Yeah, even I as a Muslim I learn more from these types of videos everyday :D and I bet there’s a lot that I still don’t know, and some details I’ll never know, but maybe one day I will, may God guide us all ( if you believe in a God )
ALLAH ALWAYS SPEAK TO US BUT SOMETIMES WE DON'T LISTEN WE THINK THAT WE ARE IN CONTROL THAT WE CAN CHANGE THAT PERSON WHEN ALLAH SHOWS US RED FLAG LET TAKE IT SERIOUSLY AND BACK OFF I THANK ALLAH TO GIVE ME STRENGHT AND COURAGE TO UNDERSTAND THAT AND MAKE THE BEST DECISION IN MY LIFE ALLAH WILL GUIDE US TO THE RIGHT PATH AND WILL POINT A SIGN IF THAT PERSON ISNT RIGHT FOR US OR IF THAT PERSON RIGHT FOR US
I don't have any close friends and even general friends for that matter my only friend is just Allah and I just want Allah to be my best friend forever and in human beings I want my husband to be my best friend Aameen.
Alhamdulillah so beautiful lesson for our children. because now our children think they are friends every things. that why they lost their paths. ya Allah for give our children. Ameen.
I live in joint family with totally 10 members. Married for 4yrs alhamdullilah. Father In law Sister in law (Husband younger sis) Brother in law & his wife, 2 kids (Husband elder bro) Me my husband and kid Its been 4yrs and I never been selfish towards my husband family. I make food for all. Even though his elder bro and wife doesn't take much care of home I tell my husband to bring vegetables, milk and other stuff. But my husband elder brother and his wife Esp. Wife never never takes effort to run a home. Its like in a month she buys milk may be only 1 or 2 times only if she needs. Including vegetables and non veg. And most of the time she makes breakfast and dinner only for themselves.. Not for me or my husband.. Though I don't say anything. I gave so many chances. Infact she isn't my mother in law to obey or keep quiet. I never utter any word.. But when I make I cook for whole family thinking why to cook separately when all living under one roof. But Since last 2 weeks am getting irritated with her selfish behaviour as kids have started going school.. My husband too knows this but he doesn't say anything. Even though I said I want to go separately he isn't ready for it.. What should I do. Should I cook for myself or cook for all.. Even though I cook she doesn't eat, she cooks separately for her and tells my husband to bring veg & non veg.. She don't tell her husband.. My husband gets so much irritated by her behaviour he shouts on me like why she telling me to go to market.. She doesn't tell her husband like kind of saving money. Its like let them spend why should we.. But my husband has no choice he had to go atleast for me or his old aged father.. Because his elder bro is so irresponsible and doesn't care and so as his wife.. And they doesn't want to go separately. They all say they all want to live in joint family atleast till father is alive.. What should I do..
@@onaction9677 living in joint is it selffff very wrong on many levels … in islam one should give his wife separate kitchen and home and as a wife you are not bound to serve his parents if you are doing it you get reward insha allah … but think about yourself too its not being selfish its your right to have peacefull life so go ahead ask ALLAH for help 💖
@@twinkletwinkle3495 Yes dear. I need peace. I need rest. Its been 4yrs infact almost 5yrs I had sabr and looked after everyone. Even am a human I have my own likes and dislikes. My husband too supporting this alhamdullilah but just wanted to know whether am I doing it right or not.. Yes its totally not being selfish, If it was selfish then since marriage I would have done this or gone separately. Pray for me dear. And thank u so so much for replying. I will surely remember u in my duas.
