Oh Nathan... Things have been sorted out between them, but he has doubts... what a wimp. He should stay all alone. It's just because Gina doesn't immediately trust him blindly that he starts "crying"...
She's not doubting Nate. She "may not know what happened that night" ,but she's actively making a choice to believe Nate over the friend that's shown herself to be false. She's actively choosing to believe and trust Nate. But there was a brief point where she didn't. And that damaged their relationship. No one wants to have to go through life constantly having to prove themself. And now he has to be wondering: if she so easily believed such accusations the first time, how easily might she believe such accusations if they come again from a (seemingly) more credible source?
A good story. Finally there's not some idiot woman who doesn't know how to sort herself out, and actually believes the guy. We need more common sense stories like this.
So, you USED him as WELL as YOURSELF a slave for your LEECH of a friend AND she was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO JEALOUS she started affecting the relationship. You also knew her problematic behavior interfering with ALL of your relationships and kept her in your life AND questioned HIS TRUTH which WAS THE TRUTH. I would have told YOU GOOD RIDDANCE.
for once i am on the womans side - nate said trust was lost - lets examine that for a second - any person - man or woman would at least initally believe thier best friend - at least this woman had the common sense to see through the manipulation and end it - and pretty quickly - and apologized - again this was a best friend of 10 years - who had never pulled this " one " before - so it wasnt necessarily doubt in the bf but trust in a 10 yr friendship = im actually surprised that she didnt stay with the best friends narrative of events and take her side - but kudos to her for seeing through that and nate should be happy that she " chose " him over her bestie = thats big - so nate it wasnt a loss of trust as i see it but rather a building of trust - she saw thru her friends bs and believed you without concrete proof - in my book thats having your back
You can't have one without the other. It's impossible to hold to opposing positions at the same time. Sure, she trusted her best friend and by default, doubted Nate. Even in the end of the story when she's talking about how she'll never know what "really" happened in the car that night, she's still doubting Nate.
@@sbradley3008 i agree but she went against 10 yrs relationship / trust vs 3 yrs with him - and normally this would take people weeks / monthes to dump a bestie and believe the bf if it even ever happened - but yes she did doubt him briefly and possibly still but she still chose him
@@areyouexp4 I don't disagree with anything you said, but there's one thing missing. You're talking about her perspective. Nate is the one that was betrayed and has every right to feel that way. It doesn't matter why. It happened and now it's up to him, not her, to decide if she's worth staying in a relationship. There are very few things more damaging to a relationship, romantic or platonic, than being falsely accused of something and not believed.
totally agree with you, my friend. No one is obligated to trust anyone 100%. Naten has a bit of a feminine emotional side. I hate guys like that. Of course, you'd feel upset if your girlfriend doubted you, but acting as if it's the end of trust altogether is just foolish, in my opinion. Naten seems to have been raised a bit too femininely. I believe no one should trust anyone 100%. Look at the stories it's always the guys who love too much and trust 100% that end up being cheated on. by the way, i liked your comment. I guess I'll be the only one who does.
@@sbradley3008 he wasnt betrayed to speak of... my point was you / anybody will believe thier friend of 10 yrs at least initially and i didnt think she would see the light at all but she did and within days - id count that as a win for the dude
After the call with beka he should habe pulled the ring out and said this is what you could of had but your belived your Alcoholic friend over me we are done get out and nver come back and when you find out the truth beka was lieing stay gone
When it comes to relationships with men a woman's worst enemy is another woman usually a close friend or even a sister. Your friends want what you have and the happier you seem the more they want it.. Face it guys are for the most part weak, a good looking woman offers and it is hard for most to say no, hey bitch gripe and complain about us but it is how we are wired . It's not unreasonable for this woman to believe the story her best friend told her , it was her best friend and wow best friends top the list of those your BF or husband has cheated with.. if this were a real guy sure he would be upset but also would know that what his Girl believed was something the majority would have believed... While most these stories are made up some like this have a twist that makes them at least interesting...
Oh Nathan... Things have been sorted out between them, but he has doubts... what a wimp. He should stay all alone. It's just because Gina doesn't immediately trust him blindly that he starts "crying"...
