MEN BLAME WOMEN FOR THEIR SINGLEHOOD AND LONELINESS

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  • @brookealicia92
    @brookealicia92 5 місяців тому +1038

    Men: you aren’t our peace, you aren’t loyal, and you do nothing for us
    Women: same bro, same

    • @ineedhoez
      @ineedhoez 5 місяців тому +62

      That part.

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 5 місяців тому +97

      They are the leaders, I'm just following in their footsteps 🤷

    • @aprilmay1061
      @aprilmay1061 5 місяців тому +70

      That was the first thing that went to my head. He's complaining about something men hardly do.

    • @luthorforpresident9353
      @luthorforpresident9353 5 місяців тому +93

      He meant women wouldn't come home from work and work more while he relaxed and stay no matter how bad he treated them or when he cheated.

    • @mimi42428
      @mimi42428 5 місяців тому +63

      Bingo
      It's amazing how they want another human being to just be an appliance to them yet they don't even consider what they bring to women. Women no longer want to be appliances

  • @Armelleee
    @Armelleee 5 місяців тому +924

    Why do males act like being single is the worst thing in the world? Do they not have hobbies. Sheeesh!

    • @blossom1290
      @blossom1290 5 місяців тому +93

      Because they want women to date them, they don't like being alone, and the dudes who say they rather stay single, they see no problem with, because that means they'll have a higher chance of getting in a relationship for once

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +85

      They are annoying and they can't be better

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 5 місяців тому +114

      ​@@blossom1290and sex. Don't underestimate what sex is to them, especially in their 20s.

    • @ACAB.forcutie
      @ACAB.forcutie 5 місяців тому +118

      They think women owe them entertainment.

    • @yesitsthattime
      @yesitsthattime 5 місяців тому +38

      ​@@briskettacosuntil they are dead, whether it is 18 or 80

  • @IrisDel-qo8xi
    @IrisDel-qo8xi 5 місяців тому +979

    They blame women for everything ,and have the nerve to say "women don't take accountability"

    • @blossom1290
      @blossom1290 5 місяців тому +100

      exactly, they never tell each other to choose better like, they tell women, they don't want no form of accountability for men, they blame women instead of saying choose better when it comes to men

    • @blossom1290
      @blossom1290 5 місяців тому +112

      You should have seen the comments men were making on the artificial womb video, about how they will be getting rid of women, because they would be a waste of space, and I laughed because who will men blame for their problems and actions then?, they refuse to help each other with their mental health so imagine when they decide to to get rid of women

    • @Armelleee
      @Armelleee 5 місяців тому +2

      Males can never get rid of women.
      They need us, that is why they h ate us. ​@@blossom1290

    • @KendraNikole
      @KendraNikole 5 місяців тому +77

      @@blossom1290they'll just ELIMINATE each other! 🥰🤣😂

    • @CorinaGilligan
      @CorinaGilligan 5 місяців тому +64

      ​@blossom1290 they'll blame us because we're not there 😂
      We will have made them get rid of us and it will be our fault that humanity is in dire straits.

  • @PhotoJeticPoet
    @PhotoJeticPoet 5 місяців тому +829

    My ex of 6 years cheated on me, then he left me..... That man had the nerve to pop up on my porch 4 years later, blaming me for him being alone..... Sir, you can't be serious.

    • @copperredd
      @copperredd 5 місяців тому

      I hope u didnt even let him finish talking... Cuz that's some straight up b***💩

    • @videofan1010
      @videofan1010 5 місяців тому +139

      Get him off your porch, lol!

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 5 місяців тому +88

      Please expand on the conversation 😂😂😂 wish I was a fly on the wall of that convo. 😂😂

    • @Delilah513
      @Delilah513 5 місяців тому +84

      Please tell me that you laughed in his face!

    • @athenasol1723
      @athenasol1723 5 місяців тому +35

      Explain from beginning to the end

  • @2232Serena
    @2232Serena 5 місяців тому +586

    Here's the thing: We're glad they're leaving us alone.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +26

      Facts 💯 hopefully

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +48

      Hopefully they move on to their pick mes or use their passports

    • @unicorn73212
      @unicorn73212 5 місяців тому +37

      I am too I finally saved up enough money to be single again in about a week or two I'm meeting with a housing case manager to help me lease an affordable one bedroom apartment or studio I'm learning that it's actually cheaper to live alone you might wind up paying a little bit more but the older women get the easier it gets for them to find stable employment and housing men see these things as burdens women see working as a privilege not a curse because it allows us to set our own path. If they can't keep up with modern women then there just going to have to leave the country.

    • @BWTM
      @BWTM 5 місяців тому +8

      🛎️🛎️🛎️

    • @vonnii1013
      @vonnii1013 5 місяців тому +12

      So glad and appreciative

  • @nnn9854
    @nnn9854 5 місяців тому +1148

    Why do they always bring up the MeToo movement like it’s a bad thing to expose sexual predators?

    • @sabrinamystified
      @sabrinamystified 5 місяців тому +403

      Cause the men who are complaining about MeToo, ARE the predators, or have the potential to be one

    • @UnrealDreamer3598
      @UnrealDreamer3598 5 місяців тому +1

      Because males hate being accountable for their actions

    • @erobinson5942
      @erobinson5942 5 місяців тому +126

      They’re slow sis 😂

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +148

      They are more concerned with their prospects and honestly they don't see anything wrong with what people like Bill Cosby and Harvey Weinstein did

    • @nedumnwanze4120
      @nedumnwanze4120 5 місяців тому +10

      Because a woman can say anyone who approaches is a creep...for any reason

  • @eveharris30
    @eveharris30 5 місяців тому +476

    They first said that having children lowered your value in society. They told women to stop having their children. They said that dating women with kids is bad. They said they wanted women to stop having sex with them. Men said that having sex with them is gross and also lower your value. Then they said women were gold diggers. So women started making more money. They told us to just have cats, and once you were 25, you were old. So women over 25 should stop dating them. They said marrying them was also bad. So we have done everything they said, and now their mad? We took their advice. We stooped having sex with them, have their children, and raise cats. What's the problem?

  • @toogroovywavey136
    @toogroovywavey136 5 місяців тому +438

    Men cheat and wives leave and take half, but they blame the women! They never blame themselves that their lack of faithfulness is what led to the divorce.

    • @shamelcutkelvin8807
      @shamelcutkelvin8807 5 місяців тому

      That wm say hiw u look, what u make, cooking or none of that matter like what..... the Lies he told. All men love a woman that can cook. And how he wanna ask for loyalty and rspect if they the men not giving that to their women, they cheat and cause a lot of emotional disress to the woman and when the woman leve they still wanfs to blame the women for breaking up the home. Likd Sr r u dumb. I cant wrih men i would definitely prefer being alone that to put myself through all that heart ache. Men needs to learn to respect and value their women.

    • @roxyroxii1152
      @roxyroxii1152 5 місяців тому +36

      They say “ things happen”.

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 5 місяців тому +1

      It's time women stop blaming and shaming themselves too for the flaws and inadequacies of these degenerate nem.

    • @fantym1633
      @fantym1633 5 місяців тому +48

      It's especially ironic that when the wife gets 1/2 the marital assests, as compensation for *her* labour (& usually w/kids from the relationship) - the guy insists "she took *everything!" *
      Too bad, so sad they are expected by the courts (& those laws are passed by men) to support the children they *caused* to happen.

    • @patty-pat-pat
      @patty-pat-pat 5 місяців тому +27

      she doest take half, she gets half for all of her unpaid labor and making his lifestyle available. Most women work nowadays, so I'd recommend a prenup to save yourself from a man.

  • @powerhouse2024
    @powerhouse2024 5 місяців тому +344

    Men will never comprehend that they are not the prize, they are the predator, and them walking away - is a gift.

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 5 місяців тому +2

      These days, their global agenda is to entrain wmn to believe they're both predators AND the prize.
      Yuck.

    • @user-kp3rc4eq8x
      @user-kp3rc4eq8x 5 місяців тому +14

      Yup 🐻

    • @LilXancheX
      @LilXancheX 4 місяці тому +1

      Y’all ain’t the prize either

    • @WishySissy
      @WishySissy 4 місяці тому +11

      @@LilXancheXgood. BYE

    • @furballrage595
      @furballrage595 4 місяці тому +6

      @@LilXancheX 🏳‍🌈🌈🌈

  • @nitarhodes42
    @nitarhodes42 5 місяців тому +682

    So, the bald guy basically described a man wanting a well trained dog rather than a woman in their lives.

