Why inflammation is common in first born daughters and men who are disconnected from their mothers

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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  4 місяці тому +75

    Good morning team LNN,
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    Thank you for watching

    • @agnesbensouda6171
      @agnesbensouda6171 4 місяці тому

      Lynn hi, how is Vivian mum Sheila

    • @wambuibuuri465
      @wambuibuuri465 4 місяці тому

      Would love to know where their office is in Nakuru

    • @teresiahwachira1099
      @teresiahwachira1099 4 місяці тому +2

      Ask her to try and create a place for kids so that those with kids can leave them there guaranteed they are okey even as they are taking care of themselves to do it safely not having thoughts there and worry about kids when not there

    • @teresiahwachira1099
      @teresiahwachira1099 4 місяці тому +1

      Hapo Kwa disconnect is a little contradiction about fibroids not exact I got them and we used to be good with my mum untill when we disconnect just another day Together with my sister's that one noooo

    • @bea1479
      @bea1479 4 місяці тому

      Very true. I am a victim.

  • @valentinelifestyles
    @valentinelifestyles 4 місяці тому +542

    Firstborn daughters nipee like😊 tukiwatch

    • @Wanjamburu.23
      @Wanjamburu.23 4 місяці тому +29

      WhatsApp group ya Mafirst borns😅🎉

    • @kimaniesther2360
      @kimaniesther2360 4 місяці тому +11

      Am here. Its true we forget ourselves..

    • @elizabethmureithi5051
      @elizabethmureithi5051 4 місяці тому +4

      Ave never understood why am many times have infections.

    • @wazuriiicreations7390
      @wazuriiicreations7390 4 місяці тому +13

      Not easy to be a first born

    • @monicamwangi3122
      @monicamwangi3122 4 місяці тому +2

      Am here not easy at times we fall down our soul at times and full of broken things bt one thing I know we r blessed Dota

  • @Zippy_m
    @Zippy_m 4 місяці тому +99

    Good morning first born daughters🙋‍♀️,they are talking about us today and everything is true
    Thank you Lynn and Carol for this beautiful episode ❤❤❤

  • @sallyengel
    @sallyengel 3 місяці тому +39

    I believe you. I am Christian. I got married, 2 months later we had our first misunderstanding and husband wanted to end the marriage. It was not a major misunderstanding, just some random thing. It broke me so much.
    By the next 2 months his ex girlfriend whom he didn’t tell me about while we were getting prepared to marry gave birth to a baby girl. Because of these responsibilities he couldn’t afford for us to make a baby again.
    So many things started coming to light and the reality of my life came knocking and my whole body changed. I couldn’t recognize myself again. Hospital Deon said I had multiple ovarian cysts.
    That was how the reproductive issues started. It’s been 1 battle to another in my marriage and I end up being blamed for anything that does not go on well. He would twist the story and his family believe him over a very glaring truth
    I didn’t tell my family because I wanted to work things out and divorce was the last thing on my mind. I have taken several medications but no long healing had come. Recently, I started seeking the face of God for direction bc I am tired.
    Fighting, crying every night , bearing the guilt of letting my family down, marrying wrong, and one of my greatest wish to carry my own children taken from me. I’m in the marriage but I carry the pain of seeing another woman live my life and my husband openly disregard me.
    I know it’s time for some change. I started speaking out and everyone was shocked. I’m happy in my heart that I did my best. Whatever happens , let only the will of God prevail.
    You are preaching mama, may healing come to those of us desperately in need of it

  • @damariskoel8611
    @damariskoel8611 4 місяці тому +156

    I am praying for the first born daughters. May you heal from all the burdens you are carrying ❤❤

