Fears & general thoughts about being read as non binary
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- just me rambling about being "read" as nb, and sometimes being read as a cis guy... mostly feelings and experiences in the past months
//Edit// Ummmmm when I saved the video it ended at 10 min-ish. Did not intend for a whole song to play out to a blank screen at the end lol
It's so awesome to see another nonbinary person of color on UA-cam! ☺ Your videos are super helpful to me, as I'm figuring out whether I want to take T at a low dose or not. Definitely wanna get top surgery, tho. I'm glad this channel exists! Good luck with your journey! I'm sorry people have been bothering you. They can be really ignorant. 😞
I think humans are so incredibly perceptive. From experience, if you don't fake confidence about belonging then people mirror that and begin to treat you as such. Do more of what makes you feel confident and happy because that what matters.
I'm really sorry about the horrible drive thru incident. I am happy to see an update from you regardless, and I hope you're having a good week.
A Ok yea that's my goal, trying to focus on my own self perception than other ppl's. and thanks :)
Im about to go through that too! Nonbinary and going back on 2 for a second go. Last time around I was too nervous about passing to do anything fun with my hair lol but this time I want to wear dresses sometimes and do my own thing more. Scared about it too but it makes me comforted to know that a lot of people are venturing through it. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Im sorry people were so rude to you, ugh how obnoxious. The people whose opinions matter are the people who listen to you when you tell them how you identify.
I'm so sorry that happened to you at your job, that's awful. Ppl crossing lines like that thinking it's ok to wonder and ask themselves about smthng so personal is disgusting. I'm afraid if it ever happened at my job id tell them to f**k off.
You def look a lot different from when you started! I relate to a lot of what you're saying tho. I've been on low dose for about three months and have def had some voice changes and trying to prep myself how to navigate that (plus restroom) w/this transphobic society. It sucks that we have to be picky about the spaces where we can be ourselves out of safety.
I've also dealt with trans guys trying to gender me as a guy knowing I'm nonbinary and it's really messed up. Hope you feel better too ✨✨
Great video! I'm going through something like this right now as well. Even though my gender and ideal presentation is nb, people try to put me into one category or the other so living as nonbinary seems to always need an explanation. I agree that it's frustrating to not know how you're coming across. I've found myself "butching it up" at school in order to make it more predictable, but even on my most "masculine" days I am gendered as female by some people. Thank you for making this video, looking forward to more.
B Erbes thanks! yea right now I'm finding it v weird to be seen as a cis guy, like I feel more trapped in my presentation then when ppl think I'm a cis girl. I'm mostly? ??? and frustrated by that