#4 sister you gotta do what is best and Healthy for you and your kids. I’ve been in your shoe and I know how frustrating it was. It was so toxic and I was starting to get anxiety attack. I had to put my thick face mask on and say no. If he wants his brother then bye
Q#4 no no don’t let his brother in the house living with your family because it is going to be danger to your kids and you especially when you don’t have money to gave to him do Drugs he will steal from you. I have the same situation right now. Every time when he calls my husband either is back in jail or asking for money only. I’m really sick of this shit now.
#4 teb koj tus niam tsev yog tias muaj tseeb22 li koj hais ko ces ntxov xuas Kaub txais mas zoo dua nawv ib yuav nej cov niam tub los ob yuav nws tus kwv li no xwb vim nws tus kwv dhau 18 lub Xyooj’s lawm nyias muaj nyias neej lawm nawv mog
#1, niam tsev aw ua siab ntev os! Hlub koj cov mi nyuam thiab koj tus kheej es ua siab ntev. Qhov txiv neej ntxub tshaj ces yog qhov poj niam khiav ua nkauj fa es lawv lub siab twb hloov tag txias tag lawm. Qhov koj yuav yeej nws ces ua siab ntev thiab zoo tshaj qub rau nws lawm xwb koj thiaj tau nws rov qab los. #2, sister, if your daddy’s baby wife is already citizen you can’t send her back. I knows someone a baby wife, her husband fly with her back to Laos and took all her documents and flew back to the U. S and left her there. The baby wife went to the embassy and was able to come back to the U. S. Good luck!
Dej txiav pauv siab ces zoo li no tiag Seb koj puas tau ua qee yam txais nws siab Kev niam txiv nyias his nyias kwj tse. Peb txiv neej mas yog Tus poj niam ua tej yam txias siab lawm ces yeej ntxuav tsis tawm
Q1. That mean your husband no longer want you. He just come and get you so your parents don’t say anything to him. Best is break up in this way your kids will see their parents live a happy life. Q2. It’s better to send your step mom back. If she stay longer there will be more problems to your family. Because she use your dad to come over to US and she see better opportunities and her feelings change her mind when she first premise to love your dad. Q3. Your husband is doing drug and you need to talk to him and see if he wants help. If he say no or he don’t want to admit. Then that mean you need to choose between your kids and your husband. Q4. Better to let your bnl to stay by himself. In this way your bnl will not interfere with your life. Also he can make your husband pick between his brother and your family. Better call your elder to decision about this matter.
Yeeb dawb ruin my life growing up. I didn't do it but my parents did. We grew up so poor. I wore a shoe to school for 2 years and it was a use shoe. I hated my parents so much. I wanted to go to military never see them again. If your family is doing yeeb dawb there life is over. My dad would steal money from my room. When my dad past away I didn't cry.
#1: ib niag txiv li hiam hlwb 75 niag ruam tsab tse zoo li Kos ces yuav los tsis zoo dab tsis. Cov tibneeg ua yuav hlub peb tiag tiag ces yog peb tsev neeg xwb. Sab rauv yog cov noj peb dawb dawb. Hlub peb tsev neeg ua ntej mam li mus hlub sab rauv
Q4: When it comes to protecting your children, a mother will stop at nothing; however, one of the reasons why we have multiple children is that they will help each other. Just think of it this way, you have 2 children and someday when your husband and you are no longer on this earth and God forbid but one of your kids is in need of help. How would you want the stable child to treat your other child. Your husband is a man of his words and that is an excellent character in a person, especially in a spouse. Give your bil a chance with set boundaries.
Also for story 4: Addiction is a disease. The best thing you can do for him is to get him help. What kind of trauma did he face when he was younger? Only mental and behavioral health experts can break that down. Even if he manages to get help and quit, he has to stay away from anything that triggers him. The feelings of when he's high or drunk will ALWAYS be there, and he will have to learn how to reflect and deflect. Even if your hubby has promised his mother to watch his younger brother, you have to step in and do what's right for your brother. If he's truly clean and want to change, then give him a chance to prove himself, but if he starts using again, he's out.
Q4: You can kindly tell your husband that you both will find the brother a place to get on his feet. He can't live with you guys & kids. You can only help him if he want to help himself.
#1 vi cau xob tu siab hai g tau ce xob hai ua ib siab thiaj g mob lhwb o # poj mhoob nlpog yeej pheem g zoo ce xav ro qab mu nlpog xob ua nw paub ua tib ywm xav xwb mhoob nplog yeej nyiam3 hai lu pheem3 lawv g muaj ke kawm neej vov ne nyuam hai yog lawm
Q3 - when we are talking about "yeeb dawb" what are we referring to? If its opioids--depending on how much they use, how they've use it, and for how long. If it has not been that long and hes not using it on a daily basis, usually he can detox or get off of it at home easily with OTC medications. I recommend you separating him from his friends that are influencing him to use. He can be detox but if he's still living in the same community and hanging around with the same people, he will eventually go back to using again. Give him the ultimatum as he needs to do this himself, you cant force someone to detox because he will go back and use again. Each time he detox and goes back to using, it increases his chance of mortality. Please have narcan around the house incase of an overdose. Sadly this is the true reality of the opioid pandemic. Now if "yeeb dawb" is cocaine, usually theres no detox for it.
