Unless you’ve endured the journey of infertility and /or infant loss, it is impossible to fully understand and appreciate the gift this man has given us through his vulnerability and openness and by sharing his story and his grief with us in such an honest way. I’m so thankful I came across this video today.
I went through a miscarriage with my ex 7 months ago. And it still hurts too this day. There’s always “what if’s” and what hurt the most was my ex didn’t even want our baby. So she left me when she miscarried.. but I am fine about that now. I let her go. But this precious baby, my baby. The pain never truly goes away. I still cry, but I do my best to honour the life that could have been my baby. By succeeding in my goals. And its okay to cry. Sorry I don’t mean to get deep. Just thought I’d share
my mam had miscarrige but she have children after the baby she lost but she never forget him and she always remeber him as one of us her children .. she always say she have 6 children not 5 .
I understand your pain brother, same thing happened with me , i lost everything, she left after the abortion.its okay to cry, bcz we are forgotten fathers.
My wife just experienced a stillbirth. It’s reassuring to see others have experienced the loss and enduring the pain it brings and found a way to keep going.
What a powerful testimony of unconditional and forever love! Katie and Noah are right there beside their daddy and mama! You’ve touched so many lives by sharing your story ! This is what some people have been praying for while struggling in silence for so long! God Bless you!
I lost my daughter, our first child, when we were at 6 weeks. We had no way of knowing for sure it was a girl, but I knew. I'd dreamt of her. Had a dream about 2 days before we lost her. I saw her whole life. I saw her be born. Saw her face, just like her mother's. Saw her grow up and go to school for the first time. Dance, play, dance again. She was an energetic little girl. I saw her grow into a beautiful young woman and saw her in a dress. I remember very few dreams, but I remember that dream vividly. Ever aspect of it was as real to me as a memory. When we lost her, my wife was hurt badly. I comforted her as best I could. But I was broken, utterly and entirely. I did what I could, and my wife has healed a great deal. But that part of me that broke, it hasn't healed. Even now, with my son being born and another son on the way... I still cry every few days for the daughter I never got to hold. To this day I know that part of me will forever be broken. I'll always grieve her. I'll always hate this world for taking her from me. She was everything to me. I was in a very dark place when we found out we were going to have a baby. She was my lifeline. My wife had done all she could, but I wanted to die at that point in my life. When we found out about Myrtle, it gave me a hope I hadn't had in a long time. And that hope was torn away from me 6 weeks later. I held on for my wife, bit it brought me to a point that I held a gun to my head for over 3 hours trying to pull the trigger. I didn't. I still have that bullet but I've sold the gun. I won't let this destroy me. I refuse to. I've got my wife, and I've got my 2 sons. And one day I'll see my daughter. And when that day comes I will hold her, and I will make sure she knows how much she is loved and missed. I love you Darlin, I love you sunshine. I love you Myrtle.
"There's only two times a man can cry: when his father dies, and when his team loses." - my brother, when I was 13. I lost a child at week 17. I didn't think I could cry. 16 years later it still hurts. If there is a god, he gave us this man as a gift and a blessing.
I keep telling myself, it was only a 5 weeks pregnancy, but I've never experienced pain like it. It's been a week now since it happened, and its raw. I know it's early days but life feels empty atm. Giving my love all the support she needs and this is how I'm dealing with it.
My kid would've been 6 months old this month. We almost made it out of the first trimester. It's been a year and a half. We've been trying but to no avail. It seems harder and harder each month when my wife goes into her periods. They are hurting her more and that worries me.
This one of the best videos i seen so far in my life today im 27 and experienced 2 miscarriages it didn't hit in the begging but now after 2 years it hurts dont know how to deal with it specially when i grew up without a dad its so hard i guess for men to deal with this type of loss and we hardly get attention from it just like this video explained i hope this life-situation overcomes and finds a way to help those mentally/soul hurted not only for woman but for men as well
My wife just miscarried a few days ago. We were at 6 weeks, so it was still early, but it still hurts. I put my own feelings off for this whole time to focus on her until my boss noticed something was up and forced me to take the rest of the week off. I’m frustrated; at first, I didn’t feel anything, and then it slowly piled up on me. I still haven’t been able to cry, but I just feel dead inside; I can barely even eat. I’m not sure what to do aside from comfort my wife.