    • @2232Serena
      @2232Serena 5 місяців тому +58

      And the whole 'rule of sixes' isn't even real. Most women who get on the internet saying they want those things are just rage baiting.

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 5 місяців тому +50

      Right!!! He needs to shop at petsmart.

    • @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934
      @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934 5 місяців тому +80

      The bald guy is nothing to look at in the first place. He should have sat this one out.

    • @May-nt3ow
      @May-nt3ow 5 місяців тому +53

      ​@@nothereyetlost The dog doesn't deserve that either!

    • @KittySprinkles
      @KittySprinkles 5 місяців тому

      Baldie says, "Look in the mirror? What to you offer men?" WTF, dude, I'm not a service or object to exist for men's exploitation. I'm part of 50% of the human population? Bet he doesn't ask other males what they bring to the table...

  • @elyse443
    @elyse443 5 місяців тому +264

    Why do these men who don’t wanna be married? Talk about it all day? Then don’t get married! Leave everybody alone about it.

    • @Wonderwoman79G
      @Wonderwoman79G 5 місяців тому +16

      Make it make sense - 😵‍💫🤯

    • @amazinglats6020
      @amazinglats6020 5 місяців тому +6

      Well people on UA-cam talk about these topics because they make money. In real life people talk about it to warn others.

    • @ogolden8315
      @ogolden8315 5 місяців тому +18

      Because … Males really don’t want to be married. If they can get away with non-monogamous, open rlsps, and lots of easy seex, and women having and raising their babies w/o their input, then that’s what most will opt for.

    • @teoleno4019
      @teoleno4019 5 місяців тому +14

      There will be a lot of these red pill podcast guys dying alone in the future in their apartments. 🙄

    • @teoleno4019
      @teoleno4019 5 місяців тому +15

      ​@ogolden8315 But mogonogamy was literally invented for them. Back in the day, the average male did not even had the chance to marry a women.

  • @LoveK1
    @LoveK1 5 місяців тому +322

    Wait, so they’re single because they don’t have the funds right now to get the women they want. Okay, I can respect that and that should be the case. BUT, these are the same men that will call those women worthless gold diggers for expecting them to spend that money they earned on them. You know, the money they just said they’re stacking for their dream girl. They’ll be complaining about her having her hand out too!
    Make it make sense!

    • @EuphemiaWisdom
      @EuphemiaWisdom 5 місяців тому +25

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +45

      I think they resent the women who are with them when they have money because they know it's totally transactional and she wouldn't want him without it

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn 5 місяців тому

      @ecclairmayo4153 Which is projection and another example of how men are afraid of being treated the way they treat women.
      Everything with men is transactional.

    • @ShawnEvans-Akere-mu5mz
      @ShawnEvans-Akere-mu5mz 5 місяців тому +4

      They are choosing to be single

    • @IrisDel-qo8xi
      @IrisDel-qo8xi 5 місяців тому

      ​@@ecclairmayo4153believe me they love golddiggers😂 they hate the woman who helped them build up ,and cheat on her all the time bc she reminds them they once had nothing.

  • @MrsTruthTeller
    @MrsTruthTeller 5 місяців тому +352

    No one is asking men why they are walking away, LMAO!!

    • @attitudeproblem6462
      @attitudeproblem6462 5 місяців тому +67

      Exactly! Like sir, do you need me to call you and über to the airport??

    • @leydle
      @leydle 5 місяців тому +39

      Honey I am just listening to these "Why aren't men approaching usssss?"
      I'm cool with it

    • @VideosForYou90
      @VideosForYou90 5 місяців тому +37

      Exactly, everyone's more like "Okay, hurry tf up!"

    • @tonib1022
      @tonib1022 5 місяців тому +16

      No one cares

    • @xletragedyx
      @xletragedyx 5 місяців тому +29

      Every time since study comes out, men say it's a lie and try to refute it. It's science. I thought they were the rational and logical ones

  • @RaqueLauren
    @RaqueLauren 5 місяців тому +179

    Funny, in my area men still approach women. In fact, it was just in the news that a lovely young man approached a previous coworker that he had feelings for... by breaking into her house... at night... with a bag full of "tools". Gosh we irrational women really need to stop overreacting. Our need for safety is making awkward men "feel bad."

    • @jewlzn7130
      @jewlzn7130 5 місяців тому +25

      I saw that case. That's really terrifying. I'm glad things didn't go as bad

    • @berrymckockiner5883
      @berrymckockiner5883 5 місяців тому

      Y'all are strong and independent, protect yourselves and keep yourselves safe #defundthepolice

    • @luthorforpresident9353
      @luthorforpresident9353 5 місяців тому +41

      ​@@berrymckockiner5883We are... by being single. The #1 threat 2 women is bfs, husbands, and exes. #statistics #fbidotgov

    • @berrymckockiner5883
      @berrymckockiner5883 5 місяців тому

      @@luthorforpresident9353 so all those recent break-ins are just a figment of your imagination?
      #defundthepolice

    • @xletragedyx
      @xletragedyx 5 місяців тому +18

      ​@berrymckockiner5883 did you know that women can be police officers, too? Or neighborhood watch? Or own guns and mace?

  • @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
    @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 5 місяців тому +220

    Their unhappiness, single and loneliness is their own fault. Women aren’t dealing with their lies and abuse anymore at any age. Women don’t GAF anymore! Women don’t owe them a relationship or anything for that matter.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +31

      I wish they go away and leave us alone

    • @ShawnEvans-Akere-mu5mz
      @ShawnEvans-Akere-mu5mz 5 місяців тому +4

      They are not unhappy

    • @janedo-re-mi2738
      @janedo-re-mi2738 5 місяців тому +1

      Women don't owe them sex either. That's what a lot of this is about. Most single men aren't SAD that they're not getting loving, romantic relationships with women. They're MAD that they're not getting p🐱ssy on a regular basis.

    • @besetterobinson7468
      @besetterobinson7468 4 місяці тому +1

      Say it louder for the women in the bag 😂😂😂

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 4 місяці тому +2

      @@ShawnEvans-Akere-mu5mz clearly they are not well MENTALLY or EMOTIONALLY either

  • @cadijakareema
    @cadijakareema 5 місяців тому +273

    The same man thats saying accept low effort men is the same man that will say you should have chose better😂
    I wish they stop telling us what we should accept.
    Who are they trying to convince? Us or themselves ughh

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +16

      It's their favorite circular logic to fall back on

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 24 дні тому +1

      ​@@ecclairmayo4153 and they say they are logic people 😂😂

  • @Its_like_the_T-Rex
    @Its_like_the_T-Rex 5 місяців тому +207

    Lol, "men give give give." What do men give? Someone to look after. Someone to clean up after? Lol

    • @jayogee913
      @jayogee913 5 місяців тому

      The nerve of that old 💩! The only thing he gives women is the creeps!

    • @coolchameleon21
      @coolchameleon21 5 місяців тому +62

      headaches. they give headaches 😂

    • @cd6741
      @cd6741 5 місяців тому +29

      ​@@coolchameleon21migraines! Lol

    • @luthorforpresident9353
      @luthorforpresident9353 5 місяців тому +56

      STIs. Debt. Bruises, black eyes, and broken ribs. #4B

    • @devilmaycry9969
      @devilmaycry9969 5 місяців тому +1

      Exactly, men these days don't have education, assets, health and are emotionally distant and baby crazy. They can't even satisfy women in the bedroom.

  • @Talumina
    @Talumina 5 місяців тому +236

    A whole generation of men became misguided and corrupted by these dating gurus and social media personalities like andrew tate. A guy I met didn't admit it at first that he was watching this content, but he told me that at some point he noticed he was wasting his time and turned his life around.. which is great! good for him. However just like the one of the first guy in this video he also assumed that with the money he is making now he will be able to get the woman he actually wants in a few years. He has this mindset now that every girl is too ugly for him anyway and women are the reason why men are broke.. ?
    It doesn't even make sense. He is trying to get a lot of money because he knows the kind of woman he wants will ask for that money.. yet he resents women that expect him to pay? I guess if she is pretty enough he won't care and happily go broke if he has to.
    He had no issue wasting my time like this and telling people not to tell me the truth about his mindset.

    • @EuphemiaWisdom
      @EuphemiaWisdom 5 місяців тому +68

      The ever-changing goal posts applies to that dream woman, too. The moment he has "her" he will punish her for making him work so hard, she will never be able to appreciate him enough and he will want to experience someone new because that is more exciting than a stable, peaceful daily home life. They lie to themselves as much as they lie to women ...

