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  • @relikvia4
    @relikvia4 6 днів тому +13

    6:00 - Will you go to south africa
    7:25 - Advice on raising children
    9:24 - what do you do to keep the passion alive
    11:00 - Goals for 2025
    14:50 - what was it like for Brian to come out to BJ
    17:20 - Would you mentor other gay men on how to live their life?
    19:40 - Pro/con list of moving to Atlanta
    21:48 - how did you guys meet
    22:27 - Alec have you ever dated a girl
    24:25 - Does Alec want to have kids of his own
    25:30 - how do you handle disagreements while recording vlogs
    26:55 - will you do more live sessions
    27:15 - how do people hit on you diffeent and togethe
    27:57 - secret to a long healthy relationship
    29:30 - plans for physiotherapy
    30:18 - most thankful moment of 2024
    32:45 - who is the top and bottom
    34:19 - do you wear your rings on your right hand
    35:00 - how are you adjusting to your new home
    35:44 - tips for making new friends in a new city and maintaining long friendships
    38:15 - what is your daily routine
    40:00 - when are you visiting Barbados
    40:45 - Are you concerned about Trump deporting people
    41:50 - are you open to adding new people to your friend circle
    42:45 - can I have dinner with the Mazelins

  • @aritruths1452
    @aritruths1452 6 днів тому +55

    For the life of God I wish people would stop with this Top and Bottom stuff. It’s so intrusive and rude to asks. It’s no one’s business what goes on behind close doors in others peoples bedrooms. Y’all be safe and stay blessed!

    • @MikoLee113
      @MikoLee113 6 днів тому +4

      Exactly 🎯😖😬🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @nicolesmith8889
      @nicolesmith8889 6 днів тому +3

      Couldn't have sd better

    • @johnhagans2190
      @johnhagans2190 6 днів тому

      That question reinforces patriarchal- hetero normality. Someone must be the active participant in sex to make it palatable & fit the status quo. 😊

    • @aprilmcfarlin8137
      @aprilmcfarlin8137 6 днів тому +2

      Amen…

    • @sandypetto09
      @sandypetto09 6 днів тому +3

      So disrespectful 🥵☺️

  • @erviatyler656
    @erviatyler656 6 днів тому +9

    Alec, thank you for making that bold statement. I am very proud of both of you. There are no limits in a married couple bedroom. I love both of you as you are. Keep loving each other like you do. Alec, you're BJ's dad. BJ, respect and love you dearly, and it shows. I enjoyed the Q and A. Brian, I'm so glad you're healing and doing great. Continue to take care of each other. Much love to the Mazelin family ❤❤❤!!!

  • @Christopher-vi1bj
    @Christopher-vi1bj 6 днів тому +3

    Brian and Alec, I just finished watching and I have to tell you-when it comes to mentoring, you’re already doing it. You’re mentoring men and women alike who are navigating challenges similar to what you’ve faced as a couple or individually. By sharing your story, you’re offering a fresh perspective, giving people hope, and demonstrating what love truly looks like in real time, you are the very definition of what mentoring is all about. Thank you both for being exactly who you are-your authenticity is inspiring.

  • @MikoLee113
    @MikoLee113 6 днів тому +9

    Hi Nephews it's your old Auntie from the Chi❤ about that mentor question...I look at this channel and the fact that you both are so brave to give us a peek into your lives is a form of mentoring. Real life through your lenses. I'm a single heterosexual woman over 50 and I am inspired by and learning about the life of 2 gay black, married men raising a young black male in this vast world we live in! All I can say is Thank you and keep doing what you're doing❤💚💛🧡💙💜🖤❣

  • @condoyle8963
    @condoyle8963 День тому +1

    I believe I was an African lady in my last life! so very proud!❤🧡💚

  • @harbornick3209
    @harbornick3209 2 дні тому

    Enjoy listening and learning from you two. You are already mentoring to so many people. Everyone is a working progress until the end. I’m in between your ages (33) I look up to both of you, things you do and how to live happily, openly, free, and continue to grow.

