Pt. 2 - Scrappy on Diamond dating rumors, who's his FIRST love and Bambi/Benzino Hot Tub scene.

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  • BayBEE Part 2 of the Scrappy interview concludes where Scrappy details his marriage to Bambi, if Diamond or Erica was his first love and why he wants to get married again?
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  • @ju2u678
    @ju2u678 Рік тому +364

    Carlos interviews are better than the whole season of love& hip hop

    • @AllyXoxo
      @AllyXoxo Рік тому +4

      Facts 😂

    • @ambeezy904
      @ambeezy904 Рік тому +7

      Right we can actually hear them talk, cause we don’t get anywhere with the damn reunions.

    • @QwonDrea
      @QwonDrea Рік тому +2

      He should do Karlie Redd next

    • @moon-millionaire
      @moon-millionaire 10 місяців тому

      Facts

  • @latoyakeys210
    @latoyakeys210 Рік тому +1619

    This interview is turning into a therapy session for Scrap. I’m glad Carlos is patient enough to let him express himself ❤

  • @akcj1
    @akcj1 Рік тому +1268

    Scrappy was so excited to tell his truth that he won’t even let Carlos speak. 😂

  • @ckd0680
    @ckd0680 Рік тому +487

    Scrappy: "Me & Erica had our episodes because I couldn't get over her"
    All of us: We already knew that Scrap! We tried to tell you!🙄 😂

    • @YazzyMonroe29
      @YazzyMonroe29 Рік тому +8

      That part 👏 😂😂

    • @Libra_Strings
      @Libra_Strings Рік тому +9

      Time and time again!

    • @Princess-yr2tj
      @Princess-yr2tj Рік тому +5

      Right

    • @toriwilliams6053
      @toriwilliams6053 11 місяців тому +3

      Yup. I went back to get Bam because I loved her and wanted to keep the marriage: Bambi: Yes divorce is hard. He really loved his wife. Erica: I would have married anybody.

    • @Cardio1027
      @Cardio1027 11 місяців тому +1

      @@toriwilliams6053 😅😅😅😅

  • @rollwithrease
    @rollwithrease Рік тому +360

    Scrappy never fully recovered from his past relationship. He married Bambi to prove a point to Erica that he wasn’t the problem. Bambi always looked at Scrappy as an opportunity to come up after Basketball Wives gave her the axe. Bambi just wanted Scrappy to put her on in the music industry. Once she saw that her music wasn’t going anywhere but her husband was back on top she got jealous. She was also insecure about him being around other women bcuz “you lose em how you get em”.

    • @keridonnelly7607
      @keridonnelly7607 Рік тому +16

      That's real talk

    • @Shesthetruth
      @Shesthetruth 11 місяців тому +8

      Scrappy was never on top to be back on top lol subpar rapper but I get what you saying

    • @ayeishaallen6886
      @ayeishaallen6886 11 місяців тому +3

      @rollwithrease well said

    • @nancikay88
      @nancikay88 11 місяців тому +5

      Real talk

    • @leeannejoseph6157
      @leeannejoseph6157 11 місяців тому +8

      That's not true. You must be new here

  • @sellison3728
    @sellison3728 Рік тому +348

    I love how candid and personable he is!!! He’s going to always win bc of his heart and honesty!!

  • @lovelyrithatsme7050
    @lovelyrithatsme7050 Рік тому +302

    I think this was a therapy session for Scrappy. I think they both made mistakes and I hate that their marriage is over. I'm glad that Carlos let him talk ❤

    • @89Drmz
      @89Drmz Рік тому +7

      Definitely Therapy. He was so comfortable and felt like he had a safe space. Loved it 🤎

    • @marilynjohnson6298
      @marilynjohnson6298 Рік тому +2

      @lovelyrithatsme abosolutely it was. He has his truth, she has her truth and the real truth is in there somewhere.😂😂😂

  • @Otha_Ma
    @Otha_Ma Рік тому +392

    I Love the way Scrappy wasn’t afraid to open up his Heart & let us in 💜💪🏽

  • @Southern_Bombshell
    @Southern_Bombshell 11 місяців тому +103

    Anytime a podcast turns into a therapy session; It’s definitely one for the books ! I love how Carlos gave him the open space to share .❤

    • @caseygholson4601
      @caseygholson4601 10 місяців тому +4

      Scrappy is a good babyfather tho he love his kids no matter wat lol❤

  • @shaukurabarbieandbrains3290
    @shaukurabarbieandbrains3290 Рік тому +155

    I love him! He's not perfect but his heart is pure.

  • @msscott8779
    @msscott8779 Рік тому +212

    I Stand firm on WE STAND WITH SCRAPPY!!! Boyyyy when a person finally finds their voice after a horrible situation.. LET THEM VENT…. THIS MAN HAS BEEN THROUGH IT…

    • @jekessajohnson9673
      @jekessajohnson9673 Рік тому +14

      I believe him. I do. They filmed her complaining about him being gone and he was working.

    • @msscott8779
      @msscott8779 Рік тому +10

      I do too!! She will realize now that he’s gone

    • @vonnievonn65
      @vonnievonn65 11 місяців тому

      working but not paying any bills or helping her out with them kids knowing she has jobs too@@jekessajohnson9673

    • @latanyacrum2808
      @latanyacrum2808 11 місяців тому +4

      That's was right scrappy she came in as maylassa friend like she tried to play shekinah yeah tell it good point Y'all i feel like she used scrappy and she really never loved him like that !!!

    • @godslittleprincess5454
      @godslittleprincess5454 10 місяців тому +4

      I concur!

