why you hate your nose | the damaging normalisation of nose jobs
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- Опубліковано 17 лип 2022
- hate your nose? yeh, this is why. the normalisation of nose jobs and the media have convinced females (and males for that matter) that their perfectly lovely, perfectly functional noses are hideous. Too big. Too curved. Too crooked. Not straight enough. Too bulbous. Too thick. TOO BIG. When what is a nose really? They’re not, in fact, useless pieces of flesh in the middle of our faces to cause us grief over our appearances, they are FUNCTIONAL PIECES OF OUR BODIES. We NEED our noses. And we need them to work. We need them to breathe. To smell, to TASTE for that matter, to rid our bodies of mucous. When did noses become nothing more than an aesthetic feature of our appearance?
Our bodies don’t do things by accident (usually), and the shape of our noses is no different. Your nose was perfectly made for your face, and handed down to you by your ancestors. Your nose tells their story. Is your nose wide and short? Look at your genetics - maybe your ancestors came from a hot climate where they needed this shape nose to breathe easily. Your nose long and thin? Perhaps your ancestry comes from a cold climate, where your family needed thin noses to warm up the cold air before circulating it through your sinuses. Have you got a bump or hump on the bridge of your nose? Then you may have what’s known as the ‘aquiline nose’. This nose has only recently become ‘unattractive’, and for the majority of time in Europe, was considered the most ‘desired’ nose shape.
Your nose isn’t ugly. If it works, and you can breathe through it, PLEASE don’t feel like you need to change it. You’re bloody perfect. - Навчання та стиль
A note to young girls watching this: you probably will be much more confident in your looks as you leave your teen years. You're pretty great as you are, it just takes some times to see that for yourself!
Thank you sm for this. It helped alot🥺❤️
Yes and most times you're not even done growing yet so your facial features may change and become more balanced with time
This is so true im 16 and istg few years ago i was insecure with my nose to a whole different level but now its just... Meh -- 😂
If ever im gonna get a nose enhancement then im gonna do it for myself, not for anyone nor because i am pressured to.
Omg yesss in high school I'm insecure about my darker skin and my flat nose (I'm asian so fair skin is considered beauty to us). But I began to accpet my feature when I'm enter college. Idk how guess one morning I just get up and think... "Well well you are so pretty just the way you are girl!"
@@kimareska this mindset is key girl💕
Yknow ironically I didn't start getting insecure about my nose until I got on social media and I'm constantly finding things I'm insecure about.
That is exactly what they WANT to happen, babe 🤷🏻♀️ don't let them win! You're beautiful the way God made you (plus your parents ❤️)
Do a social media detox (unfollow accounts and stay out for a couple days). This will make you feel better.
I realized how much I love myself and think I'm beautiful after I stopped using all social media.
this! it sucks how i used to love my lips and now i wished they were bigger and not so flat and my nose has too much fat in the tip, which i never cared abt till i used social media
@alsolinswifey3097 yeh, that was also a new insecurity I got 😭
I can't believe a PROFESSIONAL said that about your nose! I wonder if he has a tactic of playing off insecurities to get more money out of clients. How RUDE, unprofessional, and what a lie!
Your nose is beautiful. Honestly.
There is no wonder about it, that's a given
The broken nose thing is a mix of "so you feel better about getting surgery to correct it" and "It's an objective flaw", so it's justified". The only plastic surgeon I've ever went to used the same exact technique. I was 16 and wanted a nose job but was insecure about it, and he kept insisting my nose must've been broken to be this crocked because the bridge is too flat to be natural bla bla bla
The thing is that I'm neurodivergent and ultra-anxious, so when he started avoiding talking about potential bad results, I was immediately out lol
that's exactly what they do,it's Vile
That man should be locked in prison! A DOCTOR shouldnt do such a thing.
He was probably sincerely trying to help but WRONG.
From a young age my mother voiced how beautiful my nose is. And she re-enforced that idea forever. How beautiful my face is etc. to this day there isn’t a thing I’d change about my face and I owe that self love to my mom. I can only hope I do the same for my daughter.
Thank you for doing this. The fact you love yourself will give her a better chance as well! I grew up with parents who only ever talked about how pretty I was, how much they loved my nose, my face, etc., but because they only ever talked about themselves in negative ways, I picked up on that. Talking positively about yourself is just as important!
That is beautiful. I was fortunate enough to have a mother that instilled confidence in me as well. ❤️god bless you!
Thanks for your informative comment! I wonder, did these comments regarding your appearance make you place your self worth in how you look? Like feeling a pressure to be beautiful? My parents always put an emphasis on school work and getting good grades ever since I was little and to this day I place my self worth entirely on school/work performance.
@@kaath5408 No, my self worth was never in my appearance. My mom just made it a fact. Like brown hair. I’ve been called ugly and I’ve been called beautiful, both to my face. But having that confidence instilled in me about myself made being called ugly not matter, because it was only that person’s opinion. It made me look at myself and find things about me that I loved and I love my face and especially my nose because my mother loves them and she always told me so.
A minha fez o contrário.
As a black person with a wide nose, I like to think of my nose as a “family nose”. Literally everyone on my dad’s side has this nose and I’d be sad to no longer look like the people I love the most
Oww that's cute
Same here, a white person but funnily enough my dads sisters and his mother have the same nose like me, but my dad doesn't lol
Oh wow, I’ve never thought of it that way! Such a nice way to think about our noses❤️
awh i love that
I thought the same thing about my Italian/mediterranean nose.
My family has been communicating with relatives across the sea for the first time and it’s crazy seeing my nose on them!
“Sei così BELLA!!”
My ex boyfriend told me his new girlfriend said that I was ugly because I “had a big nose”. It tormented me for weeks until I realized she was the one who is really insecure. My nose might not be the smallest or most perfect but it reminds me of my dad who is my best friend and I know when he’s gone one day I will look in the mirror and see him and be so happy. I will NEVER get surgery.
Exes new gfs are always jealous of his recent ex. My ex husband started dating a high school girl and she was so insecure about me going over to pay my carnote to him every month and that we were still friends so she friend dumped me for him and spent years trying to tell everyone I was a whøre.. then flash forward to now she and he divorced too and she is single with 2 kids from different men and I am still happily married with the man I started dating only 6 months after leaving that ex. My husband and I have a daughter and we are doing great. People just get petty and attack the innocent one out of their own insecurities.
You rock! Your comment made me feel less alone and you’re so wise, more power to you. I bet it’s beautiful
I haven’t even see a picture of you but from this comment I can see your a beautiful human 💖
Why the fuck would ur ex tell u that? That’s weird. Something’s not right about that.
@@egypt8904 My thoughts exactly! :O..
I had a nose job about 15 years ago. Trust me, it didn't make me any happier.
Wow I’m surprised. You are beautiful. There is nothing about your nose that looks bad. I cannot believe anyone has actually told you those things. That’s crazy to me.
Exactly like id die to have her nose😭
Yes! I was going to say, I wish I had her nose!