  • @nicolesmith8889
    @nicolesmith8889 6 днів тому +7

    Those who might not understand the premise of Meet The Mazelins youtube platform- It is a family, raising a child n dealing with everyday life demands like most of us straight or gay platform not their sexual activities.

  • @TemujinScott80
    @TemujinScott80 6 днів тому +4

    Thank you both for answering my question! Happy Sunday!

  • @treidon6098
    @treidon6098 5 днів тому

    @Brian and Alec on the question about mentorship, the both of you are already doing this through your platform. You have touched so many lives and provided us with so many gems of wisdom, courage and acceptance. We all are still growing and learning but what I can say for me is that I’ve learned so much about myself and how to do life the right way just by watching and listening to you each week. The way how you both have navigated this journey with such class, grace, dignity, positivity and accountability gives me so much hope for my future. And, the fact that you too have motivated and inspired so many stands as a true testament of your impact. I am privileged to have and continue to experience your tutelage. I am a proud participant in your master class. Thank you.

  • @necy
    @necy 6 днів тому

    Alec is truly such a light 😊 From the days of being student council president at comc to now, always has a smile on his face and such a warm personality.

  • @garycopeland1675
    @garycopeland1675 2 дні тому

    The vlog was so good.
    I really enjoyed it guys.

  • @puddyroots
    @puddyroots 6 днів тому

    Brian you said it. Representation is a form of mentorship.. so both of you keep on doing what you’re doing from a place of love and honesty as you are helping those who don’t have a voice of the courage to find themselves and their own.

  • @esperanzobest448
    @esperanzobest448 6 днів тому +1

    Happy Sunday Mazz family!❤❤ Thanks for inspiring us all. Take care

  • @terrierodrigues4530
    @terrierodrigues4530 6 днів тому +2

    Hailing from Grenada. Totally enjoy your Vlog. Happy for you both😊

  • @rose4u111
    @rose4u111 6 днів тому +3

    Great content, Mazelins! I enjoyed this Q & A session.👍🏾

  • @moniquecampbell1237
    @moniquecampbell1237 6 днів тому +2

    Happy Sunday loves! Looking great Brian🙌🏽

  • @sandypetto09
    @sandypetto09 6 днів тому +1

    Hi Brian and Alec, So happy Brian is healing nicely. Thank God🙏🏾🙏🏾 Have a great week ahead. Much love💜💜

  • @Char.isGrtflandThnkflHPraiseUp
    @Char.isGrtflandThnkflHPraiseUp 6 днів тому +1

    Of all the wonderful things you two are, no limits to the positive, impactful things you do, being love is one of my favs, you are sooo cute, courageous & cuddly in energy & spirit!! 🙏🏼Covering

  • @jenniferdaly2566
    @jenniferdaly2566 6 днів тому +1

    Happy sunday guys, love your answers, Brian speedy recovery

  • @mustangsally2606
    @mustangsally2606 6 днів тому +1

    I agree, Alec. Curiosity needs to stop. Thanks for a great video. Both of you are looking great!! ❤❤

  • @shefflontidwell8216
    @shefflontidwell8216 5 днів тому

    Just by you both sharing your lives so openly you are mentoring others!

  • @sandyhunter-young641
    @sandyhunter-young641 6 днів тому +5

    Hey Beautiful People! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! You two just don’t know how BLESSED you are just be encouraging and mentoring others keep doing what you’re doing and wait for the rewards! Alec you got these upcoming exams and Brian keep sitting ya ass down and listening you’re on a great start and
    Hug BJ & Mom! SMOOCHES💙💙🩵💕#AUNTIESANDY

  • @TheGaloof
    @TheGaloof 6 днів тому +1

    Great video guys. Its 7 degrees here. Hopefully you're staying warm. You answered all the questions with your typical class. You guys would make great mentors for the younger community and you always put a smile on this old guys face too. Have a 😂 day.

