My Response To Nikki's Allegations
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- I have not monetized this video and don’t plan on it living permanently on this channel. I made the decision to share my story and I have. I also decided to only respond to what can be backed up with receipt and as you can see, a lot of it can be.
Like I am all for backing up a black sister. But these receipts are giving. And people still don’t believe him.
Alot of people do believe him actually. Even his ex is getting some of the heat
@@Kezeth20 She's getting support for the most part
I believe you... because, I was like Nikki... she's a liar, she used you, owned up to it and moved on...she is so stupid... to hell with this foolishness... stay strong, Jamie ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
I agree with you sis.
@@8luvbugo dear!
He has a right to tell his story. And he has a right to give a rebuttal to any statements he thinks is being presented incorrectly. Same as Nikki. Idk why y’all mad at this man.
Yes he do
Tearing his ex wife down and the mother of his christen will cause harm to not only the children but his wife’s ability to provide and care for their children. He is trying to tarnish her image
Exactly
The same goes for her. The kids will see her tearing their dad apart as well. No, two wrongs don’t make it right but he has the right to tell his story just like she did.
@@heatherrichards3103 exactly this.
Abusive behavior is NEVER acceptable, whether from a man OR WOMAN!
I agree! Right is Right! Wrong is Wrong!
Bless you and thank you Jamie for your continued boldness to speak up !!!!
Always praying for you
So sorry for your aim I can see the stress upon you
Maybe you were in tears before having to answer this situation once more. We know that you want the best for your children
EXACTLY... I was abused so i refuse to blindly support a women just because it's coming from the hands of a woman
@@Babygirl_123 Get your head examined!
@@Babygirl_123what are you even saying
This man looks physically exhausted
True and he looks drained,let's pray for him..I just did now.
He always have. I do believe he have some type of defiency.
She didn't have an issue when you were married...
He really does
AMEN
As a black woman, I will NEVER Support an abusive and manipulative woman JUST because we are the same color. Speak your truth Jamie❤
Right? I can't with these other black women acting as if Nikki can do no wrong. And I'm also a black woman and passionate about fighting against antiblackness and misogynoir.
@@gravityclarityWhy are you up and down the comment section? Spewing nonsense, did Nikki steal your destiny? Lol get a grip 😂😂
@@chan2009ifyyou're literally stalking me now.😂
@@chan2009ify you're literally looking for my comments just to respond. Why you so obsessed with me?🙃
Respectfully
As a woman i have come to realise that 'WOMEN SUPPORTING WOMEN' movement has become so TOXIC. Its full of angry women getting over trauma and hate men for being men. Jamie, from a BLACK AFRICAN WOMAN,i sympathise with you.
As a black American woman(not sure why that matters but alrighty) i support him too. Im sure theres asian, white and Hispanic women that support him too so…
Same here sis !!
This has nothing to do with women supporting women tho...you can sympathize with Jamie without saying that.
@@kaysmellsgoodThere are women supporting his ex because she's a woman and they are saying it. Let's not act like gender has nothing to do with this. We know how women can be!
@@Sandrinarhondayes sis❤❤❤
Do NOT take this down. Stand your ground and stick to YOUR truth, Jamie.
Good and his kids will get to see this in a few years, perfect parenting 😅, I’m being sarcastic
@@adabaibe2009they deserve to know after all they were born on social media
@@adabaibe2009they should see it. He didn't want to ruin their perception of her. But kids should know the truth. She was verbally and physically abusive and he appears to have handled it in a mature way. Parents should teach their children how to handle conflict in intimate relationships and I think the way he did it was responsible.
@@adabaibe2009 Moving right along.
Exactly
It’s ridiculous that people believe her without receipts but refuse to believe Jaime WITH receipts.
Cause they are ignorant
People believe others who lie, but refuse to believe people telling the truth. Not sure why!! 🤷🏼♀️
@@lasagnegurl167 u said lol not fair men can be treated bad
Exactly.
@@Kharris6 no they're not lol
Nikki outright lied in her statement. She said she has never hit you, but we already seen receipts of her admitting YEARS ago on multiple different occasions that she did and apologising for it. Once I can see one lie, I assume everything you say is a lie unfortunately.
Your lying. She said she shouldn't have smacked the phone but he was provoking her. That was the only incident that he can report.
@@PriscillaB2015_not true. If you read the messages there are messages of her apologizing for hitting him.
When she mentioned the Disney trip I stopped reading because girl we saw the conversation between you two
@@kacwccjsame pain sweetheart
Exactly. She lost my respect.
People don't want to believe him because his a guy.. Come on guys his Human and he was treated badly by a woman. Let's open our eyes and protect this man. Nikki needs to take accountability for what she has done.
@@kacwccj You dont believe him cause hes white,and what has he got to be jealous of,your probably the same kind of troubled individual as she is,a hater of men.
@@kacwccjdelusional
@@kacwccjshe was treating him terribly. And I normally side with women, but the thing is he has facts and she basically lied and treated him poorly.
This!!! Exactly
@@kacwccjexactly
JAMIE I AM A WOMAN AND I BELIEVE YOU. You have receipts, she doesnt.
very true. society is always against men.
Not even a barcode from her it's November
suceuse
He has pruf of her abusing him saying he has no friends he has depression.lmagine what the poor guy went through men suffer silently stop judging people.
Exactly!