Honestly I was shocked when she showed the comments about her nose. Not only are they horrendous, but they caught me off guard because Ive literally never noticed it. I've watched a good amount of her videos and never even thought about her nose. Goes to show that those people don't have a life 🤷♀️ My dad once told me "the only reason someone would mess with your life is because they don't have one themselves." Her being insecure about her nose when it looks perfect made me feel a bit better. Cause maybe my nose isn't as nearly as bad as I make it out to be?
Right?? Those comments were so mean and completely uncalled for! Also, her nose fits her features: I literally have never noticed it looking "off."
I had to pause them and make sure I was reading right and then yelled “what the fuck? Am I missing something her nose looks fine??”
Her nose is literally perfect so that was surprising.
The first time I heard her say she was insecure about her nose I was like “WTF!?” I had always thought her nose was beautiful! People are insane! And they’re horrible.
Exactly lol, she's literally so beautiful I never expected that commenters would pick on her appearance! People are so mean for zero reason
Bella Hadid regretting her nose job is a massive lesson in this. Her phrase "I wish I had kept the nose of my ancestors" really haunts me. She's so beautiful and was before. (Her ancestry is Dutch, Jordanian, and Palestinian)
Edit: this is not a dig at Bella in anyway- I'm absolutely broken hearted for her, she was pushed into this nose job as a child.
And Dutch ❤️
But she didn’t choose to get her nose job, her horror of a MOTHER dragged her to get it, there’s more problems with Bellas upbringing than she discloses, of course she’d regret changing a body part over an abusive parents greed.
@@MrsPaulaTorres she had more than 1 nose job, so it's her wish as well
Her ancestry is only Palestinian and Dutch where tf did you get white america and Jordanian from?
@@razan767 exactly lol
I love how you showed what the supermodels with real noses would look like with 'todays nose' omg, so shocking and its so refreshing to see models stay true to themselves
Nah, those after photos were ridiculous. That's only if the surgeon gave them all the EXACT same Barbie nose! And if you've chosen well, a talented surgeon will custom fit your nose to your individual face.
To me there was a changing moment when I was an exchange student in England. My host family's little brother draw me a picture with a big nose and titled it "You are beautiful". It was the first time someone simply acknowledged it and it encouraged me in welcoming my nose as something that still can be beautiful, even though it is bigger. Before, everyone close to me just made me feel like I am acting crazy in feeling that I have a bigger or strange nose.
I have been insecure about my bigger, crooked nose since I was like 12. And then one day a woman told me I looked like a Roman statue and for a history fan like myself that was the BEST compliment I have ever got.
I hv a pig nose, it looks like moe's from the simpsons
Roman nose is pretty
I love roman noses, actually think they are really hot hehe
My nose is like a Roman nose also I can't stand the bump but I got used to it I'm Happy with my face.
I'm an artist and i really prefer to draw people who have more "classical" noses and features. I do not personally find the baby tiny upswept noses very inspiring.
One of the reasons I appreciated Encanto so much was because it was the first time I'd ever seen a wide, bulbous, downturned nose - my nose - represented so distinctly on a Disney heroine before (and all of the women in the family too!) The homogenous presentation of facial beauty for women is so pervasive and normalized in our media that seeing unconventional beauty depicted in art and entertainment as a beautiful, ordinary part of life instead of something to shine a spotlight on and gawk at has been more profoundly validating than I realized it could be!
Yeah, and Isabela who is the "perfect" one also has a big nose
YES THIS I literally just mentioned that!! Every character has a prominent nose, from the kids to the oh so perfect and gorgeous Isabela. Everyone has a different nose and it's so cool to see
Good point! I'm glad kids have more diversity in the movies and shows they watch these days compared to when I was growing up.
Yeah! Every single female character had a unique nose shape and I loved that. It often feels like it's a male character's privilege to have diverse designs, so that movie was a breath of fresh air, especially coming from Disney.
Agree
Wowowowow the comments on your videos that talked about your nose... what is wrong with people? I have been watching you for like a year now and literally the thought never even crossed my mind
My nose is crooked since I broke it at the age og 5. The only thing that kept me from doing a nosejob in my teens is the fact that I was too afraid of changing my tone, belt or way of singing.
Singing may not be my job but it certainly is a huge part of my life and far more important than adjusting to the beauty standards
woah, i didn't know our nose shapes could change how we sound. i definitely don't want to change mine then. singing is also a huge part of my life, and if i lost my high bright tone, i'd be devastated.
Singing is a huge part of my life too ❤🫂 lets hug 🫂❤
Never do a nose job, if your breathing is fine and you don’t have any clinical damages then please don’t do it
Omg I’m a singer too!
Singing is a great quality to have than any nose jobs ❤️
I cant believe there are people telling you to fix your nose!!!! it is so pretty and it fits your other features so well
Completely! I always thought her nose was cute and she is very beautiful. People are horrible
This video started and my first thought was how cute her nose is.
@@laurapalmer231 I agree with you! She is beautiful, no need for a nose job whatsoever
fr it’s gorgeous. id love to have a nose like hers anyday.
RIGHT??? People are so mean
I actually had rhinoplasty because I was insecure about my nose all my life. I really like the way I see myself now. But surprisingly nobody noticed the difference. They just see me like I was before. The change of your nose may look better in pictures - but what people really see is how you are in real life, how you speak and act in general. Don’t be too hard on yourself and your imperfections/insecurities - they have no meaning for the people who know and love you, you are so much more than that
Had no idea that’s interesting
How would you know that no one noticed a difference? Even if they did most wouldn’t feel comfortable mentioning or accusing you of getting something done. My best friend just got a nose job and didn’t tell me, I can totally tell the difference but I feel really weird asking her about it
I had plastic surgery on my ears and the same happened to me, nobody noticed a difference !
@@tinybunnies i think the same. Having a plastic surgery is a meaing they had something “ugly” before so basically telling them “you had surgery on your nose?” is same as telling them they were ugly and now something looks better. It’s rude to point it out I guess. Such convo seems uncomfortable
@@alcookie agree!!! Very uncomfortable topic especially if you want to respect them and not be so up in their personal life
To whoever's conscious about their nose, reading this, I'd just like to remind you to not alter any part of your face or body because beauty standards keep changing continuously throughout time, what might be considered gorgeous today may be considered ugly tomorrow, so never give in to the trends.
I actually went backwards in self confidence. Through middle and high school I had a short haircut and didn’t care how I looked. I just cared about being clean, my grades and athletics. It wasn’t until I went to college I started feeling insecure. I’m trying to regain my confidence and learn to love myself. (22 now)
This is exactly me and sigh
Thats it I'm emailing my surgeon and canceling my rhinoplasty surgery. This is what I've been needing to hear. When I started this 4 year goal of sitting down with the cosmetic surgeon to fix all my flaws I felt such accomplishment when I was finally right where I needed to be. as I slowly progressed into getting clearance letters I started to Resent the process specifically the part where I was required to go seek a psychological evaluation. That's when I then started really thinking more about my mental health and how I truly have nothing wrong with my body, there was nothing physical wrong with me.. I just wanted to appear better looking for people that didnt no me at all. When in reality if I was ever to change my appearance I probably would never see the resemblance of my families physical heritages in myself anymore and that realization broke me. Because family means everythint to me. Anyways thank you again for this enlightening video!
Beautiful sentiment!
Very proud of u!!!
