Future disses Michael B. Jordan! Future is still bitter over Lori Harvey | Monique slams bonnets

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 7 тис.

  • @amandawright7533
    @amandawright7533 3 роки тому +1100

    Future keeps complaining about his ex's going to "lames" lol. Honey, the common denominator is YOU.

    • @xentrouswilliams7172
      @xentrouswilliams7172 3 роки тому +13

      @Kerry-Ann Purcell Damn you are Beautiful!!!🥰😁😄⚘🌹🌷💯👍

    • @msreen269
      @msreen269 3 роки тому +28

      😂😂😂 The ultimate “LAME”

    • @anbonner17
      @anbonner17 3 роки тому +6

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @lashondamitchell4345
      @lashondamitchell4345 3 роки тому +10

      Daaaaaaaaaaammmmmmm! Dat part

    • @angelgray8899
      @angelgray8899 3 роки тому +27

      I believe Future is over Lori Harvey the day I believe Eminem is over Mariah 😂😂😂

  • @juicyfruit5892
    @juicyfruit5892 3 роки тому +2917

    Ironic that he actually calls himself FUTURE, women with sense are now leaving him in the PAST...

  • @CandieP
    @CandieP 3 роки тому +3430

    Men like Future call men like Michael B Jordan and Russell a lame. His definition of a lame are men with no criminal history, men with no baby mamas, men with lucrative careers and men who actually respect women, especially their own. That’s who a lame is nowadays 😂.

    • @Opbabyyx
      @Opbabyyx 3 роки тому +169

      purr

    • @terrybuckley2850
      @terrybuckley2850 3 роки тому +223

      So true Sis! What a sad way to think 🤔 about responsible men! He’s pressed and bothered while his exes out here living their best lives! #FUTUREADUMMY #HEBIGMAD

    • @forwhy8723
      @forwhy8723 3 роки тому +247

      Yep! Men behaving like men is problematic to guys who are failing to be men

    • @deecartier7376
      @deecartier7376 3 роки тому +194

      Future ain’t a man he’s boy in a man body

    • @Lu31ishLu
      @Lu31ishLu 3 роки тому +24

      Right

  • @tenwaystowearit
    @tenwaystowearit 3 роки тому +506

    I always say there’s nothing more dangerous on this Earth than a bitter, scorned man. They just lose all sense of sanity and dignity. He needs to seek therapy.

    • @anonymous92388
      @anonymous92388 3 роки тому +5

      climate change: am i a joke to you?

    • @Tienatra
      @Tienatra 3 роки тому +1

      Well I wouldn't say that in this case future ain't going to do shit they both famous if lorie comes up missing hes going down another plane is more lickly to fall out the sky then that happening these famous people are protected unless Hollywood dont want them around know more

    • @yoyou3848
      @yoyou3848 3 роки тому

      Not everything is therapy 😌goodness sake. You appear American. No diss

    • @MoveAlongDummy
      @MoveAlongDummy 3 роки тому

      Future not trippin off her she is apart of his collection now as he said tell Steve I don't want her meaning everyone can quit asking Steve about do he approve of Future 🤣🤘

    • @cutecookie1111
      @cutecookie1111 3 роки тому +2

      @@MoveAlongDummy well then Future is a part of Lori’s collection then by that logic? Also Michael B Jordan is waaaaayyy better than future 🤣🤣

  • @HUNGRYCR4B
    @HUNGRYCR4B 3 роки тому +5019

    the best revenge to player like FUTURE is no revenge, but move on with someone better and be happy

    • @cheryl6smith-mcinnis232
      @cheryl6smith-mcinnis232 3 роки тому +115

      FACTS

    • @themaryblu
      @themaryblu 3 роки тому +86

      Well said👏🏾♥️

    • @meep2605
      @meep2605 3 роки тому +311

      Been having bad luck since Ciara🤣🤣🤣😂😂 girls proper glow up after leaving him, he must be rock bottom of trash.

    • @gtnlbr8497
      @gtnlbr8497 3 роки тому +44

      Exactly 💯💯💯

    • @OHoneyPot
      @OHoneyPot 3 роки тому +40

      This‼️‼️‼️

  • @syria0110
    @syria0110 3 роки тому +2335

    So the moral of the story is Future doesn't like to see his exes move on 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @CandieP
      @CandieP 3 роки тому +210

      He doesn’t like to see them move on with decent and respectful men. 😉

    • @Nirobiscloset10
      @Nirobiscloset10 3 роки тому +56

      With ruining with a baby. He is a demon.

    • @isaidwhatisaid6896
      @isaidwhatisaid6896 3 роки тому +110

      It’s Giving
      ✨narcissistic personality disorder✨

    • @cheryl6smith-mcinnis232
      @cheryl6smith-mcinnis232 3 роки тому +32

      @@isaidwhatisaid6896 100% DEMON!!!!

    • @Thegazelle1000
      @Thegazelle1000 3 роки тому +38

      He should have treated them better, maybe they would have stood with him. Now he is crying 🙄🙄

  • @Thula_Impala96
    @Thula_Impala96 3 роки тому +417

    Males are having discussions about bonnets, yet no solutions about the gang violence. Priorities all messed up

    • @natural_lee7406
      @natural_lee7406 3 роки тому +100

      Or their saggy ass pants like people wanna see their underwear or ass all out. Some have belts on and still be sagging. 🤢🤮

    • @melanieclark9137
      @melanieclark9137 3 роки тому +23

      I swear i be saying this big facts

    • @redscorpion9325
      @redscorpion9325 3 роки тому +4

      They can’t stop Gang Violence

    • @matxalenc8410
      @matxalenc8410 3 роки тому +15

      @@natural_lee7406 Yup. They put the belt on so the pants stay attached halfway down their a**.

    • @natural_lee7406
      @natural_lee7406 3 роки тому +17

      @@matxalenc8410 they might as well don't even bother to put on pants at that point

  • @markk8248
    @markk8248 3 роки тому +480

    Future calling MICHAEL B JORDAN a lame is hilarious because Future could never be on Michaels level.

    • @concamon1364
      @concamon1364 3 роки тому +6

      Now any other time, y'all and this channel owner would be dragging Micheal for breathing 😐.
      Why the sudden cape for this man?

    • @markk8248
      @markk8248 3 роки тому +24

      @@concamon1364 idk who the y’all is that you’re referring to but it is not I. 😂 I love Michael. That’s why I defended him.

    • @okwayz4438
      @okwayz4438 3 роки тому +1

      Cap

    • @markk8248
      @markk8248 3 роки тому +1

      @@okwayz4438 foh

    • @diamondsparkle9967
      @diamondsparkle9967 3 роки тому +1

      Michael's a simp.

  • @DaughterOfTheKing_
    @DaughterOfTheKing_ 3 роки тому +3019

    Future more worried about Lori Harvey than his own children,future just mad Lori pulled a him on him 🤷🏽‍♀️💯

    • @tiffakang4525
      @tiffakang4525 3 роки тому +80

      Oooop

    • @BigReddSouthernGal25
      @BigReddSouthernGal25 3 роки тому +112

      He's really miserable.

    • @TanisC
      @TanisC 3 роки тому +44

      Yaaaaaaaassssss!💯🤣🤣🤣

    • @geester
      @geester 3 роки тому +150

      He says she begged for him not to leave but his reaction to her moving on is so telling that it was likely the other way around, otherwise he would not be so up in his feelings!!!/ Maybe im wrong!! 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @leisajacobsg8981
      @leisajacobsg8981 3 роки тому +26

      Girl you.are so right lol😂😂

  • @bitokay147
    @bitokay147 3 роки тому +871

    Ciara has the biggest upgrade to date in the celeb world in my opinion, anyone can rebound a guy, she found a great man and a good father. That is unreal, this guy loves her son like his own. This is rare.

    • @yahainHotPink
      @yahainHotPink 3 роки тому +38

      💯 So happy for her!! I only found out her full story from the Wendy Williams show and putting the facts together. No time to really keep up with celebrities. But her story is beautiful.

    • @MUAXXILY
      @MUAXXILY 3 роки тому +11

      Yesssss!!!! Omfg!

    • @sarai373
      @sarai373 3 роки тому +30

      Your comment is so 1000% correct. She really had the best upgrade ever in history of upgrading ( I know I'm exaggerating but I can't help it) lol.
      He's good looking he's decent and respectable he has class he loves and accepts her for who she is and didn't judge her. He loves her firstborn unconditionally and he ignores the rantings of the madman. He truly is a great guy with a kind heart.

    • @k.anthony2399
      @k.anthony2399 3 роки тому +17

      Imo, Ciara made Future look like a lame. He put her through a lot.

    • @SpoiledMartian
      @SpoiledMartian 3 роки тому +9

      Been a Ciara fan since the 2000s, and we love that for her. ❤️

  • @chrislyn1868
    @chrislyn1868 3 роки тому +480

    The fact that he keeps mentioning Lori but her and Ciara are literally paying him dust makes me chuckle lol he needs a comfortable therapist chair to sit on at this point

    • @comedianpottymouth
      @comedianpottymouth 3 роки тому +20

      Considering how good those two are doing now he is definitely a stepping stone ninja!! Got to be some ju ju on him that gets you a good man after you leave him!!

    • @shinyab1709
      @shinyab1709 3 роки тому +1

      Your so beautiful!