Viv ncau peb ua neej nyob mas tsis txhob khiav2 nkauj fa yog koj khiav tas li xwb yuav ua rau lawv tsis xav hlub koj lawm ib qho los khiav ob qho los khiav ua rau lawv ntxub koj xwb tiag
Good evening, 1. It would have been good to know what dispute/fallout initially caused the separation in the beginning. However, when respect and openness is gone and things are very cold, it is time to move on. Take some time off and reflect. If sincerity and honesty come back then reconsider and rekindle is possible. Do not dwell in dark places; danger lurks and before you know it, it may be too late. 2. Well, young sister, I'm afraid your dad did this to you and your siblings. This is what happens when a young mind is subjected to sick abuse beyond their understandings. They lash out in anger; it is kind of way to release the hurt, pain, and confusion. Just imaging if you were forced or coerced into such a relationship. I know that you would never.....but, honestly how would you feel if you were. ...My point is that she didn't have much of a choice, and oh, so much had to be sacrificed. To your final question, send her back because it was not good to begin with, however it is your dad that you should be upset with. He was the one that not just brought but create crudeness and hate in your life. 3. Watch the signs, it's not that hard to known when someone is into hard drugs. Your facts are more then abundant, and he has a drug problem. Rehab is possible but will require much will and help. The most important thing is if he realize his problem and is willing to work hard. If you really love each other and work hard at it, it can be overcome. But, please save some room for protection in case things turn for the worst, you need to be able to get out safely. 4. This one is very dangerous. Long term drug users are very volatile, unpredictable, and extremely dangerous. With two young, preteen kids, please don't subject them to such severe potential harm. Maybe if he has gone through rehab and additional strength education, then try with extreme caution. Good night and good luck. When it come down to drug or extreme psyche issues, very careful precaution is needed. One miss step can end up in grave consequences.
Story 2. Ua lub txias txias kom koj txiv ntxias tias coj rov mus saib nws Niam nws txiv ces xa rov qab xwb. Nyob los tsis zoo rau nej lub Neej. Yog nws khiav dim koj txiv lawm los Tseem yuav mus rhuav lwm tus lub Neej thiab. Xa rov kom seb nws mam paub tias kuv dag thiab laus ces mog xwb.
Q4. Regarding your brother-in-law being released, I think that your husband is putting your whole family at risk especially you and your children because your brother-in-law is a criminal and he can commit crime at any time other than that he could be a child predator which you cannot trust and you cannot let him be around your kids especially your teenage daughter. Your husband isn’t considerate and he’s taking his brother sides before you and his kids so what you decided to do is probably the best decision. I would say stay until your brother in gets released and see he will fit in, wait to see I f your brother-in-law is going to change, become a better person or how’s he’s going to fit in and if it’s not, you can move your kids out. Right now you’re prejudging so you give your brother-in-law a chance before you make a rational decisions. But by the end of the day, it is your life, your marriage and your family, ou’re a grown woman so you can make your own decision, you do you.
Story 4: Speaking from experience, whatever you do, DON'T ENABLE YOUR BROTHER!!! By giving him a place to stay, you're enabling him. I understand he's your brother, and you love him, but he needs to see how hard it is. Don't give him a place to stay, don't give him money. Give him ready to eat food and drink and watch him finish it while you're there. Desperate ppl will do anything for money. Don't let him use you guys as a crutch. I have an older brother who's an addict. My parents willingly let him use them as a crutch, and they SPOIL HIM ROTTEN!!! It's no wonder he's the way he is. The rest of us siblings have washed our hands clean of him.
Tus viv ncaus koj tus txiv muaj ib tug pojniam nyob sab nraud lawm kuv tus txiv twb ua ib yam li ntawd thaum kuv paub ces luag twb tham zoo 2 lawm thiab luag tseem xav nyiaj mus pojniam hmoob nplog thiab luag mus qhov twg los luag yeej g qhia yus paub tos yus paub luag twb mus deb lawm nrog tu siab ib yam li kuv thiab
Zaj #4, ua zoo nug zoo2 yog nws ua no thov yog nws hlub nej cov niam tub rau koj ces kom nws nrog koj coj nws mus nrhiav kev txiav Yeeb seb nws puas yeem. Hos yog nws tsis tau ua ces kom nws qhia qhov tseeb los yog mus kuaj kiag, otherwise, I leave him now before it’s too late.
3 tsis tau lig rau kj cov mus txiab yeeb thiab coj los ntseeg Vajtswv amen 4 hais kom kj tus txiv txhob yuav kj tus kwv neb mus rent ib lub apartmen rau nws nyob thiaj li save
1. Viv cau, tso tu txiv kos los tau los mas. Ua neej yu yeej vam ib tus txiv los nrog yu ua neej. Los ua txiv rau tej minyuam. Koj nyob ciag li twb tsi muaj txiv...
First Q. This Guy didnt like the way his wife went to her side of the Family so he had to her back losed his Face to all her familh mebers...that was the problem on him now..😮😮😮
Tus txiv nrog tus niam xum nyob toj ntxas ces cia nws nyob nws tim toj ntxas xwb txhob hlub lawm yog koj tseem hluas ces mus yuav txiv yau muab nrauj pov tseg
Your husband and you should talk to your brother-in law. Ask him to be clean, and this is the last time that you two give him a chance. If your husband agrees with you, you should give him a chance..he is his brother. Put you at his place...!