@@onaction9677 jazak ALLAH MAY ALLAH MAKES IT EASY FOY YOU AND GIVES YOU REWARD FOR WHAT EVER YOU HAVE ENDURED OR SERVED YOUR INLAWS FOR NOTHING IN RETURN BUT RESPECT … 💖💖
You lectures are so inspirational May Allah bless you in this world and hereafter So true we should be careful in selection of our friends and company JazakAllah khair 🍫🍫
Alhamdulillah..... My friend have these qualities.... I love her very much....many of our decisions are taken together..and they are really those action that bring her and me closer to Allah❤✨
I have two best friends and we always talk about islam when a situation comes up we see it in an islamic way first then decide on the solution and alhmdulah we pray togther we also fast togther ♥️🤲🏼 alhmdulah for them
I believe my best friend is Allah 🥺💖 And after Allah in this world there is just one person who have motivated me each and every minute and always reminds me of Allah 💓 I pray to Allah that she lives a long life, May Allah bless her 🥺💕
I live in joint family with totally 10 members. Married for 4yrs alhamdullilah. Father In law Sister in law (Husband younger sis) Brother in law & his wife, 2 kids (Husband elder bro) Me my husband and kid Its been 4yrs and I never been selfish towards my husband family. I make food for all. Even though his elder bro and wife doesn't take much care of home I tell my husband to bring vegetables, milk and other stuff. But my husband elder brother and his wife Esp. Wife never never takes effort to run a home. Its like in a month she buys milk may be only 1 or 2 times only if she needs. Including vegetables and non veg. And most of the time she makes breakfast and dinner only for themselves.. Not for me or my husband.. Though I don't say anything. I gave so many chances. Infact she isn't my mother in law to obey or keep quiet. I never utter any word.. But when I make I cook for whole family thinking why to cook separately when all living under one roof. But Since last 2 weeks am getting irritated with her selfish behaviour as kids have started going school.. My husband too knows this but he doesn't say anything. Even though I said I want to go separately he isn't ready for it.. What should I do. Should I cook for myself or cook for all.. Even though I cook she doesn't eat, she cooks separately for her and tells my husband to bring veg & non veg.. She don't tell her husband.. My husband gets so much irritated by her behaviour he shouts on me like why she telling me to go to market.. She doesn't tell her husband like kind of saving money. Its like let them spend why should we.. But my husband has no choice he had to go atleast for me or his old aged father.. Because his elder bro is so irresponsible and doesn't care and so as his wife.. And they doesn't want to go separately. They all say they all want to live in joint family atleast till father is alive.. What should I do..
Subhanallah, Jazakallahkhair Shiek Mufti Menk. Such a beautiful lectures and eye opener to everyone specially to those best friends are not thinking about Allah.... May Allah guides us in the right path. Amen 🤲
I live in joint family with totally 10 members. Married for 4yrs alhamdullilah. Father In law Sister in law (Husband younger sis) Brother in law & his wife, 2 kids (Husband elder bro) Me my husband and kid Its been 4yrs and I never been selfish towards my husband family. I make food for all. Even though his elder bro and wife doesn't take much care of home I tell my husband to bring vegetables, milk and other stuff. But my husband elder brother and his wife Esp. Wife never never takes effort to run a home. Its like in a month she buys milk may be only 1 or 2 times only if she needs. Including vegetables and non veg. And most of the time she makes breakfast and dinner only for themselves.. Not for me or my husband.. Though I don't say anything. I gave so many chances. Infact she isn't my mother in law to obey or keep quiet. I never utter any word.. But when I make I cook for whole family thinking why to cook separately when all living under one roof. But Since last 2 weeks am getting irritated with her selfish behaviour as kids have started going school.. My husband too knows this but he doesn't say anything. Even though I said I want to go separately he isn't ready for it.. What should I do. Should I cook for myself or cook for all.. Even though I cook she doesn't eat, she cooks separately for her and tells my husband to bring veg & non veg.. She don't tell her husband.. My husband gets so much irritated by her behaviour he shouts on me like why she telling me to go to market.. She doesn't tell her husband like kind of saving money. Its like let them spend why should we.. But my husband has no choice he had to go atleast for me or his old aged father.. Because his elder bro is so irresponsible and doesn't care and so as his wife.. And they doesn't want to go separately. They all say they all want to live in joint family atleast till father is alive.. What should I do..
Masha Allah that's true message for everyone May Allah guide us to make a good friends and stay away from bad friends and bad habits and grant us goodness Ameen 🤲😊 jazak Allah Khair 😊
I have no friends other than my wife and children. Sometimes it is an overwhelming sadness. I used to have close friends and they all betrayed me. It was an absolute horrible experience. I can't be friends with my wives girlfriends. Plus I brought her from overseas so all her friends are overseas and even she's struggling to make new friends here. My one desire in heaven is to have this. If you're young, make lots of connections and friends while you are in school. It's going to be so much more difficult when older.
Makimg friends is not that hard. You can make friends by frequenting your local masjids. Also you can go tabliguee jammat there are a lot of brothers you can meet there. Im sure there are many ways.