  • @onnie.6815
    @onnie.6815 3 роки тому +204

    Future is nearly 40, I hate that he still gets this kinda of attention. He needs to grow up and the internet needs to stop enabling him 🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @rowena6872
      @rowena6872 3 роки тому +6

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 3 роки тому +6

      Women need to stop enabling him

    • @onnie.6815
      @onnie.6815 3 роки тому +9

      @@anthonymerritt1114 men* stop blaming women for his nonsense

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 3 роки тому

      @@onnie.6815 who should we blame? Who do you blame when somebody is on drugs? The drug dealer , whos doing what he does, or the person who buys the drugs? We know the answer

    • @onnie.6815
      @onnie.6815 3 роки тому +1

      @@anthonymerritt1114 sir- clearly no one thought you personal responsibility, so this back & forth is useless. Have a nice day

  • @lichi1244eva
    @lichi1244eva 3 роки тому +584

    If being "lame" means
    1) handsome
    2) extremely talented
    3) wealthy
    4) loving and FAITHFUL
    5) no kids in every state in the US
    6) respected in your field
    Then I'll take a so-called "lame" all day every day. Future is a 🤡

  • @sstar4801
    @sstar4801 3 роки тому +1100

    It’s like Future deeply enjoys making women miserable baby mommas, and when it doesn’t work he throws a fit.

    • @moedusaenlightened1111
      @moedusaenlightened1111 3 роки тому +90

      He's apart of "the agenda"...nighas love and want to be like future,they want us out here looking stupid over these niggas,then want us to feel bad for moving on with their definition of a "square"..it damages his narcissism to see anyone he had move on and do better

    • @Liy798
      @Liy798 3 роки тому +76

      He’s a high value dusty beta male who leaves a trail of unwanted children and single mothers. The same children that in 20 yrs Black males are gonna complain the girls are masculine and the boys are fem because their single mom raised them although he left them to be raised solo. Never anything but deflection, dereliction, and gaslighting.

    • @genaeyoung180
      @genaeyoung180 3 роки тому +48

      I read of a trend in Jamaica. Men attach themselves to women of decent worth purposely to keep a spot open for him to keep coming back into her life. He doesn’t intend to be with her he just always wants access to her. Sounds like Future, he doesn’t want to be cut off after being with a woman.

    • @raycutler2524
      @raycutler2524 3 роки тому +1

      @@moedusaenlightened1111 what does a "square" mean? Ik it means smoking a blunt sometimes but I haven't seen it used for that term.

    • @jasminee1357
      @jasminee1357 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly!!!

  • @mycahjofficial
    @mycahjofficial 3 роки тому +736

    *Future is a grown man complaining like a 4-year-old crying over a piece of candy LOL*

    • @deecartier7376
      @deecartier7376 3 роки тому +22

      He’s boy in a man body

    • @davesmoothie
      @davesmoothie 3 роки тому +5

      Physical grown...mentally stagnant...he’s a whole child

    • @faith2xxx
      @faith2xxx 3 роки тому +2

      Right! Acting like somebody broke the head off of his G.I. Joe doll.

  • @itsmekiaratee
    @itsmekiaratee 3 роки тому +185

    Michael B. Jordan is a QUALITY man!! Don’t know what’s lame about that, lol

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 3 роки тому +6

      Whats lame is not holding this woman accountable. You let a irresponsible dude penetrate u and now u want a good man?

    • @Myk451
      @Myk451 3 роки тому +15

      @@anthonymerritt1114 What's wrong with that? Genuinely asking. Ppls have made bad decisions. That's life all u can do is learn from your mistakes and move on to something bigger and better. What is there to be help accountable? I dont see how the woman is at fault here?

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 3 роки тому +1

      @@Myk451 of course you make mistakes and learn from them. You r correct. That is life. I agree. But can't we say the same about future? We have labeled him. But the women laying down with him just made a mistake? Oh my.

    • @smarterrp4080
      @smarterrp4080 3 роки тому +9

      @@anthonymerritt1114 he's still making the mistakes...If and when he changes he can move on to bigger and better as well. His behavior and habits don't seem to have changed yet.

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 3 роки тому +1

      @@smarterrp4080 imo, as a dude, u get 2 a certain point where u can change, but this dude can't give his all to nobody. He's spread to thin already. He will probably continue this behavior forever.

  • @Churros1616
    @Churros1616 3 роки тому +590

    Ciara and Lori both stepped up. They got a better man than Future. Future mad and is being petty because he thought he was the best they could ever have. Turns out he was wrong. Healthy black love. I am here for it!

    • @ImJazzmineLeigh
      @ImJazzmineLeigh 3 роки тому +2

      It’s not even hard to beat Future. He’s got money & a gajillion BMs. As soon as you bring a woman peace from that chaos, you’re good! Lmao

    • @maniac50ae14
      @maniac50ae14 3 роки тому

      Yeah, whyd they date him to begin with? Mike B needs to treat her the way she use to being treated

    • @TheLbeebe7
      @TheLbeebe7 3 роки тому +4

      @@maniac50ae14 who are you to determine how someone should be treated based on the mistakes they've made? We've all made mistakes in life whether it be in dating, finances, academics or other wise. Which includes you..so should you also be treated in accordance with your mistakes? Like seriously stop it!

    • @octaviashane_
      @octaviashane_ 3 роки тому +1

      Same thing he did to Ciara because he was hurt🤦🏾‍♀️ Sued my girl for defamation and lost🤣

    • @maniac50ae14
      @maniac50ae14 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheLbeebe7 The difference is, Ive never made the same mistake that i just watched someone else fail at. Difference is, my mistakes have never resulted in the birth of another child into broken relationship.

  • @MakaykayLAMB
    @MakaykayLAMB 3 роки тому +1913

    Swear to God, if Kim Kardashian or Kylie Jenner walked outside with a bonnet on right now, it'd become a fashion statement.

    • @Simplysvee
      @Simplysvee 3 роки тому +176

      I totally agree with you. You have to be the right color or ethnicity to actually execute the aesethic

    • @dentindahousee9635
      @dentindahousee9635 3 роки тому +100

      Then let them have that horrible fashion sense! Don’t worry about Kim and Kylie🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @MPPG663
      @MPPG663 3 роки тому +146

      Fashionable to whom?
      They don't set the trends for black people. They take their Q from us.
      If the majority of black folks say it's tacky they won't appropriate that to sell to white folks lol.

    • @SACHKIGAL
      @SACHKIGAL 3 роки тому +15

      Facts

    • @trulyworkfromhome6767
      @trulyworkfromhome6767 3 роки тому +15

      truth!!!!

  • @YONCE8701
    @YONCE8701 3 роки тому +937

    FUTURE STILL PANINI PRESSED. This is getting embarrassing....with everything he does....THE AUDACITY. One thing about Ciara; she never clings.

    • @Misssteelcity412
      @Misssteelcity412 3 роки тому +48

      He was always a clown but he looking hella foolish right now

    • @Onur0547
      @Onur0547 3 роки тому +38

      Panini pressed I cant chileee im deceased 💀💀💀⚰

    • @s.c.h6512
      @s.c.h6512 3 роки тому +29

      Nah he silk pressed right now.

    • @Creativespace133
      @Creativespace133 3 роки тому +31

      “Panini pressed”😂😂😂

    • @lacetide1227
      @lacetide1227 3 роки тому +1

      😭very

  • @loryndabenson2118
    @loryndabenson2118 3 роки тому +162

    Can we take minute to acknowledge how beautiful and youthful miss Monique has been looking though? 😍

    • @kandiceduckett903
      @kandiceduckett903 3 роки тому +5

      Please stop

    • @cassidystyles2514
      @cassidystyles2514 3 роки тому +6

      Yesss she looks like a queen period

    • @kandiceduckett903
      @kandiceduckett903 3 роки тому +2

      @KhalessiDefenderOfBW BurnerOfCapes no not bitter just living in reality

    • @kandiceduckett903
      @kandiceduckett903 3 роки тому +2

      @KhalessiDefenderOfBW BurnerOfCapes she looks old as fuck and she is farrrrr from beautiful. She is not even pretty. YOU ARE A LIAR AND PEOPLE PLEASER

    • @robync.chambers
      @robync.chambers 3 роки тому +3

      @@kandiceduckett903 Your ridiculous....An sad! Like she said....Black woman putting other black woman down. IS BEYOND ME💯

  • @kimberlyhoward4940
    @kimberlyhoward4940 3 роки тому +399

    Future is bitter,lame and unhappy. She has not spoken about him and he's hurt.

    • @ilikepickles9568
      @ilikepickles9568 3 роки тому +12

      She's a true Capricorn.

    • @charlisewitcher1219
      @charlisewitcher1219 3 роки тому +11

      @@ilikepickles9568 Exactly when us Capricorn’s move on we don’t mention your name you just don’t exist in our world we ain’t got time to live in the past.

    • @brown_skin_lover_queen5790
      @brown_skin_lover_queen5790 3 роки тому +4

      He sounds like my dad

    • @lesleyk1727
      @lesleyk1727 3 роки тому +2

      Butt hurt! Ohhhh welll 😆😅🤣😂

    • @tokunaga432
      @tokunaga432 3 роки тому +5

      Lame he called Russell lame too a professional football player but he lame cause he's faithful? Not just him Michael not an athlete but is a very rich acclaimed actor who's been on the big screen and magazine covers since before he was 21. His exes leveled up and he cant handle it I'm dead lmao

  • @forwhy8723
    @forwhy8723 3 роки тому +345

    Future acting like a h03 and wants to be treated like a wife 🤣

  • @weneedtodobetter2555
    @weneedtodobetter2555 3 роки тому +527

    I thought he was telling Steve Harvey "he don't want her" 🤔 Sounds like he is BIG mad

    • @tiffakang4525
      @tiffakang4525 3 роки тому +13

      🤭

    • @TanisC
      @TanisC 3 роки тому +12

      That part!🤣

    • @timmycollins2149
      @timmycollins2149 3 роки тому +13

      If you don't want her leave her along stupid bastard he's so dam petty.

