I've come back to this video countless times. After 6 years we have some really unhealthy communication patterns and this really hits home about where we struggle❤
“I understand why you would see it that way, however, I see it differently”. “You are awesome at [insert]. Have you considered [insert]? “Why would you think / say / feel that?” “I’m on your side, and I want the best for you. Have you considered [insert]?” Use reflecting skills: “So, what you are saying is…” If you are in a romantic relationship, this takes work. Plan to have a once a month “state of the union” talk with your loved one. Just to clear the air, of any resentments. Make it casual, and as non-confrontational, as possible. Speak your mind, and be brave. You might hear things, that are hurtful, but ultimately helpful. You are either growing together, or growing apart. Decide which one, you would like.
Highly important message.....dont attack someone....but speak in a pleasing manner ...same words if said in a pleasing manners are accepted...if said in a attacking or shouting way are not accepted.....
I felt like you were directly speaking to me. My fiance and I struggle with everything you mentioned. I want to be a better spouse and I really this will really help. Thank you for the helpful tips!
I found this video trying to learn how to communicate because it was affecting the relationship I have with someone I truly love. I realized how many mistakes I make in a conversation that I did not realize and would have never realized. Thank you so much for the tips you spoke about in this video, I am really looking forward to keeping these tips in mind in order to communicate properly and not make my partner feel alone. Thank you and God bless.
It’s relieving and good to hear your acknowledgement and awareness on your behalf I love hearing those break through I feel emotionally disconnected w my partner a lot I do yell n talk aggressive when I don’t feel heard which makes it no better and I shut down my partner doesn’t validate my feelings I’m drained
I’m trying to better communicator with my partner. I really want to improve for my partner and myself. I want a healthy relationship with her. Thanks for the tips.
This video has opened my eyes to things i didn’t realize about myself and i wanna do better for my relationship and my amazing woman so i am gonna insert the notes i took into my life and try and grow to be a better man , a better boyfriend, and a better communicater
Thank you for your advice. It really does mean alot to me. I admit that I am not good at this. But I want to do better so i can be a better husband to my wife.
We had trouble talking about how we felt as a couple. We pointed fingers at each other a lot. We were about to give up when we figured out a better way to talk. Thought about telling other couples because it might help them. It's through games for couples like lovify. Where you tell your partner what you like, and then they have to guess what it is. It was a fun way to learn more about my partner.
I love this , I have a the love of my life I shared so many memories with them and recently I get frustrated and I don’t take a breather it just gets the best of me and this video has shown me how much I have gotten out of line I will take this advice and apply!!
I don't claim to know everything about relationships but I used to believe that I was advanced in dating. I don't like to argue or fuss but I hear disagreement is healthy. I can listen 👂 more and I tend to get a little loud 🔊 only out of frustration. Truth be told it's like a freaking merry go round and I don't know if she's happy or not.😢😢😢 It's been five years and I wanna marry her but the way life is set up I don't know.
Exact same situation I’m divorce we engaged they said I’m not ready to settle down how when we committed communication wise and finances going to have to improve ya it’s about love but not when their work has never been stable so I don’t like just diving well I did but marriahe a whole nother level shd feels like we married now so I’m like if we get married what’s gonna change to me I feel at least resolving communication and fiances going into a marriage makes it more solid of course things can change but I want to feel confident and secure and we’ll round and I don’t and I’ve expressed then .. then they say what they give isn’t enuff maybe it isn’t 😮but I think it can be with some tweaking however I can’t change anyone smh
I liked this video. I struggle with empathy, because I am a non emotional person. My wife is ready to move on from me. He has checked out of our relationship. She has requested a deeper emotional connection, and I am unable to provide that to her right now. I am "all in" in learning how to do this, which is why I subscribed to this channel, however she told me she doesn't believe me anymore. I promise to commit to this is unheard. How can I get started? Any books I can read? Thank you.
How to win friends and influence people is a good book to learn how to communicate better. Which is big on being empathetic. People need to be heard.. and the book talks a lot about listening. It’s at least a good start. 👌🏼 Hard work, but extremely helpful.
