NEVER borrow that much money to any family members/relatives/friends. U will most likely NEVER see it back! That’s why there’s a bank n loans! One rule to go by…..If u don’t qualify to borrow a loan, you shouldn’t be borrowing one at all. Live beyond what u can afford. Don’t try to buy something u can’t afford!
If the author said they wrote a check for $20k, that's the proof. They can backtrack where that couple got the 20k since it was a check. Something don't add up.
No expectations equal no disappointments. Let your bro be. He'll be alright. He chose to live his life. I understand you have good intentions, but they don't feel the same you feel so just let them be. Accept the fact that they don't like you.
Exactly this wife is a disgusting human waste! I hope karma get her. She cheated on her husband and now turned on the husband sister! The brother has no backbones and be a man. It’s like he’s obsessed with his wife and can’t leave her no matter what she did to him. He deserves her! Poor sister, I hope she finds peace! And learn her lesson and never give out loans!
How can someone borrowed money from someone and flat out refused to pay them back? That's so bold and ruthless. This is all the brother's fault. He can't be man enough to do right by his sister. She has every right to ask for her money back dude. You let your wife dictate which family member you can see and talk to, and even dictate which family member can see their own parents? is your wife worth losing all your siblings and parents for? is she truly worth it? Did she lose her parents and siblings for you too?
I agreed! I ran into the same issue where my brother borrow my money and won’t pay me back! Money doesn’t grow on tree, if you borrow, you need to pay back!
Tus viv ncaus aws ca koj muaj li kuv thiab os kuv ma tu tus siab kawg li os kv li ma tus nyab tus nus tuaj nrog kuv nyob kuv tus txiv qhov av xwb tom qab no nkawv lub neej mus tsis tau ua nke nkawv sib nrauj es tus nyab yeej txeeb kiag kuv tus txiv wb qhov av lawm thiab os chim siab ntsaj li os lawv aws
O yoyoyoyo. Hmong os hmong. This is why you don't lend money to anyone. A few hundred is ok but when you talking about thousands then go to the bank. That's what banks are for. Call it what you want but this is the reason why.
Twn vim li no kuv cov nus kwvv tij kiag tuaj txais kuv cia li muab kiag ib qho pub xwb es txhob txais ib qho li vim txoj kev ntse thiaj ua li no. Thaum yus tsis txais nws ntxub yus los yus hlub yus ua ntej xwb.
Cov neeg txais nyiaj tsis Kam them ces lub nrej muag tseem loj tshaj ntxhw lub prob nreg lub nrej muag tseem tuab tshaj ntxhw daim tawv lawm thiab thiaj tsis paub txaj muag naw....
Yep hmong 1 txwm tias thaum $$$go ces white and come back ces yog black no ne .muaj tseeb 3 cov muam yeej txawj hlub cov nus dua .coob tus nus lub neej plam 3 cia lawv nyob hauv 3 lub house cherished them. But 3 lub neej plam lawv cia li g xam muaj us tu siab nawb all sisters
There are so many cold blooded women like the cheater nyab. My cousin wife stole all the in-laws $50,000 spoiled her no paper Mexican boyfriend, she helped him get Green card and paid rent for him and there’s nothing the in-law can do. She divorced my cousin and my cousins just end it like that, but her health has always been down hill.
Been there. Still waiting for my money until this day. He promised he would make alot of weed money and pay me back. Never give money to family members.
Hmong people are so nice. They borrow money to people who can't manage money and won't pay their debts. If the bank won't loan them money, the risk is too high! LOL! If you don't have money to give, don't loan family money.
Never borrow money to family you aren't willing to just give away. Most of the time it will end in resentment no matter the intentions. Also don't get involved in family members relationships let them choose their own path. Everyone faces the consequences of their actions.
They borrowed money from his sister, then refuses to pay her back, and later on he calls her again to ask her to sign a house for him? Wow! The nerve of some people. So shameful. Txaus ntxub tiag tiag! Neeg siab lim hiam ces neej yeej mus tsis txog twg li os.