Jamie Please in order to protect your name, Do NOT take this video down again, it will protect your image and help your kids to understand you in the future ❤
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@@lisadavis8909 Leave that for the kids to decide.
He CAME WITH FACTS AND Receipts ! Period
And that's that on that, evidence is key when it comes down to situations like this.
Where? The same screenshots that contradict him?
Amen …….
No he really didn’t lmao
@@Babygirl_123 this a legal issue not emotional. He has CONCRETE evidence. If a judge assesses this co parenting relationship it would be deemed onesided which is unfit for the children as Niki is refusing to Cooperate in a peaceful and functional manner In a joint situation. Justice is a justice does, but this is about the kids and his rights.
Divorce can get so nasty
tooo messy
This was horrible from 2016 to 2021
So nasty
Very nasty 🤮
offer your services online. people will pay for your skill. you get to work from home, earn better and still be there for your kids. Whatever the situation is for both of you, THIS TOO SHALL PASS!!
What services? Like life advice? I am intrigued because I think he would be good at it but I think his passions lie with music videography.
Video editing services.
Amen!
@@Babygirl_123so Nikki can speak but he can’t??? That doesn’t seem fair at all.
Hurting them how? The kids are not an age right to even know how to find these videos or have access. And by the time they’re old enough to understand, they would’ve already formed their own opinions.
I HOPE YOUR VIDEO gets more men to be able to speak up. A male friend of mine saw your video and said he felt your pain because HE HAS LIVED through such horror and at the end of the day he was the bad guy even WHEN EVERYONE saw the EVIDENCE. Left him suicidal for months but he pulled through the dark time in his life and is much stronger now. He’s with you and commends your bravery, as do I…!!!!!!
That's very true...this will help a lot of men
I know a man who's in a similar situation but won't divorce his wife. They don't have kids.
Good Jamie that you left this abusive and toxic marriage..Nikki is possessed..she needs deliverance..she can look for a living church and be delivered from that evil spirit..but her pride will not allow..then she will suffer many things cause its a spiritual thing.
@@travellingmaasai So true. Nacissism is a spiritual thing- many demons involved (violence, rage, belligerence, lies, pride, deep hurt/trauma, insecurity, among others).
It's the fact that he addressed everything I was questioning from her stories, and with receipts. He didn't even take a long time with his rebuttal, whereas she took forever and then decides not to post "for the sake of the kids." Realistically, I think she doesn't have any receipts, and she tried to seem like the 'Better Parent' with her response. All in all, I wish you guys the best, and I hope one day it can all be settled with the kids being the main focus ❤
Yep. Nikki is a liar and has been exposed
EXACTLY!!
None of us were there, we don’t know the truth so I’m on the kids side. They need to stop and go to therapy. Grown adults acting like teenagers.It’s messy!!!
So true
@@Ajm833 Well, he's been in therapy for years, & she isn't. When he offered joint therapy for separated couples, she refused to go. This matter was addressed in the text msgs he provided in the other video.
My abusive ex told me I had no family and friends and that I could never do better. I believe you Jamie. All the signs are there, please heal and move on from this. We are all behind your content with or without the kids!
Please don't take this video off.its your truth be strong. Nikki is playing smart in a bad way
SHE KNOWS shes wrong but because she got caught and doesnt want to lose her online support she keeps coming at him....I hope shes heard tje saying that says what goes around comes around...or KARMA IS A......
Don’t take this down !!
Yes keep it
@@peekaxu4352 🎯
These gullible idiot black women, you stand with him because this us your fantasy or what? Get a life and do not encourage this sick man to grift off his ex and daughters.
I've never doubted Jamie. When he speaks, he brings receipts. Also there is sincerity in his voice
I have NEVER doubted him either.
Even in lies, we can sound & look truthful. Let God be the judge
Agreed. You can tell this man is not lying. It's sad that it ked to this because we loved them both but this is the hard truth.
What receipts? He's still only providing cut off information :s
Totally agree with you
All of a sudden it's exploitation because she's not in the picture
RIGHT?!
Exactly! She’s so guilty
The kids are in her videos so surprise she's saying that he's exploitingthe kids.
I believe this man. Not because I ever hated Nikki or anything, but because not believing him is the same as not believing a woman in the same situation. I'd rather believe a victim and find out they lied, than not believe and find out it was truly happening. And with his receipts there's reasonable doubt cast on Nikki's character and side of the story. That's enough for me.
Wisely Said. Society now mostly ignore victims until its too late
Wow every grown man wants to be a victim now huh 😂😂😂 victim me, poor me, woe is me.. So freaking pathetic. 40 year old white male victim 😂 cry me a river yall are dum as a bag of rocks. I guess being a victim pays chi chang
Well said.
You put it so well, if its a woman we are supposed to just simply believe, now that the victim is a man people are literally turning this in to a courtroom and even disputing evidence that is right before their faces… I bet if Jamie had come with a swollen face or black eye, they would still say he gave himself one🤷🏽♀️.
Truth! Very well said. We love them both but this is the hard truth. How unfortunate...
People don't understand that women can be toxic to men ...I stand with you Jamie
Exactly 😢
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And when they are toxic they are toxiccccc, some even go so far as to lie to their family members, until the same families realise who was really the toxic one. I have seen it happened.
@Babygirl_123 because they believed he was the bad one. Because for his mental healthy it is important to share this. I don't like people bringing families issues on the internet, but some are important for some reasons. This is one of them. And trust me, it's not easy to speak about things like this. You have to be so vulnerable and brave.
