They both seem foolish. He says he doesn’t like the spotlight yet he still pursued jlo again anyways knowing she’s still in the spotlight, now he wants to look miserable at award shows & paparazzi photos when that’s what he signed up for🙄 and she foolish for taking a alcoholic, cheating male back & she never takes time to just be single, she stay in a relationship. If it didn’t work the 1st time it won’t the 2nd time no matter how much you love each other
Nothing had change 20 years then and 20 years later. It seems Jennifer listen to her own counsel. She did not even listen to her bestie Leah Remini who warned her, she was not even invited to the wedding and their friendship was over. Jane Fonda give her the best advice. Jennifer is an over-sharer. She have never heard the word PRIVACY!
Yep and theirs a psychological reason why she’s feels the need to over share and prove it as “excitement” for her love or the romance. When no one asked for it. I said it on someone else’s platform she likes the “idea” of marriage but she has some trauma from young somewhere.
And she still hasn't learned. I don't think Ben wanted all of that attention but look at her. Since the announcement she's all over the blogs showing off everywhere. She needs to go and meditate somewhere quiet. Ben was totally innocent, but Jennifer takes half the blame.
@@believensee8621 she will never learn. She will continue acting the same way. She needs to give it a rest and take a looooooong, hard look at why she feels the need to broadcast every detail of her personal life all.the.time.
She wanted to prove something to Arod. She wanted to prove she moved on and was on to the next instead of taking time to heal from that relationship. Going back rarely works. Hopefully, she heals now.
Yup, people have forgotten that this marriage was a rebound from ARod. In Jan 2020, she was with him, then that is over and she is with Ben. I was hoping that she knew something that we, the public, didn't. I guess not.
Jlo was trying to re-create their 1st time together and it failed. She didn’t want to see Ben had changed in 2 decades and he has ongoing substance abuse and mental health problems.
Ben didn't make her look foolish. She made herself look foolish. Having that grand wedding doesn't ensure that your marriage will make it. We all know it. When you do too much, we all know that there are problems. I was hoping that it would work out, but they both have their issues that they both aren't willing to change.
Completely agree with your comment. Good observation.. I thought the same, first time around Ben couldn’t deal with paparazzi. 20 years later Jen more famous, paparazzi all the time. If they didn’t work on the reasons that broke them up first time around… it’s inevitable that those reason but it’s their fault, not one sided. Should have just lived together, no legal entanglement.
As a woman, I’m normally immediately on the woman’s side. However, in my humble opinion, JLO needs to spend a couple of years dating herself. She had just broken the engagement off with AROD, when she & Ben hooked back up. She didn’t give herself time to heal from the AROD relationship.. Next, from the Word GO, Jennifer made this thing with Ben a WHOLE PRODUCTION instead of a relationship/marriage. Two weddings?!? What do you have to prove? This was marriage #4🤦🏾♀️Why? If it was about a rekindled love, another chance… she should have kept it as private as possible, allowing them to just enjoy one another, blend their families. Yes, Ben has his issues, and is in the business, but I think it’s for the ART, not the Pomp & Circumstance. She needs a good therapist to work with her & figure out why she can’t separate the two.
I mean no harm but the second I saw she let a bunch of people read Ben personal letters to her I knew it was over but somehow she feels humiliated that he was helping his daughter settle into college with his ex. I've never been married I'm smart enough to know that I could never marry a man with all the trauma I haven't worked through
Hey Fumi aka big sister! I'm from the Bronx and JLo was a big thing for my generation (I was a kid during the In Living Color days). After a while it was never about what she was doing but who she was with so I and many others just paid her no mind. My mom saw the hoopla on her marrying Ben after all this time and the first thing she said was "Her mama didn't tell her not to go backwards! I give them a year. After he's gone, she better sit in a room with herself and think about her life."
I said it before, and I will say it again. There is something with her, it is not all her, but she is the major factor to all her relationships breaking up.
Are you kidding me. Two things can be true at the same time. There’s clearly something wrong with him. He cheated on his wife with the nanny. He has a drinking problem and maybe even a drug problem.
She does not accept him. She is the mother of his children, so she has a permanent connection to him. Which is always going to give them a different bond then with J-lo
I love listening to older people or couples that have been married for 30,50 years and up.lm no spring Chicken, lol I have been single and celibate for a long time but l try to learn and retain the wisdom older people want to share so l don't repeat the same mistakes in a future relationship.