  • @DR718
    @DR718 Рік тому +196

    1. I love his relationship with God (no matter what that looks like)
    2. Love how he respects his parents even though they weren’t there 100% the way he needed them.
    3. Love his vulnerability and how real he was

  • @earthangel8990
    @earthangel8990 Рік тому +271

    Scrappy is so comfortable he got his leg cocked up on the couch holding a pillow lol. I loved this interview so much. Keep them coming Carlos!

    • @leticiajackson2237
      @leticiajackson2237 Рік тому +5

      😂😂😂

    • @destinygraham2230
      @destinygraham2230 11 місяців тому +6

      Yes lol I really enjoyed seeing him be so comfortable and speak his truth lol adorable

    • @Bignawright
      @Bignawright 11 місяців тому +2

      Pillow😂😂😂😂

    • @cocoaberry7498
      @cocoaberry7498 11 місяців тому +5

      Chile snuggled up nice and cozy like he was bout ready for the slumber party games to commence 😂😂😂❤❤

    • @Mskaceyleigh
      @Mskaceyleigh 11 місяців тому +3

      Baby that thang is cocked, you hear me!!

  • @leshaopinion3088
    @leshaopinion3088 Рік тому +91

    Thanks Carlos for letting Scrappy have his therapy session. This was really good for us and him. Keep them coming much.🙏🏿💜

  • @doreenanderson2084
    @doreenanderson2084 Рік тому +69

    This was one of the REALEST interviews Carlos King has done. Scrappy is a very genuine guy. He is sensitive and does wear his heart on his sleeve. I truly hope that God does bless him with a lady that understands him and compliments his manhood. His father obviously was the spiritual head and poured that spirituality into his son. Loving it!

  • @taraw8904
    @taraw8904 Рік тому +405

    Erica driving by the rehab on her way to the club and letting him know...😂
    She is me...I am her...10 years ago!!!😂

    • @brandylashaee
      @brandylashaee Рік тому +34

      Girl exactly!!! My girl was outside 🤣🤣

    • @YEP_THATS_IT11
      @YEP_THATS_IT11 Рік тому +32

      Hunny! I applaud that level of petty! Thank God for growth - even though the petty still lays dormant, waiting for an opportunity!

    • @StarringShameka
      @StarringShameka Рік тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Kimberlyn1323
      @Kimberlyn1323 Рік тому +12

      I wasn't even mad at that part. 😅😅

    • @anniewilson6737
      @anniewilson6737 Рік тому +1

      😂

  • @kristiwilliams3749
    @kristiwilliams3749 Рік тому +404

    Scrap not innocent but I don’t believe Bambi was either. The relationship failed because they both gave up at a point. No one should stay in a loveless marriage

    • @kayaluko4525
      @kayaluko4525 Рік тому +31

      Bingo, they both settled for each other in different ways and were never truly in love.

    • @kimwilliams1402
      @kimwilliams1402 Рік тому +18

      @@kayaluko4525 he knows he was still in love with Ericka, he messed that up cheating all the time

    • @Ms.Sunrise
      @Ms.Sunrise Рік тому +19

      @@kimwilliams1402 love Ericka and cheat on her do not equal love. They are just bonded by a baby and history. Ijs

    • @paperbagproductions103
      @paperbagproductions103 Рік тому

      I agree.

    • @axa5005
      @axa5005 Рік тому +10

      Bambi has an interview with Amanda Seales and its interesting to see how different their perspectives are lol

  • @Risha-Rene
    @Risha-Rene Рік тому +685

    Carlos is a great interviewer. He always lets his guest speak, but this takes the cake. He can’t get a word in edgewise 😂 Scrappy on this couch like a therapy session

    • @melanatedwine9156
      @melanatedwine9156 Рік тому +22

      Lol I was literally thinking the same thing.....like Oh my God, Scrap needed this therapy session 😅

    • @mrshoose2158
      @mrshoose2158 Рік тому +7

      I was just thinking this😭 He’s stealing the interview

    • @Calonpersonal
      @Calonpersonal Рік тому

      Lmao yes!

    • @AC-dx8ml
      @AC-dx8ml Рік тому +9

      @@melanatedwine9156right. Bro needed this. Glad Carlos made it a safe place for him

    • @tatyanah5098
      @tatyanah5098 Рік тому +1

      Stg!!! Lol I just was thinking this!

  • @janiceevans3614
    @janiceevans3614 Рік тому +79

    I just have to comment again. This interview is so wholesome and pure. I love Scrappy's energy and the way he is just able to talk and be himself!

  • @rikinamosley9257
    @rikinamosley9257 Рік тому +58

    This actually allowed me to see scrappy differently. I think they both played a part in the marriage ending but I do feel like no accountability was taken on Bambi part & thinking back, a lot of what scrappy was saying is true. I think this is what’s best for him and once h gets healed he’ll
    Be so much stronger

  • @najesca
    @najesca Рік тому +215

    This man poured his whole heart out and for some reason I just want to hug him

  • @xoprincesseboni
    @xoprincesseboni Рік тому +673

    He shouldn’t have made a side chick into a wife. She was overly insecure.

    • @iamlovesessence
      @iamlovesessence Рік тому +30

      🎯

    • @rosered9692
      @rosered9692 Рік тому +41

      ​@@iamlovesessenceohh friend u right and the reason she was insecure bcouse she was the one doing shit it's always the sneaky ones

    • @ninabella9300
      @ninabella9300 Рік тому +5

      Where is your husband ?

