WHO'S THE ACTUAL ALPHA OF THE FAMILY?
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- Опубліковано 5 сер 2024
- There's no question Harry has lost the respect of MILLIONS around the globe. Today's video breaks down the Top 5 Differences between Prince William and his brother, Prince Harry and the impact they have. The contrasts between these two are big, and range from appearance, etiquette and behavior. A lot of these little things make a big difference in how others see you and react to you. This is true for both men and women, but of course there are differences in what comes across best.
Since Harold's downfall, the public backlash has only grown, and that is in large part to the mistakes covered in this video, but of course this is only a few of dozens. If you like today's video and would like to see more on the opposing cues the brothers are sending out via presentation, etiquette and more, then be sure to let me know by clicking the like button, and in the comments.
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I love William as a husband but even more as a father. The fact he spends one-on-one time with all his children proves what a great father he is.
Remember the hugs with George after the goal? Its on my list of videos i watch that mark me literally feel emotionally happy.
Seeing him on the balcony with Princess Charlotte putting his hands on her shoulders was so touching.
Yes, you can see the real man that he is, with the loving care that he shows his kids. Poor failure to launch Harry, is still a child himself, God only knows how he's going to be able to raise his kids....
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I don’t believe he has children,
I agree he's a lovely guy.
In my opinion William has class and elegance, something Harry will never have.
William also has brains and common sense.
Exactly, he's much better educated.
I think he will be more respect and have more class when he will start listening to what Prince William has to say. PW. Has wisdom and Harry would benefit from it.
William has a wife who loves and adores him as he does her. Harry not 🤷♀️
Also Princess Catherine wants PW to shine. She knows she is not the main character all the time
Prince William comes across, even in photo, as humble and grateful for his place in life. He also acts warm and confident in his place, as a future King, a father, and as a public figure. Being in charge of a multi million pound fortune, seems to sit on his shoulders quite easily and I feel that is due to King Charles, and HLMQ Elizabeth making sure his training equipped him for his role, as a duke, Prince of Wales, and Future King. His character has been nutured carefully, by his mentors and by himself.
Catherine POW knows her place and position. ( all you feminists SETTLE DOWN) Just like Prince Philip with HMQE2 , her position mainly to support her King , William. That is her role . In one video they are speaking with children. She tells them she is Williams wife …. She does not say princes, future queen or mother to future king …. WILLIAM’s WIFE. So much class and humility
Harry's mental and emotional growth stopped at about the age of 12. William continued to mature normally. William married a stable, decent woman. Harry married a psycho. Those are the most obvious differences between the two from what I can tell.
Do you think drugs would have played a role in stunted maturity?
@@Irish-Triplet yes, and oftentimes untreated adhd'rs (if he really has this condition....he shows signs of it) relay on illegal substances to cope with life.
Drugs was his way of self medicating! Subconsciously he knows he needs medication to properly be stable with him mental health! Most individuals that aren’t on medication for ADHD or does he have board-line autism. The individual takes the same medication because both health diagnoses are missing the medication. The other issue autism effects is the ability to socialize properly. They have difficulty interacting with individuals and tend to look to stable family members for guidance in their relationships and ability to socialize properly.
Some psychiatrists believe that personality is impaired once you begin using drugs and alcohol. Harry admitted he started using at around 13 years so you hit that nail on the head. He needs to step back from both alcohol, pot, and other drugs in order for his brain to heal. With abstinance and intensive psyho-therapy he may be able to repairbthe damage that was done and be able to developed a pleasing personality.
@@Irish-Triplet most definitely, that and negative self talk. This "woe is me" agenda is stunning his mental growth.
All 6'3" of William just commands a room when he walks in. He's no longer just a son or a brother, he's clearly a competent man with a purpose. And when he's with Catherine--also very tall--I think they just part waters walking into a crowd!!! These people have natural charisma, and charisma can't be learned or faked. It just is.
Someone should tell migraine and haznoballs that lying through their teeth doesn't count as flossing
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It’s more like root canal.
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Good one !
I remember when both William and Harry were young boys, before their mother’s tragic death. Even when Harry was a toddler, I felt that he had ADHD. You can find plenty of pictures of Diana looking frustrated with Harry’s behavior, but now as an adult, he still shows signs of ADHD- impulsivity, unable to accept consequences for his behavior, and we’ve all seen pictures of him completely lost in his own thoughts while at different events.
Harry needs not only family in his corner, but a system like the firm, or the military to keep him functioning and on track. I always felt like William was the one person that could keep Harry grounded. It’s a shame Harry can’t see that.
....."Diana looking frustrated"... Ha! How ridiculous. She was delighted by his obnoxious behavior. I see Diana smiling and almost egging him on.
Agree with you
Yes, remember at Prince Philip’s funeral? h could hardly be still. He beat the “program” against his leg like he was playing a drum in his head. Jerking his head left or right, making weird faces like he’s a 10 year old but he is at a funeral… 🤦🏼♀️
I agree,, he had help when he was with his family behind closed doors,,he left all that for Megan who thought she know better in helping him,, fast forward 3 years ,,now look what we got ,, a mess,,
I agree,, he had help when he was with his family behind closed doors,,he left all that for Megan who thought she know better in helping him,, fast forward 3 years ,,now look what we got ,, a mess,,
William works hard at his role. He is genuinely interested in his people and wants to engage and be of service. This means we are invested in him and his family.
His expressions when he listens remind me of his mother and demonstrate how focused he is on that person.
