This Is Your Life: Charles Upham VC & Bar

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  • @GJ67
    @GJ67 4 роки тому +133

    He definitely didn’t want to be there. You can see it. Such a brave and humble guy. He’s the reason as a 17 year old kid I joined the army. Superman isn’t real, Captain Charles Upham was. As a 50 year old now, I still look at this guy in awe. Kia Kaha Captain Upham. God bless ya.

    • @himwhoisnottobenamed5427
      @himwhoisnottobenamed5427 2 роки тому +4

      I love that pic of him in the barbed wire. lol. He’s just all, “G’day lads.”

    • @1504Face
      @1504Face 2 роки тому +2

      thank u for ur service

    • @Ingens_Scherz
      @Ingens_Scherz Рік тому +3

      Survivor's guilt. VC winners feel it the worst because they lived when they were utterly convinced that they must die - which was a choice in the heat of battle. He faced that twice (at least).
      So all he can think about is all the men he lost who he regards as the real heroes. He doesn't care two hoots about his medals. All he cares about is the men that, to him - and he's the only witness - were cut to pieces in the attack. That's all he remembers and what he has to live with.
      Yet, in the grip of that psychological torment, he still projects and maintains outward control - the man we see. To the 2023 mind, that's just suffering. To a man like Charles Upham, that's his best valediction to those he lost in battle. That's called strength of character. That's called dignity. That's called remembrance.
      So, if I had a choice between Charles Upham's value system and the "values" of 2023, I know precisely, without any doubt, which one I must choose - and why.

    • @davidryley4162
      @davidryley4162 Рік тому

      Spot on
      Embarrassed

    • @Dustyholes
      @Dustyholes Рік тому +2

      you can clearly see he grows into the interview and begins to enjoy it.

  • @otumoetaipat
    @otumoetaipat 5 років тому +56

    Dave Kirk must've been something special if Charles Upham reckons you're the best soldier he's ever seen.

  • @tsampa13
    @tsampa13 10 років тому +153

    Thank you from Galatas, Crete, and all the kiwis who fought and died on this island, this is also your land...

    • @te_piriti9220
      @te_piriti9220 8 років тому +31

      +George Tsampas My family remember also the kindness, generosity and great courage of your people in hiding and caring for the New Zealand soldiers who were unable to be evacuated from your beautiful Island. Discovery meant possible death for your people - also bravery of the highest order. For these actions thank you also from New Zealand.

    • @te_piriti9220
      @te_piriti9220 8 років тому +6

      +George Tsampas My family remember also the kindness, generosity and great courage of your people in hiding and caring for the New Zealand soldiers who were unable to be evacuated from your beautiful Island. Discovery meant possible death for your people - also bravery of the highest order. For these actions thank you also from New Zealand.

    • @gtestastretta1
      @gtestastretta1 5 років тому +13

      George Tsampas my great uncle Jack (from Taranaki in New Zealand) was killed in Crete. Cheers to you brother

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 2 роки тому +2

      Charles let a little stray cat who gave birth on his camp bed, stay where she was, and threw some blankets on the floor, to sleep, although exhausted.
      He was a great lover of animals. If you sponsored a cat - or dog at Jutta Shelter, at Iereptera, on Crete, or adopted, if you are a kind home, I am sure Charles Upham would be touched.
      I support Jutta from Australia, but I have no links with the man who runs it, Iannis. I run my own rescue in Australia.
      The other thing you could do, as a thanks to Charles, is to desex your cats, if not desexed.
      Charles was famed, as you would have heard, as a great animal lover.
      There is also a donkey rescue set up on the west of Crete? Run by a Greek man and his New Zealand wife. They rescue donkeys and sponsor farriers to visit neglected working donkeys and give free hoof trims, on Crete.
      Did you know that some Greeks take old - often over 30 years old, or broken down, donkeys, out into isolated areas, tie them to trees and leave them with no water or food, unable to leave the tree, to die!
      If found in time, the donkey rescue takes them in. Any of these causes that you helped, would make Charles nod and smile and be very happy.

  • @robertstark8527
    @robertstark8527 Рік тому +9

    Even in 2023 this is so special to remember a most remarkable Kiwi what an incredible bloke. A true gentleman and humble human being. I hope he’s remembered permanently in some way in NZ. Charles Upham VC and bar.