Thank you for watching the video. You're taking the correct steps in the right direction by acknowledging this. Learn the power of how to get your wife back from Coach Natalie. ua-cam.com/video/9UrGuHdeEM8/v-deo.html Coach Adrian
Good video. Your channel is a 'must see' regarding marriages. I think communication is extremely important, and is in my opinion the most important aspect of any relationship. I dedicated my ministry to that cause.
I don't attack my partner, but I definitely have problems with empathy as, like @K Smith, I tend to be a more non-emotional person. I don't lash out, and I try my damndest to be non-confrontational. It's seen as me not caring enough.
Question: Can you go to marriage counseling by yourself? I want to go to marriage counseling but my husband doesn't think he needs it. But I know that we do.
I find it hard to communicate with my girlfriend. Sometimes going out for a meal together is uncomfortable because we both just sit there in silence even tho we both just had fun at the water park before hand. I want to hear from actual people who have had bad communication and then managed to turn it around. Need a bit of hope
I don’t know if it’s too late to reply but I will anyway. Given that you have done what is in the video and I feel what you’re asking about is different you could do these things: - regarding what you mentioned in your comment I think you could in that dinner talk about the activity you just did, how it made you feel, the funny things that happened, memories that you have from your childhood regarding water parks etc. - in other scenarios you can talk about anything you’re thinking of in that moment. This could be hard if for example you don’t care to hear your partners thoughts and little stories and therefore you think they don’t, or of in the past they gave a negative reaction to you sharing which made you reluctant. - it’s okay to have silent moments in a relationship. - try to spend time apart if you’re not, that will give you topics to talk about and share and discuss. - open up to your partner about your past, your fears, your traumas your memories etc. All in all, this won’t work if you both don’t deeply like each other (regardless of love) if you’re not both interested in each other, or if you don’t feel safe and heard.
@@thegamingrelish9272 find something to talk about recently maybe feedback from what thinks about the water park how she feelings at that current/what you thinking about or say that you like spending time with her
my bf feels as if my feelings for him faded and that my feelings r different the beginning of the relationship yet i felt as if it’s been the same so now i’m here trying to figure out how to show my efforts and my feelings
Just do some of the same things you did earlier in the relationship, self reflect and think, you might feel like you’re still doing the same things however maybe he feels different. You could also just go ahead and ask him, if there’s anything he feel like you do differently, that’s what this video is about communication. Goodluck
How do I communicate with someone when every time I try they tell me not to tell them what they are thinking or feeling, when I'm not trying to tell them what they are thinking or feeling. I'm simply trying to communicate something I have perceived because of their own words, actions, worries, etc. that is causing an issue. It's so frustrating. I feel he is impossible to talk to because no matter how I try to approach an issue, he gets defensive or tells me not to tell him what he's thinking or feeling, when what I'm trying to do is tell him how I'm thinking and feeling. Instead of communication it almost always becomes an argument. I'm about to give up because you cannot have a good relationship without good communication. And I've never struggled so much to try to communicate with people as I do with him. Help.
I'm sorry for you because that's very toxic and unfortunately if he's not open to receive what you say, he won't change that because he doesnt understand the issue.
At least you have the option to leave. I can't leave my girlfriend because she has no place to go due to burning every bridge she's crossed. Sad thing is that I love her too much to let her try and survive on her own.
@@mcgirtICreality find a couples bible study where you and she can grow spiritually and maybe some healing can begin. Or at least a good biblical church where hearing about and encountering God can begin to Change hearts.
The exact same situation here smh I’m emotionally drained and feel disconnected then I shut down and then now I’m the blame I do yell and speak aggressive in between me tryna communicate but even when I’m not accused of doing so or accused of arguing or like to bicker when I’m only trying to express my feelings 😢
That doesn't sound healthy at all, is he even willing to improve? Or if you brought that up would he just try to tell you you're the "problem"? If so you truely deserve better
Me and my partner have polar opposite communication styles. So, while I take more time to compose my thoughts and then come back to effectively communicate, he wants to instantly solve the problem. But the problem is, in the process of composing my thoughts I start to invalidate my feelings and hold myself accountable for starting obnoxious rifts between us and end up being distant towards him. It feels like a constant struggle because neither can I talk to him in the heat of the moment nor do I effectively do so later. This is causing a lot of issues in our relationship and I don't know how to resolve them. Appreciate the video!