Proud of you! I have a long aquiline nose and I also decided to keep it as it is :)
Spend that money that was otherwise for the surgery on a nice trip or new wardrobe :)
Yes girl ❤️ YES.
hooked noses are "villainous," small upturned noses are "pig-faced," and wide flat ones are "bulbous." beauty standards are truly unattainable. just live your life and don't worry about it.
for sure, society will say horrible things about your insecurities because its also about money at the end of the day.
@@mpazinambao2938 this is so true. my favorite quote is “in a society that profits from your self doubt, liking yourself is a rebellious act.”
your statement is contradicted in the video, as theres clearly a desirable nose shape
@@ejsafara456 I think they say that cause the upturned noses in Irish people were called pig faced, very racist, they were discriminated because of it.
It's easier said than done. How do you want me to not worry about it when people literally create an image of you in their mind based on the way you appear to be and paint you as an evil ugly person? How do we not worry when one nose is favoured over the others, when people literally end up losing jobs, get severely bullied, violated, rejected just because they appear a certain way which they cannot control? Its not easy when the world makes you feel like an outcast and a failure for just existing.
Thank you for this video! 🖤 I've always hated my nose (thanks mom for always saying how we got my dad's ugly bulbous, German nose). At 31, I'm trying to unlearn the things she and my step mom said about it. I loved learning about the genetics of each nose and how darwinism played a role while watching your video. I'm working on becoming proud to have a German nose! I hope I can slay like Gisele!
Your nose is so good. You're lucky🥲
I have a natural "acceptable nose". Tiny, straight, looks cute, BUT I CAN'T BREATHE PROPERLY. I get injections from the Dr. in my nostrils to constrict the vessels so that there's more space for me to breathe. These 'perfect' noses are definitely not healthier. May look nice, by today's standards, but very impractical. A nose like mine should be seen as a health issue, because it is.
I don't think small noses necessarily look "nice" either they're just eurocentric and small.
that's not the case either, tiny uplifted pointy noses are as practical as 'unacceptable noses' i got naturally tiny straight nose too and can breath perfectly fine, i know plenty of girls who face no issues with nose like me and u. It simply depends on individuals, you should embrace what u have.
@@shailstia9137 I don't mind how it looks, but I don't like not being able to breathe. My nostrils and my sinuses are simply too small. The cortisone injections help, but they suck.
I had to have surgery to fix my deviated septum, and I’m so glad I did. It’s so nice to be able to breathe through my nose.
Maybe you have a deviated septum
This video literally convinced me to not do my nose Job in January , my mom will be so happy when I tell her that I changed my mind thanks to you lol 💓
That’s awesome!💗
I’ve never liked my nose, and I’ve fantasized countless times about getting a nose job (as if I could ever afford one, lol.)
But a few years ago, I started telling myself it’s way less expensive to spend time learning how to love yourself, just the way you are. And more valuable, too! If my loved ones & other people around me tell me I’m pretty just the way I am, it would benefit me more to just believe them and leave my face alone.
If you’re interested in another really great video about noses, look up “Rhinoplasties: The depressing story behind why you hate your nose” by Kidology.
It’s a bit longer than Stephanie’s video, but just as good, and will hopefully reinforce your positive feelings about your natural nose. 💗
Amazing
Wow!!!! Awesome news
i am so happy for you! i didnt like my nose when i was a teenager but I've grown to not even understand what it was i didnt like before. its...just a nose lol. i hope you feel the same way or even better about yours!
My boyfriend actually made me feel better about my nose, he constantly says “you wouldn’t be you without it, it’s beautiful and you’re beautiful” so that helped me quite a bit, after years of girls in school making fun of it, I’m starting to be nicer to myself
Same. Now I let it roam as I turn my head with pride 😁😉😘
My ex boyfriend would constantly comment on how big and ugly my nose was. I was already insecure about it and that made my insecurity so much stronger. Still haven't gotten over it :(
🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
@@mondieu9669 ugh -think how lucky you are to be without him, what a thing to say to his girl - and you get to keep you BEAUTIFUL nose, wear it with pride -took me years, got teased, hated it and even tried to mould it into a 'better' shape!! now I let it do its thing (mine has a bump in the middle)
my bf said the same thing that my nose is beautiful but well .. i don’t wanna be me that’s not how i see myself or feel inside. what he said only made me feel worse like he didn’t see me like i imagine 💔 im still waiting to get a rhinoplasty
I am in my 40's and I have what is generously called "a cultural nose". It honestly took me until my own daughter was a teenager for me to feel okay with my face. When I see my features on her face, they are beautiful, because every mum thinks that her daughter is the most beautiful princess to ever walk the planet. I am so, so glad that surgical cosmetic alterations were not the norm when I was young and that I have the face I was born with and that my daughter can see herself reflected in my features.
My PE teacher once asked me if I had broken my nose and then insulted me. Luckily, I don't have a big problem with my nose, because if I had had one, I would have probably gone home crying. But man THE AUDACITY she had!!!
Completely brainless person I would say..... or even jealous to death 😂
@@tanas288 frr!! hahaha
I used to absolutely hate my nose until my Dad passed away. I sat staring at photos of him and realised just how similar our noses are. I then got thinking that my nose is a characteristic of my Dad and it's something that I should be proud of! Since that day, I have embraced my nose and I'm actually real proud of it now; I love saying that I have my Dad's nose x
German girl with a long hooked "villain" roman nose here. I'm still quite insecure because my nose looks quite "masculine". I can't deny that I have thought about nose jobs but as I am a singer I am afraid that a nosejob might change my voice. So at the wise old age of 40 I decided to cope with my nose in a different way: glitter makes things prettier. So I got a nostril piercing :)
Ich finde deine Nase schön! :D
American girl of German ancestry..I have that nose too and have also been insecure about it. It’s my Dads, though, and he passed away when I was 27 so it’s something that I have that is very obviously from him. I am going to keep it. Plus..I have other things that I would rather spend money on!
I have german ancestry too, in fact my nose is similar to my great grandad's (he was German). I think the more i learn about ancestry and genetics the more i'm slowly learning to like my nose! Also totally feel you on the nose piercing! I actually got my nose pierced in 2010 but my nostrils are so thick my nose kept rejecting it and (somehow!!) pushing it out!
I did the same thing and now I’m so happy with it. It’s strange how a simple jewellery gave me so much confidence ❤️
German here, my nose has a bump, it is long and crooked but I am so happy that I started to accept and love my appereance at a young age. People tried to bully me about it but I knew that they were just insecure about themselves and they needed an outlet. I am a mix of my parents and that is beautiful and unique. The shape from the front is my mums and the side profile is my dads. ♥️
Back in primary school, one of my classmates told me that I'd be so beautiful "if it weren't for my nose." 😂 More than a decade later and I still remember it as it happened. I no longer want to have a nose job but the insecurity will always kick in every now and then.
This video legitimately helped me feel 100% better about my nose. Thank you for this! ❤
I've been self-conscious about my nose since I was a child. My aunt told me as a child "your nose looks like someone took a perfectly good nose but then pushed a ball of clay to the end." I've hated my nose ever since and I'm 30 now. Thank you for making this video. The journey to accept yourself can be a long one.