  • @deplorabled1695
    @deplorabled1695 6 років тому +161

    What have we lost. What have we become. All the men there were so well spoken, considered, impeccably dressed, mannered and gallant.
    A generation we shall always remember, from a time we should never forget.

    • @chrisjunker17
      @chrisjunker17 4 роки тому +6

      Very well said, I couldn't agree more.

    • @grahamt33
      @grahamt33 4 роки тому +4

      A beautiful elegy

    • @rogerpattube
      @rogerpattube 4 роки тому +6

      Ruined by liberal morality

    • @HydroSnips
      @HydroSnips 4 роки тому +3

      Replaced by people like you who do nothing but whinge and moan. Bloody crybaby. Have a bit of dignity and appreciate what you’ve got instead of moaning all the time. All you lot wetting your pants over a past you weren’t even alive to see are as bad as each other, feeling sorry for yourselves about some fantasy of a time you only know from films. Grow up, you wet blanket.

    • @ILoveDawko
      @ILoveDawko 4 роки тому +4

      Why can't you accept that greatness existed then, and exists now? Times change. Honestly, you think Charlie Upham would have time for this whining of yours on youtube?

  • @kiwitedferny
    @kiwitedferny 10 років тому +90

    Old school Kiwis. Men of very few words and extreme humility.

  • @ukqwerty999
    @ukqwerty999 Рік тому +6

    Was watching Jeremy Clarkesons VC program, and saw this man's name mentioned in the comments. He looked uncomfortable at the start of this program, warmed as more of his comrades appeared, and glowing at the end when his closest men walked in. Glad they made this tribute to him and that it is uploaded for all to see what it takes to be this remarkable. Much respect, hi from England.

  • @NickiesAdventureChannel
    @NickiesAdventureChannel 3 роки тому +15

    Count Dankula sent me here , now I’m in tears 😭. Just so moving to see such men and such humility and just brave brave brave men all gone now ..... but I hope and pray never forgotten

  • @Dustyholes
    @Dustyholes Рік тому +9

    you can see what it meant to him at 11:46 when Upham called him “the best individual soldier he’s ever met.” He’s on the verge of tears.

  • @JC-zt1zu
    @JC-zt1zu 7 років тому +68

    At that age he still has respect for rank... waits until his former Brig to sit first.
    I sat at the grave of Capt Charles Upham VC and bar at the Papanui cemetery last Anzac day.
    A great man that, along with everyone who served, must be remembered.
    Lest we forget.

    • @peterstevens6555
      @peterstevens6555 4 роки тому

      Didn't know that Papanui had a cemetery?!

    • @JC-zt1zu
      @JC-zt1zu 4 роки тому +2

      @@peterstevens6555 yeah mate, attached to the Church next to the RSA on Harewood Road and Papanui Rd intersection. His grave is right next to the railway line.

    • @peterstevens6555
      @peterstevens6555 4 роки тому +3

      @@JC-zt1zu Yeah! I remember now! Haven't been back there in years, use to live at Richards Ave. When I played for Canterbury I use to run from home to the top to the sign of the kiwi and back again!

    • @JC-zt1zu
      @JC-zt1zu 4 роки тому +1

      @@peterstevens6555 that's a big run. Canterbury rugby or league? What year was that?

    • @peterstevens6555
      @peterstevens6555 4 роки тому +1

      @@JC-zt1zu Rugby, must of been around the early 80s.

  • @idleonlooker1078
    @idleonlooker1078 4 роки тому +42

    To be identified as "THE finest fighting man" by a double winner of the VC is a unique - and exceptional - honour in itself!! Respect. 👍

  • @JustWilson
    @JustWilson 3 роки тому +21

    I feel sorry for them all being dragged in front of everyone with all these strong emotions and dark memories. These heroes need to be celebrated more, salute from UK. 🇬🇧🇳🇿

    • @davidstreet9580
      @davidstreet9580 Рік тому +4

      100% this host has no clue what men like Charles Upham sacrificed and the trauma they faced. A credit to Charles character to go along with this and have to relive so many brutal and dark memories

  • @davedave5128
    @davedave5128 6 років тому +59

    What a bloody hero. This Brit salutes you.

  • @dianebrooks7807
    @dianebrooks7807 7 років тому +48

    I was very privileged when he invited my husband were invited by him, to his home for afternoon tea. He was a lovely man and extremely humble. One of the greatest of NZers

  • @dukethomas95
    @dukethomas95 7 років тому +61

    This man's reactions and modesty are a mark of the true hero he was. He is definitly more at ease when he was praising his men. Outstanding and so inspirational.