    • @quiqui5793
      @quiqui5793 3 роки тому +8

      I thought he said "life is good" 🤷🏽‍♀️ 💅🏾 😎

    • @leely577
      @leely577 3 роки тому +6

      That boy is steam pressed

  • @kw9568
    @kw9568 3 роки тому +60

    I need to date Future. I know for sure I will meet the love of my life afterwards. 😃

  • @mspishposh
    @mspishposh 3 роки тому +1192

    Future called Michael B Jordan a lame?
    Me: BURST OUT LAUGHING

    • @kimberley3577
      @kimberley3577 3 роки тому +82

      The delusion. Micheal B is handsome and a rising star

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 3 роки тому +14

      Chileeee

    • @batteriesnotincluded4715
      @batteriesnotincluded4715 3 роки тому +84

      I guess REAL men & gentlemen are considered simps nowadays?
      Wellllll then...I want one!🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @Miasaun
      @Miasaun 3 роки тому +16

      Future crazy and petty for that🤦🏻‍♀️,he need to look at himself🤔 and look at micheal b jordon💯

    • @mspishposh
      @mspishposh 3 роки тому +10

      @@batteriesnotincluded4715 same, sign me UP!

  • @forwhy8723
    @forwhy8723 3 роки тому +407

    Future has more baggage than an international airport

    • @terrybuckley2850
      @terrybuckley2850 3 роки тому +19

      😂🥲😂🤣

    • @Lonelyeco
      @Lonelyeco 3 роки тому +17

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cpw2082
      @cpw2082 3 роки тому +25

      THIS ONE FOR THE WIN 💀💀💀💀💀💀🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @aprilinparisxoxo
      @aprilinparisxoxo 3 роки тому +10

      💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣

    • @radiantly_fatime
      @radiantly_fatime 3 роки тому +10

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. What!!!!!!!!

  • @vibewithzoe1896
    @vibewithzoe1896 3 роки тому +1386

    It's a man who is in his 40yrs with 7or 8 children crying over a beautiful, black young women. He needs a therapist at this point

    • @SkittlezMack
      @SkittlezMack 3 роки тому +20

      Lol he 37

    • @vibewithzoe1896
      @vibewithzoe1896 3 роки тому +130

      @@SkittlezMackit's stil giving obsession

    • @kayklash
      @kayklash 3 роки тому +117

      @@vibewithzoe1896 Right... And still pushing 40

    • @Wallflower381
      @Wallflower381 3 роки тому +13

      FACTS!!🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂

    • @MonaJ888
      @MonaJ888 3 роки тому +95

      @@SkittlezMack it’s still the same. 37 damn near 40 he need to grow up

  • @lawrencejones8635
    @lawrencejones8635 3 роки тому +511

    I couldn't imagine being a black woman in America and constantly having someone tell me what I should do with my body! If a woman is comfortable in whatever she is doing leave her because it's her business and it don't pay you!

    • @katchrist_
      @katchrist_ 3 роки тому +13

      Thank You!!

    • @khigg40
      @khigg40 3 роки тому +8

      Thank you, Lawrence!!

    • @ennove1535
      @ennove1535 3 роки тому +38

      That's the problem with this generation, nobody want to hear wisdom from the older generations. I think that she gives a damn by saying something. This has become a sad day that we think being in PJs and looking like we just crawled out of bed is appropriate.

    • @natashagibson29
      @natashagibson29 3 роки тому +8

      We dont listen. We continue to wear whatever we want on our head.

    • @DaraKFulton
      @DaraKFulton 3 роки тому +2

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @mxxx9561
    @mxxx9561 3 роки тому +573

    He’s mad he didn’t have enough time to make her babymamma number 17

  • @lashandaallenredmon2109
    @lashandaallenredmon2109 3 роки тому +813

    Anyone else notice the guys who Future calls “lame” are more established, respected and in a different tax bracket than he is? Aw, okay. 🤷🏽‍♀️
    Russell Wilson.
    Michael B. Jordan.
    Future. He could never. 🤣🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @k.anthony2399
      @k.anthony2399 3 роки тому +66

      Future lame for telling other people they're lame.

    • @bigyolz6731
      @bigyolz6731 3 роки тому +50

      Men of substance🙏🏾He really could never🤞🏿

    • @RegentDeMarquis005
      @RegentDeMarquis005 3 роки тому +9

      Factssss

    • @charice1216
      @charice1216 3 роки тому +15

      Exactly he knows he’s not on their level financially and that’s why he lashes out. He calls anybody who’s more successful than him a lame lol

    • @RegentDeMarquis005
      @RegentDeMarquis005 3 роки тому +2

      @Protect Her Peace agreed 👍 🙏

  • @MDhunni08
    @MDhunni08 3 роки тому +654

    Future will be 38 this year. He needs to stop acting like he’s 18. Hell, there’s more respectable 18 y/o than him.

    • @Latrise
      @Latrise 3 роки тому +52

      Future is just mad that Ciara is with Russell and that Lori is with Michael. MEN called Russell a simp, i'm confused because he's a super bowl winning quarterback...nothing is "simp" about that. He's such a hater and needs to grow up. Future should try to be a respectable man like they are and start treating women better.

    • @HelloKitty-pe4ho
      @HelloKitty-pe4ho 3 роки тому +19

      Hell, I thought he was in his late 40s.😭💀🤣 Bm are aging like spoiled milk, just like their preference.🤭😹

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly

    • @MDhunni08
      @MDhunni08 3 роки тому +5

      @@Latrise Exactly! He a big hater. And there’s nothing simp about being a decent guy.

    • @MDhunni08
      @MDhunni08 3 роки тому +1

      @@HelloKitty-pe4ho Right they all look mature.

  • @fancyface432
    @fancyface432 3 роки тому +178

    Head bonnets? This is what we're putting our energy into? Can black women just live, please?

  • @ashleydixon220
    @ashleydixon220 3 роки тому +238

    Only Toxic males who can’t see Future for the type of man he really is still idolizes him. I would say that he has female tendencies but that would be an insult to us lol.

    • @devegas4910
      @devegas4910 3 роки тому +33

      Or worse. They do see him for who he is. He’s just being idolized by him to give them validation for being the trash that they are

    • @NT-rm8jm
      @NT-rm8jm 3 роки тому +2

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @MDhunni08
      @MDhunni08 3 роки тому +2

      Him and Slim Thug

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 3 роки тому +8

      He’s a dusty. He wants the women to chase and pursue him like he’s the prize lol

    • @__gemoftheeast
      @__gemoftheeast 3 роки тому +6

      @@basicinfo2022 Right?! A guy who I once had a major crush on told me “Men are natural hunters.” Mind you, I was chasing him. I stopped&never went after any man ever since.

  • @shaunag4869
    @shaunag4869 3 роки тому +124

    If one of the Kardashian suddenly start wearing bonnets everywhere, it would be a fashion trend. nobody wouldn't say nothing 🙄

  • @ginalee5307
    @ginalee5307 3 роки тому +323

    Future, he's jealous.. Lori hit a jackpot..MBJ is a classy black man with a hellava future.. Not only is he an actor he's an executive producer of several films, several television shows...One being currently being on OWN, David makes man.. Anybody that steps in with with Oprah that's huge!! Very respectful and he's not going around making a whole bunch of damn babies with all these different women..It's ridiculous and you wonder why the world looks at certain black people a certain way...I'm proud of her.. She definitely leveled up... and this is from A og that has skin in the game...

    • @ericdavis6261
      @ericdavis6261 3 роки тому +6

      unlike future he don't have a bunch of baby mommas. she dodged a bullet.

  • @iamodessa
    @iamodessa 3 роки тому +77

    I understand Monique's point. I was brought up that there is a difference between house clothes and out clothes. The good saying, dress how you would like to be treated.

  • @micah459
    @micah459 3 роки тому +328

    Future is the one of the most petty rappers. The fact Ciara and Lori leveled up tells me that Future is the problem

    • @TanisC
      @TanisC 3 роки тому +21

      True talk!! You would think he would learned his lesson 8+ kids ago, but he still wanna be on some petty nonsense, as usual.

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 3 роки тому +1

      Even more than 50?

    • @micah459
      @micah459 3 роки тому +3

      @@traceytracey3756 50 is up there too

    • @traceytracey3756
      @traceytracey3756 3 роки тому +2

      @@micah459 You know what it is, they're actually extremely insecure. He and 50 like to do the dumping, because someone important in their lives dumped them, such as a mother. Classic Freudian behavior. Even when they do the dumping, they can't just let it go; that other person has to be all kinds of disrespectful adjectives and they think they are the better person. That's called delusions of grandeur. These guys are a whole lot of toxicity. Run ladies or you will be next.🤰

    • @k.anthony2399
      @k.anthony2399 3 роки тому +1

      Future a crybaby.

  • @mechekorrect1442
    @mechekorrect1442 3 роки тому +610

    Bonnets and traditional head wrapping are two different things.

    • @sweetnpretty3766
      @sweetnpretty3766 3 роки тому +3

      💯

    • @teesceeo
      @teesceeo 3 роки тому +34

      Exactly. Monique said no lies.

    • @daphneyh6239
      @daphneyh6239 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly !

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit 3 роки тому +31

      ☝🏾 Truth! I don’t think she’s talking about traditional head wraps. They’re beautiful on us. ♥️

    • @a.konadu4010
      @a.konadu4010 3 роки тому

      Thank youuuuu

  • @kittenmayz611
    @kittenmayz611 3 роки тому +368

    My mom always told me when you leave the house, LOOK YOUR BEST. This doesn’t include a bonnet 😩🤣

    • @cheryl6smith-mcinnis232
      @cheryl6smith-mcinnis232 3 роки тому +17

      Well said

    • @Awillii
      @Awillii 3 роки тому +52

      Yes, but not everyone is leaving a house. You don’t know that sisters story. Sometimes what you sis is there best. I grew up in foster case and was homeless shortly I was emancipated. Being judged is not a good feeling.

