Yup I seen a lot of comments over looking that part because one she’s American and two she’s a crying woman. Yes he was wrong for cheating BUT when you try to control someone, hold shit over their head, etc they are going to do everything to leave specially if you not letting go after they said they don’t want to be with you. I’ve seen a lot of couples like this on Love After Lockup and 90 Day Fiancé where they get with these people just to say they have someone or use wealth, or the government against them when they get upset and it’s sick. Just because your not confident and happy with yourself doesn’t mean you get to make somebody miserable with you. Let them go cause words can lead to physical thing happening
It seems like she was in the wrong more than him. Constantly threatening to send a spouse back to their country after every argument is sickening I’m sorry
Because she knew "back to Nigeria" was his pressure button and he needs the G card. She lacks relationship skills. Karamo said it, she's not had a proper relationship before, that long distance one wasn't proper that's why she wanted skip over it. Edit: She's not a user, she's a bit immature, but was desperate for love and looked to him to feel validated and he simply saw an easy green card.
Nah, he straight played her. Her mistake was that she did not send the pimp back after the first time. He was out having fun and not spending time with her. She deserves more. Nigeria is notorious for scams. She messed up from the start by going around the world to be treated like that. :(
For all the people who have loved and lost just remember the sun will shine again. Rule number 1 start with loving yourself and spirit first and then be with the person who matches your energy. No one will value you more than you. One life. Live it and Love it.
1. She took his money that he was saving for them to get their own apartment, WITHOUT his permission 2. She belittles him in front of her friends 3. She takes their arguments to social media by dissing and embarrassing him 4. She tells him she will send him back to Nigeria when they have a disagreement 5. Their needs aren’t being met, she wants more time, he doesn’t have time to give. He wants children and she’s not ready. It’s a long list but I think she’s playing the victim when it seems to me that she has done more damage to end this marriage.
That's what I'm talking about we sure have cried that cry before so we understand just what she's going through keep praying and the Lord will be with you and all you're going and there is nothing in this world can hurt because the Lord won't let it he won't let you get snatched out of his hand so with that keep the Lord first always with that amen
No we haven’t. I have never been hurt by a man ever. I r been with my first and only for over 20 years. I’ve cried when my loved ones passed. But that whole cry is very different from that cry she’s crying. And in my opinion, I think she was using him. I felt that way before her husband came out on stage. I really sense that from her. And when he said everything was about money with her and sending him back to his country and everything I knew I wasn’t tripping. Some people need to feel that hurt and cry that cry to know you can’t treat people like that. As for him, I believe he was cheating with that lady in the vehicle and he’s gonna get karma as well.
@@prettygirltee8 Thank God your marriage is an exception! Many women and men has experienced heartbreak may it be in their 20's, 30's, 40's, etc. and it's definitely not a good feeling! Be blessed!
You can't really bully a grown man into loving you, there coming from 2 very different places, I'm sending you back to your country is not really respectful, he is caught 100%, stay closer to home and reinvent yourself.. no threats word games next go around 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹❤️
I agree. This is well said. Also I wouldn’t be too happy if someone posted my business that went viral. I’d dump someone for doing that alone. Too many people are sharing their relationships with the world and it’s not needed. Karamo had asked her twice “why did you post the video?” She knew exactly why! Too many people need the validation of others too express themselves to gain some sort of comfort. A relationship should be amongst two people firstly and yes if needed go to friends and family for support then fine. Don’t post your personal drama for likes! Simple
Lol the narcissism on this chick is crazy and the fact that she had so many people fooled is astounding. She forced those tears and never NOT ONCE did she own up to the things she did to tear him down because "he wasn't spending time with her"... she def wanted to control that man and tried scare tactics to do so. I really can't bring myself to feel for home girl
Carlos reminds me of my son he was just 13 years but he used to hold and catch everything but o used to leave him he died young but he really enjoyed his short life
It doesn't sound like she tried that much neither...listen to what he was saying as well! She thought she could hold that green card over his head. He used her but she used him too💁🏾♀️
Karamo said it, she's not had a proper relationship before, that long distance one wasn't proper that's why she wanted skip over it, hence lacks relational skills and self esteem. Plus he doesn't want to spend time together, you need that for sex and for a relationship to grow She's a bit immature, and was desperate for love and looked to him to feel validated and he simply saw an easy green card. Hence he was SO nice and attentive before getting married, she said he changed after. They usually change when the stay is secure or nearly secured in USA or UK etc. And yes some are happy to make babies because it gives them advantage. I know a few people it's happened to sadly.