@@uzair_7151 It's just the issues I'm coming across in that area are fundamental discrimination. Basically Muslims thinking their Islam is better than others Islam therefore makes them a superior human than others. Very sad to see how rampant this is starting to become in the Muslim community. As you age, people find it easier to discriminate and judge others. Whether it be for: 1. Religion 2. Money 3. Career success 4. Travels 5. Children 6. Social popularity 7. Family issues 8. Health issues 9. Friends 10. Locally born or not 11. Time of immigration Basically if in any of these things someone deems you have it "better" then them. They can get triggered to socially attack, belittle, or do something passive aggressive. That's what I experienced and learnt the hard way. I genuinely thought my friends were my friends. But in actuality there was a severe rot of jealousy in their hearts. I'm not very assuming individual so those people most of my life didnt think of me much of anything. It seems I wasn't considered a "threat" because my life was filled with lots of challenges and little positive accomplishments. But when it came to having a family I realized I'm fiercely hard working. I worked intensely to get married, get a good career, get a good lifestyle for my family. I never cared about this stuff before marriage but when it came to caring for the family building, I guess there was a lot of potential that unlocked. This didn't settle well for those friends. They always saw me as a certain type of guy and I wasn't to be the success type. So they betrayed very badly. Just be cautious, don't tell everyone your plans. Keep your cards close to your chest. Let my story be a warning, if those people are used to seeing you a certain way. They may refuse to accept you in any other form, whether that be more success, happiness or joy. Fiamaanillah
@@Read-Quran-2-learn That is true everywhere tbh regardless of religion or anything. I have seen that and experienced that myself. But you just have to navigate through the wrong and right people. Not all are like this. Some are very humble good people. The ones that are like that you simply just ignore them and dont keep them withim your close circle
@@uzair_7151 that makes logical sense. But at an older age, it just doesn't happen anymore. Everyone becomes preoccupied with life as well. It's tremendously challenging when comparing to youth. Definitely make a lot more friends when young in school/university. In hind sight I realize people don't change. You can note what direction someone's character is the way they treat you. I'm responsible for not realizing sooner that these people liked me in a perceived "lower" position when compared to them. If you're young (for me would mean less than 25 years old). Make those connections earlier in your life. This is all uphill now, even pray for me to make some friends if you can. Truly would make a positive impact on my life to have close guys to talk to and have fun with
@@uzair_7151 that is true. Just far easier when you're younger. And even better when you have enough self respect to recognize when people don't understand you. I'm paying for both of these mistakes from my youth.
ALLAHU AKBAR. Awesome reminder n excellent guidance n beautiful recitation. MAY ALLAH SWT guide us n helps us to remind each other in our duties without fail to get closure to ALLAH SWT. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen. 🤲🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏🙏🤲🤲🤲🤲
Alhamdullah may the almighty Allah grant us goodness and understanding and make it easy for us may he forgive us our sins and grant jannah ameen may he choose the best friends for us those who will see our mistakes and correct us ameen may he grant us ease and help us to move on ameen jazakalluh krhran 🤲🤲🤲
Bismillah My best friend is my teachers... Who always reminds me about my deen and critize me when I do wrong... My good friends are those when I am fasting they invite me to have lunch with them... * give me delicious food as they worried that I get sick .. ^_^ sometimes I hope they do that when I am not feelling well in my fasting....And they do it... Ofcourse.. My best friend is one who rarely meet but we are close to each other My very best friend is my future husband, whom I can talk about every matter that need solutions, who cares a lot about me and love me unconditionally and to see him making me calm and happy.
