getting personal && closet/bedroom update!
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
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I love this girl
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We* all love claudia
Hello
trust me fin we all love this girl
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Sharing your therapy is the kindest thing, thank you for all the relatable content.
yes really, also it really made me question myself and be aware of how do I feel about it
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I just wanna be peaches
@Chris Klemens Omg Chris I wanna be you I love you so much😭
“it’s okay to let someone down because you’re deciding to choose yourself” i really needed that🥺 thank you💗
I know I am just a stranger in the comments , but I Just wanted to say that you are beautiful and amazing no matter what anyone else says. In this world now a days true friends are hard to find , but if you ever need someone to talk to , hmu whenever . Always remember you are worth it , you are special , and that you have a purpose in life💕
This ❤️❤️ I can totally relate to this feeling. All my life I’ve been constantly overthinking every decision I make to “make sure that it’s acceptable to my friends/family” which I’m finally realizing is impossible. Our wedding is less than a month away and this whole experience has taught me that no ones opinion really matters. I need to put my happiness first.
I love when Claudia models all her outfits for us, she looks so pretty with everything
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something ive learned with the text responding is not everything needs a response if it only benefits the other person. setting a boundary to not always be available to people and being available when i’m emotionally and physically there
U just put my thoughts in words:)
Honestly I disagree ignoring people is super rude. There are ways to acknowledge peoples texts without necessarily responding. Emojis, giving a thumbs up or a like….you can set boundaries without being disrespectful.
not one video of her where im like, "oh, this video was't s good as the last". all of her stuff is incredible. and her editing is also very incredible.
RIGHT
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I think we can all agree Claudia and Finneas are our internet parents
agreed!
Can so relate to the texting thing! Texting has become so overwhelming to me during the pandemic, between overanalysing every conversation to just not having the mental capacity to respond. But it's okay to take the time that we need to be present
Same! But I wasn’t aware of it until listening Claudia’s perspective, how weird is that as humans we can’t really understand our own mind
i now realize that this is what i felt during the pandemic with face to face or phone calls conversations, i just wasn’t me and my brain was shut out of nerves and i couldn’t process the ongoing conversation well enough to be responsive. it made some people to take a step back from me but the true friends stayed, and also with them i didn’t feel that had that problem
The prices from thred up are ridiculous, Kirra Sunshine was a kids beach brand, that same skirt sold for $10 on depop a year ago
I was wondering how on earth that skirt could be $214 originally…
Seriously, it’s giving *scam*
They sell skirts like that at Walmart…
@@xonikkiecal I wore skirts like that from limited too in elementary school 🤣
Exactly my thoughts
Claudia saying “it’s okay to let someone down because you’re deciding to choose yourself” is the one thing in this world i’ve been needing for a while, i recently ended a friendship because i needed to do it for myself and the situation i’m in and i felt so guilty for it but Claudia saying that made me feel that yeah it’s okay to be a bit selfish sometimes yk?
right i really feel you! I’ve been having to be in the same situation as you! I just had a fight with my friend bc i chose me over her and she’s mad at me for that, and claudia said these really made me realize that it’s okay to be a bit selfish sometimes for your own sake
@@nunertnvl i hope your situation gets better and i’m so sorry that she was mad at you for choosing yourself. i’ve also been feeling really guilty for myself over that because i feel like that person hates me(even though i don’t talk to them anymore) though i gave a good reason to why i need to end the friendship. (sorry for oversharing)
I can relate 100% to you. Ended a relationship even though they were closest to amazing. Feels like being alone is what I should do at this stage of my life. Better days will come. It’s okay to sacrifice something for your own mental health.
P.s I strongly believe what should be will be. So go with the flow. ❤️ Wish you all the peace and happiness
claudia, your editing is beautiful! it’s so smooth and just brings inspiration, joy, and comfort to me whenever i put on your videos ☺️ sending you love 🤍
I like how you've enjoyed and learned stuff about yourself that you didn't know with therapy. Thank you for being open with us about what you've learned in therapy🥰🥰🥰
from my pov and the way I've perceived you for years, watching you talk about therapy and the way we carry certain things meant sooo incredibly much for me. Mad respect and admiration for you since the first time I watched your videos. You go Cloob.