Ppl are quick to jump on him. Bt in America we tend to let ppl out side our relationships mash it up. Plus if u take a spouse from a different culture please learn that culture first.
When he said I know how to play it, he knows exactly what he’s talking about. He knows he’s being used. Now she’s looking crazy. She F’d her own self not him.
I feel him. She wasn't satisfying him in the relationship but everyone cares about how she feels. She wants a man to provide but don't want to do her wifely duties. She talked to her friends about him and belittle him. Power to u brother! When a women don't listen to how u feel then must u can do is go
very right...funny how American women keeps their job when they dates an American men, but soon as they find an African men they think it's okay to not work bcos they've found a ATM machine....radarada
I Tried To Have Some Compassion For Her I Really Did, But How She Was Behaving I Couldn’t And I Love Me Some Karamo But He Should Have Checked Her Too Just Like He Did Him
She probably smothered him due to insecurities instead of loving on him & enjoying their time together. I feel his pain. That man said screw my green card- i want out! 😂 She was so disrespectful to him & only wanted him around to say she has a man. Shamika was using him.
A bet you,"that Nigerian guy did not love that woman. He was just using her ....the way his body language speaks more than what he's trying to explain to the world.
Y’all can stop staying he’s such a horrible person . She was also not all that great ! She thought she bought a man when she brought him from Nigeria 🇳🇬 trying to bully and control him into love with her and calling your friends and disrespecting your husband to them is crazy ! I too would grow resentment . If he used her then she DEFINITELY USED HIM . Hope they go their separate ways
Karamo said it, she's not had a proper relationship before, that long distance one wasn't proper that's why she wanted skip over it, hence lacks relational skills and self esteem. Plus he doesn't want to spend time together, you need that for sex and for a relationship to grow She's not a user, but she's a bit immature, and was desperate for love and looked to him to feel validated and he simply saw an easy green card. Hence he was SO nice and attentive before getting married, she said he changed after.
Girl I feel your pain. He wants a divorce he wants to be free. Trying to hold on to something that wasn't there in the first place doesn't make it work. I would bet it wasn't you he came here for the came for he came for a better life and you were the means of getting it.
I'm sorry but she was also showing a toxic love. Talking down on him, making him feel like he was crap. Sorry but no one wants to be treated like that. Green card or no... That is sad for both of them.
I think people are not really seeing what is actually happening between this two people, this Nigeria guy can't stay with that lady without having baby 🤗 if you people really listen to the guy, his saying that, his asking the lady let us have baby and she said, she don't want to have a baby 🍼 so let forget about the green card 💚 green card is important than child 🧏
But to have a child proves that your marriage is real to customs. I am in the same process with my husband. Nigerians are scammers even my husband has told me this
Even the man in the audience was crying 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿. Your in my prayers sister. Prayer works I promise you. Only GOD can help you. Know one will ever love you the way that he does!!!
I don’t understand how you let a man who went viral for cheating on you, embarrass you yet again on another platform and say HE doesn’t wanna be married no more
All of you blaming only the guy she doesn't looks innocent either i am not saying is ok to use her but she is so wrong as well everytime they have argument threatening him to send him back and posting on social media for how long anyone take that and is always 2 side of the story nobody lives with them to know exactly what happened between them.
Reverse “trap.” She’s a pretty lady but insecure trying to buy/find love. He wants a 50/50 or 100/100 marriage. She took the money for an apartment for them for unknown reasons. He doesn’t feel appreciated on top that she doesn’t want kids sounds like he does. It’s not that either aren’t worth trying with they just want different things in marriage and that’s ok. A sad situation but I hope they both find happiness and love. She’s a beautiful lady hope she finds peace and love.
If Carlos keeps going to the everglades AT NIGHT especially by HIMSELF, he is going to learn why alligators are apex predators. SMH you can't fix stupid
From when she took “stop disturbing my life” as an insult and the rebuttal was go back to Nigeria. I knew she was the problem (I’m not saying he’s innocent) . A Nigerian saying that just means you’re irritating them, getting on their nerves etc. Smh didn’t even think to learn the culture you’re marrying into 🙄 She needs to heal and work on herself first, love will find her. That cry was from some deep rooted pain.