The interview he did while in NYC was phenomenal. I guess I never heard him talk that long before but I was so darn impressed with him. I got emotional thinking about his mother and how proud she would have been.
@@addieleo6382Sorry ! I 'm afraid that I have to disagree , although I realise that it is almost sacrilegious to criticise her these days. Diana was always aware of where the camera was and played up to them in that immature flirty way she had .Not all of us in the UK were taken in by it at the time. Charles is a natural out amongst the public , as is Ann who did far more charity work than Diana. I always used to think how frustrating it must have been for Ann that such a fuss was made of Di , just because of her looks,but she probably saw it all as a ridiculous circus.😅 The whole point of a Royal visit is to make it about the charity and people they are visiting . William also has the family sense of duty and thankfully their humour which must help in the mad goldfish bowl they live in.
The Queen and Philip shared a great sense of humour as do Charles and Camilla.It is lovely to see that William and Catherine have that too.
@@chanelv5373He has inherited all that from his father .Charles has been passionate about environmental issues for decades. I don't ever remember Diana showing the slightest interest .
@@twpsy634 Not sure of you meant to reply to my comment. I said I am reminded of Diana when I see footage of William; not that the BRF lacks a sense of humor or that Diana did not play to the cameras.
I think the Middletons have played a huge part in Prince William’s confidence. They are a close, loving family who welcomed him wholeheartedly into their lives - for the right reasons. The Wales children are incredibly lucky to be part of their family too.
I totally agree and you can see how much William appreciates them
There children are beautiful and very well raised!👍❤️💯🎉
Bingo
When William met Catherine in 2001, Diana had only been gone for four years so Carole Middleton must've felt like a second mother to him. Not that Diana could ever be replaced, but Carole came along at a time when he needed a loving mother most, and even though Camilla is his step-mother and could've filled that role as well, I don't think they ever had that kind of relationship.
@@elainagilbert7663 That’s an excellent observation. Thanks for sharing it. 😊
William exudes confidence, and I dare say, sex appeal. Harry, not so much. As for Harry's family, I'd say Meghan is the alpha male in that mess, lol.
Exactly. He got away from living in his brothers shadow only to live in the shadow of his wife. William’s shadow was always protective, Meghan’s shadow is a dark and oppressive place.
I do not see MM as an alpha at all .She is clearly a disaster waiting to happen.
People will say that William was older when Diana died and that is why he isn't as affected as Ginge..BUT I remember before Diana died when she went to NYC to auction her clothes and she said that Wiliam was her ROCK (weird for a parent to say that about their child..but saint Diana cannot be questioned) that he helped her through the seperation and divorce and that the auction was his idea....now the divorce/break up was when he was the same age as ginge...so he has ALWAYS been less needy than ginge..imo. He was then fortunate enough to meet Catherine who is 100% his PARTNER, she never pushes ahead of William, they have a traditional marriage, and I truely hope that they have the same sort of partnership for as long as Her Majesty and Prince Philip did..so far the signs seem favourable
This ❤. I always felt like it was way harder for William on oh so many levels. But since he does not complain due to his grace and maturity it's easy for ppl to forget how much he's had on his plate since very early childhood. Truly strong and resilient man.
I don’t think it’s that odd. When I divorced my first husband my children were young. Toddler and baby and they too were my rock. They gave me strength to move forward and something stable to focus on. Now they are grown. I’ve been remarried for almost twenty years and we added to the family. My children and I are close. My family is my rock still.
@@hollybrooke322and your words and stance is mature and totally relatable (it was same for me)…but the OP was referencing how Diana said William was her rock - not “her children” or “her boys”…she truly put William in a “man of the house! My protector” position at a very young age - he tells of how he’d sit outside her bathroom listening to her sobbing on the floor and he’d pass her tissues under the crack of the door - this was after the sep/divorce when he and Harry would go stay with her and SHE was supposed to be the adult taking care of, nurturing, and reassuring her children, not vice-versa….he says he’s sit with his back to the wall beside the bathroom door and listen to her sob like her heart was breaking, and that Harry would be there playing in another room or asking for something so William would be the one to check on him and get what he needed, etc while Diana laid in the bathroom floor, balling her heart out - William says he’d try to distract Harry and keep him away from the bathroom so he wouldn’t have to hear it too! Diana also would tell William everything - like he was her BFF or brother - and he was much too young to really process all of that - but by some miracle he found an inner strength - he was forced to grow up entirely too fast - and he found ways to be all things needed by his mum (helping w h during visits, a confidant, a shoulder to cry on, a friend, an advisor - and he was 12/13 years old!) and he found a way to try to be a what H needed (a type of almost father figure/mentor, he twisted himself in knots to be an example and an authoritarian figure bc that was often all H had for several years). Your saying your children were your rock is not the same way Diana meant William was her rock…she meant it more as being her knight in shining armor, her protector, and almost a partner. That’s just how it was wether we judge that now as out of line or not, I personally think it was too much to put on William at that age and cut his childhood short and that he sacrificed a lot to be all this things that his mum and H needed then. It’s truly inspiring that he turned out so well - but Catherine and her family helped immediately - Catherine’s dad was a great role model for William to see how to be a girl dad and then Charles was a truly loving father (but was distracted often by his infatuation w Camilla) and then I think William also made sure to take the opportunities provided to him - like accepting every invitation his Grandmother and Grandfather gave him to come have tea every Sunday…it ended up a ritual he never missed and turned into basically how to be a Royal and a man, father, husband, etc lessons for him: Harry notes that although William always went, he had other things to do than have lessons on etiquette and rules that he’d “never need” as the spare! It’s truly appalling!