    • @scottbridge9391
      @scottbridge9391 5 місяців тому

      Andrew Tate is a TERRIBLE example of a man and a God Awful role model for boys and young men. He's a total failure of a man, a complete disgrace. And for the record, yes, I think he's guilty of ALL of the crimes he's been charged with in Romania, and I hope the court there will do the right thing and send him to prison for a VERY long time. This is what he deserves. No man should EVER take any of his advice - full stop.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +29

      What will be the excuse in 5 years when he still can't pull women?

    • @reddogjrs
      @reddogjrs 5 місяців тому +4

      Ya, I am part of the generation that has no clue WTF to do. I grew up listening to celebrities that say "men are useless" and be celebrated about how kind and brave they are. Seemed that the social media gurus were the only ones saying sure you suck but you can be that guy. Turns out most of them just taking advantage of hurt and confused people.
      Across all forms of media we live in a time where we see the worst in humanity and it amplifies our fears and tramas. Now both men, women, nonbinary people are checking out. What's the point if everything is shit. Just keep your head down and take care those in arms reach.

    • @luthorforpresident9353
      @luthorforpresident9353 5 місяців тому

      ​@@reddogjrsMore than just celebrities said men are useless, most importantly, many women who are married or divorced from men say it. I've witnessed it and experienced it. Everyone can't be lying.

  • @shakesinthehouse
    @shakesinthehouse 5 місяців тому +364

    Pearlythings is single and looking

  • @TheOriginalScorpioBelle
    @TheOriginalScorpioBelle 5 місяців тому +74

    0:14 men ARE NOT choosing to be single. They aren’t being picked.

  • @thereborngoddess7203
    @thereborngoddess7203 5 місяців тому +239

    "And it turns out in fact that not only are you doing everything wrong, but also everything is your fault."
    -Gloria (Barbie)
    Once again, men like that are blaming us...

    • @muadhnate
      @muadhnate 5 місяців тому +12

      Great monologue.

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 5 місяців тому +1

      But isn't it ironic that when a man does something that is inherently and fundamentally wrong, it's the woman's fault ? 🤨

    • @UnrealDreamer3598
      @UnrealDreamer3598 5 місяців тому +2

      Best part of the movie. Loved it!🥰

  • @ak-47intelligence75
    @ak-47intelligence75 5 місяців тому +233

    They blame women for EVERYTHING.
    It started back in the Garden of Eden.

    • @luckycharm1212
      @luckycharm1212 5 місяців тому +1

      So true! They villianised women since life began. But all the scriptures are just hoax coz it was written by men who are compulsive liars. I believe in science.

    • @sabrinamystified
      @sabrinamystified 5 місяців тому

      That's why their lack of self - awareness, would be the reason why they'd remove themselves from the world's population. See what's going on with the Y chromosome - it's slowly disappearing, and sperm count is decreasing. There are scientific articles on this

    • @MaMama-S3D
      @MaMama-S3D 4 місяці тому +11

      EXACTLY !

    • @kristabistaify
      @kristabistaify 4 місяці тому

      What the bald guy said.....women. Have risked it all for relationships that have a ....10% chance of not completly ruining them!!!! Lol men rly always think the one decAde they finally experience what women have been experiencing for thousands of years--- they rly think it's finally "equal"

    • @Comentflix
      @Comentflix 4 місяці тому +1

      🎯

  • @PrincessPixieBell
    @PrincessPixieBell 5 місяців тому +64

    Nobody is complaining about men not approaching or getting in a relationship with women but men

    • @yasminogbu8929
      @yasminogbu8929 4 місяці тому +11

      Exactly 🤣🤣… women are not complaining about men’s behaviour they simple stay single. Yet men are complaining, complaining & blaming 🤡 causing women to stay away even more

    • @Марина-ь1г8й
      @Марина-ь1г8й 4 місяці тому +1

      Exactly

  • @jupiterthree5228
    @jupiterthree5228 5 місяців тому +140

    I'm glad men don't approach women in public as much anymore. It's the most annoying thing. Being out in public, you're just trying to get home and some man you don't know forces you to talk to them. No, thanks.

    • @SoramimiKeiki
      @SoramimiKeiki 5 місяців тому +24

      Also, trying to touch you and get mad when you don't want that. 🤮

    • @nicolec8884
      @nicolec8884 5 місяців тому +2

      I get it from women too.( Mostly older women and it's annoying)

    • @Марина-ь1г8й
      @Марина-ь1г8й 4 місяці тому

      That's so true.

  • @daebak_hana
    @daebak_hana 5 місяців тому +84

    Instead of working on their personality and emotional intelligence, then become better people they just complain and blame.

    • @Lynn.B.
      @Lynn.B. 5 місяців тому +6

      🎯

    • @hereisayana8207
      @hereisayana8207 4 місяці тому +5

      Yes I realize that a lot of them don't have emotional intelligence and it's obvious the way they react and treat women in certain situations

  • @SheritaLee-er4sp
    @SheritaLee-er4sp 5 місяців тому +212

    And men are not paying attention to a woman's body language and signals that she is interested, they are just jumping at every woman they see without reading the signs first.

    • @flutatious_music4
      @flutatious_music4 5 місяців тому +20

      Fr!! That is so freaking annoying.🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +40

      They don't care if we are interested in them or not they are the real pick mes - I reject them a lot and they still chase and pursue for smexx or relationships.. why can't they use their hands for pleasure or date pick mes

    • @sammich-lp2qm
      @sammich-lp2qm 5 місяців тому +22

      Deborah Cooper has a channel on YT and she said that men will purposely try to get at you whilst you’re overwhelmed or in a bad mood …. I forget why.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому

      ​@@sammich-lp2qmyes love her channel and she talked about this years ago

    • @Rose-kj7rz
      @Rose-kj7rz 5 місяців тому +19

      Yep. Told my last ex I had no intention to get married. And yet, 5 years later, he was still trying to dangle that marriage carrot in front of me.
      Year 6 I yelled at him that he should have left a long time ago bc I told him from the beginning I wasn't getting married.
      He still texts occasionally telling me I'm the only he wants to be with after months of ghosting me.
      Sir, you were here for a good time, not a long time. Bye.

  • @alicethemadrabbit1842
    @alicethemadrabbit1842 5 місяців тому +133

    I don't even care if their reasoning is dumb at this point. Women don't want strangers apporaching them in contexts where they're expecting to be left alone. If I don't know you, leave me alone.

    • @User-4zqz164
      @User-4zqz164 5 місяців тому +11

      Yes Stranger Danger thats how u gotta look at them. U can be harm at any moment being approach by them. so just don't come near me sir stay far away

    • @xletragedyx
      @xletragedyx 5 місяців тому +16

      I mean yes I don't like being approached. But why can't you just say "would you like to go on a date with me?" Like, they're not nice or respectful when they do it. They don't put effort. They act like they can just stand there and say anything and it's a "compliment."
      "Damn, girl" is not a compliment or an invitation for a date. Don't lick your lips when you come up to me. Don't look me up and down like you're a hungry animal.
      We don't really care why they're walking away. Don't approach me, bc you can't act right.

    • @alicethemadrabbit1842
      @alicethemadrabbit1842 5 місяців тому +15

      @@xletragedyx ugh. The things they say. 🤢 Definetly. It's never respectful and they never accept a "no thank you". Women get killed for saying no, we have no idea how any interaction with a strange man may end. So they absolutely need to stop approaching us period.

    • @shizz3907
      @shizz3907 5 місяців тому

      @@alicethemadrabbit1842 Then we’re in an intractable situation. This is what men mean by the double messaging, which by the way I agree with. It honestly must suck as a heterosexual woman to be attracted to those who you actually fear and don’t trust in a deep level. Men, however feel that fear and distrust. And so even if a guy knows he will approach respectfully, many women will still have a guard up that says don’t f with me, go away. Nowadays, it’s really the respectful guy who’s going to think to himself “what if she just doesn’t want to be bothered” and he’ll leave you alone. But then the guys who’s cockiness oftentimes gets confused with confidence won’t care about whether you want to be left alone, or are busy, and he’ll just insert himself into your day anyways. Or, the very socially unaware guy who goes for it because he genuinely is creepy, and doesn’t pick up on your vibes to leave you alone because he’s socially inept.
      This is why I only talk to women who I know from my network of friends, or in any social contexts I have. So women at house parties, social clubs, classes at school. Places where the social context make women view me as less of a potential threat to start with.
      Sadly this is a lose-lose situation for both men and women. A lot of women are upset that men aren’t approaching, and a lot of men don’t want to potentially make a woman’s day just a little bit worse by approaching. Just like that one guy said, studies show younger men are generally more socially and emotionally intelligent than older generations of men, so that’s what we think before potentially approaching, and that’s why we don’t as much.

