One Key Factor That Separates Players From Other Men

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  • @okayranks
    @okayranks Рік тому +227

    I’ve actually seen this in person. The key factor that I’ve observed is he’s extremely comfortable around women. How do you get comfortable? Be around MORE women.

    • @kwamd.1461
      @kwamd.1461 Рік тому +10

      Truth!!!

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 Рік тому +20

      Yep and this is hard for inexperienced guys or guys that don’t have good experiences with women. I know a guy that is 33 years old - he had a handful
      If bad experiences with women in his early 20s so he stopped trying to meet them. Years go by and now he’s 33, his social skills are weak and his confidence is low and anxiety high. His inexperience alone will have most women looking at him strangely

    • @imtired10000
      @imtired10000 Рік тому +2

      Facts

  • @1Techdrawer
    @1Techdrawer Рік тому +116

    Exactly, sometimes it’s just nice to be around cooperative women whether it’s at work or socially. I lost count how many times I felt a little low but I had a woman just be nice to me or exchange a few words without any sexual tension and that instantly raised my spirits. Women can be an asset to man just by existing in his space, no matter the setting.

  • @jholliday3
    @jholliday3 Рік тому +80

    This works in sales too. You can't try to hard to get deals. It has to flow.

  • @adriangarcia1210
    @adriangarcia1210 8 місяців тому +17

    I noticed what has helped me is having female colleagues and working in an industry with female customers. I remember I used to get clowned back in the day when friends would see me with a woman who they deemed a "5". That 5 would rock my world, take me to dinner and a trip to Mens warehouse.

  • @SongmanKK
    @SongmanKK 2 місяці тому +4

    You have to get comfortable around women, and even better when it's with more than one woman at the same time, just talking about anything, but mostly listening, as the more relaxed they are, the more secrets they'll reveal, and the more you'll learn about them.

  • @IRONNECK5
    @IRONNECK5 Рік тому +104

    Being friends w women is underrated. My homegirl set me up w her friend cuz i was just cool. I dated her friend for 5 years

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 11 місяців тому

      Were you tryna get with the friend?

    • @greendottedtoad2.018
      @greendottedtoad2.018 7 місяців тому +4

      Fr i wish i didn’t listen to redpill youtubers when i was in high school saying that you should never be friends with women which is some bs

    • @rustyray420
      @rustyray420 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@greendottedtoad2.018 cant understand women if youre never around them, even as friends. You get first hand insight to how they think and operate plus the homegirls will tell the types of games these chicks run.
      Those redpillers never been around women like that thats why theyre so salty 😂

    • @francisikwueme1688
      @francisikwueme1688 4 місяці тому +3

      @@rustyray420facts this is the key most of these guys don’t get . From high school to college , college track team to the workforce I have been around beautiful women mostly non transactional. So the mystique of a beautiful woman is removed and you really get to understand and be comfortable around women.

    • @dna8269
      @dna8269 3 місяці тому

      Female friends are fire. Childish dudes online demonizing it just leaves more for the rest of us

  • @Dru2maBoii
    @Dru2maBoii Рік тому +146

    Dudes underestimate the power of just making a woman feel comfortable around you. They're so focused on getting what they want that they don't recognize that most women want to give it to you. Dudes often take themselves out of the game.

    • @Mainomane226
      @Mainomane226 Рік тому +37

      I tell cats don't even think about sex. Just stay in the moment and let everything flow

    • @kwamd.1461
      @kwamd.1461 Рік тому +22

      Barsssss💯🔥real spill man. When a woman is comfortable around you, that can pretty much lead to you getting some🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Dru2maBoii
      @Dru2maBoii Рік тому +3

      @@Mainomane226 exactly.