Q #1 Txhais tau tias koj tus txiv hlub nws lub tsheb tshaj tus poj niam no mas, yog nws tseem yuav koj ces lam nyob ib ntus saib zoo mus li ca, Q#2 koj txiv cov niag thaub laus no ces yeej nyiam poj mos Ab, tab niag poj mos Ab tsi xav yuav koj lawm, qhov uas tus pog no hais lus phem nej cov menyuam muab kaw kom tau nej cov menyuam coj nws mus nce xam muab nws xa rov Qab tau kawg.
Teb story #1. Tsis paub xyov koj tus txiv neb muaj teeb meem dabtsi es koj thiaj li khiav mus rau tim koj cov neej tsa tiam sis nyob li ntawm kuv tus txiv mas nws hais tias yog hnub twg kuv khiav mus rau tim neej tsa lawm ces kawg rauj lawm xwb vim nws tsis xav kom neej tsa los yog kwv tij paub txog yus cov personal issues. Muab koj lub neej qhia rau kwv tij thiab neej tsa ces feem coob lawv tsuas thuam thiab luag koj xwb so most men don’t like it. Maybe your man is one of those men that do not appreciate koj khiav mus rau neej tsa.
Story 3 Sister, your husband is definitely on drugs he is in the first stage only, and he will deny everything that you ask him.. better you help him ASAP before it's too late.if you still want to be with your husband...I'm the same way my husband denied everything i ask him, until he lost so much weight, and i want it out, he finally ask me for help,.
Q:1 koj yog ib tus poj niam pheej khiav mus ua nkauj fa ces ua ntau lawv dhuav koj lawm ces ua rau nws ntxub xwb os ces luag tu siab heev rau yus lawm cDCes kawg yuav nyob nyuaj siab lawm xwb os.
Ua tsaug koj cov lus o qhov kuv tau khiav ntawv vim nws tau ntaus kuv thiab cem tias yog kuv g tawm nws yuav xa kuv li xa dab e yog koj no koj ho yuav ua li cas
Q 2 Me Ntxhais kom koj txiv kav tsij muab niag poj laib liam lim hiam zoo li no xa rov qab mus nplog kom sai li sai tau xwb zoo dua nawb, yog koj txiv tsis ua dab tsi li no ces, thaum twg tus poj laib no cem phem2 ua phem zoo li cas los nej nyiag muab thaij thiab muab kaw kom tau poj laib cov lus phem2 ntawd coj mus foob rau tub ceev xwm los yog nram immigration lawv tias tus pog laib no koj txiv mus yuav nws tuaj ua koj tus poj niam tab sis nws ua phem2 heev no seb immigration lawv hais li cas xwb.
Story #1. Sister ntshe neb ib niam txiv ua dej paug siab es tau los zaum ua zoo sib tham seb nws puas qhia nws txoj kev tusiab rau koj thiab. Story #2 yog nej niam tshiab tsis muaj respect nej txiv thiab nej ces coj mus hais rau nws cov neej tsa hais. Dhau ntawv tsis mloog tsis hloov ces nej txiv yeem ua li cas los tau ma.
Stoy1 hmoob ib txwm tias dej txias paug siab lawm Story3 yus mus ua phooj ywg rau cov neeg zoo li cas ces yus yuav coj li ntawm Story 4 vim yus tsi xav kom nws cov me nyuam loj hlob nrog tej yam tsi zoo
Q4: I hope your husband comes across my message. I know for a fact inmates are assigned a social worker and a parole officer upon release. They help inmates find housing, jobs, etc (if necessary). They have public assistance to help those like your BIL get back on their feet. Most of the time, those who have been in jail/prison end back in there bc of their bad habits. Your husband needs to build that trust w/ his brother again. Your husband must understand that love can be shown to his brother in a different way. Don't enable him. Direct him in the right direction instead. Help w/ the little things only. An advice to you both. People tend to think about the "can't" very often. Instead of saying "can't", say "how". Example: I can't help this person..... instead think about, how can I help this person..... I hope things work out for you all. Good luck.
Q3, sounds like he is doing meth. You don't have to divorce him yet. Try to understand him and get him help. Your marriage can still be saved if he is willing to get help. But if he refused, then its ok for you to leave him.
Q.2 me ntxhais aw hmoob nplog ces lawd tsis nyiam kawm qhov zoo li os lawv tsuas txawj ua thaj hauj lwm pw ntxeev tiaj es nrhab lawd txhaus ceg nqos hmoob txawv teb chaws rab yaj phom xwb thiab lawd ua hnub ua hmo kawm mushrooms thiab hotdog xwb es lawd thiaj txawj ua lub maib ntawd xwb yog koj txiv mloog nej hais mas kav tsij muab xa rov qab zoo dua
#1: we only hear your side of the story only so need to hear your husband's side too in order to give proper advice. But if it's based on your side of the story, your husband has some one else & he doesn't love or care for you any more. You may not be safe if you keep nagging him. #2: your father may never be able to send your mean step mom back. She is trying to give him a stroke. You guys need to make sure your father don't sign his life insurance & title to anything to her. The only way your evil step mom will leave you guys alone is either your father sits in a wheel chair or she leave on her only. #4: your husband is torn between his family, you & your kids, and honoring his mom's dying wish. Tell your husband you support him but Your husband needs to give his brother an ultimatum to clean up and find his own place after a few months. Staying with you is only temporary. If your husband can't, then you will leave.
Sister, when your man isn't give a sht about you anymore, it means his not in love with you anymore, and already have someone else....dont bother to stay in this marriage anymore, move on find someone who loves you and do things with you, . Your husband doesn't love you anymore, he have someone else..