First off, Mr. Farley, my heart goes out to you and your wife. I hope you know so many men who have suffered or are suffering are with you and supporting you. My wife and I lost Cody at 6 months into our pregnancy. We thought we were in the clear for a healthy birth because we passed the first trimester. It rocked our lives, our marriage, and our perspective on life. We had already lost twins at 14 weeks before that and had promised ourselves we wouldn't get our hopes up until after the 1st trimester. When we lost Cody it was so hard. Not only was it hard supporting my wife through the loss but it was so hard to realize that it was ok for me to need help too. Luckily I am an emotional guy and my friends know it so when I asked for help they were all there for me. To those of you out there who think your friends won't be there for you, think again. Even if they don't understand it, reach out to them and know the love that surrounds you. Secondly, one of the hardest things for me was realizing that the future I built in my mind for my unborn child want not going to come true. A really good friend of mine suggested that we take Cody's ashes and go do the things I had imagined for his future. I won't lie to you, it was HARD. But, the outcome was such a relief. I made unfinished dreams come to life with the child I would never get to have. And in some way, it was so healing to do this with him even if it was just his ashes. I am still tearing up as I write this because the loss was really hard but my hope is if I can help another father who's heart for his unborn child he lost is as big as mine, maybe I can help a father through their loss. Thank you so much Mr. Farley for posting this video and bringing awareness to the issue.
I also lost my baby, I always wanted to be a father, prayed and prayed, My girl got pregnant, I was so happy, it was like a dream, and she was gone as quick as she came our baby girl, I felt she was a girl. It is hard to go outside and see other young fathers with their babies. I am happy for them and jealous too. Why not me? I am a good person. I am a teacher and work with kids,this is hard when little children hug me, I dream of my own child hugging me. It's the second child I lost. It is hard, I feel empty inside. I cry when I am alone. But I still have faith ,I really try.
As Katy Perry sang, the reason some doors are closed are because one is there for you to lead you to the perfect road. Have Gratitude, Love and faith in the Divine Light.
I'm sorry for your loss, its ok to grieve for the loved ones that are gone. Its a sign how deep we loved someone, we need it also to move forward with the extreme pain and accept that it happens. I think we can still live in pain but its hard to live hiding it to everyone.
My wife and i just lost our 4th child at 20 weeks on sunday, she wont even go back to our apartment she hasnt been back since that morning, we've been at her moms and im going back to work tonight. I went to the funeral home yesterday and today she was cremated and place in an urn, im going in to pick her up in a few minutes and i dont know how im going to be able handle it mentally. I have 3 other wonderful children so ive kept it together so far and stay strong for them but we havent even left yet and im about to lose my mind. Thanks for letting me vent on here, i appreciate you all and god bless.
Our first one… 5 week in… So much hope and excitement for what to come. And then gone. Hopelessness. I tried to avoid the pain but now I’m here. Thank you for sharing. I am at the frozen state I should try to wake up and move on.
I was supposed to have a little girl on September 30, 2018. The mother and I had broken up by the time she told me about the baby. We lost the baby on March 2. Only until now 3 years later have I been able to process the pain of that loss. After the loss, I covered up my grief with rage and politics. I still ask myself and God what I could've done different. Emotions I've repressed for years are bubbling to the surface and it's tearing me apart. I am not financially ready for children but I would gladly trade my life so my lil Saiorse could live. I am crying as I type this. I wouldn't have been the best dad in world but I would've done my damnedest.
thank you for your testimony. I lost 8 babies in miscarriage because of broken DNA in my husband. We weren't able to elect any intervention due to the nature of the problem. it's so precious to hear a father's perspective. and rare. please dads... share so we can understand each other better!