Tus nyab no twb txeev siab rau tus txiv, tus txiv los tseem kam yuav, nws yees txais kev npam kev tuag na. Cov neeg zoo li no es pheej tseem kam ua ib nqag nrog thiab ces yuav raug npam losis tuag nrog xwb mas.
Ntuj aw!!!! Teb chaws no banks muaj ntau li ntau nws yuav cia nws mam li mus txais tom bank los pob!… yog yus zoo zoo siab txais ces lawv tsis them los kav liab cia pub lawv los maj…. Nco qab ntsooj thaum los tsis yooj yim li thaum mus nawb!….
I hope this is a good lesson for you the sister too. No matter how much you love your brother you need to understand boundaries too. Why lend that much money to your brother. You need to know your brother is weak. He has no spine. You the sister need to accept and leave your brother alone. Let him live his life.
Nyab yog tus phem thiab dablaug yog tus tsis khov. Tus nyab yog tus ua rau tus muam thiab dablaug nkawv tus choj dam. Nyab ua txhaum loj los nws tseem ua zoo li nws tus muam ua txhaum loj rau nws xwb. Never ever borrow money to family because it will break a relationship
Tu poj niam xuaj li tu kos ces muab pov tseg kiag xwb.. kj ua tsi tau txiv es cia kj niam poj niam los Kav kj lub neej.. ces cia li mus hlais kj yam khoom pov tseg kiag xwb
Tej laus twb hais tias nyiaj mus nyiaj luag ntxi nyiaj los nyiaj dub txig. twv kom kawg pluag kom tuag li thiaj ua os peb ua neej tsis hais ntau paub zoo lawm
Yeej yog mas, peb cov muam yeej hlub cov nus dua thiab tiag os! Sorry, you got conned by your brother and sister in law. If your nyab isn’t the way she is, your brother wouldn’t be the way he is towards you too but unfortunately your nyab is like that and he had to cut ties with you. Great lesson to learn for all of us.
I want to know why the Nyab hates her so much? Besides the Phauj calling the cops for a wellness check, I don’t understand her reasoning. Was she ashamed for having an affair at work and took it out on the Phauj?
Kom nyab tuaj txhog caug pe ntawm taw tso mam thim lus. Koj xuam 20k rau nws, tabsis nws tsis tau lees ces teebmeem tseem tshuav. Tej txheeb ze sib txais nyiaj tsis them Meskas thiaj tsim txojcai kom yuav life ins pov qhov nqi ntawd thiab sau npe cog lus cia.
Contract or Lein hold, never to SIL. If they can’t purchase a car due to no money. Why would you loan that amount of money without no loan agreement paper. 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
Wow neb muaj nyiaj kawg, twb muaj yus tej menyuam es ua cas tsis muab rau lawv es hos kam muab rau nkawv. 20k is not little, it's going to take years or a lifetime to come back.
This story is kinda like me and my brother's wife right now. I use to help them soo much with money too. We use to love each other until i went and work with her and now she like a white guy at work. Now she cut me off from her life but idk. My brother is stupid like your brother too sister.
Yog lawm.
NEVER borrow that much money to any family members/relatives/friends. U will most likely NEVER see it back! That’s why there’s a bank n loans!
One rule to go by…..If u don’t qualify to borrow a loan, you shouldn’t be borrowing one at all. Live beyond what u can afford. Don’t try to buy something u can’t afford!
You’re speaking the truth!
koj zaj neej neeg no ma tus siab kawg li os
If the author said they wrote a check for $20k, that's the proof. They can backtrack where that couple got the 20k since it was a check. Something don't add up.
No expectations equal no disappointments. Let your bro be. He'll be alright. He chose to live his life. I understand you have good intentions, but they don't feel the same you feel so just let them be. Accept the fact that they don't like you.
Your brother has no balls. His education didn’t do him any good. His wife cheated on him yet she ended up being on top. What a shame!