@@Babygirl_123 if you were lied on, weren't you want to clear your name.
Don’t take these videos down Jamie- STAND IN YOUR TRUTH. You won’t get everyone’s favor but the ones who support you, will support you.
Absolutely!
True!
This situation is overwhelming . Trust God as a manipulator of everything. This too shall pass brother. Just Pray. 🙏
It must be very frustrating when you have receipts and people still don’t believe the male side of the story. I still stand with Jaime ❤
I stand with him as well 🙏🏾
@@Ammap43So do I ....... I believe that's why Nikki wanted to move farther away from her patents. The community was talking and knew what she was doing. ... Just my opinion
Jamie has amazing parents, personally to me they are gentle souls who served the Lord by doing missionaries I believe? And how they raised him shows in Jamie's character when I analyse his heart, as I watch him. That is the vibe I get, now I may be completely wrong. But this is how I see it.
@@nananyanba this is such an excellent comment, I often forget details like this.
@@praah25precious50 great point!
Don't judge someone based on emotions but judge on facts, evidence and truth
Exactly. I'm Team Jamie
I believe him because he has fasts
Nikki not even a barcode thot
Wow i cant believe people really stand for Niki after what she said. Wow. This is why man are afraid to stand up
Jamie is telling the truth, 😱
No he is not
True nikki is a lier he hurt Jamie a lot and you can hear jamie is hurt 😢
@@DrawingborediStop making excuses!
Right? She has tried so hard to make him look bad and sabotage his relationship with the kids. She’s so wrong for all of that!
Jamie as a child of divorced parents i promise you your kids will know the truth, dont worry a bit. My parents got divorced when i was 11yo, im now 36 and a mom of 2 girls, I remember it. I remember my mom leaving me alone with no care or food at 12yo to go with her bf to Honduras and my grandpa calling the police to check on me and have my dad pick me up to take care of me, i remember in court when she said she had no interest at all in my custody but she wanted the house and car, but my dad said he just wanted me and obviously if possible the house to have a place to live in, which he didnt get so we moved to grandma's house, i remember my mom lying about my dad to everyone. And now, as an adult, even though we talk, when she says bs, i dont hesitate to call her off. Even on simple things like when she is watching tv and casually says she doesnt understand how a mother can abandon her children, she did exactly that. Or when she talks about how to be a good mom, and i have to remind her i would call her as a teenager and she would tell me ill call you back and 4...5..7...9 months would pass without a call from her, the daughter always the one calling, even nowadays. I also remember my dad visiting her in the hospital when she needed surgery, while her bf was out on a bike ride never visiting her...We remember it, so dont you worry about that part.
Even in her statement she contradicted herself. People didn’t read to understand most read to respond because they already made up in their minds that Nikki can’t do no wrong. She didn’t show no evidence and yet people just believed her, Jamie had evidence and some people still didn’t believe him. In her statement she used keywords that she knew would trigger some people, she is manipulative and controlling.
well said
I thought so too, and that she formed her respons based on what the people in her comments supporting her was writing.
@@Christaltv I noticed that as well.
And Nikki said he bodybshamed her after she had her baby and told her why she couldn't snap back! Thats a lie, cause in another video, Nikki was talking about how it was easy for her to snap back, because her father is from some tribe in Africa where the people are very skinny naturally!
I'm telling you I laughed reading her response. She should have had a lawyer review it.
I hope Jamie's next move is his own podcast. Well spoken dude with a lot of life experience. Jamie would make a great interviewer.
But what topics…………… being messy online
He could be a good interviewer but he is a bad person
I would be bored shitless listening to his podcast
@@curstinapisa2528 but yet your here on his channel watching and criticizing this video...make that make sense
@@yondafletcher I didn’t criticise his video at all 🤷🏽♀️ I just said I’d be bored listening to a podcast of his lol hope that made sense for you 🫶🏽
She said he had nothing left to lose, that is sad. She knew she broke him and was afraid he would retaliate.
This is what convinced me, no way on earth would I say that to person. That he's depress and she doesn't trust him. She's evil.
@@ChildofGod52
She said let me tell you about your self
You are shit
You ‘ve always been
You have no friends
You are depressed
I don’t trust you
This is a mean person
Breaking an already broken person
Telling him he is nothing
That is the father of her kids - terrible
@@JayyAAAAyes , I heard that too. Despicable human being. I new she had no come back. He provided way too much evidence .
You can hear how hard you’re holding back your tears. The hurt behind your eyes too. What a shame it’s come to this 😔
My heart goes out to anyone that has been mentally or physically abused. Stay strong Jamie this will get better.
@@Babygirl_123she didn't say that, if u read it right. You Nikki's minions need explanation for everything but still dont have brains to comprehend the explanation. 😴🥱😫
@@Babygirl_123 HOW OLD ARE YOU.
@@Babygirl_123hey I can not believe these people my dear 😂😂😂😂😂😂, he is a total Saint in their eyes. Nikky is the devil 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢.
Jamie u are allowed to speak your truth, don’t apologise
@@Babygirl_123he has every right too hes has been labelled and called the most disgusting things.
@@Babygirl_123 Nikki, please stop.
Exactly men are made to feel like they can't speak their truth, i support him 100 💯 💯
@@Babygirl_123 you are watching at the expense of the kids too what a hypocrite 😂
@@Babygirl_123so he should be bullied , abused and lied upon ?