Totally disagree Karamo,is he cheating because she’s not physically there for him,what about that $1500? I think culture plays a role,most countries see us as being lazy and spoiled.She wants him to pamper/take care of her while she relaxes.The threat of sending him back is horrible.First time I disagreed with you Karamo!!!!
Carlos is too interested in attention from people he doesn’t know-while the people who actually love and depend on him are suffering. Not to mention he is harassing and not respecting the wild animals. Not good
She was his escape from Nigeria. He wanted to come to the US and used her to get what he wanted. Now her services are no longer needed since he's settled down here.
Men that arnt worth spending time on?! What?! That man was giving so much to her & she was playin him like a fool who should bow down to her. HE deserves a real wife & im sure he’s getting plenty of offers after this show aired.
She cried my cry when my heart got broken...and I applaud her for crying for all of us. We normally hide this intense pain from the people we know, imagine the courage to fall apart infront of a live audience. This is beautiful and strong and so powerful and healing.
As I was watching this, I kept telling her " Let his cheating a** go, Sis. He's for the streets. Let him leave the door open for someone better to walk through it." Too many times we women cry over men who just aren't worth it. Then miss a great man because we are focused on trying to make a toxic relationship work. It's OK to want happiness, a relationship with someone who genuinely loves & respects you and who wants you in their life. Go where you are wanted. This man clearly doesn't want to be with her. If he did, love would have brought his a** home and not to a motel room with his side chick. Never let a man tell you that he doesn't want you more than once. Whether he shows you (abusive/disrespectful) or tells you- believe him the first time. Then let him go & don't let him come back. Exs are exs for a reason. Go forward, not backwards. Period.
She thought she was going to control him with that I’m gonna send you back to your country bs, she definitely played a part in this divorce too she is not innocent crocodile tears mean nothing treat people better
It's the embarrassment, the shame and heartbreak for me for Her, I feel pity He's worthless and just used Her shameless man, He will go on to use the Next woman that's who He Is, those Nigerians are well known scammers anyways not All but many .
U dare not call Nigerian scammers.. course he didn't drag her into the relationship.. she went to Nigeria to lure him into marrying her.. as a Nigerian.. we don't tolerate disrespect n domineering attitude.. she would have taken her time to know that before venturing into the marriage. A marriage without childbearing n respect can never be condol in an African setting.. n here in Nigeria.. woman are very hard working to assist their husbands to build a befitting place rather than squatting with a family member.. I don't feel pity for her.. course growth in marriages today is a collective efforts not one-sided..n we don't discuss our marital issues to third parties.. so their is a barrier in our customs n norms .. and I trust him.. he is truly a true stand-up Nigerian fella.. no pretends !
@@muthokajohnbosco2957 Are you kidding me? Black Americans created the culture most foreign countries follow. Including, scientific inventions, the music, how we dress, our slang, black American worship, dance, soul food and so much more. Who lied to you. What culture does Africa have that Black Americans don't? That is the biggest lie. All I see is White Jesus, Native languages taken out of schools, and a intense desire to follow European culture in Africa including the pandemic of bleaching skin. Black Americans have plenty rich history and culture in America that has influence all around the world. That's a big myth you talking and Africans in America Learn that very well. Do your homework.
She thought she was better than him, taking money, talking bad about him to her friends, threatening to send him back. She basically wanted to own him more then build up the marriage.
KARAMO is compassionate!! She’s definitely not HER.. she outaline period !!! I don’t think anyone she should cheat whatsoever!!! Her lack never came from him !!
Just the way he talks to her proves he doesn't care about her feelings. He never loved her. He only used her! She is too pretty for him! She can do better!
I actually understand where the African husband is coming from. Who wants to keep being told they will be sent back to their country? He does work. He also cheated once. She should have left him THEN. All the red flags 🚩 were there. She ignored them. Him wanting a divorce is not a surprise to her. Everyone has the right to be happy. Let that man GO and let the man meant for you, find you.
Everything will be ok...the first couple months will be hard because companionship is hard to lose no matter how much you get its just knowing someone coming home. Be strong if I can do it you can!!!🥰
She was insecure and pushing him away based on her PAST experience with men. After he said she didn’t want to have his children and they barely have sex, I knew. I would have left her too. She has some healing to do.
