Differences in dating between China and the U.S.中美约会方式不同

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 39

  • @thomasrowe6073
    @thomasrowe6073 3 роки тому +1

    谢谢你们

  • @gregoryashley7963
    @gregoryashley7963 3 роки тому +3

    Yes. I would like to see more videos like this discussing Chinese culture. This video was very informative.
    Dating in America varies from person to person. But traditionally, the man should pay for everything on dates at first and sometimes the woman should pay for some. Just sometimes. The man should pay for everything most of the time. Things are changing where it's more 50/50. I disagree with it but that is how it is changing.
    When it comes to being in a serious relationship it is frowned upon for a woman to ask a man to be her boyfriend. I think it's okay, but many people do not.
    Thank you for making such a good video!

    • @LearnChineseWithDolores
      @LearnChineseWithDolores  3 роки тому +1

      thanks for your detailed feedback~

    • @SmartBoy-xw2yh
      @SmartBoy-xw2yh 3 роки тому +1

      Yes you are right. Everything changed. Now most of the people living in confusion. People, they really don't know how to act such a situation, because nobody wants to insult others or feel bad like taking advantage of others. I think the better way is, try to avoiding such a situations....😁😁😁

    • @gregoryashley7963
      @gregoryashley7963 3 роки тому

      @@SmartBoy-xw2yh I agree.

  • @Tangroo
    @Tangroo 3 роки тому +2

    I really liked this video because it’s interesting to learn about chinese culture, while learning chinese at the same time. Great video idea, keep it up, would love to see new topics in the future. 很不错👍

  • @malleus2997
    @malleus2997 3 роки тому +2

    哇塞啊,很厲害!請考慮多做這種內容,我很喜歡。此外呢,因為對水平較高的人更合適,我還是覺得這樣你的頻道能達到更多的人哦

    • @malleus2997
      @malleus2997 3 роки тому +1

      剛看完了我來說一說自己的看法。在關係方面,住在一個小地方和住大都市完全不一樣確實很自然的,因為大都市有兩個大優點。第一個是anonymity(匿名?),我的意思是如果住在農村,小鎮等人口很小的地方,每個人都會互相認識,所以沒有什麼私生活。第二個呢,就是大都市人多。找對象的時候,雙方合不來,就換人比較容易。分手後根本不需要繼續看前男女朋友了而這樣在農村什麽的好像不可能。

    • @LearnChineseWithDolores
      @LearnChineseWithDolores  3 роки тому +1

      好的!你的中文水平很好!

    • @malleus2997
      @malleus2997 3 роки тому

      @@LearnChineseWithDolores 受寵若驚 ☺️

  •  Рік тому

    muito bom

  • @Gelooo12387
    @Gelooo12387 3 роки тому

    In the Philippines, mostly the guy will pay for everything, but the girl can return the favor by treating the guy on e in a while or for example the guy buy tickets for movies and girl would be buying the drinks.

  • @clifforddunbar
    @clifforddunbar 3 роки тому +2

    There is an aspect of dating a Chinese woman that has puzzled me for a while. Chinese ladies seem more concerned about their partner's past. They always ask me how many women I have been with and why we broke up. Women of other nationalities are not so thorough in their questioning. What are your thoughts on this?

    • @Yeahapple
      @Yeahapple 3 роки тому

      hello,i could answer you because im chinese.
      why concern your past or the way of broking up(the girl make sure what kind of personality you are,is responsible ,easy going,play boy or capable of violence……)
      in a word,so many reasons. the girl just worry about bad boy hurt her in my opinions

    • @clifforddunbar
      @clifforddunbar 3 роки тому

      @@Yeahapple Thank you for your answer. A woman is right to be concerned about her own security. This applies to all women, not just Chinese women. But in my experience, asking so directly and so early in the relationship about a partner's past is a unique aspect of dating a Chinese lady. Any man so fortunate as to be in the company of such a woman should prepare himself for it.