And something else I want to add...I wish people around her would tell her to stop with these relationships and flip flop from one to another. For an independent, successful woman Jennifer seems very insecure....
Honestly my favourite part was the phone call with the delivery person(s)😂 I loved that real life moment and hearing Aunty Fumi speaking so loud because she's struggling to hear him/her😂 I'd watch your reality show Aunty Fumi😂❤
Jennifer is the epitome of the lover archetype. They love love and passion, but have a hard time using their heads in matters related to love. Just like Liz Taylor. She will marry again, I'm sure. It's in her nature.
Stop comparing Jlo to the ETaylor. One was a great stage & movie actress with 2 Oscar & 5 nominations. The other a mediocre individual inside out with no education.
@@chiablum1453she’s not comparing “talent”, she’s comparing “marriages”. I agree with her. Jen just may give Liz a run for her money. I can definitely see her marring again and again and again….to infinity and beyond
Jlow should not be mentioned in the same sentence as the magnificent Elizabeth Taylor. Jlow should be compared to Kim K. Two non talented women who can’t keep a man.
I heard she allegedly rushed to get married because she was scared Ben would get cold feet like years ago when they were engaged. He was infatuated. She was in love. Never love a man more than he loves you.
We say to women, don't put up with men's BS, but when a woman says enuf and steps down, we critique her vs the guy who, in this case, is a walking train wreck. We women, we try too much. Ben's an A-hole. If he just "loves the chase," why don't we further examine these men. What's wrong with them?
Ben was on my ship for the Pearl Harbor Premiere, and he was an A-hole. For example, he got mad that he couldn't smoke on the flight deck. Well, Einstein, you can't smoke because the deck is covered in JET FUEL! And there were other moments, but that one of the lovely memories. I never liked him after that.
Jennifer knew exactly who Ben was when she married him, he not only showed her but showed and told the world who he IS !!! HE does not like to live his private life out in public, but she shares EVERYTHING! he is an alcoholic but you brand and promote alcohol , you made a movie about your love life when he was not in favor of you doing so, You dress like you are not married when he expressed not in favor of some of your outfits being so revealing. Whether you are famous or not you must consider the wishes of your mate. Don't blame Ben look at all of her past relationships the common denominator is Jennifer. She needs to spend time with herself before entering a new relationship.
I am not being a hater but some of us knew that this relationship was doomed from the start. Ben dumped Jennifer years ago and she should not have taken him back. He hurt her so badly and it seemed she wanted to prove a point. This guy is highly political and elitist and so a relationship within the Kennedy family is not surprising.
He dumper her, fully knowing things would come back around for him too. They were cheating while she was married to chris. So he knew he couldn't really trust her and life would pay him for what he did. 20 years later, they both got what they deserved.
They are different people! Jen overshares her life, and Ben doesn't. She tried to make him something he wasn't - a media darling. Something he never wanted. Jen was doing too much, sharing their intimate relationship with the world on social media and even making a movie and sharing his love letters. And her starting an alcohol business when your partner is a recovering alcoholic. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should. Lesson learned. Jen needs to take some time and fall in love with herself. The best love story that should not have been told/ revisited. Life happens. No need to now show us how happy you are now post Ben - we already know. Figure out who you are and do you, Jen.
Why would she go after a settlement? That is just foolish and vindictive and keeps Ben in her life longer than he needs to be. She best be careful that doesn't backfire since she is worth more than him.
I honestly feel that it is unfortunate that a man who has had not one, but two failed marriages,is getting off scotch free. Yes we know it’s Jlo’s fourth marriage. Ben sought after her twice after sobering up and his divorce. If the issue is that Jennifer’s lifestyle was too loud and paparazzi filled then he should have stayed with Garner( his other Jennifer) because we didn’t hear much about her after their marriage until the end. Him allegedly using sobriety as a reason for him wanting a divorce , but choosing Jennifer, is like walking into a burning building. I’m not a fan of JLo, but yes, he did make her look like a fool. He did not have her back.
Jennifer is that type of person who knows what she wants and gets it. She also likes to be in control...in my opinion. Ben just isn't fitting into that role, you can tell, and wasn't going to.
Ben always looked miserable when they were out together. Sometimes he looks like he was forced to show up. Both of them seem need to sit with a therapist. So happy for J. Gardner.
Aunti Fumi, I want to feel bad for Jlo. But I remember the time when she married Marc Antony literally three days after he divorced a lady called Dayanara Torres (Miss Universe Puerto Rico) he was married to Dayanara, had two babies and divorced her in a flash for Jlo.