Exactly this wife is a disgusting human waste! I hope karma get her. She cheated on her husband and now turned on the husband sister! The brother has no backbones and be a man. It’s like he’s obsessed with his wife and can’t leave her no matter what she did to him. He deserves her! Poor sister, I hope she finds peace! And learn her lesson and never give out loans!
Wow tua ntsej muag Nyab zoo li no ces tsim nyog goon lawm thiab mas
Yog lawm os peb cov muam ces yeej hlub cov nyab cov nu tshaj tab si tau lub kua muag tshaj li os yog li tu niam tsev Hai lawm
Good lesson learned from this story. Make them go take a loan from the bank. Less headache
I don't know why people never learned from the many, many stories we heard throughout life, never borrow anyone $$$ period.
Such a beautiful picture!!!
How can someone borrowed money from someone and flat out refused to pay them back? That's so bold and ruthless. This is all the brother's fault. He can't be man enough to do right by his sister. She has every right to ask for her money back dude. You let your wife dictate which family member you can see and talk to, and even dictate which family member can see their own parents? is your wife worth losing all your siblings and parents for? is she truly worth it? Did she lose her parents and siblings for you too?
Agreed, Karma to the sister in law and brother. Time to quit borrowing money and make your own. Pay back or curse to them.
Fr. So bold to refuse to pay!!
I agreed! I ran into the same issue where my brother borrow my money and won’t pay me back! Money doesn’t grow on tree, if you borrow, you need to pay back!
Yog yus tej nus tej me nyuam yus thiaj hlub tau yuav tau yus tej yus tej nus yeej yuav g tau hlub g tau os
Neeg siab phem ces tsis foom los yeej npam os
Yog kawg cov mem nyuam hmoob Miskas no mas ua hauj lwm los tsis muaj nyiaj kiag Lis npab lub txais nkaus nkaus xwb noj tas tsis xav ten
Tus viv ncaus aws ca koj muaj li kuv thiab os kuv ma tu tus siab kawg li os kv li ma tus nyab tus nus tuaj nrog kuv nyob kuv tus txiv qhov av xwb tom qab no nkawv lub neej mus tsis tau ua nke nkawv sib nrauj es tus nyab yeej txeeb kiag kuv tus txiv wb qhov av lawm thiab os chim siab ntsaj li os lawv aws
He wearing the most sparkly dress ever
O yoyoyoyo. Hmong os hmong. This is why you don't lend money to anyone. A few hundred is ok but when you talking about thousands then go to the bank. That's what banks are for. Call it what you want but this is the reason why.
txoj kev ntawm ko yeej muaj tseeb
Cas koj tus muam hlub koj ua luaj cas koj yuav ua tsi tau txiv li os yawg aws
Twn vim li no kuv cov nus kwvv tij kiag tuaj txais kuv cia li muab kiag ib qho pub xwb es txhob txais ib qho li vim txoj kev ntse thiaj ua li no. Thaum yus tsis txais nws ntxub yus los yus hlub yus ua ntej xwb.
Lesson for everyone to learn
Cov neeg txais nyiaj tsis Kam them ces lub nrej muag tseem loj tshaj ntxhw lub prob nreg lub nrej muag tseem tuab tshaj ntxhw daim tawv lawm thiab thiaj tsis paub txaj muag naw....
Koj hais yog kawg li lawm os
Koj hais yog kawg. Lawv tsis txaj muag rau yus. Yus tseem yog tus txaj muag rau lawv.
That brother and SIL....karna.
Koj ib tug hmuam es koj pheej mus kuas luag lub neej uas tus dab tsi ho viv ncaus koj yeej yog neeg tsi zoo thiab
Cov muam yeej hlub cov nus dua os lawv aw cov nus ces twb tsis tshua nco hlub cov muam os
Yep hmong 1 txwm tias thaum $$$go ces white and come back ces yog black no ne .muaj tseeb 3 cov muam yeej txawj hlub cov nus dua .coob tus nus lub neej plam 3 cia lawv nyob hauv 3 lub house cherished them. But 3 lub neej plam lawv cia li g xam muaj us tu siab nawb all sisters
There are so many cold blooded women like the cheater nyab. My cousin wife stole all the in-laws $50,000 spoiled her no paper Mexican boyfriend, she helped him get Green card and paid rent for him and there’s nothing the in-law can do. She divorced my cousin and my cousins just end it like that, but her health has always been down hill.