Get out of here
Jamie has every right to speak up, those who feel otherwise are not even obligated to listen to this.. Nikki is clearly gas lighting and thats a very horrible thing . She speaks of depression in a very flippant way and thats a really unkind thing to do.
The depression and the you're lonely part should never be ignored. She should never get a pass on it. That's was a horrible thing to say. This alone tell her true self. I believe him.
I also thought that was so callous how she told him he had no friends, was "depressed or whatever," and had "nothing to lose." That was so cold and careless. I lost respect for her.
@@gravityclarity plus when she told him he wasn't s*** and never was s***,. She was dead wrong for that. So if that's how she felt about him why nikki did you accept his marriage proposal, why did you have 2 beautiful daughters with him, why do you feel like you are so much better than him. I am a black woman and I know how some black women can be very toxic when they feel like their life isn't going the way they want it to. My son had a gf that would tell him, that's why you wasn't born with s*** and don't have anything.. She wasn't hollering that exploiting the kids when they were together and was collecting money from the videos. She a mess.
Sad you can't see him gaslighting the situation. they both played a part in this. And the simple fact that Jamie sees himself as a crippled victim, is sad. He really needs Therapy I'm telling y'all !
@@LynnMutembei-h6the doesn't see himself as a crippled victim. He does see that he has been disappointed and his life has been made unnecessarily difficult by his ex. He is doing what he has to do to make life work for him and his children.
Don’t leave us hanging here on YT Jamie. We understand we won’t see much or any of the kids in the future, but I am still interested in knowing how you are progressing. Stay motivated and continue to push through this season as it will soon pass❤
Me too
Right! I hope he continues to make videos.
Divesters divesting 😅🤣🤣
Jamie and Nikki you rush to get married,you all make mistake from the beginning Nikki you have anger, issue and l gase also when you lose you sister that anger is more and all of that drama Jamie need to understand you
Amen.
We believe you Jamie, we stand with you. It takes a lot for a man to stand up
As a DV survivor I respect you showing that men are victims also. You’re fighting a battle that will just go in circles. Narcissists will never see they are the problem.
@@lifesavercandy3239 Thank you 5 whole freaking years...This is very scary and concerning, i hope he doesnt end up hurting her in the end. Its giving obssesed and stuck in the past.
All of a sudden narcissists is a house hold word 😜😛😝
@@lifesavercandy3239 imagine telling someone when they can share their DV story!!! You are shameful to say the least
For the love of God, the only thing you said was I trying to knock find out of his hand up in the heat of an argument I didn’t see any chance of beating but are you saying as a DV Survivor I don’t think it was actually DV but whatever you believe
@@lifesavercandy3239I don’t care if it was 50 years ago. Victims have the right to speak whenever they feel comfortable!
He reminds me of Adam Ali when he started blasting LaToya. I believed EVERY word that came out of Adam’s mouth & I believe you Jaime! Don’t allow her to silence you. We love you!
Yes same here it does remind me of their situation. I believe everything Adam said.
Yeah and look at Latoya under Nikki’s comments! Both losers lol
As a survivor of narcissistic abuse, I can understand Jaime and sympathize with him.
Exactly my thoughts!
You can tell that his divorce has affected him a lot , he’s looking out of it .. hope he heals and is able to still move forward in life
If Nikki was so concerned about the girls and the culture of vlogging, she wouldn't have featured them in any vlogs after the divorce!
But she doesn’t have them on every video like he does.
Bingo! It goes both ways and even one video is too much if she didn't like it
His videos with the girls are always fun and showing their daily life. Nothing inappropriate, great family videos.
Exactly! She features them but he cannot do it. It’s all about control with women like her
This!!!
People also didn’t believe Johnny Depp until the case was open. Jamie you don’t need to explain more or apologize,we believe you, just let her be, as a long term follower when you’re both a couple you could honestly tell something was off with Nikii’s attitude. All her reply was reading is your exploiting the kids because she isn’t getting any share from it, that was actually her emphasis all through her reply. Jamie just work on yourself, your mental health and being a better human. You’ll rise again, it’s not to late. Sending you light and love❤️
Guess who had the receipts😂 amber . That's why people aren't falling for this blue eyed lazy boy
She made a video or 2 with the kids after their divorce, but she didn't like it when he started to make more videos. She just want his life to be miserable, that's all.
Jamie DO NOT REMOVE THESE VIDEOS! It’s time for our men to speak up and have their voices be heard!
People act like men are automatically “ immune” from toxic behaviors from a female.
People fail to acknowledge that MEN TOO can also go through physical abuse, emotional abuse, domestic violence and toxicity that can well be caused by the female.
Keep this video 🆙.
It hurts me to say this about another sister, but Nikki seems very narcissistic , manipulating, and vindictive in the message receipts and video footage, and that’s honestly all the proof we need.
For her to seriously say you don’t have nothing to lose, you’re depressed, you have no kids, no life, no friends.. that is a very narcissistic thing to say to someone. It’s a very evil thing to even say.
As someone who has been in a relationship like that, it’s very triggering for me to even hear her say that to you..
Jamie throughout this whole ordeal you have been showing nothing but love and respect to Nikki; also professionalism and the motivation of being a great father and thinking about your girls first.
I send you so many hugs, love and respect and I wish you healing and comfort. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this because I know you are a good man Jamie. We all know you are a good guy.