  • @MaegnasMw
    @MaegnasMw 10 років тому +75

    What can I say about men like C. H. Upham?? Unlimited respect and thanks! They came from half a world away to fight in a foreign land, a land they owed nothing to, much less their lives, and still they gave it their best!
    From Greece, an eternal "thanks" and our unlimited respect for ANZACs that fought and died here. I doubt we'll ever be able to return the favor!

    • @steveotene8137
      @steveotene8137 6 років тому

      MaegnasMw send over some of those sexy Greek women bro, and all will be forgiven!!! Lol...

    • @rogerpattube
      @rogerpattube 4 роки тому +1

      Repay us by continuing to survive and thrive.

    • @hellovanite
      @hellovanite 4 роки тому

      No repayment required. The right thing to do will always be the right thing to do.

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 2 роки тому +2

      Did you know when he was younger, operating in the desert, he came in after an operation, exhausted and wanting to just fall onto his camp bed. When he walked into his tent, the little stray cat that had been adopted by the men, had chosen his camp bed to give birth. Seeing the newborns, he simply found some blankets, threw them on the floor, and lay down on the floor, leaving the cat in comfort.
      You could adopt or sponsor a rescued cat on Crete, at Jutta shelter, in his memory? That would be a sweet tribute that Charles would appreciate.
      Jutta also has dogs to adopt or sponsor. I have nothing to gain telling you. I support Jutta, but run my own rescue in Australia.
      Charles Upham VC and Bar, is a particular hero of mine.
      I think, in fact, they have a cat called Charles, needing adoption!

  • @jnairac
    @jnairac 7 років тому +32

    Not sure he was so happy on this suprise.
    He d prefer his sheep and a hill and no profile or low profile.
    This is how Charles will be remembered.
    Extreme low profile.
    Old kiwi style.
    Men now should learn from him.
    RIP Charles.
    Deeply respected

  • @glennparker73
    @glennparker73 7 років тому +62

    The respect that the man got from the guests made me tear up
    Gone are the days of men like him, I remember my grandfather being very similar
    Now we have to deal with reality tv and other crap
    Those guys would be embarrassed to see what the world they fought for had become

    • @steveotene8137
      @steveotene8137 6 років тому +6

      Glenn Parker so true bro... Our generation have surly f..ked things up in a big way too...

    • @HydroSnips
      @HydroSnips 4 роки тому

      Stop being so bloody wet & pathetic, feeling all whiny and sad for yourself.

    • @johnniethepom2905
      @johnniethepom2905 3 роки тому +5

      @@HydroSnips Your father should have had the Snips .

  • @MercuryCircuit
    @MercuryCircuit 2 роки тому +6

    I love the Kiwi's. I am English but from Scottish/Italian heritage. I spent 3 months in NZ in 2006 and felt so at home. Massive love to all Kiwi's. You are amazing.

  • @poolie-mag8282
    @poolie-mag8282 3 роки тому +18

    Here after watching count dankula this man has balls of steel and a heart of gold

    • @treestandsafety3996
      @treestandsafety3996 3 роки тому +1

      Makes all those endless showbiz TIYL episodes look even more like utter toss!

  • @Ubique2927
    @Ubique2927 8 років тому +40

    VC and bar!! Those few words mean so much!

  • @_____7704
    @_____7704 8 років тому +43

    this bloke would have been crazy dangerous in his day you can still see the steely determination in his eyes

    • @Tawadeb
      @Tawadeb Рік тому +1

      Have you read Mark of the Lion?
      He was a great soldier

  • @H4CK61
    @H4CK61 7 років тому +29

    That Great Kiwi way of not blowing your own trumpet. What a great and Valiant man and 100% respect and thanks from a London cockney.

  • @seanatkinson770
    @seanatkinson770 2 роки тому +8

    Absolute class he isn't loud brash or self absorbed but thoughtful intelligent and a remarkable man. R.I.P.

  • @rangingaway92
    @rangingaway92 Рік тому +7

    This really is a hero quality. Taking all the danger, wanting none of the praise, can't be bought, can't be stopped. Men like these aren't born often

  • @muglypunt968
    @muglypunt968 3 роки тому +13

    I feel sorry for the man. He never wanted this but he deserved it. Being humble is a glorious trait. It's hard to be an introvert in a world that wants everyone to be special. God bless this man's soul.

