My Prelims experience in 5th ATTEMPT | Standing at RED BORDER LINE 🛑

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • Hello everyone, first of all SORRY for my poor communication in thus video with you all. I'm emotionally not well these days. Life is loosing a lot of things. Its not only about exam or attempts.
    I need your support and trust me I'm there for you all.
    Please please please, stay strong. Life is going to test you a lot now or later in various circumstances. Loose everything, but not yourself. Love from me. Stay happy and strong.
    My mail ID - zaaravlogs.com@gmail.com
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  • @priyasangwan1538
    @priyasangwan1538 3 місяці тому +17

    Putting forth this video and sharing the most vulnerable part of life requires great courage . And this reflects your attitude towards life , which is full of courage and honesty and I believe this is the only important thing in life. The world might feel like shattering right now … and you are in pain …let it be…but believe me this shall too pass and we have many examples around us who have lived rather beautiful lives despite not getting the position they thought was once important to them . There are multiple ways to a beautiful and happy life. After giving ur all to this you will rise brighter ... And thank you so much for bringing forth your perspective and your experience. This is invaluable to us. Thank you. Love love.

  • @amitozsingh8754
    @amitozsingh8754 3 місяці тому +11

    This happens and its ok behan … im in my 6th attempt gave first 3 just like that… and now in 3rd serious attempt . That feeling of happiness after paper was not with me … i was super sad that i attempted very less number of questions but after 10 days now i feel in exam hall i performed well even with attempting 72 questions im happy …. The time aur patience jo lag jaati hai success ki wait karte karte that is very difficult to endure …. Hold on to this …this time too will pass …… wish you best

  • @myupscodyssey
    @myupscodyssey 3 місяці тому +27

    Can feel you... because last year me too exhausted my UPSC attempts. I know it's tough...but all I can say is...Trust God's plan for you🌻
    Take Care and yes More Power to you Warrior🦋

  • @chandra3293
    @chandra3293 3 місяці тому +32

    It's not your fault,....paper hi one day exam jaisa tha...upsc itna factual paper deta ni hai...... maine khud last year mains likha tha... but iss bar bas 80 to 82 hi aa rahe.....same type mistakes like you are talking......factual exam main ye sab. Hota hai.......next year mera bhi last attempt hai..... don't depend on UPSC by 100%....you can see state psc as well.... I'm also going to write UPPCS this year.....chill kro....itna tension mat lo

    • @onasunnyday366
      @onasunnyday366 2 місяці тому +1

      Saare state wale itni lucky nhi hote h

  • @NarutoUzumaki-ju4ko
    @NarutoUzumaki-ju4ko 3 місяці тому +8

    It was my third attempt this year , I am clearing pre and last year too I cleared. You are elder then me and I know my experience is too less but one thing that helped me most in both attempt was having good discussion with friends , like this year was able to recall so many questions just because of my friends .

  • @abhijit6322
    @abhijit6322 3 місяці тому +10

    Generally mein kisi video par comment nhi korta lekin apke courage dekh kor dang rahe geya ... definitely u will do great in future btw love from assam didi 💚 aap bas hausla mat hariye hum sab apke saath hai 👍

  • @RiteshPanchal-e5f
    @RiteshPanchal-e5f 3 місяці тому +12

    Its my last attempt but in gs i get 106 to 108 but in csat only 72 to 69.20 according to different answer key.
    Pls make yourself strong n hope for good result in 2025..

  • @annesebastian6218
    @annesebastian6218 3 місяці тому +2

    We all love you. You will surely crack it this time. God's blessing with you. I have been following your journey since the beginning. I really wait for your inspiring talks and speeches. Well done for never giving up and constantly working hard.