Topic #1 koj yuav tsum tau hais rau koj tus txiv tias kom nws xyaum hais ib co lus zoo2 rau koj ua ntej uas av yuav vov nws no maj! Topic #2 puas yog nej txiv ntshaw2 kom niam mos ab tuaj muab nej txiv tsim naj? Nws twb mom koj txiv txheej es nej kuj hais qhia rau immigration tias nws tuaj ua ntau yam kev phem, nej uv tsis taus lawm kom lawv muab xa rov qab mus nyob noj loj vag xwb mas thiaj zoo rau nws no mas. Topic #3. Koj yuav tau hais kom koj tus txiv tso tseg txhob haus yeeb dawb, yog nws tsis tso ces koj txhob yuav nws, vim haus yeeb dawb mas yuav danger rau koj family nawb. Topic 4. Yog koj tus txiv tsis mloog koj hais ces koj kav tsij coj koj ob tus mi nyuam mus xauj tsev nej nyob nawb, vim neb tus kwv danger heev, ua li kij xav yeej yog zoo tswv yim os ...yuav pab mi nyuam ces pab thaum teebmeem tsis tau tshwm sim nawj.
Q1- vim koj khiav lawm koj thiaj tsis muaj voice. Q2- nrhab yeej tsis zoo, koj txiv hom lob nrhab los tso saum nws plaub hau ces pab tsis tau. Q3- yog yeeb dawb. Q4- first straight up your husband and give him and his bro one chance to prove that he’s a change man. If they do anything stupid then you outta there.
No, you and your husband should not let your husband brother in , he will destroy your . Your husband 's brother can't change because the narcotics soaked in his body forever. So get out the sooner the better.
Q#4 no no don’t let his brother in the house living with your family because it is going to be danger to your kids and you especially when you don’t have money to gave to him do Drugs he will steal from you. I have the same situation right now. Every time when he calls my husband either is back in jail or asking for money only. I’m really sick of this shit now.
No, you and your husband should not let your husband brother in , he will destroy your . Your husband 's brother can't change because the narcotics soaked in his body forever. So get out the sooner the better.
Q2. Xa rov qab zoo dua
Story 2. Your dad needs to send your stepmom back ASAP.
Agree send her back ASAP
q#4 hlub yus ua ntej. yog ib tug neeg phem los nrog yus nyob ces yus rov tua yus nawb.
Q:2 me ntxhais aw!! Kav tsij muab nws lawb dab rov mus nrog nws cov niag tib neeg nyob thisj paub txog txoj kev txomnyem nyob nplog mog zoo tshaj nawb.
Xa kiag rov qab xwb zoo dua nawb me ntxhais
Don’t forget to love yourself sister #1
Ua taug o
❤nqi 2,cov me hais yog lawm xa rov qab xwb.
For those that try to yell the loudest and use profanity, it’s because they are uncivilized and think they can win by being that way.
Nqi 4 ua li koj hais kom los yeej zoo nawj mog 😮
#4 sister you gotta do what is best and Healthy for you and your kids. I’ve been in your shoe and I know how frustrating it was. It was so toxic and I was starting to get anxiety attack. I had to put my thick face mask on and say no. If he wants his brother then bye
Yes xav nej tus nia.m hmoob nplog ntawm ko rov qab is the best..
Topic 1: ua zoo investigate tij zaum koj tus txiv hloov siab rau koj lawm.
Qhov teeb meem koj tus txiv mus tas li vim koj khiav ib zaug ua rau nws tu siab rau koj lawm vim koj ua rau nws txias siab lawm!
Q#4 no no don’t let his brother in the house living with your family because it is going to be danger to your kids and you especially when you don’t have money to gave to him do Drugs he will steal from you. I have the same situation right now. Every time when he calls my husband either is back in jail or asking for money only. I’m really sick of this shit now.
Q:#1 xav Kom zoo ces rov mus neej ta txhob rov los lawm xwb mas
Story # 2
Nej kav tsij pab Koj txiv muag tus niam you no xa rov qab mus nplog teb xwb
4. My advice is - get a section 8 apt for your BIL. You husband can still help that way.
Q#4. Do not let your brother in- lawm come to live you. I have been through this situation b 4 it’s not good idea
Koj tus txiv tham tau hluas nkauj ces Nws thiaj ntxub koj heev li. Qhov nws tuaj tos koj Yog cov menyuam xwb.
#4 teb koj tus niam tsev yog tias muaj tseeb22 li koj hais ko ces ntxov xuas Kaub txais mas zoo dua nawv ib yuav nej cov niam tub los ob yuav nws tus kwv li no xwb vim nws tus kwv dhau 18 lub Xyooj’s lawm nyias muaj nyias neej lawm nawv mog
Q3. Xyuas kom meej2 yog muaj tiag ces kawg yuav tau tawm ntawm lub neej
#1, niam tsev aw ua siab ntev os! Hlub koj cov mi nyuam thiab koj tus kheej es ua siab ntev. Qhov txiv neej ntxub tshaj ces yog qhov poj niam khiav ua nkauj fa es lawv lub siab twb hloov tag txias tag lawm. Qhov koj yuav yeej nws ces ua siab ntev thiab zoo tshaj qub rau nws lawm xwb koj thiaj tau nws rov qab los.
