I feel sad for the poor bastard. It's a ticking time bomb of a relationship. It's fake and can never be real. She's already planning his downfall. Meanwhile, I'm free and I've moved on. Let go of that negative energy and focus on you.
This person was are upstairs neighbour he was fucking for 2 years I married him he was worst malignant narcissist she came in are home wile I was there she was a narc herself she tried to get me jailed with him. She had mine and my child's money stopped she was my flying monkey him the freek said let me ween my self off you cheek he travelled 120 miles to stalk me and wrhting letters to me how sick. I got police when he stalked they won't sighn divorse papers there full stds .evil
@@AndrewJirele right unfortunately the narc wont stop until mayb some serious situations take place, cant just run around doing this to ppl and have no karma!!!!
@@craneo1428 divorce and run. Unfortunately you gona be deoressed, stressed forawhile i was for a long time, angry as well. Now im tired of crying, depression, n anger. I just got tired of the same cycle over n over again, im 90 percent healed but i keep watching this channel to fully break thru. N to keep my guard, i dont want to meet anyone like this again in my life. Its hard you gona even try to remember good things n like myself i noticed i fell in love with the abuse, i thought i deserved it n just accepted it. But take it a day at a time theres a light at the end of the tunnel. Review your past relationships before the narc, n try to remember who you were before.
If I learnt something about this topic during the past 15 months is that the new supply is either a new unsuspecting victim or another narcissist. Nothing to be jealous of. And do not accept any hoovers, it gets worst and worst.
I totally get it now, that I am out of it, 2 years! He never bonded with me! It was hell, and I am soooo much happier now, since I am no longer with this toxic man! 😊
Simply. Its the truth.. its time to grow stronger than ever and become the person you were meant to be.. Find a purpose of this life and work towards it.
A textbook narcissist. He hoovered today. I had left him, since he treated me like dirt and probably cheated. So, he hoovered. Stupid me, I accepted him back. But he was so sweet, grooming me all day at work As soon as I fell, a few hours later, he started devaluing me ! Again ! He was about to discard me. I broke up first. What he did then ? He tried to prevent me from leaving. My ten months with him.was sth that only tour videos can describe ! This man is very charismatic and seductive. I am at a loss. Again! All the above, on the same day! It was the 10th, 11th cycle, I have lost counting. Two masks on the same person! On the same day!
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At first Im heartbroken. Then I come to my senses. Remind myself about all the cruel evil stuff she did to me for no reason. Then I look at her and add another # to her Body Count.
It’s easy for me to understand this. After all 3 discards she had met the love of her life. It’s still hurts but finally I can say, I can never live like this again. I love me too much to not to learn and love again. I will not stop learning until I’m me again.
This video is amazing. You are amazing. You truly spoke from your heart and everything you’ve said resonated with me so much. Like you said that’s them, that’s their life, goodbye.PERIOD. I’m going to focus on what I want, how and where I see myself six months from now and put all my energy in doing and getting there. No point dwelling on such uselessness. Thank you so much for everything you do. Just know it is truly is making a difference.
Thank You for giving me a better understanding of what I was dealing with all these years, I feel for those who had to go through this, but now I’m a better person for it.
Thinking of the past person that you first meet is not the person at the end, the mask came off & for me that was the shock, the realisation that it was all fake the whole time.
Thank you for your compassion & ur energy providing us with all these insights & knowledge so we could heal not feeling alone......❤❤❤ Yet its hard to deal wt parental alienation.....miss my 2 children
I miss my little boy so much worried I wasn’t perfect but think she looked for a way I was drunk and high that one night she come back friends out and kind of looked for a fight got me arrested. The restraining order moved on with somebody else quite quick after a 10 year relationshipand I kinda still would have a back after all the problems she’s caused me with police paying Lawyers how many times I’ve cried I can’t believe why I would still got the court case just hope she doesn’t try to do any more things.
I've released the need for external validation and it's such a powerful and freeing feeling I have ever experienced. In a way, my ex narc have helped me heal myself. To be honest, I probably wouldn't of learned that in any other way.