    • @picalojen3549
      @picalojen3549 3 роки тому +14

      My mom said the exact same!!!! Thank you to all the moms that put it down!!

    • @kendraanderson1466
      @kendraanderson1466 3 роки тому +16

      I personally hate when I have to wear a bonnet in public only time I wear it outside the house is after I take my hair down and on my way to my hair appointment

    • @chaichai012
      @chaichai012 3 роки тому +31

      @@kendraanderson1466 if I have to go out and my hair isn’t done I’ll just put on a pretty head wrap, it makes my cheekbones pop and I feel like a queen

  • @khadijarashid3951
    @khadijarashid3951 3 роки тому +73

    Everyone should wear what ever he/she is comfortable with

    • @KaLiRed504DiVa
      @KaLiRed504DiVa 3 роки тому +4

      @Khadija ...THAT part!!!🙌🏾💯🙌🏾... WE have soooo MUCH more to WORRY about during these HARD and dangerous times we're currently living in.

    • @mrleebaines8611
      @mrleebaines8611 3 роки тому +4

      That's the problem with black folks no standard

    • @Eye_amLela777
      @Eye_amLela777 3 роки тому

      Exactly

    • @Eye_amLela777
      @Eye_amLela777 3 роки тому +5

      I shouldn't have to get dressed to impress people if I'm not going out to somewhere fancy or something your comfort is what matters so what she is saying doesn't make much sense to me do you see white people judging each other for going out in sweatpants and all of that stuff😒No so why it gotta b like that for us🤔we should be uplifting each other the way they do and however you want to carry yourself is YOUR business💁🏽‍♀️

  • @tara4563
    @tara4563 3 роки тому +268

    Whether I like bonnets or not, im not about to tell people what they can or should not do.

    • @kayklash
      @kayklash 3 роки тому +25

      Right

    • @Listen2me400
      @Listen2me400 3 роки тому +34

      Yeah, I won’t be walking up on nobody trying to tell them what to do. Fight much???

    • @qumeishaowens6070
      @qumeishaowens6070 3 роки тому +19

      Agreed!!! Sounds like she is pressed about the bonnet situation!!!

    • @chrissic8106
      @chrissic8106 3 роки тому +14

      We can’t tell people what to do, but we can have an opinion. It’s an open discussion just like everything else

    • @doll9763
      @doll9763 3 роки тому +2

      Right

  • @aliciawilliams8817
    @aliciawilliams8817 3 роки тому +395

    Each time this man says something negative about Lori Harvey he's only telling the world how Heartbroken hi is that she is no longer with him

    • @jasmainjasmain2906
      @jasmainjasmain2906 3 роки тому +10

      And that he's an toxic asshole 😂

    • @valentinen8387
      @valentinen8387 3 роки тому

      @@jasmainjasmain2906 he never dissed Lori it

    • @valentinen8387
      @valentinen8387 3 роки тому

      @@jasmainjasmain2906 He was dissing Steve Harvey because HE kept talking about him

    • @valentinen8387
      @valentinen8387 3 роки тому

      He never dissed Lori or anyone first it was a comeback because Steve kept mentioning him Future didn’t mention her until Steve Mentioned him multiple times

    • @222.v0nDutchess
      @222.v0nDutchess 3 роки тому +4

      @@valentinen8387 Lmfaoo baby while you’re trying to defend the king of the streets he literally said “she didn’t have a choice but to go f*** a lame after me “ that was about her ! 😭😭 who tf defends future ?

  • @jessicagary4197
    @jessicagary4197 3 роки тому +164

    I respect what Monique is saying, I myself go out in public with my bonnet and scarfs. My daughter has even said I embarrassed her. I'm going to do better.

    • @222.v0nDutchess
      @222.v0nDutchess 3 роки тому +62

      @ifabulocitygirl Because it’s a time and place for everything .. that is embarrassing ! It’s ghetto to go out in public with a bonnet on

    • @TheCHELEHB
      @TheCHELEHB 3 роки тому +53

      @ifabulocitygirl it’s tacky. Period

    • @jessicagary4197
      @jessicagary4197 3 роки тому +15

      @ifabulocitygirl its not an awful thing, I just wanna do better that's all.

    • @dinoog6912
      @dinoog6912 3 роки тому +27

      @@222.v0nDutchess what is ghetto and tacky.At some point in time long nails were ghetto and tacky. Colorful wigs were ghetto and tacky .hell even durags were ghetto. Wait until some white women starts wearing it and claims they invented it and see. 🙄

    • @adixon4824
      @adixon4824 3 роки тому +16

      Love the accountability. You go girl 🙂. We are all growing and learning and doing better.

  • @hollywoodmonroeglam3875
    @hollywoodmonroeglam3875 3 роки тому +41

    My grandmother always told us girls growing up when you walk out the door you look presentable. You wash your body, you brush your teeth, you have on clean clothes, make sure your clothes are ironed, make sure you smell nice, put lotion on and you make sure your hair is combed. And even now in my thirties I remember everything my grandma said to me growing up as a child and even to this day my mom will tell me if you ever come outside with a bonnet or a sleep scarf on your head you will not be in public with me. She was like you know I was not raised like that and you were not raised to go out of public like that either, you better not ever.

  • @Bri88888
    @Bri88888 3 роки тому +187

    I’m just happy Lori isn’t one of futures baby mommas cause future would be even more out of control

    • @angelaanaconda5837
      @angelaanaconda5837 3 роки тому +2

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😫

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 3 роки тому +1

      She should be lucky any man still wants to date her after she been ran through.

    • @cyclonedes4417
      @cyclonedes4417 3 роки тому +8

      @@sus-tw2ls she’s not ran through tho. Future obviously is tho, how many baby mamas does future have? Lori can get anyone she wants she has options and good options at that, can’t say the same for future though. She won here

  • @afroprince5262
    @afroprince5262 3 роки тому +524

    Monique ain’t say nothing most elders don’t.

    • @jisooinyourarea6751
      @jisooinyourarea6751 3 роки тому +57

      AND THEY ALL WRONG TBH.

    • @eliadixon101
      @eliadixon101 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely

    • @eliadixon101
      @eliadixon101 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely

    • @donzaleighanderson8139
      @donzaleighanderson8139 3 роки тому +45

      Facts... I my granny would have a fit if she seen me going to the mailbox with my bonnet on. I could hear her voice too "don't you dare go outside looking like that".

    • @appetite4chic878
      @appetite4chic878 3 роки тому +64

      Monique said absolutely nothing wrong. My grandma has told me the same thing since I was a teen and it has stuck with me. It’s also my excuse to take my time and get ready 😂🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Rascalbeans
    @Rascalbeans 3 роки тому +152

    Future is a stepping stone, when his relationships end the women are automatically guaranteed a better future . Boy Bye✌🏾

    • @Michelle-we4pb
      @Michelle-we4pb 3 роки тому +8

      OK.. Maybe I should go try him then 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @layziefngroovy
      @layziefngroovy 3 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 a fact!

    • @iKETOURAGE
      @iKETOURAGE 3 роки тому +1

      Lemme go grab my wig.

    • @colormelaay7522
      @colormelaay7522 3 роки тому +1

      😭😭💯🙏🏾 we more future 🥇😂😂😂🤔

  • @keeyarramohammed2
    @keeyarramohammed2 3 роки тому +50

    People can’t even be comfortable on the plane no more 😂😭

    • @lucy2special189
      @lucy2special189 3 роки тому +1

      Is it possible we agree, whyte folk too, take a month off and leave Black folk alone. Spend that time during something else. Don't concern yourself
      With the hair, whether it's braided with color or not, or long hair,, ball head, short hair, hair wrap, bonnet, and the list goes on. Our Ancestors wore rags, it was a "Fashion statement" All of sudden we are ashamed, Why? That's our culture. Seems we are alway trying to run away from something some
      One said, do what makes you happy 😊 Once upon a time that's all our Ancestors had, they were OK 👌. Spend that time during something else you would be surprised how much you can get accomplished 😉. Just one month at a time ⏲️.

    • @miaaspen4713
      @miaaspen4713 3 роки тому

      On the plane !! But not on the way to it . Embarrassing

  • @PoreStarEsti
    @PoreStarEsti 3 роки тому +240

    Shout out to Lori for watching over her womb while playing in the dirt..

  • @mariacriss5414
    @mariacriss5414 3 роки тому +220

    There is definitely a difference between a satin, protective hair bonnet and a cultural head garnishment like a turban or head wrap. I am all for multicultural fabrics designed as customary.

  • @kayklash
    @kayklash 3 роки тому +454

    I'd never wear a bonnet in public either. That's just me tho. Other women can do as they please.

    • @EnesKitchene
      @EnesKitchene 3 роки тому +30

      Me too 🙈...

    • @labarrain
      @labarrain 3 роки тому +21

      It’s ridiculous

    • @iammar1159
      @iammar1159 3 роки тому +56

      I’m not here to judge but I don’t get why people do that 😂 I wear a bonnet to sleep but you will never see me in public with it on. I can understand people wearing hair scarves and turbans, but leave the bonnet at home lol

    • @AsiRo1127
      @AsiRo1127 3 роки тому +59

      @@labarrain Honestly. Idk how it became such a big deal just mind ya business 😂

    • @tameracalloway6068
      @tameracalloway6068 3 роки тому +40

      most of the time if someone is wearing it out they are most likely running to do some errands like I gotta jam up my edges and brush my hair to go to Walmart or putting gas in my car. I personally don’t do it either but my god why is it always a commentary it’s a head wrap like???