I am having the same issues, lack of communication, im a very emotional person. We are married for 12 years, and i still dont know him well. How to make him happy, when to communicate, how to approach him, how to be romantic, i guess its too broken oevr the years. Due to this, we still have no kids. We fail to connect
Effective communication is so very important, thank you for this. I did a video as well on the importance of effective communication for healthy relationships.
Is there a video on how to apply these? Like what does it look like? I'm gonna search videos for answers but I have a similar but different problem and I can't find anyone to help
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I recently just got broken up from a 2 year relationship because I wasn’t listening that well. I was too busy focusing on Principals and getting revenge. About trying to make a point. But both people HAVE to do the same, don’t they? Why is it what I’m hearing is always towards one person? How do we know who the one is to listen to this?
Sometimes my partner gets upset. I always try to be supportive, but she gets annoyed by it. I don't know what to do. every single time she gets angry. She believes that I am not emotionally available. I really want to help. I want to understand her. but I fail every time. Help me, please.
i'm the one who keeps saying "u always do that" "u always don't do that" and nothing changes even is i say it a million times what should i do it makes us argue until we fight please respond
I know this is 3 years ago. But my best friend and partner are dealing with this. He shut down on me, because I reacted rather than took that step back. I want to be better. I want to communicate with him better. I react in my own emotions rather than stepping into his shoes. He said the volatile will break us. I don't want that. Please direct me into what books. WHERE can I continue to get help?
My wife and I are to the point where I will be moving out of the house for some time to let her think and give her space. So I won’t be able to apply this method in that time frame. What should I do while we are living separate having two children?
Being separated can be frustrating. Please take a look at this video to help you understand how you can save your marriage while being separated. ua-cam.com/video/5Rb1CIgt37I/v-deo.html Coach Adrian
@@danielleanita4988 well it was 6 months ago, I really liked this girl and she kinda didn't wanted to be in a relationship but she liked me tho. Anyways I moved on so I don't think I need help anymore haha. I completely cut contact with the person so we good.
Yes. Pride gets me in a bad place. I wish I had had cognitive BELIEFS that would keep me from being more lovable to my man from Virginia. I want to KNOW what these core beliefs are and replace them with BELIEFS that are good for my relationship with him. How to anticipate what we will go through to create them???
I have this hard time to my fiance . Like im trying to talk to him on somethings is just giving me a answer like nodding head and say okay or what ate you saying or what are you talking about. I really dont know how to talk like its so boring not talking . Also he dont like telling some story like sharing it with me. Is it normal that guy like this from america? He been like this since we meet . But now i realize that its looks so boring and i feel that he dont love me even i know he make time to come visit me in my country monthly , but when we are together we just have hugging or watching on phone without talking. Talking only for question.😢 so sad
This content is a wellspring of unique and creative thoughts. I read a book with akin subjects that reshaped my approach. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
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@@HappilyCommitted I watched 👍 we both had so much fights and that caused him to change. He never like to share his feeling he never like to communicate about anything. When I asked him if you living the sake of living wd me then leave on that he replied OK. This is the he always hert me. I dnt understand what to do😞
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I've come back to this video countless times. After 6 years we have some really unhealthy communication patterns and this really hits home about where we struggle❤
how are u both doing if i may ask?
Don't worry, its going to be ok, never give.💖❤❤💞💞✨
./ have Empathy
./ have patience
./be attentive nd listen
./ having common vision
./be patient with yourself
I would like to add just 3 points,
1. show interest in their passion
2. appreciate even for a simple things
3. talked about the good memories
I agree❤👏
Number 1 it’s vital all are
I love this! I noticed for me I tend to just shut down. I definitely will try to breath before responding. Thanks for being so clear and concise! ❤
I'm happy the video was helpful for you. Thank you for watching, Alisha.
Coach Adrian
I have the same issue and it causes so many problems
I am also someone who shuts down. I’ve been working hard to communicate better. Slowly but surely. Thanks for the awesome video!