    • @arguewithyamama8176
      @arguewithyamama8176 Рік тому +19

      Yeah bc he didn’t do anything wrong in the relationship 🙄

    • @angelraye4864
      @angelraye4864 Рік тому +3

      That part

  • @MartineDW
    @MartineDW Рік тому +310

    I LOVED THIS! Scrappy is genuine. I've been Scrappy fan since his said biz-ny-ee and he was praying and said Im Jesus name we praise-ny-e!

  • @MoDavI-sl7iy
    @MoDavI-sl7iy Рік тому +111

    I pray that Scrappy finds the happiness & love that he's searching for. He appears to be a good dude.

  • @eboni257
    @eboni257 11 місяців тому +64

    1:03:10 It takes a real man to admit that they're going to therapy and actively working thru their trauma. I have a new found respect for Scappy. I pray he finds the healing that he needs. ❤🙏🏿

  • @bananasinpajamas7393
    @bananasinpajamas7393 Рік тому +195

    I believe he's being TOTALLY honest.

  • @shanat8408
    @shanat8408 Рік тому +138

    He’s a good man, Savannah! 😂 He seems like he tried to be better than his circumstances. I hope he finds the love and the life he deserves.

    • @Ckjutop
      @Ckjutop Рік тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @MsDarkie93
      @MsDarkie93 Рік тому +15

      Y’all gullible as hell lol

    • @axa5005
      @axa5005 Рік тому +8

      @@MsDarkie93 aren't they???? lolol there's 2 sides to a story and even some of the things he said in this interview are questionable without hearing the other side.

    • @ellaleggett9628
      @ellaleggett9628 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ckd0680
      @ckd0680 Рік тому

      I can't with you 😂😂😂

  • @karendavis3286
    @karendavis3286 Рік тому +229

    I love the vulnerability he shows in this interview. I’m glad he realized his worth. Good luck to you Scrappy.

    • @paigepeterson5345
      @paigepeterson5345 Рік тому +4

      Honestly I really love his vulnerability! It’s so real and raw.

  • @lexx8385
    @lexx8385 Рік тому +94

    He cheated on Erica with Bambi and got his karma .. the way he treated Erica and the way he let Bambi come at her was disgusting

    • @Trulybtful31
      @Trulybtful31 11 місяців тому +13

      He explained he wasn't with Erica when he was messing with Bambi. He said Erica had gave him his ring back... maybe I missed something

    • @mademoiseledoshay618
      @mademoiseledoshay618 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@Trulybtful31 You didn't miss nothing. I think they are a Bambi fan.

    • @hearme4581
      @hearme4581 10 місяців тому +5

      Exactly! It was two narcissists in a relationship. He and Bambi tried to take Erica daughter and called cps. He is not innocent

    • @lexx8385
      @lexx8385 10 місяців тому +6

      He lied Erica said on the reunion show that he was cheating with Bambi also around the time they had a pic with him and Bambi hugged up on the club he was very much still engaged to Erica at the time .

    • @jlizwashington
      @jlizwashington 10 місяців тому +3

      Exactly. Erica saw, like us, the type of woman BAM is.

  • @AsToldbyNiqueNique
    @AsToldbyNiqueNique 11 місяців тому +30

    I love Scraps transparency 😂! He became the interviewer and interviewee by part two

  • @jocelyncruz9810
    @jocelyncruz9810 Рік тому +91

    Erica wasn't lying when she said Bambi was the second choice. It's doesn't matter if he married Bambi. I feel like deep down Bambi always knew that's why she was so insure in her marriage. Scrappy instead of going through his healing he found other women to get over heartbreak .To be honest most people end up with the rebounds and that never goes well in the end.

    • @juscelinefernandes3674
      @juscelinefernandes3674 Рік тому +2

      If she was insecure why was she “fighting him” and not loving on him to win him?

    • @jocelyncruz9810
      @jocelyncruz9810 Рік тому +1

      Because she didn't trust him or feel secure with him you.

    • @1978tracel
      @1978tracel Рік тому +12

      He complained about erica like this to shay. This is a pattern

    • @adreaminreallife7111
      @adreaminreallife7111 Рік тому +1

      @@1978tracelthey conveniently forget this…

    • @amab1853
      @amab1853 11 місяців тому +3

      I absolutely agree. Erica was always the woman Scrappy wanted to truly marry. She's the one that got away.

  • @naturallyy_tan304
    @naturallyy_tan304 Рік тому +112

    I feel scrappy when he said you’ll never catch Bambi gloating about him like other wives . I’ve always said I’ve never seen her smiling , even when he was complimenting her or in happy situations . Always a serious countenance , a lot of her time on the screen is her being upset even in other people’s beef , lightskin Keisha etc. idk she thrives in negative situations ..not excusing Scrappy’s wrongs though

    • @arguewithyamama8176
      @arguewithyamama8176 Рік тому +5

      That’s a reflection of him though.

    • @danaek98
      @danaek98 Рік тому +2

      ​@@arguewithyamama8176How?

    • @BabyGirlTiny
      @BabyGirlTiny Рік тому +7

      @@arguewithyamama8176not really. Why she marry him if there was nothing good about him? Why she marry him if she can’t say anything positive about him? Why marry him if she’s not proud to be married to him?

    • @jessicaleyloyale
      @jessicaleyloyale Рік тому +10

      @@BabyGirlTinybecause she needed to remain on the show. We all know Bambi has no real storyline on her own (that’s why she got booted off basketball wives)…being with Scrap kept her on the show for all this time. I think people forget that even though it’s reality tv, it’s a job at the end of the day and most of them need the cheque. It always gave she was never really feeling him

    • @arguewithyamama8176
      @arguewithyamama8176 Рік тому +5

      @@BabyGirlTiny she has stated she started out coddling him (mistake on her part) but once she had kids she could no longer do that. It sounds to me that Scrappy was like another kid. He wanted validation but was living up to expectations as a husband and father.