Who would tell a child such a hateful thing😣😣why are people so cruel? Heartbreaking
Your aunt's miserable asf
that was awful of your aunt to say and i am so sorry:(( the thing that my mother told me to help me out is, try to imagine yourself with a "perfect" nose (by your standards). i imagined myself with a dainty ski slope nose. and my mother asked me if i honestly thought it would fit my face. and it really doesnt. my nose balances out my features and i wouldn't have it any other way. im sure yours does as well. for the record im sure your nose does NOT look like that. hell my dad used to say i have a nose shaped like a bumpy potato- even though he has the same one as me!
that's heartbreaking. i really wonder how people can tell children such hurtful words. i'm sorry your aunt said that to you. clearly, she was insecure and had issues of her own. else, why would she act on the awful urge to take it out on a child? i'm sure your nose is beautiful and unique, just like you! i'm trying to love my nose as well, and i wish the same for you.
Horrible aunt. Bad bloodline.
Remember the girl Jennifer Grey from the most famous “Dirty Dancing” movie?? She lost her whole career over a nose job and everyone else is getting them??? So sad… it did make her unrecognizable though, and I liked her born with nose. It’s just mind blowing it’s so common and had that effect on her job
I don’t get it, it came out well. She looks different yes but that’s the whole point right? So sad…
@@wwxx23 I think it was DEFINITELY a thing stars were doing but denying, as they still deny today :-), but there was no way she could deny it. I think people should be able to do what ever they want that makes them feel better about themselves, and I think that did make her feel better about herself and it’s sad that she was judged so harshly about it when plastic surgery is everywhere and it’s nothing to really be judged about when people should be only judging her artistic ability. Whoever did her nose job did a great job I got to say! But she is a great actress and it said that she only got small gigs from then on out… People are mean! It doesn’t always end in junior high and high school sadly enough
Yeah, her original nose was way better. The new one was fine but it didn’t suit her face as well. Such a shame she felt pressured to do that.
Probably the most famous nose job in all of Hollywood - she didn't even look like herself after it was done.
She was soooooo unique and beautiful
I absolutely loved this! I love that you talked about the science behind why people's noses are shaped the way they are, I find all that very fascinating as well!
I love the nose positivity and love in this video! It’s crazy how I viewed your nose as beautiful and here you are talking about your struggles with it. Sometimes we are our own worst critic and need to remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder ❤
I wish I saw this when I was 16. I’m now 34 and had a nose job at 21. It’s very nice, no side effects and I fit it better with todays beauty standards (not entirely, but better). I think the thing that gets me is that for years I’ve thought it’s one of the best things I’ve ever done… and I’ve achieved so much… it’s sad that female beauty and standards impact you like this - and for a lifetime. I’m ashamed, but torn at the same time.
Unfortunately, you'll get more opportunities if you're physically appealing.
Same here. In my youth I often heard silly comments about my bumpy nose, was compared to an eagle or Harry Potter's Snape. It hurt me a lot, as well as comparing myself to all the omnipresent pictures of supermodels. So i changed it at 21. After still maturing in my 20s ehat bothers me now, is that my children will probably inherit my 'real' nose. They will look different from me and maybe at a certain age start asking questions. As their future mother, of course, to me they will be the most perfect beings in the world. So what if they arr unhappy with their features, as well? How could I stand up as a role model if I have taken the easy path in my youth? Hopefully I will have figured it out until then.
On the other hand I don't really regret the surgery. It was quite subtle and I am still incredibly happy and healthy with the results. But it has taken away a tiny, tiny bit of my ancestry from my face which makes me sad at times.
I'm very glad I didn't fall for the BS external pressure from beauty standards. I've always wondered what will you do when you have surgery and realise your problems haven't gone away and your insecurities are still there. I have a bigger nose and I still have a man that loves me and flying me out to Europe this week. I have my own business and properties. I am successful at my age and I didn't need any surgery i just needed to tune out the useless noise from society. Having a smaller nose does not guarantee you will get better outcome in life. What guarantees happiness is doing what you want regardless of how other people think you should be, look or live.
I’ve been told multiple times that my sister and I don't even look related, and it’s true. It’s like she took all the “good genes” and I got the “bad ones” 😂. She looks like a model. I have my dad’s side’s giant nose and small eyes. But when I was getting my hair and makeup done for my sister’s wedding, the stylist said I looked like I was from the renaissance and with my hair I kind of looked like Sansa. Biggest compliment I’ve ever gotten after years of bullying. Now when I look at myself, I still get really self-conscious, but I love that I have my dad’s slate-gray eyes and my grandmother’s nose, who came from Belgium; my mother’s side’s lips from Switzerland. I’ve been told separate times that I look like my dad, mom, grandma and aunt--if I look like all of those people combined, I feel beautiful.
That description sounds gorgeous UwU
That's a beautiful sentiment. You sound wise beyond your years learning to love your face because it's the face the people you love bore.
because this is what gives your whole face CHARACTER! keep it that way always 💛
My gf told me I looked like a Renaissance painting one time and it completely changed my outlook on my nose forever. It’s nice that other people can point out the beauty we can’t see in ourselves
Sansa as in from GOT? Never watched it but I googled the name and if you look like Sophie Turner then you’re certainly not ugly lol
My mom has the celestial nose, but I have more of an aquiline nose. Prominent, long, points down when I smile. I was always so envious of how cute her nose is and was shocked when I found out she was insecure about the way it sloped upwards. It seems we can never be happy with what we're born with.
aquiline nose is so much better. if im getting a rhinoplasty id have my nose point downwards with a sharp tip and longer septum giving the appearance of a diamond shape
My mom has a button nose and my dad has a large roman nose. Guess which one I got 🤣
I have a roman/aquiline nose with a hump on the bridge. Never had an issue with how it looks, but people seem to do. Yesterday I was working (retail) and a rude ass customer pointed at me and told a coworker of mine "I had a nose like hers and even worse but I had surgery and they made it pretty and small", I really held my tongue there because I wanted to say "sad they didn't fix your rudeness". My nose fits my face perfectly, I'm not one to fit in with beauty standards.
When I was 21 I wanted a nose job (I thought I was too large). The doctor looked at it and told me:" Any competent surgeon in the world would not touch that nose. It will get thinner as you age." I never had a surgery and I have no regret! I am 40 years old and my nose is perfect for my face.
wow, glad the surgeon was honest with you!
What a great doctor!
This reminded me of Jennifer Grey , who played Baby in Dirty Dancing. She unfortunately got a nose job that made her unrecognizable and she said “It was the nose job from hell. I’ll always be this once-famous actress nobody recognises because of a nose job.”
Yeah I thought about her too. It's so sad she felt she had to change it - it was so uniquely beautiful
It’s funny cuz she’s one of the rare examples where having what “society considers a non stereotypically attractive nose” was loved and revered for her “non traditional nose”
I absolutely love her nose 👃 job
The science bit was really interesting. I’ve always noticed I’ve had a poorer sense of smell and my nostrils feel tight even when I’m not sick. My ancestors are primarily English and Scottish and that totally makes sense since they’re exposed to consistently cooler temperatures year round.
Thank you for this!!