I hope everything works out in your favor.
iDon't C it as N E sort of 'personality disorder', just selfish & evil = PRETENDING 2 think that Jamie is doing something wrong, as excuse 2 do bad things = something jooz do a lot 2! =;-P Most chix C doodz like a pair of $hoes = disposable 'ornaments' & 'wallets on legs' & she just seems upset he is annoyed with her cheating on him, because she never even liked him in the 1'st place & just went into 'the marriage thing' as an easy ride 4 'convenience'. It's like 'How DARE U not let me do whatever iWant because U R so BORING iCan't even get off W/U' LOL Y can't U just shut up & give me all your money! And the kids 2, so iCan take even MORE money! =D
When someone resorts to video taping the other person it simply means that the person tells a lot of lies on you so you just need proof of the things they say and do to you. That is why I believe you Jamie because this has been my personal experience. May God bring healing to this toxic mess
Well said
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Except they don't record their actions, only your reactions.
@@joyc9323
A reaction is still a reflection of the individual, the way someone reacts to a situation still speaks volume about the person even when provoked.
As much as I like drama, this is a family breaking down before our eyes and that makes me sad. Jamie, this is taking a toll on you, you don’t look really well in this video. Please look after yourself and take care of your mental health. As a fellow Christian, I’ll keep you in my prayers. Not taking sides and I’m seriously praying for healing from both sides. There’s a lot of love and a lot of hurt from both sides, Lord please heal them. This life is fleeting, make peace
Prayer is great but people have free will! She is lying to the public 🤥
You know her/personally 🤔
Yes he needs prayers and healing. It’s not going to happen on the Internet airing they’re dirty laundry
@@Cinnamon_Shaw I’m still trying to wrap my head around that part. Airing all this on the internet. This sympathy campaign will only serve to hurt no only the target but the innocent children who didn’t ask to be born smh
He looks so worn out and drained. You can hear it in his voice, I hope he takes the time to take care of himself.
The thing that gives me pause when it comes to Nikki's statements is the dismissal of her reactions to Jamie *allegedly* triggering her, and it reminds me so much of the excuses my abusive ex-husband and his mother would make. Even *if* he purposely upset/pushed her to get a reaction (which wouldn't be right either) if her "reaction" is abusive...it's still abusive. If he knew he even *could* get that reaction from her for the sake of filming it for proof, it's because it's happened before. And she's still responsible for how she reacts to emotional stress, especially in front of her children. My ex never truly took accountability for attacking me and the trauma he caused our very young child, he blamed me for making him that angry.
If I knew that my partner grabs a camera to record my reaction for future reference and I can see it being recorded, I would instantly switch up and adjust myself and act all nice...
For the fact that she was so comfortable, slapped the camera off his hand, whiles holding a child ect, not even being ashamed that Jamie's mother was even there, witnessing all this, shows how comfortable and normal nikki thinks her behaviour was. The lady could care less of the camera of anyone around
@@judgeright2292 EXACTLY. And in her IG statement, she didn't just apologize for her actions, acknowledge the fact that they were abusive, or the lasting effect it will have on their kids, she kept saying she was just reacting to what Jamie said to upset her. As if...that makes it okay? Absolutely not. And I feel like there's probably a middle/grey area where the real truth lies between them, but I'm more inclined to believe Jamie's perspective of the facts.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. The reality is that this happens to a lot of good fathers out there, mine included. Keep speaking up. I support you!
She had the audacity to talk about exploitation, yet she created a whole channel about pregnancy and had hundreds of pictures of the kids on her Instagram page... The same kids whose video monetization enabled you both to get expensive things, including a b00b job... Lol!
Is there even an education savings fund for the girls???
Anyway, Jamie, now is the time to buckle up... I hope that you have learnt your lessons. Now that you still have your parents, why don't you move in with them while you work and save money? Wishing you all the best. Take care.
The boobs won't last for long
Woow! I support your point 💯👏👏👏👏💕
I thought same. Have Grandma move in and Ava share with Zoe since they have a room only for half the year. It Wil help him save up some money.
I also think he should start videograghy and UA-cam as a side hustle. Grandma can help with school runs whilst he build himself up.
I wish most women will understand that it’s better to have a great father than a good husband and an absent father. As a mother I was one of those who use to say I can do bad by myself but later realized it’s hard to do so and two is better than one. Let’s appreciate our supportive fathers who still make to being a good husband .
Let fathers be present in their kids lives
It’s never a battle to engage in except it’s life threatening
AMEN
@@Babygirl_123 Please stop commenting the same thing under everyones posts. You seem biased.
Please don’t buy this man’s BS! He’s the one who kicked her out of the house and now crying a river as a spoiled brat, because he thought that she was going to be miserable and now mad because she’s doing much better than him. How come he’s just now exposing her! Meanwhile, she was innocent with him and didn’t even save any of his mess 🤦🏾♀️! He’s trying to destroy the black woman 😢
@@Lange24he wanted her to keep that house!! But she didn't wanna take on the payments 🤷♀️
@@Babygirl_123hes made 2 videos. Settle down. I'm starting to think Nikki is the villain and that is why she's chose to stay off camera. The things she said doesn't make sense. I remember she started the heating rumors in the beginning through liking comments.
I stand with you Jamie. This too shall pass.
