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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- In today's episode Kevin & Melissa discuss what their parents' marriage taught them. Thank you to today's sponsors:
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I am single with no children, and these Love Hour episodes slap me in the face with truth EVERY SINGLE WEEK! This episode specifically shows me just how important it is to continue taking inventory not only of who I am, but also of who made me who I am and who made THEM who they are. God is so good! I wasn't going to watch this until later, but He knew I needed to start my day with some serious self-reflection. Melissa, you and your husband are doing God's work here. Trust and believe me.
Signed,
One of the MANY people you two help!
🙌🙌🙌listen!!! I'm over here free as a bird just absorbing ALL this wisdom and practicing what I can with my friends and family! they are helping people so much more than they even know!
@@elizabethh4329 👏👏👏
JulySummers listennnnn we are in the same boat!! I’m single with no kids yet either and listen to y’all helps me see me (if that makes sense). So glad I’m growing in who I am by being more self aware before I decide to join myself with a husband one day.
Kev went dark QUICK!! "Sure, they stole everything from us"😂😂😂
Kev be hyping Melissa up and I love it.
TeLisa Bearden here for the positive reinforcement!
That moment when Kev looked at Lis with love and said "i missed you so much when i was gone, i really like you". #sigh #love #thatsreal i love kev in this vid. and can Lis BE any more classy?
That's beautiful!! That's true love right there. They're both blessed
“Cause you don’t know how to submit “ 😂😂😂😂 y’all hilarious!!
Kevin be gasssiingg Melissa in the best way when she drop her nuggets. I love it!
It’s called learned behavior. Great episode. I’m not married or even dating but I get a lot out of the love hour. Thank you. I love the show.
Danielle McBrayer Love it too death ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Same here. I love it
Danielle McBrayer same girl
I would love to see an episode with both of y’all parents. This is good and telling
I just wanna say that your wife’s voice is amazing and so soothing. Omg😍😩
THIS right here!!!! I said the same thing! I actually said if cocoa butter had a sound it would be her voice. It's so smooth and soothing!
Melissa coming thru with the sweatshirts ❤🔥I can live in them 😍
Thank you!!
Generational curses are soooooooo real
Beautiful wife..she so pretty an talk intelligent. God bless you both.
47:06 Please be assured, we singles are absorbing everything yall share! This is so good for us!!!! AND we showing up to the conference. Let it be known. 🤷🏾♀️😂🤗❤
the way kev looks at his wife, nothing but LOVE and Pride
Bless my fathers soul, he worked since childhood to help provide for his material family after that got married he wore cheap clothes drove a broken down car to get to work so he could give my mom and siblings everything and still give back to his parents.
Ppl called my father dumb cuz if his giving , chill nature I call him a hero among men.
I hope I gain and I inherit his strength
I absolutely LOVE this podcast!!! Please, please, please, change the "That or This" jingle, it's not on par with the quality of the rest of the show.
Nunayo Dangbizness I thought I was the only one who didn’t like the jingle. I LOVE this show. But that jingle...in the words of Kev, “I don’t lahk it.”
I agree. It was cute when they first used it. But it’s time for an upgrade.
I bet Doboy would make a great jingle for them.
I smooth fast forward it 👀🤷🏾♀️
@@NayAwayy I second this motion 🖐️
Love the new intro. Just waiting for you to change the jingle to That or This with Kev and Liss. That explanation Kevin gave explains why we still have the current one 🤣
Yeaaa love the intro but change the jingle
Me too... "That or This with Kev and Liss"
OMG!!! I HATE THAT DANG JINGLE!!! I remove my ear buds every time. I cannot listen to it. It's like those crazy commercial jingles you hear & they stay in your head ALL DAY. I refuse to subject myself to that madness. I hope someone sends them something soon. If I was creative, I would, but mine eould be just as bad as what we're currently dealing with. Lol 🙄🤣
@@ffoster77 IKR 😂 But maybe it's their good friends and they don't want to hurt their feelings 😂
She ain't submissive 🤣
Uhmmm.... Mrs. Kev on Stage. "Predisposed to Silence" sure sounds like the name of your book, 😏...ijs.