  • @beihrochuhralo2162
    @beihrochuhralo2162 3 місяці тому +7

    Hey girl if u see my comment just remember that u are not alone, there are thousands and thousands of aspirant who gave gone through the same situation or may be worse than u!! Sometimes its really difficult to move ahead after giving 100% and still not enough! Its the real grind tho! I have given 2nd attempt I couldn't clear csat again like last year! Failing csat for 2 times in arow is really frustrating but ready to move on hope u get through next attempt wish u all the best!🤞

  • @madhabghosh7018
    @madhabghosh7018 2 місяці тому

    Taking care of one’s mental health is crucial. Seeking professional help, such as visiting a psychiatrist, can provide support during stressful times.
    Staying connected with family members and sharing your feelings can be comforting. Emotional support from loved ones can make a significant difference.
    You rightly emphasize the importance of financial stability. Having a job can alleviate financial stress and allow you to focus on your studies.
    The “20%” rule suggests that consistent effort (around 5 to 6 hours daily) is sufficient for success. Balancing study time with breaks is essential.
    Acknowledging your current abilities without overly high expectations is wise. It’s essential to be realistic about your strengths and weaknesses.
    Remember that competitive exams have a high failure rate. Only a few candidates succeed, so persistence and resilience are key.
    Smart work Rather than relying solely on extensive knowledge, strategic and efficient study methods (like your 360 short notes) can lead to success.

  • @CricketPandit07
    @CricketPandit07 2 місяці тому +1

    Never give up.
    Ur life is more important than result.

  • @arpanmangla6908
    @arpanmangla6908 3 місяці тому +3

    Save ur last attempt for later in future and focus on something that u have already done in past for finances. Sid by side prepare notes for UPSC that can be used when required

  • @albatross5907
    @albatross5907 3 місяці тому +10

    I think you are burned out. Take a break and get back. Indulge in some calming activities, something that you haven't done before, painting, sketching, singing, anything to be honest. If you're in Delhi, visit the India gate at night, or lodhi gardens, sunder nursery, hazrat nizamuddin or even Bangla sahib. This might sound irrelevant right now but trust me these things helps. Try it you might feel better and then start studying for mains, irrespective of the result.

    • @Kite_Runner73
      @Kite_Runner73 3 місяці тому +1

      People often undermine the impact these activities can have on our happiness quotient.

    • @albatross5907
      @albatross5907 3 місяці тому

      @@Kite_Runner73 True. Even I do it all the time despite knowing how important these things are.

    • @Kite_Runner73
      @Kite_Runner73 3 місяці тому

      @@albatross5907 yes man, my constants are spiritual songs be it in dialects even, gardening, Yoga, diary entry, eating healthy diet by connecting its benefits to my skin health,cooking yes ranting in front of my parents and close frnds(on calls) whatever bothers me. Soon i will again shift to delhi but these will remain my pre requisite.

  • @Kamleshkumar-kx4wz
    @Kamleshkumar-kx4wz 3 місяці тому +3

    es bar mera first attamt tha, maine last 4 year se prepration kr rha hu ,,maine basic ko kam se kam 10 bar revise kiya hoga.
    but exam hall me polity option me confusion ho gya,,map vale q pr mujhe bhi doubt hua tha..
    it's not only your situation but also many of students..

  • @milindchatse
    @milindchatse 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes mam, time will have all answers, we know u did all efforts, same here doubting myself, but appreciate your efforts, all the best dont be disheartened.

  • @iamlove4122
    @iamlove4122 2 місяці тому

    May God bless you may hanum ji give you healing nd strength

  • @mukeshsingh-fd7zu
    @mukeshsingh-fd7zu 3 місяці тому +1

    Keep faith in yourself one day you will shine just keep going

  • @DimwittedEinstein
    @DimwittedEinstein 3 місяці тому +1

    Firstly, It really takes guts to come out in front of a camera and share your emotional turmoil. Hats off. Secondly, thousands of aspirants do share this frustration. You consoled them that they are not alone. Thirdly, it’s just an exam. Don’t let it determine your worth. Scoring over 75 proves that you are capable and talented. Take a brief pause, reflect, without thinking of these attempts, on what you want to do next. Believe me, you won’t be wrong😊

  • @Routinediary
    @Routinediary 3 місяці тому

    ufff why i am crying situation kesa bhi ho hame khade hokr ldna chaiye yw apn shikha diya same here ma"am I am also feel very low but suddenly youtube suggest me your channel and i think for me a it is god gift

  • @Bharatiya20249
    @Bharatiya20249 3 місяці тому +1

    You are not alone, I have also done so many such silly mistakes..
    01. I work in Indian Navy, Qualified for CDS earlier.. It was PYQ in CDS, still I read Commander as Commoder and marked that question wrong...
    02. I marked 21 June wala question wrong, just because my rashi is Capricorn, So, I marked tropic of Capricorn along with Arctic Circle instead of Tropic of cancer...
    In addition to this, there have been so many such silly mistakes done by me in the exam (In both papers CSAT + GS)

  • @sdj9919
    @sdj9919 3 місяці тому +7

    Listen. It happens. Have failed 5 attempts and the last one I missed by .33 marks. Getting 91.33 to 99.33 from various coachings and still not sure whether I will make it or not. Anyways. Have qualified TAS this year so little relaxed. Just keep going. Trust me it works. U need to see the worst to get the best. That's how life is.