  • @Wananga4
    @Wananga4 2 роки тому +7

    In his book it was revealed that he was recommended for a third VC (second bar) but, the executive officers felt that nobody would believe it and so diminish the value of the first two. His book is great.

  • @antonyhobbs1144
    @antonyhobbs1144 9 років тому +26

    It is true that the genuine heroes never boast about their actions

  • @lyndonrobertshaw2983
    @lyndonrobertshaw2983 5 років тому +19

    my grandad was on crete and became p.o.w and sent to Austria for the rest of the war he spoke very highly of the new Zealand men,nice to see some of the brave men he once fought along side.
    very proud grandson of william robertshaw and this story will be passed on down to my children.

  • @robertmac8287
    @robertmac8287 3 роки тому +6

    Who says superheroes are not real. They really were the greatest generation. How far we have fallen in 70 years

  • @superSmudge76
    @superSmudge76 10 років тому +53

    they need to make a movie about this Great man true kiwi hero

    • @stihl6601
      @stihl6601 9 років тому

      superSmudge76 couldn't agree more

    • @asterixdogmatix1073
      @asterixdogmatix1073 9 років тому +2

      superSmudge76 There was one planned around 2008-2009, but the recession killed off funding for it.

    • @Dyers88
      @Dyers88 7 років тому +3

      exactly mate, if he was yank or brit he'd be world famous

    • @steveotene8137
      @steveotene8137 6 років тому +7

      Peter Jackson would be the guy to do it... Lest we forget Charlie... Onward...

  • @GODCONVOYPRIME
    @GODCONVOYPRIME 3 роки тому +12

    A true hero for any time. God bless you Charles Upham you magnificent bastard!

  • @barbaradean6424
    @barbaradean6424 Рік тому +4

    I very much doubt that Charles would like being on this program.. he never spoke much about his achievement, nor much about the war. My father and Charles never ever spoke about their war experiences. Such loving men who loved animals and people. It was so hard for us, my brother and I to believe these two men ever fought in a war. RIP two very wonderful men.

  • @manicminer4127
    @manicminer4127 9 років тому +33

    A great man. I read after the war he returned to work on his farm, never allowing German machinery on the farm. He was very out spoken when the UK joined the Common Market, now the European Union in 1973.

    • @harrycurrie9664
      @harrycurrie9664 4 роки тому +4

      Yes, you wouldn't drive through his gate in a VW unless you had already ordered a tow truck.

    • @rogerpattube
      @rogerpattube 4 роки тому +1

      My father in law is the same to about anything German. His dad was shot down in a Mosquito attacking German ships in Norway, Dec 17, 1944.

    • @rogerpattube
      @rogerpattube 4 роки тому

      Now Britain’s out so there is that.

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 2 роки тому

      But what about the utter savagery of the Japanese? Slaughtering nurses. Slaughtering POWS. Vivian Bullwinkle the only survivor of one massacre. Ben Hackney the only survivor of another massacre of surrendered troops. His evidemce resulted in 3 warcrime executions, postwar.
      The torture of prisoners, totally unnecessarily and even cannibalism!
      There is one fairly quiet report - it is so awful to read, it isn't easy to find - or wasn't when I hunted it down, about 3 American air crew...
      You cannot read about the Pacific war without a very strong stomach!
      Though on the Allies side, they contacted the cannibal tribes of Papua New Guinea who had been persuaded to give up cannibalism by Christian missionaries, and they were told Japanese didn't count in the ban - and that resulted in a relatively huge number of Japanese disappearing, given the handful of Allied men working for the military.

  • @lyndamcardle4123
    @lyndamcardle4123 Рік тому +4

    I've been looking for the story of Charles Upham for some time....serendipity is such a wonderful thing....I marvel at such a wonderful, modest, humble human being.

  • @fredflintstome6532
    @fredflintstome6532 3 роки тому +5

    Stumbled across this tonight. Great viewing. You will never see the calibre of these men ever again.

  • @stanley626
    @stanley626 4 роки тому +14

    Hearing these brave and selfless men talk makes you want be the best human you can be, in order to honour their sacrifices....

  • @davemacdonald3889
    @davemacdonald3889 3 роки тому +8

    A salute to these heroes from the UK 🇬🇧

  • @michaelkearns8038
    @michaelkearns8038 9 років тому +25

    His like will never be seen again

  • @bobdeathridge5726
    @bobdeathridge5726 9 років тому +19

    A remarkable man so unassuming and modest , how some of the so called heroes of today could learn from a true hero and gentleman.

