TTC: are you in it together?
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2024
- When you decided that you were going to try for a baby (TTC) together it felt like the most romantic thing ever and boy did it give your relationship a boost inside and outside of the bedroom.
Then when it took a bit longer to get that positive test than expected, you started researching supplements and lifestyle changes. But as time goes by you seem to be getting some resistance from your love, he won’t cut back on coffee, doesn’t want to get a sperm test done, won’t give up drinking or smoking or perhaps will take/do anything, as long as you’re the one handing him the pills.
You can’t help but wonder, are you still really trying to conceive together?
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Journaling prompts:
* Are you TTC together?
* Who is carrying the mental load about getting pregnant and what to do to get there?
* What are your conversations like on this topic?
* Do you equally take responsibility for your own health, denying yourself of things you know aren’t good for you but that you like?
* Who is initiating sex inside or outside of your fertile window?
Conversation starters:
* Health / fertility budget?
* Sex life, is it good or not? Is the focus on TTC or on the relationship?
* Is your desire for a baby equal or not? If not, what to do about it? Does it matter?
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:12 Are you both participating in trying to get pregnant?
04:11 Parenthood starts before conception
06:29 Fertility resources often are directed at women
07:40 Infertility is often “blamed” on women
07:51 You want to have a baby more than your man
09:21 The risks of not TTC “together”
10:36 Strengthening your relationship while TTC
10:57 Journaling prompts & conversation starters
I feel like this is the exact video I needed this week, thank you. I've been feeling this way for a while, that my husband and I aren't fully on the same page and I'm putting in much more effort than he is. I've been struggling to find the right time and right words to express this to him. Maybe I'll just have him watch this video with me. ❤
same here!!
Ditto.... :(
same here!
I'm really sorry you lovelies feel this way, but I am so happy that this means the video was meant to be! I suppose these are the things that don't get talked about much nor is this likely the type of video you'd be searching for. I think it's a great idea to watch the video with your husband, I hope I was able to bring it in a way that it resonates with the men too.. it's not easy because being a woman I know I'll have a woman way of looking at things even if I try to have my professional goggles on!
Thank you for this Inge, I can relate to a lot of what you have said here. Thank you for your helpful tips x
Hi Ingefleur, I am really happy to see how you share these great videos of information for us to enjoy and learn. Being that said, I want to share with you that thanks to all your great information, I was able to fall pregnant with my 4th baby. Your advice even helped me get pregnant with my 3rd baby, I really appreciate all your great advice. Thanks 😊
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🎀I haven’t watched your videos for a
While but I just want to thank you for all of your advice. I now have. 2 year old and a month year old.I have birth naturally for both and only had gas.🎀
Add time limit to that, what is crunch time for me vs you?!
Hey i was spotting (brownish discharge) after i missed my periods for 2days(the spotting was for three days,1st day was noticeable but the remaining two days were only noticed on a tissue when i wiped my self.
Took a pregnancy test and it was negative but even after the spotting my breasts are kinda sore and a little grown.could i be pregnant?
N/B:i have never had such like periods before(little amount of brownish discharge)
Are blood tests invasive ?
I think it depends on your point of view. I mean it is a needle poking through your vein drawing blood, I guess it could be considered invasive.. but in my opinion, except if I would have a fear of needles, I'd be fine with it. It is still much much less invasive than many other ways of testing for conditions, etc.
How long can I become pregnant after the IUD removal
Make sure to track your cycle and learn to find when your fertile window opens. You can learn that from my free course right here: www.ingefleur.com/freechartingcourse