@@SMRT79there's a name for that: parentification.
Parentification occurs when parents look to their children for emotional and/or practical support, rather than providing it. Hence, the child becomes the caregiver. As a result, parentified children are forced to assume adult responsibilities and behaviors before they are ready to do so.
William clearly had a whole different set of issues than his brother. I think Harry's mother may have tried to overcompensate for him being the spare. Who knows but he seems like he's always been troubled.
@@SMRT79Love❤what you've written about William, the best .
I hope your comment get to share on every platform.
Husband and I said that Harry is luckier than William, Harry can live his life more relax.
Why can't Harry see that ?
I wonder what Harry might be like today had he not met and married the most narcissistic narcissist in recent memory. Her apparentneed for constant attention and command of the spotlight has probably, at the very least, fed into his need to live outside the shadow of his brother. Perhaps he wouldn't have been quite so cruel to his family without the influence of a wife constantly trying to outshine, undermine and control him.
You are very right
If she had never met henry we wouldn't have ever heard of the z list actress who only had bit parts😊
They’ll end up Ahab and Jezebel. Watch this space.
Prince William is a statesman and a superstar. There is no comparison to awful Harold.
One is a gentleman, the other is a prat. Enough said.
In a nutshell.
You analyzed the differences perfectly. I would also add in that Prince William and Princess Catharine are sincere and authentic. When they interact with people they are genuinely interested in whom they are talking with. PW & PC engage people completely differently. They pause, listen, ask questions and work hard at understanding the other person. H&M don’t “walk their talk” as Native Americans say. They pop into a photo, barely speak to their chosen person and run off. They come across as childish and adolescent. That is what adolescents do: they only think of themselves in a conversation. Prince William also knows how his life depends on the hood will of the public and he shows his appreciation.
That is the most apparent difference genuine vs fake.
Yes, Beebs; every thing you said. William has an air of authority, but has a humanity that gains him respect He and Catherine have equality, but there's no doubt who is the heir apparent. He's not the most handsome man I've ever seen, but he gives the impression that he IS just through his personality. Thar's an alpha male. Harry, on the other hand...he whines, complains, fidgets, and always look rumbled. Plus, it's hard to be alpha male when everyone sees your wife boss you around in public. I often get the impression that he's a fashion accessory for her ("Look, I have a pet prince!")
William has the best qualities from both parents. His mother's humility and empathy and his father's sense of responsibility and work ethic. Harry unfortunately has some of his mother's worst qualities (she wasn't perfect). He has her paranoid tendencies as well as her temper and sometimes willfulness. It doesn't help that he is obviously a spoilt brat. His mother coddled him and his dad felt so bad for him after Diana's death, that unfortunately, he indulged him far more than he did William. I remember he took Harry alone on that first tour he had to South Africa where he was showered with attention. I think, because William is so controlled and to an extent introverted, Charles just assumed that he's OK and that Harry needed him more. The fact is there is only a two year difference and he was hit equally as hard as Harry by Diana's death. Harry doesn't have the monopoly on sorrow. What probably happened is Harry was protected by his Brother as well and by his grandparents. So the result is what we now see. He plays victim to get sympathy and attention like he always did. We now see the real Harry without the protection of all these important people in his life. He probably feels quite anchorless now, which is why he constantly needs Meghan's approval and 'guidance' and she uses that weakness to her own advantage. I don't think Harry will ever grow up and accept responsibility. He's always going to seek bolstering and approval and when he doesn't get it, he's going to feel sorry for himself. He will never come to the point where he is self aware and knows that his own actions have consequences. Poor kids that only have him, their mother and grandmother as role models. It could have been very different. 🇿🇦
Anchorless. Well said. Harry is truly a man adrift.
Harry acts like an entitled wannabe celebrity.
He is pushed and prodded by the Creature he married. She controls him like a dog.
...because that's what he is
Thank goodness William was born first. Imagine Harry being king.
No need to imagine. That's the scenario we had with Princes David/Edward VIII (later Duke of Windsor) and Albert/Duke of York (later George VI). That time, the 'wrong' person was born first, and it went very horribly wrong.
*shudder. I think the anti Monarchist's would have grown in popularity super fast
The best thing William has done and will ever do was to convince Catherine to marry him. She is emphatic and genuine in contrast to Harry's wife
I agree, but I think that in reality, it was Catherine who had to do the convincing - William took a very long time to make up his mind. I think she was sure he was 'the one' for her much sooner, probably because she came from a stable family background, and didn't have the doubts to overcome that William did in that regard.
@@Polopony I remember the long courtship and the glare of publicity that Catherine was subjected to and some of the vile comments directed at her. She needed to be assured that her partnership with William was stable and enduring as her parents is. There is no doubt that she loves William but the drama around the Royal Family was not a fire she wanted to walk into. William worked very hard to convince her that he would support her, which he has. He is the lucky one in the relationship. The Monarchy is in perfect hands now
I don’t think I can overstate how much better William is at judging the character of others. He has surrounded himself with loyal friends of substance, makes careful choices of professionals to work for him and his family, and - most crucially - fell for and chose the right woman to be his life partner. He and Catherine have always nurtured the BEST qualities in each other and undoubtedly counsel each other in making choices truly in their best interest.
Love your comment. It was perfect.
Perfectly said.