My wife and I just lost our baby three weeks ago…. Even though it’s so fresh in our memories, I know with all my heart I will love that baby forever. We didn’t know gender, she was only 10’weeks, but as a first time father…. I finally felt what unconditional love meant. It wasn’t even a question, more a gut reaction. “I love this child and my wife” is the best way i can describe it. The loss is more pain than I ever thought was possible….. my wife is the true hero in this. The positive mindset and attitude she puts forth everyday is what makes me the luckiest man in the world. We will try again, and we will get to meet our children… And they will be told about their sibling!!❤ thank you for sharing your story sir, truly helped this grieving father
Thank you for sharing your story. My wife and I have lost 7 young lives in 5 years. The hardest was our first, our sweet boy Oliver. We got to see him on the monitors and do a naming ceremony with our families, later that same week we lost him. All this time has passed and it still hurts unbelievably bad.
My husband and I have been trying for almost for years. We found out that we are pregnant almost 2 weeks ago. Thursday I started bleeding. I have to wait until Tuesday to find out if we lost the baby or not. We're trying to be strong but this is one of the hardest things we've ever had to deal with and the waiting is horrible. Please send a prayer to whom ever or whatever you pray to for us. I'm doing the same for others that are going through this too
Me and my wife just found out 2 weeks ago she was pregenant. She has miscarried the baby and I dont know what to do. I know im supposed to comfort her. But as for me I don't know what im supposed to do
How sad that they lost both Angels, wishing them both soon recovery from this hurt. I believe he did well writing a book in support to other Dads that could be going tru the same as he did.
My wife just had a miscarriage last night. I’m just glad there was a video like this. I feel angry upset numb sad out of control despondent all at the same time. I put holy water on it and buried it by a new tree. Didn’t name it or talk to it. I just wanted to get the process over with. It’s my wife’s fifth miscarriage. We have a 5 year old daughter. I was wanting her to have a sibling and playmate. Oh well, what can you do?
My ex girlfriend had a miscarriage. It ruin our relationship I did not know how to cope with it. It hurt me inside to this day. I still haven’t gotten over it.
I just found out today that my x had a miscarriage, and I was not there to grief, I am a dad to a four year old, but to know I could of fathered another being, another star, and I just can't cry anymore, but idk what to do
We lost our daughter Paula Jay it was hard for me and twice as hard for my wife having to give birth to death....Kids are so special best gadget ever and nothing can fill our loss god gave up his son too and when my wife gave birth a couple years later we have 3 grown children now and 1 angel god made sure we were ready were 42 now oldest grandchild is 7 and we all go to Paula Jays side together and all girls in family have the middle name Jay as respect ❤❤
I went through with girlfriend. D day was yesterday. And I feel so sad we were so excited. I was so excited this would of been my first child . We had named picked out depending on gender. Im just trying hard to feel better and be there for her
Me and maa partner have suffered 5 pregnancy loses. The last lil 1.. we named them Sam had a heartbeat 1 week but not the other. As a man it's broken me again but trying to relay that to others especially a workplace is brutal but embarrassing from their stance cause males are always expected just to man up and get oon with it. Males love as much as any female. Male stigma is intoxicating. Love to all mothers and fathers out there struggling with loss. We're all warriors x
Brother! I’m so so sorry for your loss. My wife and I lost our baby girl Oct 25th, 2022. This is the hardest thing I have ever experience in my life. Don’t be afraid to talk about it. Walk to regain mental health. Sleep will be rough for a while and you are going to do a lot of crying. It’s going to be a long journey but there are many of us out here. Don’t rush anything. Take time to heal and slowly build up to putting your life back on track.
@@DLovWife I never felt this way since my mom passed in 2002 my girlfriend didn’t know affected I was by this miscarriage I told a part of me I never met is gone and I’ll get a chance to see him/her I just pushing all my anger pain tears and frustration aside for her sake I cry in silence only in front of God like today she went to work I just cried in my room blaming myself telling God I’m sorry for being this way but I have no one to blame but myself I feel like I failed
Kelly, I do not need to tell you that you are spot on. The grief never ends but we can learn to live through it. We are forever changed and we cannot go back to the guy we were before, but we need to find our new normal, to do something that is bigger than ourselves. What you have done and continue to do today is amazing and much needed. If you ever do a book tour and end up near Sacramento, CA I would love to meet you brother. -Blessings to you and your loved ones, Geoff gtbrabec.com gtbrabecgriefrecovery.com
The thing that no one is talking about is mens Mental health, i lost my little one his name is Noah, i don't know what kind of person i am now , i don't even recollect my self, after the abortion my partner left me without any notice, the thing is I have no idea how i am spending my life , the loss of our baby will damage men permanently, alot
One miscarriage absolutely destroyed me. No one really does talk about Fathers. I still can't too this day risk another pregnancy. If I had 2 it would be the end of me. I absolutely respect this man and the way he handled grief.