JLo made herself look foolish constantly bragging about their love. I noticed Ben barely said a word but she went ballistic over Ben. Ben is going to win this divorce. JLo needs to grow up and let Ben and his kids be.
Jennifer G. Lost her boyfriend, due to being to involved in Ben’s life. Ben just used her for her body. He made a bunch of promises just to get back into her bed.
I think she allowed how she looks get into her head. Her body especially and but it's more than that. She let flattery get the best of her, don't believe all the praise you get even if it is true.
Fumi, everything you are saying is so true. Ben loved the chase. This is what it comes down to. He chased J Lo while she was still with Alex Rodriguez and when he got her he became complacent. He also chased her the first time around when she was with Cris Judd. Ben always wants what he can't have.
Sitting up there trying to be the modern day Elizabeth Taylor or Zsa Zsa Gabor (IYKYK). JUST BE BY YOUR DAMNED SELF, Jennifer! It's okay... it really is....😢
FUMI, YOU'RE LOOKING STUNNING IN THAT DRESS, YOUR FASHION SENSE IS JUST IMPECCABLE 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🌏🌏🌏🌏🌏THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR TAKE ON THE BENIFER SITUATION. WAS NICE TO SEÈ YOU ALSO COMING TO WARD OFF THE PAPARAZZI FROM JENNIFER GARNER 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🌝👍🏾YOU AND YOUR FAMILY CONTINUE TO ENJOY LIFE AND LOOK AFTER YOURSELVES. GOD BLESS YOU🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🌏💎💎😀🌝
Fumi, it was very nice of you to distract the paparazzi and reprimand them but as much as I like Jennifer Garner, she has been known to discreetly call the paparazzi herself to film and photo her doing “mum” stuff. It makes her look more relatable and down to earth. So, I would not have been surprised if she had called the photographers herself in this situation , LOL. But good for you for sticking up for her!
All the Ben is at fault and Jen is a victim people: Fumi did say he’s a disaster as well(in her own words). But imagine love letters that you wrote someone being shared with strangers. The feeling of being exposed that Ben must’ve felt 😩Ben and Jennifer were holding on to a feeling and the older versions of themselves realised it was an illusion. I just wonder how things would be or who they’d be with had they not held onto that fantasy version for so long
Prayers for them both. They need Chris urgently...then everything will fall in place..bit by bit. Because they have "success", talents, money ,looks and still chaotic and miserable. Only God can settle this
Can’t these people just live their lives in PRIVATE???? Why do we all need to know about someone else’s business???? This is the problem with the world now, NOTHING is SACRED anymore.
I actually think they did much better keeping things secret this time. They got married on the whim. No one knew. Second married was quite. Can’t blame them for people leaking private pics
Jennifer, baby, you're not getting that money back. Y'all were married. You voluntarily paid for everything. Sorry, babes. Cut your losses and move on. You would have to prove he purposely defrauded you. Move on, hon.
Sad, hopefully they both find happiness. It's important to not rush things and to take the time to see if you are even compatible. You can love someone very much but simply not be compatible.
Why would they record that message btw J&J... very weird. She sounds like a nosy old woman... going straight to the point...eish Hollywood and drama....
Jen and Ben are two people in the flashing lights. They both used each other to not only social climb, but brand building. This trend with the men doing what some women have done is growing. Jennifer and Ben trauma bonded due to child hood wounds. Ben comes from divorced parents, and that has played out in his behavior using alcohol to cope, as well as women. Jennifer comes from a broken home, where both her parents were either working , or too self involved to pay attention to her. What did she do? She went outside for that attention. First by running track, then dance. As she begin getting recognized for those things, she became addicted to that attention, and until this day, is constantly seeking it. Even Ben said, he does not think that it would ever be enough. The other fact is, that Jennifer and Ben first got together while Jennifer was married to Chris Judd. Facts. Ben over stepped boundaries during the film "Gigli", and Jennifer let him. Then she wants us to believe that she is a victim? Nah. All this trauma bonding, has once again left two already broken people, with more open wounds that never healed from childhood.