I'm incredibly appreciative of your willingness and vulnerability to share your therapy journey, Claudia. I have never quite been able to put into words why texting too stresses me out, and I feel a huge amount of responsibility for people I spend time with, or talk to, in return harming my own inner balance and ability to feel comfortable in social settings. Everything you said made absolutely perfect sense (thank you claudia's therapist), and it put my mind at ease..... also I probably need to start therapy too. Haha. Thank you for your vlogs and the love and light that intertwines them. Oh also, the trinket box on your bedroom dresser reminds me of the chocolates box from Matilda. 💗
i’m always loving it when claudia posts another video!
SAME
so proud of your growth and introspectiveness. I've been learning how to better communicate my needs with my partner! also the last ten minutes was like free therapy? we love it
I genuinely relate to the fear of being misunderstood because I’m one of those people that leaves a conversation thinking “oh maybe I shouldn’t have said that” or “maybe they took what I said the wrong way” and I can usually never let it go and I assume that no one actually understands how I truly am and that’s why it’s hard for me to make true friends.
Why are FINNEAS and Claudia just the cutest couple?
Claudia thank you so much for opening up about your fear of letting people down, when I watched your first video I realised I have the same struggle as you and it's honestly great hearing that other people have this fear, too. You're the only person I know who struggles with this and is so open and honest about it. Thanks it really helped me
Also love your videos ❤️❤️
Thanks for the heart it made my day 😊❤️
@@chryssa_kes I know I am just a stranger in the comments , but I Just wanted to say that you are beautiful and amazing no matter what anyone else says. In this world now a days true friends are hard to find , but if you ever need someone to talk to , hmu whenever . Always remember you are worth it and you are special no matter what anyone else says. 💕
@@beautyfromwithin0173 thank you 💕
21 minutes of mental stability 🥰
I adopted you and Finneas as my parents a long time ago. So much love in that household.
Wow the part about "texting" was so helpful, you really made me be aware of myself!! Thank you for sharing, love you!!!!!
The point you brought up about the fear of being misunderstood is so interesting and relatable, too. One thing I’ve learned is “Self care is choosing not to argue with people who are committed to misunderstanding you”. So important! ♥️
Claudia: "is this interesting to you guys??" me: YESSSSSSSS
she’s back !!!
Sounds like at the core your greatest fear is CONTROL! Not trying to push something on you that doesn't resonate but just had to say it. I find control issues to be at the core of so many peoples issues due to childhood and feeling like life is chaotic and trying to make sense of it 💖
Meanwhile, I feel this through a different angle. Whenever someone leaves me on read or just leaves by liking the last msg, I feel truly vulnerable and confused about where I went wrong. Didn't realise it until now. Thank you Claudia!
Def with you on the unlearning part! Feels so good to be curious about whatever else I have in store for myself. Thanks for sharing
You are so well spoken Claudia, when I was hearing you talk about your biggest fear is letting people down I could help but relate to that, but I am so proud of you for realizing your strength inside yourself 💛
Learning that people pleasing is actually a form of manipulation was really eye opening for me. It’s not helpful for either party and can cause a lot of hurt!
the distinction you shared between giving vs pleasing really blew my mind. 🤯 also those studded shoes are EVERYTHING!!
the way that peaches lays on the bed while claudia cleans the living room is so cute
1:00 60's sofa. My mom had one, this exact color and fabric. 7:34 Also getting a 60's-retro vibe from this dresser. 11:56 FYI my grandmother was a painter, she always kept her doors closed. She even put nice cloths under her doors to keep the dust out. So clever. Once a week I have to dust... and I don't mean cat-tail dusting. I mean damp rag and cleaning dust off and then rinsing said-rag, and repeat. Dusting is the worst, but you gotta do it right.
I’m genuinely happy whenever Claudia talks to us. I always feel so special when I watch her videos. I always seem to forget that thousands of other strangers are watching the same content as I am haha
the glow up Claudia’s closet had is crazyyyy!!went from two little closet that she kept the door open to make it like a walking closet to a entire room!!im so happy for her
I've realised recently that its hard for me to accept the person or stage of life I'm in now cause it's very transitional between college and getting a job. So I just end being unhappy even if I'm actually growing positively in my intellect and starting to like new things....also because I feel that nobody in my life is as excited about the same things that I am. So I have decided to accept myself slowly and just try each day not to be unhappy for growing and being at this stage. I really want to feel content but it's a struggle each day.