I think this is wonderful what you're doing I mean men grieve just like women do did you ever think of maybe having a serigant you know to carry the baby
It’s common, yes. And so are babies. People are common. And yet, how tender and beautiful are the feelings for the one. Are you not touched by this father’s love? It’s the same your Father has for you. Out of all His children, you are still His and He knows you
Unless you’ve endured the journey of infertility and /or infant loss, it is impossible to fully understand and appreciate the gift this man has given us through his vulnerability and openness and by sharing his story and his grief with us in such an honest way. I’m so thankful I came across this video today.
I went through a miscarriage with my ex 7 months ago. And it still hurts too this day. There’s always “what if’s” and what hurt the most was my ex didn’t even want our baby. So she left me when she miscarried.. but I am fine about that now. I let her go. But this precious baby, my baby. The pain never truly goes away. I still cry, but I do my best to honour the life that could have been my baby. By succeeding in my goals. And its okay to cry. Sorry I don’t mean to get deep. Just thought I’d share
my mam had miscarrige but she have children after the baby she lost but she never forget him and she always remeber him as one of us her children .. she always say she have 6 children not 5 .
I understand your pain brother, same thing happened with me , i lost everything, she left after the abortion.its okay to cry, bcz we are forgotten fathers.
My wife just experienced a stillbirth. It’s reassuring to see others have experienced the loss and enduring the pain it brings and found a way to keep going.
What a powerful testimony of unconditional and forever love! Katie and Noah are right there beside their daddy and mama! You’ve touched so many lives by sharing your story ! This is what some people have been praying for while struggling in silence for so long! God Bless you!
I lost my daughter, our first child, when we were at 6 weeks. We had no way of knowing for sure it was a girl, but I knew. I'd dreamt of her. Had a dream about 2 days before we lost her. I saw her whole life. I saw her be born. Saw her face, just like her mother's. Saw her grow up and go to school for the first time. Dance, play, dance again. She was an energetic little girl. I saw her grow into a beautiful young woman and saw her in a dress. I remember very few dreams, but I remember that dream vividly. Ever aspect of it was as real to me as a memory.
When we lost her, my wife was hurt badly. I comforted her as best I could. But I was broken, utterly and entirely. I did what I could, and my wife has healed a great deal. But that part of me that broke, it hasn't healed. Even now, with my son being born and another son on the way... I still cry every few days for the daughter I never got to hold. To this day I know that part of me will forever be broken. I'll always grieve her. I'll always hate this world for taking her from me.
She was everything to me. I was in a very dark place when we found out we were going to have a baby. She was my lifeline. My wife had done all she could, but I wanted to die at that point in my life. When we found out about Myrtle, it gave me a hope I hadn't had in a long time. And that hope was torn away from me 6 weeks later. I held on for my wife, bit it brought me to a point that I held a gun to my head for over 3 hours trying to pull the trigger. I didn't. I still have that bullet but I've sold the gun.
I won't let this destroy me. I refuse to. I've got my wife, and I've got my 2 sons. And one day I'll see my daughter. And when that day comes I will hold her, and I will make sure she knows how much she is loved and missed.
I love you Darlin, I love you sunshine.
I love you Myrtle.
"There's only two times a man can cry: when his father dies, and when his team loses." - my brother, when I was 13.
I lost a child at week 17. I didn't think I could cry. 16 years later it still hurts.
If there is a god, he gave us this man as a gift and a blessing.
