of my life slowly. And when around her I use a strategy in stoic philosophy of semi detachment, and mirror with a positive or get her to try thinking a different perspective sometimes too.
    These videos are very helpful
    I've only begun my stoic life now for a week but in this week I feel so much better in my mind and mood and attitudes towards life in general so thank you again 😊

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому +6

      Sounds like you've got a one-person Stoic Olympics going on there! Dealing with a complainer, a victim, and a master manipulator? That's some serious multitasking. Slowly cutting them out while maintaining Stoic semi-detachment deserves a gold medal. Keep mirroring that positivity and offering new perspectives - you're like the Zen master of life gymnastics! Here's to more weeks of feeling awesome and Stoic victories! 🏅🤸‍♂️

  • @Sig.Angelina9765
    @Sig.Angelina9765 11 місяців тому +4

    valuable video and teaching. This describes many many people. Guess that's why they say: An honest man is 1 in a 1000 and You're lucky if you ever find 1 true friend. Makes for a small world.

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому +1

      I'm glad you found the video valuable, and your observation reflects the challenges many people face in finding genuine connections. Quality over quantity in relationships is indeed a principle that resonates with Stoicism. If there are specific aspects you'd like to discuss further or if you have any questions, feel free to share. Here's to meaningful connections in your journey!

  • @ernestgreen254
    @ernestgreen254 11 місяців тому +3

    Love when you guys say ELEVATE SELF

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      I'm glad you resonate with the concept of elevating self! Empowering oneself is a key aspect of personal growth. Here's to your continuous journey of elevation and self-discovery! 🚀🌿

    • @StoicQuotes365
      @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому

      I appreciate how this video sheds light on the subtle ways certain people can derail our progress. The 'drama magnet' section really hit home-sometimes you don’t even realize how much emotional chaos you're absorbing until it’s too late. Stoic philosophy is such a great tool for reclaiming our focus and energy!

  • @bentabaquero8488
    @bentabaquero8488 11 місяців тому +2

    I have encountered all of them, Thank you for shedding light on this matter,. It highlighted the persons i have to avoid.Thank you.

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      Got it, thank you for sharing your insights. Your comment has really helped me recognize the people I need to steer clear of. Much appreciated.

  • @jenniferchristineberg-scha2279
    @jenniferchristineberg-scha2279 11 місяців тому +2

    this is the best one ive heard yet. fantastic jobbinz guys!!!!

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for the enthusiastic praise! I'm thrilled to hear that you found it the best so far.

  • @lindaesmerada
    @lindaesmerada 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for this information

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      You're very welcome! In the spirit of Stoicism, may this information empower you on your journey to wisdom and self-mastery. 🌿🙏

  • @yvonnespencer4463
    @yvonnespencer4463 11 місяців тому +3

    HI I like the positive side it helps you to think about more things on the good side of life God bless you thanks for your thoughts have abless day ❤.

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      Hello! I'm glad the positive perspective resonates with you. May the Stoic insights continue to bring positivity and a broader outlook to your life. Thank you for your kind words, and may you have a blessed day as well.

  • @ericsonjavier747
    @ericsonjavier747 5 місяців тому +1

    The secret competitor should be in the list...

  • @tinamann3400
    @tinamann3400 11 місяців тому +2

    Love the narrative voice

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      Thanks a bunch! If my voice had a fan club, you'd be the president.

  • @buzzsanji
    @buzzsanji 11 місяців тому +3

    The toxic positivist or being pessimistic they are self centre ppl only , they really not care about other ppl feeling

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому +2

      Indeed, the Stoic perspective values rationality and virtuous behavior. Balancing optimism without denying reality and approaching challenges with resilience fosters a more mindful and compassionate approach to others. Let us strive for a Stoic equilibrium in our interactions. 🌿🤝

  • @razaff6871
    @razaff6871 11 місяців тому +2

    they are like a whirpool they suck you in their vortex of chaos.. "vortex of chaos" that may seem a good name for a metal band

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      Your analogy of a 'vortex of chaos' is vivid, capturing the challenging dynamics some individuals bring into our lives. In Stoicism, recognizing external influences beyond our control is key. Naming challenges, like a 'vortex of chaos,' can indeed bring a sense of perspective. May your Stoic journey help navigate these whirlpools with resilience and inner calm. And yes, 'Vortex of Chaos' does have a certain metal band ring to it! 🌪️🤘

  • @dj.btrevahworld8816
    @dj.btrevahworld8816 11 місяців тому +3

    True🌱👑

  • @virginiaholzer7358
    @virginiaholzer7358 11 місяців тому +1

    Thanks ♥

  • @RyanNelly
    @RyanNelly 11 місяців тому +3

    How do you stay away from a toxic positivist and be happy within no matter what? Isn't that the same thing?

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому +1

      In navigating relationships, especially with a toxic positivist, Stoicism suggests maintaining inner tranquility. It involves recognizing what we can control, choosing virtue, and fostering resilience in the face of external circumstances. Striving for happiness within is distinct from toxic positivity-it's about cultivating genuine contentment grounded in wisdom and virtue. May your journey be one of steady serenity and growth. If you have further insights or questions, feel free to share.

    • @dj.btrevahworld8816
      @dj.btrevahworld8816 11 місяців тому

      Mindset

    • @RyanNelly
      @RyanNelly 10 місяців тому

      Seems like a lot of stoicism might be summed up with 'trust your gut

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  10 місяців тому

      Certainly, @@RyanNelly
      Trusting your intuition aligns with Stoicism's emphasis on rationality. Stoicism encourages a deliberate examination of situations, assessing them objectively. When dealing with a toxic positivist, applying Stoic principles involves understanding our reactions, evaluating toxic influences, and maintaining inner tranquility through reasoned responses. It's not about blind positivity but a thoughtful and rational approach to challenges.

  • @benjaminoutfkirt9556
    @benjaminoutfkirt9556 11 місяців тому +2

    Am genuinely curious

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      Curiosity is a wonderful trait! It opens doors to new knowledge and experiences, fostering continuous learning and personal growth. Embrace your curiosity, and let it guide you on a journey of discovery.

    • @benjaminoutfkirt9556
      @benjaminoutfkirt9556 11 місяців тому +1

      Amen, thank you for sharing knowledge, stay up and blessed, am a huge fan of this channel, keep up the good work.

  • @prissillasegura6615
    @prissillasegura6615 11 місяців тому +2

    👏🏼❤

  • @Surveilancepredators
    @Surveilancepredators 11 місяців тому +1

    What people? I don't have any friends

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      Friends? Who needs 'em when you've got an awesome UA-cam community like ours!

  • @caslahao2359
    @caslahao2359 11 місяців тому +2

    Yes, but why does the statue have double nipples though? Not complaining; I am just curious all the time.

    • @Stoicism.Everyday101
      @Stoicism.Everyday101  11 місяців тому

      Haha, the artist must have been inspired by ancient mythology and avant-garde fashion! As for the double nipples, it's all in the name of artistic AI expression. Our virtual sculptor got a bit creative. Modern art, right? 🤷‍♂️🎨