She needs to stop talking to the Press and PR. Even if everyone supports you, you still need to live with you own choices and decisions. The fact she paid for the wedding is a no-no. She would have cancelled the wedding. Jennifer G and Ben have a great friendship and co-parenting. She should have asked Jennifer G
If you get a Tiger for a pet, you can’t be too shocked if it eats your face at some point. Ben is a stumble bum, look at how he treated the mother of his children. Cheating on her with the nanny (and probably others) blaming her for contributing to his alcoholism. Is that husband material JLo? Girl! Ben is like Hugh Hefner, he will probably get married to some 25 year old when he is 70 and she will spend her time taking care of him. Or he’ll end up some forgotten loser somewhere unless he decides to grow up and stop wasting everyone’s time. Either way JLo shouldn’t let him drag her down any longer.
Your arms look Amazing. I just lost some weight, but there is stubborn belly and arm fat. I am afraid that I broke my arm, so now I will lose muscle mass. You look Great!
One thing you should learn Jlo..never chew your gum twice. You broke up for a reason...never go back and pay attention to the red flags and keep the public out of your relationship.
No you and Jennifer Garner exchanging “I ❤ you” like you two just left coffee and yoga! I love it!
😂🤣❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️
@@UGOOMERO right!
Moral of story: keep your private life private.
It's very sad. Jane Fonda did express her concerns but she didn't listen.
That's a lady with serious experience. And a true love for Jennifer. Jennifer made a mistake here.
When your aunty calls to give advice you sit still and listen. 💁🏽♀️
I love how you answered the phone in the middle of our conversation, I feel like we’re really hanging out 🥰😂😂😂
They both seem foolish. He says he doesn’t like the spotlight yet he still pursued jlo again anyways knowing she’s still in the spotlight, now he wants to look miserable at award shows & paparazzi photos when that’s what he signed up for🙄 and she foolish for taking a alcoholic, cheating male back & she never takes time to just be single, she stay in a relationship. If it didn’t work the 1st time it won’t the 2nd time no matter how much you love each other
Perfectly said💯
Jlo comes off extremely needy and controlling. Jane said it, trying too hard. She should concentrate on her kids, they'll be off to college soon 😔
Nothing had change 20 years then and 20 years later. It seems Jennifer listen to her own counsel. She did not even listen to her bestie Leah Remini who warned her, she was not even invited to the wedding and their friendship was over. Jane Fonda give her the best advice. Jennifer is an over-sharer. She have never heard the word PRIVACY!
Yep and theirs a psychological reason why she’s feels the need to over share and prove it as “excitement” for her love or the romance. When no one asked for it. I said it on someone else’s platform she likes the “idea” of marriage but she has some trauma from young somewhere.
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And she still hasn't learned. I don't think Ben wanted all of that attention but look at her. Since the announcement she's all over the blogs showing off everywhere. She needs to go and meditate somewhere quiet. Ben was totally innocent, but Jennifer takes half the blame.
Perhaps the absolute humiliation of this experience will finally teach her.
@@believensee8621 she will never learn. She will continue acting the same way. She needs to give it a rest and take a looooooong, hard look at why she feels the need to broadcast every detail of her personal life all.the.time.
She wanted to prove something to Arod. She wanted to prove she moved on and was on to the next instead of taking time to heal from that relationship. Going back rarely works. Hopefully, she heals now.
Yup, people have forgotten that this marriage was a rebound from ARod. In Jan 2020, she was with him, then that is over and she is with Ben. I was hoping that she knew something that we, the public, didn't. I guess not.
She should have made it work with ARod, They were making $$ together, kids blended and he wanted to out there with her, yet not steal her shine.
She won't heal if she continues to blame others instead of taking accountability
I might be wrong, but I think he played her for a fool.
Jlo was trying to re-create their 1st time together and it failed. She didn’t want to see Ben had changed in 2 decades and he has ongoing substance abuse and mental health problems.
And she changed too! Has a lot of work done. She lightened her skin, her eyes look weird Look at the rat the Met gala .
Ben didn't make her look foolish. She made herself look foolish. Having that grand wedding doesn't ensure that your marriage will make it. We all know it. When you do too much, we all know that there are problems. I was hoping that it would work out, but they both have their issues that they both aren't willing to change.
Completely agree with your comment. Good observation.. I thought the same, first time around Ben couldn’t deal with paparazzi.
20 years later Jen more famous, paparazzi all the time.
If they didn’t work on the reasons that broke them up first time around… it’s inevitable that those reason but it’s their fault, not one sided. Should have just lived together, no legal entanglement.
Those reasons will break them up a 2nd time around.
She had a Las Vegas wedding. What's grand about that?