  • @Ssibenya
    @Ssibenya 3 дні тому

    🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
    Hey, Hey Fam.
    I love yals entire existence, Brain seems to be doing much better, glad to see that. 😅
    Brian’s answer to how to keep the spark alive love it! 😂😊

  • @carolbernard-williams8555
    @carolbernard-williams8555 6 днів тому +2

    Enjoy the vlog as usual admire you guys a lot keep on living your truth

  • @deniselewis1842
    @deniselewis1842 4 дні тому

    Love YOU GUYS ❤❤

  • @OpalGrant-q5x
    @OpalGrant-q5x 6 днів тому +1

    Happy sunday to you both ❤🎉🎉

  • @dawnj8989
    @dawnj8989 6 днів тому

    Auntie Dawn deh here!! Praying for a speedy recovery cause mi still a wait fi we dinner date!! Love the couch yes Temu!!! And dem people dem bright yah know ah ask question bout unah love life dem fi gway!! Drink wata and mind unah business!!! Low my nephew dem!!!❤❤ we’ll probably link up right around spring I hope.

  • @GeejayFoodmart
    @GeejayFoodmart 6 днів тому +1

    My favorite couple 👨‍❤️‍👨 ❤❤❤
    Thank you for answering my question ⁉️.... I enjoy the video so much you two are the best.
    Speedy recovery Brian
    Brian did you climb upstairs?

  • @kapayakalilombe6807
    @kapayakalilombe6807 6 днів тому +2

    Ah❤❤❤ the couch convos😊

  • @jackiethompson3144
    @jackiethompson3144 6 днів тому +1

    Happy Sunday Mazelins, Blessings

  • @patriciajames2537
    @patriciajames2537 6 днів тому

    Hi Brian n Alec. You are already mentors to men and women. Love you guys. Nuff love n blessings.

  • @KayeJaye
    @KayeJaye 2 дні тому

    Great answer to the “Top or Bottom” question!!❤❤

  • @condoyle8963
    @condoyle8963 День тому +1

    You are both amazing respect.💗❤💚💛🧡

  • @matthewgarcia1499
    @matthewgarcia1499 6 днів тому

    Great to know guys 🎉
    Always thank You for sharing 🎊
    Keep focused on each other and BJ
    We ain’t got time for ppl
    Alec bring him to Trinidad Carnival 🇹🇹

  • @CicelyCoker
    @CicelyCoker 5 днів тому

    I’m glad you both are a happy couple to represent what a gay healthy couple looks like ❤

  • @AndrewHercules-rm3po
    @AndrewHercules-rm3po 6 днів тому +1

    Great Q & A guys!!!🎉🍾🥂👍🏿. Drew&Kyle.

  • @samuelwict
    @samuelwict 6 днів тому +2

    God please heal Brian and continue to bless their marriage and family

  • @Raraibee
    @Raraibee 6 днів тому +2

    Love a Q&A ❤🎉

  • @loish781
    @loish781 6 днів тому

    🥰🥰 I'm glad U2 did this video. Great ??'s and U both answered them so quick and honest. I saw u were going LIVE Brian and I was just finishing this up. I'm glad I went on over and saw u With Tracy. It was good. Glad the Philadelphia Eagles 💚🤍🦅's Pulled out the Win 🏈✌🏽🖤💛⚜️🙏🏽

  • @KRLWRGHT
    @KRLWRGHT 5 днів тому

    Great Vlog and very informative! Alec, you're hilarious, "I've dated girls" lolololololololololololololol🤣🤣🤣. I love❤ you guys, can't wait until the cruise!!