“I understand why you would see it that way, however, I see it differently”.
“You are awesome at [insert]. Have you considered [insert]?
“Why would you think / say / feel that?”
“I’m on your side, and I want the best for you. Have you considered [insert]?”
Use reflecting skills: “So, what you are saying is…”
If you are in a romantic relationship, this takes work. Plan to have a once a month “state of the union” talk with your loved one. Just to clear the air, of any resentments. Make it casual, and as non-confrontational, as possible. Speak your mind, and be brave. You might hear things, that are hurtful, but ultimately helpful. You are either growing together, or growing apart. Decide which one, you would like.
Highly important message.....dont attack someone....but speak in a pleasing manner ...same words if said in a pleasing manners are accepted...if said in a attacking or shouting way are not accepted.....
OhMyGosh! 2mins in, and I'm like "are you right here with me right now?!"
I felt like you were directly speaking to me. My fiance and I struggle with everything you mentioned. I want to be a better spouse and I really this will really help. Thank you for the helpful tips!
You are so welcome!
I found this video trying to learn how to communicate because it was affecting the relationship I have with someone I truly love. I realized how many mistakes I make in a conversation that I did not realize and would have never realized. Thank you so much for the tips you spoke about in this video, I am really looking forward to keeping these tips in mind in order to communicate properly and not make my partner feel alone. Thank you and God bless.
You are so welcome
I’m going through that phase rt now I don’t want to lose him🥺
Im going through the same thing
It’s relieving and good to hear your acknowledgement and awareness on your behalf I love hearing those break through I feel emotionally disconnected w my partner a lot I do yell n talk aggressive when I don’t feel heard which makes it no better and I shut down my partner doesn’t validate my feelings I’m drained
I’m trying to better communicator with my partner. I really want to improve for my partner and myself. I want a healthy relationship with her. Thanks for the tips.
I watch this video, again and again, to format my brain into communicating this way.
Thank you for watching the video. I hope it was helpful for you!
Coach Adrian
Doing the same
This video has opened my eyes to things i didn’t realize about myself and i wanna do better for my relationship and my amazing woman so i am gonna insert the notes i took into my life and try and grow to be a better man , a better boyfriend, and a better communicater
Thank you for your advice. It really does mean alot to me. I admit that I am not good at this. But I want to do better so i can be a better husband to my wife.
We had trouble talking about how we felt as a couple. We pointed fingers at each other a lot. We were about to give up when we figured out a better way to talk. Thought about telling other couples because it might help them. It's through games for couples like lovify. Where you tell your partner what you like, and then they have to guess what it is. It was a fun way to learn more about my partner.
Thankyou coach this really means a lot to change me and my partner
Had to comment. I like you, you went into details. You dont just tell us what to do but how you do it, and why you do it.
You have some excellent points here. I've saved this so I can listen to it again from time to time as a reminder.
I love this , I have a the love of my life I shared so many memories with them and recently I get frustrated and I don’t take a breather it just gets the best of me and this video has shown me how much I have gotten out of line I will take this advice and apply!!
Great video great advise. Brief, concise and straight to the point
You don't know what you have done for me brother.....❤❤ Thanks so much
Glad I could help!
So clear, real, and helpful. Thank you.
Thank you for watching, Mozhgan. Hope the video was helpful for you.
Coach Adrian
What a great talk.
Thank u it is what im struggling with
Thank you so much for sharing this information. I will be studying this!
❤ thanks a lot! And thanks for not talking a lot about other things in the beginning 😂it makes me stay!
Great video!!!
thank you so much. Bless you sir
I don't claim to know everything about relationships but I used to believe that I was advanced in dating. I don't like to argue or fuss but I hear disagreement is healthy. I can listen 👂 more and I tend to get a little loud 🔊 only out of frustration. Truth be told it's like a freaking merry go round and I don't know if she's happy or not.😢😢😢 It's been five years and I wanna marry her but the way life is set up I don't know.