  • @MS-fl6ez
    @MS-fl6ez 3 місяці тому +1

    Don't worry ma'am....everything will be fine❤

  • @Arryon-
    @Arryon- 3 місяці тому +2

    All the best of luck!! ❤ 🤞

  • @dragonicpreacher21
    @dragonicpreacher21 2 місяці тому

    I understand you, u may believe or not. It's difficult and lot of pressure, in ton, last attempt itna mhenat self confidence is shreded. Family loved one unka health.
    Fir paper mey performance....
    Just don't stop feeling accept and go through. Analyze failure, agar lgay then next prep other wise it's okay kuch aur sahi.
    You will never disappoint anyone, self guilt lena is toxic so it's okay yar... It's not easy to say all this,... It's not I'm going through the same... Attempts age on peak.. Always did well in life... Achieved a lot. I also have no one to turn too.. Friends turned sankes, family disappointed... But theek bhaad mey jaye har cheez.... Chill... Itney sal prep hey... So try to see kaha galat ho raha.. Forget coaching mentor... Answer key just khud say shundo become self mentor kaha galat ho raha... Bass... Yahi. I can't acess your situation because can't comment personaly but failure leads to depressed frustration.. . But there is no failure... It's a society made concept of winning.
    Improvement is the key.
    Civil servant.. Or entrepreneurs or anyone for even actors or politicians... Self. ade are successful because then again self improvement.. So... Yahi hey.

  • @subhranshusekhar7850
    @subhranshusekhar7850 3 місяці тому +5

    Are isme criticise kyu kar raheho khud ko... bhagban pata nehi kya chahate he...maine hamesha aapka example saab ko batata hu...u will excel...

  • @fizaunnissa653
    @fizaunnissa653 2 місяці тому

    Mainy kabhi upsc ka attempt nhi diya hai , ...sirf 1 year padha tha ,phir bimar hogyi thi.....apki story sun kr Rona sa agiya ......lkn dear sis , sirf upsc hi sab khuch nhi hai ,,,,,you have potential to do anything in your life ,,,,why only this one exam ....😖....... seriously I just hate upsc exam , ye totally luck pe dependent hai , padhty to sab hi hain jo serious hain lkn success bht kam ko milti hai ....I think we should be happy whatever is happening our life bcz Almighty has some other plans for us ,,,and I am sure ,Allah's plan is best 😊.....

  • @SUNNY-go3ol
    @SUNNY-go3ol 3 місяці тому +1

    I was doing well in my studies and time table from last 50 days ...but but exam wale din mujhe neend nahi aayi aishe hi pada raha hai....gave my paper attempt 90 questions, thought ko silly mistake na ho...but hui....it was my 5; attempt.....bahut hi bura lag raha hai

  • @somyasharma2349
    @somyasharma2349 2 місяці тому

    💕💕🤗 please keep patience thing will get better soon

  • @aarushsingh5351
    @aarushsingh5351 3 місяці тому

    Plz just dont give up…I know how it feels…just give ur last attempt as a best attempt…best of luck …u will surely do good in ur life….just stay positive ❤….be healthy ❤….completed my graduation in 2017….till not able to clear any preliminary exam…including Pcs,cgl,upsc,SI…n many more….till now gave 14 exams…but haven’t given up….just waiting for my time ….just don’t give up…we all are with u…❤

  • @GLBOmairShaikh
    @GLBOmairShaikh 3 місяці тому

    More power to you girl .. keep your head up .. !!

  • @Aspirantt847
    @Aspirantt847 3 місяці тому +9

    I like your honesty... unlike others who are claiming 100+ and saying that it was so easy.. you choose to be honest and that's the very rare quality...
    So i did so many silly mistakes in both the paper and even now im in a situation where i don't know what is gonna next with me.

