How Hope Can Change Your Life | Amy Downs | TEDxOklahomaCity

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  • Опубліковано 23 гру 2020
  • Can a person overcome the most difficult moments of their life? Amy Downs shows how people can not only survive, but how they can thrive if they have a hopeful mindset. The pathway of hope leads to all people creating a better future. Amy Downs was one of the last survivors to be pulled from the rubble of the 1995 Oklahoma City bombing in which a total of 168 people were killed including 18 of her 33 co-workers. While buried alive and waiting to die, she realized she had never really lived. She began her career as a teller 32 years ago working for Federal Employees Credit Union located in the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building. At the time of the bombing, Downs was a credit card loan officer who flunked out of college and weighed more than 350 pounds. In the coming years, she’d not only lose 200 pounds, but become a triathlete-and even compete in an Ironman Triathlon. She’d not only go back to school, but she’d graduate with a Masters of Business Administration. She’d not only get promoted by Federal Employees Credit Union (who would soon change their name to Allegiance Credit Union) but she eventually became its CEO-an award winning CEO, no less. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 171

  • @JadeTrading
    @JadeTrading 3 роки тому +84

    If you’re reading this I hope our 2021 be our best year

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 3 роки тому +2

      "Hope is as hollow as fear"

    • @piergiorgiopassera3976
      @piergiorgiopassera3976 3 роки тому +1

      ...or NOT...

    • @strawngheld
      @strawngheld 3 роки тому

      Well I think that you should reconsider the fact that many new strains of the cause that worsened 2020 are being created, and I don’t think that it will embrace 2021 with hope; But still, I wish to.

    • @MrVleker
      @MrVleker 3 роки тому

      That's what they said about 2020 lol

    • @lemaxx2638
      @lemaxx2638 3 роки тому

      Thanks darling. Same to you

  • @Rank_SSS
    @Rank_SSS 3 роки тому +67

    'I'm getting ready to die and I never even lived'.. I felt that

    • @piergiorgiopassera3976
      @piergiorgiopassera3976 3 роки тому +1

      = ... I'm thinking like you!

    • @pauldonjohnson4290
      @pauldonjohnson4290 3 роки тому +2

      I'm 23 year old male been diagnose with a incurable disease with 2 kids stuck in debt with a broken heart. I felt what she meant

  • @leowetzel2497
    @leowetzel2497 3 роки тому +16

    Who gave that a thumbs down? I generally have no emotions, but even I had a tear in my eye at the end.

  • @solf2000
    @solf2000 3 роки тому +11

    'Overwhelming Regret'; I felt you.

  • @SY-sp8uo
    @SY-sp8uo 3 роки тому +47

    Your mindset is everything!!

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 3 роки тому +4

      "Hope is as hollow as fear" -lao tzu.

  • @No.ThatPrettyGirl
    @No.ThatPrettyGirl 3 роки тому +17

    Simply brilliant and incredibly inspiring❣️
    I’ve never gone through a bombing but I went from an unwed 16 ur old to a recent MBA graduate 👩‍🎓 after surviving brain surgery and a literal death.
    THANK U for sharing ur story ❤️
    Merry Christmas to you and ur family 🎄

  • @admypagame
    @admypagame 3 роки тому +18

    *In a world that is in constant change we have to learn to adapt in order to survive. Life keeps going on no matter what we think about change or what happens to us, either we adapt or we are going to be left behind.*

  • @whiggygirl
    @whiggygirl 3 роки тому +28

    “Man can live about forty days without food, about three days without water, about eight minutes without air...but only for one second without hope.”

  • @Craznar
    @Craznar 3 роки тому +8

    Hope is an addictive and destructive hallucinogen, best to live in reality.

    • @antoneverbright
      @antoneverbright 3 роки тому +2

      Hope is valuable, in minuscule homeopathic doses.

  • @nasirsiraj416
    @nasirsiraj416 3 роки тому +6

    My note over the lecture:
    i. It is not what happens to you, but how you choose to react to it, that matters.
    ii. Response with the power of hope.
    iii. I'm getting ready to die and I've never even lived.
    iv. I begged God for a second chance.
    v. Hope is the belief that your future can be better and brighter and that you actually play a role in making it better.
    vi. With your current situation and current limitation, what's that path?
    vii. Instead of focusing on what you can't do, focus on what you can.
    viii. The simple exercise of what you can asking yourself, if I had a magic wand, what would I do with my current situation and current limitation.
    ix. The best way to react and respond in this life is to respond with the power of hope.

    • @Accomandoc
      @Accomandoc Рік тому

      Thank you for your notes! I’m going to use it for my guide to help myself. I need to pick myself up and try to believe in myself again.