Exact same situation I’m divorce we engaged they said I’m not ready to settle down how when we committed communication wise and finances going to have to improve ya it’s about love but not when their work has never been stable so I don’t like just diving well I did but marriahe a whole nother level shd feels like we married now so I’m like if we get married what’s gonna change to me I feel at least resolving communication and fiances going into a marriage makes it more solid of course things can change but I want to feel confident and secure and we’ll round and I don’t and I’ve expressed then .. then they say what they give isn’t enuff maybe it isn’t 😮but I think it can be with some tweaking however I can’t change anyone smh
I liked this video. I struggle with empathy, because I am a non emotional person. My wife is ready to move on from me. He has checked out of our relationship. She has requested a deeper emotional connection, and I am unable to provide that to her right now. I am "all in" in learning how to do this, which is why I subscribed to this channel, however she told me she doesn't believe me anymore. I promise to commit to this is unheard. How can I get started? Any books I can read? Thank you.
How to win friends and influence people is a good book to learn how to communicate better. Which is big on being empathetic. People need to be heard.. and the book talks a lot about listening. It’s at least a good start. 👌🏼 Hard work, but extremely helpful.
Thank you for watching the video. You're taking the correct steps in the right direction by acknowledging this. Learn the power of how to get your wife back from Coach Natalie.
ua-cam.com/video/9UrGuHdeEM8/v-deo.html
Coach Adrian
K Smith I would recomend the Gottmans.
I suggest you dig within and be vulnerable with yourself
Good video. Your channel is a 'must see' regarding marriages. I think communication is extremely important, and is in my opinion the most important aspect of any relationship. I dedicated my ministry to that cause.
Thank you for watching the video! I agree, communication is key!
Coach Adrian
Thank you, thank you very much 🥰 I was really indeed of this 😊😊
Thank you so much for watching!
3 people got in a fight after watching the video.
Lmfao
Wish ive seen this video before our break up, i could have prevented it
I don't attack my partner, but I definitely have problems with empathy as, like @K Smith, I tend to be a more non-emotional person. I don't lash out, and I try my damndest to be non-confrontational. It's seen as me not caring enough.
Great video! Thank you! ❤
Question: Can you go to marriage counseling by yourself? I want to go to marriage counseling but my husband doesn't think he needs it. But I know that we do.
Thank you for this ! I really needed to hear this
Very nice and clear suggestions. Thank you Adrian a lot.
Thank you so much. Got a lot from this. God bless
Thank you!
Coach Adrian
I find it hard to communicate with my girlfriend. Sometimes going out for a meal together is uncomfortable because we both just sit there in silence even tho we both just had fun at the water park before hand. I want to hear from actual people who have had bad communication and then managed to turn it around. Need a bit of hope
I don’t know if it’s too late to reply but I will anyway. Given that you have done what is in the video and I feel what you’re asking about is different you could do these things:
- regarding what you mentioned in your comment I think you could in that dinner talk about the activity you just did, how it made you feel, the funny things that happened, memories that you have from your childhood regarding water parks etc.
- in other scenarios you can talk about anything you’re thinking of in that moment. This could be hard if for example you don’t care to hear your partners thoughts and little stories and therefore you think they don’t, or of in the past they gave a negative reaction to you sharing which made you reluctant.
- it’s okay to have silent moments in a relationship.
- try to spend time apart if you’re not, that will give you topics to talk about and share and discuss.
- open up to your partner about your past, your fears, your traumas your memories etc.
All in all, this won’t work if you both don’t deeply like each other (regardless of love) if you’re not both interested in each other, or if you don’t feel safe and heard.
@@thegamingrelish9272 find something to talk about recently maybe feedback from what thinks about the water park how she feelings at that current/what you thinking about or say that you like spending time with her
Thank you, thank you, thank you 🥰🙏
You are so welcome!
my bf feels as if my feelings for him faded and that my feelings r different the beginning of the relationship yet i felt as if it’s been the same so now i’m here trying to figure out how to show my efforts and my feelings
but i don’t rlly know what i’m doing differently, he just says i act uninterested now
Just do some of the same things you did earlier in the relationship, self reflect and think, you might feel like you’re still doing the same things however maybe he feels different. You could also just go ahead and ask him, if there’s anything he feel like you do differently, that’s what this video is about communication. Goodluck
Ok Thanks for clear explanation 🎉
Thank you man this helps a lot
Glad it helped!