That's y, I never let my families borrow my money. I always said I don't have any. Money turn families relatives friends into BIG problems.
Been there. Still waiting for my money until this day. He promised he would make alot of weed money and pay me back. Never give money to family members.
Lesson to learn! Never loan money to family and friends
My family never has problems 😌
Peb 1 cov pojniam siab phem2 limhiam mus ua nyab ces tsim luag tsevneeg kom kawg siab. Hos cov txivneej los cuag li muaj 1 tug pojniam ntawd xwb, nrauj tsis tau, kom sawvdaws uv, cia nyab 1 leeg tsim tag 1 tse. Thaum kawg 1 tug tuag npam khaum tuag tag 1 cuab kwvtij los yeej hais tsis taus. Xav kom sawvdaws hloov, leejtwg phem ces tshem nws tawm thiaj tsis puas tas 1 pab.
Ua zoo ces tau ntuj ntoo. Ua phem ces tau ntuj lem xwb los mas.
Poj niam tham hluas nraug txiv neej tham hluas nkauj yog xyob txhiaj neej thiaj tsis zoo. Tsawm npam vim phem rau phauj thiab tsis tsim nyog ua neeg li.
Muaj tseeb txug txhob txais nyaj rua tej txheeb ze vim nyaj moog luag ntxi tabsis nyaj rov qab dlub txig. Kuv twb naag lawm.
Good story, sadly the people who need to learn this lesson dnt get it regardless. Ur a good sis, bless ur ❤️.
tseg kiag neeg txheeb ze nkauj muam.nraug nus thiab viv ncaus mas txhob qiv nyiaj rau kiag nawb thaum nyiaj mas nyiaj mus luag ntxhi os thaum nyiaj.rov los mas nyiaj los dub txig xwb nawb
Nyias muaj nyias siab. Twb yog ib pab nus muag lo nyias muaj nyias siab. Tus dag tus phem lo muaj hos tus zoo coj ncaj lo muaj.
Hmong people are so nice. They borrow money to people who can't manage money and won't pay their debts. If the bank won't loan them money, the risk is too high! LOL! If you don't have money to give, don't loan family money.
Ob niam txiv DEV Casino xwb po?
WOW! I’m speechless about this couple. Karma will decide this couple’s future…
Txhob tus siab os niam tsev aw ..Tim kj tus nus xwb mog
Never borrow money to family you aren't willing to just give away. Most of the time it will end in resentment no matter the intentions. Also don't get involved in family members relationships let them choose their own path. Everyone faces the consequences of their actions.
Txhob hlub hlub tej niag nus no, tej nus no lawv yeej tsis hlub cov muam, thaum lawv ua lawv lub neej zoo lawm lawv tsis k txog tej muam, tabsi thaum lawv tsis muaj chaws nyob lawv mam paub tias lawv muaj muam, peb cov muam kav tsij ua yus lub neej kom zoo zoo xwb tsis txhob muab muab yus tej koob hmoov mus pub rau tej nus no, kuv twb yog ib tug uas ntsib lawm.
They borrowed money from his sister, then refuses to pay her back, and later on he calls her again to ask her to sign a house for him? Wow! The nerve of some people. So shameful. Txaus ntxub tiag tiag! Neeg siab lim hiam ces neej yeej mus tsis txog twg li os.
Tus viv ncaus koj li mas tseem yog koj tus nyab thiab tus nus ua rau koj xwb. Nyob li ntawm kuv zaj mas tseem yog kiag kuv niam tus yug kuv ntag
Ua cas zaj neej neeg no hais hais txog nus txiv li zoo li nws ho tsis muaj txiv li nslawv
Nope if thats my brother i wouldn't give a shit about him too. Who are they to tell you that you can't visit.