  • @jpmoses6208
    @jpmoses6208 3 роки тому +8

    Not only a hero, he knew all the names of all the voices that preceded their appearance - unbelievable man and Officer!

  • @antonyhobbs1144
    @antonyhobbs1144 9 років тому +17

    A brave and humble man. The world today could do with more heroes like this. thank you 'Sir' Charles RIP

  • @avrolancaster6987
    @avrolancaster6987 3 роки тому +9

    The photo of Upham in the barbed wire,is one of the greatest images of Allied Gallantry during the whole war.....and there are many of them. Upham sat there, tangled in the wire, German rifles trained on him...cigarette in mouth, shit eating grin on his face.....a young man's face saying 'you lot won't beat us.....not in a million years'.

    • @ryanhampson673
      @ryanhampson673 2 роки тому

      He’s the Proto Chad…The original that all Chad’s are based from.

  • @Bob-Horse
    @Bob-Horse 3 роки тому +5

    What a great and wonderful man and exemplar human being. May God bless him and may he rest in peace.

  • @antonyhobbs1144
    @antonyhobbs1144 9 років тому +17

    You came from the other side of the world to fight fight for our freedom Thank you

    • @wor53lg50
      @wor53lg50 Рік тому

      Amen to that!!!.. He still would of had to fight for his own though sooner or later if japs was dropping bombs over darwin...

  • @gesheepistemology8050
    @gesheepistemology8050 3 роки тому +4

    I have no words to express my respect to all of these men and Mrs Upton so I will just salute you with my eyes filled with tears.

  • @importantname
    @importantname 7 років тому +46

    Looked like he wanted to say no to being on this.

    • @harrycurrie9664
      @harrycurrie9664 4 роки тому +11

      I think they had to literally hijack him to do it.

    • @rogerpattube
      @rogerpattube 4 роки тому +5

      Rather be under fire than sitting there.

    • @muglypunt968
      @muglypunt968 3 роки тому +1

      He did

  • @lold6130
    @lold6130 2 роки тому +2

    All freedom loving people should be forever grateful to this generation of men & women who gave so much.

  • @WahChingU
    @WahChingU 6 років тому +16

    Extraordinary man, a hero of mine, and my schoolmates growing up in Christchurch in the 60's.

  • @DrGreenThumbNZL
    @DrGreenThumbNZL 3 роки тому +4

    That pic of him sitting in the barb wire with a ciggy , what a legend

  • @GiT5UM
    @GiT5UM 2 місяці тому

    The fact that he entered the studio to a standing ovation speaks volumes of the respect this man is held in. They call them the greatest generation for no small reason.

  • @efsnz8130
    @efsnz8130 2 роки тому +6

    R.I.P Captian Upham a true hero I never got to meet the legend but heard stories of his remarkable actions and can say that I'm proud to be a kiwi 🇳🇿

  • @davidmilne6659
    @davidmilne6659 7 років тому +19

    fascinating to watch this, so reserved and understated. Little fuss or emotion and yet those old boys would have gone through some real horrors. I only just discovered this great man today after reading about his escape attempts. What a courageous man.

  • @watchlover8297
    @watchlover8297 5 років тому +5

    What an incredible human being. VC and Bar, and not afraid to be kind and warm, the mark of a real man without even knowing it. Utter legend....

  • @derangius
    @derangius 3 роки тому +8

    He looked way more comfortable trapped in barbed wire with German guns pointed at him than he did here. I'm not sure I could imagine a better example of a human. The Germans should have tried to put him on TV and give him awards, his only kryptonite apparently.

  • @realistbrit349
    @realistbrit349 7 років тому +13

    Wow!
    That was an episode of 'This Is Your Life' that was worth recording.

  • @bobbyarchaic9649
    @bobbyarchaic9649 3 роки тому +2

    The sheer joy and exuberance of Mr. Charles Upham when talking about others and their virtues is breathtaking and humbling to witness.

  • @TheShinyDwarf1
    @TheShinyDwarf1 3 роки тому +4

    whose here from MadLAds! Thank you for your service Charles!! you are a legend! and the most baddass War HEro!

  • @paddy.7784
    @paddy.7784 4 роки тому +6

    Just reading Tom Scott's excellent ' Searching for Charlie in pursuit of the real Charles Upham VC and Bar.' I'm 67years old and like so many of that generation grew up knowing of the great exploits the 2nd NZ Div .. ' Mark of a Lion ' was a much read and known story .. and this book just adds so much more to that story ..and gives a wonderful feel of how we were in those days .. and the type of men that went to that war.