20 years of hell I was so independent and together left a year ago he pleaded me to come back i did then realised i was dying with him around left again and its been a year now slowly healing but confess think i still love him have deleted his social media but having diffurculty moving on 100 percent
But i dont wish it was me❤ ive had the worst two toxic relationships before and a fd up family sooooo i dont bond with narcs. I observe them, then cut them off😂
You are so BEAUTIFUL!!! I love your style! Your so Naturally Stylish and I love your different nail colors, sorry I’m such a Girly Girl! Anyhow, Thank You so much for these videos, I’m currently dealing with a Covert Narcissist going on a year now. I’m Mentally drained and fighting to get out!!!!! I just caught on 6 months ago to his ways!!!😢
How do you get over your partner dating you for 1 yr but behind your back marries someone else and still wants you too I'm broken I broke it off narcissist went nuts
The only good or real moments were when his mask slipped, he spoke candidly, a real I could feel, then he goes right back to his agenda or what he wants from me. I was armed and ready so to speak. I delivered a message so well written, that normally I just could not do, prior for so much emotion. In a bizarre way I got empowered to speak less my truth, but the truth, how what he was expecting of me was inappropriate. He promptly agreed, then wrote I love you. Since then, radio silence for a couple weeks now. Like huh?? It hurts, I did what I had to do, put him to the test, for myself and his own toxic expectations of me, which I kept hoping my hints would fix. You just have to wonder how someone could function the way they do.
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If he's a narcissist he's probably juggling 2 or 3 women.
Thee trash took itself out 10 yrs ago and remarried I hear the person he married is the female version of him and also damaged I'm also hearing he is back living with the narc matriarch (his mummy).
You alright? I got sober decades ago. I don't care that you drink. I understand and don't blame anyone for getting tore up. But be careful, alcohol is a depressant and it can get really nasty. Anyway--rough stuff. Been there. Be well.
You know, you suddenly got real clinical on me, I always like a woman who can’t tell what it means to be hurt at all. Obviously the professional in you pushing through. ❤
@@dealia7777 I'm not sure, how many UA-cam women are there that really tell the truth? You will never to ask the question. Whatever maintains interest in the channel, that is prime important. So if you have to go around flapping your arms and quacking like a duck. If it pulls in loads of followers that is what you'll do. You think that somehow you are more important?
@@dealia7777 we've all known pain. You haven't noticed she flips it on and off, like a light switch? You might just be too close to see it. I'm an American. Just look at our friggin country. It's a freaking mess and no-one cares what matters.
She's already cheated on the new guy, she was before I knew he existed and she's desperately upgrading her social media with sexy pics now I've left the scene. These people are so socially capable and ruthless but they are trying to fill a cup that has a massive hole in it!
With this guy I want him becoming oppressed over me. Like I said I have friends who are narcissist some are good close friends. My thing is if it is way too toxic like attacking you being cruel or take advantage of me then I will block them and expose plus get out and leave. I think if it is to toxic everyone should walk away and leave if not they will hurt you again. But my guy he has not done anything like that. So he a keeper. But I also want equality powers. But do not let him know I am in to him. This is hard
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If he is a narcissist he is cheating on you or will soon cheat on you.
My ex partner of 2 half years together I brought son up from another man I gave her credibility wen social and children services was going to take him away at 16 months old all because of alcohol topped with being a narcissist the lies she was telling me was so bad I left just before Christmas 2 hrs after I said I can't do no more she posted on Facebook looking for new supply then 2 days later slept with him to make matters worse on the 3rd day she slept with the man 3 times in same bed as her son and bragged about it with a mutual freind of ours the next day the baby woke up screaming wen she was having sex . She obviously had no regard for her son to do this she has already lost a daughter that was taken away by social services which is why these videos has really helped me threw this difficult time it won't be long before her son gets taken away as we all fear his safety
I want to ask u all mostly anoushka. Is a female covert narcissist not risking been hurt physically. I mean what if she hurts him to the point he flips & beats her or worse for cheating abusing triggering etc ??
My issue is I have been around several narcissistic in my life. There these twins in California I believe they are narcissist. The oldest twins is all about power and control. I also firghure out who he is and how this works. I am at the point I am not letting him control me emotions. He never attack me or act like a toxic means ashole . So I want to keep him around even though I know who he is because I accept that. I do not want him know I know. I do not want him to know I have the power. I can easily expose him or block him and make him go crazy. I still want him around. I want him back but I do not know how. Do I tell him how I feel or where I stand or what. I know he has other people and I know when he block me it all about power. I know he going on his twin brother to look to see what I am doing. I also have friends who are narcissist too. So I do not know what to do
I’m in the same situation and I know he’ll go back to her with what I tell him so it’s put me off. I’ll just come off as a bitter ex rather than someone trying to warn the poor guy
I feel sad for the poor bastard. It's a ticking time bomb of a relationship. It's fake and can never be real. She's already planning his downfall. Meanwhile, I'm free and I've moved on. Let go of that negative energy and focus on you.