I remind my loved ones to respect self for the love of Goodness of own Soul and Allah.. everyone says I am mad..and leaves but come back again and again when ever they have need of me or my resources..ArRahman makes me gracious and have faith that one can be inspired by The Light of Allah at any given moment..still the malignant spread lies and rumors about me that I mad and craZy. Allah knows my Taqwa ..and this personal Jihad I battle ..My Lord held my hand while every jinn like ppl, friend , and foe who I help cannot be in my presence for there is no peace n light within.. Subahanallah.. AlJabbar. Alhamdulillah 👑
I don't have good friends. I'm alone Only i lay my trust in Allah. Allah can help me. Allah can protect me and he can provide erythings for me. In shaa Allah Allah help me to achieve my goals. Ameeeeen
i have a best friend he didnt use to pray the farz prayer nor did he pray jummah for months i used to tell him every week and encouraging him at the end hes praying everything now alhamdulilah i aint trying to show off or something or call my self righteous its a good story and i just wanted to share it heres another story i teached my 6 years old brother how to pray and now hes 10 im 18 so when i sometimes get lazy to pray hes tells my dont let the shaytan win and starts giving me movitation to pray i used to tell him this and now he does it lol may ALLAH swt forgive us
JUZZ WABIL QUR'ANIL KARIIM MEMMORIES USWATUN HASANAH NABI MUHAMMAD RASULULLOH SAW. AS-SUNNAH HADITZ WA ARBA'IN WA NURUUNUBUWWAH. by: Ust Din Mustaqim JIHAD
I dont have good friends .. or anyone , but im sure that Allah will always give me the best even if i dont have friends even if i am alone in school i know it will be for my good Al hamdu lillah الحمد لله
Oh Allah, bless me with good friends because ihave none i got away from toxic friends that only cause drama and follow haram thinfs i just couldn't feel comfortable
Well the verses indeed are truly wonderful. But look at the generation now a days. You say not every trend can get you to Jannah. But in this time who cares to listen......, The only one who is mindful of Allah. It's better not to have friends coz it can be a distraction. But those who are worthy....., only fate will give you one. May Allah bless you everyone. :)
Alhamdulillah me and my bestfriend even today when we were studying we left for prayers together on time 😍
Masha Allah
Mashallah 🤧🤧
O Allah please give me that type of best friend .
I also need one good best friend ❤️❤️
Mashallah
Me to also
Anyone else feels like these videos just come at the exactly right time. May Allah grant Mufti Menk a high place in Jannah Ameen
Salam
Exactly what I feel🤲
I'm going to send this to my bestie 🥺 I love her and I want to see her in Jannah also with me🤲🤲
🤗😍
Mashallah
I also want thisss🥺
❤❤❤❤
I don't follow Islam, but these speeches that you give are very motivating, thank you
What you said means a lot.
Yeah, even I as a Muslim I learn more from these types of videos everyday :D and I bet there’s a lot that I still don’t know, and some details I’ll never know, but maybe one day I will, may God guide us all ( if you believe in a God )
This just changed my life. I stopped doing so many bad things, it’s crazy! May Allah bless you. 💗
May Allah SWT surround us with real friends who remind us to remember Allah.
ALLAH ALWAYS SPEAK TO US BUT SOMETIMES WE DON'T LISTEN WE THINK THAT WE ARE IN CONTROL THAT WE CAN CHANGE THAT PERSON WHEN ALLAH SHOWS US RED FLAG LET TAKE IT SERIOUSLY AND BACK OFF I THANK ALLAH TO GIVE ME STRENGHT AND COURAGE TO UNDERSTAND THAT AND MAKE THE BEST DECISION IN MY LIFE ALLAH WILL GUIDE US TO THE RIGHT PATH AND WILL POINT A SIGN IF THAT PERSON ISNT RIGHT FOR US OR IF THAT PERSON RIGHT FOR US
Do U know Which Surah is That? 🥺
Loving the CAPS, NO PUN INTENDED. NO CAP.
Inshallah Ameen
I don't have any close friends and even general friends for that matter my only friend is just Allah and I just want Allah to be my best friend forever and in human beings I want my husband to be my best friend Aameen.
Allah loves everyone much more than 70 mothers
Same Allah is my forever and most merciful friend Subhanallah 😍😍
Alhumdililah
Summa ameen 🤲🤲
Words of wisdom...Ameen
I am blessed with a friend, she have these qualities 💖
Alhamdulillah so beautiful lesson for our children. because now our children think they are friends every things. that why they lost their paths. ya Allah for give our children. Ameen.
Oh my god this lecture has tought me a good lesson i will remind my friends and Family to always pray
I live in joint family with totally 10 members. Married for 4yrs alhamdullilah.
Father In law
Sister in law (Husband younger sis)
Brother in law & his wife, 2 kids (Husband elder bro)
Me my husband and kid
Its been 4yrs and I never been selfish towards my husband family. I make food for all. Even though his elder bro and wife doesn't take much care of home I tell my husband to bring vegetables, milk and other stuff.