This woman has very low self-esteem and so was literally begging him to show he loves her. Unfortunately he failed to understand her. Also the cheating episodes makes me think he was already preparing his way out of this marriage. Could be his real intention to marry her was the green card.
the second guy had so much potential to be a great zoologist/wildlife biologist, wildlife rehabilitated etc. he should rlly put his love of his family over his thrill of seeking danger for views. it’s so sad to see.
You know you done when you give up da green card 😂 she broke that man down.
exactly 😅
Insecurity does that every time. No matter what you can’t discuss all the bad with friends and family because that’s all they will see
She wants to control him because she feels like she has advantage over him
That's what I see. Everything he said she does to him that turns him off, she never denied it.
Exactly 💯
Yup I seen a lot of comments over looking that part because one she’s American and two she’s a crying woman. Yes he was wrong for cheating BUT when you try to control someone, hold shit over their head, etc they are going to do everything to leave specially if you not letting go after they said they don’t want to be with you. I’ve seen a lot of couples like this on Love After Lockup and 90 Day Fiancé where they get with these people just to say they have someone or use wealth, or the government against them when they get upset and it’s sick. Just because your not confident and happy with yourself doesn’t mean you get to make somebody miserable with you. Let them go cause words can lead to physical thing happening
Exactly
She didn’t even give the marriage a chance. They should’ve went to counseling
It seems like she was in the wrong more than him. Constantly threatening to send a spouse back to their country after every argument is sickening I’m sorry
exactly
Because she knew "back to Nigeria" was his pressure button and he needs the G card. She lacks relationship skills. Karamo said it, she's not had a proper relationship before, that long distance one wasn't proper that's why she wanted skip over it.
Edit: She's not a user, she's a bit immature, but was desperate for love and looked to him to feel validated and he simply saw an easy green card.
Exactly
Nah, he straight played her. Her mistake was that she did not send the pimp back after the first time. He was out having fun and not spending time with her. She deserves more. Nigeria is notorious for scams. She messed up from the start by going around the world to be treated like that. :(
True
For all the people who have loved and lost just remember the sun will shine again. Rule number 1 start with loving yourself and spirit first and then be with the person who matches your energy. No one will value you more than you. One life. Live it and Love it.
1. She took his money that he was saving for them to get their own apartment, WITHOUT his permission
2. She belittles him in front of her friends
3. She takes their arguments to social media by dissing and embarrassing him
4. She tells him she will send him back to Nigeria when they have a disagreement
5. Their needs aren’t being met, she wants more time, he doesn’t have time to give. He wants children and she’s not ready.
It’s a long list but I think she’s playing the victim when it seems to me that she has done more damage to end this marriage.
My heart hurt for her so bad at the end. We’ve all cried that cry before.
I swear 😢
That's what I'm talking about we sure have cried that cry before so we understand just what she's going through keep praying and the Lord will be with you and all you're going and there is nothing in this world can hurt because the Lord won't let it he won't let you get snatched out of his hand so with that keep the Lord first always with that amen
No we haven’t. I have never been hurt by a man ever. I r been with my first and only for over 20 years. I’ve cried when my loved ones passed. But that whole cry is very different from that cry she’s crying. And in my opinion, I think she was using him. I felt that way before her husband came out on stage. I really sense that from her. And when he said everything was about money with her and sending him back to his country and everything I knew I wasn’t tripping. Some people need to feel that hurt and cry that cry to know you can’t treat people like that. As for him, I believe he was cheating with that lady in the vehicle and he’s gonna get karma as well.
@@opheliapearson7154 no we haven’t. I can’t relate to it at all.
@@prettygirltee8 Thank God your marriage is an exception! Many women and men has experienced heartbreak may it be in their 20's, 30's, 40's, etc. and it's definitely not a good feeling! Be blessed!