  • @FMercuryEA
    @FMercuryEA 4 місяці тому +225

    That lady has a point but there is the science behind that. The bottom line is the urea component in the blood of the patients she sees. Inflammation occurs as the effect of urea takes place in the body mainly around the lower back and by extension the lower part of the body. Urea breaks down into uric acid and just like any other acid, acids tend to burn anything it touches including body cells. Body cells inflate or thicken their walls to protect themselves from the acid and this inflammation presses on the nerves that pass along where both huge blood vessels are found the arteries and veins supplying blood to the lower part of the body. It also happens that lower back has a narrow bone structure in the vertebrae which carries the entire weight of the upper body. Inflammation in itself tends to block the blood flow and as the heart keeps on pumping Normally with obstructed blood flow in the lower body it causes high blood pressure Normally measured on the upper arm. This should explain easily why blood pressure is taken from the arm and not legs.
    Carrying social burdens takes a toll in the body by allowing more urea levels in the blood. Urea becomes uric acid which burns or the feeling of pain.
    A good diet of alkaline foods and neutralizing alkaline does the trick.
    When you eat proteins in food, the body breaks them down into amino acids. Ammonia is produced from leftover amino acids, and it must be removed from the body. The liver produces several chemicals (enzymes) that change ammonia into a form called urea, which the body can remove in the urine.
    Should the kidney be unable to remove most of the urea, then it remains in the blood and becomes uric acid later due to bodily activity which includes over thinking ( depression ) and other related.
    A majority of the people will go for quick painkillers sold across the counter in chemists. Interesting most of the painkillers are acidic in nature. Just Google them, from diclofenac, paracetamol etc. This continues to increase the acidity in the body and further suppresses the kidney and finally kidney failure might occur leading to expensive dialysis treatment and or transplants.
    Therefore ;
    People should learn how to count their blessings one by one before they kill themselves with diseases. Even waking in the morning is a blessing. Many don't wake up. Count your blessings one by one. They are too many.

    • @pamelachepkemoi7741
      @pamelachepkemoi7741 4 місяці тому +7

      😮Intreresting!!!This is the exact explanation I have been looking for in a very long time! Now I know!

    • @nancyschmeer124
      @nancyschmeer124 4 місяці тому +6

      Well explained and helpful from the scientific point of view 🙏

    • @annesereta5304
      @annesereta5304 4 місяці тому

      Wow well explained

    • @catherinemaina5265
      @catherinemaina5265 4 місяці тому +7

      You are also saying something of help here
      Thx
      I agree with you
      On a lighter note what are alkaline foods kindly

    • @bena5342
      @bena5342 4 місяці тому +1

      Now i know

  • @milkanyangwara161
    @milkanyangwara161 4 місяці тому +21

    Primary foods we need to consume:
    Joy
    Happiness
    Relationships - selflove, rest and relationship with others
    Perspective towards life
    Home environment - colours, make your home homely for you

  • @LuluZeff-sn6cp
    @LuluZeff-sn6cp 4 місяці тому +96

    Life is spiritual... The fear of God brings healing to the body! Let's us follow the laws and commandments of God to the latter, it brings healing!

  • @beingzeddy
    @beingzeddy 4 місяці тому +77

    Firstborn daughters can we meet somewhere and just cry and hug each other 😊
    It’s been a journey of healing and now i know self love and prioritising myself is not being selfish ❤

    • @ceciliaomuya7636
      @ceciliaomuya7636 4 місяці тому +3

      Yes.
      I'm in

    • @irenemugo9844
      @irenemugo9844 4 місяці тому +3

      Please send the location

    • @wangarindungu4112
      @wangarindungu4112 4 місяці тому +2

      Please pin that location honey juu wueeh ....we've seen it all !

    • @JJ-fe3gc
      @JJ-fe3gc 4 місяці тому +2

      Yes I am in😭😭😭😭

    • @JJ-fe3gc
      @JJ-fe3gc 3 місяці тому +2

      How can we meet please

  • @elizabethfrazer111
    @elizabethfrazer111 3 місяці тому +3

    James Kawalya also talks on this. He teaches on soul searching and confessions for healing and deliverance. Thank you so much Carol and Lynn. I fest saw Lynn when she was interviewing Erica. ... This is opening up the pandora box of our deep issues and problems and subsequent healing and deliverance.... Thank you all and GOD bless 🙏

  • @AtienoWaMashamba
    @AtienoWaMashamba 4 місяці тому +5

    If this episode was food, I would eat seconds and thirds! It was nourishing to me. She taught, revealed, and emphasized what I knew. Good one!

  • @favored4life
    @favored4life 3 місяці тому +6

    Yes o, First born daughters are tired. I started peri menopause in my 30s. Let's do it, I'll take the USA branch. I'm seeing the same thing in my 17 year old first born daughter. We MUST break this and set boundaries.