I keep telling myself, it was only a 5 weeks pregnancy, but I've never experienced pain like it. It's been a week now since it happened, and its raw. I know it's early days but life feels empty atm. Giving my love all the support she needs and this is how I'm dealing with it.
There with you…
My kid would've been 6 months old this month. We almost made it out of the first trimester. It's been a year and a half. We've been trying but to no avail. It seems harder and harder each month when my wife goes into her periods. They are hurting her more and that worries me.
This one of the best videos i seen so far in my life today im 27 and experienced 2 miscarriages it didn't hit in the begging but now after 2 years it hurts dont know how to deal with it specially when i grew up without a dad its so hard i guess for men to deal with this type of loss and we hardly get attention from it just like this video explained i hope this life-situation overcomes and finds a way to help those mentally/soul hurted not only for woman but for men as well
My wife just miscarried a few days ago. We were at 6 weeks, so it was still early, but it still hurts. I put my own feelings off for this whole time to focus on her until my boss noticed something was up and forced me to take the rest of the week off. I’m frustrated; at first, I didn’t feel anything, and then it slowly piled up on me. I still haven’t been able to cry, but I just feel dead inside; I can barely even eat. I’m not sure what to do aside from comfort my wife.
First off, Mr. Farley, my heart goes out to you and your wife. I hope you know so many men who have suffered or are suffering are with you and supporting you. My wife and I lost Cody at 6 months into our pregnancy. We thought we were in the clear for a healthy birth because we passed the first trimester. It rocked our lives, our marriage, and our perspective on life. We had already lost twins at 14 weeks before that and had promised ourselves we wouldn't get our hopes up until after the 1st trimester. When we lost Cody it was so hard. Not only was it hard supporting my wife through the loss but it was so hard to realize that it was ok for me to need help too. Luckily I am an emotional guy and my friends know it so when I asked for help they were all there for me. To those of you out there who think your friends won't be there for you, think again. Even if they don't understand it, reach out to them and know the love that surrounds you. Secondly, one of the hardest things for me was realizing that the future I built in my mind for my unborn child want not going to come true. A really good friend of mine suggested that we take Cody's ashes and go do the things I had imagined for his future. I won't lie to you, it was HARD. But, the outcome was such a relief. I made unfinished dreams come to life with the child I would never get to have. And in some way, it was so healing to do this with him even if it was just his ashes. I am still tearing up as I write this because the loss was really hard but my hope is if I can help another father who's heart for his unborn child he lost is as big as mine, maybe I can help a father through their loss. Thank you so much Mr. Farley for posting this video and bringing awareness to the issue.
I also lost my baby, I always wanted to be a father, prayed and prayed, My girl got pregnant, I was so happy, it was like a dream, and she was gone as quick as she came our baby girl, I felt she was a girl. It is hard to go outside and see other young fathers with their babies. I am happy for them and jealous too. Why not me? I am a good person. I am a teacher and work with kids,this is hard when little children hug me, I dream of my own child hugging me. It's the second child I lost. It is hard, I feel empty inside. I cry when I am alone. But I still have faith ,I really try.
As Katy Perry sang, the reason some doors are closed are because one is there for you to lead you to the perfect road. Have Gratitude, Love and faith in the Divine Light.
I’m so sorry Pablo. I want you to get to be a father.
@@yeshalloween Thank you I appreciate your words)) 💚
I’m so sorry for your losses,sleep in peace little Angels 😇🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🎈💕
This is amazing information regarding Men and how they feel during pregnancy loss.
I'm sorry for your loss, its ok to grieve for the loved ones that are gone. Its a sign how deep we loved someone, we need it also to move forward with the extreme pain and accept that it happens. I think we can still live in pain but its hard to live hiding it to everyone.
😢💔 This is the most unbearable pain a person can go through.
My wife and i just lost our 4th child at 20 weeks on sunday, she wont even go back to our apartment she hasnt been back since that morning, we've been at her moms and im going back to work tonight. I went to the funeral home yesterday and today she was cremated and place in an urn, im going in to pick her up in a few minutes and i dont know how im going to be able handle it mentally. I have 3 other wonderful children so ive kept it together so far and stay strong for them but we havent even left yet and im about to lose my mind. Thanks for letting me vent on here, i appreciate you all and god bless.