Right from the beginning Catherine's been his counsellor and someone to confide in. When he wasn't sure if he wanted to come back to university because he simply wasn't enjoying it, she encouraged him to try switching to a subject he liked and he did. They have a friendship first and foremost which shines through their every interaction.
Birds of a feather flock together. William attracts sensible folk like himself and the same is true of Harriet.
Prince William holding his hand by his side, fingers curled with thumb pointing down (along the trouser seam) is a military officer thing. The difference between William exhibiting this behavior and Harry not doing it may be another illustration that Harry didn't really get "into" being in the military while William was all in.
H can’t come to terms with the fact that he is not the heir.
Amazing how two men given the same upbringing can grow into completely different individuals with polar opposite values 🤔
Like king edward and king george the late queen father and uncle
Well said
Isn't it? I often discuss this issue with my husband regarding one of our nieces. One an angel the other the devil despite growing up in the same environment.
I couldn't agree with you more, Beebs, about William and about Harry.
I find William attractive because of the way he treats his wife and children, at least in public where we see them. If his joy at being a husband and father is fake, he’s the best actor in the world. 😊 Btw, he looks so much like Diana at times that it’s spooky.
The same smile and way of lighting up when he’s doing something he’s passionate about
William POW has a lovely blend of immense strength and vulnerability in his face, he carries himself with aplomb and dresses impeccably.
He has a commanding stature and build.
He’s most definitely an empath.
He will be a marvellous king when the time comes, I hope I am alive to see him crowned.
As for Harry, I used to love him, he was the cheeky fun prince, but his ridiculous sense of entitlement and his constant whining from someone with immense privilege has been a real turn off.
His attitude and presentation need work, but if he hasn’t learnt how to present and conduct himself with dignity by now, I guess he never will.
Pity he didn’t choose a more appropriate wife, a wife that would of supported him in his role as William POW’s, right hand man, as it should have been, a wife that would have brought forward his best traits rather than his worst.
He looked much tidier and well presented before Meghan came along, now he’s a shabby, emasculated mess.
Marry in haste, repent in leisure as they say.
William is self assured and even. He doesn't let his emotions rule his public appearances. William's choice of wife shows he has the good sense to ask a woman who is just as strong as he is. He is not petty,and doesn't get into a public show down with his brother. Just a wonderful Prince.
Beautiful blouse. The color and fit on you is incredible. You totally rock that look!
William has class! Harry is DeClasse. Harry’s been coddled, spoiled, and basically protected all his life. I think he’s broken but that break happened before his mum’s death.
Remember William is educated! Harry? Not.
One thing I admire about William is his ability to really listen. A very underappreciated quality, especially in men.
Yes, you are on point Ms Beebs. Prince William is such a Role Model
Prince William gives off adult, grown up energy & vibes. Whereas Prince Harry gives off “I like turtles” meme vibes. The differences between the two are grown up & caring vs. coddled & tantrum throwing child. It’s easier to deal with an adult!
How can there be a rivalry when there is no contest?
Beebs I just want you to know that I really enjoy your show for a number of reasons. One, you are reasoned and you can back up your statements with logic. Second, you are so fun. Three, I love that you are a mom. It makes you relatable and gives you some wisdom behind your words. Four, you really do have a good eye for fashion and make up. I love learning about lines and shading and color from you. five, you are articulate and considered in your speaking. Sadly it’s not as common as it should be.
Many years ago my mother sent me to an image consultant, but I much would have preferred to work with you. Anyhow, I just want you to know I enjoy your show and I hope you keep it up. Thank you!
Great comments ,totally agree with you
I couldn't agree more, Corrie. I'd write the same myself, if I could set it out as neatly as you.
Like yourself, I try to make a point of telling my fav UA-camrs how much I enjoy their work. It's a rough business, UA-cam. A lot of negatively. People such as yourself deserve much credit for doing the opposite and spreading positive vibes and encouragement 👍❤
@@martyn8116👏👏👏beautifully said!! All of you!
Well said.
Confession. I am a straight woman, but this Lady has the best bosom on youtube.😂 beautiful face, clear skin, wonderful hair and a lovely melodic voice. I cant believe she is only 5', Her presence is huge!
One has a good woman as a wife; one does not.
Hands down, Prince William and Princess Catherine are the sweetest couple and most loving couple I’ve ever seen. They are what every couple should strive to be like. They have, poise, grace, genuine love, kindness, friendship, humility and strength. But when it comes to, “another couple” we know, they don’t have any of those qualities. There’s no comparison. Prince William is the Alpha Male. Forget about the titles and if he’s the older brother. He’s the one who has his head on his shoulders. Harry’s head is high up in the clouds or wondering off trying to figure out who to blame for his mistakes.
Prince William and a velvet jacket is a wonderful combination 😊
I think you should add that a definite positive in William is his ability to choose a great partner for life. He was wise to wait so long to finally marry, as it gave them both lots of time to really get to know and appreciate each other. It also gave Catherine time to adjust to her role.
Harry seems to have been determined to get married, NOW, so he chose someone who he immediately liked and who gave him lots of positive vibes. Megan did not have any time to accept her position as a royal. I doubt she could have kept up her act for too long and her real personality would have come through.
Also, William accepts wise counsel, whereas Harry does not!