*INTENSELY* needed this. My nose is and always has been my number 1 insecurity. I have never met anyone with a nose that looks the way that mine does- I am someone that doesn't have a particularly large nose, but the tip of my nose is very rounded/bulbous/ *IS* on the larger side. It's not something that contours super well, either. My nose is definitely wider as a whole than what I normally see as well.
It has definitely been a battle, but I do hope it makes at least one or two people feel better when they see me. Maybe someone else has a unique nose like mine and seeing mine makes them feel a little bit less alone.
Edit: If it would be helpful for anyone, down below in the replies I've listed some tips for how I contour my particular nose shape/some tips for contouring bulbous noses in general. 🥰
i have a rounded nose too! i have always hated it and i cant contour it at all
same, I can't contour that big round soft tip, it always looks big
I used to always feel like my nose was too long and thin..then I realized it is a little crooked too and a bit upturned. I remember it being my biggest insecurity and then one day out of the blue and off topic, my husband's cousin told me I had the perfect nose. Of course it is her opinion but she was completely clueless as to how much I disliked my nose back then. I have since grown to love my nose. I wouldn't change it. ((One of the things that made me love it is also the fact that it is a perfect mixture of my parents' noses. I lost my Dad and one day I will lose my Mom too..why would I ever want to change what makes me look like them the most..?))
I might be biased, but I think the contour placement for our kind of nose can be particularly tricky. I still don't feel like I've got my contour *perfect*, but after over a decade of trying different techniques, here are a few tips that could help:
- unless you're trying to minimize your bridge too, focusing the majority of contour on the tip is going to really help balance the width of the tip and the bridge. If you contour your bridge to the same degree, the tip will end up looking propotionally larger. Sometimes I even will apply a slightly lighter color or blush across my bridge, which also helps add to the illusion that the tip is more "proportional".
- when I apply a little bit of contour on the underside part, I either leave a thin strip in the middle bare or I apply the contour in a v-shape. This is hard to explain, but keeping the placement of those contour lines more vertical and less horizonal is going to add to help elongate a little bit which will in turn de-emphasize wideness. Adding that v-shape contour will lift the tip a little while not shortening the nose.
-I like to apply a skin tone or one shade lighter concealer right outside where I've contoured on my tip, and then I feather that out to the side of my nostrils. This helps further the illusion that the boundaries of the nose tip are in a different place than they actually are.
What I generally do is: apply two vertical lines on my nose tip starting where my bridge ends. Apply a small v-shape of contour on the bottom of my nose tip connecting to the two vertical lines. Blend that out. Apply a tiny bit of concealer right outside the borders of where I put the contour earlier. Blend. Very precisely highlight the center of the tip in a thin but short vertical line.
I know this was really long and probably kind of hard to follow but I really hope it helps someone lol
My mom had that type of nose too. It was also her biggest insecurity, but I loved it cause it was just so unique to her.
I got a rhinoplasty and quite honestly… even after I got the bump removed. Everyday I find a new reason to hate it. You’ll never be perfectly satisfied. Just love your life and know that even if you get work done- you won’t necessarily be happy after. Try to love what you have and save the money and headache of it all..
I adore what you just did with this video. You’re beautiful and lack nothing with your looks, you really don’t have to bother yourself with this topic but you did and it’s very important that people like you will start breaking those insane beauty standards that big companies grilled into our heads. Thank you girl, you’re awesome ❤
I think it’s more damaging that we even allow cosmetic surgeries as an option in the first place. Medical reason? Sure- I get it, of course. But just for the appearance? Come on… when given too many options we get overwhelmed with the possibilities of changing how we look just because we can.
This!!!!
You know, I used to dislike my nose. But then I realised that I have the exact same nose as my dad. He passed that on to me. It shows that we are related and I love it.
Same here!
same, but I have my mom's nose :)
@@sugarfreeXcandy I have the same nose as my mom when she was younger, and I’m still trying to get over my insecurity about my nose.
Omg same!!!
Same
I'm an artist and i always start portraits from the nose. My favourite part of the face, tbh. It breaks my heart every time when people ask me to make it "more beautiful" on painting. I'm literally torn between giving an one hour lecture about the beauty in variety of shapes and just doing what people ask me about(what i actually supposed to do)
that’s lovely
Today I just talked about how hard it is to draw good looking old people like in Ghibli movies
Same!! I especially love to draw strong or bumpy noses! The shape and position of the nose adds so much character and depth to the face and I really really love that.
Stephanie, I just wanted to tell you how absolutely gorgeous you are. I have been following you for years, back when your page was all makeup tutorials and I’ve always loved your vibe. Your positive attitude and nonjudgmental point of view make you even more attractive and relatable. You mention feeling insecure about your nose but please don’t listen to anyone with a bad word about it. You are a straight knockout in every way!
I haven't always been insecure about my nose. A few years ago a girl that I had gone to school with commented about how narrow and big my nose is, and it really got to me. I have been sort of insecure about my nose ever since. Recently I have been able to start to love and accept myself, which really improved my mental state. I hope that every person watching this video has or will learn to love and accept themselves.
I am Africain and one day I took a test online that, if you provide a picture of your face, supposedly tells you if your proportions are "perfect" enough and if you're beautiful or "ugly".
The IA labeled me as ugly and one of the reasons it gave is that my nose is "too wide". Made me feel insecure for such a long time.
I'm glad I made peace with my nose now. African noses are beautiful. And my nose is exactly like my little brother's nose so I love how you can immediately tell we're siblings when you look at us.
Good for you! I think i also took the same test as you back in middle school. I got the exact same result as you the test also told me my nose is "too wide for my face". And I feel very insecure about my nose eversince. But now I also feel much better about my nose and i'm glad you too! I'm just a stranger so I don't know what you look like but I can tell that you are a very beautiful person. Take care dude!
@@friendlymushroom7753 Aw, thank you! I don't need to see you to know you're a beautiful person, in and out, especially in. Your username really suits you. And our big noses are beautiful. As a singer I love said "your nostrils make make you breathe to stay alive, don't hate them" 💖
If an algorithm classifies wide noses as ugly, that’s straight racism. The creators of the algo couldn’t appreciate the diversity of human beauty in all people
@@rachelgray6790 At least it's ignorance. In general the "perfect face" idea is pretty racist in itself because it completely excludes traits from African or Asian people for example. Nose needs to be small, lips can't be too big but can't be too small either. Eyes can't be small... Etc.
@@rachelgray6790 Yeah, I don't think people realize that there is actually an aspect of racism in calling someone's nose "ugly" - since your nose structure is heavily based on where you are from.
I 've never understood the obsession with narrow noses. Of course this is very subjective, but I absolutely prefer wider nostrils. I think it's cute, feminine and it softens the facial features. Even bump can be definitely attractive.
I have a bump on my nose, I liked it untill I discovered society doesn't. However it does not have to be attractive, it just shouldn't make me unnatractive (that much)
Agree🎯😒😑😖🥴💯🤜🤛
I love bumps on the nose, especially with the side profile. The absolutely massive ones do admittedly look a bit crazy, but those come from a broken nose so thankfully that's not natural. I just like facial features with a bit of character, it makes the person look so much more unique and interesting, and I think that's beautiful.
