The Only Thing That Matters is What You Actually Do
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- Опубліковано 11 чер 2024
- In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually doing the work and not just planning and thinking about it. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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* Stop thinking, stop planning, start doing the work
* People don’t care about what you say, they care about what you do
* Life is too short to NOT take action
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I don't usually comment. I'm a woman and this message rings true for us too. I'm sitting here stunned because I'm super guilty/convicted. I'm always looking up ways to plan, productivity hacks, etc. But actually doing it? I can always find an excuse. And it has made me very unhappy with myself. My words for 2024 will be Discipline and Consistency. But I'm working on it now. I have to be wiling to make the sacrifice, even when I don't feel like it, and whether or not I have the support of others. Thank you for the kick in the butt today. Let's get to work!
Very true. 40 years ago all you had were self-improvement books and an occasional seminar in your town. Now you can watch self-improvement videos all day and enroll in online courses and get nothing done.
I also resonated with this message. Discomfort is now my friend. Discipline speaks!
Yep ~ my hubz actually turned me onto this site 👍
Stay with it.
Don’t wait for 2024, start today or tomorrow.
“The magic is in the work”
Just do it!!!
u do it
Finally, white lightening.. he was miserable, but what he did in fact love.
Ohh my MEEENNN🏃♀️Incoming coming down the line 🪄
Do what you know you should be doing, whether you feel like it or not.
Self discipline is controlling your emotions
im bored
Well said. Don't forget 'impulse control'.
I SUCK at self discipline.
Which is considered manly behavior, Because it is!
Feelings are not realistic
Best quote I’ve heard recently “Show up for your life, man”. That one hits me every morning when I wake up and get ready to be a part of this world and do my part. Let’s create a nation of builders.
Your life is YOUR fault !
I like this
Agreed. Taking total responsibility for your life is the only sane way to approach life.
best way is to not approach it
I hope you picked the right parents, because genetics determine most of this life you're "totally responsible" for.
In the Discourses of Epictetus, a Roman slave/stoci philosopher, he talks about advising an athlete who was supposed to be working out. Epictetus says "show me your shoulders" and the athlete replies with "here, take a look at the weights I have."
The philosopher responds "I am more interested to see the results of the weights." The Athlete replies, "but here, look at this book on working out I have read."
The philosopher basically responds with "either show be the effects of the work or be gone. I have no interest in the tools of the work, but the work itself."
These are lessons that have been reiterated for thousands of years, and yet people still forget. Keep up the good work.
"Go Do The Thing" I'm putting that on a T Shirt. I'll send you one
You are so right, we tend to procrastinate, thinking about doing, talking about doing , instead of actually doing.
I know I personally read a lot, talk a lot, think a lot , and actually do very little.
The old saying “ action speaks louder than words “ is so true.
Was the guy you had a conversation with that delivered your wood products a UPS driver? 🤔 Just wondering because I am a UPS driver myself
Listened to this while cleaning my room. I know it’s a small thing, but I hope finally cleaning my room snowballs into bigger change. I need the change in my life now. I hope everyone who sees this gets motivated to just start doing it, and I look forward to what the future holds for me and you all. Stay blessed.
My Dad always told me "make the most of what you have", being any situation. That's resonated throughout life for me. But I have been worried about getting busier with more work demands and activities. But if only what I DO is a good thing and I can look at it more positively. Thank you 🎉
Discipline. Consistency. Deadlines. Creativity. Reflection. Repeat.
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True but if it's ruin health and family change is possible we have choices and that's blessing to be able to make choices to make change to be alone not to be stuck .
Words are just words until action actually starts, and actions speak louder than words, but at the same time words speak louder than actions because sometimes it’s the right thing to do.
"Very cool"
Nice reference lmao
I'm a female but I love this channel's message and I love real men. I'm trying to be a better woman too. Thank you.❤
a "real" man today would simply be a sucker for feminists. as a man, do whatever the hell you want.