  • @Elna07-L
    @Elna07-L 3 місяці тому +2

    Is it wierd that I immediately started feeling better after listening to this? 😮
    Mine has been a crippling fear ever since I can remember, also suppressing my truest feelings coz I don't want to be the weak one... I've just felt so enlightened the heaviness and pain in my throat disappeared.
    I'm praying that I help my body heal permanently and get out of this vicious circle.
    Thanks Lynn and Caro! ❣

  • @marionhope8960
    @marionhope8960 4 місяці тому +36

    Watching as a firstborn daughter. It's not easy😢. We are loners.

  • @Muslimah18
    @Muslimah18 4 місяці тому +19

    I totally agree with the 1st born daughters in Africa. My own Sister has arthritis because she has sacrificed her happiness and given son much to our family😢 American researcher Dr Gabor Mate also did research and confirmed the link between inflammatory diseases and Stress. Thank you for an amazing episode Lynn👏

  • @trionzreaper
    @trionzreaper 4 місяці тому +37

    This has made me cry 😢
    I have lived a life of giving giving and thought things have to go my way. All the same, I have already began the journey of healing and learnt to say No without feeling guilty

    • @damariszuckschwert9489
      @damariszuckschwert9489 4 місяці тому +1

      Same here. Always giving and giving..,never received anything from anyone 😢😢

    • @sisterslove1651
      @sisterslove1651 4 місяці тому

      It's me here when will I stop giving coz it's just me

    • @lizo7898
      @lizo7898 3 місяці тому

      You don't stop, you know you have sufficient grace to continue. Keep up the good job,I am a middle child , I should have been named Giving,

  • @bicotychebet1487
    @bicotychebet1487 4 місяці тому +13

    Holding on clothes that I dont even wear them.Thats so me,a reflection part of it is that i hold grudges and when I forgive i might bring the same issue I had forgiven long time back.I now know where the root cause is,I am gonna declutter!Thanks for this informative episode💕

  • @Maame4051
    @Maame4051 4 місяці тому +19

    Realized for many women self care starts when they hits their 40’s. I disconnected myself from all negativity and healed myself , I’m so thankful to God.

    • @terrymwenda
      @terrymwenda 4 місяці тому +1

      Teach me how you did it...
      I want to heal completely

    • @eunicemusyoki7653
      @eunicemusyoki7653 4 місяці тому +2

      True,I began loving myself when I hit 40,I even got married in the right way after my first marriage failed and loving what am doing to myself as a first born daughter.Wueh!God's grace is sufficient.

    • @ANTOINETTEASEM
      @ANTOINETTEASEM 3 місяці тому

      Please how did you heal yourself.

  • @rosemariesteele-pm3tx
    @rosemariesteele-pm3tx 3 місяці тому +5

    Wow!!!! phenomenal. am speechles. I have learnt so much about myself just by listening and watching. I will go over this time and time again to remind myself of what I have been taught.
    Every blessings 🙏. Rosemarie

  • @ketlhapiledibeela4059
    @ketlhapiledibeela4059 4 місяці тому +40

    First born daughters were are suffering, that is the truth. Following from 🇧🇼

    • @homeoffavours
      @homeoffavours 4 місяці тому +6

      True, i give out everything, nobody cares about me

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc 4 місяці тому +2

      But lets not let the suffering stop us from living our life 💯 and being happy humans, lets learn to change the narrative for our own good and the good of our children

    • @Hot_PlateMeals
      @Hot_PlateMeals 4 місяці тому +5

      The sooner I realised that.....prayer and Word of God to heal kabisa....

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Hot_PlateMeals bravo 👏 🙌 spot on 👌

    • @Terriegamma
      @Terriegamma 4 місяці тому +1

      HApo kwa firstborn daughters it's true we are really suffering

  • @whitneymuthuri1621
    @whitneymuthuri1621 4 місяці тому +11

    Inflammation is deeply connected to your emotions

  • @marywanjohi9494
    @marywanjohi9494 4 місяці тому +3

    Who speaks such kind of truth and I can relate?🥵🥵🥵.Thankyou Carol .May we heal in Jesus name!

  • @faithakinyi6015
    @faithakinyi6015 4 місяці тому +15

    Lynn i love ur guest,shes speaking the truth as a first bornlet me tell u weeuh!.May God help us (we the firstborns).