Zoo heev txoj kev tsi ntshai lub ntuj os paub tsi paub
Me, where is my money's or suffer forever with your evil wife!!! Don't come ask me forgiveness
Nej cov hmoob me kas ko mas tus ntse mas ntse tiag2 li tus zoo mas zoo kawg li tiam sis tus phem mas phem tob tiag2 li yom
Tus nyab no twb txeev siab rau tus txiv, tus txiv los tseem kam yuav, nws yees txais kev npam kev tuag na. Cov neeg zoo li no es pheej tseem kam ua ib nqag nrog thiab ces yuav raug npam losis tuag nrog xwb mas.
Ntuj aw!!!! Teb chaws no banks muaj ntau li ntau nws yuav cia nws mam li mus txais tom bank los pob!… yog yus zoo zoo siab txais ces lawv tsis them los kav liab cia pub lawv los maj…. Nco qab ntsooj thaum los tsis yooj yim li thaum mus nawb!….
some people don’t have common sense at all and always in denial
Neeg ntxheeb xwb nyiaj tsis ntxheeb naj ! Nyiaj thiab neeg tsis yog ib tug ov .
Mi muam aw koj zoo dhau hwv lawd yog kuv mas twb tsis kam ov !
Sister just let them both suffer...dont excuse them cause they will not learn their lessons.
I hope this is a good lesson for you the sister too. No matter how much you love your brother you need to understand boundaries too. Why lend that much money to your brother. You need to know your brother is weak. He has no spine. You the sister need to accept and leave your brother alone. Let him live his life.
It's the brother and his wife's loss. They burn their own bridge, it just means that they'll never get to cross it again.
Nyab yog tus phem thiab dablaug yog tus tsis khov. Tus nyab yog tus ua rau tus muam thiab dablaug nkawv tus choj dam. Nyab ua txhaum loj los nws tseem ua zoo li nws tus muam ua txhaum loj rau nws xwb. Never ever borrow money to family because it will break a relationship
Siab phem2 mas tsis zam txim ces khaum tiag2
They said be careful what you do and said cause all it takes is one word and it will come back to you and it too late to turn back..
Sow the wind, reap the whirlwind
Lesson learned for u. Stop loving people so much!
Koj niaj nyab siab phem thiaj Koj tus nus ua tsis Taus txiv
Cas ua neej quav dev ua luaj li SMH
That’s how it is when a man wears the dress.
Lesson learn, don’t ever borrow thousands to anyone tell them to go to the bank Sorry
Tu poj niam xuaj li tu kos ces muab pov tseg kiag xwb.. kj ua tsi tau txiv es cia kj niam poj niam los Kav kj lub neej.. ces cia li mus hlais kj yam khoom pov tseg kiag xwb
Very tru! So easy to say borrow but wen u ask it back its hard as hell..so embarrassing
Sister in laws should not get involved with your brother’s life! There are boundaries!! Focus on your own life!!
Didn't you write a check? Doesn't that check proof enough already? Or they need more proof? I know there suppose to be contracts.
Some of these brothers needs to grow some ⚽️ ⚽️ ⚽️.
Yes you are correct niam tsev! Pub kiag rau instead borrow
Tsis hais tu muam lo yog tu nyab yog leej twg ua phem ces cia nws phem kom kawg tsuav nws tsis txaj muag xwb
Omg karma is not over yet...
Been there done that , I know exactly how you feel
Koj tug nus tsiv mus yuav nyab Moob nes nwg mus yuav tau nyab dab lawv nawb.
Xav hnov cov lus zoo li no xwb tiag
That's why there's loans!!!
Tej laus twb hais tias nyiaj mus nyiaj luag ntxi nyiaj los nyiaj dub txig. twv kom kawg pluag kom tuag li thiaj ua os peb ua neej tsis hais ntau paub zoo lawm
Zaj no txhua yam tim koj tus nus tsis yog Txiv neej 100% koj tus nus 50/50 Poj niam thiab Txiv neej.