You can't really bully a grown man into loving you, there coming from 2 very different places, I'm sending you back to your country is not really respectful, he is caught 100%, stay closer to home and reinvent yourself.. no threats word games next go around 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🌹❤️
I agree. This is well said. Also I wouldn’t be too happy if someone posted my business that went viral. I’d dump someone for doing that alone. Too many people are sharing their relationships with the world and it’s not needed. Karamo had asked her twice “why did you post the video?” She knew exactly why! Too many people need the validation of others too express themselves to gain some sort of comfort. A relationship should be amongst two people firstly and yes if needed go to friends and family for support then fine. Don’t post your personal drama for likes! Simple
I heard everything you said king you made the right decision. Can't believe ppl falling for her bullshit
Lol the narcissism on this chick is crazy and the fact that she had so many people fooled is astounding. She forced those tears and never NOT ONCE did she own up to the things she did to tear him down because "he wasn't spending time with her"... she def wanted to control that man and tried scare tactics to do so. I really can't bring myself to feel for home girl
spoken like a true and sincere person....thanks
THAAAANK YOUUUUUUU🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank You 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽
Carlos reminds me of my son he was just 13 years but he used to hold and catch everything but o used to leave him he died young but he really enjoyed his short life
It doesn't sound like she tried that much neither...listen to what he was saying as well! She thought she could hold that green card over his head. He used her but she used him too💁🏾♀️
Exactly they were codependent on each other and that was also the reason why they didn’t have any type of romance in their marriage
Very true. He mentioned wanting children. He also said there's no love making or peace of mind. That's a lot not to have in a marriage
Yessss!!!
Karamo said it, she's not had a proper relationship before, that long distance one wasn't proper that's why she wanted skip over it, hence lacks relational skills and self esteem. Plus he doesn't want to spend time together, you need that for sex and for a relationship to grow
She's a bit immature, and was desperate for love and looked to him to feel validated and he simply saw an easy green card. Hence he was SO nice and attentive before getting married, she said he changed after. They usually change when the stay is secure or nearly secured in USA or UK etc. And yes some are happy to make babies because it gives them advantage. I know a few people it's happened to sadly.
I love ❤️ Karamo, he is very compassionate and kind.
Too the wrong people. She is mad toxic
Ppl are quick to jump on him. Bt in America we tend to let ppl out side our relationships mash it up. Plus if u take a spouse from a different culture please learn that culture first.
thank u
I believe most of us are on his side. She's definitely got some issues.
When he said I know how to play it, he knows exactly what he’s talking about. He knows he’s being used. Now she’s looking crazy. She F’d her own self not him.
exactly...thank you
He was being used😮😅
I’m with him !!! Yass go and do what’s right for you and not for a lady that threatens you everytime something happens she’s gonna send to back home
I feel him. She wasn't satisfying him in the relationship but everyone cares about how she feels. She wants a man to provide but don't want to do her wifely duties. She talked to her friends about him and belittle him. Power to u brother! When a women don't listen to how u feel then must u can do is go
You can’t buy love. She should have left him where he was at.
Too late for that if I could I should have water you talk like you never made an honest mistake
very right...funny how American women keeps their job when they dates an American men, but soon as they find an African men they think it's okay to not work bcos they've found a ATM machine....radarada
He was better off
When she started to cry I got a sharp pain in my stomach I felt every tear
Last dude isn't an adrenaline rush, he is an attention seeker!
Now she can take some time to learn to love herself and take accountability for her own decision making. Dry your tears and keep pushing.
She Squeezed Those Tears Out😭😭😭
@@evelyncampbell5045 this is too much. You are right.
I Tried To Have Some Compassion For Her I Really Did, But How She Was Behaving I Couldn’t And I Love Me Some Karamo But He Should Have Checked Her Too Just Like He Did Him
She probably smothered him due to insecurities instead of loving on him & enjoying their time together. I feel his pain. That man said screw my green card- i want out! 😂
She was so disrespectful to him & only wanted him around to say she has a man. Shamika was using him.
Nigerian men use American Women!! Be careful!!
that's right...Africans ain't gonna sacrifice their peace of mind of green card....please there are plenty fish in the ocean.
She could smother him just by rolling over in the bed 🛌 🤣🤣
@@d820m 😂😂😂
that guy needs to go to school to actually be trained with wild animals, the internet can only take you so far.
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She assumed that she would have control over him, but it didn't go as planned.
You can't steal, be mean, controlling and belittle a man and cry when he is ready to leave.
A bet you,"that Nigerian guy did not love that woman. He was just using her ....the way his body language speaks more than what he's trying to explain to the world.
Dude with the animals is a hell NO for me 😳🏃🏾♀️💀😩🤦🏽♀️ I'm terrified of reptiles.
Karamo u are so sweet to comfort her like that!