    • @Dru2maBoii
      @Dru2maBoii Рік тому +3

      @@kwamd.1461 yessir

    • @bendiesel7356
      @bendiesel7356 5 місяців тому

      😊​@@Mainomane226

  • @vision2682
    @vision2682 Рік тому +80

    Oxygen will keep you existing,Money will keep you living ..
    Rom Wills

  • @domthagreat4065
    @domthagreat4065 Рік тому +37

    12:52 Man 18-20 year old me needed to hear that. Ive fumbled too mnay times by being too aggressive

  • @kwamd.1461
    @kwamd.1461 Рік тому +42

    Facts!!! Some guys are surprised I can be cool with women and not wanna have sex with them. Being cool with women can take you places, it can unlock other opportunities for you💯

  • @cadillacboy-lg2dl
    @cadillacboy-lg2dl Рік тому +67

    Once u can truly control being intimate with a woman and truly mean it u are now in control of every interaction with a woman

  • @theblkgod1
    @theblkgod1 Рік тому +51

    “Play it cool, that’s an old school rule.” 💯

  • @skeelo6219
    @skeelo6219 Рік тому +31

    Another fantastic one 👌🏾 I will tell u just one thing that sets u apart. U don't sound scripted! It's a guys just chilling having a good conversation kind of vibe

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  Рік тому +10

      I just say what's on my mind.

  • @GMANN83
    @GMANN83 Місяць тому

    True Rom 👌🏿
    Playas can be very nonchalant, the one that has the least concern has the most control 👌🏿

  • @golfforelife3439
    @golfforelife3439 Рік тому +21

    So true on platonic friends hooking you up with women they know. Great video as always 💪🔥

  • @keanurives8724
    @keanurives8724 Рік тому +14

    Bro your so underrated on this site, your wisdom is so high level as man in my mid 20's thank you.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 Рік тому +47

    I have told a number of women that I have a lady and they come at me harder

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  Рік тому +41

      Women love taking a man from a situation.

  • @kjahmbanso
    @kjahmbanso Рік тому +10

    Yup 👍🏾 this stuff is really observation. If you grew up around girls they will tell on themselves everytime it’s not hard to get the info. Even if you want her that info might turn you off if you don’t like what you hearing or noticing.

  • @thomasvogelsinger4007
    @thomasvogelsinger4007 Рік тому +20

    Love the way you keep it simple
    Body game style good and fun conversation and you are good to go

  • @Imthesoulofthes
    @Imthesoulofthes Рік тому +5

    The Cool Uncle is at it Again!

  • @bossplayermfs5972
    @bossplayermfs5972 Рік тому +31

    Educating, gems, and wisdom all wrapped into one of this well done brother Rom 😎✊🏽💪🏽💪🏽💯.

  • @armondjames6154
    @armondjames6154 Рік тому +19

    He in the corner, eating his Buffalo wings, lol 😂

  • @domthagreat4065
    @domthagreat4065 Рік тому +15

    Speaking on style if you living a cold weather area style probably matters just as much body game since you're gonna be covered up for half the year. Doesnt always wear designer or dress clothes but at least keep your clothes ironed and invest in shoes more thab your shirts & pants

    • @KBREESH
      @KBREESH Рік тому +3

      And a nice jacket

    • @blackshadexl
      @blackshadexl Рік тому +2

      Stay well groomed too. Keep that beard looking nice and fresh…

  • @loudoggmo
    @loudoggmo Рік тому +1

    All kinds of excellent advice! What you are saying are facts! And even at the end about taking advice from millionaires not the 9-5ers. And they aren’t the enemy. I like the saying that, “when you understand how the system works, the system works for you”

  • @jholliday3
    @jholliday3 Рік тому +1

    We came up saying Mackin...McDonald's use to say it's Mac 2NITE. We use to say that before entering the party.

  • @jholliday3
    @jholliday3 Рік тому +19

    You gave them a million dollar worth of game today.

  • @kelvinjennings7021
    @kelvinjennings7021 Рік тому +2

    Gems on gems man

  • @casillasangel
    @casillasangel Рік тому +3

    Rom you the best to do this

  • @thomasvogelsinger4007
    @thomasvogelsinger4007 Рік тому +4

    Great video
    You are saving lives uncle rom

  • @ellisjackson3355
    @ellisjackson3355 Рік тому +29

    It is definitely liberating to be able to be around women without wanting to or having to sleep with them. I would categorize this one in the mindset component of your philosophy. Players and general women magnets do not worry about getting friend zoned when they can be around women without trying to sleep with them do they? How do they not get friend zoned as frequently? Do they not care?