  • @BT-qs8st
    @BT-qs8st 3 роки тому +42

    Yo...don’t go around tapping females wearing bonnets & such. That’s trouble. To each their own & just MYOB. It’s as simple as that.

    • @Priddy_Rosez
      @Priddy_Rosez 3 роки тому +7

      Thank you! The world is going to hell in a hand basket & mfs still worried about the wrong shit 🙄

    • @niyalove7001
      @niyalove7001 3 роки тому +8

      For real weird as hell, I don’t even wear bonnets in public. But if I did, leave me the hell alone. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @VancySF
      @VancySF 3 роки тому +2

      True

  • @Cakez253
    @Cakez253 3 роки тому +381

    He's always going in on the women that did better after him LOL. Its like he expects to be the best they can get and when they do find better his ego takes a hit!

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 3 роки тому +1

      He left Ciara. Now what?

    • @flowerpink33
      @flowerpink33 3 роки тому +29

      @@sus-tw2ls and she’s better off for it too. Look at God. She’s beyond blessed. No more toxic problems. With a beautiful family.

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 3 роки тому

      @@flowerpink33 maybe she is better off. What about all them other women? She's one of hundreds.

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 3 роки тому

      @@flowerpink33 y did God bless her but all the other women he dogged out didnt get blessed? I'm sure a lot of them r fd up cause they ain't celebrities

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 3 роки тому

      I take it as he's exposing them. They act like they want a upstanding dude, then they let this dude dig em out. So for Lori Harvey trying to have this good girl image prancing around, just know that she took her ride first. Once she sees what the fuss is about and took her turn, NOW she's ready to settle down. once u marry her, future fd your wife and she liked it. Probably teaching micheal b some of the shit this man was doing to her. Smh.

  • @Angel-hu2sx
    @Angel-hu2sx 3 роки тому +89

    I wear my bonnet in public. 🤷🏾 Sometimes im just going to the store real fast, going to pick up food. Maybe I don't feel like unwrapping my hair just to put it back up when I get home. Maybe I need a touch up lol. Either way I'm comfortable and minding my business so mind yours.

    • @nybands
      @nybands 3 роки тому +12

      exactly

    • @rhonnichan
      @rhonnichan 3 роки тому +8

      Exactly like mind ya fucking business

    • @BigReddSouthernGal25
      @BigReddSouthernGal25 3 роки тому +19

      I don't make it a habit but I've done it and I'll do it if I feel I want to. Policing bw is really getting out of control.

    • @virgolee6126
      @virgolee6126 3 роки тому +6

      @@BigReddSouthernGal25 exactly I wear it sometimes at my local grocery store because I'm only 5 minutes away and 10 at night but big events I don't wear it 😘

    • @qumeishaowens6070
      @qumeishaowens6070 3 роки тому +8

      Say it louder for the people in the back!!!

  • @jali276
    @jali276 3 роки тому +271

    It's a NO for me with wearing a silky bonnet in public, a headwrap YES but to each their own🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @sheranda77
      @sheranda77 3 роки тому +33

      Those granny caps ain't the business. Let's call it what it is

    • @tjohnson3822
      @tjohnson3822 3 роки тому +47

      Right! I didn’t like how the head wrap photos were included with the bonnets in this video, they are very much different

    • @k.anthony2399
      @k.anthony2399 3 роки тому +35

      It doesn't matter. People should do whatever they want to do. I think it looks cute. Women should be comfortable.

    • @taneshasmart929
      @taneshasmart929 3 роки тому +14

      I totally agree with you Jali276. The bonnets in public are NOT it. I will rock a head wrap. When done correctly, I think they can look very regal. Sure, people can do what they want, but why get mad when people have a comment about it? I don't understand the culture today. I agree with Monique.

    • @skankhunt-zo4fm
      @skankhunt-zo4fm 3 роки тому +1

      Good for you

  • @TheSproutingSeed1
    @TheSproutingSeed1 3 роки тому +35

    Durags aren't a fashion statement either. They all belong at home lol 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @TheReCar1
    @TheReCar1 3 роки тому +345

    Future is the epitome of bothered at this point. He can’t stand the fact his exes upgraded. Micheal B Jordan and Russel Wilson are both genuine hard working good looking men.

    • @favourosondu5438
      @favourosondu5438 3 роки тому +21

      They both cuter than future. That’s why he mad 😂

    • @TheReCar1
      @TheReCar1 3 роки тому +22

      @@favourosondu5438 cuter classier richer the list goes on. 💁🏾‍♀️

    • @Thelittlecutiepeach
      @Thelittlecutiepeach 3 роки тому +14

      Not to mention they don’t have babies all across the land with multiple women. He needs to go do like Jazmine Sullivan said & “Pick up his Feelings.” Lori never claimed Future by a title either. She’s smart. He was never her boyfriend. Upgrade for sure!!!!

    • @TheReCar1
      @TheReCar1 3 роки тому +3

      @@Thelittlecutiepeach Girl you said a mouthful!! All those kids and baby Moma’s is a turn off and a red flag 🚩 I applaud Lori Harvey as well because she didn’t settle for the bull shit and didn’t get pregnant by the low life. Micheal B Jordan is fine as wine and a great catch.

    • @Thelittlecutiepeach
      @Thelittlecutiepeach 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheReCar1 facts!💯

  • @moonlightfire7671
    @moonlightfire7671 3 роки тому +198

    Future: She moved on to a lame
    Us: So who gone tell him?

    • @Thelittlecutiepeach
      @Thelittlecutiepeach 3 роки тому +7

      😆😂😂😂😂💯

    • @pennsharon8098
      @pennsharon8098 3 роки тому +8

      I'll do it

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 3 роки тому +3

      Dude is a lame & not a good actor

    • @courtneymeredith1919
      @courtneymeredith1919 3 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @ivanalexy1655
      @ivanalexy1655 3 роки тому +23

      @@sus-tw2ls What’s lame is signing away your parental rights then getting all in your feelings when your kid calls another guy dad. What’s lame is your firstborn saying you’re a bad father. That’s not just lame it’s downright embarrassing.

  • @kilimanjaro5537
    @kilimanjaro5537 3 роки тому +708

    Monique wasn’t even malicious in what she said. She gave constructive criticism yet people are upset at her for voicing her opinion. I could understand if she came off rude or ill intentioned but she didn’t. What you choose to wear in public is your business but I do agree with her.

    • @monicahopkins9297
      @monicahopkins9297 3 роки тому +15

      WORD!

    • @nkirukalazz-onyenobi36
      @nkirukalazz-onyenobi36 3 роки тому +13

      👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @loveyoursign2923
      @loveyoursign2923 3 роки тому +30

      I understand what mo'nique is saying. I saw a bw in the post office. She was walking behind her mother. Her mother was dressed nicely but her daughter looked like she just got out of bed. She had on a little bonnet. Im not throwing shade but I could tell she's a
      ch!ckenhead. She had on slippers, spandex shorts, and a silky spaghetti strap shirt that is made to sleep in. She wasn't wearing a bra neither. This is why bm don't like us and go to nonßlackwomen. I'm surprised empressive didn't show the mean tweet aliyahjay said about mo'

    • @rasheedahking3197
      @rasheedahking3197 3 роки тому +33

      Monique said it with so much love

    • @Sapphire_Ace
      @Sapphire_Ace 3 роки тому +111

      @@loveyoursign2923 Respectfully speaking, Black men choose not to like us because of self hatred. They do not love themselves. Therefore, why would they get with a Black woman to have a black baby if they don’t love their black skin? It is not because of bonnets, it’s because they don’t love themselves. Non black women wear bonnets as well, and black men still go to them. So, it’s definitely not because of bonnets that black men choose not to love BW. Plus, even though going outside with a bonnet on isn’t the best way to present yourself, bonnets shouldn’t be a reason that someone chooses not to love you.

  • @fallenwing25
    @fallenwing25 3 роки тому +100

    Those "slides" shoes are for the house as well right? Now they're a whole fashion statement 😂

    • @Ellamyvr-hellokitty-sanio
      @Ellamyvr-hellokitty-sanio 3 роки тому +10

      I can't stand when people where those shoes outside either. It's like they see it one day on basketball players now everyone wheres them everywhere even in the rain with socks. I be looking like don't you wish you had your sneakers lol.

    • @thewigdoctorsijaye6445
      @thewigdoctorsijaye6445 3 роки тому +5

      Not really or you could be going to the beach🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @LifeFilmz
      @LifeFilmz 3 роки тому +22

      Exactly peoples “logic” never lines up across the board. They pick and choose what they want to pick on based on whatever their little brains don’t like 😂 moral of the story, just do you

    • @tiajones6035
      @tiajones6035 3 роки тому +6

      No they are not house shoes , house shoes are slippers and furry and for the house slides are slides and for outside similar to flip flops

    • @fallenwing25
      @fallenwing25 3 роки тому +4

      @@thewigdoctorsijaye6445 ain't no beaches in memphis lol!!!!

  • @shanawilliams2979
    @shanawilliams2979 3 роки тому +254

    My Caribbean mom used to say ‘you have no ambition and pride’ when you show up unkept.
    Brushed hair, fresh face, clean appropriate clothes are simple to achieve when heading outside... 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Kim-jd6lx
      @Kim-jd6lx 3 роки тому +25

      🇻🇮Yes, my fellow Carib. My grandma always said make sure you dress appropriately....right down to your draws lol. Also don't leave the house looking a mess either

    • @Liy798
      @Liy798 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly 👏🏾

    • @shanawilliams2979
      @shanawilliams2979 3 роки тому +7

      @@Kim-jd6lx ikr 😂 in case you “drop down”

    • @Kim-jd6lx
      @Kim-jd6lx 3 роки тому +1

      @@shanawilliams2979 Yessss😆

    • @Nollugs5111
      @Nollugs5111 3 роки тому +3

      😊🇩🇲

  • @jayjanzee9059
    @jayjanzee9059 3 роки тому +213

    "My sweet babies" Even if the message is controversial, her delivery is so sweet that she compels you to listen and perhaps consider what she's saying 💐💐❤❤❤

    • @sivialove475
      @sivialove475 3 роки тому +2

      Fr so sweet lol

    • @JesseG2732
      @JesseG2732 3 роки тому +5

      Class!