Okayyy🙌
That part 👏🏼 that's a good one and could lead to some follow up books about breaking that silence....
I'm not married but I enjoy listening to Melissa... its great information for marriage and self care in marriage
I only watch UA-cam for the Fredricks! I can’t wait to attend the Conference, the whole church is coming!
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! Y’all are gonna be on Black Love I’m so excited for this season!
I love Kev & Melissa. These kind of conversations are truly needed in general & especially for black church.
GOD IS AMAZING! He knows exactly what we need and who we need it from!
You're so right!!!
I love your podcast. Y'all be low key preaching.
At 24 minutes I was going to say Joshua needs a mic. Then Melissa & KevOnStage already said it. I'm truly thankful for everyone who participates on these podcast so most definitely Josh needs a mic
As a single woman this is good information.
Loss: My feet hurt.
Kev: take your bra off.
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right!! lol
Yoooooo Kev’s face at 11:28! Somebody forgot to put their phone on silent. Those eye blinks said it all! 😂
Shay Walker I saw it too😂😂
Shay Walker that was joshy Gonz🤣🤣🤣
I listened to this episode a couple times but for some reason I’m crying. Your relationship is a ministry. 😭🙏🏾
I’m not married nor in a relationship at this time and I love this podcast! You both help to thinking about and heed to certain things regarding relationships. With all that being said, thank you and continue the amazing work ! 🙌🏾
Maaaan this was raw and vulnerable. Thank you Melissa. I want to be a guest on the show after I get married and 5 years have elapsed. Just to thank you guys for showing me a positive BLACK MARRIAGE. So inspiring, even with you guys entrepreneurship. That cycle I just realized I am passing down to my children. Jesus take the wheel... 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 single person and I definitely learn something every video
I'm not married and I LOVE this show! I learn sooooooo much from this podcast and I LOVEEEEE it! I seriously look forward to these episodes. I am a parent also, so this helps me immensely.
OMGosh!!! I can't express enough how wonderful your message has helped me. Liz you are so articulate and Kev you are a great husband.
Melissa, I cannot even put into words how helpful your vulnerability is. I am consistently blown away by how you are so eloquently able to put into words the feelings that have been stuck in my throat for years. And I am sooooo grateful for that. I truly thank God for both of you being marriage champions.
I allllllwaaaaays talk about women having an identity aside from the roles we fill. Be you but also be the wife and the mother. You’re not the roles you feel 100% of the time and it’s healthy to ensure self love anyway
Barely halfway through and so much truth already! My husband and I are currently in counseling and I’ll be sharing this episode with him. It will give us a lot to examine and talk about.
Can we get a new jingle??? I'm begging you 😂😂 I think most don't like it...I know I'm not the only one!
I think I'm the only person that likes it, lol!
You're definitely not the only one 😂
Ejuerleigh Jones I just think it has a catchy tune. I sing along every time, lol!!
Never told one lie 🗣
@@latresemilton6729 ok good!!
Man, y'all got some GREAT sponsors this time!!!! I'm already on Audible, but I've already been to Native AND Third Love sites and am 100% sure that I'm about to order BOTH!!!! (Meanwhile, my husband might stop me from watching this show because my spending habits are getting shaky!!! lol)
When I tell y’all, I feel like GOD put this topic into Kev and Melissa’s mind for ME!! I have so many predispositions from my parents marriage that I am now aware of in my first year of marriage!! My mother was a stay at home mother and her number one message for me was to NEVA put my marriage above my individuality!! Now that we are thinking about growing our family, I feel like I need to sit down and write all my predispositions!! 🤣
This was my fav poddy thus far! Got me wanting to send it to my parents so that I can get some things off my chest lol!!!
My parent's marriage taught me (specifically my mother) to stick it out throughout it all, hold the marriage together in the background and be a strong supporter. These lessons proved to be good lessons but they also sometimes provide discord because they made me develop a dominant personality within my relationship that I sometimes have to suppress.
This podcast has to be one of my favs...... life changing.