    • @blackshadexl
      @blackshadexl Рік тому +12

      It’s the “idgaf” mindset bro lol

    • @kwamd.1461
      @kwamd.1461 Рік тому +9

      Yup, they don’t care

    • @datguy9408
      @datguy9408 Рік тому +8

      It’s only really considered the friend zone if you are consistently wanting some while she sees you non-sexual.

    • @rustyray420
      @rustyray420 6 місяців тому

      Cant be friendzoned if you already cool being friends with em

  • @TrillBill
    @TrillBill Рік тому +8

    13:02 Tranquility is often the result of Sexual Confidence ☮

  • @klccostello1273
    @klccostello1273 Рік тому +3

    Catching up on the content...bruh you dropping too much fire. I might have to flagged the page...jk. 😅😅😅. Keep it coming fam

  • @jaguargod_33
    @jaguargod_33 Місяць тому +1

    The difference between Pimpin and Mackin is that Pimpin is illegal as akin to the difference between tax evasion and tax avoidance.

  • @2KALLDAY6641
    @2KALLDAY6641 4 місяці тому

    Spittin big facts brotha 💪🏿

  • @mro977
    @mro977 10 місяців тому

    I enjoyed the ride OG

  • @kidzextraordinaire
    @kidzextraordinaire Рік тому

    Deep game right here🙏🏾

  • @TheOneJPtv
    @TheOneJPtv Рік тому +3

    OG Rom Wills keep dropping good game 👍🏾

  • @hpeezy58
    @hpeezy58 Рік тому +1

    Always good listening to brother Rom…thanks again 💯

  • @MrKwatts27
    @MrKwatts27 Рік тому +1

    You killed it Unc.. I know, I know, that’s what she said 😂🤴🏾

  • @myattsr4405
    @myattsr4405 Рік тому +1

    you speaking Truth bruh...💯

  • @Waakiyl01
    @Waakiyl01 Рік тому +1

    I felt this one.Salute.Many gems.

  • @nelsoncruz184
    @nelsoncruz184 Рік тому +1

    Lol “
    Cherry Pie “ love it .

  • @datguy9408
    @datguy9408 Рік тому

    Teaching myself this mindset 💪

  • @SACREDFlRE
    @SACREDFlRE Рік тому

    Thankyou for this word Uncle Rom

  • @roncall6065
    @roncall6065 Рік тому

    Another Classic OG

  • @marlonious7650
    @marlonious7650 Рік тому +7

    Women can sense thirst.

  • @rastafit23
    @rastafit23 Рік тому +1

    Sit in my corner n eat my wings on cheat day out the gym n watch the game n go hit up work the next day LMAO . What’s up player 😂💪🏾

  • @shawnhazel8208
    @shawnhazel8208 Рік тому +5

    Players know not to play chase with women - they always giving away - even if it’s not you

  • @leandromorales7599
    @leandromorales7599 Рік тому +1

    Hello rom, its been awhile since ive been watching your content and listening to you, ive changed mentally aswell as physically, i see women in a different light and i do have this love for them as they were one of my own, ive been having relations and have started a relationship with one in particular, i was hoping to feel different you know, more full in a sense but i still feel a emptyness inside, women are such a beautiful part of this life still and i enjoy being with them and spending time with them despites these empty feelings, i guess the reality of things not being so much like a disney romance is a little strong and everything centers around some type of value.
    Are players and nice guys both different sides of the same coin?
    Are men more emotional than woman? I cant help but see the lines of which is which blurred as i come to know myself and both genders
    Kind regards, wish you well

  • @ResilientBeing1987
    @ResilientBeing1987 Рік тому +5

    I am a 35-year-old single "black" woman who has just discovered your channel. Although your channel seems to be geared more towards men, I was just wondering if you have a video addressing personal hygiene issues with men and women? I've watched some of your videos about body game and dressing sharp, but personal hygiene is an issue amongst men and women too. I've had men friends and relatives who talk about how they have smelled women during sex, especially when they're hitting it from the back. I've had women friends complain about how men smell bad in their private areas as well despite looking good, being well dressed, and wearing expensive cologne. I too had a boyfriend some time ago who didn't last long because he was musty all the time. He treated me well but couldn't get that hygiene together. How are there grown men and women out here who don't know how to clean themselves properly? Do you think it also has to do with poor dieting? I think that could be a factor because certain foods come out of your pores and make your feces smell worse on the way out.