Perfectly stated. Bravo 👏🏽 👏🏽
Both Harry and Meg need to attachments themselves to wise and understanding persone. They surround themselves with "yes men" that massage their fragile egos. That type is not the type they need. They need people that will challenge them for positive growth. Those that ill enrich them. Those that will call them on their B.S. and correct their ways. Those that will explain how the public perceive them and guide them to positive choices and self talk.
Prince William and Princess Royal Anne are the only two in the Royal Family that could fit that order. Both are grounded, realistic, and handle stress appropriately. They are also kind and caring and genuinely love Prince Harry (they were not given enough time to let Meghan reveal her true self so that cannot be said of her.) It is too bad that neither Harry nor Meghan could escape their egos long enough to see the pairs generous offer to help them. And they did offer. Oh what it could have been and now torn all apart.
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You are so right!
It’s amazing that not a single person has told them to their faces how petty, selfish, unrealistic they are and much hate and disgust they have generated; and that hardly anyone believes anything they say!
I think William did try to get Harry to slow down in his relationship with Megan, and that didn’t turn out so great. I don’t know that Megan would believe anyone who called her out for her behavior. Can narcissists reform? Can spoiled brats grow up?
Amen🙏
A little off this topic, but I really wish Diana was still here to be the grandmother she so deeply deserved and maybe to be an advisor to Harry❤🌹
I'm a few years older than the princes. Watched them grow up. My mom and I would discuss the behaviors of both of them, but especially after the death of princess Diana. Mom never had anything negative to say about William, but cringed over several of Harry's scandals. The wedding was a very animated discussion between us, the dresses. I loved Catherine's and stayed up to watch that wedding. I shrugged over the harkles, but that dress was very blah.I have heard what Catherine's cost, and her parents paid for it. The meg's was just awful, and I think the queen paid for it. Charles gave Catherine 56-57k pounds for a new wardrobe and she spent it wisely, from everyday to a few glam gowns, and shoes. I never saw anything like that for the Meg. But it would have maybe covered 5 outfits, maybe.
She spent a million dollars of Charlie's money the first year. More than any other royal. She got him to spend $79,000 on her engagement dress. Bonkers.
@glynisj.7170 I hated that dress. It was so, just so wrong. I really like Catherine's style. I don't love everything that she wears, but I give her credit for wearing it well. She's had very few oops. Whereas the Meg can't find even a pair of jeans that look good.
Personally, I live for comfort. I wear almost nothing but pj's. I'm physically disabled and I have a lot of difficulty with zippers, buttons, snaps, and assorted stuff. Hell, there are days that I can barely brush my hair, and I own that. But I'm also a housewife, totally not famous. And I don't care. I think that if the Meg were in a house fire, she'd be primping in a slinky bit of ridiculously priced lingerie and trying to look sexy for the first responders. I think that Harry would be more concerned about the children than she would be.
So your point is that William and Kate are perfect and Harry and Meghan aren't. Thanks for sharing ... how quickly we all forget that Harry had to take the fall for all Williams misdeeds when they were caught...we dare not want to tarnish the reputation of the future King when we can throw his little brother under the bus instead. William got the pickings and Harry got the scraps.
Charles paid for Meghan's wedding dress. And also, she demanded and got more dress allowance from him which was more than any other European Royal women spent on their clothing. Remember, Harry even lied to defend his wife's spending. He said that his wife stitched her own clothes, ate less and was in general, did not demand an expensive upkeep... which we all know was a lie! At one point, frustrated Charles even seem to have told Harry that it was OK for his wife to work and take care of her own expenses.
@annebell7119 William wasn't perfect, but he wasn't ever out of control like Harry was. You have only swallowed the Sussex lies hook line and sinker.
What a great presentation, Beebs! I love how you give unbiased factual examples to get the point across. I find Harry constantly preaches at people when speaking, whereas William speaks with people, making him far more pleasurable to listen to. I for one would love you to do a part two!
As the mother of a grown son with his own family, I greatly admire William. As a female, WILLIAM IS HOT! Very manly indeed.
I am AroAce and even I understand Prince William is sexy
Prince William as a father is so attractive. You can tell his children are so trusting and follow his lead without question.
Harry was given, William learned how to achieve.
Great opinions Beebs!
Spot on with the true comparisons of these brothers. So sad that this spider 🕷️ had to crawl into their lives 😔
I don't doubt that 'alpha' body language and behaviour comes more naturally to William; Harry seems to have more difficulty with impulse control.
I am sure Harry complained to Meghan that having to adopt more polished, formal behaviour felt restrictive and false to him. And I am equally sure Meghan's 'California mindset' of organic authenticity and being yourself was a breath of fresh air to Harry.
That being said, the Royals (and other highly professional people in the public eye) do not exhibit formal, controlled, tailored, appropriate, confident appearances for nothing. It may seem like a straitjacket but it actually provides a clean dividing line between the public and private self.
William's private self is truly private, and there is an allure that comes with that. Royals know they aren't going to be famous for ten or even twenty years, but for their whole life. Mystery, charisma and self respect are tools to maintain public interest.
Harry continually makes his private self public, and what once seemed relatable is now becoming old, boring and predictable.
This is a brilliant observation. I agree that Prince William maintains that sense of mystery about himself. There is a "magic of royalty" that is so alluring.
Can you imagine having no restraints on our public persona and just being “authentic”? There is a reason it’s considered bad manners to pass gas in public😅
Excellent observations Anna! I think the reason the world is running amuck is the lack of boundaries about proper behavior. There should be a part of a public person that remains private, especially in regards to marriage. It keeps the bond special if it isn’t shared with the world.