As a woman, I’m normally immediately on the woman’s side. However, in my humble opinion, JLO needs to spend a couple of years dating herself.
She had just broken the engagement off with AROD, when she & Ben hooked back up. She didn’t give herself time to heal from the AROD relationship..
Next, from the Word GO, Jennifer made this thing with Ben a WHOLE PRODUCTION instead of a relationship/marriage. Two weddings?!? What do you have to prove? This was marriage #4🤦🏾♀️Why? If it was about a rekindled love, another chance… she should have kept it as private as possible, allowing them to just enjoy one another, blend their families.
Yes, Ben has his issues, and is in the business, but I think it’s for the ART, not the Pomp & Circumstance.
She needs a good therapist to work with her & figure out why she can’t separate the two.
That dress is Beautiful, and I love thrifting!
I mean no harm but the second I saw she let a bunch of people read Ben personal letters to her I knew it was over but somehow she feels humiliated that he was helping his daughter settle into college with his ex. I've never been married I'm smart enough to know that I could never marry a man with all the trauma I haven't worked through
Jen seemed to be desperate about marriage and that within itself is the problem
Hey Fumi aka big sister! I'm from the Bronx and JLo was a big thing for my generation (I was a kid during the In Living Color days). After a while it was never about what she was doing but who she was with so I and many others just paid her no mind. My mom saw the hoopla on her marrying Ben after all this time and the first thing she said was "Her mama didn't tell her not to go backwards! I give them a year. After he's gone, she better sit in a room with herself and think about her life."
Mom knows best!❣️
Wow. Fumi knows everybody!
Yes but why did she post her own video on social media now? It's no different than what the paparazzis were going to do.
I said it before, and I will say it again. There is something with her, it is not all her, but she is the major factor to all her relationships breaking up.
Exactly! The common denominator is Jlo
She is too much. Doesn't know how to live life under the radar. She has to be always seen.
Stop blaming the woman
Are you kidding me. Two things can be true at the same time. There’s clearly something wrong with him. He cheated on his wife with the nanny. He has a drinking problem and maybe even a drug problem.
She does not accept him. She is the mother of his children, so she has a permanent connection to him. Which is always going to give them a different bond then with J-lo
Your talents seem to have no end. Now you're doing alterations ?You go girl! You can do it all! I want to be just like you when I grow up. Love you. 💕
I love listening to older people or couples that have been married for 30,50 years and up.lm no spring Chicken, lol I have been single and celibate for a long time but l try to learn and retain the wisdom older people want to share so l don't repeat the same mistakes in a future relationship.
And something else I want to add...I wish people around her would tell her to stop with these relationships and flip flop from one to another. For an independent, successful woman Jennifer seems very insecure....
I feel bad for her she’s really loved him.. I hope she’s will find happiness someday..
Yeah, I really feel bad for her
If she were anyone else, I'd feel really bad for her, but guys, this is her karma. The playa got her comeuppance.
I hope you felt bad for the men she dumped or for the wives & kids of the married men she got involved with
Feel sorry for her?..lol..The woman's a narcissist..she's already acting like she's over it. Husband #5 coming soon
She needs to find self love first.
Honestly my favourite part was the phone call with the delivery person(s)😂 I loved that real life moment and hearing Aunty Fumi speaking so loud because she's struggling to hear him/her😂 I'd watch your reality show Aunty Fumi😂❤
Me too
This guy is something else…, ask his ex wife!!!
Never go back to an ex lover!😂
You are such an angel 😇, aunty Funmi. Standing up for your fellow woman is such an amazing act. Thank you 🙏.
Jennifer is the epitome of the lover archetype. They love love and passion, but have a hard time using their heads in matters related to love. Just like Liz Taylor. She will marry again, I'm sure. It's in her nature.
Stop comparing Jlo to the ETaylor. One was a great stage & movie actress with 2 Oscar & 5 nominations. The other a mediocre individual inside out with no education.
@@chiablum1453she’s not comparing “talent”, she’s comparing “marriages”. I agree with her. Jen just may give Liz a run for her money. I can definitely see her marring again and again and again….to infinity and beyond
Jlow should not be mentioned in the same sentence as the magnificent Elizabeth Taylor. Jlow should be compared to Kim K. Two non talented women who can’t keep a man.
I heard she allegedly rushed to get married because she was scared Ben would get cold feet like years ago when they were engaged.
He was infatuated. She was in love. Never love a man more than he loves you.