  • @wanjikumuthoni8319
    @wanjikumuthoni8319 4 місяці тому +6

    I really enjoy listening to Carol. Thankyou Lynn for making her frequent guest.

  • @queenwere1
    @queenwere1 4 місяці тому +21

    Your psychological state determines your physical health. I almost died of kidney failure because I was always angry 😡. I agree with you sister.

    • @businkala2554
      @businkala2554 4 місяці тому

      Oh man sending comfort your way

  • @KellyStHill
    @KellyStHill 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. You really offered me a new perspective on some things I am dealing with. I certainly pray that the God will release His power to help all of the hearers in need of healing and restoration to be fully restored back to spiritual, mental, emotional and physical health and well being in Jesus name. Amen.

  • @irene_mwinzi
    @irene_mwinzi 4 місяці тому +8

    This channel deserves 1M subscribers please 🙏

  • @gillianmwaura7294
    @gillianmwaura7294 4 місяці тому +1

    Asante Lynn...very insightful.... Coming to that place of healing can only be enabled by the Holy Spirit. So that the healing is towards becoming like our creator.

  • @Lucymotindo
    @Lucymotindo 4 місяці тому +64

    That explains why people in abusive/narcissistic relationships have very many health problems but once they are out of those relationships, their body start healing.😮

  • @patienceigbojianya7695
    @patienceigbojianya7695 4 місяці тому +3

    I am watching from Nigeria. Thank you Lyn for bringing my lovely health coach, Caro. I love you and what you do. I wish I have the where with all I would have loved to come to Kenya and meet you face to face. I have started eating some of the things I was not eating until you said so. Thank you for your love for mankind.

  • @irenegachie1139
    @irenegachie1139 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks team Lynn. Carol no words enough that can express how much you are helping the community. I ready student in the waiting

  • @israeloluwadarasimi2689
    @israeloluwadarasimi2689 3 місяці тому +2

    This is superb Carol and Lynn. So educative and I'm blessed by it. God Bless you all in Jesus Name

  • @ambranmohamed7562
    @ambranmohamed7562 14 днів тому

    Hi Lynn, thank you so much for bringing Carol to the show. She is an angel, and God sent her to educate us and the world.

  • @mikiwapi
    @mikiwapi 4 місяці тому +4

    My jaw is floored am a first born and in turmoil. Lynn take the call we will show up.Carol you are God sent.

  • @fabioladominic1341
    @fabioladominic1341 3 місяці тому +1

    I personally need to meet this gal,got a multitude of health issues and i'm a firstborn😊raised by parents who are also firstborns..wueh.

  • @evalinekibuchi306
    @evalinekibuchi306 4 місяці тому +37

    Firstborn conference is an emergency!

  • @CherylWilliams-op5jg
    @CherylWilliams-op5jg 4 місяці тому +4

    Watching from Jamaica in the Caribbean 🇯🇲🇯🇲 very interesting information.

  • @peshlucy987
    @peshlucy987 4 місяці тому +13

    That part of firstborn daughters it's me 💯 I feel like I must help everyone even when I've not been requested to help if I don't help or am not in that capacity I feel guilty..I love things going as planned when it's doesn't happen am disappointed plus I love perfection like I alot I can write a whole book ..Lynn I need that panel when you'll bring a conversation about firstborn daughters

    • @Sheila-vs1
      @Sheila-vs1 4 місяці тому

      You are my twin oooh,God I need to break from this

    • @peshlucy987
      @peshlucy987 4 місяці тому

      @@Sheila-vs1 me too

  • @andyankrah5153
    @andyankrah5153 3 місяці тому

    My dear African sister,
    Thanks so much for your life energizing programs.
    This is one the best I have ever come across.

  • @barbarakafuta5852
    @barbarakafuta5852 Місяць тому +1

    Am enjoying what I'm listening too , so powerful my names are Barbara mwape kafuta from Zambia

  • @misganawoldu5121
    @misganawoldu5121 3 місяці тому +1

    The first speech you've given really controls me 💕🙏🏻

  • @queennellykendi8128
    @queennellykendi8128 4 місяці тому +14

    Being a first born is not easy at all I had to download this video to watch over again coz yesterday a certain doctor was talking about forgiveness and your connection with your father, thanks Carol for the conversation

    • @AudreyAshi-qn5uz
      @AudreyAshi-qn5uz 4 місяці тому +1

      Which doctor please and in which channel?