I have my dad's nose too
O,gf I agree so much
Stephanie, your anecdotes are so heartbreaking. You're a gorgeous woman and it angers me that "professionals" have told you this. I struggle with accepting myself as I am too, and for a long time I didn't believe anyone who gave me compliments on my physical appearance. I learned to love and accept myself but I'm ngl, with aging, the insecurities have returned 😫 working through them. Wishing everyone love and strength 💕✨
thank you so much for this video!
I hve been insanely insecure about my nose for years and this was eye opening :)
It really hurts to see so many people “fix” a feature that I have and to hear people say they look beautiful now because of it.
You're so sensitive
I relate
I have a very asymmetrical nose- nothing about it is 'beautiful'. One nostril is higher than the other, my septum is long and curves to the right, and I have an enormous bump on it. My father has even mocked my nose in front of me. I sobbed when you said that a roman nose was once considered very desirable. It was the first time anyone said my nose was anything but ugly. Thank you ❤
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I felt this , I know how you feel , still learning to love mine too
@@brendaeli2750 yuo
Honestly, I love Roman type of noses and I always say it to everyone. I mean, there are other noses I like, but I find that type of nose specially attractive on both, men and women. I dated a guy with a perfect nose for 6 years, yet the next guy I liked had that beautiful Roman nose and a bit bulbous at the tip. He rejected me hahaha, but I think my ex was attractive as he was, and this guy although very different looking was equally attractive physically.
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Thank you for this message! I was never self conscious about my nose until a friend of mine told me she was for hers. But I thought and I still think your nose has a huge huge impact on making your face unique and recognizable! Beauty standards come and go but your nose will stay with you and gives you the power of smelling, tasting and breathing.
Thank you very much, Stephanie. I'm amazed by the number of photos you put in to illustrate your ideas. Nowadays I think a lot about my "imperfect" appearance. Well, what is really terrible in having insecurities is that it just doesn't let me enjoy my life and embrace my confidence and sexuality in relationship.. Subconsciously I can't stop comparing myself to other women and feel embarrassed by how I look. I wish I could accept and stop criticizing myself and other people. As someone has noticed: if people care about your looks, they are insecure about themselves. This is true. I see it in myself and I try to change it. Your video is very inspiring to me!
Gisele and Hailey have both (*”allegedly”) had nose jobs though. They didn’t get cookie cutter Barbie noses and kept their nose bumps but they both have had very subtle tweaks on their noses. Almost every celebrity you can think of has had a nose job, whether their nose is “standard” or “perfect” or not. I think all the women shown in this video are beautiful before and after their noses changed, and I’m glad Hailey and Gisele both kept their noses as prominent and unique features of their faces, unfortunately however, if you really look and compare photos, they both have had minor nose jobs…just underscores your point even more that plastic surgery is so insidious that we can barely even spot it anymore.
facts ! yall watch lori hilll
Not nose job. Just make up. Make up can create an illusion of pretty
Yes. I was checking to make sure someone commented this. It's really important to know the truth.
@@soysaucetina Was about to say this!!!
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I was talking at a party to a man, and he interrupted me to say, you would need two procedures, on the bump and the end and I should consider it as I was "almost beautiful". Turns out he was a plastic surgeon. We had just started talking and looks or professions had not even come into the conversation.
Unreal!
Seems like he was trying to find a client…so ridiculous and unprofessional
he just wanted your money
I personally think that being insecure about something is indicating that there is something wrong with the way you perceive yourself rather then the way you look, so instead of giving in into your insecurities and altering your outer appearance to fit the image that others made you think you should look like, the focus should be on learning to free your mind from their crooked expectations and accepting yourself the way you are. Getting off social media is something that helped me tremendously, you don't realize how much power it has over your self perception till you quit it, its just a bubble detached from reality where everyone photoshops themselves to deaths, and honestly it's so stupid if your whole life revolves around your looks
BRAVO!!!!! What a wonderful thing you have done making this brilliant video of self acceptance and acceptance of others!!!! Thank you so much, I hope my daughter will reconsider her “need” for a nose job after watching this.
what’s crazy is that in asia, specifically korea, our high bridge western noses are SERIOUSLY envied! i think my korean friends have beautiful noses that suit their faces but they think they’re too flat.. can we ever accept ourselves?
Some have their nostrils too small and have problem breathing 😮💨
I guess the solution to insecurity is looking at things from a different perspective, other cultures have a different perspective to us
I know it’s just madness
High nose bridge, yes, but not one that is crooked or has a bump. Asia as a whole still prefers small noses like in western media but with the added addition of nose bridge because a lot of Asians are born with “flatter” noses. Let’s not misinterpret this. It reminds me of the aegyo sal aesthetic. It’s a little puff under the eyes that is youthful and cute but westerns interpreted this to mean asians like eye bags (that can make one look older/tired). The beauty standards are hard across the globe. It’s not as simple as saying asians want what westerners want and westerners want what easterners want and we should all be happy because it’s desirable somewhere. It’s an oversimplification and not entirely accurate.
I realized beauty varies by region in early high school. I think I’d be considered an average girl here in the states but all the Japanese foreign exchange students thought I was incredibly beautiful and told me if I were to go to their school in Japan everyone would think I was gorgeous because of my very fair skin and “small face”. I’ve always been made fun of for my skin tone in the states for being pale. I’d be called pasty, Casper, and the typical names for someone fair skinned but they would carry umbrellas when they went out to try to prevent any tanning. I never did figure out what they meant by small face though lol
It's interesting how cultural and societal standards influence what people find attractive to such a degree. I remember as a kid always finding something really beautiful about those "greek" or "roman" sort of noses, I just remember in my early memory that being one of the first facial features I thought most beautiful, and I still do. I remember finding it odd as I got older and realized that apparently was *not* the standard and that a lot of people sought to have their bridge bumps removed.
I know this was a weird novel I just think it's both incredibly fascinating and incredibly sad how homogenous beauty standards have become. I wonder what things would be like if this weren't the case.
I can relate actually! I used to create and draw my own characters as a kid and I would always give them noses like that. For some reason I'm just naturally drawn to this feature.
Pretty soon everyone is going to start lookin the same.
Imagine getting a nose job then your original nose style becomes the next beauty standard
I have a Roman nose and thought it looked awful until I realized I was brainwashed to think that way. It’s scary how our own independent thoughts can be hacked and we aren’t even aware it’s happening sometimes. 😔 My nose is now one of my favorite features. Though I now am grateful above all that it allows me to breathe so I can be alive and create memories. 🧡
Hey I’m a “Roman” nose person who hates their nose and got told how ugly my nose was! Now I got a nose piercing lollll
this is one of the most meaningful channels in youtube, keep doing this amazing work thank you for this❤
I wanna say THANK YOU, I’m 36 and I’ve been so insecure about my nose my whole life. Seeing these beautiful, strong and powerful women with their real noses makes me feel free somehow, and yes! natural noses seem more interesting, I will appreciate my Roman type nose more ❤❤❤❤.
When it comes to permanently altering your facial features it’s very important to do a lot of inner work to ensure you’re not doing it simply in order to follow a trend, because beauty standards DO CHANGE.