Y’all can stop staying he’s such a horrible person . She was also not all that great ! She thought she bought a man when she brought him from Nigeria 🇳🇬 trying to bully and control him into love with her and calling your friends and disrespecting your husband to them is crazy ! I too would grow resentment . If he used her then she DEFINITELY USED HIM . Hope they go their separate ways
Exactly!!! She was in the wrong too!
Karamo said it, she's not had a proper relationship before, that long distance one wasn't proper that's why she wanted skip over it, hence lacks relational skills and self esteem. Plus he doesn't want to spend time together, you need that for sex and for a relationship to grow
She's not a user, but she's a bit immature, and was desperate for love and looked to him to feel validated and he simply saw an easy green card. Hence he was SO nice and attentive before getting married, she said he changed after.
EXACTLY!!!! on point!!
Except HE let himself be "bought". She didn't have a gun to his head. He chose to be bought-able.
She listening to them friends now she’s by herself that’s why she crying. If a man tells you he would rather go back to his country she is a hot mess
Love yourself first than another person don't force yourself on anybody, no do or die for marriage or relationship.
Girl I feel your pain. He wants a divorce he wants to be free. Trying to hold on to something that wasn't there in the first place doesn't make it work. I would bet it wasn't you he came here for the came for he came for a better life and you were the means of getting it.
That's exactly why he came he shouldn't have hurted her like this
This is a classic case of cultural differences. They have misunderstood each other. American culture is open, African is patriarchal and private.
I'm sorry but she was also showing a toxic love. Talking down on him, making him feel like he was crap. Sorry but no one wants to be treated like that. Green card or no... That is sad for both of them.
I agree
Mission Accomplished....good for him🤣🤣
Terrible these women here in the US fall for that mess they tell them. All they gotta say is I love you !!!!
TBH because no
She didnt fall for anything she chased it.
I think people are not really seeing what is actually happening between this two people, this Nigeria guy can't stay with that lady without having baby 🤗 if you people really listen to the guy, his saying that, his asking the lady let us have baby and she said, she don't want to have a baby 🍼 so let forget about the green card 💚 green card is important than child 🧏
But to have a child proves that your marriage is real to customs. I am in the same process with my husband. Nigerians are scammers even my husband has told me this
Exactly 💯
She knows why he inboxed her and wanted to marry her so quick..🙄😒
Even the man in the audience was crying 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿. Your in my prayers sister. Prayer works I promise you. Only GOD can help you. Know one will ever love you the way that he does!!!
You saying all the right things sister I'm going to pray for her too because prayer steel works
FACTS!!!!
yup, amen 🙏🏿
I don’t understand how you let a man who went viral for cheating on you, embarrass you yet again on another platform and say HE doesn’t wanna be married no more
She is beautiful!!!
Once she taps into that Self-love, she'll shed 100 lbs off stress, off people pleasing, off begging others to love her.
You can't beg nobody to love you where did you hear that from Ocala farm was you raised on
and STILL have a 100 more to go🤣
@@d820m& yo chin chinning too calm down.
@@Saintmon3y and yet her ass and gut still outweigh me by at least 90 pounds
😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭
All of you blaming only the guy she doesn't looks innocent either i am not saying is ok to use her but she is so wrong as well everytime they have argument threatening him to send him back and posting on social media for how long anyone take that and is always 2 side of the story nobody lives with them to know exactly what happened between them.
If he really loved animals he wouldn't be stressing them out with his antics.
The only thing he truly loves is fame.
^this 💯
Reverse “trap.” She’s a pretty lady but insecure trying to buy/find love. He wants a 50/50 or 100/100 marriage. She took the money for an apartment for them for unknown reasons. He doesn’t feel appreciated on top that she doesn’t want kids sounds like he does. It’s not that either aren’t worth trying with they just want different things in marriage and that’s ok.
A sad situation but I hope they both find happiness and love. She’s a beautiful lady hope she finds peace and love.
If Carlos keeps going to the everglades AT NIGHT especially by HIMSELF, he is going to learn why alligators are apex predators. SMH you can't fix stupid
Lmaooooooooooooooooooo
Lmaoo the adrenaline guy is too wild. To send in a video that had karamo just as scared as the family is crazy
From when she took “stop disturbing my life” as an insult and the rebuttal was go back to Nigeria. I knew she was the problem (I’m not saying he’s innocent) . A Nigerian saying that just means you’re irritating them, getting on their nerves etc. Smh didn’t even think to learn the culture you’re marrying into 🙄
She needs to heal and work on herself first, love will find her. That cry was from some deep rooted pain.