I dont know if the UA-cam algorithm is reading my mind but this video was what I needed litteraly this moment. I've been contemplating stating a business and have been learning and watching videos for almost year on how to do it, but I just didn't feel like starting it. Thanks for this message, and I hope anyone reading this will start what they have been thinking about right now. Btw I am only 16
no we r not reading ur mind..we are becoming ur mind....words and frequency have a conscious spiritual being behind them..all of these things u r letting into your Minds (brain, heart, bowels) and we then are able to place thoughts that u think are urs because we are in you...the Producer also know as the Creator wants ur temple but we need it for the infinite eternal power within you so we occupy your mind with worthless temporal vanity...-AL
Try feeling the same way dude and be 56 years old like me. Im excited to start but im full of regret that I didnt start earlier in life.
It's never too late just take the first step@@loft006
Do it!
Great video brother.
" Do what you can, with what you've got, where you are". - Theodore Roosevelt
I'll remember that and share it. Thank you.
....and consider why you have what you have, within this intergenerational human economy
@@bremlquan I have what I have because I worked my ass off for 26 years . My father was a convict and drug addict. Lot of intergenerational benefits there.
@@bremlquan dry your tears friend, my father was just as much a loser as yours was
your race isn't why your life sucks
THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE MY HUSBAND EVER HAD ME LISTEN TO ♥️ We women can learn so much from you Men. Thank you!! I have now subscribed to your channel 😁 The whole world could benefit from this video. Expecting more from our sons is needed by me. Beautiful message. Real Men Rock!!
Thanks man this is the kick in the ass I needed; no fluff right to the damn point. When you said “our kids need us to work”, it really touched a nerve in my soul ..thank you
You're 100% about doing, that's the thing that separates the successful from the dreamers. Until two and a half years ago I was a dreamer. When I shifted into doing mode, I am now less than two years from being financially independent and that's if I keep at my same pace. Do, stop talking and take action. It pays.
Well said
Procrastinating is another issue
Not taking action
Taking that first step towards a goal
Men at every age get stuck
This isn’t always true. If your developing a creative product or maybe a peice of software the time you spend thinking and planning could be instrumental
You missed the point. This is about moving past that phase once you are in a planning and design tailspin and actually turning the key. It's more difficult to do that for some people than to create the idea itself. It was for me. It's so worth sharing and encouraging others though once you get over that hill because there is room for everyone to be successful. Best wishes to you if you are working on one of those projects.
99% of us work for the 1% who never gave up on their dreams.
You're 100% right. @@davidbooher5559
You might be one of the few creators i’ve seen who actually says What you did to start, and i can’t even tell you how important it is to hear that stuff. Buy the sites, buy some equipment, and write. It all seems daunting and hard until you realize it isn’t, it’s a lot of small steps taken over and over until success comes. Thank you for the content
Today is my birthday. I created a logo for my business and kept thinking of begin moving. Like you said I was just “thinking” this is the best birthday gift. I need to act like a man and MOVE. Thank you. Sometimes we need the “harsh” and “judgmental” message!
More voices like yours, in today's world, are greatly needed and appreciated brother. Thank you.
Crazy timing that I come across this now. Just made the decision to finally apply for my dream job and put in my notice at my current job. Starting the new one January 1 and I feel alive again. Paralysis by analysis was my issue for years. Great video, Ryan.
Out of all the motivational videos I've watched in the last few months, THIS IS THE ONE that's resonated with me the most! This is what I needed to hear! Thanks, bro!
Thanks for encouraging us to “just do it!” Planning is good, but much of the time, people need to just start “doing”sooner!
Man, thank you. That's exactly what I needed to hear at this time in my life. I've been out of work for the past three months and have been racking my brain about what to do. Your message is one of encouragement, even though you think you're in a bad mood. Thank you.