Yes Kev, I’m single and love hearing advice about marriage to help me know what type of mate I want and what kind of relationship I want. Thanks y’all for your transparency.
Latisha exactly!! I want to be a great wife one day
Britanie Williams exactly!! Better to learn now
I paused this at 47:14 and I wanted to comment and let you know that I am a single young woman, going on 4 years, and I ABSOLUTELY LOVE this show. I told my sister about this podcast, she is happily married and she also loves it! don't think that you are not hitting the ears and speaking to the souls of single people lol we are listening and paying close attention to the gems y'all be dropping so please keep it up #MarriageWarriors
Communication is the key I'm a newlywed and I stay communicating oh it gets tough but at least my husband says ok I hear you. My kids are well communicator cause of me and I am so happy about that there are times where you just want to stay silent but speak it out
I aspire to be as great at communicating as your family
@@cmbsr4851 right!! Especially with my future family
I am single, raised in church, and in my 20s. This podcast has helped me realize a lot of things about myself that I didn’t understand before. It’s wonderful when you hear someone say something and your first reaction is “wow, it’s not just me.”
I’m not married. Never been married. Not even in a relationship. But (and I forgot which episode it was) when I found this podcast, I went looking for as many of them as I could find. And I think it was probably in December of last year. I listen to this as part of my life routine. Every Friday while doing chores. I’m walking around with my headphones laughing, nodding, and “hmmm”-ing. This podcast has something for everyone. And I recommend it to my other single friends too. And I really wanted to come to the conference but the way my wallet it set up.... next time 😂😂😂😂😂 MELISSA!!!! Melissa, you are a blessing. Kevin too. But Melissa! You have a voice that people want to listen to AND the wisdom to provide substance to that voice. I am SO happy y’all have this podcast. And Kevin is ABSOLUTELY right when he says that there are big things coming for you. Embrace it. And when I’m rich, I’ll support (probably like year 3 of the love hour conference) 😂😂😂 love you guys ❤️
Melissa I is you, you is me!!! I related to this so much. I find it so difficult to be vulnerable intimately in relationships. My parents were not vulnerable or very affectionate with one another or with us growing up.
Melissa's voice is exceptional for radio, definitely a career path success. " High and lifted up, totally agree"
These podcasts are giving me life! 🤗🤗😊😊😀😀
@kevonstage and @mrskevonstage, as a single female.... I love this show. There's value here. All that you've spoken here can apply to all kinds of relationships. Not just the relationships between couples.
I am not in a relationship but I enjoy listening to The Love Cast (Love Hour). I am especially glad to have found The Soul Ties Detox as well. Listening to both of you reaffirms my belief that my spouse must also have a relationship with God because we of ourselves can't make it. There must be a greater consciousness to help guide us through the ebbs and flows. Thanks for sharing so honestly💜.
Kev, Idk WHAT chiropractor you go to but mine plays instrumental music, the lights are low, and she does muscle massages after she adjusts your back. You're sore for a day or two and then you feel brand new!
I've never heard of such a chiropractor. I need to go to yours
Lissa, you better preach on Emotional Integrity!
I'm single and watch y'all every week! I'm gathering as much info as I can so that when he comes I'll be ready.
I clicked because I had to check out my sis Liss's hair, so cute💜
My first time listening/watching. You two are beautiful together. Thanks for sharing your love with the world.
DO Y'ALL HAVE A "I HAD A RELEVATION!" T SHIRT? I ain't even Christian but I love that phrase. Clicks n all 😭😂😂😂
We stay with the revelations! In real time! LOLOLOL
@@MrsKevOnStage Thanks for being vocal enough to do these podcasts. I'm single-single, but I've learned much about marriage, relationships and communication thanks to The Love Hour. May God continue to bless you guys🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Melissa, I want you to know this is almost MORE helpful for single ppl like me because this PREPARES us before the marriage comes. All this knowledge educates so when it’s my season to get married I can identify the bad and multiply good. Resulting in healthier love
This!!all of these things! I definitely identify with how divorce can mark on future relationships. Love the insight!
Liss is so much more confident on camera now and really owns her feelings about things. I've been watching you guys for a few years and I see a difference 😀
This. Is. So. Good!