Yes this is what you can do. Remove your energy from the darkness and concentrate on yourself. This is your life and it’s about you 😊
Exactly.
A matter of time. He will experience precisely what you have gone through. Exactly the same cycle over and over again.
They don't bond to there wife they dont bond to there own children. They bond to no supply never..
This person was are upstairs neighbour he was fucking for 2 years I married him he was worst malignant narcissist she came in are home wile I was there she was a narc herself she tried to get me jailed with him. She had mine and my child's money stopped she was my flying monkey him the freek said let me ween my self off you cheek he travelled 120 miles to stalk me and wrhting letters to me how sick. I got police when he stalked they won't sighn divorse papers there full stds .evil
This is the most painful experience I've ever been in. 😭
Sam here , talking about trauma 😵💫
@@ip9608 it has been brutal.
Be grateful it's not you. Your nightmare is over and theirs is just beginning
GOT THAT RIGHT!
I'm grateful that I'm away from that demon. No contact. It's been 2 months free & getting a stronger day by day💪🏾
They cause so much hurt in their victims. Cowards. Ive turned my empathy off for my husband. Now i need healing
Tuesday dear. 4pm EST.
@@ericjackson-nq4hp thanks
They will always watch you even if they get someone else.
Yea its just supply, its not real, no need for jealousy. Just be sorry for the next victim.
What if the next victim is actually a predator???
@AndrewJirele what worries me about my ex new supply dude looks like a total kiddie diddler
@@AndrewJirele right unfortunately the narc wont stop until mayb some serious situations take place, cant just run around doing this to ppl and have no karma!!!!
I'm going through this situation now she me wife she move on she kick me out and move him in the next day what should I do
@@craneo1428 divorce and run. Unfortunately you gona be deoressed, stressed forawhile i was for a long time, angry as well. Now im tired of crying, depression, n anger. I just got tired of the same cycle over n over again, im 90 percent healed but i keep watching this channel to fully break thru. N to keep my guard, i dont want to meet anyone like this again in my life. Its hard you gona even try to remember good things n like myself i noticed i fell in love with the abuse, i thought i deserved it n just accepted it. But take it a day at a time theres a light at the end of the tunnel. Review your past relationships before the narc, n try to remember who you were before.
If I learnt something about this topic during the past 15 months is that the new supply is either a new unsuspecting victim or another narcissist. Nothing to be jealous of. And do not accept any hoovers, it gets worst and worst.
I totally get it now, that I am out of it, 2 years! He never bonded with me! It was hell, and I am soooo much happier now, since I am no longer with this toxic man! 😊
The worst part is she looks just like me. It's really disturbing. I've decided to do a whole makeover on myself to help me detach from the situation.
Same here. Went from always being platinum blonde to super dark brown hair.
Simply. Its the truth.. its time to grow stronger than ever and become the person you were meant to be..
Find a purpose of this life and work towards it.
I am going through it right now. It hurts down deep in my heart,but each day is getting better.
Just found out that she has a whole f buddy network. Just WOW, these people are so sleazy
A textbook narcissist.
He hoovered today. I had left him, since he treated me like dirt and probably cheated. So, he hoovered. Stupid me, I accepted him back. But he was so sweet, grooming me all day at work
As soon as I fell, a few hours later, he started devaluing me ! Again ! He was about to discard me. I broke up first.
What he did then ?
He tried to prevent me from leaving.
My ten months with him.was sth that only tour videos can describe !
This man is very charismatic and seductive.
I am at a loss.
Again!
All the above, on the same day!
It was the 10th, 11th cycle, I have lost counting. Two masks on the same person! On the same day!
At first Im heartbroken. Then I come to my senses. Remind myself about all the cruel evil stuff she did to me for no reason. Then I look at her and add another # to her Body Count.