    • @nurugizani3075
      @nurugizani3075 Місяць тому

      I think I haven't forgiven my father for some stuff by being so patriarchal

  • @helenuluh624
    @helenuluh624 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much. You don't know how much your program has helped me. I just discovered your program yesterday night while l was asking God what to do to get free from all the griefs. Just lose my beloved sister 2 months ago. Thank you Ms Caro the healing coach.

  • @carolinechepngeno1975
    @carolinechepngeno1975 4 місяці тому +11

    She is 100+1 true!!! Most sicknesses come from unforgiveness,

    • @queenwere1
      @queenwere1 4 місяці тому +1

      And anger

    • @pauline2604
      @pauline2604 4 місяці тому +5

      Bitterness,anger, resentments, etc they carry a good number of current chronic diseases

    • @carollynne5943
      @carollynne5943 4 місяці тому

      Stress hogs up nutrients causing inflammation.. Research on suppliments especially,Vit C,E,Mg,Zn...Low quality will make you sicker.

    • @queenwere1
      @queenwere1 4 місяці тому

      @@pauline2604 I learnt the hard way. So ladies.......heal

    • @elizabethfrazer111
      @elizabethfrazer111 3 місяці тому

      So true 🙏

  • @knowinganddoingbetter4562
    @knowinganddoingbetter4562 4 місяці тому +6

    Awesome. True. Man here disconnected from Mum since I was 4 years. Now 34years old.

  • @maryirene2880
    @maryirene2880 4 місяці тому +2

    Joy, happiness, relationships and environment the 4 foods we should all eat...💯

  • @berylakinyi3744
    @berylakinyi3744 4 місяці тому +6

    She is speaking the truth...i love the conversation..very very helpful. We can heal many sicknesses /issues by first begining to cleanse ourselves, forgiving and speaking out what ails us...

  • @sharonlucas9312
    @sharonlucas9312 4 місяці тому +3

    1st born daughter here. I totally feel what she's talking about. It's like she's talking about my story 😮
    Thank you ❤

  • @fridahkinoti18
    @fridahkinoti18 4 місяці тому +34

    One day i will bring my parents here, they have been taking care for my autistic niece for the past 13 year. So help me God.

  • @TshwaroBagopi
    @TshwaroBagopi 4 місяці тому +7

    Thank you to Maridady Motors and Kings Developers Ltd sponsoring the Lynn Ngugi show.
    May God continue to bless you for the great job you do for this show and for the people of Kenya❤

  • @kavitha1ravindra
    @kavitha1ravindra 3 місяці тому +1

    I love your podcasts. Going through harmonal imbalance myself, knowing everything because I work as a Past Life Regression therapist, I could relate to what you are saying. Family comes first but due to that we ladies prefer to suffer to take care of others and forget to take care of ourselves Wow!! Lots of love from India!

  • @SusanWambui-zu5mp
    @SusanWambui-zu5mp 4 місяці тому +18

    I now understand, being a firstborn mom got sick after I finished my form four,I was there every moment with words I mean encouraging words,I remember once she was undergoing an operation she stayed in the theatre for 8 hours I did know that the doctors had an emergency to first attend to ,I stayed in the ward alone waiting for her and I kept looking at the people who were being carried back from the theatre either dead or alive,I was lucky to see those brought back alive,but the others were always covered and it was from afar,I was feeling a lot from inside and couldn't tell anyone,i was always there making sure mom stays positive but what about me i was also scared, mom healed from cancer, I'm understanding the whole scenerio later where and how did I get that strength even in her worse moments,I used to cry alone,mom would ask me ntapona kweli i would say bodly yes mom God is able,to every firstborn reading this you're amazing❤, thanks Lynn and carol for making us understand life in a better way❤

  • @MwangiZipporah
    @MwangiZipporah 4 місяці тому +7

    I really love this two ladies, May the almight God continue to bless you Abundantly.❤

  • @catherine29472
    @catherine29472 4 місяці тому +7

    Alot of learning here, things will be better we can't remain the same

  • @elizabethbeliah3167
    @elizabethbeliah3167 4 місяці тому +2

    Carole, you are so right, when I don’t address the situation. It really makes you feel sick 😷.
    The Bible says, confess your sins one to a another.
    I wish I could come and see you. But I am in the USA

  • @victorioussisters3307
    @victorioussisters3307 4 місяці тому +4

    @LynnNgugi you’ve really sold Kenya to me, your channel popped up on my timeline during lockdown in 2020 and I’ve followed you since then. I’m definitely coming to buy a house in Kenya.