I agree with you. I like both brothers, but William has matured whereas Harry is stuck in the past. I read Harry's book Spare, and he referenced the death of his mother dozens and dozens of times. I think her death psychologically stunted him. He's still mentally a little boy.
Victim mentality is H & Ms brand
Agree. I guess that Megan had him go to counseling did nothing for him. Since he claims if it wasn’t for her he never would have had counseling. The are just liars.
A spiteful little boy at that!
William inspires a reassurance (as does Catherine), and is someone you would want to be around in a crisis or something. Can you imagine being stuck with Harry (and his wife) if there were something bad going on? No, thanks.
I’d love to hear more from you about how William and Harry present themselves socially. William appears impeccable in all aspects of his life, and sadly Harry seems to have set aside all the training invested in him as a royal, and his image has dropped from hero to zero in my perception. I’m so glad you picked up on his no belt look and the sloppy sleeves at Invictus. Both H and M need to look in the mirror before they leave the house, and buy an iron 😅! Finally, you look pretty in your blouse!
Or a steamer, many people find irons difficult. Steamer are easy and quick. With Meghan you would think she would hire a wardrobe manager or assistant. It is so helpful to have a second opinion for your outfits.
he looked scruffy and disrespectful, though mind you, his wife didn't look any better either
i remembet Hazbeen on his book tour being asked about racist comments in the Oprah interview - reminded me of the angry teenager caught lying response.
They will never be equals!!!
Prince William allowed himself to be taught "normal life" by Princess Catherine's family. He has often stated outright he appreciated this. Perhaps he talked about his experiences with his late grandmother, and she decided (and I'm just guessing here) that it would inject a sense of being more relatable in the eyes of the audience.
However, I think Harry decided not to accept this change and then wanted Meghan's version of "normal life" which, because of what I've heard about her family situation may already have been warped in a way, and this was not gelling with the changes that Prince William (with his grandmother's and father's blessing perhaps) was bringing to the royal family.
I had noticed a change happening in some of the royal family (the ones born as a royal) once the relationship between Prince William and Catherine was going to keep going, especially after they got engaged, and maybe because Prince William is the next King he has been getting a little more say in an opinion of how to do stuff. I noticed how much more of a "meet and greet" King Charles had become also in recent years, especially since his ascension.
I'm certain there were conversations in the family, aligning the family closer to how King Charles wants things first, and then what Prince William wants secondly, and maybe even indirectly listening a bit to Prince George and all others of his generation indirectly via his (and their) parents. I think the idea of protecting the children still persists from when Prince William was born, but the presence of Princess Charlotte during the greeting of the tennis players makes it clear to me their opinion is also included and seems also to matter to the older royals.
If I'm right with this (and I would never say I am) then Harry doesn't know any of this information and it makes his situation even more tragic, because if he'd pushed back against Meghan and had appeased his family better or more he would be aware of these changes that "the audience" (the British subjects and interested people outside Britain) would notice whereas he put himself, Meghan and their kids in a "la-la-la-la" cocoon and therefore is acting perhaps on outdated information or ideas. This latter I say as someone who decided to distance herself from problematic close family when I noticed that after a short separation my family still thought of me in a way that was incorrect as I had changed.
I think that's how Harry views his family right now. Let's give it a silly example. Say that Harry assumes that everyone in his family likes apples, but since the "change suggested by Prince William" they've decided that oranges are nicer to eat. Harry still looks at them as people eating apples. WE (the audience) might notice that they eat oranges now. WE (the audience) might communicate in comments etc "Prince Harry, look at them. They eat oranges, not apples." When Harry's response is "They can only ever eat apples." That's what I mean about Harry not wanting to accept that his family CAN CHANGE. If there was a change we should credit the exposure to "normal life" that Prince William got when he would regularly visit Catherine's family.
P.S. Not sure if I made sense here but that's the best way I can explain how I see the stuff going on.
I agree 100% well said
Most definitely William is an Alpha male, but Harry isn't a Beta. He is not loyal or supportive, he is not dependable, and definitely not trustworthy. He enjoys conflict rather than avoids it, and he is extremely competitive (especially with his brother). Total opposite of a Beta. Not even an Omega. Just an arsehole IMO.
Could he be Loki to Prince William's Thor....?!
I think we're seeing the real Harry now .
Harry is out of shape. William is not. Harry has a more Soft body compared to william thats why hes always has his hand over his belly and wears shoulder pads even with tshirts.
Going to add one more point that cements the stark differences between William and Harry, what should be the defining key characteristic to an “Alpha” male is having the right priorities. William has demonstrated his priorities is to serve the monarch, think about the future as king, be the guide for his children when their role comes, and has successfully prepared his wife for the role they are taking on that previously didn’t go well for a few of Princes of Wales. On top of that, Catherine wasn’t born into a noble or aristocratic background that would have helped her, yet here she finally adored by the world, and I think William should get the credit because he did what he could to help Catherine to succeed. The rest is what her natural spirit was able to commend, William really helped her by given her that foundation that she could build on.
Whereas Harry’s priorities are not concerns that has substance, honestly it did seem like he was developing it by the time he met the Mrs, he was championing ways to help the British veterans. However, when meeting the Mrs, it became about “Me Me.” Harry doomed himself the moment he uttered the words, “What Meghan wants, Meghan gets,” especially when dealing with someone who is not never known what it is to be satisfied by the simple things in life.