Yessss! You did the right thing sister Fumi. Getting them away from Jennifer G. 🙏🏽🙏🏻🙏🏿🥰🥰🥰🥰👏🏾👏🏾👏🏼👏🏼
I love your presentation on all of your projects the stories grab your attention ✨✨🌻🌻💛Great work!
We say to women, don't put up with men's BS, but when a woman says enuf and steps down, we critique her vs the guy who, in this case, is a walking train wreck. We women, we try too much. Ben's an A-hole. If he just "loves the chase," why don't we further examine these men. What's wrong with them?
@@juliatripp2010 I agree
Ben was on my ship for the Pearl Harbor Premiere, and he was an A-hole. For example, he got mad that he couldn't smoke on the flight deck. Well, Einstein, you can't smoke because the deck is covered in JET FUEL! And there were other moments, but that one of the lovely memories. I never liked him after that.
Women choose the men,and Jennifer chose twice and got burned.
Except she didn't have a pre-nump. So. There it is. Stupid. *But, you're also right. He's a PIG.
Jennifer knew exactly who Ben was when she married him, he not only showed her but showed and told the world who he IS !!! HE does not like to live his private life out in public, but she shares EVERYTHING! he is an alcoholic but you brand and promote alcohol , you made a movie about your love life when he was not in favor of you doing so, You dress like you are not married when he expressed not in favor of some of your outfits being so revealing. Whether you are famous or not you must consider the wishes of your mate. Don't blame Ben look at all of her past relationships the common denominator is Jennifer. She needs to spend time with herself before entering a new relationship.
Mama Fumi :) just stopping by and hoping you, Ole and Adrian have blessed days ahead. ❤️ take care 😊
I am not being a hater but some of us knew that this relationship was doomed from the start. Ben dumped Jennifer years ago and she should not have taken him back. He hurt her so badly and it seemed she wanted to prove a point. This guy is highly political and elitist and so a relationship within the Kennedy family is not surprising.
Right ✅️ 🎉😅
He dumper her, fully knowing things would come back around for him too. They were cheating while she was married to chris. So he knew he couldn't really trust her and life would pay him for what he did. 20 years later, they both got what they deserved.
Yes, he strikes me as those elitists that think they are presidential/royal descent.
They are different people! Jen overshares her life, and Ben doesn't. She tried to make him something he wasn't - a media darling. Something he never wanted. Jen was doing too much, sharing their intimate relationship with the world on social media and even making a movie and sharing his love letters. And her starting an alcohol business when your partner is a recovering alcoholic. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should. Lesson learned. Jen needs to take some time and fall in love with herself. The best love story that should not have been told/ revisited. Life happens. No need to now show us how happy you are now post Ben - we already know. Figure out who you are and do you, Jen.
Especially him being from Boston....Kennedy family is all Boston.
Why would she go after a settlement? That is just foolish and vindictive and keeps Ben in her life longer than he needs to be. She best be careful that doesn't backfire since she is worth more than him.
I honestly feel that it is unfortunate that a man who has had not one, but two failed marriages,is getting off scotch free. Yes we know it’s Jlo’s fourth marriage. Ben sought after her twice after sobering up and his divorce. If the issue is that Jennifer’s lifestyle was too loud and paparazzi filled then he should have stayed with Garner( his other Jennifer) because we didn’t hear much about her after their marriage until the end. Him allegedly using sobriety as a reason for him wanting a divorce , but choosing Jennifer, is like walking into a burning building. I’m not a fan of JLo, but yes, he did make her look like a fool. He did not have her back.
so, if any of your exes try to come back, they can, or you have choices?
Jennifer is that type of person who knows what she wants and gets it. She also likes to be in control...in my opinion. Ben just isn't fitting into that role, you can tell, and wasn't going to.
Now he’s gone period never coming back period you played yourself period stop getting married period!
Both of them are completely at fault. Maturity should have fully showed its hand in this situation, period. I wish them both the best.
Ben always looked miserable when they were out together. Sometimes he looks like he was forced to show up. Both of them seem need to sit with a therapist. So happy for J. Gardner.
Fumi out in these Santa Monica streets photobombing the paparazzi is gold!
I'm just here for the comments 😂 Love the 👗
Aunti Fumi, I want to feel bad for Jlo. But I remember the time when she married Marc Antony literally three days after he divorced a lady called Dayanara Torres (Miss Universe Puerto Rico) he was married to Dayanara, had two babies and divorced her in a flash for Jlo.