@@Babygirl_123 because she keep lieing
@@SheenaSayers Says alot about you she is deceitful enough is enough
@@SheenaSayersexactly he's pathetic he's getting desperate. My gosh I'm actually concerned for his mental health. He needs to get this victim mentality sickness treated. He has no idea how he comes across.
It passed long ago, he brought it to the public. I'm guessing this story is his next meal ticket. He's probably looking for a book deal as we speak.
@@omo0910and can you tell me what is wrong with that?
I wish for Jamie to find a genuine loving kind woman that he deserves
I feel SO sorry for Ava and Zoe. Those two beautiful young girls don’t deserve this and especially it being PUBLIC now. What an absolute mess
I profoundly agree! And unfortunately Jamie will keeping going on 🤦🏼♀️
Yes, this is so embarrassing at this point, fight it out offline, just do what’s best for the kids now 😢
@@soraiaisabela He has the right to clear his name like anyone else.
Also Ava is at that age where her peers will go online and see her mother and father beefing on the internet.. Even if Ava doesn't have accesses to the internet like that there is ALWAYS a kid in the group with limited parental supervision who will show this to her. Kids these days get their first cellphones at 6/7 and they are getting really savvy with tech too. Jamie and Nikki's public toxicity will only hurt their girls...
@soraiaisabela did you miss the multiple times he said he's never talking about this again? Honestly he could post receipts of Nikki literally stabbing him and some people would find a way to blame him.
Nikki writes “my kids” he writes “our kids”
Good point
True🫡
He didn’t want to have kids so probably why she says that
@@KennethandJoycehow can you prove this. Outside speculators with lots of opinions n nothing to back it up
@@kacwccj I think what you missed is the word yet
This is so sad. Whenever a man speaks about being abused people never want to believe it. The video he put up you could tell he was depressed and broken. I believe him and I can't believe the way people have treated this man. He is allowed to speak his truth.
What the hell was he trying to gain from this? Is he thinking about his kids at all? Why do this when there are kids involved? He is just looking for views.
@@kylabennett1917why did she do it ?
@kylabennett1917 Good. The children being involved males it better. Let them have resentment for the right parent. There should be consequences for breaking up a family and not staying within your role.
Jamie, I’ll say this.. I met the both of you when you had your LA meet up back in late 2016/2017 ish? We talked about photography, you met my small dog and your energy in person was grounded and kind. You’re real down to Earth and came across then as you do now, genuine! You are believed, you have no reason to lie and your energy speaks for itself. I’m so sorry this is a part of your story but grateful you shared as so many others have been empowered to share their own tales of DV. Unless you’ve experienced it, it’s easy to point fingers from the outside looking in. Gaslighting is REAL! Anyway, I know good things will come your way. It’s just a matter of time!
We stand with you, Jamie. Whatever you decide to do next, we will support you! 🤍
Exactly.
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@@Babygirl_123what did he do?
@@Babygirl_123 bye
@@Babygirl_123 remember in the first place their LIFE been on the internet.. 🤷🏾♀️
Wow. I tried to be on her side. She provided NO actually logical proof and now I'm seeing how diabolical and what a liar she is.
@@ekg891right!!!
@@Babygirl_123you think you perfect and the stuff you are judging Jamie with i told you you better be careful !!!either way if you Nikki or not how would you know what’s what you definitely not God
@@Babygirl_123Because y'all like to lie on men after a break up while you are the ones tormenting him😉
I think I believe her
@@Babygirl_123 Are you her mole?
So sorry you are facing backlash Jamie!! Continue defending yourself and stand your ground. You shared plenty of evidence and that within itself told me enough. Please leave your videos up, you did nothing wrong.
So sorry Jamie. Sending you love, strength, and prayers!
Dont let her shut you up. Keep speaking you're truth. Stop letting her get things her way
It may seem normal but she actually needs psychological help her deal with her anger issue. Anger is a very bad demon of destruction that destroys everything in your life.
I don’t understand why people are second guessing all of this. Over the years it was evident that she was controlling. I was so happy when you got your own place and was able to put some color and life into it cause you had no say when you guys were together it’s all in the vlogs.
It's because Nikki is a pretty black woman. I swear this is what all comes down to. I kid you someone literally told me that white Australian men can't be abused by black women. Most of the people who watched this channel were black women who only watched for Nikki, so it's hard for them to accept the fact the she was the one in the wrong.
@@8luvbugReally??
@8luvbug Yes, she weaponized her looks against Jamie and Jamie had low self-esteem.
Me neither. From what we saw he gave in to her a lot and she was running things. It seemed weird after the bday video & when she moved out on her video, something was off that leaned towards her. She seemed perfectly fine. It's like what she really looks like underneath the makeup. A completely different person.
girl what control? they met when she was 17. what control??
Jamie, I'm so sorry you're going through this. We have followed both yourself and Nikki. We are so sorry that both yourself and your families are going through this. Please take care of yourself and your children. UK FAN.
I've always thought you were a stellar dad and still do. We all love you and have your back.
Any sensible person with even the slightest amount of discernment can tell this man is being honest. I really hope niki gets the help she needs. I hope these videos push her towards taking some form of accountability
Exactly
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay, Pickmesha
@@gum_drops3620 Explain yourself, no really, explain how you can excuse everything that she's done.
There's 3 sides to every story, his, her, and the TRUTH! NONE OF US know what that truth is , because we weren't there every moment of their marriage.