The latest Invictus Games is a huge contrast to William’s trip to NYC, the Invictus Games got hijacked once again by the Harkles while William was seen as a unifier in the US, actually contributing ways to learn and listen to those on the field of how they are solving problems. While William’s jog could have been interpreted as a jab to Harry, I think he was more focused on trying to make it up to New Yorkers that their home is more pleasant than the Harkles made it out to be to fit their agenda of making the UK and the US pay for extra security.
Excellent comment!
I like the last bit about making up to New Yorkers. How thoughtful if that was the case.
I would love to see your take on Harry and Prince William fashion! Why does Prince William always look more put together?
Probably because a) he understands the necessity to look professional and appealing, and b) he actually listens to advice from his team about how this can best be achieved.
So glad William was born first! Can you imagine if it had been the other way around? (Cringe!)
I also noticed the pants with no belt at Invictus. Weird. My two sons grew up dressing for school chapel every Wednesday. I would never have sent them in dress clothes and a tie with no belt.
William treats people with respect and is definitely a gentleman with ladies. Harry can be very condescending and rude to people. He was extremely rude to ignore TV host presenter Hafnet Tesfai during the Invictus Games closing ceremony. He does not hold himself accountable for what he and is spoilt and entitled.
Harry's hair transplant makes me laugh. Without the transplanted hair, he would be every bit as bald as William, yet he pokes fun at W about it.
Prince William is such a hunk!
I love the picture of William taking phone reservations at a restaurant. He and Kate were having so much fun, and it shows.
William has more natural confidence but his personal life has done him a world of good! He seems very content and fulfilled with his marriage and children.
Having them side by side like that shows how much William is all Spencer (except for the lack of hair), height, demeanor, slightness, mannerisms. No wonder Harry is mad lmao 😂
Harry always appears out of place no matter where he is or what he is doing if Meghan is anywhere around. It's kind of pathetic, really.
Megsy treats him like some kind of accessory, to be shoved here and there, brought out of the box and put on public display or a short time, then - out comes the claw and pushes him somewhere else
Agreed! He looks happier and even more handsome when he's on his own.
anecdotally, prince harry was never the brightest bulb in the chandelier.
Harry was closer to being 13, two weeks before his birthday when Diana died. Wish people would recognize this rather than portray him as a 12 year old.
Plus William only became 15 about a month before her death,it was the size difference at the time that made the age gap so much greater.
He was 12. That's a fact!!
Alphas often get a bad rap. But you’re right, Beebs, Alphas have amazing qualities. Unfortunately, the negative alphas get more attention.
My favorite video of yours yet. Spot on analysis. Prince William (and Princess Catherine) are the epitome of grace, class, elegance, and poise. Not to mention they have the patience of saints. Also excellent use of “archetype;” I giggled.
Yes he and Catherine are fabulous! And those kids are just icing on a wonderful cake! If he is 6'3", how tall is his wife?
Reports say 5’9 other reports 5’10.
5'9" I think, maybe 5'10". Add 3 or 4" heels and she stands at between 6' and 6'2" most of the time.
Also Prince William is so like Diana in looks and character where Harry looks like Henry the Eighth especially his eyes(extremely close together) and the ginger hair, all he needs is to get fat and it will complete the picture.
One difference between the princes is that Harry struts. He loves his security because their presence brings he and Meghan attention they wouldn’t have on their own.
It is so cringe.
Harry struts like a tough guy with his bodyguards surrounding him.
Little D Energy.
If you know, you know.
As usual I’m smiling through this entire video, your insight is always great, but with this one you should be applauded. True Character truly deserves respect. Beebs, your character shines through also… you are well respected for all your balanced and beautifully presented videos! Thank you!
💛💛💛thank you
@@BeebsKelleyyou are a very personable person and I find your presentations to be kind and fair with a sprinkle of humor. Love watching you and your Content. Bravo on a job well done.
William is sophisticated and has integrity.
It’s not who can bark, complain, and whine the loudest.
1000% here for a second part!
Just regarding looks: When they were younger, the difference in looks was so striking. William was gorgeous in his childhood and teens. Harry was dorky, with very ruddy cheeks, below average looks, and low intelligence. The envy Harry felt must have been overwhelming.
Harry has a wispy high pitched voice. William has a deep, manly voice. William is a blond, Harry a ginger. That is just part of only the superficial stuff.
When I was younger, I loved Harry more because he seemed fun. William was too perfect then. Now I find Harry unkempt and I bet he smells. I find William more attractive now as he matures and the fact that he accepts his baldness makes me like him even more. I hope he and Catherine age with grace.
BTW - totally do a part deux, do a whole series!
Maybe a series with Catherine, Princess of Wales & Megs, too - Catherine took her time, came into her role, & her age, stage of life reflects those fashion choices & then there is Meg.
You have it spot on, Beebs. William and Catherine will always command absolute respect from everyone simply by being who they are. They know how to behave, how to dress appropriately, and how to put people at ease. They come across as caring, kind and warm people who are genuinely interested in the people they meet and who have created a contented and happy family life. Those other two vile specimens on the other hand ...
I have had interaction with William and Catherine and they even followed their visit with an official KP letter, thanking us!
William broke up with Catherine for 6 months to give her a 'get out' clause but she said she was aware of what marrying the future king involved and the inevitable hard work serving us. Catherine certainly has proved that and the late Queen passed, knowing the monarchy was in safe hands ❤
One thing for sure, you'll never see William wearing a woman's blazer 😮Harry at concert, and Costner event wearing woman's blazers.😢 weird
William inherited the best qualities of his parents and Harold inherited the worst. I have no idea why this happened. Please do continue with this topic, would love to hear further insights!