#2, sister, if your daddy’s baby wife is already citizen you can’t send her back. I knows someone a baby wife, her husband fly with her back to Laos and took all her documents and flew back to the U. S and left her there. The baby wife went to the embassy and was able to come back to the U. S. Good luck!
Cov hmoob nplog yeej qianeeg tiag tiag kuv yog tus 1 yov xaz tus mecab no roqab.
Dej txiav pauv siab ces zoo li no tiag
Seb koj puas tau ua qee yam txais nws siab Kev niam txiv nyias his nyias kwj tse. Peb txiv neej mas yog Tus poj niam ua tej yam txias siab lawm ces yeej ntxuav tsis tawm
Ua ntsaug koj lo lus o kuv g tau ua rau nws tab sim vim thaum wb sib yuav ntawv lawv tsev neeg yeej ib txwm g nyiam kuv o tus me nus
Koj txiv tsis xa ces nej kav tsij xa koj txiv nrog mus tib si ho vim koj txiv yog hmoob nplog thiab ne cov me nyuam aw xa xa xa rov qab
Q1. That mean your husband no longer want you. He just come and get you so your parents don’t say anything to him. Best is break up in this way your kids will see their parents live a happy life.
Q2. It’s better to send your step mom back. If she stay longer there will be more problems to your family. Because she use your dad to come over to US and she see better opportunities and her feelings change her mind when she first premise to love your dad.
Q3. Your husband is doing drug and you need to talk to him and see if he wants help. If he say no or he don’t want to admit. Then that mean you need to choose between your kids and your husband.
Q4. Better to let your bnl to stay by himself. In this way your bnl will not interfere with your life. Also he can make your husband pick between his brother and your family. Better call your elder to decision about this matter.
It's wonderful to share sincere thoughts, thank you.
Yeeb dawb ruin my life growing up. I didn't do it but my parents did. We grew up so poor. I wore a shoe to school for 2 years and it was a use shoe. I hated my parents so much. I wanted to go to military never see them again. If your family is doing yeeb dawb there life is over. My dad would steal money from my room. When my dad past away I didn't cry.
#1: ib niag txiv li hiam hlwb 75 niag ruam tsab tse zoo li Kos ces yuav los tsis zoo dab tsis. Cov tibneeg ua yuav hlub peb tiag tiag ces yog peb tsev neeg xwb. Sab rauv yog cov noj peb dawb dawb. Hlub peb tsev neeg ua ntej mam li mus hlub sab rauv
Q4: When it comes to protecting your children, a mother will stop at nothing; however, one of the reasons why we have multiple children is that they will help each other. Just think of it this way, you have 2 children and someday when your husband and you are no longer on this earth and God forbid but one of your kids is in need of help. How would you want the stable child to treat your other child. Your husband is a man of his words and that is an excellent character in a person, especially in a spouse. Give your bil a chance with set boundaries.
Also for story 4: Addiction is a disease. The best thing you can do for him is to get him help. What kind of trauma did he face when he was younger? Only mental and behavioral health experts can break that down. Even if he manages to get help and quit, he has to stay away from anything that triggers him. The feelings of when he's high or drunk will ALWAYS be there, and he will have to learn how to reflect and deflect. Even if your hubby has promised his mother to watch his younger brother, you have to step in and do what's right for your brother. If he's truly clean and want to change, then give him a chance to prove himself, but if he starts using again, he's out.
Teb zaj 1. Sister, yog koj yuav khaws koj niag txiv tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws txhua lo lus tu siab uas nws hais rau koj xwb ces yuav tu2 siab tas ib sim neej thiaj yeej tsis Xav hais lus rau nws, tsis Xav nrog nws ua ke, tsis muaj ntsuj plig li lawm os, es yuav tu2 siab tsis muaj kua muag li lawm thiab yeej Xav tias lub neej yog nws mus lawm los yus yuav tsis paub quaj, hos yog yus ho ua ntej los xyhov nws puas quaj yus, tabsis yus cia li uv rau yus tej minyuam xwb es yog yus twb 50-60 xyoo lawm ces yus hlub yus tus kheej es uv kom tau chaw tuag lawm xwb os.
Q4: You can kindly tell your husband that you both will find the brother a place to get on his feet. He can't live with you guys & kids. You can only help him if he want to help himself.
Me ntxhais koj txiv yuav tau niam nyiaj tuaj ua neej ces thiaj zoo li no xa rov nplog zoo dua
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#1 vi cau xob tu siab hai g tau ce xob hai ua ib siab thiaj g mob lhwb o # poj mhoob nlpog yeej pheem g zoo ce xav ro qab mu nlpog xob ua nw paub ua tib ywm xav xwb mhoob nplog yeej nyiam3 hai lu pheem3 lawv g muaj ke kawm neej vov ne nyuam hai yog lawm
Q3 - when we are talking about "yeeb dawb" what are we referring to? If its opioids--depending on how much they use, how they've use it, and for how long. If it has not been that long and hes not using it on a daily basis, usually he can detox or get off of it at home easily with OTC medications. I recommend you separating him from his friends that are influencing him to use. He can be detox but if he's still living in the same community and hanging around with the same people, he will eventually go back to using again. Give him the ultimatum as he needs to do this himself, you cant force someone to detox because he will go back and use again. Each time he detox and goes back to using, it increases his chance of mortality. Please have narcan around the house incase of an overdose. Sadly this is the true reality of the opioid pandemic.
Now if "yeeb dawb" is cocaine, usually theres no detox for it.