But my husband elder brother and his wife Esp. Wife never never takes effort to run a home. Its like in a month she buys milk may be only 1 or 2 times only if she needs. Including vegetables and non veg. And most of the time she makes breakfast and dinner only for themselves.. Not for me or my husband.. Though I don't say anything. I gave so many chances.
Infact she isn't my mother in law to obey or keep quiet. I never utter any word.. But when I make I cook for whole family thinking why to cook separately when all living under one roof. But Since last 2 weeks am getting irritated with her selfish behaviour as kids have started going school.. My husband too knows this but he doesn't say anything. Even though I said I want to go separately he isn't ready for it..
What should I do. Should I cook for myself or cook for all.. Even though I cook she doesn't eat, she cooks separately for her and tells my husband to bring veg & non veg.. She don't tell her husband.. My husband gets so much irritated by her behaviour he shouts on me like why she telling me to go to market..
She doesn't tell her husband like kind of saving money. Its like let them spend why should we.. But my husband has no choice he had to go atleast for me or his old aged father.. Because his elder bro is so irresponsible and doesn't care and so as his wife.. And they doesn't want to go separately. They all say they all want to live in joint family atleast till father is alive.. What should I do..
@@onaction9677 living in joint is it selffff very wrong on many levels … in islam one should give his wife separate kitchen and home and as a wife you are not bound to serve his parents if you are doing it you get reward insha allah … but think about yourself too its not being selfish its your right to have peacefull life so go ahead ask ALLAH for help 💖
@@twinkletwinkle3495 Yes dear. I need peace. I need rest. Its been 4yrs infact almost 5yrs I had sabr and looked after everyone. Even am a human I have my own likes and dislikes. My husband too supporting this alhamdullilah but just wanted to know whether am I doing it right or not.. Yes its totally not being selfish, If it was selfish then since marriage I would have done this or gone separately. Pray for me dear. And thank u so so much for replying. I will surely remember u in my duas.
@@onaction9677 jazak ALLAH MAY ALLAH MAKES IT EASY FOY YOU AND GIVES YOU REWARD FOR WHAT EVER YOU HAVE ENDURED OR SERVED YOUR INLAWS FOR NOTHING IN RETURN BUT RESPECT … 💖💖
Jazack Allah Kheer!! A perfect reminder for us and especially our youth! Thank you for the shortened clip to keep the attention of the youth.
Keep friends who remind you of Allah swt. ♥️
Thank you sir.
May Allah protect us all.
Aameen.
Very very important.
You lectures are so inspirational
May Allah bless you in this world and hereafter
So true we should be careful in selection of our friends and company
JazakAllah khair 🍫🍫
Yess but why 🍫?
Alhamdulillah..... My friend have these qualities.... I love her very much....many of our decisions are taken together..and they are really those action that bring her and me closer to Allah❤✨
Assalamuwalaikum !
One of the most important topic ! Thank you
May Allah bless you mufti
I have two best friends and we always talk about islam when a situation comes up we see it in an islamic way first then decide on the solution and alhmdulah we pray togther we also fast togther ♥️🤲🏼 alhmdulah for them
pray congregational prayer
I will thankyou
Alhmdulilax all Muslims are my friends because I always share with them good things
Alhamdullilah my best friend always gives me good Islamic reminders
this really opens my eyes to those who aren't worth spending time with
Thank you very much. Jazakallahu khairan
Subhan Allah... May Allah guide us to the righteous path and help us to remind each other of Him 💗
Alhumdulillah I've got em
Ma’Sha’Allah very inspiring,,
It's very difficult to find a good friend nowadays if you find one make sure to keep him/her
May Allah grant you Jannatul Firdaws Brother Mufti Menk .
Allah akbak!!!Thanks for the wise narration....may Almighty Allah surround us with good friends.....
My best friend is Allah subhan wata ala...I share my all happiness and sadness with Allah... neither anyone
Asalamualikum i am from kashmir
💜
I believe my best friend is Allah 🥺💖
And after Allah in this world there is just one person who have motivated me each and every minute and always reminds me of Allah 💓 I pray to Allah that she lives a long life, May Allah bless her 🥺💕
Alhamdulillah, you are there again brother, given correct answer to me when needed most . I am now relaxed. Jazakalla.
Alhamdulillah. I am thankful to Allah for my best friends.
I live in joint family with totally 10 members. Married for 4yrs alhamdullilah.