Hi Beebs!😊🍀😊
How Harry treated his grandparents in their final years was cruel, obscene. Flat out elder abuse!! Yes Beebs, I'm being judgemental!!
Prince William Is Firstly A Husband, But, Prince William Understands His Role As Part Of The Monarchy
I don't think H is even Beta anymore, he's well past gamma
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Before all this garbage Harry has gotten himself mixed up with they were on equal par of popularity but William is making everyone so proud of him how he is going about his duties as a royal and a amazing family man ,we love him❤❤❤
Your assessment is spot on. That TIME cover was just wrong. H looked like some creepy hairdresser hunching behind his wife. He always comes across as a beta male, and not just because his wife pushes her way ahead of him, but for all the reasons you covered so well here. In contrast, even though Prince Phillip always followed protocol and deferred to the Queen in public, he was always obviously an alpha male. Similarly, Catherine and Camilla both follow protocol, yet never come across as being "less" than their husbands. Harry gets that whole issue so very wrong.
Catherine is a strong woman who understands her role well. William and Catherine are great partners who love, respect and appreciate each other.
Yes, yes, YES, please do a second, deeper dive into the differences between the future King and the Ginger Whinger!
Great video, Beebs. You nailed it. William acts and conducts himself like a future monarch. He's mature, intelligent, polished, engaging, kind and has very refined manners. It's pretty obvious. Harry.....nope. And that fidgetting with his jacket button screams of insecurity. He has never grown up and is still a perpetual 12 year old.
harrys hand is a sign that he is a '' brick layer'' shown for his fellow brick layers!!!
I love your Bluebird of Happiness Beebs! Did you know Terra Studios in NW Arkansas stopped making them at the end of January 2020 after 38 YEARS- sold over 8 million over that time - presidents and celebrities from all over the world gift them or buy for themselves - so you have something precious there! I have one too I obtained during my time as a U of A Fayetteville student and I love it, makes me smile every time I glance at it and the “Bluebird on your shoulder” in the latest videos just makes me smile!
I had no idea!! That's sad, I love it so much I've had it since I was a little girl, a gift from my Grandma who got it on a trip there 💛💛
I have one too. I've always loved it it but now that I know more about it I appreciate it more. Thank you
William is THE Alpha❤❤❤
I liked today’s video , I agree that Prince William is an exceptional man.
Wonderful !! Part 2 please!😊😊
William got all the good points of Charles and Diana. AND handsome to boot. he's such a good dad. Beebs I can't WAIT for you to tear into Me-graine's "outfit" at the Kevin Costner do. oh and king Charles big nervous tic.....fiddling with those cufflinks.
Great analysis Beebs. Prince William was, and is, not always uber confident. Especially as a young man , but as you said, he wanted to learn, grow into his role and be the best Prince of Wales, husband, father, family member and just the best man he can be. He does have his little nervous ‘tics’ like we all do but he’s clearly worked on his. King Charles famously twists his signet ring around when he’s unsure, I used to twist my wedding ring.
Harry twists his ring as well. I see where he gets it now.
Another video focusing on their clothing choices, what makes a well dressed, well groomed man vs a sloppy, slovenly one. Also more on body language, analyzing men who sit, walk, stand, greet people with confidence and class.
I’ve felt that since your Dear Queen left this earth, the Alpha is now William. He exudes confidence and strength, yet affection and respect for the people and his Family.
Part two would be great Beebs.Thank you
Prince William is his mother's son. He's using everything positive that his mother taught him along with everything he's learned from the Middleton family. Plus, it's so obvious that he absorbed everything that his grandmother was teaching, whether it was an actual "lesson" from the late Queen Elizabeth II or simply observation. William is comfortable in his own skin. Plus, he has a true partnership with his wife, Princess Catherine. The way they look at each other is either sizzling, smoldering, or flirty, they don't need to be locked together by a claw-like handhold. He's also got a great sense of humor and sometimes, I feel like Princess Catherine does have 4 children and I mean it most favorably. When he sees something amusing, that's when you can truly see his mother shine through him. He has the same mischievous and impish look that his mother had. And, it usually happens when he's trying to be serious.
Prince Harry is also very much his mother's son although he looks exactly like his father. Sadly, he seems to have adopted all that was wrong with his mother. Diana did suffer from mental health problems and she wouldn't have been human if she didn't. However, back in those days, counseling or therapy did carry a huge stigma with it, so treatment was never an option for Princess Diana. However, he's different, the times have changed and he can afford to hire the best without any stigma attaching itself to him. Instead, he appears to be sinking deeper and deeper into dangerous ways of helping him cope with the additional stress of his marriage. He's stuck on the worst day of his life and has chosen to remain there. He's never going to be King, he's behind a 4 or 5 year old child, Prince Louis in the line of succession. And, he's not with a partner. He's with someone who wants the fame and the notoriety of being royal without ever having to do the work. She's a succubus, but Harry's a willing victim.
William acts the age he is NOW. Harry's choosing to stay the 12 year old child forced to walk behind his mother's coffin. Even before Meghan came along, he struggled with becoming an adult, remember strip billiards?
Beebs, I'd love a part 2.
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In part 2 can you add how Harry and William are in relation to their wives, Harry's wife obviously brings out the worse in him and Katherine seems more supportive and loving towards William in a non needy way. Great vid as always.