It’s easy for me to understand this. After all 3 discards she had met the love of her life. It’s still hurts but finally I can say, I can never live like this again. I love me too much to not to learn and love again. I will not stop learning until I’m me again.
Now it's someone else's energy vampire. NEXT-! Off ye go narcie!
Yes 😂😂🥲
New supply will find out or they will be desperate, stay m & tolerate their abuse.
This video is amazing. You are amazing. You truly spoke from your heart and everything you’ve said resonated with me so much. Like you said that’s them, that’s their life, goodbye.PERIOD. I’m going to focus on what I want, how and where I see myself six months from now and put all my energy in doing and getting there. No point dwelling on such uselessness. Thank you so much for everything you do. Just know it is truly is making a difference.
Thank You for giving me a better understanding of what I was dealing with all these years, I feel for those who had to go through this, but now I’m a better person for it.
Thinking of the past person that you first meet is not the person at the end, the mask came off & for me that was the shock, the realisation that it was all fake the whole time.
I feel sorry for that person. Oh dear 😳 his not my problem anymore. Out with the trash 🗑
I would change the title to : "When the narcissist finds another "victim".
Tks Anoushka for another awesome video!
Thank you for your compassion & ur energy providing us with all these insights & knowledge so we could heal not feeling alone......❤❤❤ Yet its hard to deal wt parental alienation.....miss my 2 children
I miss my little boy so much worried I wasn’t perfect but think she looked for a way I was drunk and high that one night she come back friends out and kind of looked for a fight got me arrested. The restraining order moved on with somebody else quite quick after a 10 year relationshipand I kinda still would have a back after all the problems she’s caused me with police paying Lawyers how many times I’ve cried I can’t believe why I would still got the court case just hope she doesn’t try to do any more things.
I've released the need for external validation and it's such a powerful and freeing feeling I have ever experienced. In a way, my ex narc have helped me heal myself. To be honest, I probably wouldn't of learned that in any other way.
I really needed to hear this today thank you
Thank you for making me feel better everyday. You have such a soothing voice and amazing makeup.
20 years of hell I was so independent and together left a year ago he pleaded me to come back i did then realised i was dying with him around left again and its been a year now slowly healing but confess think i still love him have deleted his social media but having diffurculty moving on 100 percent
I pressed the thumbs down BY MISTAKE!!! I switched it!! This was my absolute favorite video and helped me ssooooo much! Thank you Anoushka!!! ❤❤❤❤
I honestly feel sorry for his new supply. All I can say is, Hang on honey, you're in for a bumpy ride.
A nightmare smh
Thankyou! Great talk & very much needed for me atm
Loved that video very helpful , instructive, optimist. Also loved you in black
Yes, please!!! But, don't tell.
But i dont wish it was me❤ ive had the worst two toxic relationships before and a fd up family sooooo i dont bond with narcs. I observe them, then cut them off😂
You are so BEAUTIFUL!!! I love your style! Your so Naturally Stylish and I love your different nail colors, sorry I’m such a Girly Girl! Anyhow, Thank You so much for these videos, I’m currently dealing with a Covert Narcissist going on a year now. I’m Mentally drained and fighting to get out!!!!! I just caught on 6 months ago to his ways!!!😢
Phenomenal video. Thank you so much.
Ankouska , unfortunately you are Dame right !!!.
Thank You for Making it Real and in check! 🙏🏼
So on point..
At 11:15, there it is right there. So true.
Super helpful and greatly appreciated 🫶🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾✊🏽🙌🏽
Thank you so much, you are so on point with what’s happening and your videos help a lot 😊
How do you get over your partner dating you for 1 yr but behind your back marries someone else and still wants you too I'm broken I broke it off narcissist went nuts
Shared! ❤
Great tips. Thanks a million
VAMPIRES !
The only good or real moments were when his mask slipped, he spoke candidly, a real I could feel, then he goes right back to his agenda or what he wants from me. I was armed and ready so to speak. I delivered a message so well written, that normally I just could not do, prior for so much emotion. In a bizarre way I got empowered to speak less my truth, but the truth, how what he was expecting of me was inappropriate. He promptly agreed, then wrote I love you. Since then, radio silence for a couple weeks now. Like huh?? It hurts, I did what I had to do, put him to the test, for myself and his own toxic expectations of me, which I kept hoping my hints would fix. You just have to wonder how someone could function the way they do.