Father In law
Sister in law (Husband younger sis)
Brother in law & his wife, 2 kids (Husband elder bro)
Me my husband and kid
Its been 4yrs and I never been selfish towards my husband family. I make food for all. Even though his elder bro and wife doesn't take much care of home I tell my husband to bring vegetables, milk and other stuff.
But my husband elder brother and his wife Esp. Wife never never takes effort to run a home. Its like in a month she buys milk may be only 1 or 2 times only if she needs. Including vegetables and non veg. And most of the time she makes breakfast and dinner only for themselves.. Not for me or my husband.. Though I don't say anything. I gave so many chances.
Infact she isn't my mother in law to obey or keep quiet. I never utter any word.. But when I make I cook for whole family thinking why to cook separately when all living under one roof. But Since last 2 weeks am getting irritated with her selfish behaviour as kids have started going school.. My husband too knows this but he doesn't say anything. Even though I said I want to go separately he isn't ready for it..
What should I do. Should I cook for myself or cook for all.. Even though I cook she doesn't eat, she cooks separately for her and tells my husband to bring veg & non veg.. She don't tell her husband.. My husband gets so much irritated by her behaviour he shouts on me like why she telling me to go to market..
She doesn't tell her husband like kind of saving money. Its like let them spend why should we.. But my husband has no choice he had to go atleast for me or his old aged father.. Because his elder bro is so irresponsible and doesn't care and so as his wife.. And they doesn't want to go separately. They all say they all want to live in joint family atleast till father is alive.. What should I do..
Thank you for all these reminders. May Allah help and guide us and bless us with goodness in this world and the hereafter. Allahuma aameen 🤲
Alhamdulillah!! Mine are among those who follow and help me follow deen!!
such wise words it's really helpful
Subhanallah, Jazakallahkhair Shiek Mufti Menk. Such a beautiful lectures and eye opener to everyone specially to those best friends are not thinking about Allah.... May Allah guides us in the right path. Amen 🤲
Ameen ya rabb
Subanallah. Mufti menk ur lecture on who is allah is heart❤💕 touching I am still watching that again and again mashallah
Ya allah, iam going to share this, barakallahfeek
Thank you,this so beautiful mashallah!
My wife my wife my wife! She has changed me for the better Alhamdulilah its amazing! May Allah bless us all!
Mashaa Allah we really appreciatte brother
Mashallah May Allah protect us all ameen
I live in joint family with totally 10 members. Married for 4yrs alhamdullilah.
Father In law
Sister in law (Husband younger sis)
Brother in law & his wife, 2 kids (Husband elder bro)
Me my husband and kid
Its been 4yrs and I never been selfish towards my husband family. I make food for all. Even though his elder bro and wife doesn't take much care of home I tell my husband to bring vegetables, milk and other stuff.
But my husband elder brother and his wife Esp. Wife never never takes effort to run a home. Its like in a month she buys milk may be only 1 or 2 times only if she needs. Including vegetables and non veg. And most of the time she makes breakfast and dinner only for themselves.. Not for me or my husband.. Though I don't say anything. I gave so many chances.
Infact she isn't my mother in law to obey or keep quiet. I never utter any word.. But when I make I cook for whole family thinking why to cook separately when all living under one roof. But Since last 2 weeks am getting irritated with her selfish behaviour as kids have started going school.. My husband too knows this but he doesn't say anything. Even though I said I want to go separately he isn't ready for it..
What should I do. Should I cook for myself or cook for all.. Even though I cook she doesn't eat, she cooks separately for her and tells my husband to bring veg & non veg.. She don't tell her husband.. My husband gets so much irritated by her behaviour he shouts on me like why she telling me to go to market..
She doesn't tell her husband like kind of saving money. Its like let them spend why should we.. But my husband has no choice he had to go atleast for me or his old aged father.. Because his elder bro is so irresponsible and doesn't care and so as his wife.. And they doesn't want to go separately. They all say they all want to live in joint family atleast till father is alive.. What should I do..
Masha Allah that's true message for everyone May Allah guide us to make a good friends and stay away from bad friends and bad habits and grant us goodness Ameen 🤲😊 jazak Allah Khair 😊
I need a good friend
To increase my imaan and ibaadah
But everyone is bzy in this world
Alhamdulillah haadhir
Jazaakumullahu khairan
100% true. 🌿
I have no friends other than my wife and children. Sometimes it is an overwhelming sadness. I used to have close friends and they all betrayed me. It was an absolute horrible experience. I can't be friends with my wives girlfriends. Plus I brought her from overseas so all her friends are overseas and even she's struggling to make new friends here. My one desire in heaven is to have this.