  • @gspia
    @gspia Місяць тому

    Lynn and Carol THANK YOU for this conversation!!
    I am a Caribbean woman and the first born daughter dilemma is real across the Atlantic Ocean. I am first born daughter, granddaughter and as far as I can count, the first female in 5 generations on my maternal lineage to be married.
    This conversation has blown up some perspectives I have been holding onto that does not serve me. Thank you for this conversation.

  • @IreneKimeu-yi5bc
    @IreneKimeu-yi5bc 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you Lynn for this it is helpful. As a first-born daughter i can relate.

  • @MoramadiKamogelo
    @MoramadiKamogelo 3 місяці тому +1

    This conversation is too deep and amazing ❤❤....much love😊 from South Africa

  • @Jenesm
    @Jenesm 4 місяці тому +2

    I always like carol's speeches, i am herevto give a testimony..
    I remember her explaining how sugar contributes to painful periods...men,,,i went shared with my Domestic manager who had to vomit and very overwhelming pain a whole 1st day of her menses...
    I am so happy for the last 3 months no pain at all after she stopped using sugar
    God bless you carol and lynn❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @barbaraamankwaopam
    @barbaraamankwaopam 29 днів тому

    I'm listening to you and I'm in tears. Reckoning all the bottled up feelings and how it's impacted my life......being a first born daughter is hard.

  • @samanthawanjiru8330
    @samanthawanjiru8330 4 місяці тому +3

    Ooh my this is me ooh
    A perfectionist.......
    God bless first born dotaz

  • @starrleo12
    @starrleo12 4 місяці тому +1

    I think this applies to men also!Thank you for all this information

  • @homeoffavours
    @homeoffavours 4 місяці тому +23

    Firstborn daughters kindly lets camp here, can we have a group to try give ourselves the best, am ready

  • @PVTNS
    @PVTNS 4 місяці тому +21

    My gaenacologist once told me that fibroids are most common in black people but he didn’t know why. Now I understand. Thank you for this episode.

    • @anneolieba4585
      @anneolieba4585 4 місяці тому

      Those changes and contraceptives are outdated in the first world but are used in Africa

  • @natashaslack1284
    @natashaslack1284 3 місяці тому +1

    Joy comes from the Lord sis !! Read also the Bible inflammation is can also be a generational curse

  • @domtillahkegehi9022
    @domtillahkegehi9022 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi team LNN, really waiting for team firstborn meeting.I have been a victim of pleasing others and not myself and will be glad for this.

  • @graceg1706
    @graceg1706 4 місяці тому +1

    Self-love!! We as first born we need to love ourselves. I'm the first born and a single mother of one too. I have been in gulf for over 10yrs and I'm having nothing. Whatever I start it stops in the middle only because I have to take care of my siblings. God! Remember us😢.
    NB. Carol if you can answer this just tell my why do I eat raw rice, what I'm I lacking in my body? Have tried to take all the vitamins but I find myself craving for it and I must eat it like everyday.

  • @bettysolomon910
    @bettysolomon910 3 місяці тому +1

    Ooooooooh woman of God you are the Oprah Winfrey of Africa you have told my story

  • @edinahmokaya8347
    @edinahmokaya8347 4 місяці тому +1

    Today I agree 100% on Carol. Carol thank you so much for waking me up, the burden I have carried for over 20 yrs helping my family and relatives and put me to chronic inflammation, taken all kind of pain medication, physical therapy with no relief, now I know the reason from what you have talked. Thank you.