There is 3 sides to the story. Jamie’s, Nikki’s and the truth. As the viewers I guess we’ll never really know. Wishing all parties involved peace moving forward, for the sake of those babies❤️
I agree with you 💯💜💜💜💙😊 5:19
I agree with you. At this point I pray that both of them heal from the hurt they have both caused for each other.
Exactly cos all these people in the comments saying Jamie I believe you 100% I'm like 😏 if Nikki had come out first to say her own side y'all will have been like yeah we stand with you 100% Nikki...truth is we'll never really know..wish both of them the best
We believe Jamie because he has proof and Nikki had provided nothing but words and allegations
@@kaysmellsgoodamen to that!!!!
Why record your conversations?
Why keep screenshots?
When someone intentionally intends to record conversations, they are careful of what of what they say and do.
Just thinking 🤔 out loud.
May God heal you both 🙏 ❤️
Because every police officer and lawyer would tell you to collect evidence, hello?? How do you think things work? If you do not have evidence then you won't be believed. It's quite a simple concept.
@akab3648 we didn't hear what happened before the recordings, what he said etc. He knew he was recording so he was choosing his words wisely. He has his views back up now. Congratulations to him.
@@onyinyeookoye what do you mean? She says "yeah well, i'm just saying" after he very clearly confronts her about her violence. She says "that does not make them violent people" when he confronts her again about being violent in front of their kids. I'm done spoon feeding you the evidence. DV is never okay, including when men are victims. Just leave the channel because what you're trying to achieve is not happening. You are wasting your time and he is rebranding. A lot of us would like to support it. So bye
It is the fact that even with all the craziness going on between the two of you and this messy divorce process, you still genuinely care about her because you decided to re-edit the video of her sister Sarah. I have been a longtime supporter and I find it crazy how she is acting. She is trying to play the victim card it is not working because you have all the receipts. I am praying for you, your mental health, your girls, and the rest of your family because this is a complete mess, and no one should have to go through this.
Go on with your life Jamie, believe me their is definitely somebody on this earth that will appreciate a good man and father like you. You are priceless ❤❤
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Absolutely. Don't give her your energy.
She has moved on. He hasn't.
@@lwills8609he needs time to heal most people who move on quickly are the bad ones
@@lwills8609exactly, he is the one talking but people still bash Nikky 😂😂😂😂😂she has moved on, he just came out with the video after videos 😢😢😢😢.
Jamie has receipts, Nikki has a letter….I’m just saying.
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I STAND WITH JAMIE!!
It does not matter if it’s female or male. Abuse is abuse! Here is the proof and people still act like they are blind!
Enough is enough!
This man is a survivor and yet, he is still being ridiculed.
I’m sorry Jamie, God has you in the palms of His hands. I’m sending love and prayers and my support from Charleston, SC!
Jamie is speaking out out of his love for his children. Let's pray for this man and his children.
He's super sad he can't film them more than once a week...
Man this is terrible on both sides. I wish you both to be able to move past this and heal and be able to co-parent successfully.
Amen
@brwnsugga24 So true! 🙏🏽
Sometimes it's not possible!
It’s just sooo messy. They think they’re getting at each other but it’s just their kids who will suffer.
For the people on YT this is just entertainment..
@@abbi8408exactly. I was so happy at the beginning because they were not getting at each other. But, now.... why? What about the kids?
Dude, whether you have fan support here or not to tell you this, the one role you can't lose is being a dad to your daughters. Praying that you have the consistent upliftment and mental health to weather this storm in this season of your life, and to keep being a blessing to your children. It's easy to discern conviction from vindictiveness because one involves truth, while the other involves gaslighting to make it seem like a narrative is true. Even if you don't want to be on here for some time, do it, because your family will always need you when we can or don't see you.
@@Babygirl_123Nikki is that you? Lol.
@@monember2722 It looks and sounds like her🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@diamond-207 😂
@@Babygirl_123 She is nothing before him he and his parents help her a lot don't take kindness for weakness as she did
@@monember2722 I don’t think it’s Nikky but whoever it is he or her talking the truth.some time you have to let a sleeping cat sleep for good seek😢
I believe you 💯 Jamie, some immature ppl talking about black, it has nothing to do with color. Abusing someone is unacceptable, do not take your videos down, weeping shall come at night but joy comes in the morning I have your back bro❤🙏🏾
This reminds me of the Johnny Depp case. I do believe you Jamie. I hope you can find peace. This is so unfortunate.
this
Yess literally part of Amber Heard’s personality was coming through as he was describing Nikki
@@Mermaidhaze I hope she didn't 5hit in the bed like Amber did 🤭🤢
He is amber not her , remember amber records Johnny and he went off like jonny and grab the phone .
@@dudaresende955 you aunties don't rest.
Nikki by now would have come on camera and cleared anything up she knows she's cooked
Please do not take this down Jamie. Your truth vs hers. I stand with you!
He didn’t deserve all of the abuse he went through. No one does. I hope he’s starts to thrive after this❤️❤️❤️
No worries Jamie, mature grown adults believe you. Also we are Praying for you. Blessings from Canada.
I knew there was absolutely no way he was lying from the day he dropped that first video! WOW I stand with you Jamie .. sheesh I feel so bad for
Jamie has lost weight....Take care of yourself, Jamie, for the sake of the kids.
I feel so bad for him, he has lost weight since the last video. Hes not alright. Praying for you Jamie 🙏🏾
Yes, he lost weight and he is very sad,
it can be clearly seen
Stop looking back Jamie, look up and go forward
Yes he has. 😢I hope he can put his life back together and that God leads him to someone who loves and cherishes him.