  • @Debajit-b5n
    @Debajit-b5n 2 місяці тому

    Take care sister ❤️ and take care also ur mental health ❤️

  • @Onlynatures
    @Onlynatures 3 місяці тому

    Don't worry try again we will support you.

  • @ritasarki7855
    @ritasarki7855 3 місяці тому

    Dont worry. Have faith. Good luck

  • @mocktailsucker5529
    @mocktailsucker5529 3 місяці тому +1

    I hope u succeed! 🤞🙏

  • @fabuloussongs9307
    @fabuloussongs9307 3 місяці тому +3

    Your position is similar to mine, I had also gone through such experience in my 5th attempt in 2022, don't worry ek din samay sabka aata hai

  • @theconservativeone2690
    @theconservativeone2690 3 місяці тому

    Everything will be fine!!

  • @MdRehanAlam0402
    @MdRehanAlam0402 3 місяці тому

    Bina padhe maine sirf understanding se 24 questions sahi kiya out of 100 GS1 and GS2 me 38 out of 100 according to coaching answers key.

  • @khwabonkigagri
    @khwabonkigagri 3 місяці тому +1

    Didi rukna nahi hai , jo aap krengii bahut Acha krengi . 16:08 aap jaise log hi ache civil servant banege. Aur civil servant koi end nahi , ye service too ek medium hai , Ki hum aspirants society ko system mien believe krra sake, civil servant nahi ban payee to ek Acha citizen to banege hi upsc Ki study krr ke.

    • @AkashYadav-fz5df
      @AkashYadav-fz5df 3 місяці тому +1

      UPSC industry market m ye sb bate acchi lgti hai, Civil services m ane ka primary purpose Status,previllege and power hai then public service, aur agar sara time UPSC m exhaust ho jaye to life m kuch nhi bchta phir acche citizen bnne ko koi nhi puchta.

    • @khwabonkigagri
      @khwabonkigagri 3 місяці тому

      @@AkashYadav-fz5df continue Karo ye thinking

    • @AkashYadav-fz5df
      @AkashYadav-fz5df 3 місяці тому

      @@khwabonkigagri Sister I have given three interviews in Four attempts, I know uncertainty and vagueness of this exam ,I am not demotivating,but yes,after 3 serious attempts, aspirant should do explore Alternative strong options.Sorry, agar apko kuch glt lga ho

    • @Himalayan291
      @Himalayan291 3 місяці тому

      Sahi baat hai ​@@AkashYadav-fz5df

  • @lavanyapotnuri7534
    @lavanyapotnuri7534 3 місяці тому

    Please 🥺 don't cry u have 35k family with u ..... don't make any mistake ...... I know how hard u worked......how u faced challenges...... Remember upsc is just little part or life ...... Read Bhagavad Gita and do meditation...... U can only give ur efforts the results is not in our hand ...... Remember everyone is doing their best to get job ...... I would really recommend u to try state psc or ssc cgl or any job if u have opportunity..... don't miss that please....... I'm not telling you to quit but try to come out from the upsc world for once and explore

  • @tanya4372
    @tanya4372 3 місяці тому

    U are strong girl!

  • @SaileshBind-km1xx
    @SaileshBind-km1xx 3 місяці тому

    Mam same condtion mera aisa hi hai. Basic question incorrect hai please hme incorage kare please reply me

  • @Noone_0823
    @Noone_0823 3 місяці тому +2

    Dont worry we always with u zara

  • @madhavsingla5664
    @madhavsingla5664 3 місяці тому

    One piece of paper COULDN'T decide my Future .....
    I know your future is bright please don't Depress
    Nd involved yourself in precious work ...😊...😊...😊

  • @core_logic
    @core_logic 3 місяці тому +3

    CSAT cut off = GS1 cut off mark my words😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pragyabhartiparashar6056
    @pragyabhartiparashar6056 3 місяці тому +1

    Please upload daily vlog...

  • @rajkishorkumar3613
    @rajkishorkumar3613 2 місяці тому

    It is better to go for the State Public Service Commission, like BPSC, or UPPSC.

