How about being her mahram when she is out. Is that forced on him to do that. I know some husbands who send their wives lone to appointments or plces where they would have no choice but to interact with men because their to lazy to go themselves or at least go with them.
yes the tafsir explain it also within his rights this is nothing like unless its haram then in this case he can command everything but this is not true. I know some brothers like this idea but there you see how an abusive person they are if they search an maid who do everything
@@covidcol3505 if the husband is pleased with his wife then she gets to pick any door to Jannah. can the wife cook and feed her family properly? is she raising his children? is the wife taking care of the husband's needs? will this work compromise any of what is Fard upon the wife? will this work make her tired to fulfill the rights of her husband? will this work involve any Haraam?
@@7aemr can she walk out the house and visit friends or go to cafe or cinema with them. can she have friends around without husbands permission. and can she have many men or husbands to sleep with in jannah. and why does her husband decide if she goes to heaven.
@@covidcol3505 she needs the permission of the husband who enters his house when he’s not there Islam means to submit, if you have a problem with the roles and responsibilities of men and women then take it up with Allah
Huh? There is no such thing as obeying one's wife sister where did you see that in the deen? A man should listen to his wife's advice consult her if she is wise but after it all by marrying the man you trust him to take the decisions for the family.
@@hmzzrg5045 There are plenty of stupud men, who make terrible choices. Who are abusive don't pray smoke cheat in those instances if a man doesn't listen to his wife. Which he obviously should what then
@@maheraxo sister in that case just ask for khula so you can leave the marriage these things should have been checked before marriage asking a sibling or friend of his for information about his practices and lying in that case would be considered false testimony which is a major sin. May Allah grant you a strong and pious husband that you will feel proud to obey and that you will wholeheartedly trust to do the best decisions for his family. I just wanted to make it clear that there is nothing about obeying the wife in Islam however obeying Allah is of course obligatory and if it's your wife that brings you evidence that you are in the wrong the man should do his best to change.
@@maheraxo I suggest you speak to a sheikh or imam about this specific issue, these UA-cam comments shouldn't be taken as truth without references to such claims
a lot of focus on the husband. where is the same focus on the wife? a wife needs to join the husband after he has invited her to bed. why would a man take on the financial responsibility of another human being just to come home to a roommate instead of a coming home to a wife that is there for him and takes care of him while he takes care of her
Mashallah I learned a lot from u my brother may Allah swt protect you Ameen
A man should take care of the wife/wives period. Provide everything to the best of his abilities.
What to do if second husband in a row can’t satisfy my sexual needs??? I ask sex 2-3 times a day, but men nowadays are weak
@@ApplicationSubmitted 2 to 3x a day is is very much for even the the most active of men
May allah help you in your quest for a husband ameen
@@ApplicationSubmitted get up to four men then...whats good for the goose is good for the gander.
أطال الله حياتكم بالخير، ونفع بكم الأمة. وجزاكم الله خيرا. ويسعدكم في الدارين.
There are some men like that who don't like to give their wife those things she likes or needs. What to do then? Some men are just selfish and abusive
Leave them
The Woman has every right to divorce him.
Leave them
Allahu Akbar
How about being her mahram when she is out. Is that forced on him to do that. I know some husbands who send their wives lone to appointments or plces where they would have no choice but to interact with men because their to lazy to go themselves or at least go with them.
انا عهبك الله
A woman does not have to obey her husband she must obey her husband to what Allah has said,nowhere does it say to obey in everything unless its haraam
yes the tafsir explain it also within his rights this is nothing like unless its haram then in this case he can command everything but this is not true. I know some brothers like this idea but there you see how an abusive person they are if they search an maid who do everything
Where is this sheikh come from?
Does the man have the right to refuse the wife from working
no
@@covidcol3505 yez if it's too much
@@covidcol3505 if the husband is pleased with his wife then she gets to pick any door to Jannah.
can the wife cook and feed her family properly? is she raising his children? is the wife taking care of the husband's needs?
will this work compromise any of what is Fard upon the wife? will this work make her tired to fulfill the rights of her husband? will this work involve any Haraam?
@@7aemr can she walk out the house and visit friends or go to cafe or cinema with them. can she have friends around without husbands permission. and can she have many men or husbands to sleep with in jannah. and why does her husband decide if she goes to heaven.
@@covidcol3505 she needs the permission of the husband who enters his house when he’s not there
Islam means to submit, if you have a problem with the roles and responsibilities of men and women then take it up with Allah
What if a man is disobedient to his wife?
nothing
Huh? There is no such thing as obeying one's wife sister where did you see that in the deen? A man should listen to his wife's advice consult her if she is wise but after it all by marrying the man you trust him to take the decisions for the family.
@@hmzzrg5045 There are plenty of stupud men, who make terrible choices. Who are abusive don't pray smoke cheat in those instances if a man doesn't listen to his wife. Which he obviously should what then
@@maheraxo sister in that case just ask for khula so you can leave the marriage these things should have been checked before marriage asking a sibling or friend of his for information about his practices and lying in that case would be considered false testimony which is a major sin. May Allah grant you a strong and pious husband that you will feel proud to obey and that you will wholeheartedly trust to do the best decisions for his family. I just wanted to make it clear that there is nothing about obeying the wife in Islam however obeying Allah is of course obligatory and if it's your wife that brings you evidence that you are in the wrong the man should do his best to change.
@@maheraxo I suggest you speak to a sheikh or imam about this specific issue, these UA-cam comments shouldn't be taken as truth without references to such claims
a lot of focus on the husband. where is the same focus on the wife? a wife needs to join the husband after he has invited her to bed.
why would a man take on the financial responsibility of another human being just to come home to a roommate instead of a coming home to a wife that is there for him and takes care of him while he takes care of her