  • @nyamburagitts6133
    @nyamburagitts6133 4 місяці тому +23

    I have heard.."There is a room where one can come and scream"I am happy to hear its normal...At times I feel like screaming by myself... One day...I will visit this place

    • @ciruAgneskamande9011
      @ciruAgneskamande9011 4 місяці тому

      😂

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc 4 місяці тому +3

      Aaah lakini wewe mbona watuchekesha 😂😂😂😂 uende uka scream.....ensure to tag me along lol

    • @nyamburagitts6133
      @nyamburagitts6133 4 місяці тому +1

      @@gww-px8vc I will,I am glad to know its normal and there is a room for that..

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc 4 місяці тому +3

      @nyamburagitts6133 sure lol kuna mara kathaa nime experience hivo nikashindwa kwani nachizi ama👀😆kumbe ni normal

    • @karimimiriti3827
      @karimimiriti3827 4 місяці тому +3

      Aki g and scream 😱
      Feeling like tagging my younger sister
      She always say sis am feeling like screaming

  • @annegitau9159
    @annegitau9159 4 місяці тому +10

    I will visit Carol next year in June because clearly I need help. Nimebeba waarabu kwa moyo I bloat almost daily . Can't wait to finish my contract and come back home.

    • @tinahwamae9868
      @tinahwamae9868 4 місяці тому

      Uko which country huku kwa waarabu?

    • @NileGoddess
      @NileGoddess 4 місяці тому

      The food GMO is not good .Try vegetarian and organic

    • @annegitau9159
      @annegitau9159 4 місяці тому

      ​@@tinahwamae9868Ajman UAE

    • @KezzyMbugua
      @KezzyMbugua 4 місяці тому

      True💯I can testify

  • @maryatieno8813
    @maryatieno8813 4 місяці тому +3

    Tata and sister Lynne Even the children were left by their mother when they were young and it is hard bcs you can't share to anyone, the problem and facing right now,may God come through us 🙏

  • @sandraoromo669
    @sandraoromo669 19 днів тому

    Thank you , this has changed my mindset with how I do motherhood for gen Alpha. Thank you kabisa

  • @puritymuriungi875
    @puritymuriungi875 8 днів тому

    God bless you Carol. We will heal and fulfill God's purpose in our lives.

  • @annritakangai2812
    @annritakangai2812 4 місяці тому +68

    I pray I got healing from my ex who didn't show up when I was in the maternity alone after my operation as a first time mom, Only to come later with a soda of two liter only to see his daughter after three weeks The man sends money only end month and blocked me everywhere, My daughter is four months and half now and am 21 years turning 22 now. Doing a Diploma in mechanical engineering. God bring a way for open communication for the sake of my daughter to experience father's love.

    • @JuvinalisMuthama
      @JuvinalisMuthama 4 місяці тому +6

      Hi dear may God do it for you,, my sister went through the same

    • @annritakangai2812
      @annritakangai2812 4 місяці тому +2

      ❤🙏

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc 4 місяці тому +6

      True God always makes ways wea thea seems to be no ways, however don't pressure yourself into thinking the whys of why he is not present in the child life ju uki ji pressure utafikiria sana and you wunt be able to focus on a beautiful upbringing of mtoi, wachia tu God

    • @TabithaRiri-c4b
      @TabithaRiri-c4b 4 місяці тому +13

      Went to labour @27 weeks stayed in NICU for 90 days.Who is God oohh! 8 yrs of highly blessed & Favoured.

    • @NileGoddess
      @NileGoddess 4 місяці тому +4

      May God bless you and appreciate the little you get some never got to see their fathers and they did not even send a dollar to their children.Just appreciate and move on ,better yourself for your child

  • @asnathwangari2254
    @asnathwangari2254 Місяць тому

    As a first born i totally relate all this.. But it's good to learn all this. It's giving us a platform to commence healing...
    Dear first born daughter's,
    I wish you healing. Let's act... Good health is our portion in Jesus Name.... We shall conquer!

  • @sarahngethe3327
    @sarahngethe3327 3 місяці тому

    Watching this as a firstborn daughter, thank you Carol and Lynn Ngugi for this beautiful episode.