Also your videos sooth me Claudia...so thank you for sharing ❤
LOVE those Harley Davidson wedges! Also would you do a video just on all of your fragrances/perfumes and how you decide which to wear and how you decide to buy them? I think it would be really interesting!
omg your personal therapy talk and recent realizations is so relevant to my life right now! i have actually been realizing the same thing as I get older and go through big changes of life. life is too short and we HAVE to look out for ourselves!!
I have never related more to someone about the fear of texting. You literally explained how I feel about texting, word for word, it was a bit eerie. Especially about the passing of time. How eventually, just not responding because you think you’ve taking too long and feeling lame about it. It was very refreshing to hear that I’m not the only one who thinks this way so thank you! (&I’ve never commented on a video before but I related so much and felt so moved I had to)
I really appreciated your vulnerability in sharing what you've been learning from therapy - the way in which you articulate your emotions + the things you have learned along your journey is incredibly inspiring and beautiful! thank you for sharing xox
I’ve learned that stressing over the people you care about only makes matters worse. There is a reason people are close to you, they care and want the best for you.
that's such a good reminder
It always amazes me how productive you are one day, and I only managed to shower today lol
Thats still a big step!! Hope you accomplish everything you set out to do tomorrow and everyday after! 😊
even small steps take you in the right direction! don't be too hard on urself
Oh what do you know, I was just watching Claudia's old vlog from 3 years ago and the vlog queen herself fed me by posting a new video right now. Talk about timing! Love to Claudia
I love watching her videos so much they give me so much peace and these talking videos help me realise a lot of things .
I'm also a people pleaser and watching this makes me feel like there is someone else like me and can be related to , it just feels good !!!
Claudia sharing her therapy is so mind opening to me like.. I have the same problem and never realized. TELL ME WHAT OTHER UA-camR! Is so genuine and thoughtful and wise in her videos like. She's the most mature and positive one.
wow your discoveries through therapy really resonate with me, that's something i've never been able to put into words, thank you for sharing that!! we love hearing the progress, and breaking the stigma around therapy
so cuteeee, the biking, the books, the outfits, the therapy conversations, peaches, finneas omg!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS
Literally, as I was watching your part about hating texting made me realize something similar. I feel the same way about phone calls they make me super anxious I hate answering the phone but I always thought it was just a part of my social anxiety. But the video I watched before this was about different personality types, mine being INFJ, which made me realize I probably hate phone calls because I can't read a person without seeing them. I can pick up on body langue very easily and interpret their emotion visually rather than hearing them speak. sorry this was long, we love a little midnight spiral :)
It’s scary how much i relate to you fear, of letting people down!! Thank you for sharing your personal journey 🥰
Proving that literally ANYTHING looks good on confidence (and also Claudia) Bc tbh I thought each of those Thred Up items looked hideous individually 😬. But as soon as she put them on… a VIBE
i'm going thru a terrible narcissistic and manipulative break up and i really needed someone else to talk about their therapy like I'm not alone with being vulnerable
5 years of an online relationship
thank you
Peaches is evolving. I mean literally evolving. She sits & sleeps like a human now.
claudia is so precious omg
I related so much to the discussion about texting, hearing it verbalized like that has helped my own introspection!!
I think what I’ve learned thanks to therapy is that every reaction I have is rooted in something else. So if something small like someone keeps talking to me while I’m at my laptop working, I ask myself: “why is this making me so angry?” And I keep asking more about why until I reach the source, like “I feel like when I’m bothered, that person doesn’t care about my work and my time.” And it can go even deeper than that to instances during childhood. Therapy really is such a gift because it helps you understand yourself and your habits so much deeper.
My day is always brighter when you post. thank you for your honesty, sense of comfort and just YOU
It’s so refreshing to hear your point of view, it feels good to have someone that understands. Love you Claudia 💕
Definitely finishing a journal, such self reflection and self discipline to do it. ♥️
“it’s okay to let someone down because you’re deciding to choose yourself” amen !!