  • @lisabonet6509
    @lisabonet6509 Рік тому +137

    I'm so proud of scrappy for releasing and expressing his feelings. Great job Carlos for opening that platform for him. God is working and I love that brotherhood today 🙏❤

  • @Theonlynikki_
    @Theonlynikki_ Рік тому +22

    I’m screaming at Erica riding by the rehab 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this my old self

    • @drayaw.0322
      @drayaw.0322 11 місяців тому

      Ikr 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dying that use to be me 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jlizwashington
      @jlizwashington 10 місяців тому +1

      Right. She went through her pain too.

    • @latarvishgilmore6323
      @latarvishgilmore6323 7 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @reneew.1100
    @reneew.1100 Рік тому +50

    Bambi is gonna (if she hasn’t already) regret leaving Scrappy!
    Especially when Scrappy finds the right woman for him.

    • @nyaj754
      @nyaj754 11 місяців тому +7

      Just like Tyrese ex wife! She moved off impulse and later on down the line she is going to realize that she messed up. Nobody wants her!

    • @reneew.1100
      @reneew.1100 11 місяців тому +1

      @@nyaj754 EXACTLY!

    • @jlizwashington
      @jlizwashington 10 місяців тому +1

      When she's home alone, I think she already does.

    • @Queen_banana1983
      @Queen_banana1983 8 місяців тому +1

      Why?? He’s a cheater with diamond 💎

    • @bessiedurham2771
      @bessiedurham2771 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Queen_banana1983exactly why would she miss his narcissistic ass he uses women he needs to heal
      And stop blaming women for him being a rolling stone

  • @SharionSade
    @SharionSade Рік тому +34

    Kirk & Rasheeda and Joc & his wife worked out because they stayed in their own lanes, sure. But they also “lasted” because the wives accepted cheating and side babies and didn’t leave 😂
    Not great comparisons ijs

    • @mekasims1981
      @mekasims1981 Рік тому

      💯🍯😂🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @rosalynhayes2369
      @rosalynhayes2369 Рік тому +5

      True ain’t nothing lasting about that. That’s what he wanted…his wife to accept the BS and still be married.

    • @harmonynelson3541
      @harmonynelson3541 Рік тому +2

      EXACTLY he wanted to be single & married…..AND pay the bills whenever he wants to

    • @mekasims1981
      @mekasims1981 Рік тому

      @@rosalynhayes2369 I bet if she was txtn a man how he would feel

    • @1MyzzE
      @1MyzzE Рік тому

      Joc didn’t have a baby on his wife. They had broken up Kendra even admitted they weren’t together

  • @texasgem2299
    @texasgem2299 Рік тому +122

    Scrappy and Bambi was each others karma. It's wasn't going to work because they was messing with each other when he was with other people.

    • @ruthcoby2425
      @ruthcoby2425 Рік тому +4

      That part!

    • @ellaleggett9628
      @ellaleggett9628 Рік тому +2

      Facts 💯 and now they have to deal with each other until them kids get 18.

    • @NakaiSunshine
      @NakaiSunshine Рік тому +1

      Wow that made me look at a old situation of mine … granted we never had children which made me sad but now I’m looking at things a whole different way

    • @fayann7146
      @fayann7146 Рік тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Kashina329
    @Kashina329 Рік тому +203

    Personally, I think Bambi got with him so he could help her career. I feel like she did love him at one point and came to the conclusion that the relationship was no longer beneficial so she wanted to skedaddle. We all know by no means is Scrappy perfect as we saw with Erica. It takes two to tango! She never says anything on her actions and always talk down on this man on the show. I wish them both healing though after the divorce!

    • @maryvick7777
      @maryvick7777 Рік тому +1

      Agree

    • @ninabella9300
      @ninabella9300 Рік тому +5

      What career ????

    • @Kashina329
      @Kashina329 Рік тому +13

      Lmao! Initially, she wanted to rap or do something. That's probably why she went after Benzino first because he was a "record producer" and that didn't work either so Scrappy was next. In earlier episodes, she was complaining about him not helping her in that or something of that sort. I think he was where she wanted to be and she saw that opportunity.

    • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
      @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 Рік тому +4

      BOOM!!!!💯💯💯💯 I couldn’t have said it better!!!

    • @ceceb4606
      @ceceb4606 Рік тому +1

      Exactly!!!

  • @misss296
    @misss296 Рік тому +33

    Went through a Narcissistic abusive relationship recently and Scrappy is right. That energy trumps any other relationship hiccup I have ever had. It will drive you crazy, give you CPTSD and just make you question everything you’ve ever believed in about yourself. I’m so glad he’s free from that energy. The Happy/Sad thing is true too. It’s crazy how accurate he was. He’s not blameless but the integrity is there.

    • @misss296
      @misss296 Рік тому +1

      Side note: I just realized how thick that thigh meat looking lol!!

  • @advoc84life39
    @advoc84life39 11 місяців тому +24

    This was a counseling session. You can tell he is a really good hearted guy and I hope he continues therapy and heals❤️🙏🏽

  • @jebrock09
    @jebrock09 Рік тому +77

    I never looked at Scrap as a bad dude. Even in his relationship issues, you can tell that man’s biggest desire is to be a partner to someone. He’s searching for someone to love him whole heartedly because they want to not because they have to.

  • @Lashelle184
    @Lashelle184 Рік тому +136

    Scrappy is a genuine person; it’s good that he’s speaking his truth about the situation. Carlos is really tuned in that’s a good thing!!