  • @ChristopherNgigi
    @ChristopherNgigi 4 місяці тому +3

    That setting is on another level the colours are wow. I like it 👌

  • @stellah28
    @stellah28 2 місяці тому

    I have only watched a dot of the story and I am here crying, God has really worked on me , heee Ezekiel 36:26 i will give you a new heart and a new mind I am that person...... peace like a river

  • @byamukamaoliver966
    @byamukamaoliver966 4 місяці тому

    This lady is a genius....yes I hv gut issues n I cry for days each time I say ...I hv said no only twice in my life

  • @GiftyGordon
    @GiftyGordon 3 місяці тому

    Remain blessed, girls. This is my second time watching you all in a day. I can go on listening all day

  • @faithesprit81
    @faithesprit81 4 місяці тому +1

    Appreciate you and your transformation of healing and sharing it with the people of Africa who are in need of connecting with who they are and why they are 🙏🏽💛✨💫

  • @nontsivala5726
    @nontsivala5726 4 місяці тому +3

    Loving the conversation from South Africa ❤

  • @dorcasmaina2363
    @dorcasmaina2363 2 місяці тому

    Speak....lady. Care giving requires a special grace from God. A lonely path.

  • @marynyambura1359
    @marynyambura1359 8 днів тому

    Have listened to you for the 1st time, thank you I've known much need to work on myself but will look for your centre

  • @Onedearminor
    @Onedearminor 4 місяці тому +1

    From what I've learnt "it always starts within" thank you for bringing tata here🎉🎉

  • @moxielyn
    @moxielyn 4 місяці тому +4

    In deed God kindly ease our burdens, I'm a first born daughter desling with parents broken marriage, i have to be a good role model for my siblings, take care of their financial needs including paying my sister's fees, act as a friend mother to my hubby and wife at the same time. It a lot..

  • @eunicewambuindungu970
    @eunicewambuindungu970 3 місяці тому +2

    This is so true first born daughter's we need to meet to cry and hug them celebrate each other.

  • @starrleo12
    @starrleo12 4 місяці тому +2

    Your definitely a blessing to us for this information!

  • @susanm3103
    @susanm3103 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow powerful!!! Good to learn so much from you Carol thanks for educating us

  • @macksministry3587
    @macksministry3587 2 місяці тому

    Finally a African talk show I can respect other than my church social Christain media.

  • @SusanWambui-zu5mp
    @SusanWambui-zu5mp 4 місяці тому

    I now understand, being a firstborn finished form four mom got sick 2022, i was always there she was worried more than I or maybe I was good at hiding it, waiting for her from theatre For 8 hours alone and I will all that has never been felt from inside and I wouldn't show anyone,and throughout looking at situation Which was getting worse she will ask me ntapona I would answer bodly yes mom with a lot of encouraging words that will make her better but what about me,for real I wasn't okay I was crying alone nobody was aware of everything I now understand I wonder where I got such strength how I was able to act up in all that I made sure mamaa is positive and really using a lot from spiritually,And yes mom got healed from cancer God had mercy upon her❤ . Firstborn daughters if you're reading this remember that you're amazing 😊. thanks Lynn and carol for making life more understable

  • @IvoryRajkumari
    @IvoryRajkumari Місяць тому

    Honestly I got very ill last week. Hospital said it was my IBS then I listened to this. I could scream. Why do we 1st born daughters suffer so? This was so eye opening. I need a series, youtube channel and the conference. Everyone must know!!!!

  • @charmainek3128
    @charmainek3128 3 місяці тому

    You Are Talking About Robin Williams The Comedian . He Is Making Everyone Laugh In Heaven 😊❤🙏🏽

  • @carolinechepngeno1975
    @carolinechepngeno1975 4 місяці тому +3

    Thus is more spiritual lynn!! Life indeed is spiritual

  • @leahnjunguna3211
    @leahnjunguna3211 3 місяці тому

    Am so much inspired looking forward for the first born daughter meeting. Sure its long overdue.

  • @janetmukuna7721
    @janetmukuna7721 29 днів тому

    This conversation is very healthy I believe we need more of this

  • @sherinehill9586
    @sherinehill9586 4 місяці тому

    Thank GOD for Earthly Angels like both of u with holistic medicine and spiritual truth..blessings Carol and Lynn.❤

  • @judyadoyo8098
    @judyadoyo8098 3 місяці тому

    Very Insightful for me, as a first born 👌 May God Help me to write a letter to my child hood , adolescent self and young adult 🙏