If you're young, make lots of connections and friends while you are in school. It's going to be so much more difficult when older.
Makimg friends is not that hard. You can make friends by frequenting your local masjids. Also you can go tabliguee jammat there are a lot of brothers you can meet there. Im sure there are many ways.
@@uzair_7151
It's just the issues I'm coming across in that area are fundamental discrimination. Basically Muslims thinking their Islam is better than others Islam therefore makes them a superior human than others. Very sad to see how rampant this is starting to become in the Muslim community.
As you age, people find it easier to discriminate and judge others.
Whether it be for:
1. Religion
2. Money
3. Career success
4. Travels
5. Children
6. Social popularity
7. Family issues
8. Health issues
9. Friends
10. Locally born or not
11. Time of immigration
Basically if in any of these things someone deems you have it "better" then them. They can get triggered to socially attack, belittle, or do something passive aggressive. That's what I experienced and learnt the hard way. I genuinely thought my friends were my friends. But in actuality there was a severe rot of jealousy in their hearts.
I'm not very assuming individual so those people most of my life didnt think of me much of anything. It seems I wasn't considered a "threat" because my life was filled with lots of challenges and little positive accomplishments.
But when it came to having a family I realized I'm fiercely hard working.
I worked intensely to get married, get a good career, get a good lifestyle for my family. I never cared about this stuff before marriage but when it came to caring for the family building, I guess there was a lot of potential that unlocked.
This didn't settle well for those friends. They always saw me as a certain type of guy and I wasn't to be the success type. So they betrayed very badly.
Just be cautious, don't tell everyone your plans. Keep your cards close to your chest. Let my story be a warning, if those people are used to seeing you a certain way. They may refuse to accept you in any other form, whether that be more success, happiness or joy.
Fiamaanillah
@@Read-Quran-2-learn That is true everywhere tbh regardless of religion or anything. I have seen that and experienced that myself. But you just have to navigate through the wrong and right people. Not all are like this. Some are very humble good people. The ones that are like that you simply just ignore them and dont keep them withim your close circle
@@uzair_7151 that makes logical sense. But at an older age, it just doesn't happen anymore. Everyone becomes preoccupied with life as well. It's tremendously challenging when comparing to youth. Definitely make a lot more friends when young in school/university.
In hind sight I realize people don't change. You can note what direction someone's character is the way they treat you. I'm responsible for not realizing sooner that these people liked me in a perceived "lower" position when compared to them.
If you're young (for me would mean less than 25 years old). Make those connections earlier in your life. This is all uphill now, even pray for me to make some friends if you can. Truly would make a positive impact on my life to have close guys to talk to and have fun with
@@uzair_7151 that is true. Just far easier when you're younger. And even better when you have enough self respect to recognize when people don't understand you. I'm paying for both of these mistakes from my youth.
Glad I have bestie like it😍
Thanks for uploading
ALLAHU AKBAR. Awesome reminder n excellent guidance n beautiful recitation.
MAY ALLAH SWT guide us n helps us to remind each other in our duties without fail to get closure to ALLAH SWT. Aameen Aameen ya Rabbal Alameen. 🤲🤲🤲🤲🙏🙏🙏🙏🤲🤲🤲🤲
May Allah give me and all sick people Shifa 🤲🏼🌹
Thank you for your lessons may Allah bless you!
May Allah protect us against evil 💯
Exactly you're right
Allahummaghfir lil muslimina wal muslimat wal muminina wal muminat al ahya minhum wal amwaat
May ALLAH ALMIGHTY grant all of us HIDAYAH.. Ameen
Alhamdullah may the almighty Allah grant us goodness and understanding and make it easy for us may he forgive us our sins and grant jannah ameen may he choose the best friends for us those who will see our mistakes and correct us ameen may he grant us ease and help us to move on ameen jazakalluh krhran 🤲🤲🤲
Jazakallah khair
Thank you so much
Assalamualaikum brother jazak Allah khair Allah always bless you and your family ameen
Thanks mufthi menk for this info
I love my best friend veryy much.....I want her also in jannah.May Allah accept my dowa❤🤲🤲
I used to have a lot of best friends. Now Allah SWT's presence is my only best friend. His presence is enough to keep me happy
True words💯❤️
My friend,
Alhamdulillah 🥰🥰🥰🥰😇😇😇😇.