    • @Joyclyn
      @Joyclyn Рік тому +4

      He is good.. he just doesn't like being alone.. I think abandonment issues.. but I'm no therapist... He hops from woman to woman back to woman... I hope this is time for himself now.. ❤

  • @downbad2874
    @downbad2874 Рік тому +34

    Erica wasn't evil she got tired

  • @MichelleSmith-cz8ch
    @MichelleSmith-cz8ch Рік тому +24

    He is speaking HIS truth. It's not for anyone else to try and disect or change HIS truth. Glad he's able to speak it. Great job Carlos

  • @IeshaHolley-un7uy
    @IeshaHolley-un7uy 9 місяців тому +3

    I think I am starting to understand where Bambi is coming from. Scrappy kept a lot of his exes in the picture as friends and he keeps hoping from ex to ex. It kind of makes Bambi look like she had a reason to be insecure. I mean Scrappy is now chilling and going on vacation’s with Erica and Diamond. The same woman she was insecure about. Idk maybe it is just me.

  • @amberwilliams924
    @amberwilliams924 Рік тому +150

    See, that's the difference between Scrap and Bambi. He knows he's not perfect, even said it in the interview. Never once heard Bambi admit her faults. He spoke some truth that we all saw, Bambi always talked that man down, she was an opportunist

    • @misslewis5141
      @misslewis5141 Рік тому +1

      She damn sure was a BIG opportunist.

    • @sonyablaze9668
      @sonyablaze9668 Рік тому +2

      What opportunities did Scrappy have to offer? He couldn’t even pay his half of the rent on time Bambi was doing reality shows before Scrappy who Erica had to chase down for child support payments girl bye

    • @brookesmith6
      @brookesmith6 Рік тому +5

      @@sonyablaze9668 you clearly didn’t watch the whole interview. He showed Carlos receipts that he did pay. Bambi was a nobody before him.

    • @egyptcree7298
      @egyptcree7298 11 місяців тому

      ​@brookesmith6 Right, she wasn't even a co-star on basketball wives, just a friend to one of the leading cast members, Malaysia
      😒!!

  • @j.m.4668
    @j.m.4668 Рік тому +183

    So it’s clear that Bambi has insecurities & there’s things she needs to work on. However, Scrappy clearly wanted a wife like the ones his friends have that will allow him to do what he wants & still love him & accept him the same. That’s not how that works & everyone also has a breaking point.

    • @LexiSSanford
      @LexiSSanford Рік тому +13

      😮 you said something !

    • @arguewithyamama8176
      @arguewithyamama8176 Рік тому +21

      Thank you! Everyone is holding Bambi accountable but not him. Scrappy wasn’t trying to be a HUSBAND

    • @felonsneed2work2
      @felonsneed2work2 Рік тому +10

      He's a narcissist, and it starts with him and Mama Dee. He has to address the foundation to it before he addresses the house him & Bam built on it. 💯

    • @sashadavis3813
      @sashadavis3813 Рік тому +1

      But he already cheated and she gave him a pass so why wouldn't he expect that.

    • @hallierivers957
      @hallierivers957 Рік тому +2

      That's exactly what he was hoping for.

  • @Mesh642003
    @Mesh642003 Рік тому +52

    Damn this wasn’t the tea I was expecting I never liked Bambi so

  • @chanteviastapleton
    @chanteviastapleton Рік тому +25

    This interview was Everything! I like Scrappy even more 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @BajanBomshell
    @BajanBomshell Рік тому +30

    The growth of Scrappy is so great to see. Just genuine

  • @juscelinefernandes3674
    @juscelinefernandes3674 Рік тому +90

    Part 2 just confirmed what I always felt about Bambi watching the show, I always felt like she didn’t like him, she looks for fights, talks to him in a condescending way! I just knew something was wrong with her. He might not be a saint but in this case she the wrong one

  • @jullyjjoe
    @jullyjjoe Рік тому +49

    Carlos said it right. I was thinking they are competing against each other. That's not how a marriage works

  • @Iamtejayking
    @Iamtejayking Рік тому +46

    This was some real shit! This is the type of growth we want to see in our black men! This was dope and well needed apart of the healing process

    • @amab1853
      @amab1853 11 місяців тому +3

      I agree. Seeing the vulnerability and growth that Scrappy has in this interview was powerful. I was also happy that Scrappy said that he is in therapy. I really hope more people in the black community continue to go to therapy for their healing. I commend Scrappy for taking a journey to heal.

  • @talk2mocha
    @talk2mocha 11 місяців тому +10

    It is a lesson Scrappy. Like you said Erica was the girl next door & she didnt care about Material things. I Always Knew Erica Was & Still is the One. We all Need time to grow& learn. Its what make us not Only stronger but Appreciative. Erica has Grace. Money cant Buy That.Keep healing & Vibing High. You will see Scrappy❤

  • @juanadomingue3699
    @juanadomingue3699 10 місяців тому +14

    I love this interview. A safe space for Scrappy to say everything he has been holding in. Praying for his healing and journey to new music and new love. I’m team Erica & Scrappy ❤

  • @c.p379
    @c.p379 Рік тому +48

    Bambi was so confident with battling Erica so here we are…

  • @shayrogers3367
    @shayrogers3367 Рік тому +63

    This interview is everything 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 bravo scrap for being so real and s/o to Carlos for these sessions

  • @razzeldazzel424
    @razzeldazzel424 Рік тому +48

    I’m so glad scrappy came on here and let everything out because Bambi really made him look bad. It’s so much that he said on here that started to unfold every lie Bambi told about him. And I really hope he gets better and finds the peace he needs with his therapist so he can move forward without a bad reputation!!