Thanks man. This video is a game changer. No selfhelp sh*tty books (I've reed tons of em) tell you what you actually have to do (or don't), it just create more anxiety and the willing to buy more books..Straightforward message that's all. I'll share with my beloved ones.
I started doing this a little over 2 years ago. I was and still might be, but to a lesser extent a podcast junkie. Something clicked though and I decided that I would be the one in my family to elevate my bloodline and open my own business. I come from a long line of hard workers non of which owned a business though and therefore only made it so far. “Why not me”
“Why not you?”
All of the information is at our fingertips.
Stop thinking and start doing!
Learn it as it comes up.
You don’t have to learn everything before you start.
Wow!! I cant believe you haven't come up in my fyp before now. Thank you dear sir for doing the work your doing. We desperately need more men like yourself in this country, and in this world now more than ever. So again thank you sir❤
I totally agree with this sentiment. I would always say I wanted to start a UA-cam channel but never took action until one day I shut my mouth purchased a tripod a ring light and started it. Now Im almost at 2k subs and I was approved for monetization so I'm not stopping until I'm 6 ft under. Life is too short so if you want to do something just do it, simple as that.
Ryan, I couldn't agree more with your message today. It's so easy to get caught up in the planning, thinking, and dreaming without taking the crucial step of actually doing the work. Your words hit home for me, and I appreciate the reminder to stop the mental gymnastics and start putting in the effort. This weekend, I'm committing to taking action on the business idea that's been lingering in my mind for too long. Thanks for the motivation!
This is exactly why I enjoy your podcast with my growing son and with my daughter! Life is about choices and consistency, embracing the challenge of doing what you're fearful of. Hardworking men's podcast and great leaders. My son still listens to man in the making reruns in his room while he's falling asleep.
One of the realest videos on youtube.
'Do what you can with what you've got where you are' great quote.
Right On! I know this but I need to hear it over and over again sometimes. I fell in a rut and need to get back into just action. Keep it coming. Great speech.
Nearly 7 years listening to your podcast, This!!
Bring this Fire!
One of the better ones.
Tough to hear, good to know
This video just saved my year. I was totally paralised with all the "knowledge and excuses" that i have inside of my mind, and this man just showed me that mu problem is that I just think about the thing instead of do it. Thanks mu friend, great job helping people to put the thing in movement and just get to work 🙏
I needed this message. You’re a good man. Putting yourself out there and propelling the message men NEED to hear. Not some fake motivation. Appreciate your efforts.
This is one of the best , most timely, and extremely relevant podcasts I have seen from you. Deeply appreciated. I needed to hear this
Needed this! Thank you
Solid man. Thanks. Subscribed.
I am a woman as well and this was great for any gender to hear. Keep going. Your message is really dead on.
For some reason I've been subscribed for who knows how long but this is the first video I've watched. So. Good. Such a good message. It hurt at times but it's what has to be said and heard. I loved your attitude, your tone, your wisdom, everything. Thank you.
Thanks Ryan, I needed this message today.
My Dad always told me "make the most of what you have", being any situation. That's resonated throughout life for me. But I have been worried about getting busier with more work demands and activities. But if only what I DO is a good thing and I can look at it more positively. Thank you
I’ve never left a comment on a video. This is the most important podcast on the internet. Glad you were in “a mood” thank you for this video.
"Action is the only truth "
Is how I live my life.....
Wise words to live by. Thank you for sharing. This resonated with me on some level.
I hope you make more to life than that. Bad actions are possible.
@@mishasumi6827 that's where you learn from your mistakes....
@@mishasumi6827 To laugh is to risk appearing the fool,
To weep is to risk being called sentimental.
To reach out to another is to risk involvement.
To expose feelings is to risk showing your true self.
To place your ideas and your dreams before the crowd is to risk being called naive.
To love is to risk not being loved in return,
To live is to risk dying,
To hope is to risk despair,
To try is to risk failure
But risks must be taken, because the greatest risk in life is to risk nothing.
