My husband and I separated about a year ago. I was so lost but also I knew that dating so soon wasn’t going to help me nor my kids. I was touched by the holy spirit eight months after the separation. I believe Jehovah was already guiding me without knowing. 😊
Stacy I'm so happy for you and even if I don't know you I'm so grateful that God helped you like that! :) You are such a beautiful, sweet lady! :) Praise the Lord :)
@7:20 Behaviors I've encountered in the wrong kind of men and good behaviors to look for. Bad Behaviors a. Anger issues b. Overly suspicious c. Too Jealous d. Don't make sound decisions in life e. No goals/No drive to improve his life Good Behaviors a. Assertive, yet humble b. Strong minded, not quick to follow trends c. Believes in God/Faith d. Makes good decisions e. Actively working on goals But, don't get it confused, a man who talks about God or marriage doesn't mean he's "The One". These days that's all part of the game to get what he wants and keep going. Forget being hung up on a man because he goes to church or even gets involved in church activities - a lot of devils do that. I'm learning as a single woman desiring marriage to a 'sane' and loving man to be on the lookout for qualities like: sincerity, loyalty, consistency, and honesty in a man. I see men in church all the time (i.e. The BK serial killer was a Sunday School teacher) so men who do the 'church' thing don't really impress me -anybody can put on an 'act'. I need to see some deep-seated attributes that's going to keep showing up in his character and personality every time - now, 'that's' the REAL person and that's what I've learned to look for. (So hope this helps single women who has this notion that a good man is the one she sees in church or who talks to her about marriage - baby girl- he knows those are conversations your single and lonely self want to hear -let's just be real about this). Whether good or bad, his actions are going to speak volumes over the conversations he has with you. If they align with his words, AND he's consistent over time AND THEN you may just be on to something good.)
I agree with many of these. I think the biggest thing though, is does he live his life for God with the subsequent fruit showing in his character and in his deeds? If he's under pressure does he go to God or escape into movies or busy work? Does he seek God on his knees? Does he pray with you - not just table prayers, but real in-depth Holy Spirit led prayers? Does he walk the talk? Is he merciful to the downtrodden, homeless, needy, wounded? Does he share the love & gospel of Christ with them both in word & deed? Is he kind and nurturing toward animals? And how does he treat (& speak of) his mom?
"To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife..." 1 Corinthians 7:10-11
The only thing about this is listening to just one side of the story! I pray that this young lady truly is in the Lord and I mean saved that means she has accepted Jesus Christ as her personal Lord and Savior and not just going to church because church do NOT save you people can know the bible and still not have a relationship with Jesus I've seen many of those people. My experience 20 something years ago the Lord Healed my physical body because I was dying but I still didn't have a relationship with him until I was in my late 30s when he saved me! Thank you Lord!🙏🙌🙏
ya know.... people dont think about it, but look... Isaac and Rebekah ... was an arranged marriage... today women would utterly hate it as just more patriarchal evil...
Thanks for your testimony. It helps to hear from someone who has been there.
My husband and I separated about a year ago. I was so lost but also I knew that dating so soon wasn’t going to help me nor my kids. I was touched by the holy spirit eight months after the separation. I believe Jehovah was already guiding me without knowing. 😊
Dating while still married (separated) is immoral. Just letting you know kindly. Unless u are divorce, u are free to date. Blessings
Stacy I'm so happy for you and even if I don't know you I'm so grateful that God helped you like that! :) You are such a beautiful, sweet lady! :) Praise the Lord :)
You’ve heard it said “ finding love in all the wrong places “ well if you’re finding love outside the will of God , then it’s wrong .
wow, amazing testimony.
She was not bashing her ex. It is probably just the title that the producer chose.
I'd be willing to bet that she robbed her husband of happiness too. Women always wanna blame men and never take any responsibility for anything.
@7:20 Behaviors I've encountered in the wrong kind of men and good behaviors to look for.
Bad Behaviors
a. Anger issues
b. Overly suspicious
c. Too Jealous
d. Don't make sound decisions in life
e. No goals/No drive to improve his life
Good Behaviors
a. Assertive, yet humble
b. Strong minded, not quick to follow trends
c. Believes in God/Faith
d. Makes good decisions
e. Actively working on goals
But, don't get it confused, a man who talks about God or marriage doesn't mean he's "The One". These days that's all part of the game to get what he wants and keep going. Forget being hung up on a man because he goes to church or even gets involved in church activities - a lot of devils do that. I'm learning as a single woman desiring marriage to a 'sane' and loving man to be on the lookout for qualities like: sincerity, loyalty, consistency, and honesty in a man. I see men in church all the time (i.e. The BK serial killer was a Sunday School teacher) so men who do the 'church' thing don't really impress me -anybody can put on an 'act'. I need to see some deep-seated attributes that's going to keep showing up in his character and personality every time - now, 'that's' the REAL person and that's what I've learned to look for. (So hope this helps single women who has this notion that a good man is the one she sees in church or who talks to her about marriage - baby girl- he knows those are conversations your single and lonely self want to hear -let's just be real about this). Whether good or bad, his actions are going to speak volumes over the conversations he has with you. If they align with his words, AND he's consistent over time AND THEN you may just be on to something good.)
Sweet Sugar 101 awesome
I agree with many of these. I think the biggest thing though, is does he live his life for God with the subsequent fruit showing in his character and in his deeds? If he's under pressure does he go to God or escape into movies or busy work? Does he seek God on his knees? Does he pray with you - not just table prayers, but real in-depth Holy Spirit led prayers? Does he walk the talk? Is he merciful to the downtrodden, homeless, needy, wounded? Does he share the love & gospel of Christ with them both in word & deed? Is he kind and nurturing toward animals? And how does he treat (& speak of) his mom?
But then one also needs to be living a life worthy of such a person... ;)
"To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife..."
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
The only thing about this is listening to just one side of the story! I pray that this young lady truly is in the Lord and I mean saved that means she has accepted Jesus Christ as her personal Lord and Savior and not just going to church because church do NOT save you people can know the bible and still not have a relationship with Jesus I've seen many of those people. My experience 20 something years ago the Lord Healed my physical body because I was dying but I still didn't have a relationship with him until I was in my late 30s when he saved me! Thank you Lord!🙏🙌🙏
ya know.... people dont think about it, but look... Isaac and Rebekah ... was an arranged marriage... today women would utterly hate it as just more patriarchal evil...
Such emptiness in her. Can’t relate.