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 6 днів тому +2

    Happy Sunday enjoyed the video

  • @3x3mm
    @3x3mm 6 днів тому +3

    new sub
    cutest couple e v e r!
    health is wealth!
    your bfs ❤Jamaican accent

  • @Theetiltedscales
    @Theetiltedscales 6 днів тому +1

    Love you guys! Alec you do not live in South Georgia lol, maybe south Atlanta! Brian, I hope you are healing well and enjoying your time at home. The skies are ghetto and turbulent, you’re not missing much. Top/bottom question irked me btw. Y’all have what so many of us are striving for, and as we evolve, so does our desires. Let’s work on honest and transparent communication and finding a boyfriend before we dare jump in married folks bedrooms! We love unnu bad. Side note, has BJ fully acclimated to life in Georgia?

  • @ronalddavis4108
    @ronalddavis4108 6 днів тому

    Great vlog!!

  • @lyfechanges6663
    @lyfechanges6663 6 днів тому

    Happy Sunday Family!!! 🎉🎉 I wish you guys continued blessings and success!!! Have a great week!!! 🎉🎉🎉🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @terryg7613
    @terryg7613 6 днів тому +1

    A meet and greet would be nice! nice video!!👑👑👑👑💪🏽💪🏽❤❤❤❤

  • @dmoneyriches
    @dmoneyriches 6 днів тому

    You guys are the definition of God's blessings

  • @lornabarnaby6832
    @lornabarnaby6832 6 днів тому

    Big up to you both 🙏💙

  • @avashakes4553
    @avashakes4553 5 днів тому

    Blessed love, guys ❤

  • @shirleystephenson8424
    @shirleystephenson8424 6 днів тому

    Hi Brian and Alec great conversation, I didn't ask any questions this time... Primarily because watching EVERY post, I believe I've learning quite a bit just with those shared moments. A few comments; as a Mom of 7 amazing adult children, I agree EVERY child is different and definitely love, structures, stability, and discipline are necessary factors in raising children. 2 you guys are already mentors, just by being comfortable with allowing others to see who you both are fabulous with some faults. Y'all get it, understanding we (humans) are all more alike then we are different. Yet teaching there should never be shame or disrespect for being different, because God made us all different. 3 You both should be very proud of your accomplishments ALL of them (I can't wait to see the basement completed) just saying!!! It's 7 degrees outside in Michigan today, a hot cup of tea, my weighted blanket, and my sweet spot on the sofa, I've enjoyed this vlog, thank you so very much for sharing... 🥰🍵🙏

  • @EverythingJayB
    @EverythingJayB 6 днів тому +6

    Ok B I see you upstairs.....Alec keep talking care of our home boy...

    • @MikoLee113
      @MikoLee113 6 днів тому

      This video is "old" before surgery

  • @Willsreclaimedvintage
    @Willsreclaimedvintage 6 днів тому +2

    Enjoyed while cooking my chili!! Happy Sunday, guys!! ✌️

  • @constancegoodwin8374
    @constancegoodwin8374 6 днів тому +1

    Happy Sunday. See you next week ❤

  • @Jordi7174
    @Jordi7174 6 днів тому +1

    At 9:30 That Point!
    🤣

  • @valeriehughes7221
    @valeriehughes7221 6 днів тому

    Happy Sunday mazeline family

  • @MichelleStafford-qs7hw
    @MichelleStafford-qs7hw 6 днів тому

    Love the green sofa and the yellow

  • @Youngguy2009
    @Youngguy2009 6 днів тому

    Love it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MikoLee113
    @MikoLee113 6 днів тому +2

    Random: i want to call the custom couch😂😅😂😅 "The intimate big green chair"
    #Temu
    😂😅😂😅

  • @shawnallen8648
    @shawnallen8648 5 днів тому

    Great q&a

  • @angeladcherry
    @angeladcherry 5 днів тому

    When Brian gets back on the good hip, yall should do a meet n greet in the A..

  • @LillieMabson
    @LillieMabson 6 днів тому

    Some question are so disrepectful.some things are private,love wacthing you both❤

  • @amybynum8962
    @amybynum8962 6 днів тому +2

    Yes🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @amybynum8962
    @amybynum8962 6 днів тому +1

    Happy Sunday ❤

  • @Israelkingdom-x5p
    @Israelkingdom-x5p 6 днів тому +1

    How is your health now bro. Hope you are getting better? May God strengthen you in jesus name.