The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing.
He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow or love.
Chained by his certitude, he is a slave; he has forfeited his freedom.
Only the person who risks is truly free.
instantly subscribed. this is the exact material i needed to commit to the ventures i’ve been wanting to begin but have been dragging my feet while i’m in community college and doing part time construction. thank you
Man I needed this.
Thank you for this message!
Good shit brother. Never apologize for being right.
With everything you've said , it makes Jesus Christ a True Man indeed . He also expected to have followers , They were all servants , who got on with the distribution of His message , GO, and make disciples, Lay down your lives for others , . Serve. Cheers ❤NZ
Good stuff, Ryan!
Thanks for putting it out there.
Just found your channel. It’s 8am on a Friday morning Dec 1. Walking on my brand new treadmill. Committed to walking 4 hours per day (will adjust as needed) dang “no carb” only worked when I was young and walking everywhere. Today I make money but sit on my butt. Lol so “zero carb” is useless without that caloric deficit/activity
Happy to have found your channel. Your call to action and sense of total ownership resonates with me. That’s some 10X stuff right there.
I’m type A: when I want something, I get it yesterday. I loved my life starting new projects but many of the trees proved to be unfruitful. But I learned and I had fun. People said this was an addictive personality but now I understand this is a blessing.
The guy who shoots first and aims later is going to hit more targets than the dude who is still shopping around for the perfect rifle.
Catch you in the next video! Tommy
Move to a mountain a few miles from the nearest town and walk/ruck it for a year. By your third time up the mountain your conditioning starts to kick in and you'll be surprised how easy an 8 mile round trip with about thirty to forty pounds of groceries like it's nothing. It's just your doing and as long as you are in tune with who you are the doing becomes effortless.
@@markflores9055 Not going to build wealth on a random mountain though.
I needed to hear this. Thank you
Thanks so much for this...I needed this
Great episode. It motivated me to subscribe.
Sounds pretty solid bro. Keep it up.
My biggest issue, as a man with autism, is that I was raised to give people the benefit of the doubt and live by the Golden Rule. When one person shows themselves to be the jerk they are, I log that and move forward accordingly. Problem is, it has taken me a very long time to develop the mindset that I should stereotype people based on my observations of their behaviors and how they may compare to others I've known. If someone I've never engaged with reminds me of someone who screwed me due to their similar actions, I should probably not give that person the benefit of the doubt but make them earn my trust.
Great advice, thank you Ryan
Needed to hear this today. Thanks for the reminder!
You are amazing Ryan, you make good content, you inspire others, the things you say are great and awesome. You do not show it in the way you talk or non-verbally express yourself when you do those things. Stop thinking about it, it is not true.
Such a great video. Thank you ❤ I need to take more action. This hits hard.
I love this bro. Don’t stop for us!!
Thank you for this man.
I just found your channel right now, and i just so happen to be making changes in my life like starting a business. This is crazy
One of my favorite videos to date. Thanks Ryan. I needs this today.
Very good video message brother!!
It’s so easy to whine and complain as I see so many people doing!!
The real work is in taking action taking each step especially when you’re scared!!
Blessings to this podcast brother!!
Let’s get off our rears and do the work 🙏
I began the work today. I have a lot of work to do but I’m going to make it happen. Thank you.
This is what I needed to hear.
Thank you.
hell yea. exactly what I needed. most of the time the videos aren’t worth the click.. this one was
Needed this
Simply put action speaks louder than words.
Really love that you are passionate enough about all this enough to say…” if all you do is listen to these podcasts without action…. Then unsubscribe.”
That is true commitment to the message! Big props brother! 💪💯
Best thing I’ve heard today !
Spot on brother!! Last year I decided to get my insurance life and health licenses and it took me a few months and then I had to do all the Medicare certifications that took a few months but now I’m doing the work and still working as a x-ray tech. Doing the work is the only way to live life!!!