    • @Yomel123
      @Yomel123 5 місяців тому +6

      Literally. Stop approaching strangers and hitting on them. Women don’t want that

  • @missinterpretation4984
    @missinterpretation4984 5 місяців тому +146

    The last woman is blaming women for men’s behavior. We have to stop that.

    • @VidWatcher01
      @VidWatcher01 5 місяців тому +38

      Definitely was getting pick me vibes from her

    • @biblethumper8088
      @biblethumper8088 5 місяців тому

      She's saying that because women were easy that men had no standards to meet to get access to women. Which leads to men being worthless and entitled bc they've been getting what they wanted without working for it. It's the same mindset that people say welfare people have when they stay on it for years and refuse to work.

    • @martibee8984
      @martibee8984 5 місяців тому +26

      She's right about us needing to have self respect, and to not give ourselves to men easy though. Although I'm sure she thinks that for different reasons than any of us would.

    • @devilmaycry9969
      @devilmaycry9969 5 місяців тому

      She is right though. A lot of this entitlement comes from women with low self esteem giving themselves up easily and getting into situationships in hopes of a relationship (it never happens). Men treat them like trash and then they think that most women are the same way and will take crap the same way. Ladies, close your legs. Syphilis is on the rise.

    • @amanchoudhury8135
      @amanchoudhury8135 5 місяців тому +8

      She can go help dudes with that .

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario64 5 місяців тому +84

    These men paint themselves into corners and blame women for feeling stuck. The older, simple guy said they don’t care about jobs OR cooking and cleaning … so yet again, the goal post is moved. They really need to just date each other.

    • @decoraqueena6413
      @decoraqueena6413 5 місяців тому +17

      They don't care about cooking or cleaning yet they can't seem to shut up about it.

    • @PaperMario64
      @PaperMario64 5 місяців тому

      @@decoraqueena6413 exactly. 🤡

    • @shamarirose7288
      @shamarirose7288 4 місяці тому +1

      They won't date each other because they know they can't objectify and take advantage of their fellow brethren nor reap the same benefits that women provide men, most of which comes in the form of free labor.

    • @awilliams7796
      @awilliams7796 4 місяці тому +4

      It's clear they don't care about nutrition or clean environments because they're always violently out of shape and a lot of the time you can see the tornado in the back lol.
      Part of "peace" is knowing you have a clean space and knowing what you're going to eat...at least it is for me

    • @furballrage595
      @furballrage595 4 місяці тому +3

      @@awilliams7796 "Violently out of shape" 🤣🤣

  • @SacredWomensWisdom
    @SacredWomensWisdom 5 місяців тому +130

    Women aren't looking for them so, they are trying to reverse it and say that they are the one's initiating this!

    • @sammich-lp2qm
      @sammich-lp2qm 5 місяців тому +12

      Like always and those lies will blow their axx up in the end.

    • @loriparks8657
      @loriparks8657 5 місяців тому +8

      Female are not supposed to be looking seeking ! A real man is seeking for his wife !

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +15

      ​@@loriparks8657 noone wants to be a slave in 2024

    • @jayogee913
      @jayogee913 5 місяців тому +8

      You can't fire me! I quit!

    • @coolchameleon21
      @coolchameleon21 5 місяців тому +12

      it’s giving “you can’t fire me, i quit” 😂

  • @ruvonnehills2304
    @ruvonnehills2304 5 місяців тому +69

    I am 55 years old this June. I am no longer trying to figure out what a man wants. I give up. I am more interested in becoming more in love with who I am authentically and building a good relationship with the most high GOD. High value men are low vibrational, and I don't care to be anything other than who and what I am and being comfortable with me. I spent over 35 years trying to be what I thought they want, and I came up short every time. I raised my children on my own, i was abused, taken for granted, and strung along. So, I must not be what is wanted. They want all of what I want to give from a different woman than me. so... I'm done. Men are no longer the center of my American dream.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +5

      ❤❤❤

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +3

      ❤❤ 💯

    • @Stillcountingracks
      @Stillcountingracks 4 місяці тому

      That’s Common sense Sherlock u wasted 35 years wow that’s worth Way more than money…sorry u wasted your time on men instead of focusing on becoming the best version of yourself

  • @chiobabe2180
    @chiobabe2180 5 місяців тому +47

    No woman EVER has asked why they’re walking away 😂😂😂
    Y’all not moving fast enough 💀

  • @missinterpretation4984
    @missinterpretation4984 5 місяців тому +68

    The man who’s saying why men are done, spends half the time saying relationships aren’t worth it because if financial risk, but then says our jobs mean nothing. Bro, if you date in your financial lane, you’re not taking a financial risk. You only have to pay in divorce if your wife didn’t work or made way less than you. Math, buh.

    • @ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf
      @ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf 5 місяців тому +5

      Math is our friend.

    • @UnrealDreamer3598
      @UnrealDreamer3598 5 місяців тому +21

      The males complaining about gold diggers don't have any gold themselves.
      Boy math. And I thought that they were the logical gender!

    • @CorinaGilligan
      @CorinaGilligan 27 днів тому +1

      ​@UnrealDreamer3598 what they mean Is that they are upset they can't use someone and have to compensate them .
      They don't like responsibility , they're like pirates

    • @MothersHeartGypsyDoVe
      @MothersHeartGypsyDoVe 4 дні тому

      ​@CorinaGilligan They Don't want to provide for a woman and don't want to pay a hooker. That's why they want women to have low standards so they can have easy access to sex.

  • @fslayer1290
    @fslayer1290 5 місяців тому +69

    Too many of these guys are not good people and they often overlook that.

  • @beeautifuldreamer2211
    @beeautifuldreamer2211 5 місяців тому +159

    😂😂😂😂Women were offering alot but we've come to realize we need to raise our price because we weren't getting much in return. They don't like having that conversation though. They keep crying about who's going to protect you. 😂😂😂I always get them with the from who oh yeah that's right other men. I've been protecting myself from yall my whole life what else you offering🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @scottbridge9391
      @scottbridge9391 5 місяців тому

      Men have never protected women. Women have always protected each other FROM men. This has been true all throughout human history. Men keep protecting each other, keep covering up for each other, keep excusing each other's bad behavior and crimes. Men have never protected women, only themselves and each other. There has never been a "golden age" where men once were strong and well disciplined and kept each other in check. This never existed. The strong men have always enforced the brutal hand of male control and misogyny and the weak men have played along, toed the line and have always aspired to be like the strong men (beta men trying to be like alpha men).
      Also, men were like this LONG before the advent of today's multi-trillion dollar porn industry. It does not account for men's bad behavior today (but it certainly doesn't help either).

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +30

      If it weren't for them, we woukdnt need any protection

    • @subconsciousclarity1702
      @subconsciousclarity1702 5 місяців тому +14

      The handy dandy handheld equalizer of my American right to bear arms will do all the protecting I need. How could they even begin to think they are stronger or faster than that? Not only that but it is cheaper and less work to have that protection. CRAZY LOL

    • @UnrealDreamer3598
      @UnrealDreamer3598 5 місяців тому +10

      Ah yes. The second amendment says that we have the right to bear arms.
      BEAR arms.
      It even says in the constitution that women should pick bears!

    • @Yomel123
      @Yomel123 5 місяців тому +8

      And it’s the man you live with who is most likely to hurt you. They’re delusional

  • @videofan1010
    @videofan1010 5 місяців тому +72

    Yup. You can't act a fool in front of women anymore 😂.

  • @sammich-lp2qm
    @sammich-lp2qm 5 місяців тому +57

    So, women’s unpaid labor is just nothing. You don’t understand the problem or you wouldn’t devalue them.

  • @ohthechitchat
    @ohthechitchat 5 місяців тому +104

    The man I blue should just get a dog, not a single woman on earth cares if he doesn't want them.

    • @samantharoberts6471
      @samantharoberts6471 5 місяців тому +10

      Not ONE.

    • @ghihbgyu
      @ghihbgyu 5 місяців тому +8

      If he would treat women this way think how he would treat a pet. I say he stays completely alone.

    • @jayogee913
      @jayogee913 5 місяців тому

      I active want this man to NOT want me, lol! Gross old 💩, thinking women want to impress someone like him. Delulu!

    • @martibee8984
      @martibee8984 5 місяців тому +4

      You might want to edit your comment, or not, it was funny reading it.
      He should only get a dog if he'll treat it better than he treats a woman.