  • @vernongeorge8262
    @vernongeorge8262 6 днів тому

    CHOW CHOW BOYZZZ, I really enjoyed the Q/A very informative FIRST Brian I hope your
    rehab from surgery is going fantastic and you are feeling better...Brian you are already a mentor
    thru the way you portray your life with Alec and your son really love the growth of the both of you
    as individuals and your marriage ...DAMMIT I AM SO PISSED THAT SOMEONE HAD THE AUDACITY
    TO BRING UP THIS TOP AND BOTTOM CRAP ......IT'S NOBODY'S DAMN BUSINESS love how you both
    handled that. Knowing me not so much. Alec glad that you touched your interest that may not be Brians'
    interest that is so important that even tho you're a couple you still have your individual interest. Brian it does
    not sound like you had a hip replacement? Is this a new proceedure which I'm sure it probably is since I had
    mine many moons ago🤣ago. Alec hope the cake carrier was useful I really love you Desserts ...well boyzz
    chow chow for now ......Love Vern

  • @lornajohnson2082
    @lornajohnson2082 6 днів тому +1

    Happy Dunday guys❤

  • @andreafoster3013
    @andreafoster3013 6 днів тому +1

    Hey guys don't know why I am laughing and I don't hear what Brian said after the marriage question lol blessings ❤

  • @mattel2247
    @mattel2247 6 днів тому

    Alec mi dear, cropover is in July until the first week in August 🎉 😅 FYI 🇧🇧

  • @phumezamandulo5154
    @phumezamandulo5154 6 днів тому +2

    Luv u guys from 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @condoyle8963
    @condoyle8963 День тому +1

    I'm white and wish you were both my parents. With all that love and care you can give, you're amazing. Please adopt me!. Love you you all.❤💗❤

  • @hemi_3927
    @hemi_3927 6 днів тому

    Happy Sunday!

  • @rennyray11
    @rennyray11 6 днів тому +1

    The sad part is all the dead animals are an indication of us encroaching on their habitats. They have no where to go because we keep building

  • @samuelwict
    @samuelwict 6 днів тому

    You guys let me feel so happy to watch you , .

  • @brit3829
    @brit3829 6 днів тому

    One of the mods timed me out. I said nothing wrong and was showing love. ✨✨✨🥺🥺 stay blessed. A bit sad, I was really enjoying saying positive things. Some mod hating on me trying to block blessings. ❤anyways…

    • @MeetTheMazelins
      @MeetTheMazelins  6 днів тому

      No soooo sorry Brit! Not sure what happened. I think too much was happening and it must have been by mistake. We’ll see if we can get it undone 🥹. Sending love your way too 💜

  • @marthamolotsi645
    @marthamolotsi645 6 днів тому

    Hi my favs❤❤❤🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦all the way from South A.....when u get here just go to Jozi or CA😂😂😂

  • @roserussellperry1719
    @roserussellperry1719 6 днів тому +2

    People need to stop asking such personal questions. It's no bodies business I don't care who is being asked!!!!

  • @rmronalda57
    @rmronalda57 6 днів тому

    GOOD EVENING SUNSHINE 🌞 I REALLY ENJOY WATCHING U LOVEBIRDS SOO MUCH. U MAKE SUNDAY FUNDAY MY DAY. KEEP SMILIN AND ROCKIN GOOD LOOKIN 👍. I ALSO SHARED UR VIDEOS TO OTHERS AS WELL. U LOVEBIRDS HAVE A A GREAT WEEKEND AND ENJOY UR MARTIN LUTHER KING DAY OFF. HAVE A GOOD WEEK.