  • @Tai-chan.
    @Tai-chan. 3 роки тому +28

    We all need hope for the up coming year...Happy holidays

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 3 роки тому

      Speak for yourself. You been brainwashed into thunking hope is a good thing. Hope causes suffering. I choose acceptance.

    • @yararivera2909
      @yararivera2909 3 роки тому

      Read this and began to sob

    • @LuckyGuu
      @LuckyGuu 3 роки тому

      Happy holidays? Not for the people in Nashville, Christmas Day bombing 2020.

  • @PhelipeNascimentoo
    @PhelipeNascimentoo 3 роки тому +3

    What an incredible speech!!!!

  • @barbarailarpenter6815
    @barbarailarpenter6815 3 роки тому +1

    Wonderful and inspiring! You give me hope. Thank you!! You have achieved so much. Wow!
    I'm sorry you had to go through that day, though. I am sorry you lost friends and co workers. Best of everything to you always!

  • @akatukwasaannonciata4639
    @akatukwasaannonciata4639 3 роки тому +5

    I truly love this speech ( true, hope has carried me mountains of overcoming my fears)
    How l feel l would meet you in person coz we seem to share something in common.

  • @virginiaaraiza8485
    @virginiaaraiza8485 3 роки тому +1

    What an amazing woman. Thank you for posting this video.💗

  • @luisegeibel1167
    @luisegeibel1167 3 роки тому +1

    Big thank you for this! You wanted to give me hope - it worked. All the Best!

  • @thexpax
    @thexpax Рік тому

    this is🌷medicine
    i bawled my eyes out

  • @truenorthaffirmations7049
    @truenorthaffirmations7049 3 роки тому +3

    Hope is the target, DISCIPLINE IS THE ARROW

  • @catashtrophe0
    @catashtrophe0 3 роки тому

    Amazing person, speaker and mindset. Thanks for telling your story

  • @Accomandoc
    @Accomandoc Рік тому

    God bless you. I don’t even have words for your experience. You are an incredible incredible inspiration to me. Thank you for sharing your story and showing how tragedy CAN turn into greater.

  • @mickmcmenemy7701
    @mickmcmenemy7701 3 роки тому

    Genuinely inspiring. Thank you.

  • @vthilton
    @vthilton 3 роки тому

    Sharing, Justice and Peace for All

  • @clarehart5892
    @clarehart5892 2 роки тому

    Soooo inspirational. Thank you!

  • @giftedgreen2152
    @giftedgreen2152 3 роки тому +4

    Hope is a placebo for people with an abundance of emotions.

    • @notspecified2092
      @notspecified2092 3 роки тому +1

      Placebos work for some people.

    • @giftedgreen2152
      @giftedgreen2152 3 роки тому

      Tony do you think Alex Honnold would've been able to climb El Capitan if he had an abundance of emotion?

  • @strawngheld
    @strawngheld 3 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @kamleshkarol3102
    @kamleshkarol3102 3 роки тому +1

    Much helpful.. thanks for such words❤️

  • @azpacfan
    @azpacfan 3 роки тому

    WOW!! Thank you for sharing.

  • @islandgirl8914
    @islandgirl8914 3 роки тому

    Power of Hope...bravo. Iron Woman.

  • @cindyhalpern3187
    @cindyhalpern3187 Рік тому

    Incredible!
    I am glad you survived and transformed your life!

  • @rajeshwarithakur7143
    @rajeshwarithakur7143 3 роки тому +4

    "Hope", just bcoz of this i am alive and fighting my battle. I will win.

  • @Krentiles
    @Krentiles 3 роки тому

    Very inspiring. Thank you.

  • @alexricci1468
    @alexricci1468 3 роки тому +2

    Respect!!

  • @theclavers
    @theclavers 3 роки тому +2

    Power of Hope comes from the Lord🙏🏿🙏🏿 thank you for sharing 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @sujata8957
    @sujata8957 3 роки тому

    Beautiful story, thank you for sharing

  • @nicosauvegarde7173
    @nicosauvegarde7173 3 роки тому

    Such a wonderful speach!

  • @positivevibes7782
    @positivevibes7782 3 роки тому

    Gorgeous woman and fantastic speech! Thank you ❤️ Wish you a very Merry Christmas 🌲

  • @sadekamullings269
    @sadekamullings269 2 роки тому

    Very powerful story. Thanks!

  • @camzula86
    @camzula86 3 роки тому +2

    I remember the okc bombing. I lived an hour north in Stillwater.

  • @naders.
    @naders. 3 роки тому +1

    I like her spirit ✨

  • @tiffanyolson5466
    @tiffanyolson5466 2 роки тому

    Thank you!

  • @TheHoriznLine
    @TheHoriznLine 3 роки тому

    I love her personality

  • @MarkNokesGuitar
    @MarkNokesGuitar 3 роки тому +2

    Many commenters are confusing hope with expectation. It is expectation at the root of suffering. Hope is beautiful.