  • @devroxxx1592
    @devroxxx1592 3 місяці тому

    Every one is on the same plate mine 3 rd attempt last one missed by 2 marks this year 74 marks in gs vision key and csat 85 vision ews category

  • @anonymous-m1q3r
    @anonymous-m1q3r 3 місяці тому

    Huge respect 🫡

  • @uppcsX
    @uppcsX 2 місяці тому

    Same situation for numerous aspirants every year...ur situation is not unique at all...

  • @pragyabhartiparashar6056
    @pragyabhartiparashar6056 2 місяці тому

    Hello Zara...
    I hope aap thik ho..

  • @satyamsr8193
    @satyamsr8193 2 місяці тому

    Tension mat lo didi sab badhiya hoga...HAR HAR MAHADEV😊

  • @sameerabdullah4386
    @sameerabdullah4386 3 місяці тому

    God bless you

  • @Pawan-z2l7x
    @Pawan-z2l7x 3 місяці тому

    Mam pls take care

  • @SaurabhKumar-uo2nh
    @SaurabhKumar-uo2nh 3 місяці тому +3

    I scored 102+ in gs and,, attemped 95 question in gs 60 to 63 right hai,,, csat mai kisi answer key se 78,kisi se 72 kisi se 68 pta nhi kya hoga csat mai,,, qualify to sab answer key se ho rha hai🙂

  • @chakradharjadhav6736
    @chakradharjadhav6736 3 місяці тому

    Mere to waise 8 to 9 silly mistakes hue hai
    Mera to ye last tha

  • @Onlynatures
    @Onlynatures 3 місяці тому

    Study ki live streaming shuru karo thoda income or bdegi. Don't worry kuch din break lo or fir shuru ho jaoo. Sath me PCS bhi do UPSC unpredictable hai.

  • @Gouravs.4605
    @Gouravs.4605 2 місяці тому

    Did you get selected

  • @diaryofdreams599
    @diaryofdreams599 3 місяці тому

    Shivin sir ki mentorship me kro next attempt
    Pkka clear krogi

  • @nikhilgaikwad2340
    @nikhilgaikwad2340 3 місяці тому

    U R A GOOD HUMAN BEING ❤

  • @rimjhimbanerjee4224
    @rimjhimbanerjee4224 3 місяці тому

    Tumi thik parbe

    • @rimjhimbanerjee4224
      @rimjhimbanerjee4224 3 місяці тому

      Age limit thakle jodi paro ek bachhor gap die exam dao

  • @talesofaphoenix2054
    @talesofaphoenix2054 2 місяці тому

    Hey please share your result

  • @Maverick0111
    @Maverick0111 3 місяці тому

    Focus on state pcs

  • @TB-ps3yf
    @TB-ps3yf 3 місяці тому

    Feeling bad for you . But you are sounding like a weak person now.
    Having gone through this situation before , only thing i can suggest you
    That your present stress has a potential to destroy your future opportunities.
    Come out of overthinking loop and just live for next 1 hr
    Remember the formula - unhappy people struggle a lot

  • @qrambabu
    @qrambabu 3 місяці тому

    Have plan B,

  • @vineetdadri2187
    @vineetdadri2187 3 місяці тому

    Talkiing abiut dr shivin mentorship

  • @Lifeisbeautifulisntit
    @Lifeisbeautifulisntit 3 місяці тому

    Trust me you need a breakkkkkkkkk !

  • @priyankameena2827
    @priyankameena2827 3 місяці тому

    Take a break

  • @Accountable_Institute
    @Accountable_Institute 3 місяці тому

    😂😅

  • @ankurblue3877
    @ankurblue3877 3 місяці тому

    Show your Full Face and talk by looking in eyes of viewers,no need to Hesitate

  • @rikrikmsangma5627
    @rikrikmsangma5627 3 місяці тому +44

    Skip the next year attempt. And give yourself 100% ALL OUT FOR 2 YEARS and give the last attempt with full confidence.
    I'm also planning to do this from now.
    I also made 5-6 question blunders during exam 😢.
    This is my 4th attempt.
    I'm worried about cutoff now. Good luck to us. Hope we will make it to mains.

    • @papa6902
      @papa6902 3 місяці тому +4

      Do you think it is even possible. Just think about how much depression and anxiety she must be having and each day is would be very difficult to survive.