  • @YananoBere
    @YananoBere 6 днів тому

    What was said at 09:30! 😫I need to know

  • @MichelleStafford-qs7hw
    @MichelleStafford-qs7hw 6 днів тому

    Hey guys happy Sunday my question is are yall planning to have yall own child and Brian glad you doing well congratulations on the partner ship

  • @trishasimmons7882
    @trishasimmons7882 6 днів тому

    Hey great love the video yes yes 🙏💜🖤❤️🙏🙏

  • @hemi_3927
    @hemi_3927 6 днів тому

    Good Q&A

  • @tonyrossbackinthedaymusicv3107
    @tonyrossbackinthedaymusicv3107 6 днів тому

    LOVE This, More More More.

  • @lisamccoy6167
    @lisamccoy6167 6 днів тому +2

    BJ is a sweetie pie. He is a wonderful kid. 😘

  • @sheilaphillips4417
    @sheilaphillips4417 6 днів тому +1

    Hi, why was Brian the one who purpose to Alec and not the other way around? Brain pray I speedy recovery. Peace and blessings.

  • @user-ji5on9wo9p
    @user-ji5on9wo9p 6 днів тому +1

    GREAT VLOG BUT THE VIDEO QUALITY WAS A LITTLE OFF....

  • @amybynum8962
    @amybynum8962 6 днів тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤June 12 2024 yes

  • @DusseBoss
    @DusseBoss 6 днів тому

    Yes I love it here I’m most definitely about to join that cruise 🚢 because my birthday is after the cruise 🚢 so that will be a great 31st birthday celebration 🎉 and I can’t wait to get drunk with Alec cuz ima teach him how to drive the boat baby

  • @barbieyork
    @barbieyork 6 днів тому

    Happy Sunday

  • @MosuliBooi
    @MosuliBooi 10 годин тому

    🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦Definitely a Subscriber from SA I would really love to host you guys. Cape Town & Johannesburg are a vibe. In Cape Town ya”ll should do the normal touristy things such as the Table mountain cable car, aquarium, go see penguins at the beach, wine tasting with MEALS at the vineyards, markets and as well according to me the best Gay club in RSA Zer021 it always has drag performances ya”ll will have FUN. In Jhb ya”ll can go to the Soweto museum, Gold reef city, a Safari, get on the JHB tourist bus, Markets as well with LIVE performances and as well at night, JHB’s outmost Queer friendly club, liquid blue😭🤣. If you guys do these you will definitely enjoy Cape Town & Johannesburg😘❤️.

  • @feliciapennerman1465
    @feliciapennerman1465 6 днів тому

    ❤❤ great video 🫶🏾

  • @MikoLee113
    @MikoLee113 6 днів тому +1

    Universal Alignment
    #GodsSpeed
    Everything in life hapoens for a reason. Just my unsolicited opinion❤

    • @MikoLee113
      @MikoLee113 6 днів тому

      As it relates to Brian's surgery, the house purchase, Akec's new job💰 BJ adjusting, doing better in school, choosing sports etc.🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @suv4life
    @suv4life 6 днів тому

    Brian, will you continue being a flight attendant?

  • @condoyle8963
    @condoyle8963 День тому +1

    Brian and Alec, can you please adopt me, as I said before you are both amazing, I know it couldn't happen, but I wish it could, life isn't easy. Love for you from London

  • @rmronalda57
    @rmronalda57 6 днів тому

    SIR BRIAN THERE IS A QUESTION I TO ASK U. WOULD U EVER THINK OF GOING BACK TO FLYING ATTENTDANT AGAIN. I'M SO PROUD THAT U GOIN BACK TO SCHOOL FOR REAL ESTATE AND I WISH U LUCK AND NOTHIN BUT BEST. U 2 PRINCE ALEC 😊😊😊

  • @lisaladysmith2650
    @lisaladysmith2650 4 дні тому

    Brian way cool that you watch criminal mind shows. I am a Penelope in real life! Such a strange career for sure.

  • @amybynum8962
    @amybynum8962 6 днів тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Youngguy2009
    @Youngguy2009 6 днів тому

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  • @atlmorpheus
    @atlmorpheus 6 днів тому

    Traffic would definitely be a con