So true... 10 years after losing our twins, 9 years after a 3rd miscarriage, and 2 healthy children later and it still haunts me.
That’s how I feel about my unborn baby having it’s head cut off at planned parenthood but I’m not supposed to talk about it.
@@Ivan.A.Churlyuski Good lord! I'd be a murderous mess. That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear such an awful, evil thing was done to you.
Our first one… 5 week in…
So much hope and excitement for what to come. And then gone. Hopelessness. I tried to avoid the pain but now I’m here. Thank you for sharing. I am at the frozen state I should try to wake up and move on.
I was supposed to have a little girl on September 30, 2018. The mother and I had broken up by the time she told me about the baby. We lost the baby on March 2. Only until now 3 years later have I been able to process the pain of that loss. After the loss, I covered up my grief with rage and politics. I still ask myself and God what I could've done different. Emotions I've repressed for years are bubbling to the surface and it's tearing me apart. I am not financially ready for children but I would gladly trade my life so my lil Saiorse could live. I am crying as I type this. I wouldn't have been the best dad in world but I would've done my damnedest.
Thank you. I lost my son today. He was the second son I lost and it still hurts like it did before. I’m glad I’m not alone
thank you for your testimony. I lost 8 babies in miscarriage because of broken DNA in my husband. We weren't able to elect any intervention due to the nature of the problem. it's so precious to hear a father's perspective. and rare. please dads... share so we can understand each other better!
My wife and I just lost our baby three weeks ago…. Even though it’s so fresh in our memories, I know with all my heart I will love that baby forever. We didn’t know gender, she was only 10’weeks, but as a first time father…. I finally felt what unconditional love meant. It wasn’t even a question, more a gut reaction. “I love this child and my wife” is the best way i can describe it. The loss is more pain than I ever thought was possible….. my wife is the true hero in this. The positive mindset and attitude she puts forth everyday is what makes me the luckiest man in the world. We will try again, and we will get to meet our children… And they will be told about their sibling!!❤ thank you for sharing your story sir, truly helped this grieving father
you are very brave. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your story.
My wife and I have lost 7 young lives in 5 years. The hardest was our first, our sweet boy Oliver.
We got to see him on the monitors and do a naming ceremony with our families, later that same week we lost him. All this time has passed and it still hurts unbelievably bad.
Thank you. Today has been an awfully sad day for us.
My husband and I have been trying for almost for years. We found out that we are pregnant almost 2 weeks ago. Thursday I started bleeding. I have to wait until Tuesday to find out if we lost the baby or not. We're trying to be strong but this is one of the hardest things we've ever had to deal with and the waiting is horrible. Please send a prayer to whom ever or whatever you pray to for us. I'm doing the same for others that are going through this too
Me and my wife just found out 2 weeks ago she was pregenant. She has miscarried the baby and I dont know what to do. I know im supposed to comfort her. But as for me I don't know what im supposed to do
How sad that they lost both Angels, wishing them both soon recovery from this hurt. I believe he did well writing a book in support to other Dads that could be going tru the same as he did.
So heartbreaking. But just a reminder there are many children that need a mommy and daddy available for adoption
Yup that’s the first thing I heard how’s she doing I’ll pray for her I just put my pain anger grief and frustration aside
Thank you for this
" Budded on earth to bloom in heaven " This is what I needed to hear all this time.
My wife just had a miscarriage last night. I’m just glad there was a video like this. I feel angry upset numb sad out of control despondent all at the same time. I put holy water on it and buried it by a new tree. Didn’t name it or talk to it. I just wanted to get the process over with. It’s my wife’s fifth miscarriage. We have a 5 year old daughter. I was wanting her to have a sibling and playmate. Oh well, what can you do?
My ex girlfriend had a miscarriage. It ruin our relationship I did not know how to cope with it. It hurt me inside to this day. I still haven’t gotten over it.