Totally disagree Karamo,is he cheating because she’s not physically there for him,what about that $1500? I think culture plays a role,most countries see us as being lazy and spoiled.She wants him to pamper/take care of her while she relaxes.The threat of sending him back is horrible.First time I disagreed with you Karamo!!!!
Carlos is too interested in attention from people he doesn’t know-while the people who actually love and depend on him are suffering. Not to mention he is harassing and not respecting the wild animals. Not good
You have to learn to love yourself. She don’t love herself.
By his body language I can tell he doesn't want her. And there is no excuse for cheating. EVER.
My thoughts exactly! I really thought from the beginning she’s using him. Those damn tears doesn’t get pass me.
She was his escape from Nigeria. He wanted to come to the US and used her to get what he wanted. Now her services are no longer needed since he's settled down here.
Noooo...that man has endured a lot.She wanted to use him and control him.He said he doesn't mind going back to his country in peace.
He seems genuine frfr
Re: Carlos, this "hobby" is straight up psychopathic from the animals' point of view. Right down to the chokehold kiss. Poor animals
Men that arnt worth spending time on?! What?! That man was giving so much to her & she was playin him like a fool who should bow down to her. HE deserves a real wife & im sure he’s getting plenty of offers after this show aired.
She cried my cry when my heart got broken...and I applaud her for crying for all of us. We normally hide this intense pain from the people we know, imagine the courage to fall apart infront of a live audience. This is beautiful and strong and so powerful and healing.
I’ve been where she is!!!! God bless this beautiful woman ❤
Ifaneay pls run for your life,you dont deserve this,love you my brother from another mother kenya Nigeria 😊
I felt so bad for her. My heart hurt for her. I would like to know if any updates about how she is doing..Sending hugs&prayers for her.
She needs to leave his ass, he is just using her.
As I was watching this, I kept telling her " Let his cheating a** go, Sis. He's for the streets. Let him leave the door open for someone better to walk through it." Too many times we women cry over men who just aren't worth it. Then miss a great man because we are focused on trying to make a toxic relationship work. It's OK to want happiness, a relationship with someone who genuinely loves & respects you and who wants you in their life. Go where you are wanted. This man clearly doesn't want to be with her. If he did, love would have brought his a** home and not to a motel room with his side chick. Never let a man tell you that he doesn't want you more than once. Whether he shows you (abusive/disrespectful) or tells you- believe him the first time. Then let him go & don't let him come back. Exs are exs for a reason. Go forward, not backwards. Period.
yeah for a green card and its too late to annul the marriage smh
I VERY MUCH DOUBT, he was in it for a green card! She is way too toxic and insecure, she NEEDS to work on herself first!
again...they both used each other
Used her for a green card
Of course he is and she doesn't see that. She's more focus on him rather than herself. She need to work on and loving herself 1st.
Bingo I saw that immediately
What crazy green card
Even so making him feel like nothing?
Yup and he’s ah narcissist smh 🤦🏽♂️ sht suck them Africans be evil to man 😢this world almost over tho so keep doing people wrong smh 🤦🏽♂️
Anytime I get hit up on FB by men from other countries it is a block from me.
You can't put pressure in sending time with you.
How about he not be a scammer like a lot of you are?
When Karamo said No, no, no to the crocodile 🐊-I’m with him 😂😭
I believe him. Let him go.
I shed a tear when i seen her crying its crazy how the women in the audience were crying as well its like we universally knew that pain 💔
The second clip, he does need to stop it. He’s childish and selfish.
God have somebody that will love you for you . I went though the same thing from so many years now I keep away from men . God is love .
He was using her for the green card she knew it she was just desperate to be in a relationship,
She thought she was going to control him with that I’m gonna send you back to your country bs, she definitely played a part in this divorce too she is not innocent crocodile tears mean nothing treat people better
It's the embarrassment, the shame and heartbreak for me for Her, I feel pity He's worthless and just used Her shameless man, He will go on to use the Next woman that's who He Is, those Nigerians are well known scammers anyways not All but many .
I was thinking the same thing. They be scamming like hell.