Q4. Neb xum mus xauj 1 lub tsev rau neb tus kwv nyob zoo dua
Viv ncau peb ua neej nyob mas tsis txhob khiav2 nkauj fa yog koj khiav tas li xwb yuav ua rau lawv tsis xav hlub koj lawm ib qho los khiav ob qho los khiav ua rau lawv ntxub koj xwb tiag
Tus txiv neej uas mus tua nas, mus hunting ces yog neeg ntxeev siab mus ua neeg phem.
Good evening,
1. It would have been good to know what dispute/fallout initially caused the separation in the beginning. However, when respect and openness is gone and things are very cold, it is time to move on. Take some time off and reflect. If sincerity and honesty come back then reconsider and rekindle is possible. Do not dwell in dark places; danger lurks and before you know it, it may be too late.
2. Well, young sister, I'm afraid your dad did this to you and your siblings. This is what happens when a young mind is subjected to sick abuse beyond their understandings. They lash out in anger; it is kind of way to release the hurt, pain, and confusion. Just imaging if you were forced or coerced into such a relationship. I know that you would never.....but, honestly how would you feel if you were. ...My point is that she didn't have much of a choice, and oh, so much had to be sacrificed. To your final question, send her back because it was not good to begin with, however it is your dad that you should be upset with. He was the one that not just brought but create crudeness and hate in your life.
3. Watch the signs, it's not that hard to known when someone is into hard drugs. Your facts are more then abundant, and he has a drug problem. Rehab is possible but will require much will and help. The most important thing is if he realize his problem and is willing to work hard. If you really love each other and work hard at it, it can be overcome. But, please save some room for protection in case things turn for the worst, you need to be able to get out safely.
4. This one is very dangerous. Long term drug users are very volatile, unpredictable, and extremely dangerous. With two young, preteen kids, please don't subject them to such severe potential harm. Maybe if he has gone through rehab and additional strength education, then try with extreme caution.
Good night and good luck. When it come down to drug or extreme psyche issues, very careful precaution is needed. One miss step can end up in grave consequences.
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Story 2. Ua lub txias txias kom koj txiv ntxias tias coj rov mus saib nws Niam nws txiv ces xa rov qab xwb. Nyob los tsis zoo rau nej lub Neej. Yog nws khiav dim koj txiv lawm los Tseem yuav mus rhuav lwm tus lub Neej thiab. Xa rov kom seb nws mam paub tias kuv dag thiab laus ces mog xwb.
Q4. Regarding your brother-in-law being released, I think that your husband is putting your whole family at risk especially you and your children because your brother-in-law is a criminal and he can commit crime at any time other than that he could be a child predator which you cannot trust and you cannot let him be around your kids especially your teenage daughter. Your husband isn’t considerate and he’s taking his brother sides before you and his kids so what you decided to do is probably the best decision. I would say stay until your brother in gets released and see he will fit in, wait to see I f your brother-in-law is going to change, become a better person or how’s he’s going to fit in and if it’s not, you can move your kids out. Right now you’re prejudging so you give your brother-in-law a chance before you make a rational decisions. But by the end of the day, it is your life, your marriage and your family, ou’re a grown woman so you can make your own decision, you do you.
Story 4: Speaking from experience, whatever you do, DON'T ENABLE YOUR BROTHER!!! By giving him a place to stay, you're enabling him. I understand he's your brother, and you love him, but he needs to see how hard it is. Don't give him a place to stay, don't give him money. Give him ready to eat food and drink and watch him finish it while you're there. Desperate ppl will do anything for money. Don't let him use you guys as a crutch. I have an older brother who's an addict. My parents willingly let him use them as a crutch, and they SPOIL HIM ROTTEN!!! It's no wonder he's the way he is. The rest of us siblings have washed our hands clean of him.
Q4: if he choses his brother, then leave him. Think of your and your kids’ safety first. Let him live with his druggy brother.
Tus viv ncaus koj tus txiv muaj ib tug pojniam nyob sab nraud lawm kuv tus txiv twb ua ib yam li ntawd thaum kuv paub ces luag twb tham zoo 2 lawm thiab luag tseem xav nyiaj mus pojniam hmoob nplog thiab luag mus qhov twg los luag yeej g qhia yus paub tos yus paub luag twb mus deb lawm nrog tu siab ib yam li kuv thiab
Zaj #4, ua zoo nug zoo2 yog nws ua no thov yog nws hlub nej cov niam tub rau koj ces kom nws nrog koj coj nws mus nrhiav kev txiav Yeeb seb nws puas yeem. Hos yog nws tsis tau ua ces kom nws qhia qhov tseeb los yog mus kuaj kiag, otherwise, I leave him now before it’s too late.
Kuv teb txog tus poj laib hmoob nplog ces pom zoo muab xa rov mus nplog txhob pub nyob meskas teb , txhua tus poj laib hmoob nplog siab phem yuav tsum muab xa mus kom tas
Q1. Yog uv taus ces nyob twj ywm Li ko, yog uv tsis taus ces pauv neej tshiab
Ua tsaug koj cov lus o
3 tsis tau lig rau kj cov mus txiab yeeb thiab coj los ntseeg Vajtswv amen
4 hais kom kj tus txiv txhob yuav kj tus kwv neb mus rent ib lub apartmen rau nws nyob thiaj li save
Topic 1, 3, and 4 kawg mus yauv txiv yau lawm xwb
1. Viv cau, tso tu txiv kos los tau los mas. Ua neej yu yeej vam ib tus txiv los nrog yu ua neej. Los ua txiv rau tej minyuam. Koj nyob ciag li twb tsi muaj txiv...