It is my first time watching any of your videos. This was recommended by youtube, im going to subscribe because i found this video inspirational, thank you.
This was a great video. Thank you.
Ecclesiastes 9:10 (NIV): "Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might, for in the realm of the dead, where you are going, there is neither working nor planning nor knowledge nor wisdom."
This is what I needed. Thanks
Thank you for taking action. And thank you for sounding us to start doing. I'm going to stop this comment and DO just that. Thank you. Thank you!
I needed to see this Ryan . The work needs doing.
Thanks🙏🏼🙏🏼I will try!
Good podcast man. Enjoyed
Thanks Ryan! I often fall into that trap of JUST reading, studying and listening to tons of content but then find myself not putting it into action. Without action it’s useless head knowledge. Thanks for the reminder to “Do the work!”
Same here. I’m so in my head! I suffer from the “paralysis of analysis” syndrome. I’m a perfectionist by nature, and it serves me very well most if the time. My clients love me, and I’ve built a great reputation at being “the best” in my field. The problem is, I analyze new ventures to death, and each time I have a great idea and become defeated by over analyzing, I’m beaten down that much more.
@@klayvonisme Same! I was raised to fear everything and in the last 10-15 yrs I started taking risks that I normally wouldn’t have taken and it’s mostly paid off. However, there are a few areas where I still suffer from the paralysis of analysis you described. It’s usually in my career. I’m tired of what I’m doing now and need to go after what I’m passionate about.
@@Aaronymous_71 same, again. I’m self employed (28 years) and really need a change of direction. I’m in a rut where, I’m not feeling passionate about much at all. Thankfully, I’m at a place in life where I’m sorta semi retired so I have time to be free from the grindstone and explore options. I also end up thinking away the time I’ve been given. I’ve been really stuck.
@@klayvonisme I’m 52 and I’ve been in the same industry since I exited high school. I’m blessed that it’s supported me and my family but I fell into this job, it wasn’t anything I was passionate about. Years of complaining and feeling unsatisfied and never making a change. I beat myself up over it thinking it’s too late to change careers at my age. I’ll never know unless I take action. It’s right now or never.
Same here.
Thank you for this!
Thats true my brother. The more valuable men out here the better this world will spin as well as teaching the young ones our ways. Lets get it ! Top G
Priceless message… Thank you for sharing it, Ryan!
Great message Ryan! Off to get busy doing.
The message I needed to hear this morning (7am where I am, watching YT). Now searching another dozen YT videos that'll tell me how to get off the couch and do the dishes.
This was a fantastic video. This made me think about my UA-cam channel. I’m in year 3 and the one thing that has helped me grow is just showing up and doing the thing (making a video)
Thank you!
Well that was cool. Subscribed!
Thank you for this...
I'm right here right now. Doing what I can with what I have and where I am. This is exactly where I'm at. I'm not sitting around waiting for it to happen. Like I have for so long. Thanks brother 👍
Very good video, brother! Right on time!
Great comprehensive message buddy
This is so damn simple, and yet I still on the regular just stay lost THINKING and TALKING about doung stuff. This is dumb. I'm listening to this today, and looking at myself and saying "Just do the damn thing!". Thanks for the honest motivation. Keeping stepping on my toes and kicking my ass, man. We as men appreciate this, and we need to hear it.
I have been saying this forever. People want to manifest using the law of attraction. It's such a lie. Thank you for this. I get up and actually do something. U never followed any gurus I followed my own intuition. I get up and do the actual work. I am getting back to life,
This message is 🔥🔥🔥
After nearly 9 years, with 2 years worth of training, 3 different places of work, and 10000 plus hours of experience, at 3am the other night, I finally did the thing. I've got my apprenticeship registration in, and a great work sponser, finally. Blue book is coming soon.
Thanks man. Going to go train and keep my head straight. I appreciate the reminder.