  • @MickeyMoranNo1
    @MickeyMoranNo1 10 років тому +26

    The man they forgot about. Great man, great story.

    • @dunruden9720
      @dunruden9720 7 років тому +2

      Who forgot? I'm a baby boomer and we were all taught about Charles Upham, and were extremely proud of him.

    • @steveotene8137
      @steveotene8137 6 років тому

      Mickey Moran he's gone but never forgotten!!! RIP Charlie, Onward...

  • @johnsouthworthnz
    @johnsouthworthnz 8 років тому +18

    He presented a medal to a NCO on my TF Basic 77 for gallantry on a parade we had. He was quiet then also.

  • @pauldirac808
    @pauldirac808 3 роки тому +5

    I’ve known about this man since I was fourteen. I’m now fifty seven . These men now are largely forgotten and it’s a goddam shame . People are called heroes for coming out or saving a puppy. I’m glad these true heroes are not around to see how their children and grandchildren have destroyed everything they valiantly fought for . God bless them all ..

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 2 роки тому

      Charles Upham was famous for taking in and helping animals, through the war, not just before the war, and after. He would have much more in common with animal rescuers than people with your attitude
      When he was a young junior officer, in the war, having returned from a desert op, exhausted, he walked into his tent and the little cat adopted by the men, drawn to Charles and his gentle care, had just given birth on Charles' camp bed.
      Charles simply collected a few blankets, threw them on the floor, and slept there, leaving her in comfort, on his camp bed, as safe as she could be, in the middle of the war.
      Your sneering remark would likely cause Charles to fix a beady eye on you, and write you off as anyone he wanted to know.
      People who rescue do not label themselves as heroes. Other people over enthusiastically label them so. It is not something they claimed or wanted - and in some places, people who rescue, including in some places in Greece, have angry locals abuse them, trespass, hurt animals, yell abuse in the street.
      I am glad I do not know you and even more glad I am not related to you.

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 2 роки тому

      I might add that in the past, coming out could see you beaten up, some young men were
      lyn ched, some 'uppity' young women were ra ped to 'train' them to be normal. It was extremely brave to come out.
      It is STILL extremely brave to come out in some rabidly religious Baptist areas in the southern states of America.
      You want to sneer at gays?
      Then sneer at Jimmy Edwards, DFC, the High Tory, hunting comedian, whose huge moustache hid scars from a fighter crash landing, who married and spent his life terrified of being outed as gay. Who also occasionally hung out with Prince Philip who knew and didn't care. And of course EVRRYBODY knows about The Duke of Kent, WW2.
      Are you going to sneer at Ian Gleed DFC, adored by his men, famed for personally coaching new arrivals in the tricks he learnt in the Battle of France and Battle of Britain.
      He wrote a memoir before being killed in action. His publisher said it was pretty obvious he wasn't interested in women, so they invented a fiancee named Pamela. When the book came out, his family said, Who the hell is Pamela?"
      When he was killed, the Publisher had hundreds of letters sent to him to forward to Pamela. Would have given Ian a wry grin.
      He was fairly open about being gay and his men never gave him away. His story only came out when an elderly squadron member remarked that he had had sex with Ian fairly soon after he arrived. He felt he had nothing to hide, in the present time, as an old man, in very educated middle class circles.
      There were gays all over Military Intelligence, on front lines... BUT AT THE TIME, if they were open, they could be gaoled, dishonourably discharged and whilst so many men and women were hiding their sexuality to serve in the front lines, a lot of straight men were PRETENDING TO BE GAY, to get out of serving in the war.
      There was a Pacific Island posting that was the dream post for gay Americans and Australians, in WW2.
      Your remarks just expose your ignorance.
      You want to sneer at Trans people being heroes?
      First male to female sex change, in the UK, post war, was an ex racing car driver, wartime spitfire pilot, Robert Cowell. Became Roberta.
      One of the ATA girls, Irene Joy Ferguson, quietly changed sex post war, putting an advert in the paper that she would now be known as Jonathan. The only change in her life, was she earned more in her civil service job, because men were paid more than women, doing the same job.
      I have spent well over a decade researching gays, trans, SOE, Allied Air Forces, some Luftwaffe, Jews in the frontline, some other special interest groups, in WW2.
      When I read sneery remarks like yours, it sickens me.
      Anyone who reads what Alan Turing did to possibly shorten the war by years - NOT my estimate - and reads what was done to him, by an ignorant, ungrateful nation, will never let remarks like yours lie there in their ugliness. Coming out NOW can still cause families and previous friends to abandon you. It can still leave you with a career destroyed, but no proof. It can still mean a mad religionist feels entitled to ki ll. Have you done ANYTHING in your life that needs that much bravery?
      And no, I am not gay, but to me, it is of as much importance as saying if I am blonde or brunette.
      I wouldn't care. But I would know I would have to put up with sneers from people like you - and rare nutters that still think someone - or indeed, I, should di e because you don't approve of who they - or I, love...