U dare not call Nigerian scammers.. course he didn't drag her into the relationship.. she went to Nigeria to lure him into marrying her.. as a Nigerian.. we don't tolerate disrespect n domineering attitude.. she would have taken her time to know that before venturing into the marriage.
A marriage without childbearing n respect can never be condol in an African setting.. n here in Nigeria.. woman are very hard working to assist their husbands to build a befitting place rather than squatting with a family member.. I don't feel pity for her.. course growth in marriages today is a collective efforts not one-sided..n we don't discuss our marital issues to third parties.. so their is a barrier in our customs n norms .. and I trust him.. he is truly a true stand-up Nigerian fella.. no pretends !
Again, they both used each other....she wanted an African man so she can quit her job....would she do that with an American man???
I'm not going to sit here and act like he is all in the wrong
Before dating African men try and learn their culture😂love in Africa is different
It's good to learn the African culture, but he chose to come to America so he should learn that culture too.
Americans have no culture😂
@@muthokajohnbosco2957 Are you kidding me? Black Americans created the culture most foreign countries follow. Including, scientific inventions, the music, how we dress, our slang, black American worship, dance, soul food and so much more. Who lied to you. What culture does Africa have that Black Americans don't? That is the biggest lie. All I see is White Jesus, Native languages taken out of schools, and a intense desire to follow European culture in Africa including the pandemic of bleaching skin. Black Americans have plenty rich history and culture in America that has influence all around the world. That's a big myth you talking and Africans in America Learn that very well. Do your homework.
So he wants her to take care of him...i heard African men take care of their women...he sounds like an American scrub
Second story work at a zoo plus i think his addicted to the rush of it
Have to love yourself!! ❤ be the better version of yourself
She thought she was better than him, taking money, talking bad about him to her friends, threatening to send him back. She basically wanted to own him more then build up the marriage.
Damn everybody crying
Where is he!! I wanna fight!!!!🤬😡🤬
Fight yourself
why....?
KARAMO is compassionate!! She’s definitely not HER.. she outaline period !!! I don’t think anyone she should cheat whatsoever!!! Her lack never came from him !!
Shemaka is beautiful; once she starts to love herself, then she’ll be confident enough to step up and love the man who deserves her
Yes most Nigerian men don't know the word love? All they know is money
Trust me God know I feel her pain 💔 I went through that
Just the way he talks to her proves he doesn't care about her feelings. He never loved her. He only used her! She is too pretty for him! She can do better!
maybe...but they were both using each other
I actually understand where the African husband is coming from. Who wants to keep being told they will be sent back to their country? He does work. He also cheated once. She should have left him THEN. All the red flags 🚩 were there. She ignored them. Him wanting a divorce is not a surprise to her. Everyone has the right to be happy. Let that man GO and let the man meant for you, find you.
Liar, Liar the house on fire, go back
go back to where??? let's not forget that America belongs to none and all ....be calming down
Looking at this bring tears to my eyes.
He going to steve erwin himself...
She spoil her own marriage
Everything will be ok...the first couple months will be hard because companionship is hard to lose no matter how much you get its just knowing someone coming home. Be strong if I can do it you can!!!🥰
she is the problem .
He use her she deserves better i hope she can heal now
she used him
Girllll bye, learn to love yourself and get some self esteem✌️💜
Dath will stop you if you can't stop it yourself.
The mother was smart for telling her son to get a life insurance policy!
He is not wrong and she is too damn big
She should channel her energy into weight loss 💯
This is a perfect example why playin tough doesn’t work. If you have feeling or emotion for someone, act like, always.
How can we find Carlos's wildlife videos??
They both need to go there separate ways he doesnt feel for her
She was insecure and pushing him away based on her PAST experience with men. After he said she didn’t want to have his children and they barely have sex, I knew. I would have left her too. She has some healing to do.
First story was a waste lol
This woman has very low self-esteem and so was literally begging him to show he loves her. Unfortunately he failed to understand her. Also the cheating episodes makes me think he was already preparing his way out of this marriage. Could be his real intention to marry her was the green card.
Shame on that guy for embarrassing that lady on live TV. If he wanted a divorce, he could've done so IN PRIVATE
Damn, I wish Karamo was my therapist. So empathetic.❤
the second guy had so much potential to be a great zoologist/wildlife biologist, wildlife rehabilitated etc. he should rlly put his love of his family over his thrill of seeking danger for views. it’s so sad to see.
yea i see right through all them tears 💀💀