Even at the end, she's still doubting Nate. You can't fix broken people.
She's not doubting Nate.
She "may not know what happened that night" ,but she's actively making a choice to believe Nate over the friend that's shown herself to be false. She's actively choosing to believe and trust Nate.
But there was a brief point where she didn't. And that damaged their relationship.
No one wants to have to go through life constantly having to prove themself.
And now he has to be wondering: if she so easily believed such accusations the first time, how easily might she believe such accusations if they come again from a (seemingly) more credible source?
@@JB-bb4su "seemingly more credible source" Do you even hear your own words? That is the definition of doubt.
A good story. Finally there's not some idiot woman who doesn't know how to sort herself out, and actually believes the guy. We need more common sense stories like this.
So, you USED him as WELL as YOURSELF a slave for your LEECH of a friend AND she was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO JEALOUS she started affecting the relationship. You also knew her problematic behavior interfering with ALL of your relationships and kept her in your life AND questioned HIS TRUTH which WAS THE TRUTH. I would have told YOU GOOD RIDDANCE.
Single women keep women single
for once i am on the womans side - nate said trust was lost - lets examine that for a second - any person - man or woman would at least initally believe thier best friend - at least this woman had the common sense to see through the manipulation and end it - and pretty quickly - and apologized - again this was a best friend of 10 years - who had never pulled this " one " before - so it wasnt necessarily doubt in the bf but trust in a 10 yr friendship = im actually surprised that she didnt stay with the best friends narrative of events and take her side - but kudos to her for seeing through that and nate should be happy that she " chose " him over her bestie = thats big - so nate it wasnt a loss of trust as i see it but rather a building of trust - she saw thru her friends bs and believed you without concrete proof - in my book thats having your back
You can't have one without the other. It's impossible to hold to opposing positions at the same time. Sure, she trusted her best friend and by default, doubted Nate. Even in the end of the story when she's talking about how she'll never know what "really" happened in the car that night, she's still doubting Nate.
@@sbradley3008 i agree but she went against 10 yrs relationship / trust vs 3 yrs with him - and normally this would take people weeks / monthes to dump a bestie and believe the bf if it even ever happened - but yes she did doubt him briefly and possibly still but she still chose him
@@areyouexp4 I don't disagree with anything you said, but there's one thing missing. You're talking about her perspective. Nate is the one that was betrayed and has every right to feel that way. It doesn't matter why. It happened and now it's up to him, not her, to decide if she's worth staying in a relationship. There are very few things more damaging to a relationship, romantic or platonic, than being falsely accused of something and not believed.
totally agree with you, my friend. No one is obligated to trust anyone 100%. Naten has a bit of a feminine emotional side. I hate guys like that. Of course, you'd feel upset if your girlfriend doubted you, but acting as if it's the end of trust altogether is just foolish, in my opinion. Naten seems to have been raised a bit too femininely. I believe no one should trust anyone 100%. Look at the stories it's always the guys who love too much and trust 100% that end up being cheated on. by the way, i liked your comment. I guess I'll be the only one who does.
@@sbradley3008 he wasnt betrayed to speak of... my point was you / anybody will believe thier friend of 10 yrs at least initially and i didnt think she would see the light at all but she did and within days - id count that as a win for the dude
Becca is a nightmare.
You can trust but you also need to validate to blindly trust is in the environment we live in .she trusted her friend look what happened
After the call with beka he should habe pulled the ring out and said this is what you could of had but your belived your Alcoholic friend over me we are done get out and nver come back and when you find out the truth beka was lieing stay gone
When it comes to relationships with men a woman's worst enemy is another woman usually a close friend or even a sister. Your friends want what you have and the happier you seem the more they want it.. Face it guys are for the most part weak, a good looking woman offers and it is hard for most to say no, hey bitch gripe and complain about us but it is how we are wired .
It's not unreasonable for this woman to believe the story her best friend told her , it was her best friend and wow best friends top the list of those your BF or husband has cheated with.. if this were a real guy sure he would be upset but also would know that what his Girl believed was something the majority would have believed...
While most these stories are made up some like this have a twist that makes them at least interesting...
Well,I not gonna guess at the endings anymore,Ineed to unsubscribe.....