  • @tracyjacksonjackson4221
    @tracyjacksonjackson4221 5 місяців тому +49

    I'm curious. What kind of benefit do men expect from being in a relationship with a woman? What do you expect from a woman you have been dating for about 6 months or so? What does a relationship entail for most men? Do you have the patience to wait for physical intimacy? What if she says she's saving herself for marriage. Will you propose?
    The way I see it, men miss having the upper hand in the relationship/marriage. They miss calling the shots and now have to deal with women on a more even playing field. Men prefer not to participate in the dating ritual unless they are guaranteed to win. Good news. there is a way to have that win. When you get married, do as the vows say and forsake all others. No affairs, no side chicks, no mistresses. Women don't file for divorce for nothing.

    • @luna-p
      @luna-p 5 місяців тому

      1. Peace: give me se× whenever I want it and otherwise stay quiet
      2. Loyalty: never leave the house
      3. Acknowledgement: see #1

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario64 5 місяців тому +51

    No one is asking why these men are walking away. If any woman is asking that it’s because she’s desperate and sooner or later, she’ll join the bear club.

  • @f.n.246
    @f.n.246 5 місяців тому +114

    He forgot to mention they want a woman who look like IG models tho lol. The only thing I don't understand, why is everyone complaining. I'm glad men don't approach anymore, good, and if the men are out why are they complaining. Aren't we all getting what we want.

    • @Bobisworld
      @Bobisworld 5 місяців тому +35

      And then call those ig models 304s…make it make sense

    • @Wonderwoman79G
      @Wonderwoman79G 5 місяців тому +1

      Too many men are obsessed with young IG girls.
      They would have better luck dating a normal looking woman with a normal face and body but they won't listen.

    • @ezzylopez7286
      @ezzylopez7286 5 місяців тому +18

      Every time I go out and I see men approaching women. I still get approached and I was promised that would stop once I was 30

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +13

      I don't want any mam coming up to me in public. I never know who is going to rob me

    • @jayogee913
      @jayogee913 5 місяців тому +17

      "We're walking away. We really are. We mean it this time! You'll regret it! No more men for you! Don't bother us anymore! We don't want you 304s! Hear that? That's the sound of us walking away (AGAIN)! We're going! We're almost gone! Oh and another thing..." 🤡🤡🤡🤣🤣🤣

  • @ufos-cos
    @ufos-cos 5 місяців тому +34

    Peace, loyalty, and acknowledgement?!? That’s the same thing we want from men 😂😂😂

    • @ivanovskameow999
      @ivanovskameow999 4 місяці тому +4

      Except his version of ''peace, loyalty and acknowledgement" would be that the woman submits and forfeits a voice in the relationship to keep the (his) peace, expresses unwavering gratitude for the privilege of being used as that ogre's bangmaid, and be loyal means she cut off any support network that would not support his manipulation. He screams DV perpetrator to me.

  • @Ali-gb7mf
    @Ali-gb7mf 5 місяців тому +21

    These dudes want to hook up. Period. No commitment. No accountability. Good riddance.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +3

      That's it

  • @itsmainelyyou5541
    @itsmainelyyou5541 5 місяців тому +36

    No, do not let anyone gaslight you into compromising this still new independence. Men will acclimate to the new reality, or not. It's not your problem. This is on them, this is for them to fix.

  • @sg5720
    @sg5720 5 місяців тому +57

    😂😂😂😂they just want women to do as they want. That is it, that is all. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽🤣

  • @toogroovywavey136
    @toogroovywavey136 5 місяців тому +45

    Why are they shifting the blame to women yet again!!! This was about men having to be better people to have access to women. They are missing the point!! 😂

    • @jayogee913
      @jayogee913 5 місяців тому +5

      They are unteachable. I don't bother with them anymore.

  • @Kim-hu4ox
    @Kim-hu4ox 5 місяців тому +44

    Single and content! They say leave us alone but keep talking about it 😭

    • @jayogee913
      @jayogee913 5 місяців тому +7

      They've been walking away for so long now, too bad they're on a TREADMILL!

    • @awsambdaman
      @awsambdaman 4 місяці тому

      I mean..here you are doing the same

    • @jayogee913
      @jayogee913 4 місяці тому +3

      @@awsambdaman We're talking to EACH OTHER, not to men. We're not whining about wanting to be single and left alone. We're complaining about our space constantly being invaded by people we don't associate with any longer while we're trying to be single and left alone. Big difference.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@awsambdamanwhy are you men in this space amongst women anyways this is a woman's space

    • @yoachim91
      @yoachim91 4 місяці тому

      @@77kc_77 Invent your own internet, build and maintain it for women how about that? I am sure women will support you for it like women sports....

  • @acujenpete
    @acujenpete 5 місяців тому +65

    10:19, here's the thing, the reason this subject is so hot coming at women stepping away from older men and men in genera, is because it's going to cost the government more++++ to take care of the men that don't have women to be their nurse. Read that again.+++

    • @continuousself-improvement1879
      @continuousself-improvement1879 5 місяців тому +1

      Not only that, men who are married have their wives to nag them into taking care of their health. Now that women say "nuh uh, get somebody else to do it", then the burden of these men's health issues would fall on society, they would die faster or live on needing extensive medical care. Instead of making men take care of their own health, the government thinks it's easier to bully women to lower their standards again. Say it with me "Nuh uh, get somebody else to do it." 😌💅🏼

    • @sneadaleighson
      @sneadaleighson 4 місяці тому +1

      No lies detected

    • @sabrinamystified
      @sabrinamystified 4 місяці тому +9

      Yes. That's why they wanna legalize marrying 10 years old children. And ban abortions and contraceptives, etc.

    • @BudandBloomWithBlossom
      @BudandBloomWithBlossom 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@sabrinamystifiedMa'am, thank you for speaking the truth.

    • @sabrinamystified
      @sabrinamystified 3 місяці тому +1

      @@BudandBloomWithBlossom you're welcome 😊. The day these men completely lose access to women's free labor, we'll see this man-made faulty world system will start crumbling down. Us women will have to keep up the good fight until then

  • @Fire_Moon_Tarot
    @Fire_Moon_Tarot 5 місяців тому +47

    “Run the percentage up” 💯

    • @madalice5134
      @madalice5134 5 місяців тому +10

      Yup, we have always had to be hyperaware of them to protect ourselves, and they're hear whining about how they're percieved. She's absolutely right.

  • @thekameru6058
    @thekameru6058 5 місяців тому +76

    Lol whats new : )
    The bar for men has been in hell for a long time, and a startling number of them get very precious about lifting a single leg to step over even that.

  • @karenmassey8354
    @karenmassey8354 5 місяців тому +61

    1:45 That mentality will keep that guy and his friends single for life.

    • @Morozova48
      @Morozova48 5 місяців тому +23

      Exactly. Because what he is saying is absurd red pill rhetoric from those embarrassing podcasts...🤮🤮🤮

    • @devilmaycry9969
      @devilmaycry9969 5 місяців тому +10

      They should learn from their Boomer and Gen X counterparts that are elderly and trying to throw themselves at 20/30 year olds. These elderly men are now lonely and have nothing to offer. What the redpill doesnt like to sell is that men that were unsuccessful at their 20s dating, will most likely have problems as they get older. Men don't just magically become hotter after 30. From what I have observed the elderly men that are lonely were losers at their youth and there is a reason why they are single and don't have friends.

    • @UnrealDreamer3598
      @UnrealDreamer3598 5 місяців тому +2

      Males falsely believe that they age like wine when they get older. The truth is, they age like whine!

    • @karenmassey8354
      @karenmassey8354 4 місяці тому +3

      @@devilmaycry9969 Yes, exactly right 🎯

  • @flutatious_music4
    @flutatious_music4 5 місяців тому +53

    What happened to their 5G/6Q/7D/ whatever the heck movement?
    What happened to all that steam and bravado they had about women not going to be able to sustain the 4B movement and enjoy the single life?
    It seems to me that men need women more than women need men.👀

    • @sabrinamystified
      @sabrinamystified 5 місяців тому +17

      They were projecting their own insecurities and lack of self control like they always do.

    • @flutatious_music4
      @flutatious_music4 5 місяців тому +18

      @@sabrinamystified It’s pitiful. They always pull the “you can’t fire me, I quit” nonsense instead of becoming decent people.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +1

      Right you don't hear a word about the movement all projection and lies - enjoy my best life of 4B

    • @Morozova48
      @Morozova48 5 місяців тому +15

      None of us tried to stop them so they pretend it never happened🤣🤣🤣

    • @flutatious_music4
      @flutatious_music4 5 місяців тому +8

      @@Morozova48I was in support of it myself.✋🏾 🤣 they basically reiterated that we, as women, should be left alone.

