If you only have plan A you do whatever it takes to get it done. If you have multiple plans you are not as hungry or mortivated or inspired. In fact it is very risky to have only plan A. Maybe that is why plan A better as the hardest things in life are usually the best.
In my opinion that is quite a naive conclusion and not wise at all. Just because someone prominent, successful and/or popular said something doesn't mean it will personally work for anyone. It needs to be verified personally to know how it works and if its beneficial or detrimental to a person. Stop the laziness and personally find the truth of the matter rather than relying on hearsay.
I don't think it's the same for everything. Say you guitar and you have a show. Did you prepare for it? No, Arnold said it's best if I don't. Show starts and you lose the pick. Wtf you do now? Stop the show? What if you prepared yourself like have spare picks in ur pockets? Have back up guitarist? When performance matter short term, I think it's better to prepare. When you're trying to get better for long term results and failures in between don't matter, they only make you better for sure.
@@tiberiusgrey1529 i think to figure out the truh of the matter it is importsnt to do both listen to people and think independently. No one can come up with everything no matter how smart.
@@badbed2202 Agreed, not to dismiss rational thought since that's where logic gets the input to process but what what my opinion meant was the use of extreme generalization ("same for everything") of the initial post is, in my opinion, misguided.
Getting married, having two kids, and having the same full-time job for 12 years now, was the best thing for me as an Ni inferior guy. I need those roots to keep me in check from my natural tendency to jump ship once I get content.
@@kevin6588 ultimately yes. I was hesitant, and struggle with it at times, but I know how much better I do with my projects and passions when I’m grounded.
As Ni hero (intj) this makes so much sense 😂 the only time I get anything done is when there’s a (rapidly approaching) deadline when I no longer have the freedom to consider all the possibilities and am FORCED to be productive. The deadline HAS to be with an external party, self imposed deadlines don’t really work (probably because of Fe caring for others experience more than one’s own)
The glasses and cigar make me laugh, but your understanding of your material is unmatched. These vids are helpful. They give me an outside perspective. I appreciate that you are a master of your craft. Thank you.
Thank you chase ❤️ I have always wondered why as an Ni hero it’s so hard for me to decide and why I’m so uncertain sometimes. Sometimes the possibilities are just too many and unclear
First came across you via your blog many years back and then found you on UA-cam and i'm so inspired by what you've been able to create here and how refined your knowledge on typology has become, super cutting edge!!! Well done. And thank you for being so generous and helpful with your insights. This particular video had value for me as a ni user.
That's so true , the worst thing that ever happened to me was having a lot of freedom over the last 2 or a bit more years and I failed a lot of things and got addicted to my phone . But I am also not good at all at working under pressure . I am trying hard to have self discipline and reading books and watching videos but it's damn tough , but I promise to god I will .
I noticed that I was so much more productive when I had an external job on top of my business. As well as when in a relationship. Very interesting to know why that is. Thanks!
Great video about Ni! Thanks for uploading it. Is there any chance you can do a video about isfj and esfp in a relationship? Like the good and the bad. Or their "turbulent" side. I just started to watch all of your videos, by far my favorite channel. Thank you Joseph
The only place to go from failure is to win. You dont fail you dont lose you learn and as long as you keep pushing forward succes is getting closer and closer.
@@badbed2202 that's very true. It's not that I fear failing. I actually have succeed in pretty much anyything I laid my eyes upon, personally, romantically or professionally. It's really the struggle of "committing to something I don't want to" that haunts me. What if I make the wrong choice? I keep telling friends, lovers, and partners to not let me do as I wish because, yeah, I will procrastinate and do nothing if given too much freedom.
@@maupeccin you have to grab on to what you know and believe and stick with it and keep an open mind. The problem is not doing what you want to do. The problem is doing nothing. Got to take risks mate stay away from confortable zone make a promise to yourself to try new shit every week and monitore it. When you notice you not trying new shit as you promised to yourself you are a loser and there is nothing you won't do to avoid the felling of being a loser.