This is Ben? I've never seen him smile from ear to ear like this!
Fumi, you keep it real, it’s not only designer clothes you wear, you visit the thrift store, you’re just like us🤪love it.
Fumi that phone call toook me ouuuutttt 😂😂😂😂😂
Well done Sister Fumi... "I'm going to spoil the whole thing..."👏👏👏
JLo made herself look foolish constantly bragging about their love. I noticed Ben barely said a word but she went ballistic over Ben. Ben is going to win this divorce. JLo needs to grow up and let Ben and his kids be.
Jennifer G. Lost her boyfriend, due to being to involved in Ben’s life. Ben just used her for her body. He made a bunch of promises just to get back into her bed.
Criticism is not jealousy.
The dress you’re wearing is soo beautiful🌸✨. Great video. I especially like your general life advice videos. Thanks Fumi!!
Fumi-you speak it straight and correct!
I think she allowed how she looks get into her head. Her body especially and but it's more than that. She let flattery get the best of her, don't believe all the praise you get even if it is true.
Auntie Funmi, queen of receipts❤❤❤
Fumi, everything you are saying is so true. Ben loved the chase. This is what it comes down to. He chased J Lo while she was still with Alex Rodriguez and when he got her he became complacent. He also chased her the first time around when she was with Cris Judd. Ben always wants what he can't have.
Not “he’s left the building” aunty Fums 😂😂😅
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Sitting up there trying to be the modern day Elizabeth Taylor or Zsa Zsa Gabor (IYKYK). JUST BE BY YOUR DAMNED SELF, Jennifer! It's okay... it really is....😢
"ALL LIES WILL BE EXPOSED" "This is the year of reckoning"KATT WILLIAMS
Yep! She need to start playing Ashanti song “FOOLISH”…..!!🤣🤣🤣
The problem is that Jlo can’t sing!!!
@@Alicia-qo4ed lol🤣🤣🤣
Fumi are real and I love that about you!❤ That dress is beautiful!🥰🥰🥰
FUMI, YOU'RE LOOKING STUNNING IN THAT DRESS, YOUR FASHION SENSE IS JUST IMPECCABLE 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🌏🌏🌏🌏🌏THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR TAKE ON THE BENIFER SITUATION. WAS NICE TO SEÈ YOU ALSO COMING TO WARD OFF THE PAPARAZZI FROM JENNIFER GARNER 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🌝👍🏾YOU AND YOUR FAMILY CONTINUE TO ENJOY LIFE AND LOOK AFTER YOURSELVES.
GOD BLESS YOU🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🌏💎💎😀🌝
Fumi, it was very nice of you to distract the paparazzi and reprimand them but as much as I like Jennifer Garner, she has been known to discreetly call the paparazzi herself to film and photo her doing “mum” stuff. It makes her look more relatable and down to earth. So, I would not have been surprised if she had called the photographers herself in this situation , LOL. But good for you for sticking up for her!
All the Ben is at fault and Jen is a victim people: Fumi did say he’s a disaster as well(in her own words). But imagine love letters that you wrote someone being shared with strangers. The feeling of being exposed that Ben must’ve felt 😩Ben and Jennifer were holding on to a feeling and the older versions of themselves realised it was an illusion. I just wonder how things would be or who they’d be with had they not held onto that fantasy version for so long
This. She was wishing on a star. I just thought she was more savvy than this.
There are demons definitely involved in all this mess. We need to pray for all involved, especially the kids.
this is what happens when you pursue a guy. it never will work, cant believe she paid for everything
Miss you are so elegant with class
Well said Auntie Fumi
He play her. She was in a relationship when Ben was sending her a love note..
Prayers for them both. They need Chris urgently...then everything will fall in place..bit by bit.
Because they have "success", talents, money ,looks and still chaotic and miserable. Only God can settle this
AAAMEN ‼️
Who's Chris?..lol
Can’t these people just live their lives in PRIVATE???? Why do we all need to know about someone else’s business???? This is the problem with the world now, NOTHING is SACRED anymore.
How many times did JLO TELL THE WORLD HER BUSINESS?? Check the docs, interviews, books and songs! Don't blame us.
I actually think they did much better keeping things secret this time. They got married on the whim. No one knew. Second married was quite. Can’t blame them for people leaking private pics
That's what Ben also gets for flirting with a woman who was married and they cheated while she was with Chris! What goes around comes around!