How do I communicate with someone when every time I try they tell me not to tell them what they are thinking or feeling, when I'm not trying to tell them what they are thinking or feeling. I'm simply trying to communicate something I have perceived because of their own words, actions, worries, etc. that is causing an issue. It's so frustrating. I feel he is impossible to talk to because no matter how I try to approach an issue, he gets defensive or tells me not to tell him what he's thinking or feeling, when what I'm trying to do is tell him how I'm thinking and feeling. Instead of communication it almost always becomes an argument. I'm about to give up because you cannot have a good relationship without good communication. And I've never struggled so much to try to communicate with people as I do with him. Help.
I'm sorry for you because that's very toxic and unfortunately if he's not open to receive what you say, he won't change that because he doesnt understand the issue.
At least you have the option to leave. I can't leave my girlfriend because she has no place to go due to burning every bridge she's crossed. Sad thing is that I love her too much to let her try and survive on her own.
@@mcgirtICreality find a couples bible study where you and she can grow spiritually and maybe some healing can begin. Or at least a good biblical church where hearing about and encountering God can begin to
Change hearts.
The exact same situation here smh I’m emotionally drained and feel disconnected then I shut down and then now I’m the blame I do yell and speak aggressive in between me tryna communicate but even when I’m not accused of doing so or accused of arguing or like to bicker when I’m only trying to express my feelings 😢
Liked subscribed and commented keep up the great work man 💪💪♥️💪💪
Thanks so much for the kind words!
- Coach Danny
Worth a Subscribe ✊🏼 Doesn’t work when one doesn’t have empathy ... some people just see it as foreign and weak ...,
Thank you for watching, Steve.
Coach Natalie
My bf is a narcissist… he has zero empathy towards me. I try so hard to communicate but he just turns the blame on me every time
That doesn't sound healthy at all, is he even willing to improve? Or if you brought that up would he just try to tell you you're the "problem"? If so you truely deserve better
Ouuf
Same here yet calls me one and yes I only want her to listen and I only want to be understood crickets I said we both can be understood
Thanks a lot man, this video is very helpful. Subscribed!
You're welcome, Daniel. Thank you for watching!
Coach Adrian
Excellent first point
Glad you think so!
Me and my partner have polar opposite communication styles. So, while I take more time to compose my thoughts and then come back to effectively communicate, he wants to instantly solve the problem. But the problem is, in the process of composing my thoughts I start to invalidate my feelings and hold myself accountable for starting obnoxious rifts between us and end up being distant towards him. It feels like a constant struggle because neither can I talk to him in the heat of the moment nor do I effectively do so later. This is causing a lot of issues in our relationship and I don't know how to resolve them. Appreciate the video!
I'm in a long distance relationship... Communication is tricky
I am having the same issues, lack of communication, im a very emotional person.
We are married for 12 years, and i still dont know him well.
How to make him happy, when to communicate, how to approach him, how to be romantic, i guess its too broken oevr the years.
Due to this, we still have no kids. We fail to connect
Wow
I want to communicate better
We hope this video was able to help you!
Gracias ☺️
Effective communication is so very important, thank you for this. I did a video as well on the importance of effective communication for healthy relationships.
If they can’t reciprocate good bye 👋 lmao
I find it hard to communicate with my partner because I grew up with no one to communicate with
What about better communication with bicultural relationships?
So true!
Thank you for watching, Jess!
Coach Adrian
Thank you!!
You're welcome. Thank you for watching Shayan.
Coach Adrian
What can I say to help her understand that her actions are putting up barriers between us ?
Thank you for this. My girl went on to state that this video was made specifically for me😂❤Thanks for the help
Glad I could help!
How do you communicate when you have ptsd and your communication skills shut down when in a heated discussion?
Is there a video on how to apply these? Like what does it look like? I'm gonna search videos for answers but I have a similar but different problem and I can't find anyone to help
Thank you for this amazing video
You're welcome Bridgette. Thank you for watching the video!
Coach Adrian
Thank you
You're welcome, Nevada.
Coach Adrian
YES YES YES !!