I just found out today that my x had a miscarriage, and I was not there to grief, I am a dad to a four year old, but to know I could of fathered another being, another star, and I just can't cry anymore, but idk what to do
I pray to God for His healing to comfort you and your wife through this difficult time you endured together! ❤🙏😇
I cried like a little girl after suffering a miscarriage with my wife. I just don't understand why it happened
We lost our daughter Paula Jay it was hard for me and twice as hard for my wife having to give birth to death....Kids are so special best gadget ever and nothing can fill our loss god gave up his son too and when my wife gave birth a couple years later we have 3 grown children now and 1 angel god made sure we were ready were 42 now oldest grandchild is 7 and we all go to Paula Jays side together and all girls in family have the middle name Jay as respect ❤❤
Just got informed 2 days ago we had a miscarriage of our twins 5 months into the pregnancy
5 months, that’s over 20 weeks so sadly the twins were stillborn.
I went through with girlfriend. D day was yesterday. And I feel so sad we were so excited. I was so excited this would of been my first child . We had named picked out depending on gender. Im just trying hard to feel better and be there for her
Me and maa partner have suffered 5 pregnancy loses. The last lil 1.. we named them Sam had a heartbeat 1 week but not the other. As a man it's broken me again but trying to relay that to others especially a workplace is brutal but embarrassing from their stance cause males are always expected just to man up and get oon with it. Males love as much as any female. Male stigma is intoxicating. Love to all mothers and fathers out there struggling with loss. We're all warriors x
Just went thru a miscarriage. Week 28. It was a boy. It hurts alot
28 weeks. A stillborn son, not a miscarriage
I've battled secretly for 20 years
My girlfriend just had a miscarriage on November 4,2022 and my whole world flipped
Brother! I’m so so sorry for your loss. My wife and I lost our baby girl Oct 25th, 2022. This is the hardest thing I have ever experience in my life. Don’t be afraid to talk about it. Walk to regain mental health. Sleep will be rough for a while and you are going to do a lot of crying. It’s going to be a long journey but there are many of us out here. Don’t rush anything. Take time to heal and slowly build up to putting your life back on track.
@@DLovWife I never felt this way since my mom passed in 2002 my girlfriend didn’t know affected I was by this miscarriage I told a part of me I never met is gone and I’ll get a chance to see him/her I just pushing all my anger pain tears and frustration aside for her sake I cry in silence only in front of God like today she went to work I just cried in my room blaming myself telling God I’m sorry for being this way but I have no one to blame but myself I feel like I failed
Kelly, I do not need to tell you that you are spot on. The grief never ends but we can learn to live through it. We are forever changed and we cannot go back to the guy we were before, but we need to find our new normal, to do something that is bigger than ourselves. What you have done and continue to do today is amazing and much needed. If you ever do a book tour and end up near Sacramento, CA I would love to meet you brother. -Blessings to you and your loved ones, Geoff gtbrabec.com gtbrabecgriefrecovery.com
Heartbreaking
I have 2 babies in heaven 💕
The thing that no one is talking about is mens Mental health, i lost my little one his name is Noah, i don't know what kind of person i am now , i don't even recollect my self, after the abortion my partner left me without any notice, the thing is I have no idea how i am spending my life , the loss of our baby will damage men permanently, alot
What is the worst thing that can happen to a man= an abortion without his concern + after the abortion the wife divorce.
One miscarriage absolutely destroyed me. No one really does talk about Fathers. I still can't too this day risk another pregnancy. If I had 2 it would be the end of me.
I absolutely respect this man and the way he handled grief.
Am I missing something? What taboo?
I think this is wonderful what you're doing I mean men grieve just like women do did you ever think of maybe having a serigant you know to carry the baby
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I thought it's not considered life until it's out of the womb, i think parasite is the word i been hearing lately? I'm confused
This is not the place for that comment, is it? The people here don’t feel that way. They are desperately hurting.
almost every woman has a miscarriage at some point. it’s as normal as it gets
Lies. The statistic is 1 in 4 pregnancies. Don't minimize the loss.
It’s common, yes. And so are babies. People are common. And yet, how tender and beautiful are the feelings for the one. Are you not touched by this father’s love? It’s the same your Father has for you. Out of all His children, you are still His and He knows you