    • @cammiosis
      @cammiosis 3 роки тому +11

      Y’all didn’t watch charm school .. Monique nice nasty routine doesn’t fool me. She’s a bigger example of what not to do in your career and marriage over what not to wear. She dress nice but the industry doesn’t take her seriously AND she’s not as funny as she think she is. She made a lot of jokes to justify being obese knowing thin is the standard for women. Monique just want relevance and correcting BW always gains attention. Please .. weave & bonnets at the same time? It’s always the duality. BW you styling weaves too much AND wearing bonnets too much lol

    • @moneejimmerson536
      @moneejimmerson536 3 роки тому +5

      @@cammiosis i did too thats why Khia called her on her SHIT

    • @faraboverubies2020
      @faraboverubies2020 3 роки тому +7

      @@cammiosis THANK YOU!! Real ones can see straight through that "my babies" bullsh*t.

  • @cokobuttah
    @cokobuttah 3 роки тому +101

    Where's the outrage about white women wearing the messy bun, pajamas and Uggs????? Why is it okay for them to dress comfortably, but a problem for us????

    • @Addiexaddie
      @Addiexaddie 3 роки тому +27

      This!! Any non-black person can come outside looking any kind of way but there’s always an issue when black women are minding their own business.

    • @ChristineIdokogi
      @ChristineIdokogi 3 роки тому +4

      Thank. You.

    • @sharraylovely95
      @sharraylovely95 3 роки тому +12

      Right we can’t do anything without being criticized, I’m at the point that I don’t care what people say, damned if we do and damned if we don’t.

    • @sharraylovely95
      @sharraylovely95 3 роки тому +7

      @Brown Sugar & Spice well I’m not , so what was the point of your comment ?

    • @strike8490
      @strike8490 3 роки тому +6

      I understand she was focusing a lot of bonnets, (mainly worn by woc) but she did say pjs and slippers too, which I have seen many white women and other races wearing those things out in public.

  • @5sauce62
    @5sauce62 3 роки тому +23

    If I want to wear a Bonnet out, I'm going to wear it and it's my business and my business only. If someone disrespects me because I'm wearing one then they never respected me in the first place because a piece of fabric should not change your opinion of a person. Let them take that up with themselves. Me and my hair?? We good over here

  • @ColbyRRice
    @ColbyRRice 3 роки тому +384

    Future's really getting the reputation for being the "hurt" dude who bashes his exes. Name's Future, but is consistently stuck in the past while his exes go off, upgrade, and live their best lives. ::sips tea::

  • @jessmcmxci5769
    @jessmcmxci5769 3 роки тому +170

    Future always disses his exes when they find better men. Why doesn’t he just be a…better man? He wouldn’t have to diss nobody if he did that. 😂

    • @AngelGomez-dv6wq
      @AngelGomez-dv6wq 3 роки тому +1

      Monique is irrelevant. Lets talk about some women walking around with blonde wigs looking like clowns. No matter what we do the other races including our own will find a problem with it.

    • @jessmcmxci5769
      @jessmcmxci5769 3 роки тому +24

      @@AngelGomez-dv6wq my comment was about Future, not Monique.

    • @sarai373
      @sarai373 3 роки тому +5

      @@jessmcmxci5769 😄😄

    • @k.anthony2399
      @k.anthony2399 3 роки тому +6

      Because he really wants to be them guys. That's why he buy all of that designer. To be established lol. Like no, you're still ignorant.

    • @__gemoftheeast
      @__gemoftheeast 3 роки тому +1

      They’re two types of ppl in this world: Those who recognize their faults & learn from their mistakes & those who do not.

  • @laquanperez2425
    @laquanperez2425 3 роки тому +217

    I can’t even play the violin, but I’m tempted to take lessons to play the world's smallest one for Future. I imagine he's laid up on the couch eating ice cream and chips, all salty.

    • @aly5891
      @aly5891 3 роки тому +10

      The mental image this gave me 😂😂

    • @Ceilingkatwatchesus
      @Ceilingkatwatchesus 3 роки тому +2

      Ahahahahah i imagine him wearing knew socks and some black flip flops

    • @CocoChanelle-1
      @CocoChanelle-1 3 роки тому

      I don’t know what it is about ice cream 🍦. It does make things seem better. 😂

    • @gamerbarbie1
      @gamerbarbie1 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂 man

    • @Aaliyah1506
      @Aaliyah1506 3 роки тому +1

      😭😭😭😭😭

  • @tasheenasmith5616
    @tasheenasmith5616 3 роки тому +20

    He thought Ciara was gonna be a baby mom that he could hit it anytime he want

  • @amberkay2596
    @amberkay2596 3 роки тому +83

    I didn’t see anything wrong with what Monique said. Makes perfect sense...I’m confused why people are in an uproar because she’s saying take pride in the way you present yourself.

    • @Chitownhomestead
      @Chitownhomestead 3 роки тому +10

      Cause people are lazy .. it's sad af

    • @brown_skin_lover_queen5790
      @brown_skin_lover_queen5790 3 роки тому +6

      I don’t see anything wrong ether

    • @jduce68
      @jduce68 3 роки тому +4

      The lack of self respect and pride in oneself is at an all-time low. As a people, we absolutely have lost sight of those things. It's really sad that people can really be so offended by the truth. The world is so backwards😣

    • @dl7699
      @dl7699 3 роки тому +6

      The problem is no matter what black women do we are consistently judged. Who tf cares what anyone wears like move over

    • @theelevatedone3944
      @theelevatedone3944 3 роки тому +3

      Me personally, I wouldn’t wear a bonnet outside. I just put my hair in a simple afro puff and go somewhere lol. And for clothes, now I don’t need to look like a supermodel, however, I will just put on a simple t-shirt and some jeans. Now if someone else wants to walk outside with pajamas and a bonnet then that’s there business. BUT I do notice one thing with the whole discussion. It’s funny how ppl are clowning Monique and are saying “Oh let women be” and “Stop clowning on Black women” but... if I remember correctly, a few months ago when Derrick Jaxn was exposed for cheating on his wife and him and his wife BOTH came on the camera, many of these same ppl (black MEN and WOMEN) were clowning her saying “Wow she’s really going on camera looking like that” or “He’s really going to let her come on camera with that bonnet on her head”🤔. The same ppl getting on Monique for saying what she said were the same ones clowning Derrick Jaxn wife for coming on the camera with her attire. Make it make sense???

  • @scottrogue946
    @scottrogue946 3 роки тому +965

    I get Monique’s point however I think that black people are always too critical of ourselves. White women go out with their hair half done and they call it a “messy bun” 😭🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @em.415
      @em.415 3 роки тому +206

      That part! And black women better not have a hair out of place or the world comes down on us.

    • @shante6945
      @shante6945 3 роки тому +67

      We really need to stop listening and giving light to these celebrities their regular people some dumb as a box of rocks just with a bigger bag and most are just planted to further destroy and cause division amongst us if 2020 hasn’t shown us anything else it’s that this system and government gives no fucks about us and that we need to come together more now than ever we need to love one another and stop the black on black hate it’s getting old and tiring

    • @itslonda4157
      @itslonda4157 3 роки тому +76

      Preach!!! Like imagine being so obsessed with white people that you’re letting them dictate how you go to your local grocery store 🙄

    • @cherrymocha7
      @cherrymocha7 3 роки тому +77

      It's more than the hair it is the pajamas and the house shoes.

    • @Ebrie0903
      @Ebrie0903 3 роки тому +30

      @@itslonda4157 right! And if I need my bonnet... I need my bonnet🤣 my hair doesn’t like to act right! She needs to be on punishment 😂

  • @iamporshalove
    @iamporshalove 3 роки тому +142

    I agree with Auntie Monique. She said that so classy and kind.

  • @soulpower9570
    @soulpower9570 3 роки тому +140

    Future doesn’t know how to treat women and that’s why he’ll never keep one. These women are tired of becoming one of his many casualties. Dealing with dudes like him is bad for your body, soul and spirit. No amount of money or trinkets he can buy is worth dealing with him.

  • @wendyjoyelle6518
    @wendyjoyelle6518 3 роки тому +332

    So this makes twice that women have leveled up after him.

    • @cnicroute
      @cnicroute 3 роки тому +22

      Maybe he's just a stepping stone.🤣🤣🤣

    • @comedianpottymouth
      @comedianpottymouth 3 роки тому +15

      He got that ju ju on him if you let him hit one time you will level up 🤣🤣

    • @miloschblue
      @miloschblue 3 роки тому +17

      Maybe he's the rock bottom. That wake up call. That "oh hell no, I deserve better."

    • @emmanuelzellars9211
      @emmanuelzellars9211 3 роки тому

      I don’t know bout leveling up future got more money and fame than (Russell and Michael)

    • @busridingchick1063
      @busridingchick1063 3 роки тому +16

      Emmanuel Zellars Future definitely does not have more money and/or fame than Russel Wilson and/or Michael B. Jordan. Plus google their net worth, thanks in advance!