    • @DelicatesofLife
      @DelicatesofLife Рік тому +5

      He talks in circles but a lot was said here...

  • @aclark7862
    @aclark7862 11 місяців тому +17

    Thank you Scrappy for allowing us to see this side of you, I think you’re an amazing human- keep striving and being YOU🤍🤍🤍🤍Blessings

  • @MsThompson
    @MsThompson Рік тому +22

    He is really pouring his heart out and being vulnerable. I’m happy I got to learn a little more about him, but I think he needed this as well

  • @Activelygoingham
    @Activelygoingham Рік тому +47

    Bambi was in it for fame and scrappy was trying to piss off his exes

    • @antoniakandjimi6952
      @antoniakandjimi6952 Рік тому

      💯💯💯

    • @mrssuchafknladyy2078
      @mrssuchafknladyy2078 Рік тому

      And she ain’t even fkn “famous” frfr 🙄🥴🤷🏾‍♀️😂😂 she’s only known mostly within the “hood/ratchet” community 👌🏾💯😂😂 AINT no Clear ppl passing her in public and will be able to be like Ohhhh there Goesssss Da 🦌 from that gutter show LHHA🫣🤔🙈😬🫢🫠🤣😂🤣😂😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 Рік тому +49

    Good episode! To point out what I took away is: Scrap had a good chic in Erica, probably everything he needed but he wanted her to either be like those industry chics or wanted an industry chic to be like Erica...losing case
    Another thing...men like Scrappy crave love, validation and affirmation...those bad girls didn't hear that growing up so they don't need it and don't know how to give it...great to hear he's working on himself now!!!

  • @Ms.jaja1
    @Ms.jaja1 Рік тому +35

    Scrappy is hurt! Praying for healing, hopefully him & Bambi can reach a happy medium.

  • @mzjnicolelove
    @mzjnicolelove Рік тому +7

    Bambi was acting like that because she knew how she got scrap. How do you get them how you lose them that’s why she was paranoid.

  • @user-zs1sh5xy3l
    @user-zs1sh5xy3l 11 місяців тому +9

    What’s interesting is, Scrapp isn’t lying about him walking the straight and narrow with her. A few years ago, my good friend and I were at a video shoot he did. He literally came in, did his part, didn’t hangout, said he was heading home to his wife. It was nice to see. It was tons of women around. My homegirls and I were just behind the scenes hanging out with some of our friends. He literally cracked a couple jokes afterwards and went home.

  • @Maeve_Puffs
    @Maeve_Puffs Рік тому +81

    Edit: HE NEEDED TO SPEAK!
    I have been watching Scrappy's growth and must admit that progress has been made. The last two seasons unraveled him in ways that were both vulnerable and fulfilling!

    • @1978tracel
      @1978tracel Рік тому +1

      Growth??? He gaslight the who time. He did more than texting women. He think some people are stupid. I read between the lines. He is not a loyal person

    • @Maeve_Puffs
      @Maeve_Puffs Рік тому +2

      @@1978tracel - Of course there are still flaws but that doesn’t discount his growth. We all share these factors.

    • @1978tracel
      @1978tracel Рік тому +1

      He doing the same thing he dis Erica and Shay. COMPLAINING about no attention. Mama dee said Erica left him for dead when he had a asthma attack

  • @nekab.3689
    @nekab.3689 Рік тому +38

    Give scrappy a love show, dating show. I’m tuned in. He so funny

    • @loveGift1
      @loveGift1 Рік тому +4

      Yesssss! Can we have him on*Ready to Love* and Erica Dixon show up out of nowhere??? Plzzzzzz

    • @nekab.3689
      @nekab.3689 Рік тому +4

      Carlos stirring something up, I just know it. Maybe love and marriage Atlanta

    • @reneefamous
      @reneefamous 10 місяців тому +1

      “For the love of Scrappy” us please!! 🙏🏽

  • @gloriahufnagel5556
    @gloriahufnagel5556 Рік тому +42

    There are 3 SIDES to a breakup . His, Hers & The truth… The scene with them, in Jamaica , made me actually cry. I feel bad, because a broken heart sucks, no matter who you are. I hope they just remember, they have small kids and are going to be in contact for at least 14-18 more years, plus.

  • @Kedia12
    @Kedia12 11 місяців тому +13

    Scrappy seemed to have gotten a lot of his chest in this interview. Glad to see him get his side out there. Sorry he and bam went through what they've now gone through. I pray they both grow, heal and learn the tools needed to be successful in their next relationship

  • @elleinthea1678
    @elleinthea1678 10 місяців тому +4

    Im glad he got a chance to express hisself. I never liked Bambi for Scrappy. I hope they both find someone more suitable.

  • @keiairastokes544
    @keiairastokes544 Рік тому +25

    Bam was insecure because she was a side chick turned wife and she didn’t want it to happen to her

  • @rohndamaynes236
    @rohndamaynes236 Рік тому +34

    That was hilarious when he said that Kirk gets to do whatever he wants and stay married😂😂😂😂

    • @Casper_Chancellor
      @Casper_Chancellor Рік тому +8

      Yeap because his wife complains, cries, throw another anniversary party, 🥳 🎉 and accept it. Just smile 😁 he's a goodt man Savannah 😂

    • @michellej4289
      @michellej4289 11 місяців тому +1

      lol

  • @kmayde2228
    @kmayde2228 Рік тому +13

    I never thought bambi and scrapp were compatible since the start. they seemed like 2 entirely different people and different personalities that kept forcing a connection. Scrapp and diamond aint compatiable either i feel like they are just each others rebounds when their current relationships dont work out. Theyll be on a honeymoon stage and get tired of each other real quick.scrapp and erica i felt real connection there. Scrapp aint ready for erica until scrapp becomes truly a one woman man thats tryna move right and i dont blame erica for not falling so easily like before cuz she herself aint never said she done with him.