Barely 20 years ago my features were not considered optimal. I had large lips, a small nose, and curly hair, which in Asia wasn’t preferable. I would try to purse my lips or straighten my hair in order to feel better about myself, because kids would ask me why my lips were so big, why my hair was so “unruly”.
I am so, so, glad that social media did not exist when I was a teen, because I might have felt a lot worse.
And now? My features are celebrated. People wonder if I’d had lip injections and comment on how ‘dainty’ and ‘princess-like’ my nose is. They love my hair, and now call it ‘thick and luscious’. (I am aware this sounds like I am praising myself but I’m trying to make a point asgahajak ok moving on)
Because these same features they’re calling cute and pretty were the EXACT SAME FEATURES they were calling “rubbery” and “smashed” just twenty years prior! Imagine if I’d undergone plastic surgery then, just to fit what people think beauty is.
I shudder.
I hope a lot of people read your comment. It’s important to realize fashion trends change all the time and making permanent changes is, well, permanent. They may be happy now but they might not be in the future and may regret it. I wish we were all more comfortable with the looks we were born with :( Like I hate my nose but I wish I didn’t.
This is so, so true. People need to know this! Because teen girls don't have the benefit of time: for them, the beauty standards they're growing up with are "it." They have no idea that the standards aren't fixed, that they can and WILL change. And as you said, if you haven't done the inner work to love yourself no matter what, you're just going to keep changing your appearance in order to fit the current mold, trapped in a cycle of self-loathing.
100% ! I love looking at different beauty standards throughout history for this reason. Everyone can find one era and culture where they were the *bomb*. And since vintage and retro fashions are like a sub-genre of beauty, why not lean into that? And hopefully it can help us to have the perspective that you have - that trends change and are not an absolute metric of beauty!
I have full lips which I hated when I was young, and not the norm in Asia 20yrs ago, and now I think its funny so many women want full lips these days and have surgeries. I'm OK with my nose sometime slightly flat big (mayb should do contouring but lazy with make up, Rihanna has slightly flat big nose without good make up), but have high bridge, so look better at side profile. My sister sometimes diss my nose, I dis her back...witch roman nose lol, but we both prefer our own noses. We are both comfortable with ourselves, prefer to be natural.
I had a nose job two years ago, after a lifetime of being insecure about my nose. It was subtle and nobody noticed. Even my family members who I told I was getting it done totally forgot about it and I had to remind them when they saw me.
A few weeks after getting it done my husband made a comment that broke my heart a little. He said “you look less Polish, more American.” Which of course is true. The bulbous tip was reduced and my dorsal hump was shaved down. While I’m happy with the results and can’t say I regret it, there is a part of me that feels bad about erasing a part of myself.
But your nose isn’t who you are. Your nose isn’t your ancestry. Who you are is all in your heart and your head and you can celebrate your ancestry every day no matter what you look like.
You should really just be thankful as hell that your results were good. A lot of people get botched even when they think they're going to a good doctor. Your body has to do some work and heal it properly afterwards
@@SerenaCavanaugh I have a lot of emotions about it, being thankful it wasn’t botched is one of them.
Tbh that's a pretty ignorant comment that he made on multiple levels
@@svinitials Me? Am not a he. It's not ignorant. I can tell you've never had a rhinoplasty. You should know what it feels like to regret one when your nose becomes fucked after. It hits you with a shame that goes so much deeper than you had for your original nose. The normalization of rhinoplasty is a travesty. Regular people that go to regular local surgeons have no idea of the gamble they are taking.
Makes me so happy that you don’t let society or the internet bully you in to getting a nose job that you ABSOLUTELY don’t need, Stephanie!
Thank you for making this video. I wholeheartedly agree by the principle of "live and let live" and people are free to go the aesthetic surgeries they like if that makes them happy, but rhinoplasty is so brutal I have a hard time understanding how so many people willingly go through that. They literally break your perfectly functional nose and the recovery takes a long time. A girl once told me her eyelids were so bloated post-surgery that she was literally blind for 4 straight days. Just the thought of that made me love my big ass nose bridge.
I have an aquiline nose and for the majority of my life, I was made fun of for the shape of it. Even a former friend of mine in my teen years told me something like "Your nose looks like a bird's beak when you laugh", which made me SO insecure that I was scared to smile genuinely after that. The funny thing is, that I NEVER had any problems with the shape of my nose until I was introduced to society's beauty standards. After that, my whole mind was spiralling around my "ugly" nose (even though it's simply different than what is considered "beautiful" these days).
When I was fifteen I seriously considerd getting a nose job but now I am proud to say that I overcame my insecurities because it's part of my ethnical background (my parents are from the far Northeastern parts of Turkey near Georgia) and I have nothing to feel ashamed about.
I love aquiline noses. 💙
your nose is beautiful, no doubt about it!
I'm so glad I started reading and listening to Malcolm X when was in my early 20's. I'm not against body modifications, but I always ask myself Malcolm's question - "who taught you to hate yourself?" Nose jobs to me are the ultimate example of White beauty standards so I refuse to buy into it. Loving my Asian nose is an act of resistance!
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That's a great quote.
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Kinda strange to refuse doing something just because “it is a wHiTe thing”
@@SladkiyStream nah it's not a white thing. Indian and Arab girls from wealthier families often get nose jobs too to look nice for a marriage partner which is kinda sad. It's not necessarily to look white but two look "more feminine" and upper class.
Your nose is perfect, thank you for this video and I congratulate you for your confidence!!
i love and admire the last part of the video where you talked about your noses sturdiness and abilities!!
im thinking of getting a nose job, yes, first of all for aesthetic reasons, but i also live in a really cold climate most of the year and have pretty flat nose, it’s horrible in the winter time
I really loved this video. I'm Middle Eastern (Persian) and growing up I was surrounded by friends/family and people I knew from my culture who would get nose jobs. I actually never had a problem with my nose until my teenage years, when people I knew started mentioning how easy it would be to "fix" my nose and how quickly I would be able to recover/feel more confident by doing so. I ended up going to like 5 different surgery consultations before I realized that it was not something I truly wanted to do. I'm in my early 20s now and am insecure about my nose still at certain angles, but I know I made the right decision. I carry my heritage with me in my nose, dorsal hump, unevenness and all, and it makes me proud when people tell me I look Persian from my nose structure, even if my nose is not the most "accepted" standard right now. I don't usually comment on videos but this one struck me since this issue is near and dear to my heart so THANK you for making this awesome video ❤ I also hope this comment helps someone if they are struggling with this. 💗
I think Persian type noses are so beautiful and it's a tragedy that so many have theirs altered. You are gorgeous as you are.
I’m Persian too I’ve never felt like getting it done because I was always told I had the best nose in the family it’s upturned naturally.
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love this!
You are a very beautiful young lady. Totally stunning. You carry your forebears on your face - and very esteemed ones too! Never change please!
One of my favorite examples of insecurities- I’ve always had hip dips and a lack of thigh gap….I was NEVER worried about it until it became an “issue” in the media! I’m so sick of seeing the same type of face on instagram….it’s BORING.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!
oh yeah I remember finding out about hip dips. I read that somewhere looked up what it is. Was like oh that's my hip. Wait this is considered ugly? no way I'm too old for this trend crap (I'm in the beginning of my 20s lol). I would have never ever consciously looked at this part of my body or someone else's and judged it. I still can't figure out who zoned in on someones hips and was like: yeah that doesn't look great better tell people not to have that.