Hey sister I agree cause I don't even know what they are trying to say and don't want to know so I don't like it at all.....
Nej muab ntxias xa rov qab mus tim nplog xwb ' nej txhob yuav koj txiv hais 'nej niam yau yog Bergman qus
First Q. This Guy didnt like the way his wife went to her side of the Family so he had to her back losed his Face to all her familh mebers...that was the problem on him now..😮😮😮
Nqi 3,koj tus txiv haus xas lawm.
Tus txiv nrog tus niam xum nyob toj ntxas ces cia nws nyob nws tim toj ntxas xwb txhob hlub lawm yog koj tseem hluas ces mus yuav txiv yau muab nrauj pov tseg
Qhov ua tsheb tsoo es tus txiv cem cem tias tsheb piam cas yus ho tsis tuag ntawv ces kuv twb yog ib tug ua mag ntawv thiab tiag
Your husband and you should talk to your brother-in law. Ask him to be clean, and this is the last time that you two give him a chance. If your husband agrees with you, you should give him a chance..he is his brother. Put you at his place...!
Q #1 Txhais tau tias koj tus txiv hlub nws lub tsheb tshaj tus poj niam no mas, yog nws tseem yuav koj ces lam nyob ib ntus saib zoo mus li ca,
Q#2 koj txiv cov niag thaub laus no ces yeej nyiam poj mos Ab, tab niag poj mos Ab tsi xav yuav koj lawm, qhov uas tus pog no hais lus phem nej cov menyuam muab kaw kom tau nej cov menyuam coj nws mus nce xam muab nws xa rov Qab tau kawg.
Teb story #1. Tsis paub xyov koj tus txiv neb muaj teeb meem dabtsi es koj thiaj li khiav mus rau tim koj cov neej tsa tiam sis nyob li ntawm kuv tus txiv mas nws hais tias yog hnub twg kuv khiav mus rau tim neej tsa lawm ces kawg rauj lawm xwb vim nws tsis xav kom neej tsa los yog kwv tij paub txog yus cov personal issues. Muab koj lub neej qhia rau kwv tij thiab neej tsa ces feem coob lawv tsuas thuam thiab luag koj xwb so most men don’t like it. Maybe your man is one of those men that do not appreciate koj khiav mus rau neej tsa.
# no need to put u and children’s life at risk. No need to be a good wifey and take in druggy and lazy people
Xa kiag xwb os koj niam nws mus lawm phem npaum ko
Q4 Tell your husband picking and chose, yes move out when he come it's scary to live with person like that
Story 3
Sister, your husband is definitely on drugs he is in the first stage only, and he will deny everything that you ask him.. better you help him ASAP before it's too late.if you still want to be with your husband...I'm the same way my husband denied everything i ask him, until he lost so much weight, and i want it out, he finally ask me for help,.
Q:1 koj yog ib tus poj niam pheej khiav mus ua nkauj fa ces ua ntau lawv dhuav koj lawm ces ua rau nws ntxub xwb os ces luag tu siab heev rau yus lawm cDCes kawg yuav nyob nyuaj siab lawm xwb os.
Ua tsaug koj cov lus o qhov kuv tau khiav ntawv vim nws tau ntaus kuv thiab cem tias yog kuv g tawm nws yuav xa kuv li xa dab e yog koj no koj ho yuav ua li cas
Question #1 koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj lawm os me vivncaus aw. Koj yuav tau ua ib siab os mog. Mus nrhiav tus tshiab xwb os mog. 😅
Q 2 Me Ntxhais kom koj txiv kav tsij muab niag poj laib liam lim hiam zoo li no xa rov qab mus nplog kom sai li sai tau xwb zoo dua nawb, yog koj txiv tsis ua dab tsi li no ces, thaum twg tus poj laib no cem phem2 ua phem zoo li cas los nej nyiag muab thaij thiab muab kaw kom tau poj laib cov lus phem2 ntawd coj mus foob rau tub ceev xwm los yog nram immigration lawv tias tus pog laib no koj txiv mus yuav nws tuaj ua koj tus poj niam tab sis nws ua phem2 heev no seb immigration lawv hais li cas xwb.
Q2: She's describing her own itchy mushroom xwb os.😉
Nws twb tsis hlub koj mas ……nws muaj lwm tus nas me sister awd…..😢
xa rov qab xwb mas
Story #1. Sister ntshe neb ib niam txiv ua dej paug siab es tau los zaum ua zoo sib tham seb nws puas qhia nws txoj kev tusiab rau koj thiab.
Story #2 yog nej niam tshiab tsis muaj respect nej txiv thiab nej ces coj mus hais rau nws cov neej tsa hais. Dhau ntawv tsis mloog tsis hloov ces nej txiv yeem ua li cas los tau ma.
Stoy1 hmoob ib txwm tias dej txias paug siab lawm
Story3 yus mus ua phooj ywg rau cov neeg zoo li cas ces yus yuav coj li ntawm
Story 4 vim yus tsi xav kom nws cov me nyuam loj hlob nrog tej yam tsi zoo
Q4: I hope your husband comes across my message. I know for a fact inmates are assigned a social worker and a parole officer upon release. They help inmates find housing, jobs, etc (if necessary). They have public assistance to help those like your BIL get back on their feet. Most of the time, those who have been in jail/prison end back in there bc of their bad habits. Your husband needs to build that trust w/ his brother again. Your husband must understand that love can be shown to his brother in a different way. Don't enable him. Direct him in the right direction instead. Help w/ the little things only.