    • @KyleLoeb
      @KyleLoeb 4 місяці тому +1

      Damn that has to be one of the greatest burns I ever read in a comment section.

    • @pauldirac808
      @pauldirac808 4 місяці тому

      @@georgielancaster1356 glad I never had to share a foxhole with you weak beta male. You are a product off the soft society hang your head in shame and be grateful real men died so that you can be a whining little bitch .

    • @MaoriMan76
      @MaoriMan76 3 місяці тому

      ​@@georgielancaster1356 and you wouldnt want that beady eye fixed on ya, alright? 😅

  • @donmiller7156
    @donmiller7156 4 роки тому +3

    Humbling to see and know such extraordinary men share the same space as the rest of us very common men. Thank you.

  • @deanstuart8012
    @deanstuart8012 6 років тому +11

    Upham was one of only three recipients of the VC and bar. One of the others was Noel Chavasse, who was a distant cousin of Uphams. The third was Arthur Martin-Leake, who commanded the medical unit that treated the fatally wounded Noel Chavasse.

    • @arhassoc
      @arhassoc 3 роки тому +1

      It was Charles Upham's wife who was the distant cousin of Noel Chevasse. She was a nurse in a Liverpool hospital the Upham was invalided to after the war and his release from Colditz, prior to his repatriation to NZ! Noel Chevasse's father was Bishop of Liverpool, and Noel served as a medical officer with the Liverpool Scottish. There is no proof that Arthur Leake-Martin treated Noel, but was in overall charge. So the three dual-VC winners are linked.

    • @Trajan2401
      @Trajan2401 2 роки тому

      But he was the only soldier the other two were medics

  • @TrOLLKiLLeRs1
    @TrOLLKiLLeRs1 8 років тому +11

    Even in old age this lot still looked the goods.

  • @chumleyk
    @chumleyk 3 роки тому +5

    I was wondering if they were going to pull the "and for the last guest, we searched long and hard. The Colditz commandant you hated so much, Colonel Eggy!"

  • @billmmckelvie5188
    @billmmckelvie5188 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for posting this having read his obituary of this man it is great to see him actually in person and his loyalty to the British Commonwealth is immense. One of the 'great Brexiteers' of the sixties who spoke on behalf of the NZ government against the U.K. joining the then Common Market, he called it back then totally right. What is not shown here is when King George VI question over the validity of his second VC his commanding officers said he deserved it many times over!

  • @peterlewis3540
    @peterlewis3540 3 роки тому +2

    VC & Bar, that's almost beyond comprehension.
    VC recipients alway's seem almost ashamed, they simply do not accept they were worthy of such an award, and do not like talking about the events leading to their award, but receiving a second VC, that's beyond comprehension.
    A remarkable achievement and such a quiet unsuspecting man.

  • @davidmacdonald3103
    @davidmacdonald3103 8 років тому +14

    They were courageous men no doubt but witness their humility.

  • @bajazoo8001
    @bajazoo8001 2 роки тому +2

    The legacy of such a man serves as an inspiration to all men and women for generations. I do not think these characteristics are gone with his generation. Nor do I pruesumtiously think he would have wanted it to.

  • @elliottg.1954
    @elliottg.1954 Рік тому +1

    All humble and great men. "Many sights and sounds that are better forgotten" - these people don't want to remember, and should not be made to.

  • @leedscab123
    @leedscab123 9 років тому +6

    What a F****** Legend this guy was, I mean you gotta respect this dude for all he did.

  • @dankvader5060
    @dankvader5060 3 роки тому +2

    What a truly great man he is, God bless him. ❤ from England.