    • @rikrikmsangma5627
      @rikrikmsangma5627 3 місяці тому

      @@papa6902 it may be possible, she had already written mains once.
      Loneliness and depression are common among aspirants, she need a good support system and give her best in the last attempt, whether she'll make it to final list or not, that's on God's hands.

    • @Himalayan291
      @Himalayan291 3 місяці тому

      This is my 5th attempt. I am thinki😢of CAT and then MBA from good college. You are true that we should not rush. ​@@rikrikmsangma5627

  • @UpscWaala
    @UpscWaala 2 місяці тому +5

    Failure is delay, not defeat. remember the dialogue of milkha singh movie, “Ye aapke zindagi ki aakhri race saabit ho sakti hai."
    Milkha: "Daudunga bhi waisehi.” our only limit is our mind. All the best Zaara. Praying for your Achievments. 🌸

  • @sakshibhardwaj8000
    @sakshibhardwaj8000 3 місяці тому +77

    Same situation bro.... Clearing CSAT but scoring around 80 in GS did 5 silly mistakes in exam .... Prelims k baad kitaab dekhi tak nahi...i can understand what it feels like to be on border line... Nahi pta official answer key line k idhar kregi ya udhar.... But still I wanna say thoda chill kro family k sath its a blessing to have supportive parents.... U did well I appreciate your hardwork ✨✨✨✨

  • @kaminitiwari_06
    @kaminitiwari_06 3 місяці тому +18

    Hi zara.. Last year was my 4th attempt and after that drastically failed attempt i completely lost my confidence and everything.. Poore saal mene kuch padhai nhi ki thi bcz i made my mind that i will focus on my pcs n not on upsc.. Long story cut short take a break build your mind and re think of giving other exams which doesn't break you. Because for life you have to be mentally stable. I understand when you give your 100% you expect better results but at last we have to accept God's plan for us. So just be with your family n friends, take a break and decide what to do next. You can attempt state pcs, it's comparatively easy and will re build your confidence. Because confidence is everything in life that is what i have learnt since last attempt

  • @chandra3293
    @chandra3293 3 місяці тому +10

    Life is the most precious thing you have,.....baki sab moh maya hai.....mile to accha hai nahi mile to abhi accha h.....we feel bad....bcz society ne aesa structure create kar diya hai validation ka,....ki ap ias ho to sab respect karte h .....but we have to see from the other angle also....iss duniya main kitne log hai.... jinke pass khud k body parts ni hai....and still they are happy and living their life....hamare pass to sab hai.... fir inn chhote mote exam se kya rona dhona ....nikal gaya to accha ...nahi to kuch aur kar lege,... simple

  • @mythevil7283
    @mythevil7283 3 місяці тому +4

    This was my 4th attempt and next year will be my last attempt due to overage, I dont even have a job to fall back to. I too did many silly mistakes like that chile argentina question. Do what you can at the moment start preparing for mains. Just keep moving forward and dont stop. Stop overthinking and over analysing things. Whats done is done. Life is too short to get upset like this. An exam doesnt decide your life's worth. Yes we all give our best, we all studied like hell but the results are not in our hand. We only have control over our actions so focus on that and stop crying over spilled milk and move on. Take care.

  • @nidhisingh0514
    @nidhisingh0514 2 місяці тому +2

    Hii zara, I will tell you something please take it in a positive way, shayad apko thora bura lge but please bear with me:
    1. Your first mistake that you gave attempts randomly without any plan.
    2. Have a circle where people are preparing with you... Serious candidates.
    3. Relax a bit, don't worry life se bada koi exam nhi hota... Take your time... Check your mistakes and work upon them... All you can do is try... Control the controllables.
    All the very best
    With love
    You fellow aspirant 💞

  • @ms.learner9098
    @ms.learner9098 3 місяці тому +17

    Sis I can feel your situation. It was my 2nd attempt but I was very clear in my mind that I will give maximum 4 attempts in upsc. This year I was pretty confident that I'm going to clear prelims but Mera bhi gs mein 82 score aa rha hai. Csat score is 93 but I can't believe that gs itna kharab ho gya. I literally cried in front of my family and fortunately they supported me a lot. Now I have decided that I'll do a job now bcz money is my first priority. Probably next year I'm getting married and my boyfriend is very supportive towards my preparation. I'll give my 3rd attempt in 2026. Everyone has their own situation & I hope you find confidence back soon. Take a break, calm your mind, shortlist every possible outcomes and decide accordingly. More power to you worrior!!