  • @mrst678
    @mrst678 3 роки тому +181

    It’s the “planting babies everywhere” for me. 🤣🤣 But, seriously, hit dogs holler EVERY time. Nothing new here but the day.

  • @malaikasdurbin8960
    @malaikasdurbin8960 3 роки тому +16

    Future stay bitter! He should name himself the past! 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @briv2403
    @briv2403 3 роки тому +237

    Let’s be honest, Russell Wilson & MBJ are the men that Future wishes he could be but he didn’t have “mama’s cooking” growing up to be that type of man 😂

  • @foreverolly8864
    @foreverolly8864 3 роки тому +531

    But they swear black women are the ones who call decent black men “lames”, and choose Pookie and Ray Ray. But it’s really them dissing each other.

    • @sheekayza4222
      @sheekayza4222 3 роки тому +63

      This!! They always try and blame bw for this as if we don’t see how they attack men like Russell Wilson!

    • @jessmcmxci5769
      @jessmcmxci5769 3 роки тому +54

      Exactly. Nobody disses the “lames” and the “simps” more than them. Lol.

    • @Chrissy_Hills
      @Chrissy_Hills 3 роки тому +32

      A lot of them have the mentality of Pookie and Ray Ray’s like Future, they just don’t have the money.

    • @godivanubian995
      @godivanubian995 3 роки тому +7

      This right here 💯

    • @ahmorgan
      @ahmorgan 3 роки тому +8

      But both of those women did choose Future, he just wasn't faithful. But they wanted him before Russel or Michael. Don't get it twisted, Ciara and Lori are rich and beautiful, for the average woman who makes their mistake, it's usually over for yall

  • @juusayefeva
    @juusayefeva 3 роки тому +170

    If future wasnt for everybody he probably wouldve still had ciara or lori, take dat L boi u derseve it😂😂😂😂😂

    • @crystalgibson609
      @crystalgibson609 3 роки тому +2

      Ha ha that rap game

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 3 роки тому +1

      😂🤣

    • @calvinwilliams9722
      @calvinwilliams9722 3 роки тому

      Juusaye Feva hey what’s up?is your name Jamaican iam just curious, just asking.btw you’re cutie pie too for real👍🔥Just Saying

  • @TheAudiobrownies
    @TheAudiobrownies 3 роки тому +23

    He’s mad because he didn’t knock her up 😭😭

  • @zamandosimarvellouscele4643
    @zamandosimarvellouscele4643 3 роки тому +581

    Most people are leaving the house not caring how they look because of depression.

    • @sus-tw2ls
      @sus-tw2ls 3 роки тому +33

      BINGO

    • @noneya1238
      @noneya1238 3 роки тому +89

      @Lilo NoSnitching No we're talking about all of them. Some of them are going through something. Either way, it's their life, body and business.

    • @shawanavanhorn
      @shawanavanhorn 3 роки тому +3

      Facts ❤

    • @ari.da.barbie._441
      @ari.da.barbie._441 3 роки тому +7

      @Lilo NoSnitching exactly 🤧. But they say we have nothing to be depressed about

    • @TheMecca1234
      @TheMecca1234 3 роки тому +48

      @Lilo NoSnitching you don't know what someone is going through to judge them for wearing a damn bonnet outside. Yall so judgmental for NOTHING

  • @ArabellaCharm
    @ArabellaCharm 3 роки тому +71

    Bonnets are like night gowns IMO. Now, hair wraps and traditional head pieces are you thing. With that said, I have the same energy for those musty, Murray's filled durags 🤢.

  • @tendibee
    @tendibee 3 роки тому +108

    First: You don't want to wear a bonnet in public, then don't. Don't project your values onto other people because there are plenty of people (Black people even) who don't think natural Black hair is presentable and am I gonna listen to them? No, but that's me. Second: Everything that a Black woman does should not have to be a PCA or a discussion. Let us live!!

    • @ToyaSooooDope
      @ToyaSooooDope 3 роки тому +9

      Best comment

    • @sumi7579
      @sumi7579 3 роки тому +11

      No one is stopping you from looking like didn't bathe or brush your teeth in public. Y'all go and compete with the trailer trash. Show them you can look trashier!

    • @lorettaking660
      @lorettaking660 3 роки тому +12

      I’m not putting energy into what the next person does. I honestly don’t give a damn, people be too concerned about shit that has nothing to do with them. If you choose not to wear one cool, but if someone else does really wtf does it have to do with you? Why do you care?

    • @zambiangal1
      @zambiangal1 3 роки тому +4

      THANK YOU!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @rhonnichan
      @rhonnichan 3 роки тому +9

      @@sumi7579 girl its a fucking bonnet you act like niggas just stopped bathing all together 🙄

  • @blessgrateful9678
    @blessgrateful9678 3 роки тому +29

    Im not wearing no bonnet in public publix, the mall, etc. Maybe in the drive thru to get fast food. But that is about it. My opinion💯🎯

    • @79madybell
      @79madybell 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly. If you want to be comfortable at the airport wear some leggings and a Tshirt. 😂

    • @blessgrateful9678
      @blessgrateful9678 3 роки тому +3

      @@79madybell Right lol💯🎯

  • @kawaiipotatolewis9507
    @kawaiipotatolewis9507 3 роки тому +282

    I feel like bonnets have become more common since many women aren’t perming their hair anymore.
    I’m a 4C natural & this hair can be a task- you can’t just throw it up into a ponytail & too much manipulation causes breakage. So I can understand how ladies just wear it to run a quick errand. However I prefer not to leave my house with a bonnet on, I’d feel tacky. Plus there are many ways to get around wearing bonnets we have headband wigs/ cute head wrap scarfs (my go to), etc. but to each it’s own..

    • @beautyan5309
      @beautyan5309 3 роки тому +9

      I feel you I struggle but don’t wear it because it looks worse then my hair

    • @domesticV1190XxOo
      @domesticV1190XxOo 3 роки тому +2

      I'm natural with 4ç hair and I wear my bonnet out when I go to work if I haven't been able to do my hair. I have to wear a hair net anyway so it works out. And you're right, can't just thru this hair in a ponytail and go. I can't wrap my hair with a head wrap to save my life. I don't have the funds currently to always get my hair done by a stylist and I'm usually exhausted after work so doing my hair ends up happening during the weekend

    • @Black0bsidian
      @Black0bsidian 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah. A Scarf can actually be fashionable/culture, a bonnet is just....... peasant in public.

    • @HaiNanaForever
      @HaiNanaForever 3 роки тому +3

      @@beautyan5309 😩🤣 look up @vachtiofficial on IG, they have satin lined beanies that looks good to wear outside and protect the hair at night. They black owned too⚫

    • @kawaiipotatolewis9507
      @kawaiipotatolewis9507 3 роки тому +1

      @@domesticV1190XxOo Exactly why I don’t judge women who wear them out, I know the struggle is real!

  • @OfficialChelleYvelle
    @OfficialChelleYvelle 3 роки тому +291

    Lol Lori “ducked too soon” out of that relationship- Future bitter asf 🤣

    • @tifftroser9309
      @tifftroser9309 3 роки тому +12

      He probably scared her away...

    • @itsmeAshley84
      @itsmeAshley84 3 роки тому +4

      Ok😂😂 he wasn't expecting a you pulled on you😂

    • @itsmeAshley84
      @itsmeAshley84 3 роки тому

      @@tifftroser9309 no doubt

    • @NutsNBerries
      @NutsNBerries 3 роки тому +7

      He’s mad he couldn’t damage her lol

    • @cocomai1947
      @cocomai1947 3 роки тому +7

      It was just in time before she became the 8th baby momma.

  • @chandrastewart9675
    @chandrastewart9675 3 роки тому +716

    Monique wasn't just talk about bonnets, she was talking about looking presentable period. She told no lies.

    • @Genesisimage
      @Genesisimage 3 роки тому +23

      It reflects on all of us.

    • @aprilshorty4094
      @aprilshorty4094 3 роки тому +54

      @@Genesisimage there's nothing that another black woman can do that will reflect on me that's like a white person saying that all black women are bad because of something negative that 1 or 2 may have done

    • @Genesisimage
      @Genesisimage 3 роки тому +31

      @Xavier J Thomas we aren’t but when one of us looks bad it sadly reflects on all of us. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be dressed up but when we go out in public we shouldn’t look homeless or unkempt.

    • @Genesisimage
      @Genesisimage 3 роки тому +16

      @@aprilshorty4094 those are two different scenarios. It’s about treating or grooming yourself to look and be presentable.

    • @Genesisimage
      @Genesisimage 3 роки тому +25

      @Xavier J Thomas your right they won’t stop harassing us. But I’m not “shaming people who wear what they want. My whole point is to look PRESENTABLE! Honestly I go out and see too many PEOPLE wear the same hoodie for months, same dirty ass socks, same stale ass lashes, same scratchy leggings, same dusty hair glue filled BONET in PUBLIC. My point, Monique point, and piles point was THIS GENERATION LOOK HOMELESS AF. They trying to tell us to take care. YALL DEFEND BUM SHIT? I just want to see black people looking great & mostly CLEAN.

  • @jcfp6404
    @jcfp6404 3 роки тому +30

    Monique is hilarious Monique said all of what she said with a loose fitting robe on And no bra. LoL

  • @shaybar93
    @shaybar93 3 роки тому +494

    I’m not mad at Monique based on the presentation alone. She seemed so genuine and not malicious

    • @myflystyle
      @myflystyle 3 роки тому +13

      Good point. Had she hopped on IG in a designer 'fit with a full beat it would be "Well, easy for you to say because you have the money to hire people for hair, makeup and wardrobe!".

    • @sha1841
      @sha1841 3 роки тому +6

      @@myflystyle You're right. She does but it wouldn't have made her point any less valid. I do understand your point though.