  • @godisanissan7407
    @godisanissan7407 Рік тому +1

    He looks happiest at the end when he's chatting among his old army comrades.

  • @marley6940
    @marley6940 3 роки тому +7

    I think Charles looks like would still would rather take on a German machine gun then be a tv show about himself

    • @RubberKiwi79
      @RubberKiwi79 8 місяців тому

      He once climbed out a bathroom window to avoid a group of people who wanted to thank him. TV definitely wasnt on the bucket list.

  • @milesy35
    @milesy35 7 років тому +10

    It's like seeing a VC winner being tortured. I doubt the guy wanted to relive it all.

  • @CaptCanuck4444
    @CaptCanuck4444 10 місяців тому +1

    The look in his eye reminds me so much of Maj. Dick Winters of Easy Company, when interviewed later in life. Humbling.

  • @uralbob1
    @uralbob1 3 роки тому +2

    Upham looks like a fish out of water. He is only there 'cause he has to be.
    Absolute hero!

  • @gb9884
    @gb9884 3 роки тому +4

    All that standing and sitting must have been hell on his knees

  • @alexandersnellman2382
    @alexandersnellman2382 2 роки тому +3

    you can see he wanted to hug the guys he served with

  • @itisjustmeokay
    @itisjustmeokay 10 років тому +8

    Thank you for posting this.

  • @Danegerous_Au
    @Danegerous_Au 4 роки тому +2

    Outstanding Human. Doing some research on the battle of Crete and came across this hero, I will need to ask the guys making a Mod for Post Scriptum on this battle to pay homage to Upham. Thanks for the upload.

  • @brackleypartners3712
    @brackleypartners3712 3 роки тому +6

    This is painful to watch, he clearly didn't want the attention and would probably have preferred to run a marathon than be there. It is strange that real heroes are often very humble and self-effacing.

  • @BGibbins
    @BGibbins Рік тому +1

    The glint in his eye when Kirk comes out 😊

  • @fractalnomics
    @fractalnomics 2 роки тому +1

    I am here for strength. Respect.

  • @Dustyholes
    @Dustyholes Рік тому +1

    16:27 “But I do assure you, he didn’t acquire those at the expense of anybody, Charles”
    *smiles*

  • @colingrant767
    @colingrant767 4 роки тому +3

    You don't get men like him anymore which is a pity RIP Charles upham

  • @randapuntu4427
    @randapuntu4427 3 роки тому +3

    Abolute Mad Lad! Rip you bloody legend.

  • @michaeldarby3503
    @michaeldarby3503 Рік тому +3

    OMG, 2 VC's, he seems more scared of the publicity than he was in the war.

  • @HolgerDanske
    @HolgerDanske 2 роки тому +1

    Legend. Absolute legend.

  • @philbyd
    @philbyd 6 років тому +1

    Lovely man,these battlers are so humble,respect to you all

  • @mistymorning
    @mistymorning 3 роки тому +2

    Read his biography Mark of the Lion
    He got his farm and never let a German car on his land as long as he was breathing
    Bloody good bloke.
    True kiwi legend renound for his colourful use of the English language and unwaivered hatred of the enemy.

  • @NoDrNo
    @NoDrNo 2 роки тому +2

    The Man, The Fucking Legend.

  • @treestandsafety3996
    @treestandsafety3996 3 роки тому +2

    Puts all the Coronation St episodes of This Is Your Life, into a cocked hat!

  • @aidansmyth6480
    @aidansmyth6480 4 роки тому +7

    1939: "We need heroes to fight the fascist forces."
    2020: "That hat is fascist."

  • @jayrob5270
    @jayrob5270 3 роки тому

    Love seeing these guys talk about their shared memories

  • @alldaydevo
    @alldaydevo 9 років тому +4

    shit time constraints, bob parker cutting everyone off halfway, bloody legendary all those guys, big balls

  • @vanillabutcher5857
    @vanillabutcher5857 7 років тому +9

    He didn't fight for his battalion, his division, his expeditionary force, he fought for his empire. RIP a true soldier/officer

    • @dukethomas95
      @dukethomas95 7 років тому +2

      Vanilla Butcher And for those who fought beside him.

  • @georgielancaster1356
    @georgielancaster1356 2 роки тому +1

    Well, I think he would have loved the party afterwards. Oh to have been able to record all the memories dug up that night!

  • @antonyhobbs1144
    @antonyhobbs1144 5 років тому +2

    These heroes are no longer with us Rest In Peace