Love you Fumi ! You naturel.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Nice outfit. The half slip is perfect for a summer dress 😊
Can you do a shop with me please, I would love to see how you choose these outfits and reimgine. Hope you see this comment 🙏🏾
I really like who you've been mentioning that this is an example of when not to stay in the marriage. It hurts the kids and themselves.
Jennifer, baby, you're not getting that money back. Y'all were married. You voluntarily paid for everything. Sorry, babes. Cut your losses and move on. You would have to prove he purposely defrauded you. Move on, hon.
Sis ,, oooh I love it ! ♥️♥️♥️ you can get a lavender slip and put it under the built-in slip. Create a beautiful layer 💜💚💜 yea?! 😀
Ben Affleck is a king with two Oscars ❤❤
He is beautiful when he smiles
Sad, hopefully they both find happiness. It's important to not rush things and to take the time to see if you are even compatible. You can love someone very much but simply not be compatible.
Ben tried to stop her from looking foolish and she refused to listen to him.
yes jennifer brought it on herself
I love this lady keep it up,gal.👍🏽
You’re spot on dot. Everyone with experience can see it. I feel for them both.
The dress is fabulous Fum🥰
Hi Auntie Fumi, did you mean to keep the phone call with the delivery man in the video?
👀👀👀👀👀 Oh Em Geeeee! Nooooooooo! Cringe!!! 😬 sorry my love! I forgot to edit it out!!!! 🤣😂🤣😂😳😩🫣🤣😂
@@FumiDesaluVold no worries xx
@@FumiDesaluVold don't worry beautiful Auntie Fumi. I loved it. Made me laugh so hard 😂
@@FumiDesaluVold Ole was not on editing duty today? Lol ❤❤
@@FumiDesaluVoldthat was my favourite part though!😂❤
Love you Fumi you are so real
And Oh I forgot to say you look gorgeous.
Why would they record that message btw J&J... very weird. She sounds like a nosy old woman... going straight to the point...eish Hollywood and drama....
You look absolutely gorgeous 🥰🤩 stunning girl!!
You did it all on your own Jennifer from the Block
She was scorned from a rod leaving her…she had to grab another man fast.
Yup. 💯
An expert narcissist doing what a narcissist does best🙃
Love the dress
WHY Would A Woman "Pay For Everything", Especially Your Own Ring??
Jen and Ben are two people in the flashing lights. They both used each other to not only social climb, but brand building. This trend with the men doing what some women have done is growing. Jennifer and Ben trauma bonded due to child hood wounds. Ben comes from divorced parents, and that has played out in his behavior using alcohol to cope, as well as women. Jennifer comes from a broken home, where both her parents were either working , or too self involved to pay attention to her. What did she do? She went outside for that attention. First by running track, then dance. As she begin getting recognized for those things, she became addicted to that attention, and until this day, is constantly seeking it. Even Ben said, he does not think that it would ever be enough. The other fact is, that Jennifer and Ben first got together while Jennifer was married to Chris Judd. Facts. Ben over stepped boundaries during the film "Gigli", and Jennifer let him. Then she wants us to believe that she is a victim? Nah. All this trauma bonding, has once again left two already broken people, with more open wounds that never healed from childhood.
She needs to stop talking to the Press and PR. Even if everyone supports you, you still need to live with you own choices and decisions.
The fact she paid for the wedding is a no-no. She would have cancelled the wedding. Jennifer G and Ben have a great friendship and co-parenting. She should have asked Jennifer G
You look faboulous!! ❤
You're wonderful!
If you get a Tiger for a pet, you can’t be too shocked if it eats your face at some point. Ben is a stumble bum, look at how he treated the mother of his children. Cheating on her with the nanny (and probably others) blaming her for contributing to his alcoholism. Is that husband material JLo? Girl! Ben is like Hugh Hefner, he will probably get married to some 25 year old when he is 70 and she will spend her time taking care of him. Or he’ll end up some forgotten loser somewhere unless he decides to grow up and stop wasting everyone’s time. Either way JLo shouldn’t let him drag her down any longer.
The dress? Fabulosity!
Your arms look Amazing. I just lost some weight, but there is stubborn belly and arm fat. I am afraid that I broke my arm, so now I will lose muscle mass. You look Great!
True words of wisdom.
One thing you should learn Jlo..never chew your gum twice. You broke up for a reason...never go back and pay attention to the red flags and keep the public out of your relationship.