    • @Unusual10
      @Unusual10 3 місяці тому +1

      Same situation..

  • @subhamjaiswal7594
    @subhamjaiswal7594 3 місяці тому +5

    Aapne 5th tk ka safar kaise tay kiya mera bhi 2024 me second attempt tha or i score in gs around 88-92 and csat around 85-88 or maine mains optional sb bhot achhe se ready kiya h apne side se 3000+ answer bhi practice kiye approx.....bt ab agr pre nhi ho payega to mai esse aage or mehnt nhi kr paunga because mere me ab himmat nhi h ki mai apna time uncertainity me invest kru....ab to jo hoga use kismat smjhkr aage badhunga....i know ki upsc chhodna bhi kafi painfull hoga mere liye bt agr aaj chhod dunga to 2-4 months me bhool jaunga........😊😊😊

    • @AbhishekMehra-w4c
      @AbhishekMehra-w4c 3 місяці тому

      Tum pass ho jayoge issbaar

    • @subhamjaiswal7594
      @subhamjaiswal7594 3 місяці тому +2

      Ishwr kare mai nikl jau.......waise thank u itna positive note dene ke liye.....❤

    • @sumit20224
      @sumit20224 3 місяці тому

      3000 answers 😢 how?​@@subhamjaiswal7594

  • @copslibrary007
    @copslibrary007 3 місяці тому +4

    resonating with uhhhh 😢
    i am serving in police department,what I regret ki kya paat next time duty kaise ho ? posting kaha ho ,log kaise mile ,this was my 2nd attempt but I learn so many lessons pls avoid silly mistake.

  • @poojarangra.upsc.3104
    @poojarangra.upsc.3104 3 місяці тому +5

    Don't worry dear,,sb acha hoga...
    Next year hum dono ka ho jayega or hum milenge lbsnaa mein,,,
    My gut feeling 😊

  • @anshuy1
    @anshuy1 3 місяці тому +2

    Do suryanamaskar and 10-15 minute mediation daily and then complete your 1 year and give the attempt if you reached here so why not last one

  • @lavanyapotnuri7534
    @lavanyapotnuri7534 3 місяці тому +2

    I have been an aspirant for more than 3 years....i quit my state psc job as a panchayat secretary..... Many people still criticising me till now.... some time i even feel regret for leave that job of course we are human we can not be motivated through the years right..... Even my cousin were married and settled in jobs .....im still an unemployed and un married women living with my family.....i even started to avoid my family because i could face them ..... I know how roller coaster ur life right now i can feel u and many aspirants....but they are couldn't open up like u....if ur daringly saying in front of the camera about ur feeling to us shows how rebel ur .....so never forget that and don't quit.....ull definitely achieve something in some time.....go girl❤

  • @GudduKumar-py2ry
    @GudduKumar-py2ry 3 місяці тому +3

    You are exceptionally brave and have huge potential. Time will place everything at its place. Just believe in god's plan. You are a great fighter girl.

  • @ndaguide1752
    @ndaguide1752 3 місяці тому +3

    Hey champs first of all huge respect for your commitment and dedication. I pray to God give what u deserve ❤️

  • @Hhhjjkkkk
    @Hhhjjkkkk 3 місяці тому +3

    Take a break zaara 1 year and analysis urself
    Sometimes mistakes are very small which we can't identify easily
    God is always with u
    You will Crack this exam, give time to yourself

  • @ayuchaudhary-t9f
    @ayuchaudhary-t9f 3 місяці тому +2

    Dear sister i completly understands what u r feeling but beleive in god he has somthing very special for u ..... aur exam statenpcs bhi kro bus himmat mt haro ......