This is what occupies my mind all the time every day, I feel as if my body and mind are divided into several things, I always try to convince myself that I have to choose and forget the rest of the things, then I say but I will also excel on the other side, this suffering continues daily even in simple activities sometimes I sit at the desk I have many activities to do and I keep thinking what should I do and the time passes quickly sometimes without doing anything!
I honestly did not even notice the wind until I went back and watched the videos again, other than that, the quality is great, and making videos outside is really calming for me, and I think for some of the other people on this channel, I do also like the white board, either way, both are usually good...
I love this beyond helpful lecture!!! Since I have a lot of Ni users in my life I can now see why they do what they do. Thank you! Quick question being that ni parent can make impulsive decisions how do you help them not do that? Is that about asking them if what they want is really necessary? Or do they really want it? Can it wait ? Etc? And is it better when they are more mature ?
This even happens to me while shopping. I can stand there and lose so much time even say, looking at shampoo. They are all like doors for me. If I take this one then, I may miss out on a better one. Maybe one that is better is also a better price. It is annoying to me.
When u said NI inferior doesn't want to commit because then you have to stop experimenting.. what's the reverse uno for SE inferiors? I want to commit, but I just don't want to experiment much? It does feel that way haha
I have noticed that there are recurring dynamics in the extended relationships between the different types. In my experience, if an INxJ is in a relationship with an ISxP, and an ENxP is a friend of both, there is a risk that the ENP, if immature and in its demon, could have derisive and devaluing inclinations towards the INxJ, because he sees him as a rival and has no intention of accepting what he is (Yes), so his self will push him to compete with the INxJ. In all of this, ISxPs might appreciate it, because their Ni baby is envious of INxJ's hidden potential and mysteriousness and their ability to perform, and they hate the hatred that their partner INxJ obscures them from making them. others note the qualities and beauty of the ISxP. The INxJ could in his demon that drags him into laziness, passivity and uncertainty.
interactive online whiteboard replicating your onscreen board would help me follow your line and join the flow, to much going on to track the one in your hand moving around everywhere
You lost me in this video, I think this video is mostly about ACTION and how that matters to Ni users of all kinds. While some actions can cause trouble it’s necessary for Ni users. It takes wisdom to fully understand Ni action. My two cents 🙂
WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP ajsmwk... like chase said it, the info might be scattered in diferent videos but he mentions that INFJs do need rules and limitations because if not we go crazy... but when it comes to conecting with one another in a relationship that's the time where we need freedom
The critisism about Si-Tricksters is so true. Today my mum went extra to the store to buy chocolate pudding only to burn it and having to clean the pot now 😂
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Arnold mentioned that having no backup plan makes you perform better in sports. I think that's the same for everything.
If you only have plan A you do whatever it takes to get it done. If you have multiple plans you are not as hungry or mortivated or inspired. In fact it is very risky to have only plan A. Maybe that is why plan A better as the hardest things in life are usually the best.
In my opinion that is quite a naive conclusion and not wise at all. Just because someone prominent, successful and/or popular said something doesn't mean it will personally work for anyone. It needs to be verified personally to know how it works and if its beneficial or detrimental to a person. Stop the laziness and personally find the truth of the matter rather than relying on hearsay.
I don't think it's the same for everything. Say you guitar and you have a show. Did you prepare for it? No, Arnold said it's best if I don't. Show starts and you lose the pick. Wtf you do now? Stop the show? What if you prepared yourself like have spare picks in ur pockets? Have back up guitarist? When performance matter short term, I think it's better to prepare. When you're trying to get better for long term results and failures in between don't matter, they only make you better for sure.
@@tiberiusgrey1529 i think to figure out the truh of the matter it is importsnt to do both listen to people and think independently. No one can come up with everything no matter how smart.
@@badbed2202 Agreed, not to dismiss rational thought since that's where logic gets the input to process but what what my opinion meant was the use of extreme generalization ("same for everything") of the initial post is, in my opinion, misguided.
Getting married, having two kids, and having the same full-time job for 12 years now, was the best thing for me as an Ni inferior guy. I need those roots to keep me in check from my natural tendency to jump ship once I get content.
What type did you marry?
@@doctor393 ENFP
ESFP here. Did doing that result in personal fulfillment and happiness?