  • @kaysera6566
    @kaysera6566 5 місяців тому +87

    If this is the same when fall and winter come around, I'll believe it. Guys love to be single during the spring and summer, as "cuffing" season approaches things change.

    • @user.194
      @user.194 5 місяців тому +27

      Exactly, once fall rolls around they will be looking for a roof over their heads😂

    • @jacquelynn2051
      @jacquelynn2051 5 місяців тому

      ​Yes!....and 'easier' sex access and meals and cleanliness and order. ​These SAME men will get with the single mother of two that they 'despise' because unless she is just a lost anomaly...her home is clean and has food and snacks. Their phallus and lack of ingenuity fails them every time.@@user.194

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +14

      Yep, they're on rotating when dealing with women to get their needs met - a place to sleep , food to eat, etc

    • @vonnii1013
      @vonnii1013 5 місяців тому

      Too late we have seen this coming while back so we have seen their cold ass winter....at this pt the seasons no longer really matter
      Oh boy n the blue lol we are not asking yall why yall are walking away....soo many of yall are predators and been stalking us from our childhood age and WE ARE FCKING TIRED!!!

    • @sammich-lp2qm
      @sammich-lp2qm 5 місяців тому +18

      I’m so happy you brought this up. And ladies, please don’t take in any strays.
      📣THE HOMELESS COMMUNITY IS ABOUT TO TRIPLE!

  • @Rose-kj7rz
    @Rose-kj7rz 5 місяців тому +47

    Wait, I thought men were looking for a woman to help pay the bills and and cook and clean for them? Like, wasn't this their thing last week?
    What happened to that in the last week?

    • @flutatious_music4
      @flutatious_music4 5 місяців тому +23

      This will always be their downfall. They can’t make up their minds. They lack conviction.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +25

      That guy who said men don't care about cooking and cleaning needs to talk to other men for the past 500 years!

    • @UnrealDreamer3598
      @UnrealDreamer3598 5 місяців тому +6

      The submissive provider is as real as a unicorn!

    • @Yomel123
      @Yomel123 5 місяців тому

      @@ecclairmayo4153right! Thats all they say they want 😅

  • @angelanotes
    @angelanotes 5 місяців тому +51

    Women have been told to choose better, and now they are (themselves) -- they are choosing to enrich themselves in so many ways, and I don't think that a lot of men have caught up. to be fair, I do blame my generation and those before it -- because the mothers of my gen and the previous generations (I'm childfree btw) raised sons and daughters differently -- even if they were telling their daughters to go out and get a career, etc., they were still raising their sons to be waited on. There's that entitlement that women are expected to do everything (in the words of an ad from when I was a kid women were expected to "bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and I won't let you forget you're a man"), and when an entitled person is being called out on their entitlement -- of course they are going to seek something to blame (feminism for example, has made women mean) instead of doing their own self improvement. It sucks to be lonely, and I do feel for those who feel that loneliness to a certain point where I ask them to do some self-reflection.

  • @BENZ_ASMR
    @BENZ_ASMR 5 місяців тому +23

    Woman were working even back then they just weren’t allowed to have access nor control their money, and the fact that they expect peace when they themselves take away that peace from women is wild

  • @YourGuiltyConscience
    @YourGuiltyConscience 5 місяців тому +46

    You dont lose everything (including access to your kids) unless the judge decides there is something Very wrong with you. These circumstances are not the default.

    • @BudandBloomWithBlossom
      @BudandBloomWithBlossom 4 місяці тому

      That is not true. The courts and judges are demonic.

    • @th-ck9vl
      @th-ck9vl Місяць тому

      Exactly. The men who actually do lose their kids typically are violent abusers who had so much evidence against them, the judges couldn't look the other way like they do with most abuse victims. Men who complain about this are usually very dangerous. Greg Ellis is a perfect example. He blames his wife saying she falsely accused him and says the custody court is like the cartel, poor men this, poor men that. Prominent mra who wrote books about it. Turns out he told a police officer he would hurt his kids and himself then broke into his wife's house through the window, violating a restraining order. His wife didn't even report it, a cop and a social worker did. These are the men complaining about losing everything. Because even abusers don't realize they are abusive and blame everyone but themselves. These men especially are the ones to run from. They're dangerous and the same ones saying women lie about abuse. Its because they don't agree what they did was abuse. Even men who strangle their partner still think they're innocent. Its insane the lengths mens brains go to lie to themselves. It should be studied.

  • @SheritaLee-er4sp
    @SheritaLee-er4sp 5 місяців тому +45

    Some also think they are entitled to you and you have no right to say no or turn them down. NEvER let anyone shame or bully you into something you don't want to do if it is not matching any of your beliefs, standards , and boundies. Trying to make others comfortable and happy while you are uncomfortable and miserable.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +1

      I ignore them and stay away from them for my own peace of mind and health - I agree 💯

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +1

      Exactly. Your standards are where they need to be. If he can't reach them, that's too bad. No bullying, guilt or intimidation should change it.

  • @TheRealBlackPanda
    @TheRealBlackPanda 5 місяців тому +27

    Most men should be single for a life time. Bring back eunichs. Hazaa.

  • @CN33449
    @CN33449 5 місяців тому +22

    Men have to take some of the accountability not blaming and making excuses. Also men are so used to getting everything but now its harder. I'm solo and childfree. Thank god.

  • @77kc_77
    @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +75

    TEAM 4B

    • @Armelleee
      @Armelleee 5 місяців тому +9

      Forever ✨️

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +6

      @@Armelleee Facts 💯

    • @raventolliver4316
      @raventolliver4316 5 місяців тому +10

      No bangin’, no boyfriends, no bridegrooms, no babies!!!

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +3

      @@raventolliver4316 Facts 💯

  • @MissTiffany01
    @MissTiffany01 5 місяців тому +35

    I get approached often but every now and then there are guys who just stare at me and honestly I just take it as God keeping them from me. Most men have a million red flags anyway. Even if at the minimum, the guy that’s staring but won’t approach most likely has low self esteem so he isn’t my type anyway.

  • @melpomene1492
    @melpomene1492 5 місяців тому +42

    Men absolutely still approach me and speak to me in public. And I really don’t want to be spoken to in public most of the time, so yeah, I actually do want them to stop this behavior.
    But the fact is that they haven’t ever stopped. This 95% of men don’t approach women thing is nonsense. I get approached. I see it happening to other women. It may be anecdotal, but so is what these dudes are saying.
    I’m glad if they are keeping away. I am grateful to the ones who do. If I want to talk to you, I will.

    • @chiobabe2180
      @chiobabe2180 5 місяців тому +5

      This! I’m like since when are they not approaching women ?
      I can’t mind my own business for 5min without someone’s son trying to spark up conversations, they even approach when I’m out with my MoM 😑 like what the eFF

    • @hurtingfeelingsdaily
      @hurtingfeelingsdaily 5 місяців тому +3

      I had to change the place where I get my oil changed 3 times because they were more worried about hitting on me than servicing my vehicle. Yes, please leave me alone

    • @awsambdaman
      @awsambdaman 4 місяці тому

      I think there are men who are bold or just don’t pay attention to social dynamics but I think a lot of men are avoiding approaching

    • @pld-wc7gf
      @pld-wc7gf 4 місяці тому

      ​@@hurtingfeelingsdailyomgggg... the last time I got my oil changed the man who was tabbing up the service was all but coming out of his drawers 😩 shame to because that location was is convenient but I will NOT be going back

    • @pld-wc7gf
      @pld-wc7gf 4 місяці тому

      ​@@awsambdamanI have noticed no change other than the fact that since turning 40, I get approached by more younger men than before I turned 40.

  • @itsmainelyyou5541
    @itsmainelyyou5541 5 місяців тому +36

    Okay, that's their choice. It's not women's fault. Go get your bag and good luck in 5 years. Hopefully, they've leveled up to be able to compete at that time. Women are already doing the same.

  • @madalice5134
    @madalice5134 5 місяців тому +26

    I keep hearing these guys saying they can't/won't approach women anymore, but that isn't the reality that I've seen at all. My job's staff is mostly female and a day dies not go by where the ladies are not approached and often times harrassed till we have to call security. The mall security is regularly on standby outside of our store instead of circulating through the whole building like they used to. I have enot seen hesitancy on their part unless one if our 3 make employees is at the front of the store ttoo, and even then, they'll follow the woman around the sttore until they have an isolated spot to try tto approach.