Cia kom nws txom nyem txaus txaus tso txhob rawm thim lus tu neeg phem ko mas nws yeej tsis tau lees nws lub txim li nawb
I like how the cheater insists on her demands/ultimatums. Ur brother needs to wake up & grow a backbone.
Sim neej no txawm yog yus families kiag los muaj ces pub xwb never txais li nawb !!
Txawm txheeb npaum twg los yuav tsum muaj receive los yog muaj lawyer sign
Qiv yooj yim tab si them.tsis yooj yim
You are right100% sister
Nyuaj lauj!... yg leejtwg ua phem raug maum phauj foom na.
Yeej yog mas, peb cov muam yeej hlub cov nus dua thiab tiag os! Sorry, you got conned by your brother and sister in law. If your nyab isn’t the way she is, your brother wouldn’t be the way he is towards you too but unfortunately your nyab is like that and he had to cut ties with you. Great lesson to learn for all of us.
I don't care if she is my brother's wife... I will do woodoo...LOL
Sister nej muaj nyiaj dhau lawm ne….ces zoo li ntawm ntag
Tsis yog peb muaj nyiaj dlau lawm na....yog vim tib txoj me kev uas yus pheej hlub2 luag xwb.
Pure evil. How can you sleep at night knowing you borrowed people money and never pay them back. Karma will be knocking at their door!
NEVER BORROW MONEY TO JUST YOUR BROTHER OR YOUR SISTER, HAVE BOTH PARTIES INVOLVED BE PRESENT. NO MATTER HOW CLOSE YOU ARE, HAVE A SIGNED DOCUMENT.
This is so sad!!! What an evil NYAB & brother!!!
Cov niag tsov tom maum hmoob mekas dev 😁😁
Tamsim no cov nus tuaj qiv nyiaj los yog txais nyiaj txhob muab nawb nus tiam tshiab no mas siab tsis zoo kiag lawm cia txais tom bank xwb
I want to know why the Nyab hates her so much? Besides the Phauj calling the cops for a wellness check, I don’t understand her reasoning. Was she ashamed for having an affair at work and took it out on the Phauj?
Some people just automatically hates you when they owe you money it doesn’t need much reasoning.
@@pavang5531 Yes, I understand the money part but there was already bad blood before that.
I would say it's because she's ashamed for having an affair at work and took it out on the sister
She's prob mad at the sister for interfering wit her relationship at work.
Because she told her brother to divorce his unfaithful wife
Wow!! I can’t believe Your brother n sister in law don’t seem to click and denied the whole facts
Kom nyab tuaj txhog caug pe ntawm taw tso mam thim lus. Koj xuam 20k rau nws, tabsis nws tsis tau lees ces teebmeem tseem tshuav. Tej txheeb ze sib txais nyiaj tsis them Meskas thiaj tsim txojcai kom yuav life ins pov qhov nqi ntawd thiab sau npe cog lus cia.
Such a shame, the nyab should be embarrassed. She probably was just too embarrassed to face the sister in law.
Nkauj muam nraug nus tsis txawj sib hlub mas tu siab tshaj plaws li
Contract or Lein hold, never to SIL. If they can’t purchase a car due to no money. Why would you loan that amount of money without no loan agreement paper. 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
Wow neb muaj nyiaj kawg, twb muaj yus tej menyuam es ua cas tsis muab rau lawv es hos kam muab rau nkawv. 20k is not little, it's going to take years or a lifetime to come back.
This story is kinda like me and my brother's wife right now. I use to help them soo much with money too. We use to love each other until i went and work with her and now she like a white guy at work. Now she cut me off from her life but idk. My brother is stupid like your brother too sister.
Brother needs to grow some B A L L S. It’s okay, sister. Karma will hit and they will crawl. You have a good heart and that’s all that matters.