If he's a narcissist he's probably juggling 2 or 3 women.
❤ from Australia 🇦🇺
But who decided to name these people "NARCISSISTs" its a scaring word😢😢
Thee trash took itself out 10 yrs ago and remarried I hear the person he married is the female version of him and also damaged I'm also hearing he is back living with the narc matriarch (his mummy).
I got drunk enough to know how exceptionally fit I must be
You alright? I got sober decades ago. I don't care that you drink.
I understand and don't blame anyone for getting tore up.
But be careful, alcohol is a depressant and it can get really nasty.
Anyway--rough stuff. Been there.
Be well.
You are the perfect
🎉😂🎉 yeah!!!!!!!
The new supply is 2 years old lol
You know, you suddenly got real clinical on me, I always like a woman who can’t tell what it means to be hurt at all. Obviously the professional in you pushing through. ❤
You think she has never known pain? I suspect she knows it all to well and her life is dedicated to helping others.
@@dealia7777 I'm not sure, how many UA-cam women are there that really tell the truth? You will never to ask the question. Whatever maintains interest in the channel, that is prime important. So if you have to go around flapping your arms and quacking like a duck. If it pulls in loads of followers that is what you'll do. You think that somehow you are more important?
@@dealia7777 we've all known pain. You haven't noticed she flips it on and off, like a light switch? You might just be too close to see it. I'm an American. Just look at our friggin country. It's a freaking mess and no-one cares what matters.
These comment bots are so weird! Who is running these?
@@ezdeezytube. Humm, talk to me about this “weird”. Say exactly what you mean. Bots are kind of dicks? Does that fit in somewhere?
An avoydant can do the same damage. I know both 😢
Sweet
Should you piss on them while closing deals in your own mind?
She's already cheated on the new guy, she was before I knew he existed and she's desperately upgrading her social media with sexy pics now I've left the scene. These people are so socially capable and ruthless but they are trying to fill a cup that has a massive hole in it!
With this guy I want him becoming oppressed over me. Like I said I have friends who are narcissist some are good close friends. My thing is if it is way too toxic like attacking you being cruel or take advantage of me then I will block them and expose plus get out and leave. I think if it is to toxic everyone should walk away and leave if not they will hurt you again. But my guy he has not done anything like that. So he a keeper. But I also want equality powers. But do not let him know I am in to him. This is hard
If he is a narcissist he is cheating on you or will soon cheat on you.
My ex partner of 2 half years together I brought son up from another man I gave her credibility wen social and children services was going to take him away at 16 months old all because of alcohol topped with being a narcissist the lies she was telling me was so bad I left just before Christmas 2 hrs after I said I can't do no more she posted on Facebook looking for new supply then 2 days later slept with him to make matters worse on the 3rd day she slept with the man 3 times in same bed as her son and bragged about it with a mutual freind of ours the next day the baby woke up screaming wen she was having sex . She obviously had no regard for her son to do this she has already lost a daughter that was taken away by social services which is why these videos has really helped me threw this difficult time it won't be long before her son gets taken away as we all fear his safety
I want to ask u all mostly anoushka. Is a female covert narcissist not risking been hurt physically. I mean what if she hurts him to the point he flips & beats her or worse for cheating abusing triggering etc ??
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My issue is I have been around several narcissistic in my life. There these twins in California I believe they are narcissist. The oldest twins is all about power and control. I also firghure out who he is and how this works. I am at the point I am not letting him control me emotions. He never attack me or act like a toxic means ashole . So I want to keep him around even though I know who he is because I accept that. I do not want him know I know. I do not want him to know I have the power. I can easily expose him or block him and make him go crazy. I still want him around. I want him back but I do not know how. Do I tell him how I feel or where I stand or what. I know he has other people and I know when he block me it all about power. I know he going on his twin brother to look to see what I am doing. I also have friends who are narcissist too. So I do not know what to do
Was their hair even blond enough
We like u mad one
I need dogs n cats
Winged?
I want to send this guy a text but do not know what to say to him help
I’m in the same situation and I know he’ll go back to her with what I tell him so it’s put me off. I’ll just come off as a bitter ex rather than someone trying to warn the poor guy
Are you free?
Well I am but u might be 2
Or you laugh. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
music is unnecessary distracting.
Don't she have a nice voice