  • @cadijakareema
    @cadijakareema 5 місяців тому +48

    I dont believe they going through more than past generations. Men have been in slavery. Talking about healing. Heal from that😂

    • @zoe-ml8cx
      @zoe-ml8cx 5 місяців тому +12

      Trauma from giving birth no not that trauma from raising kids nope not that from home care nope not that whelp I can't find y they need therapy oh wait I figured it out from themselves 😂

    • @susanplatt5331
      @susanplatt5331 5 місяців тому

      Women were slave's too. They had to endure the same as bm and be sa, have their children unalived and stolen and have to take care of someone else's children. Male's want women to be their slave's. Their issues aren't historical, they're systemic, patriarchal and chromosome. They are well aware of their bad behaviour towards women and the damage they do. They aren't stupid. They simply need to oppress us to feel manly, to be superior, to boost their fragile ego's and remain lazy.

    • @xysarenottheprize
      @xysarenottheprize 5 місяців тому +13

      XYs have never had an easier time in all of human history and they’re complaining about how hard they have it chileeee 😩

  • @Speakup117
    @Speakup117 4 місяці тому +10

    Men are blaming women for the fact that they cant even be friends with each other 😂😂😂😂 i cant

  • @Queenzbree
    @Queenzbree 5 місяців тому +25

    Why do they think we care so much? 😂 I see all it takes is one question for context and they automatically think we gave a damn. Ladies please stop asking them anything it’s apparent that no matter what we say it will always be “Yeah she wants me😎” I’m done 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Karina_Engr
    @Karina_Engr 5 місяців тому +17

    If men stop abusing women and neglecting them emotionally, financially, relationally, physically, etc. then they might see a different result. It’s like doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Change, and evolve already.

  • @SamanthasUniverse
    @SamanthasUniverse 5 місяців тому +14

    I love this for us Ladies. I am at complete peace without a male getting on my nerves.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +3

      Same they're problematic

  • @BWTM
    @BWTM 5 місяців тому +21

    12:06 Y’all stop asking these dusties why they’re single and keep going about your business. The answer is science. Darwin was right. Nature adapts. The men on the other hand… 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @truettadevil
    @truettadevil 5 місяців тому +34

    Not the video ending with a Pick Me rant

  • @amberinthemist7912
    @amberinthemist7912 5 місяців тому +19

    I think it's weird and rude to hit on a women in public in non social oriented situations in the first place. Like at party or a picnic, ok. But if she's at the store or gym why?
    It would take me twice as long to vet a man who just walked up to me than if he joined my friend group and I got to know him first. I'm pretty sure just getting into the car of a random dude who demands your number at the walmart is how you get kidnapped.
    Maybe it's because I did all my dating before the internet.
    Edited to say men still openly hit on me in public while I'm with my damn kids with my big ass wedding ring sparkling. I'm nearly 50 and 30 lbs overweight. I wish they would quit.

  • @ybdini6428
    @ybdini6428 5 місяців тому +24

    I love that men are not approaching anymore! Us as women have faced a general fear of men for the longest and men never understood that until now! Now they are afraid of us! They should be! We are protected and if they harm us in any way we will have an army behind us! I will choose my man from now on.

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому +5

      I need them to leave me alone on public. That way I know who is dangerous or wants to rob me. I agree that is best we choose our own man instead of them just choosing us randomly on the street based on how we look

    • @shanicrystal8671
      @shanicrystal8671 5 місяців тому

      @@ecclairmayo4153 yes to this

    • @nappyfries
      @nappyfries 5 місяців тому +5

      I’ve had some of the most out of pocket things said to me in public. Like things that will make your jaw drop & think omg the audacity! It makes you apprehensive when a man approaches bc of that.

    • @ybdini6428
      @ybdini6428 5 місяців тому +2

      @@ecclairmayo4153 RIght!?! I trust my judgement way more than some men. After I heard about some of their standards (be pretty and nice), no wonder relationships fail, you need more than someone pretty and nice, fool!

    • @ybdini6428
      @ybdini6428 5 місяців тому +3

      @@nappyfries Exactly and considering men are becoming less and less socialized the interactions will only be more out of pocket. I want a man who knows about the stresses women go through and realize that women are in protection mode when they are in public. If you can't have a simple conversation without creeping people out and having them fear for their life then you need to leave women alone and practice with men.

  • @letstalknarcs
    @letstalknarcs 4 місяці тому +7

    Because we are no longer dealing with toxic, narcissistic, abusive, avoidant men. Right on!

  • @grimadean3432
    @grimadean3432 5 місяців тому +18

    I prefer to not be approached outside of explicit dating scenes, not even bars. Much of the time, it’s done in a work setting, including when I’m doing chores like shopping, *and* I now have to watch my back when my hands are full after rejecting them. That’s just the one who haven’t scared the shit out of me with catcalls or flashing, since I was a CHILD!

    • @luna-p
      @luna-p 5 місяців тому

      Especially since bags aren't much of a thing around here anymore, I gotta figure out which grocery item makes the best weapon and keep it in my dominant hand.

  • @sherrita8582
    @sherrita8582 5 місяців тому +29

    To the bald guy with the chain hanging on for dear life...as long as there are male relatives, mechanics, plumbers,lawncare service , construction, companies,painters,carpenters,etc, ladies we'll be alright..Men do what's best for you,ie there are cooks, maids, blowup dolls😂😂otr men

  • @VidWatcher01
    @VidWatcher01 5 місяців тому +20

    The bald dude is just full of excuses & delusion on top of blame shifting.

    • @nappyfries
      @nappyfries 5 місяців тому +7

      And the fact that’s talking about no benefits. Yeah bc easy access to sex, cooking, cleaning, being a personal assistant, counselor, etc. isn’t a benefit. 🙄He says those things don’t matter but they take those “non-benefits” pretty easily don’t they? I don’t see them turning those things down.

    • @darcy5761
      @darcy5761 4 місяці тому +5

      Everything he accused women of is actually what men do. Projection at it's finest.

    • @denesejamerson2356
      @denesejamerson2356 4 місяці тому +1

      He wants a woman who looks like Julia Roberts!

  • @HighFrequencyGuru
    @HighFrequencyGuru 5 місяців тому +44

    The guys just said they single because they trying to get themselves together I can respect that that’s normal.

    • @Armelleee
      @Armelleee 5 місяців тому +31

      You believe that lie lol
      Men will and can never leave women alone. Stop.

    • @blossom1290
      @blossom1290 5 місяців тому +9

      ​@@Armelleee you have weird dudes that can't take no or stalk you when you made it clear you don't want them, men will say this and that and the rest of their fellow males will do something else😆

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +21

      Men aren't getting themselves together so they don't get picked

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +11

      ​@@ArmelleeeThey should because noone is obligated to deal with them because THEIR existence is present

    • @nikkilong7377
      @nikkilong7377 5 місяців тому +2

      Men are not getting themselves together boo. They are too busy bashing single mothers, BW, sleeping with one another.
      They are yelling "you can't fire me I quit" after already being fired.
      Don't you find it odd that they went to get passports, and when that didn't work out, they turned to bashing single women, women, 30+, BW, and women. Then, when 4b hit, all of a sudden, THEY aren't looking for relationships. 🤔
      No.

  • @j.munday7913
    @j.munday7913 5 місяців тому +8

    Honestly, they are cowards. I had an ex-boyfriend tell me a 'hilarious' story about how an attractive young lady's car broke down in an intersection, and when his friends approached to help her, she first said, "I have a boyfriend!" So all these men left because she was rude and shrill, and she was apparently offended. Now, I'm sure that's not all that happened, but it's the story he told me. I asked him to consider how much harassment she'd gotten to make her so wary of the men clearly coming up to her to help that she needed to set a boundary. (I imagine it was one of the guys fishing around by asking if she called her husband or dad, and she answered with "my boyfriend." And that's all it takes. I also imagine he was on the way or a tow truck was already coming, so being young, she might have sent them away. Or she had the ick. It happens.) But the heroes in his story were the men who 'refused to deal with her bad attitude.' Obviously, he never got it, which is why he's an ex.
    The lack of empathy still bothers me. How fragile must you be to see someone in distress yet use her rudeness as an excuse to walk off without thought? People don't act that defensively without reason. Maybe she was a flaming hot bitch of the ages with pretty privilege, but why celebrate sticking it to her? Cause he wanted the one up on her. Imagine having that much resentment over someone not being available to you.