@@kevin6588 ultimately yes. I was hesitant, and struggle with it at times, but I know how much better I do with my projects and passions when I’m grounded.
@@sirbradfordofhousejones yikes
As Ni hero (intj) this makes so much sense 😂 the only time I get anything done is when there’s a (rapidly approaching) deadline when I no longer have the freedom to consider all the possibilities and am FORCED to be productive. The deadline HAS to be with an external party, self imposed deadlines don’t really work (probably because of Fe caring for others experience more than one’s own)
The glasses and cigar make me laugh, but your understanding of your material is unmatched. These vids are helpful. They give me an outside perspective. I appreciate that you are a master of your craft. Thank you.
You don't know how I needed to hear this today , and then I open to immediately find this , thank you .
Thank you chase ❤️ I have always wondered why as an Ni hero it’s so hard for me to decide and why I’m so uncertain sometimes. Sometimes the possibilities are just too many and unclear
It’s also disgusting, we Ni users hate not getting what we want
Thank you for just answering a question that has been lingering on my mind for quite sometime now
First came across you via your blog many years back and then found you on UA-cam and i'm so inspired by what you've been able to create here and how refined your knowledge on typology has become, super cutting edge!!! Well done. And thank you for being so generous and helpful with your insights. This particular video had value for me as a ni user.
You are most welcome.
I’ve been watching your channel for months and still there are a lot to watch yet. love your hard work and thank you always!
That's so true , the worst thing that ever happened to me was having a lot of freedom over the last 2 or a bit more years and I failed a lot of things and got addicted to my phone . But I am also not good at all at working under pressure . I am trying hard to have self discipline and reading books and watching videos but it's damn tough , but I promise to god I will .
@@bruhh193 I am sorry but how do I do that , on Instagram you mean ? 😅
I noticed that I was so much more productive when I had an external job on top of my business. As well as when in a relationship. Very interesting to know why that is. Thanks!
Thanks for your time and thoughts. Hope you're well.
Great video about Ni! Thanks for uploading it. Is there any chance you can do a video about isfj and esfp in a relationship? Like the good and the bad. Or their "turbulent" side. I just started to watch all of your videos, by far my favorite channel. Thank you Joseph
This was a great video ! Thank you so much for the advice Chase
Ahh that makes sense. 😅
Great video! Thank you Chase.
Have you been reading my personal struggles log, Chase? lmao
As an ESTP, the fear of choosing and losing is so real to me. Reacting is so much easier.
The only place to go from failure is to win. You dont fail you dont lose you learn and as long as you keep pushing forward succes is getting closer and closer.
@@badbed2202 that's very true.
It's not that I fear failing. I actually have succeed in pretty much anyything I laid my eyes upon, personally, romantically or professionally. It's really the struggle of "committing to something I don't want to" that haunts me. What if I make the wrong choice?
I keep telling friends, lovers, and partners to not let me do as I wish because, yeah, I will procrastinate and do nothing if given too much freedom.
@@maupeccin you have to grab on to what you know and believe and stick with it and keep an open mind.
The problem is not doing what you want to do. The problem is doing nothing. Got to take risks mate stay away from confortable zone make a promise to yourself to try new shit every week and monitore it. When you notice you not trying new shit as you promised to yourself you are a loser and there is nothing you won't do to avoid the felling of being a loser.
This is what occupies my mind all the time every day, I feel as if my body and mind are divided into several things, I always try to convince myself that I have to choose and forget the rest of the things, then I say but I will also excel on the other side, this suffering continues daily even in simple activities sometimes I sit at the desk I have many activities to do and I keep thinking what should I do and the time passes quickly sometimes without doing anything!
Thanks for the information. Very helpful 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Loved this video. Hit the nail on the head for allot of issues.
The only freedom that comes to my INTJ mind is the ability of having to master our passion. That’s the only freedom I know. 😎
Finally someone understands!
The framing is really nice here, I like it.
I honestly did not even notice the wind until I went back and watched the videos again, other than that, the quality is great, and making videos outside is really calming for me, and I think for some of the other people on this channel, I do also like the white board, either way, both are usually good...