Hi Claudia! I’m so happy for your journey! Some of the symptoms that you have described sound similar to hyper vigilance, which some people may develop in their childhood. A lot of people who become hyper vigilance often also feel like they’re responsible for other people’s moods. Some people find it helpful to create a geno-chart about themselves and their family (parents, grandparents, etc.) to try to identify the kind of family dynamics they were exposed to growing up. There are some really great UA-cam channels that describe different family dynamics and traits that may develop from them!
you are literally the person that makes my day better when you post !!
i look forward to her videos so much! i find so much peace in her presence and i love the habits she has helped me start. i feel happy and healthy watching her because i always know something beneficial and lovely will come out of it! ❤️❤️
Claudia, everything you said was SO important to me because i noticed i have the same problem and never thought about the duality of give attention, love vs sacrificing myself for other people when i'm not ok enough to respond or focus on other things. sometimes i just don't have the motivation to respond and then i think it's too late but it's never too late, our minds creates those limits that doesn't really exist just to sabotage our life and our relationships! ps: i'm very proud of you open up with us and very proud of your process of discovering yourself
Ugh YES the pleasing vs giving !!! Such a big difference, super glad you touched on this!
I am 7 months to the party, but this video resonated with me a lot.
Setting aside the wonderfully organised closet (which I mean, GOALS); the part where you talked about giving vs. pleasing could not have come at a better time.
This pandemic and the preparation for the past two years of an exam that will determine the rest of my professional career have drained me a bit. However, despite not being completely well and needing time and energy for myself; I was constantly trying to make sure that the people around me didn’t feel left out by me, or not cared of.
When I was the one feeling left out and needing to be cared for.
So yeah, I was pleasing everyone and it was draining me.
I can’t wait for the exam (cause I don’t know when the pandemic will end) to be over, so I can take the time to get myself together, and focus on myself in order to be able to give without losing.
Thank you for sharing this x
Woah, thanks for opening up about the mental things you're going through. That giving/pleasing blew my mind. I've known I'm a people pleaser, but I had no idea it was that extreme looking back on all the times I didn't say no. Wow. Like damn. Thank you. Very damn much. Much love to you, Finneas and Peaches
goodness claudia, it's like you are in my brain with everything you said about what you've learned in therapy...every single thing i related to, with genuinely connecting to everyone...texting...all of it. CRAZY. this was so helpful!
claudia's videos feel like a mini movie i get so happy seeing a notification that she posted
It's crazy how much Claudia shines her light to so many people being so open about her life. What a time to be alive to be able to hear everything someone across the world has to say. Crazyyyy amazing. Love you, Claudia. Thank you for having the courage to be vulnerable in front of the camera and share everything that helps you grow. ❤️❤️❤️
the closet is a DREAM
My therapist said something really life changing to me once, “It’s not selfish, it’s self-care.” Sounds so simple, but truly changed the way I look at situations where I’m being codependent or trying to people please.
Your just so legit in what u make and it could seem quite hard for some to speak about what your life is like but ur just fine with it and it’s really amazing
whos needs therapy when you have claudia
Claudia is my therapist now! I can't help it, everything she says is so personal, and so real! I look forward to every vlog not only for the fab fashion/decor updates but for the fact that I'm so uplifted and inspired every time I see her! 🥰
I cannot put in words how much I love this woman. She spreads so many good vibes and positivity and I admire how she is so open about topics considering her personal life. Claudia Never fails to brighten up my day and making me smile with her loving character
Those used clothes for 30+ dollars each (who would pay the supposed original price?) and it's made out of towel material 😭 No. That's only a good deal if you're rich and want to feel like you're thrifting.
Lol i love Claudia but i totally agree
What you spoke about in this video proves how much of a thoughtful and self aware person you are. I love people that self reflect and don’t just go through life without looking within themselves and trying to improve as a person. We’re here once why not make a difference where we can whether that’s within ourselves or how we treat others. Loved this Claudia ♥️
gosh, i love your videos, they just have such a vibe
The part where you’re talking about texting and ‘code switching’ I found interesting because I think this is definitely a new age where all this influence (technology) has not been fully researched or analyzed or has yet to even become hindsight (and hindsight is 20/20) so it’s hard to come to these realizations. But we code switch all the time when we speak to someone. We cater to everyone’s sense of humor, fluctuations, and we develop microlanguages with everyone that we have connections with. Or more simply put, ‘insiders’. Same exact thing just in text forms. Life is definitely complicated but don’t go so far to over complicate things for yourself. You can fix things forever and at some point have to think, therapy doesn’t have to be about changing everything but more becoming aware of yourself and the things you do, sometimes being aware is enough.