I secretly check UA-cam first thing in the morning for the new episodes...lol. Thanks for so many golden nuggets!! 🙌🏾
🗣YALL?! YOU 👏🏾HAVE 👏🏾HELPED 👏🏾ME 👏🏾TODAY💁🏾😩😭
🗣Let me tell ya something! I’m not even in a relationship or married...yet💁🏽♀️ and this has blessed me!🙌🏽 I am a single mother of a 12 year old daughter and I can attest that there are things that I notice that I learned from my upbringing. Let me finish watching, I’m only halfway through🤣, I love this you two!! 👏🏽❤️
I love the new intro, change of scenery, and the that or this gingle. Kev had me hollering with that #NeverForget . I definetly want to see your insight on your parents, because mine definetly helped pave my perception for years (and I hold many of their beliefs today). But I've learning to also do what works for my marriage, because we're not our parents. Great topic.
I am single with no children and I learn sooooo much from this podcast. Thank you guys for sharing what you've learned in marriage, life and parenthood thus far. I will be applying what I learn from you guys and the other great examples to my future marriage and current relationships.
P.S I was at the Columbia SC show and everyone was amazing and hilarious!!!! I can't wait to go to another show!!
I agree with this video I am single and waiting to find the right woman and you guys are helping me learn things about myself and what to look at for in my relationships
Now, that's ONE THING that I was really grateful for in my parents' marriage... they really encouraged us to LEARN about our future spouses - their full story (parents, grandparents, siblings, etc.) It was soooo valuable! So, when certain things happen in our lives now, we are able to move forward, understanding that certain things come from a deeper place! YOU HAVE TO HAVE THESE CONVERSATIONS!!! Pre-marital counseling really helped to bring that level of deliverance and freedom to us!!! I agree that it helps you to trace the root of behaviors and not only patch/band-aid situations.
Tobe nwigwe-i choose you. Crazy cuz thats my queen's 👑 ringtone lol.
I love everything that was said but what spoke to me the most was at 31:00 when she was explaining how her mother was a victim of identity theft. I am battling with that right now with trying to find a balance being a full time working mother of 5, a wife, a children’s church teacher, and dealing with my family. It’s almost over whelming at times and stresses me out and I ended up being the one neglected. I was told by my counselor to start purposely doing nice things for myself and focusing on myself without feeling bad or thinking about neglecting my husband or my kids.
PRAISE GOD for your truth, your honesty, your transparency and you courage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I needed this, and am blessed by it🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️
Mannnn this was a whole word. The best gift my mom gave me was having me work the 12 steps of AA even tho I’m not an addict. It’s that emotional diagnosis of pre-existing conditions Kev talked about. It was so vital to my suppressed emotions, I wasn’t aware of how much emotional baggage I had until then. I’m grateful my mom had the foresight to spot it in myself because they were behaviors she had healed in herself
OK SO I'M 36 AND AM SO SINGLE BUT I LISTEN FAITHFULLY, (I PREFER THE VIDEO). I enjoy thoroughly the information, humor, transparency, and the undeniable chemistry you guys have. I'm such a fan that I've adopted Liss' hand raise she does when she's super excited or the light bulb goes off. I truly believe listening has given me a better flow of language or conversation when I'm talking with others. You guys are intelligent, you look like me, you know how to use your words and I can RELATE to you (even as a single woman). I am learning a lot and enjoying every moment. Liss you really are the stuff!! Love you guys!!
ok! LIGHTBULB moment...Liss loves Audible! Her voice is SO audible book ready!!!
Thank you!!
I am a very single, single mother and I love this podcast. It helps me with my parenting and helps me to be able to hold out and wait for the man God will send me. @mrskevonstage don't ever think this podcast doesn't help the single crowd! Love and appreciate you guys!
I sweat a lot under my arms! I just used your promo code and purchased the Native Deodorant. Yes! I'm excited and they offered a mini deodorant for 3.00. I got that too. Thank you Kevin and Melissa for being so transparent!