An advice to you both. People tend to think about the "can't" very often. Instead of saying "can't", say "how". Example: I can't help this person..... instead think about, how can I help this person.....
I hope things work out for you all. Good luck.
Nqi ib, tus ntxhais aws koj tus txiv twb tsis hlub koj lawv so ne.
Ua tsaug koj cov lus o
Q3, sounds like he is doing meth. You don't have to divorce him yet. Try to understand him and get him help. Your marriage can still be saved if he is willing to get help. But if he refused, then its ok for you to leave him.
Q.2 me ntxhais aw hmoob nplog ces lawd tsis nyiam kawm qhov zoo li os lawv tsuas txawj ua thaj hauj lwm pw ntxeev tiaj es nrhab lawd txhaus ceg nqos hmoob txawv teb chaws rab yaj phom xwb thiab lawd ua hnub ua hmo kawm mushrooms thiab hotdog xwb es lawd thiaj txawj ua lub maib ntawd xwb yog koj txiv mloog nej hais mas kav tsij muab xa rov qab zoo dua
Koj txiv tus niam mos ab kos phem dhau muab nws xa rov qhov os nawb.. vim nplog nyiam hais pim thiab qauj xwb..
#1: we only hear your side of the story only so need to hear your husband's side too in order to give proper advice. But if it's based on your side of the story, your husband has some one else & he doesn't love or care for you any more. You may not be safe if you keep nagging him.
#2: your father may never be able to send your mean step mom back. She is trying to give him a stroke. You guys need to make sure your father don't sign his life insurance & title to anything to her. The only way your evil step mom will leave you guys alone is either your father sits in a wheel chair or she leave on her only.
#4: your husband is torn between his family, you & your kids, and honoring his mom's dying wish. Tell your husband you support him but Your husband needs to give his brother an ultimatum to clean up and find his own place after a few months. Staying with you is only temporary. If your husband can't, then you will leave.
Sister, when your man isn't give a sht about you anymore, it means his not in love with you anymore, and already have someone else....dont bother to stay in this marriage anymore, move on find someone who loves you and do things with you, . Your husband doesn't love you anymore, he have someone else..
No need to find him a place to stay. He is a grown ass adult who needs to learn to be responsible. Paying his rent will just enable him even more.
Topic #1 koj yuav tsum tau hais rau koj tus txiv tias kom nws xyaum hais ib co lus zoo2 rau koj ua ntej uas av yuav vov nws no maj!
Topic #2 puas yog nej txiv ntshaw2 kom niam mos ab tuaj muab nej txiv tsim naj? Nws twb mom koj txiv txheej es nej kuj hais qhia rau immigration tias nws tuaj ua ntau yam kev phem, nej uv tsis taus lawm kom lawv muab xa rov qab mus nyob noj loj vag xwb mas thiaj zoo rau nws no mas.
Topic #3. Koj yuav tau hais kom koj tus txiv tso tseg txhob haus yeeb dawb, yog nws tsis tso ces koj txhob yuav nws, vim haus yeeb dawb mas yuav danger rau koj family nawb.
Topic 4. Yog koj tus txiv tsis mloog koj hais ces koj kav tsij coj koj ob tus mi nyuam mus xauj tsev nej nyob nawb, vim neb tus kwv danger heev, ua li kij xav yeej yog zoo tswv yim os ...yuav pab mi nyuam ces pab thaum teebmeem tsis tau tshwm sim nawj.
Cov niag moob nplog es yeej sis txoj cai hais lus phem li kho. Nej muab xav tsov qab mus nplog xwb os miv ntxhais aw
Q1- vim koj khiav lawm koj thiaj tsis muaj voice.
Q2- nrhab yeej tsis zoo, koj txiv hom lob nrhab los tso saum nws plaub hau ces pab tsis tau.
Q3- yog yeeb dawb.
Q4- first straight up your husband and give him and his bro one chance to prove that he’s a change man. If they do anything stupid then you outta there.
Yam 1. Tej zaum koj ua rau koj tu txiv tu suab thiab saib tsis taus nws. 2. Tej zaum nws muaj dua tus tshiab lawm. 3.tej zaum koj tsis nav thwm nws yam li koj saib nws tsis rau nqi,koj tias nws ruam thiab koj tsab ntse.
Q1 koj tus txiv mauj hlaus nkauj lawm xwb es nws taiv us phem rov koj os
Ua tsaug koj cov lus o
Koj txiv tsis kam xa 'nej yuav tsumxaxwb 'quia rau Trump
Your husband did drugs 100 don't wait on him nomatter what he did drugs
#1 your husband doesn't love you
No, you and your husband should not let your husband brother in , he will destroy your . Your husband 's brother can't change because the narcotics soaked in his body forever. So get out the sooner the better.
Q#4 no no don’t let his brother in the house living with your family because it is going to be danger to your kids and you especially when you don’t have money to gave to him do Drugs he will steal from you. I have the same situation right now. Every time when he calls my husband either is back in jail or asking for money only. I’m really sick of this shit now.
No, you and your husband should not let your husband brother in , he will destroy your . Your husband 's brother can't change because the narcotics soaked in his body forever. So get out the sooner the better.