  • @ABHAYKUMAR-fw5br
    @ABHAYKUMAR-fw5br 3 місяці тому +2

    It's OK life is much more than ias exam... Being happy is real deal.. If it takes u to prepare for other smaller exam.. Do it.. Give ur all there... Get a job and enjoy your life

  • @blessedwithpositivity9471
    @blessedwithpositivity9471 2 місяці тому

    Me too 5 th prelims couldn't crack it, I scored 86 in gs and 67.5 in csat, gen category

  • @gauravjadon3726
    @gauravjadon3726 3 місяці тому +2

    I failed 2 prelims only because lack of confidence this time along with right attitude and analysing my mistakes giving less tests doing PYQ multiple time i am scoring 95+ and i am confident i am going to make it
    Give yourself a chance next year with very cool mind and winner attitude

    • @Bluedragon_2
      @Bluedragon_2 3 місяці тому

      Bhai sb winner attitude se hi jaate hai , bs uss din kya hota hai ye decide krta hai cheezein

  • @pragyabhartiparashar6056
    @pragyabhartiparashar6056 3 місяці тому +2

    Life is the most important thing...
    Start living again...don't let others judge you...spread your wings....you are born to live happily...just smile..
    Sending love and light to your heart ❤

  • @Itsme-vw6nm
    @Itsme-vw6nm 3 місяці тому +10

    I am getting same marks between 75- 80 by various keys , clearing CSAT comfortably this time , its my fourth attempt , did many blunders in exam , everyone is saying padhai karo abhi mains ki but I am not able to do so , I can relate to u alot , I believe eventually everything will fall in place

  • @ArunKumar-tx3nr
    @ArunKumar-tx3nr Місяць тому

    I see pain and honesty in your video. I really hope that you clear UPSC and join services.
    You can be the light house for many people who could be in similar situation as you are in now
    Sometimes tough times get the best out of us. The things we never saw in our selves gets reflected during these times. Key is stay focus and channelize our energies to task in hand
    My 2 cent suggestion would be which you might be aware of is try to be in touch with aspirants who are focussed and are in mission mode as the way i look at these competitive exams requires discussions , group study over individual studies. Just my outlook it may not be applicable for everyone.
    All the best and I have subscribed to your channel

  • @NITESHKUMAR-ln8cn
    @NITESHKUMAR-ln8cn 3 місяці тому +3

    I am preparing from Kumar edutainment app online from my home my serious attempt will be 2025

    • @dummy6266
      @dummy6266 3 місяці тому

      Dhang ki jgh se pdai krlo...wrna 25 bhi reh Jayega...agr promotion kr rhe ho to alg baàt h

  • @surbhi26agarwal
    @surbhi26agarwal 3 місяці тому +1

    Same story 5th attempt. Maine bhi initial attempt aise hi de diye. Iss baar exam hall mein pressure le liya koi backup nhi, time mismanagement ho gya. Bahut bura lg rha that I messed up in exam hall. 🥺

  • @Bibliophile699
    @Bibliophile699 3 місяці тому +1

    Heyy Zara! Just be calm and positive❤.... Jyada sochogi to aur negative thoughts ayenge so it's better to relax... Take your time and see if you're ready for next yrs attempt.. Vrna take a break..Do some other stuff and save your attempt for future...baad me when you'll feel now its the right time... Give it✨ Conquer it🔥

  • @akjadi
    @akjadi 3 місяці тому +1

    Same situation meri h,5th attempt tha is bar sb kuch kiya in 5 salo me jo possible tha ,kbhi 1 question se gs to kbhi 2 question se csat ruka ,
    Is bar sb bhut ache se prepare Kiya tha test se leke current tk,pyq cds capf sbke pyq ,sb kiya
    Pr paper me pta nhi kyu itna gnda temperament bna leta hu ,isi bar 5,6 question itne simple question glt kiye h kya bolu ,ab to quit kr rha hu is upsc journey ko nhi hogi mere se pta bhi 78-80 number me is bar bhi nhi hoga ews se bhi😢

  • @anshuy1
    @anshuy1 3 місяці тому +1

    Live a life like a cricket match like every ball is like myestry in match just like that.
    Don't forget in this planet we are all not here to earn money fame etc.

  • @sauravkumar-wy1uq
    @sauravkumar-wy1uq 3 місяці тому +2

    कोई बात नही सूर्यमुखी ..... बड़े बड़े शहरों में छोटी छोटी बातें होती रहती हैं..!!!

  • @abhishekpande2962
    @abhishekpande2962 2 місяці тому +1

    If you don't pass this time than you are made for it and leave it. Don't waste life and move on there is more to life