    • @CLynnC
      @CLynnC 3 роки тому +8

      I absolutely agree with Monique 👏🏽

  • @Denailacole
    @Denailacole 3 роки тому +134

    Monique didn’t say anything wrong!
    I want the best for black women, and the way we step out the house everyday is a representation of how we are queens! It’s plenty of scarfs & hats to replace the bonnet.

    • @Awillii
      @Awillii 3 роки тому +3

      Yes, but not everyone is stepping out of a house. We don’t know why people present themselves the way the do. Everyone story is unique. From me growing up in foster care and being homeless once I was emancipated I didn’t the best I could with what I have. When is see someone out there I don’t judge because I know how it was for me. If it’s of concern you can simple ask the sister how she is doing and go from there.

    • @Denailacole
      @Denailacole 3 роки тому +5

      @@Awillii Girl trust me I’ve been there! However, even with one outfit to choose from I still chose to comb my hair and step out of the house with pride. Sometimes looking better makes you feel better, that’s all 🤍

    • @evettemichelle
      @evettemichelle 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you

    • @nikiracarter
      @nikiracarter 3 роки тому +1

      Yes but she also said scarfs was a problem lol

    • @ebonyjackson3198
      @ebonyjackson3198 3 роки тому +6

      Men going out in durags and "wife beaters" was a whole look tho. Although I don't wear bonnets out, I'm tired of Black women being policed and chastised on public platforms for what they choose to put on their head. I'm not gonna publicly put down another woman because she chooses to cover her hair differently from me...

  • @kyrahkay
    @kyrahkay 3 роки тому +209

    I think we should mind our business in regards to what people choose to look like. & Monique, you’re in front of thousands with a robe and no bra 👀

  • @marykemraha
    @marykemraha 3 роки тому +16

    your absolutely correct Monique, my departed husband made sure our son and daughters had belts on when they left home. I agree!!!

  • @princessdyn
    @princessdyn 3 роки тому +95

    Future has PTSD flashbacks from Ciara leaving him the dust where he belongs 💁

  • @Cpre1111
    @Cpre1111 3 роки тому +336

    I agree with Monique, too, but watch-the MOMENT other races of women start wearing bonnets, it'll be more acceptable. African head scarves are my fave, tho.

    • @tikifreaky5204
      @tikifreaky5204 3 роки тому +27

      Trust, if the Kardasians started wearing them out it would be ok tho

    • @Chitownhomestead
      @Chitownhomestead 3 роки тому +39

      An African head scarf is classy.. these dirty bonnets are ridiculous and embarrassing

    • @brown_skin_lover_queen5790
      @brown_skin_lover_queen5790 3 роки тому +1

      Ok

    • @skylarsky3173
      @skylarsky3173 3 роки тому +26

      Shay A.. 100% facts. African head wraps are classy and attractive but bonnets in public are tacky.

    • @destinomura7117
      @destinomura7117 3 роки тому +16

      The whole message wasn’t about the bonnet, but the whole thing included with wearing pajamas and blankets etc etc

  • @tyrellefrazier16
    @tyrellefrazier16 3 роки тому +150

    Mo’Nique was right and I liked how she delivered her message. It’s not about pleasing others, but it’s all about how you want to see yourself and how you want others to see you🙌🏽

    • @k.anthony2399
      @k.anthony2399 3 роки тому +22

      Monique needs to mind her business. Women can do whatever they want to do. If guys can wear durags slides and muscle shirts everywhere. Then women can wear bonnets and house slippers.

    • @tyrellefrazier16
      @tyrellefrazier16 3 роки тому +2

      @@k.anthony2399 I agree

    • @anaml2229
      @anaml2229 3 роки тому +3

      Right
      Because whether we like it or not we are a judgmental society.

    • @bohlalenchabeleng1370
      @bohlalenchabeleng1370 3 роки тому +3

      I don't know how y'all do it in America but in South Africa we had a similar dilemma with night gowns, the women checked them real quick (the men kept quiet because it wasn't our place). As communities we aren't just representing ourselves but we also represent those who are around us.

    • @holyguacamole3893
      @holyguacamole3893 3 роки тому +12

      I don’t understand why it’s wrong to wear a bonnet. It’s like wearing a Durag outside IMO. It’s just a hat. No biggie. I personally don’t do it, but I always have my hair up anyways. Idc what people think of me

  • @sweetteacurls
    @sweetteacurls 3 роки тому +28

    Queens don't walk around judging people either. Especially if she doesn't know the facts and can only ASSume. It was a sweet speech, but unnecessary.

  • @duplicitousdoritos
    @duplicitousdoritos 3 роки тому +96

    Black women, do whatever is comfortable for you and your hair. I don't know why that topic is triggering so many people ✌🏾

    • @indigenousqueen5561
      @indigenousqueen5561 3 роки тому +5

      Thank u🥰

    • @rhonnichan
      @rhonnichan 3 роки тому +4

      Periodt

    • @BigReddSouthernGal25
      @BigReddSouthernGal25 3 роки тому +17

      Bw are always being policed about something.

    • @NiaraRenee
      @NiaraRenee 3 роки тому +7

      Right black women can never get a break it’s annoying

    • @ashbi270
      @ashbi270 3 роки тому +31

      That’s not the point that is being made. Yes we can do what we want with our hair, but what happened to being conscious about how you look when you walk out of your home 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Starrfyre
    @Starrfyre 3 роки тому +196

    I need people to be a lot more specific when they talk about scarves.
    Scarves can be a fashion statement or a sign of some religious beliefs.
    Let's not lump all scarves together and act like they don't show pride in our appearance.
    As a matter of fact there are some very well tied scarves that are a lot more elegant than some hairstyles.
    In my country, scarves are a huge part of our tradition, and they actually show a huge sense of pride in your culture, depending on what part of the country you're from.
    So I'm going to need more specificity.

    • @joannwilson9097
      @joannwilson9097 3 роки тому +50

      Right i agree cause scarves & bonnets are 2 different things

    • @lovetyti5746
      @lovetyti5746 3 роки тому +14

      Exactly!!

    • @tymisshajackson3308
      @tymisshajackson3308 3 роки тому +13

      This! All day long💯

    • @chrissic8106
      @chrissic8106 3 роки тому +14

      We’re talking about bonnets & scarves that are worn to protect hair while asleep ..

    • @Starrfyre
      @Starrfyre 3 роки тому +14

      @@chrissic8106 But no one has made that distinction yet. All I hear is "Bonnets and scarves".
      Someone has to clarify, and that's what I tried to do here.

  • @_kingofswords_
    @_kingofswords_ 3 роки тому +269

    Monique has a point. I was raise to believe walking out the house in “house clothes” is dirty

    • @camillechappell8193
      @camillechappell8193 3 роки тому +59

      But she went live in her robe...

    • @jayrukks8039
      @jayrukks8039 3 роки тому +10

      Camille Chappell And..?

    • @drelle504
      @drelle504 3 роки тому +35

      @@camillechappell8193 Thank you. Talking about having pride and talking to us in a bathrobe and no bra.

    • @dinoog6912
      @dinoog6912 3 роки тому +19

      @@jayrukks8039 their trying to say that she went live,talking about being presentable to the public,but more people have seen that video with her in a robe and no bra than number of people seeing someone wearing a bonnet in real life will.

    • @jumanahperkins9518
      @jumanahperkins9518 3 роки тому +26

      @@jayrukks8039 she need to practice what she preach. If black women want to go to the airport comfortable then we should. White women get to go outside with messy buns and their hair all over their head. Same thing with black men and durags. Nobody says nothing about, but soon as a black woman step outside in a bonnet it’s a problem? It’s giving hypocrite

  • @AlannaMonet
    @AlannaMonet 3 роки тому +53

    When men stop wearing tee-shirts and pop bellies outside, I’ll turn in my bonnet. Peridot

  • @ebirving1982
    @ebirving1982 3 роки тому +251

    Listen some folks trying to preserve their hairstyles for that trip they're going on. Seems like they plan on sleeping. I find it interesting that only black people are pressed about what other black people are doing. We don't see Judy asking why Susan is wearing a bonnet🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @shorterbread81
      @shorterbread81 3 роки тому +32

      I have never seen a white woman with a bonnet 🤷‍♀️ not saying they don't wear them but i see black women in the grocery store, airports, kids school and I just be like come on queen lets do better. Leave that shit for the bedroom but that's just my two cents

    • @cametriaweatherspoon4809
      @cametriaweatherspoon4809 3 роки тому +11

      Took the words right out of my mouth!
      Some ppl plan to sleep on the plane and would like to protect their hair whole doing so or are protecting their hair for their destination. Everyone doesnt have the time and/or money to hire a hairstylist for every city and moment in their life

    • @wordsbymaribeja1470
      @wordsbymaribeja1470 3 роки тому +38

      @@cametriaweatherspoon4809 Are they planning to sleep in the supermarket and bank too?

    • @jaythe90skyd49
      @jaythe90skyd49 3 роки тому +8

      @@wordsbymaribeja1470 🤣

    • @cametriaweatherspoon4809
      @cametriaweatherspoon4809 3 роки тому +16

      @@wordsbymaribeja1470 let me first be clear that i am not here to argue with you or anybody else. I responded to the young lady above with no intentions to have conversations with anyone else.
      I spoke on wearing bonnets while traveling. I cant speak for everyone but will say that the purpose of wearing a bonnet is to protect your hair, so if they have an important run to the bank or the grocery store and are not yet ready to take their twist out down or rollers are not ready to come out - hair may still be wet or anything, that may be a reason for wearing it to those places.
      Ppl be so quick to judge or look down on the next person when the next person’s decision to wear a bonnet in public or not does nothing for them.