    • @awsambdaman
      @awsambdaman 4 місяці тому

      But these men stopped to help a woman they don’t know. Why would she be rude to them? Why point the finger at the men who were doing the right thing? Why not say, “hey these guys were just trying to help, they were going above and beyond, maybe we shouldn’t be rude to those helping us” it really is the bare minimum

    • @sashaclarke2749
      @sashaclarke2749 4 місяці тому +3

      Yeah, they’re petty and transactional!
      They only offered with the number in exchange (in disguise)!

  • @feliciajenkins5041
    @feliciajenkins5041 5 місяців тому +30

    As long as they leave us alone. They asked for us to leave them alone. Want a woman stop being irrational, unjust, stingy and nasty spirited.

    • @xletragedyx
      @xletragedyx 5 місяців тому +6

      Right??? Why are they telling us how to get them? We don't want them. Wtf is this nonsense?

  • @ufos-cos
    @ufos-cos 5 місяців тому +14

    Men don’t even like each other 😂😂😂

    • @missandry2669
      @missandry2669 4 місяці тому +1

      They kill each other daily have you seen the crime stats men are one of the biggest victims of other men

  • @themom2250
    @themom2250 5 місяців тому +19

    Because of dating apps, some men got the impression that they, could get any woman they wanted. For the last 5+, men thought that the dating clicks also worked in real time every day life. It doesn't. That beautiful woman that said hello to you on an app. May say hello to you at the store, but thats it. Same for the average girl. Men stop thinking what you say to a woman on an "app" is going to transfer over to real time. Just talk. If she doesn't want to take it to giving her number, move on. Just like the old days before apps.

    • @devilmaycry9969
      @devilmaycry9969 5 місяців тому

      Fools don't know dating apps are a sausage fest. The "hot" women on there are putting links to their insta/ onlyfans (for business/validation) , are bots or are the apps employees using fake/ AI/ dead profiles. A very attractive woman with a healthy mindset won't need apps to get a date.

    • @hurtingfeelingsdaily
      @hurtingfeelingsdaily 5 місяців тому +2

      This is a very interesting perspective. You're on to something. The apps have them living in a false reality.

  • @atomicgeisha
    @atomicgeisha 5 місяців тому +13

    Like my wise mother said no marriage is is better than an a miserable marriage.

  • @griarredondo3334
    @griarredondo3334 4 місяці тому +4

    I appreciate if a man knows he doesn't want a relationship. The challenge is a lot of them are so angry about it and many suffer from loneliness. I just hope they can figure out how to stay away from women without being so angry and lonely.

  • @1237tnb
    @1237tnb 4 місяці тому +7

    I have a friend (whose name I won't say), I literally watched him turn around and approach a woman who was all alone and bring her into the conversations we were all having, so she didn't feel alone. End of the story.
    These men who think women will think they are creepy just for approaching are dead wrong. Men approach me all the time for platonic reasons, and I think nothing of it, because they are not being creepy. I think all women would agree.
    I mean I literally just heard a news article about a male cop who offered a 16 yo girl a ride home and then unalived her in the woods. All men should be able to understand why women proceed with caution around them. If a man has a problem with that, then he should hold his fellow men accountable.

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 4 місяці тому +2

      I don't want any of them approaching me

  • @livelife5947
    @livelife5947 5 місяців тому +10

    Men: we’re leaving, you’re not listening so we’re walking away.
    Women: okay bye 👋
    Also there are no women asking men anything much less why they’re supposedly walking away. Literally *NO ONE CARES*

  • @teoleno4019
    @teoleno4019 5 місяців тому +10

    I don't want none of them. Please stay out of my face and do not approach me in public! 😒

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому

      Facts I don't want them approaching me anywhere

  • @eac-guy7272
    @eac-guy7272 5 місяців тому +24

    Maryjane what do you think about the married man who cheats on his wife with men?
    He doesn't call what he does cheating and he says he is heterosexual.
    He also stated that most of the men who he cheats with are married and in their 50s, 60s and 70s and he can have about 5 different men a day if his wife is away from home

    • @LoveK1
      @LoveK1 5 місяців тому +7

      I saw that!!!! He sounded zesty and he said he has them up in their marital house.

    • @ClaireGreen-wd2gm
      @ClaireGreen-wd2gm 5 місяців тому +5

      My ex husband cheated on me with women. After I divorced he started doing "cam work" basically OF type stuff mostly for other men. He then started sleeping with men, remarried to a woman, then gave her an incurable std when she was pregnant. Then he went trams for 3 years and changed his mind.

    • @ashleytheseeker8480
      @ashleytheseeker8480 5 місяців тому

      Thats extensive. I hopw you healed from that, hes definitely "fighting demons" and im nkt even religious ​@ClaireGreen-wd2gm

    • @ecclairmayo4153
      @ecclairmayo4153 5 місяців тому

      🤢🤮

    • @eac-guy7272
      @eac-guy7272 5 місяців тому

      @@ashleytheseeker8480 no it's not me. Saw it on another channel

  • @patty-pat-pat
    @patty-pat-pat 5 місяців тому +6

    'we are walking away in droves', said grandpa with his bold head and liver spots... Theyre pretending to have had options but werent satisfied with the quality, when in reality they had zero options in the first place.

  • @acujenpete
    @acujenpete 5 місяців тому +20

    Omg, the choade expounding on, we're not In-sells, we're saving ourselves for the fantasy women we project we'll have access to when we made bank. 😮😢😂

    • @artskies101
      @artskies101 5 місяців тому

      Incel*

    • @acujenpete
      @acujenpete 5 місяців тому +1

      @@artskies101intentional code switch

  • @luna-p
    @luna-p 5 місяців тому +7

    I don't care who anyone is dating. I don't want to date anyone. If no one else does either, so be it. I don't care who that makes lonely. I'm not responsible for your sadness. I'm not sad. I'm not going to make myself miserable to make you feel better.

  • @LauraSnow-in3nx
    @LauraSnow-in3nx 4 місяці тому +3

    To the man that saying that men lose access to their kids and have to pay child support my parents were divorced. My dad did not lose access to us. He still had custody every other weekend and if he had wanted 50-50 custody, he could’ve discussed that with my mother, I know she would’ve been more than happy to do that as far as child support goes I can’t help that you have to financially support your own child, if you don’t wanna do that, don’t have kids

  • @sue487
    @sue487 5 місяців тому +8

    12:25 man want peace and loyalty, but are they offering peace and loyalty lol 😂

  • @emilypaigem2000
    @emilypaigem2000 5 місяців тому +6

    I love the guy talking about how his friends want to wait 5 years for a “higher value woman” when they’re more established, have more money, etc. How much you wanna bet in 5 years they’re going to turn around and complain women only want them for money, women only value them for what they can provide, etc. Don’t try to use things like money, looks, or whatever it is to attract someone, and then complain when they want/value that

  • @penandpapercliche
    @penandpapercliche 4 місяці тому +5

    "We don't care about cooking or cleaning, we care about peace!" As if part of that peace doesn't include a clean home and a hot meal. Dude doesn't even know what he is asking for.

  • @stephaniemccabe2219
    @stephaniemccabe2219 4 місяці тому +5

    Are we asking though? Like how are we both asking why they're walking away but at the same time asking them not to approach us? These ridiculous expectations?! Ugh my gawd

  • @Risha-Rene
    @Risha-Rene 5 місяців тому +17

    Men act like women are just running to the courthouse & filing for divorce for no reason. No accountability. This is what happens when you consume too much Kevin Samuels & red pill content. You end up old & alone

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 5 місяців тому +1

      Yep , you don't hear a word about Kevin Samuels now or any of the red pill content

    • @awsambdaman
      @awsambdaman 4 місяці тому

      Redpill makes men bitter for sure. Can make you feel like there’s no good women. I think women may have similar issues with these type of online communities although they aren’t as mainstream as redpill yet. I understand why people gravitate to them though, we feel validated and that is not nothing

    • @yoachim91
      @yoachim91 4 місяці тому

      @@77kc_77 Not sure if you know but samuels has been dead for 2 years. Oooh lady there is a crazy amount of red pill content and the channels are way bigger then this 🤣

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 4 місяці тому +1

      @@yoachim91 here we go leave 4B alone you men are too focused on us and what we're doing go back to red pill content because KS messed you men up

    • @77kc_77
      @77kc_77 4 місяці тому

      @@yoachim91 none of us are dealing with you men

  • @evelove1505
    @evelove1505 4 місяці тому +7

    And in 5 years those women still aren’t going to want them lol . Just their money

  • @idreadFell365
    @idreadFell365 5 місяців тому +14

    They acting like women are the ones that are asking. “No women do not care leave them alone”