    • @headhoncho4890
      @headhoncho4890 Рік тому +1

      Personal hygiene is a must. How can somebody feel comfortable enough to have sex or be around ANYBODY if they ain’t fresh. A shower and deodorant is all it takes . I can speak to womens hygiene but grooming and shaving goes along with it private parts as well.

    • @blackwolverine1
      @blackwolverine1 9 місяців тому +2

      That's what's up Sis, I have had that problem with some women. And when I brought it up to them. It was a huge problem. Their egos are shattered when I call them out on that. I came to find out that, there a few Men and Women who have bad hygiene. Based on the fact, they suffer from Depression or some psychological issues. Aside from that, I just think some folks, are just plain lazy.

    • @ResilientBeing1987
      @ResilientBeing1987 9 місяців тому +1

      @@blackwolverine1 💯 and then you have those who were not properly taught by their guardian growing up how to thoroughly clean themselves in those areas that don't see the sun.

    • @blackwolverine1
      @blackwolverine1 9 місяців тому +1

      @@ResilientBeing1987 Cringe Worthy, can never be me, NEVEEERRR!!!

    • @ResilientBeing1987
      @ResilientBeing1987 9 місяців тому

      @@blackwolverine1 💯

  • @camroncorner854
    @camroncorner854 10 місяців тому

    I don't press, I'm gettin chose.

  • @davidfrancis4200
    @davidfrancis4200 6 місяців тому

    ..you know ur stuff

  • @pimpgodnation2590
    @pimpgodnation2590 Рік тому +5

    ROM, YOU SPEAKING MY LANGUAGE... FO' SHO... I THINK WE CALL IT: "THE POWER OF BEING CHOSE..."

  • @rellconnects4695
    @rellconnects4695 Рік тому +8

    Pursue Yes but only when it’s worth it,
    Chase No , control the temperature be 😎 🆒
    I messed this one pretty cute chick up by falling back because I just lost interest in her

  • @rellconnects4695
    @rellconnects4695 Рік тому

    Back With Yet 🎬
    Another #CarVideo 🔑🎼🎹🗝️

  • @victorscott7982
    @victorscott7982 Рік тому

    PIMPIN GOTTA BE IN YA!! (ITS IN YA, NOT ON YA )

  • @sirizm510
    @sirizm510 Рік тому +15

    Keep Dropping GAME 🎯 Unc Rom , Don't Care Who don't like it.Pimps ,Players & Macks are Better than Lame Corn 🌽 Balls .I don't care who don't like it Y'all better with Computers😂 Stay in yo Lane.Jack ✌️Unc Rom💯

    • @SaintNarquis
      @SaintNarquis Рік тому +5

      Real talk I realize this as well I work with a lot of dorks and them dudes is some of the most catty jealous dudes u could ever come across they hate dudes that fly playerish real incell energy

  • @keyzraptor32gamer54
    @keyzraptor32gamer54 Рік тому +1

    💯💯

  • @TBlev215
    @TBlev215 Рік тому

    Well, I guess I ain’t a pimp then. Oh well. I got other aspects of my life I can work on.

  • @damanij9747
    @damanij9747 Рік тому +7

    You gotta have women to get women.

  • @MBScott10002
    @MBScott10002 Рік тому

    ,💪👑💪

  • @DenmarckAddams5657
    @DenmarckAddams5657 8 місяців тому

    #SAGE

  • @jaguargod_33
    @jaguargod_33 Місяць тому +1

    Macks(Real Men) are honest Womanizers. Macks have the attributes of players, pimps,and politicians. The power of a Mack (a Real Man) comes from Truth, Sovereignty aka Self-Mastery,and Self-Actualization.♟️♟️♟️🎱🎱🎱💈💈💈