I really enjoyed the Love Hour today. Especially the part about how your kids pick up on your behavior and act the same way. I thought back and realized that my sons have done that in the past. That was an eye opener! I also liked how Kev said he misses you and likes you. How sweet! I also ordered the Native Coconut vanilla deodorant at 20% off and I'm looking forward to trying it! Great podcast today!
Man.....LISS!!! I had this breakthrough at therapy yesterday!!!! I pass my toxic undealt with traits on to my daughter. Also, do yall realize yall are discipling all of the people that work for yall. You are literally bringing people into your lives and paying and pouring into them everything that God is teaching you both!
So I think these podcast will be my Netflix and actually chill fr whenever I begin dating again. I don't mind rewatching at all. These are great topics to discuss if you're on the path to Marriage and how to make it last.
Wisdom, instruction, and transparency is what this single woman gets from you Melissa and Kev. The lessons and experiences you intimate is like food to my soul. Thank you for this gift you share and may God bless you both.
This should have more views. I know you're not counselors but you still say some eye opening things
I’m not married.... yet... but this bless me at all times! 👏🏾👏🏾 dont stop
Can we have a lovies group or something where we can donate and get bonus episodes (like righteous and ratchet).....because I CANNOT get enough of this podcast!!!!!!! Love Ya'll 🖤🖤🖤
Thank you!! We are considering something like this, but we're also doing the conference next year. It's going to be such a great experience, I want to make sure everyone can go! So save your coins!
Im currently single and i find your podcasts to be extremely helpful in giving me insight to who i am and how men and women should operate in a relationship. Also, thank you Kev and Liss for being so vulnerable and willing to share your personal experiences with the world. Much love to you both and God bless ❤️
I love y’all!!! Melissa is truly AMAZING!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm not married but I listen to every Love Hour Vlog.. I am learning so much for my future marriage. I also share your podcast with my married friends!
The way I have been refreshing since midnight GMT waiting to get my fix! ' Y'all got anymore of that crack?!'. Ho - oh - yahhh
This is awesome; great relationship nuggets to take note of.
Thank y’all for producing such great content! Just started listening to Girl, stop apologizing and it’s awesome. Great episode 😍
I'm not married and I'm getting so much great information from this podcast. I luv this podcast. The wisdom you all share is amazing. Thank you. Thank you.
I am so grateful for these podcast videos... I love to see interactive so the podcast aren’t as exciting lol but I am single and benefit greatly from the information you all share. Thank you, Thank you and Thank you!!
THIS IS ABSOLUTELY HELPFUL FOR SING FOLKS! I learn so much about myself for my future marriage but also for relationships with anyone I come into contact with.
OMG!! This episode is soooo prophetic, because recently I was just thinking about doing a blog post about What Did Your Parents Teach You (Consciously & Subconsciously)?
I was thinking about this because sadly, in our (Black) community, parents don't realize how this phrase can hurt their kids down the line: "Do as I say, not as I do!".
**Their behavior is the #1 teacher or example for us!**
Great topic guys! Thanks!
Kev and Melissa sweatshirts game is on POINT!
I cant wait to catch up on your podcast. I've been told to catch because you're so transparent
I have been listening to this podcast for about 3 months and yall have taught me soo much about myself and things about my relationship with my children's mother. Thank yall so much
Fantastic episode! I listen to these episodes with my boyfriend and it helps spark fantastic discussions between us! The only semi-downside is that we talk so much we don’t get through the whole episode sometimes! 😂Side note: I want that part 2 that Kev mentioned! Please???
This is such a good topic. I was just telling someone how although I grew up in a 2 parent and most of my family are married, I dont have any great examples of what marriage is suppose to be. I tried to hard to NOT be like them to the point that I sometimes make things worse. My mother was single and happy until I was 11 and I missed the person she was. Once she got married, our home was miserable due to his toxic personality and my mother allowing it. My grandparents as well. They clearly were more like roommates. It's crazy how we still become a variation of them.
I love y'all! I've learned so much listening to you!
This was such a good episode. I asked my mom and husband the same questions and had some interesting dialogue! Love the podcast! Continue to operate in your gifts 🙌🏾