@@inhisimage0457amennn he deserves better ! Support this man guys !
@@Nana_Gyamfuaashe is tormenting him, so he can have a breakdown, probably to take the children from him fully. My ex used to do the same to me and we had only one child who was with me. He never wanted to accept the divorce papers, so I continued to live my life, until he decided, he wanted the divorce, he had to pay for it because I surly wasn't going too. Apparently he was taking advice from someone at that time. I want to tell Jamie to take care of himself and in the twinkle of an eye those girls will be young adults. My grandmother use to say your sacrifice to meet your commitments for them will only for a short time. The Lord will see you through.
Everytime you speak of your kids you lit up🤍🤍! You are a great father to the girls. Live for them, the rest shall pass!
Well done Jamie for responding. I'm really sorry that you went through all this. I am ashamed for defending her all these years. Hope you find real love and that you take care of your kids well. Get out of this mess and make more content. We will support you
I think it’s therapeutic for you Jamie to stand up and defend yourself.
What did I say??? I said should Nikki lie, Jamie will come with more receipts.
I said the same thing
She is a lier and not honest.
I feel so bad for two people I genuinely care about, those sweet babies need you both..I hope you both to get through this horrible situation. Praying for you and your families
I said it years ago. It never looked as though she liked him let alone loved him. She just never looked happy. Through both kids she never looked happy. I don’t understand why she got married.
This comment right here echoes my thoughts on watching their videos. Don't marry someone you don't love.
Many woman of African descent will marry a chair if it means they can push it down the aisle they are thought their value through man unfortunately
She knew what she was plotting the whole time
We stand with you Jamie and we believe you.
I just feel soo so bad for you, Jamie. Please keep your head high! God sees and he knows what you’ve been through. You deserve so much better and that you’ll get!
Amen
I respect you so much for having the courage to tell your side of the story even though so many people hate you for it. Stand your ground always. Much love
As Nikki was taking Zoe from your mother, you can hear her say “you called me a slut”. So you did call her a slut, infront of her child, your mother and her family. Stop lying!!!
Stop talking rubbish, you only heard “slut” in the video. By the looks of it, that’s what was being spread around the Sudanese community.
Yeah I knew her explanation didn’t add up as soon as she said she never abused you I thought about that text message she sent you apologising about hitting you. after that lie I never believed anything else she was saying. Let’s just be honest here Nikki wanted out but didn’t wanna be the bad guy here. All her talks about wanting a man of God blows my mind because it’s obvious we see how she is living..like she’s always wanted out of that marriage I would understand that but to legit bring the father of your children down to get what you want is not something an innocent person would do.
I loved watching your family over the years, this is unfortunate but stand with Jamie on this one!! Like he had the texts proof of her apologising for hitting him and laughing about someone’s depression?? Disgusting. I’ve lost all respect for her as a person. When I read her responses I felt like she really thinks we’re all very stupid. Pretty privilege if real. She’s really petty and a villain here in my opinion based on the information shared. I hope both parties heal for the sake of the children (still can’t get past denying your kids a Disney opportunity cause of being bitter).
There is a video where she was apologising for putting her hand on him and that was before they were even separated.
@@Babygirl_123 so when she abused Jamie, in front of his mother, with her daughter in her arm, was that okay???
The proof is in everyone’s face yet y’all still deny it. Y’all making excuses for Nikki for what? This is what truly happened. It’s recorded it’s documented. Nikki admitted it on the audio provided even.
Anyways I hope everything goes better for Jaime this is unacceptable.
People are siding with her cause of pretty privilege. And also if roles were inverted, people would side with her even without receipts. I really feel for him
People would see proof and completely deny what they are seeing
I don’t understand either how are people so blind to her manipulative and narcissistic behaviour. There is no doubt in my mind that she is the problem.
WITHOUT RECEIPTS LITERALLY@@annaadekunle7662
@@zanakaysag3839 It's delusion
So glad you spoke up about this! I watched you guys since the beginning of your UA-cam channel. Just like you hid what you were going through , I did too and it has now been 1 year since I left my abusive ex husband. The more we speak up the less power they have.
I also think Nikki harbors a bitterness that Duckie got far in fashion and not her. Jamie YOU took them both that day to audition. I remember!
I was thinking the same.
Bingo!!!
She regrets it
the sad part of it all is, nomatter how much overwhelming evidence he has all nikki has to do is make a video crying without any receipts or prove and people will be on her side and that's just how life is, a women can ruin a man's life with lies and still walk away without any accountability or remorse and still be a victim in people's eyes
What a sad situation 😢
Only side I’m on is the kids. This is all just disgusting.
@@becci2303100% agree what do either of them achieve from this after years? apart from getting hate and throwing each other under the bus. all it’s doing it damaging the kids and airing their dirty laundry for everyone to see, including the girls
EXACTLY, look at AMBER Heard, that woman should be in jail. If she was a man, she would be in jail mis the sad part.
Men too, mot just women.
Jamie you need to open your own podcast. Very well spoken man
Facts
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His listeners would have to listen at 2.0 speed. He whines too much and makes everything he says sound very boring
I'm also a black woman and I believe you Jamie. I pray for peace for your entire family and that you both can come to a place of forgiveness and peace for the sake of your children and future. God Bless you with Power, God's hope, and favor