This is true. Thanks.
You deserve to have millions of followers.
I recommend Fight Club as supplemental material.
Thank you for the lecture.
Love this video! Thanks
So, is it a good decision to start doing IT management bachelor for an 32 year old women?
Intj
I was thinking about this exact idea just a day before this video getting released.
Same! The collective unconscious is real!
I love this beyond helpful lecture!!! Since I have a lot of Ni users in my life I can now see why they do what they do. Thank you! Quick question being that ni parent can make impulsive decisions how do you help them not do that? Is that about asking them if what they want is really necessary? Or do they really want it? Can it wait ? Etc? And is it better when they are more mature ?
Oo this is so true ,I never realy thought of that ,but yeah,you are right
This even happens to me while shopping. I can stand there and lose so much time even say, looking at shampoo. They are all like doors for me. If I take this one then, I may miss out on a better one. Maybe one that is better is also a better price. It is annoying to me.
Very useful information for us Ni users...
Is my man seriously just sitting on a random street, smoking a cigar, talking about personality psychology? That is hardcore
When u said NI inferior doesn't want to commit because then you have to stop experimenting.. what's the reverse uno for SE inferiors? I want to commit, but I just don't want to experiment much? It does feel that way haha
Aw that sucks , I can't hear the audio Chase.
Edited: I hear the audio now. Idk what happened 😶
I have noticed that there are recurring dynamics in the extended relationships between the different types.
In my experience, if an INxJ is in a relationship with an ISxP, and an ENxP is a friend of both, there is a risk that the ENP, if immature and in its demon, could have derisive and devaluing inclinations towards the INxJ, because he sees him as a rival and has no intention of accepting what he is (Yes), so his self will push him to compete with the INxJ.
In all of this, ISxPs might appreciate it, because their Ni baby is envious of INxJ's hidden potential and mysteriousness and their ability to perform, and they hate the hatred that their partner INxJ obscures them from making them. others note the qualities and beauty of the ISxP.
The INxJ could in his demon that drags him into laziness, passivity and uncertainty.
interactive online whiteboard replicating your onscreen board would help me follow your line and join the flow, to much going on to track the one in your hand moving around everywhere
why can't i join facebook group?
I think freedom hinders productivity for Ne users aswell. I argue especially since they see too much possibilites that disrupts concentration.
What is your discord
linktr.ee/csjoseph then click bottom link
no video or audio
This hits hard
Love
You lost me in this video, I think this video is mostly about ACTION and how that matters to Ni users of all kinds. While some actions can cause trouble it’s necessary for Ni users. It takes wisdom to fully understand Ni action. My two cents 🙂
I thought a rule for loving INFJs was giving them freedom though?
WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP ajsmwk... like chase said it, the info might be scattered in diferent videos but he mentions that INFJs do need rules and limitations because if not we go crazy... but when it comes to conecting with one another in a relationship that's the time where we need freedom
Sound is incredibly difficult, especially if it's live. Sometimes it's easier to just embrace what is going on around you
I definitely committed to the wrong marriage partner. Good to know that I would have picked the wrong one no matter what.
Dang
Can't hear you speaking !!! Or is it just me?
@C.S. Joseph
No audio yup
Omg How did you know for an Ni child life is like parkour????? So true with the chaos also -isfp
Dude, you have gone over the edge.
Why?
The audio is bad because you record in a bad place. If you will chose your home, you will read positive feedback.
Do you deny that I have surpassed the God tier? Noob S Yusup
Why doesn't c s usup get views no mo
Because I post what I want and not what YT wanrs
ENTJ
Looking like Andrew Tate😅😅😁😁
yeah if he was recovering from drugs
You out here looking like Andrew Tate
Lame. Between haircuts.
Andrew Tate inspired
*facepalm
@@CSJoseph can you explain? Maybe I am just unbelievably triggered ,but his spirit feels so dark to me . Maybe I am wrong ,but I can´t see it now .
@@CSJoseph can you?
high as fuck
The critisism about Si-Tricksters is so true. Today my mum went extra to the store to buy chocolate pudding only to burn it and having to clean the pot now 😂