  • @kimberlyj.5780
    @kimberlyj.5780 3 роки тому

    Way to go! How inspiring 🍃

  • @champkapilchhetri3836
    @champkapilchhetri3836 3 роки тому

    Such an inspirational story

  • @valeriejoyce5407
    @valeriejoyce5407 3 роки тому

    Thank You ✨💜✨

  • @angelikachakoglu2218
    @angelikachakoglu2218 3 роки тому

    i really like this speech . thank you very much .

  • @user-Rd-777
    @user-Rd-777 3 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @davebrady2389
    @davebrady2389 3 роки тому

    Incredible. 🖤

  • @raycrouse624
    @raycrouse624 3 роки тому

    Fabulous job Amy!

  • @mlegrand
    @mlegrand 3 роки тому

    Great message! And congrats on your Ironman finish 👏

  • @wiel5908
    @wiel5908 3 роки тому

    when someone say something about hope i remember about hope' s peak academy and the despair

  • @murlandelucien6526
    @murlandelucien6526 3 роки тому +3

    This so good

  • @111mph
    @111mph 3 роки тому

    hope must be followed by changing mindset.

  • @purashthapa4495
    @purashthapa4495 3 роки тому +1

    Hope 💐

  • @uskjabjrenfsvj4421
    @uskjabjrenfsvj4421 3 роки тому +8

    In fearful day, in raging night,
    With strong hearts full, our souls ignite,
    When all seems lost in the War of Light,
    Look to the stars--
    For hope burns bright!
    Yes it's the blue lantern oath
    :v

  • @InKind-nessMatters
    @InKind-nessMatters 3 роки тому

    Thank you for bringing and clarifying the world health challenge by putting it in perspective of trust and hope !!! Thank you for this!!! .... why not feel good before the new year starts by....Start new year resolutions as a habit already out there .....sign up on Eventbrite for a 3 part series celebrating feeling good!🤍💜💙💚💛🧡❤️ ...and it’s all free! One time airing!

  • @bilikdotid
    @bilikdotid 3 роки тому

    Great, we need hope to living life

  • @RohitKumar-xr3vn
    @RohitKumar-xr3vn 3 роки тому

    Thank u 🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @silviupavel6966
    @silviupavel6966 3 роки тому

    Love you 💓🤗 you re amazing!

  • @yz4043
    @yz4043 3 роки тому

    I needed this and ngl I actually searched the word "hope" to find it

  • @bcvc3365
    @bcvc3365 3 роки тому

    Thoughts become things. Watch your thoughts! This universe is mental meaning everything is created by thought.

  • @Awesomes007
    @Awesomes007 6 місяців тому

    Some don’t have choices in how they respond.

  • @andebetmedia7655
    @andebetmedia7655 3 роки тому +1

    Hope!!!!!!!!

  • @obiapunamichael
    @obiapunamichael 3 роки тому +1

    Great video

  • @amanchander7837
    @amanchander7837 3 роки тому +2

    Nice video!!

  • @SagaciousSix
    @SagaciousSix 3 роки тому

    WOW!

  • @abdulazizs8920
    @abdulazizs8920 3 роки тому

    Hope is the human fuel, the more you have the more you last. Aziz Jobs

  • @rahuldhiman2758
    @rahuldhiman2758 3 роки тому +1

    Happy new year in advance .. 🥳🥳😊😊😊💓❣️

  • @coudry1
    @coudry1 3 роки тому

    One consciousness experiences various perspectives of reality..

  • @3dyem
    @3dyem 3 роки тому +1

    That's so great ❤️

  • @exampreperation2201
    @exampreperation2201 3 роки тому

    Stay hopefull then life change.

  • @prosenjitchandraroy3728
    @prosenjitchandraroy3728 3 роки тому

    I think is very usefull talk

  • @space-time1208
    @space-time1208 3 роки тому

    Hope is the worst thing

  • @dusariseshagirirao7805
    @dusariseshagirirao7805 3 роки тому

    Happy Christmas friends

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 3 роки тому +4

    Merry Christmas🤩😇

  • @MrVleker
    @MrVleker 3 роки тому +8

    Is it funny that her last name is Downs? Like she could use so hope to get back up 🤔

  • @Shazistic
    @Shazistic 3 роки тому +4

    Life is 10% what happens to us & 90% how we react to it
    -Shazistic

  • @theclavers
    @theclavers 3 роки тому

    Everyone who is watching please watch our videos sharing love with the needy🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 Merry Christmas

  • @BrownCookieBoy
    @BrownCookieBoy 3 роки тому

    As long as we dont 100% depend on hope

  • @ashmeadali
    @ashmeadali Рік тому

    Build spiritual confidence the easy way. Sing HU every day. The free HU app shows how.