    • @LearnChineseWithDolores
      @LearnChineseWithDolores  3 роки тому +1

      @@clifforddunbarWell I never ask those questions haha. I don't look back~

    • @Yeahapple
      @Yeahapple 3 роки тому

      @@clifforddunbarhaha, you are lucky,just asking your past directly .even its popular to ask your income directly,you have a house 、 apartment or car、whicn brand car😂😂😂 in China.your GF ask you these,then GF’baba&mama continue asking the same like interview😃😃😃

    • @clifforddunbar
      @clifforddunbar 3 роки тому +1

      @@Yeahapple Hi, thanks for your input. I don't want to give the impression that this behavior bothers me. If a man is interested in going out with a lady from another culture, he has to prepare himself for a few little surprises along the way. And it's certainly understandable that parents are concerned for their daughter. I only mention this because Dolores said in the video that she was interested in learning more about the differences in dating in Chinese cultures and others. This is a key difference between dating a Chinese lady and an American one, I think.

  • @sschwartz1488
    @sschwartz1488 3 роки тому +1

    我覺得在美國,一開始跟一個女生約會應該一半一半付錢比較合理的,我們一起出去的次數越多,我付錢的頻率越多因爲這樣更代表我多喜歡她。我的前女友也會幫我付錢,我覺得這樣子也有道理因爲我們的關係是比較公平的

    • @Yeahapple
      @Yeahapple 3 роки тому +1

      chinese girl'thoughts :its polular that you should treat me as a Princess althouth im a maid from a chinese observations

    • @LearnChineseWithDolores
      @LearnChineseWithDolores  3 роки тому

      我同意你的看法,我以前也是这样的。我觉得我也赚钱,我的经济是独立的。如果我一直不付钱,就觉得自己好像不太独立。

  • @Кира-д3м2ь
    @Кира-д3м2ь 3 роки тому +1

    谢谢你的视频!
    我是俄罗斯的中文老师。
    在俄罗斯,通常一个人要付约会费。 但是,当一对夫妇住在一起时,女人几乎总是应该做饭。

    • @Yeahapple
      @Yeahapple 3 роки тому +1

      说明大男子主义

    • @LearnChineseWithDolores
      @LearnChineseWithDolores  3 роки тому +1

      女人做饭所以不需要付钱了吗?

    • @Кира-д3м2ь
      @Кира-д3м2ь 3 роки тому

      @@LearnChineseWithDolores 有时当两个人结婚。 丈夫收入很好,妻子不必工作。 因此,妻子照顾房子,孩子,厨师和清洁。
      但通常是一个男人和一个女人的工作。 而家务是在妇女身上。 有女人的家务:打扫房子,做饭。 和男人的家务:修理洗衣机或冰箱,更换浴缸,移动沙发/床。 这不是平等的,但它是常见的。

    • @МихаилМихайлов-о7в
      @МихаилМихайлов-о7в 11 місяців тому

      girls start to calculating that things too much, because the demand for them has increased, so they trying to find a profit for them everywhere. man and woman actually is a nature, depends on hormones etc in healthy relationship there mustn't be so much counting and changing nature and work, it's like try to being burden on each other, except of helping each other

  • @frankmandarin1733
    @frankmandarin1733 3 роки тому +1

    your friend is so pretty :)

  • @Fried_chicken_burger
    @Fried_chicken_burger 3 роки тому

    女生主动付钱是加分项好吧 怎么会因为这个找不到男朋友?

  • @lucaschav27
    @lucaschav27 3 роки тому

    ❤️👍💯

  • @QuizmasterLaw
    @QuizmasterLaw 3 роки тому

    You know it's getting serious when they start to show you videos like this one ua-cam.com/video/CJuivUmkEKM/v-deo.html

  • @yqy8388
    @yqy8388 2 роки тому

    当然是男生付全部咯

  • @charlesayache6801
    @charlesayache6801 3 роки тому +1

    是的! 很有意思的视频! 但是 世界 不是一个国家: 美国!

    • @Yeahapple
      @Yeahapple 3 роки тому

      作者作为一个中国人,又有交往美国男友的经验。所以才举例美国,作者没有说世界只有美国,是你在假想。😍

    • @LearnChineseWithDolores
      @LearnChineseWithDolores  3 роки тому

      Sorry I haven't dated any Isreal guys yet. haha