We love a 21 minute video 💛💛💛
Hi Claudia,
I’ve been watching UA-camrs for years and have grown in and out of various channels but have always stuck with yours. After you opened up about what you learned in therapy, I realized the internal struggles we share and I thank you for sharing them with me, I now feel less alone. I usually never engage online so as I try to construct that perfect message, just wanted to let you know you’ve been an inspiration to me :)
whenever i see the notification she posted on here i get really exited i LIVE for Claudia’s videos fr
Your vlogs always brighten up my day
Am I the only one that realizes Thread up is a scam? It tells you a “retail” price as if the item is new but it’s not- it’s used. I appreciate the idea of reusing clothing and paying reasonable wages to people who sort that clothing. But Thread up feels sketchy.
Sooo overpriced for what it is!!
the retail price is shown just to give you an idea of how much it used to be or might still be if the same thing is still being sold. it's like when people sell their luxury items and tell you how much they bought it for, just so you get an idea of its original price. much of the price going into the platform (I think) is the fact they curate the items and the filtering option because some people would rather pay for the convenience than go through thrift shops.
@@corneliastreets I get that but then influencers say they got this for 97% off. Like it’s brand new in the clearance section. But you actually paid more than at a thrift store.
@@LauraIsOverstimulated get what you mean. i’ve noticed it’s a speaking point they always require from whoever they’re sponsoring, like the company really wants to push that idea of having “major steals”
@Laura Kelley no not always, most of these designer things would be sold in vintage stores for the same price or higher. Also they sell things from H&M or Forever 21 (fast fashion/low quality) for very affordable, normal thrift store prices. You pick which experience you want and you are also paying for everything to be filtered for you
Thank you for sharing a part of your story on dealing with the pressure of people pleasing. It felt like you were talking straight to me, because I deal with the same fear(s). It inspired me to start keeping a journal to so that I can reflect more often but also see growth through the pages. Thank you for sharing a part of your story and making me feel normal about the same feelings I'm feeling! You're such a great role model, I truelly look up to you! Lots of love
21 minutes!!!!!! Yaaaaaa!!! Thaaaank youuuu ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
claudia!!!! your chat at the end has me shook to the bones i kept pressing the rewind ten seconds button being like "okay girl lemme welcome this into myself again" lmao. Time and time again you prove how to show yourself through your platform whether it be your unique editing, your beautiful family, your healthy recipes and especially sharing what you're learning in your healing journey. You're by far my favourite creator and you smuggle so much light and genuine peace into everything you produce. Sending you all my love mama xxx
the wedges are perhaps the most claudia thing i've ever seen. what a find
I found your channel by a lucky coincidence and now it is my little therapy. For one it gets my head out of my Life for a moment but also helps me understand why I am stressed at all at some points. I am very grateful for your Videos and happy for you, that you are finding yourself.
I hope my sentences make sense because I am not the best in English. But I also learn here a lot about it. :D
So just THANK YOU so much for being you
The fact that they bought Julie Andrews' "Homework: a memoir of my Hollywood years" and watched Mary Poppins...LOVE IT!
what you mentioned about consciously unlearning habits that have been ingrained in you since childhood is something i resonate with so muuuuch. please know you made me feel heard today ♥️
i literally squealed when i saw that you posted
Struggling with very similar issues. For me it's also difficult to put myself first, especially when it comes to my family, because of the fear of being too selfish, whereas I am damaging my mental health while being there for others. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Every time Claudia post I get so excited bc her videos are just fun to watch
your house is so gorgeous
ahhh the camera quality is so CRISPPPP. anyways, love your vlogs! such a breath of fresh air
Your talk was very important to me, i really relate to basically everything you said, that fear of people not comprehending me, the things i say or my actions. I have also started therapy this year e have talked about this things so much, as they are such a big part of me without even realizing. Thank you for sharing, it is a great feeling to relate to someone in that kind os aspect. (Im from Brazil, by they way, and have watched your videos for years now, thought it would be cool for you to know you have watchers from here 😁)
Claudia is like a big sister I've never had.. 💘
i love this woman sm and i will protect her at all costs