The only reason I ever wanted thigh gaps was to prevent chafing haha. But a quick look up told be its more your bones structure than body fat so I gave up on that immediately.
The only beauty trend I follow is 11 line abs because that's realistically achievable for me if I focus on my eating habits and work out a bit. Both things that are healthy (in moderation of course). I like it and don't have to rip a limb out to get that look.
i used to want a nose job when i was younger. from the age of 9 to about 14 all i could think about was getting a nose job when i turned 18. thankfully i dont anymore, as my face grew into my nose and i felt a lot better about it. im 17 now and i could never imagine getting a nose job much less any cosmetic procedure. i do love my face even though it took a while for me to get there. i don't want to waste any more time hating my nose and i wanted to try my best to love it.
Thanks for this video, its just so comforting to be told I'm not the only person insecure with my looks because of the strict beauty standard perpetuated through the media! Thanks Stef! Looking at my nose I think its a mix of roman and bulbous, I have quite a thick nasal bridge and my nose also widens out from the top, kind of like a Nubian. I was very insecure with my nose for a long time and still am. But when I look at some of the celebrities with wider noses it really suits them and does not take away from their beauty, like Rihanna for instance.
Honestly Stephanie, I know you contour your nose but I really admire the shape of your natural nose. Weather it’s contoured or not. I think it’s so cute and a really beautiful shape!
"These poor unfortunate women" - shows Jafar 🤣
Love what you're doing here. You are a positive force in a sea of negativity.😊
sometimes i rewatch your videos to remind myself of all the amazing points you make! man i am so glad you make these videos ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I sometimes think my nose is too big but other days not. I would never get nose job though. It's my nose and I wouldn't want to look different.
I was in a car accident when I was 7 yrs old (on Christmas Eve) that ripped my nose halfway off completely through the septum and one nostril also broken in several places. I was operated on as soon as they could but the incident had effected my nose since and I was always made fun of throughout school for it, kids not knowing what had happened. I always hated it and couldn’t breathe. I finally had got the reconstructive surgery to breathe I needed at 24 but still have never been happy with how it looks. My family says it looks fine but mentally I just can’t believe them. If I had the money to get another surgery with the best surgeon I could find maybe I would. It’s been a lifelong struggle but your videos always make these situations feel less heavy! You are an angel! God bless you and everyone! We are all children of God and were each uniquely made! 🤍
I click on your pfp, your face is beautiful, the nose really look fine like it was never torn off before!
I hope you continue to heal well in the future, both physically and mentally! I'm absolutely sure that your nose is completely fine, the important thing is that you feel good with it and are able to breathe properly :)
You are beautiful 🥰
@@syasyaishavingfun I agree, you look beautiful!
This is kind of morbid, but it's something that helps me sometimes, maybe it will help you. If you feel bad about your face, thinking about how some people were born with facial deformities that couldn't be fixed, or had terrible accidents that really messed them up makes me feel grateful about the features that I have, flaws and all, and lucky that everything went right for me to look pretty normal and what some would even consider attractive. Seeing those people overcome their unusual features and doing their best to stay positive and enjoy life to the fullest makes me feel ashamed about nitpicking little silly things about my face or body, which those people might be so happy to trade.
You just gotta remember that there is so much more to life than how you look, and no matter how much you wish something was different, it's not going to magically change. So, just get over yourself and pursue your dreams and do something amazing! Focus on having an awesome time in this life instead.
Thank you for making these vids, Stephanie. Those comments you showed at the beginning of your video were shocking to me. For the record (and not that it really matters), I think you are beautiful the way you are, with or without makeup. So many young girls and women are extremely insecure about their looks, with noses being common. These influencers don’t realize the harm they do to people. Beauty standards are so arbitrary.
Steph, you cant be serious! You look amazing just the way you are and your nose is GORGEOUS! It suits you so well, you dont need a nose job and I deeply mean it. Love your videos :*
It remembers me of the actress Jennifer Grey from Dirty Dancing: After the film's release, she did a rhinoplasty to make it easier for casting directors to think of her for further parts. But after her surgery, she had trouble finding lucrative work in Hollywood. She thought that it's because of her nose job, which made her unrecognizable. On the consequences of her nose job, she said: “Overnight I lose my identity and my career.”
Interesting!
Damn if you do damn if you don't.
I’m 13 and hated my nose pretty much ever since I was 7 but this completely changed my mind and I’ve immediately fallen in love with my natural nose
PLEASE ALWAYS put the historical bits, i simply LOVE them!!
Every single day from 14-19 years old, I thought about getting a nose job because I have a bump. Now that I’m 23, I love rocking my natural nose!! I would never change it.
I’m Japanese and I used hate my nose! My nose is so small and I always wanted to have tall, straight nose!
Then I moved to US and all the sudden I get compliments on my nose. It’s interesting how different what culture can really shift the view of the way we see beauty (and of course so much more) we are all influenced in someway and I’ve learnt to love my nose now! It’s a cute little nose. Hahaha
You do such a service for girls’ self esteem. 👏🏻
I learned something new today that I have a Roman nose. I’m Puerto Rican and rarely see this nose on my other family members with as big as the bump at the ridge as others. This perspective might be from staring at my own nose too often and stretching the actual reality others see from my nose. But absolutely changed my perspective in how these noses were viewed as beautiful and desired at some point. Like almost tearing up with how people change their views in what is defined as beautiful
I'm indiginous, and I had to learn/accept/realize how beautiful the faces of my ancestors.... the faces they gave me actually were. Society is strange... I'm typically more conservative in my beliefs but I can't deny the "white supremacy" of certain beauty standards. My nose makes sense and gives me an evolutionary advantage in the places my family lived.... it fits my face and gives it character. These days there are so many people who are starting to look exactly alike due to cosmetic surgery.... my mom always said; "how boring would the world be? If we all looked the same"
I’ve always been into classical art and that helped me appreciate my long, narrow, slightly humped aquiline nose…until pretty recently. The adorable upturned noses of IG started making me feel very iffy about my own to the point that I’ve wished a couple times that I could have one too (though I can’t afford financially or health-wise to go under the knife). After watching this video I went in the bathroom and stared at my nose from the front and side profile for a while. It’s actually gorgeous, and fits my face perfectly! I can’t imagine ever giving it up. Thanks Steph! Also your nose is perfect too 😍
Thank you for this video, so amazing to see something on the web that makes you feel good about how you look
After watching this vid, I feel less self conscious about my nose, but of the fam history you gave and I love history. I’m still planning to get my nose job but I definitely needed this. Thank you
I’ve never commented on a UA-cam video, but had to on this one. Thank you so very much for all you do on your channel. I am a 44 year old confident, smart, secure woman who KNOWS how ridiculously fake social media is, and yet I still have still caught myself comparing my very imperfect self to women on social media. I cannot imagine what it’s like for my 16 year old daughter (and all young girls). Keep doing what you’re doing. You are truly an amazing young woman. You ARE making a difference. ❤️