    • @GLAVAGE
      @GLAVAGE Рік тому +2

      Him and Diamond are compatible they were in love and I hope they get that back. Everyone pushes for him and Erica because they have a child together but I believe they’re better as friends. Bambi and his relationship always seem forced so I’m glad that’s over with. Who knows where he’ll end up we’ll have to wait and see but I’m definitely team Diamond!

  • @Theonlynikki_
    @Theonlynikki_ Рік тому +8

    Bambi said she was gon get to what she wanted by any means 😂

  • @MoDavI-sl7iy
    @MoDavI-sl7iy Рік тому +9

    I never knew how much we needed Carlos King in these UA-cam streets!

  • @neeksimp4616
    @neeksimp4616 Рік тому +13

    He shouldn't have never married Bambi, she only wanted to solidify a spot on LHHA. Kissing Benzino should have been a damn deal breaker. I'm happy he spoke on that.

  • @Odetta-c3y
    @Odetta-c3y Рік тому +38

    I am enjoying this interview. Scrappy needs to be heard and thank you Carlos for letting him speak. Very proud of you Scrappy. You stay in therapy and continue to get your head right. Dealing with people that are narcissistic is trying to say the least. I like the way Scrappy broke it down. There’s narcissistic tendencies, and there’s narcissistic personality disorder. That part

  • @Carlishapatrice
    @Carlishapatrice Рік тому +22

    Bambi have a lot of yall in these comments absolutely fooled. Scrappy is not innocent but he wasn’t smarter than Bambi. That’s all I’ll say.

  • @deelitefulwarner9030
    @deelitefulwarner9030 Рік тому +16

    He’s a smooth talker that’s why women tend to feel sorry and forgive him. Why didn’t he buy his family a house? Why didn’t they have a family account for bills? Why was he still talking to your ex girlfriends? Why did he text females while he was married? He definitely made her feel insecure. Plus Bambi knows what he has done to the other women. Plus all the females he dealt with said the same thing about him, he doesn’t pay bills and he’s a cheater. FYI being in a hotel room with your ex is definitely considered cheating I don’t care if you didn’t sleep with her. Bambi had enough over those 10 years and now she is done.

  • @DriaGlaam
    @DriaGlaam Рік тому +15

    This was the interview I didn't think I needed. Scrappy has really been open about a lot now. Glad to get his side & see from his perspective. I truly feel like Bambi actually acts like how scrappy is describing her. She gives that vibe.

  • @HippieWhit
    @HippieWhit Рік тому +24

    I truly believe Bambi was insecure and the situations of the marriage dynamics (Scrap being a rapper) eventually caused her to be insecure. Bambi seems calculated and due to her insecurities she projected her feelings from her friends relationships to hers. Scrappy ain’t perfect but I believe she stepped out on him. She messed up and projected it on Scrap. Also her dishonesty added to it (past relationships, narcissist, and her age etc). Pray Scrappy finds peace in the Lord.

  • @ScorpioEnigma_14
    @ScorpioEnigma_14 Рік тому +14

    Team Erica!! Make it work

  • @ShyAnn3286
    @ShyAnn3286 Рік тому +49

    Carlos do a interview with Scrappy and Erica Dixon together, because every time, Scrappy says Erica Dixon name he lights up like a Christmas tree, check out that smile and how Scrappy can't sit still. 😀 I will be happy to see more scenes with the two of them.

    • @tralisalove4906
      @tralisalove4906 Рік тому +6

      I thought I was the only one that noticed that.

    • @loveGift1
      @loveGift1 Рік тому

      Thought I was the only one that noticed that. He definitely lights up when Erica name is mentioned😊

    • @QwonDrea
      @QwonDrea Рік тому +2

      @@loveGift1bc he knows she the shit❤❤❤

    • @loveGift1
      @loveGift1 Рік тому

      @@QwonDrea EXACTLY!!!

  • @MichelleSmith-cz8ch
    @MichelleSmith-cz8ch Рік тому +14

    I really like Scrappy. I like how he is honest about himself and appears to take accountability for his actions past and present. It really says alot when someone takes ownership of their own. This was a really good interview and I love how Carlos allows the people he's interviewing to speak. It also speaks volumes about a person who loves God and is not ashamed to say so.

  • @chynadoll9584
    @chynadoll9584 Рік тому +26

    Scrappy is so real ❤ Seems like Bambi loves to put him down 😢 Competing with him 😢 Insecure woman 😢 Carlos facial expressions 😬🤣

    • @quavonhall7050
      @quavonhall7050 9 місяців тому +1

      Carlos’s facial expressions had me weak asf 😂😂😂

  • @Denailacole
    @Denailacole Рік тому +42

    When men pull that “you wouldn’t have that if it wasn’t for me” or “I made you” I always say well make another one then. Since you got it like that, make it make sense 😒😂

    • @Zeusbadboys
      @Zeusbadboys Рік тому +3

      He can

    • @Denailacole
      @Denailacole Рік тому +7

      @@ZeusbadboysWell hit him up then, quickly so he can start on you first 🧐😂

    • @Zeusbadboys
      @Zeusbadboys Рік тому

      @@Denailacole I’m different boo

    • @mixxjacksoncallwood7821
      @mixxjacksoncallwood7821 Рік тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 perfect response