  • @KangRoso
    @KangRoso 3 роки тому

    Yes I hope my live... 🤔🙏👍👍👍☕🇮🇩

  • @Campanita1313
    @Campanita1313 3 роки тому +4

    Whoever said hope is the solution 🙄 lived in a alternate reality 🙌

  • @JaysonT1
    @JaysonT1 3 роки тому +2

    Hope is NOT a good thing. Where hope exists, acceptance can not.

    • @user-pl7tf9gv8e
      @user-pl7tf9gv8e 3 роки тому

      It is a good thing, at least for me.

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 3 роки тому

      @@user-pl7tf9gv8e Hope is a desire of something obtained in the future. This is the recipe for suffering. Hope and fear are the same.

    • @user-pl7tf9gv8e
      @user-pl7tf9gv8e 3 роки тому

      @@JaysonT1 Hope gave me inspirations to become the better *me* . The real hope would blow your mind. I had experienced it.

  • @cece3194
    @cece3194 3 роки тому

    "Challenges" = lies. react with anger.

  • @user-pi8bf6sr4r
    @user-pi8bf6sr4r 3 роки тому +1

    Hope is torture

  • @mimieariffin8279
    @mimieariffin8279 3 роки тому +8

    I can imagine how she looks like in 1990s

  • @LMBOatU
    @LMBOatU 3 роки тому +1

    Someone call up j-hope and tell him he is on the right track with his message. Amazing

  • @ushasreenivas3440
    @ushasreenivas3440 3 роки тому +1

    Could u pls include subtitles 🙏

  • @rospiya
    @rospiya 3 роки тому +4

    i misread the title as "how dope can change your life" and i think that about sums it up...

  • @islandgirl8914
    @islandgirl8914 3 роки тому

    Remedial math 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

  • @elsajohansson5316
    @elsajohansson5316 3 роки тому +1

    my names hope and I’m pretty sure I can’t 🤣🤣

  • @musaritrashid2517
    @musaritrashid2517 3 роки тому

    Where I should work

  • @hasancanozturk5408
    @hasancanozturk5408 3 роки тому +1

    Merhaba herkese :)

  • @musaritrashid2517
    @musaritrashid2517 3 роки тому

    I don't like to play with children and I don't like to continue touching or touching anyone body for no purpose I like to work with people I mean I like to study I like to shake hand I have two weakness 1 is I cannt listen 2ndly I can't watch these two I have to build for different situation where to watch how much watch where to listen what to listen where and how to listen then how to react back.

  • @user-ob6wx9lr6j
    @user-ob6wx9lr6j 3 роки тому

    🐝❤🧡💛💚💙💜💞🕊🌍🕊🌐🕊I WISH YOU🕊ALL THE BEST FOR 2021🕊💞🌈GRATITUDE🕊🌈HOPE🕊&LOVE🕊💞MARIE🕊🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯💖🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @musaritrashid2517
    @musaritrashid2517 3 роки тому

    Where I should work fast where slow

  • @tedyshor
    @tedyshor 3 роки тому

    I would have used the magic wand to prevent the bombing, not be better at my job... But that's just me.

  • @Ella.L.
    @Ella.L. 3 роки тому +2

    Who else read dope instead of hope? 😅🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @totheend32
    @totheend32 3 роки тому

    I didn't expect a sermon from TEDx today 🙄

  • @MrDougfunny7
    @MrDougfunny7 3 роки тому +4

    Hope is the enemy actually.

    • @mai6553
      @mai6553 3 роки тому +1

      Are you a proponent of fear and pain? Interesting.

    • @giftedgreen2152
      @giftedgreen2152 3 роки тому

      Hope is so 2008.

    • @garyraab9132
      @garyraab9132 3 роки тому +2

      Hope is not exactly an enemy, but more like a hinderance to understanding reality.
      Instead of putting faith into ‘hope’ for a better outcome, we all need to ask yourselves, ‘Where am I?’ What could I do to improve the situation?’ and ‘What are the risks and benefits associated with each maneuver?’
      There isn’t a magic wand...there is however random chance...and we forget that we have much better odds just by living in North America.
      if we want a better World, an evangelical motivational talk is not going to do the trick.
      In the 21st-century, we must start paying more attention to reality, the reality of the environment, the reality of the importance of energy, and the reality of just how simple our brains are to being tricked into thinking that we are something divinely magical.
      It’s great that she made it out from under the rubble of a bomb blast... but there are hundreds of millions, if not billions of people in history that have not survived bomb blasts.
      humans are incredibly naïve if they think they can magically will themselves into a better life on earth... or into a enlightened afterlife!

    • @MrDougfunny7
      @MrDougfunny7 3 роки тому

      @@garyraab9132 absolutely