She always turns me to Allah....
Bismillah
My best friend is my teachers... Who always reminds me about my deen and critize me when I do wrong...
My good friends are those when I am fasting they invite me to have lunch with them... * give me delicious food as they worried that I get sick .. ^_^ sometimes I hope they do that when I am not feelling well in my fasting....And they do it... Ofcourse..
My best friend is one who rarely meet but we are close to each other
My very best friend is my future husband, whom I can talk about every matter that need solutions, who cares a lot about me and love me unconditionally and to see him making me calm and happy.
Amen mufti
Thanks to Allah my best friend is good and a good Muslim
Allah is the most powerful and the most trustworthy.
Alhamdulillah ya Allah
SUBHANALLAH. The only one we can truly depend on for protection is the almighty most merciful Allah SWT.
Assalamualeikum so beautiful lesson love you for the sake of Allah
I remind my loved ones to respect self for the love of Goodness of own Soul and Allah.. everyone says I am mad..and leaves but come back again and again when ever they have need of me or my resources..ArRahman makes me gracious and have faith that one can be inspired by The Light of Allah at any given moment..still the malignant spread lies and rumors about me that I mad and craZy. Allah knows my Taqwa ..and this personal Jihad I battle ..My Lord held my hand while every jinn like ppl, friend , and foe who I help cannot be in my presence for there is no peace n light within.. Subahanallah..
AlJabbar. Alhamdulillah 👑
100 % brother
Ya Allah save us. 🤲🤲🤲
Yah Allhamdullilah i have a best friend but Allhamdullilah there are present such qualities in her as mufti menk sir told..
I don't have good friends. I'm alone Only i lay my trust in Allah. Allah can help me. Allah can protect me and he can provide erythings for me. In shaa Allah Allah help me to achieve my goals. Ameeeeen
"Subhan Allah
Salam Ailakum brothers and sisters
I do this like not everyday but not I will Stop my bad habits and teach my friends too inshallah
i have a best friend he didnt use to pray the farz prayer nor did he pray jummah for months i used to tell him every week and encouraging him at the end hes praying everything now alhamdulilah
i aint trying to show off or something or call my self righteous its a good story and i just wanted to share it
heres another story i teached my 6 years old brother how to pray and now hes 10 im 18
so when i sometimes get lazy to pray hes tells my dont let the shaytan win and starts giving me movitation to pray
i used to tell him this and now he does it lol
may ALLAH swt forgive us
Allah is great and blessings
Say, He is Allah, who is one,
Allah, the eternal refuge.
He neither begets nor is born,
Nor is there to him any equivalent.🙌
Alhamdullah
Mashaa Allah subhanallah
Subhanallah
subhanAllah thank u
JUZZ WABIL QUR'ANIL KARIIM MEMMORIES USWATUN HASANAH NABI MUHAMMAD RASULULLOH SAW.
AS-SUNNAH HADITZ WA ARBA'IN WA NURUUNUBUWWAH. by: Ust Din Mustaqim JIHAD
Mashallah
Subhan Allah
mashallah
AllahuAkbar ❤❤❤
ماشاء اللہ تعالیٰ
I dont have good friends .. or anyone , but im sure that Allah will always give me the best even if i dont have friends even if i am alone in school i know it will be for my good
Al hamdu lillah الحمد لله
My Bestfriend is Best, she's a blessing for me from Allah...
Allah Sent her to me When i Was about To fall
Al 7amdulilah, me my self and I. In this time that's the best you can do.
Assalamu alaikum warahmathullahi wabarakathahu everyone💯😌♥
SubhanAllah
Oh Allah, bless me with good friends because ihave none i got away from toxic friends that only cause drama and follow haram thinfs i just couldn't feel comfortable
Well the verses indeed are truly wonderful. But look at the generation now a days. You say not every trend can get you to Jannah. But in this time who cares to listen......, The only one who is mindful of Allah. It's better not to have friends coz it can be a distraction. But those who are worthy....., only fate will give you one. May Allah bless you everyone.
:)