    • @jasminelewis9200
      @jasminelewis9200 Рік тому +5

      I get what your saying but technically bambi is the second one he made famous... erica was first, now diamond is on the show cause of HIM. He has done and did what you said already.😂

  • @Loved1one1
    @Loved1one1 Рік тому +36

    I feel Scrap though. It’s hard being in a relationship like that. Not saying it’s all on her but you have to walk away if it’s harmful to your mental health. I’ve been there, and still in therapy as well. I’m glad he was able to release. He was respectful with his delivery. I see growth in Scrap. You’re on the right path brother. Hold on to that faith 💯💕

  • @mikam6650
    @mikam6650 Рік тому +22

    I have so much respect for him and believe everything he is saying. She says one thing a lot of times and then says something else. SHe contradicts herself a lot. She sounds like she’s very insecure and IDK why because she’s not an ugly girl at all. She should focus more on leveling herself up! I would never not support my husband or feel like there’s competition! He win we both winning ‼️

  • @godisgood28
    @godisgood28 Рік тому +15

    This was a relief for him to tell his truth because too often people looked at Scrap as the bad guy. When in actuality they both contributed to the breakdown of their marriage. Bambi was trying to prove a point to Erica, like “ha he married me”!!!

  • @miraclebrown5056
    @miraclebrown5056 10 місяців тому +7

    It’s sad it took him going through this to see she was never the one for him. A lot of us don’t realize the ones we messed over be the ones who really loved and cared for us. From day one it never seemed like a good relationship, at least in my opinion.

    • @chrissb3979
      @chrissb3979 7 місяців тому

      So true. I honestly didn't like the person he was when he was with her.

  • @tinasad3
    @tinasad3 Рік тому +8

    Bambi been a bird. Scrappy should’ve never married her

  • @_byefat
    @_byefat Рік тому +23

    I hate to see the way he's historically gone from woman to woman looking for love, that he can only find within himself first. I hope he heals. A good woman will then be the perfect complement because I truly believe he has a good heart and wants a strong relationship.

    • @austin27lj
      @austin27lj Рік тому +2

      Once he realizes this his life will change

  • @nikitaanderson4454
    @nikitaanderson4454 Рік тому +45

    😂😂😂😂 scrappy was the interviewer and the interviewee

  • @Jae_Denee
    @Jae_Denee Рік тому +14

    I’ve always loved Scrap. Underneath all the hurt & messy moments, I knew he was a dope & genuine person. ❤

  • @MamaBeulah
    @MamaBeulah Рік тому +18

    I would love to see him write a book! He def has a message to share!

    • @christianstrickland2085
      @christianstrickland2085 Рік тому

      Same he had a lot to say Carlos could barely talk lol so you can tell he didn't have a voice in the marriage

  • @amirahabdullah623
    @amirahabdullah623 Рік тому +28

    This was definitely therapeutic for Scrappy. This was not an interview at all LOL, but it was needed! I salute him for opening up and I pray he finds the love of his life; he is deserving of it. First thing first is to heal himself and his wounds, love on himself, love on them babies. Also have a woman earn his love because it shouldn't just be given, everyone is not deserving of your love. 🙌❤

  • @killakev9600
    @killakev9600 Рік тому +127

    Was NOT expecting that tea about Bambi talking to Benzine while visiting Scrapp in rehab.
    Jaw STILL on the floor

    • @trent_king
      @trent_king Рік тому +26

      I wasn't expecting it but wasn't necessarily shocked either😂

    • @Kimberlyn1323
      @Kimberlyn1323 Рік тому +10

      Right I thought Scrappy was after Benzino not before or during

    • @unfiltered_unapologetic_32
      @unfiltered_unapologetic_32 Рік тому +20

      It wasn’t surprising because she always kept the same energy with him that he gave to her he was doing him she was doing her even when Erica told Bambi I been fckn him still fckn him getting ate out in hotel rooms etc Bambi wasn’t phased at all I think all though they love each other they definitely wasn’t in love

    • @taishawalker7737
      @taishawalker7737 Рік тому +9

      The kicker is it came out from her Husband 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @deelitefulwarner9030
      @deelitefulwarner9030 Рік тому +3

      ⁠@@unfiltered_unapologetic_32yes I’m glad someone realized Bambi gave him exactly what he gave her. He got nerve say she didn’t love him when he didn’t love her either.

  • @Tweety_Thee_One
    @Tweety_Thee_One Рік тому +40

    Scrappy DROPPED JEWLS and I bet y’all missed it!! Great interview Mr. King!!

    • @charls5834
      @charls5834 Рік тому +3

      I missed it, what jewels did he drop ?

    • @Tweety_Thee_One
      @Tweety_Thee_One Рік тому

      @@charls5834 watch it again and watch it with an open mind! That’s why you missed it, you watched in a place of judgement!

    • @mrssuchafknladyy2078
      @mrssuchafknladyy2078 Рік тому

      @@charls5834go be apart of the Replay gang since you “missed” it and ohh listening and Comprehension is 🔑 🙄🥴👌🏾😂😂😂

    • @marilynjohnson6298
      @marilynjohnson6298 Рік тому

      @@charls5834right!!!’

  • @LeshaFBaby
    @LeshaFBaby Рік тому +11

    No matter what Scrappy just has that personality that draws you in❤glad he got to express himseelf sometimes fingers are pointed at the man when a marriage fails..he deserves happiness and hope he gets his peace

  • @BritBrat444
    @BritBrat444 11 місяців тому +9

    i love scrappy explanation of the insecurities in bambi and really the lack of self esteem. you cant fake self esteem 😢