Thank you for watching!
Coach Adrian
Sick room bro
How much patience??? To what extant??? Partner does not set goals and dose not care about wasting time...
Thank you for watching the video. Please watch this video to understand when to give up or stop trying.
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Coach Adrian
I wish i would have seen this video earlier
hi im just new and i just want to share about my relationship is not going well i help like some tips of urs
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Coach Natalie
I found thiw video trying to imprive my relationship, 'cause sadly im very bad
My ex sucked at this. Guess she never watched this 😂 good video man.
I recently just got broken up from a 2 year relationship because I wasn’t listening that well. I was too busy focusing on Principals and getting revenge. About trying to make a point.
But both people HAVE to do the same, don’t they? Why is it what I’m hearing is always towards one person? How do we know who the one is to listen to this?
What if your running out of patience?
Why are there so many relationship coaches on UA-cam giving relationship advice but that are single?
Sometimes my partner gets upset. I always try to be supportive, but she gets annoyed by it. I don't know what to do. every single time she gets angry. She believes that I am not emotionally available. I really want to help. I want to understand her. but I fail every time. Help me, please.
Ask her what can you do or say that she prefers
i'm the one who keeps saying "u always do that" "u always don't do that" and nothing changes even is i say it a million times what should i do it makes us argue until we fight please respond
I know this is 3 years ago. But my best friend and partner are dealing with this. He shut down on me, because I reacted rather than took that step back. I want to be better. I want to communicate with him better. I react in my own emotions rather than stepping into his shoes. He said the volatile will break us. I don't want that. Please direct me into what books. WHERE can I continue to get help?
What about if I want to communication, He tells me he is not really good in communication
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My wife and I are to the point where I will be moving out of the house for some time to let her think and give her space. So I won’t be able to apply this method in that time frame. What should I do while we are living separate having two children?
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Coach Adrian
Very enlightening thank you
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Coach Adrian
Hey I'm 18 and I really need some advice, please respond to this.
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Coach Adrian
Hi! What advice were you looking for?
@@danielleanita4988 well it was 6 months ago, I really liked this girl and she kinda didn't wanted to be in a relationship but she liked me tho. Anyways I moved on so I don't think I need help anymore haha. I completely cut contact with the person so we good.
@@teenypi6960 Okay! I'm glad that it worked out for you!
Yes. Pride gets me in a bad place. I wish I had had cognitive BELIEFS that would keep me from being more lovable to my man from Virginia. I want to KNOW what these core beliefs are and replace them with BELIEFS that are good for my relationship with him. How to anticipate what we will go through to create them???
Am only 22 and am dating to improve, am I too young to focus on that?
Imma lose the best thing that ever to me becuase I can't communicate I just want her to drop it and lest go back to being happy.. not working tho
She keeps on doing things that I ask her not to, what can I say that will help her to understand me?
I have this hard time to my fiance . Like im trying to talk to him on somethings is just giving me a answer like nodding head and say okay or what ate you saying or what are you talking about. I really dont know how to talk like its so boring not talking . Also he dont like telling some story like sharing it with me. Is it normal that guy like this from america? He been like this since we meet . But now i realize that its looks so boring and i feel that he dont love me even i know he make time to come visit me in my country monthly , but when we are together we just have hugging or watching on phone without talking. Talking only for question.😢 so sad
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My boyfriend thinks it makes u weak to talk about feelings
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Coach Natalie
I tried to communicate several times. But it always goes wrong :( If your tips gonna help I ll be very thankful 😅
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Coach Adrian
@@HappilyCommitted I watched 👍 we both had so much fights and that caused him to change. He never like to share his feeling he never like to communicate about anything. When I asked him if you living the sake of living wd me then leave on that he replied OK. This is the he always hert me. I dnt understand what to do😞
My girl wont speak to me when she is sad. She cant explain why she is sad....
I know that must be hard to know what to do in those moments. But, you just being there for her is more than enough!
U looks so handsome
The "phone" lol again technology......
My ex didn't have any empathy.
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how do i send this to my boyfriend without sending it to my boyfriend
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Coach Natalie
Play at 1.75x.
Thanks.