Selena Gomez- Lose you to love me (s l o w e d + r e v e r b)

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  • i actually enjoyed this song and it's nice to see that selena has poured her whole feelings onto this song and i hope that everything runs smoothly in her life
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 624

  • @haydenrose3237
    @haydenrose3237 4 роки тому +2202

    “You promised the world and I fell for it” Felt that

  • @sweatpants7987
    @sweatpants7987 4 роки тому +5762

    "I saw the signs and i ignored it"
    -every blinded person in love 😢

    • @poopdrgqueen
      @poopdrgqueen 4 роки тому +15

      yup..

    • @anidiot4395
      @anidiot4395 4 роки тому +14

      can relate so damn much ..

    • @cynthiagrace8928
      @cynthiagrace8928 4 роки тому +139

      I thought you said ”every blind person” I was bout to say ”JAILLL💀💀💀”

    • @rynriss
      @rynriss 4 роки тому +1

      Big Mad um lol

    • @AllYellowJoshua
      @AllYellowJoshua 4 роки тому +1

      sweat Pants relate 💔😔💙

  • @vernon790
    @vernon790 3 роки тому +1344

    "I saw galaxy in his eyes, but it's shining for someone else"

  • @oswaldoaguirre9946
    @oswaldoaguirre9946 4 роки тому +4317

    When u make a sad song sadder :(

    • @zhanna3762
      @zhanna3762 4 роки тому +5

      😍

    • @emmaxekalaki5753
      @emmaxekalaki5753 3 роки тому +7

      🥺🥺🥺

    • @goxull07
      @goxull07 3 роки тому +4

      Fr 😩

    • @alonsogalde
      @alonsogalde 3 роки тому +4

      honestly this ain't sad at all, it's all healing n awakening for me, i say it's emotional

    • @notyours9776
      @notyours9776 Рік тому

      @@alonsogalde u guys listening to this song cuz yall depressed but i listen to wake me up i was fat bitch i lost a lot of waight now im building muscles u see guys this song just my life more than anyone this song is powerful so my massage is don't be dick be king I HOPE THIS MASSAGE CHANGE SOMEONE's LIFE CUZ ILL BE GLAD.

  • @nhamoua
    @nhamoua 4 роки тому +1948

    I swear songs that are slowed down are even more sad:) why do these always get me in my feels.

    • @madalyndelano2503
      @madalyndelano2503 4 роки тому +10

      I feel like when i listen to these songs that are slowed that i feel like ive been stabbed in the heart!!💔😥

    • @emmaxekalaki5753
      @emmaxekalaki5753 3 роки тому +1

      Sameee

    • @Chizuha_
      @Chizuha_ 3 роки тому

      Same..

    • @holaadi9390
      @holaadi9390 3 роки тому

      SAME HON

    • @puppzyjerry394
      @puppzyjerry394 2 роки тому +1

      Honestly it do hit when ur going thru it 😭

  • @thelasttimeitookashowerwas2652
    @thelasttimeitookashowerwas2652 4 роки тому +1696

    its crazy how we are listening to the same song but think about a different people

    • @rodrigopena3201
      @rodrigopena3201 3 роки тому +14

      damn

    • @iqarakhan4720
      @iqarakhan4720 3 роки тому +27

      Othne Tanoe I honestly listen to these without thinking of anyone I just love sad songs

    • @sirdushon
      @sirdushon 3 роки тому +2

      !!!

    • @MidnightSage-qe7kd
      @MidnightSage-qe7kd 3 роки тому +2

      Hannibal and Will...

    • @malak2146
      @malak2146 3 роки тому +4

      Dude! The last time u took a shower was 7 months!!

  • @dullqirl
    @dullqirl 3 роки тому +445

    𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙚..
    “ lyrics -
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    'Cause it wasn't yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose colored glasses all distorted
    Set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin'
    When it wasn't yours, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dance, it was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    Then you tore me down and now it's showing
    In two months, you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dance, it was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us
    *[thank you]*

  • @amiudcortez-delgado8950
    @amiudcortez-delgado8950 4 роки тому +826

    *This **-dance-** song is killing me softly*

    • @xoelleee
      @xoelleee 3 роки тому +7

      Omfg i was at that part and i exactly heard that😂

    • @pandapoo03
      @pandapoo03 3 роки тому +2

      Same

  • @user-pu8ve4jf7c
    @user-pu8ve4jf7c 4 роки тому +741

    the fact that almost all the world feels this song

  • @zoe9896
    @zoe9896 4 роки тому +5234

    don't hate on me but this sounds better .

    • @kaitlyn3802
      @kaitlyn3802 4 роки тому +63

      Yeah so true 🤣

    • @soniasunny7372
      @soniasunny7372 4 роки тому +224

      it sounds more sadder

    • @enviosiris7963
      @enviosiris7963 4 роки тому +141

      @@soniasunny7372 this is the reason for why my depressed-ass self loves it more 😅

    • @onlysoraya
      @onlysoraya 4 роки тому +22

      it sounds horrible 😭

    • @madalyndelano2503
      @madalyndelano2503 4 роки тому +24

      Its more sadder-- Anyone😥💔

  • @moonxlight__
    @moonxlight__ 4 роки тому +328

    This is the best/saddest slowed version of this song I have ever heard

  • @rumeysa0990
    @rumeysa0990 3 роки тому +139

    Not everyone can write a song like this. Pain is felt even when singing the song. This woman is strong..

  • @zoe9896
    @zoe9896 4 роки тому +1867

    nobody
    me : OH MY GOD IS THAT LANA

    • @benmoon575
      @benmoon575 4 роки тому +61

      thats the first thing i thought

    • @billiesfatass9581
      @billiesfatass9581 4 роки тому +24

      Is that all u came for- oml

    • @zoe9896
      @zoe9896 4 роки тому +31

      @@billiesfatass9581 yes andddd

    • @billiesfatass9581
      @billiesfatass9581 4 роки тому +14

      Daisy most people come here for the song only. It can annoy people sometimes

    • @jaybeee8744
      @jaybeee8744 4 роки тому +9

      YOOO I SAID THE SAME THING

  • @sanyahcooper7892
    @sanyahcooper7892 4 роки тому +375

    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off-key in my chorus
    'Cause it wasn't yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose-colored glasses all distorted
    Set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin'
    When it wasn't yours, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    You tore me down and now it's showing
    In two months you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    To love love, yeah
    To love love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us

  • @aasiyahp572
    @aasiyahp572 4 роки тому +295

    this song is so addictive god damn

  • @huniyaahmad8274
    @huniyaahmad8274 4 роки тому +511

    I'm not heartbroken or anything, I'm just sad

    • @Chizuha_
      @Chizuha_ 3 роки тому +1

      same..

    • @studyigcse
      @studyigcse 3 роки тому +1

      same.

    • @hamdi5515
      @hamdi5515 3 роки тому +4

      i am not sad but this is really soothing like i am not even thinking about all the over due assignments and 2 tests i have to do today :/

    • @mariazaman7312
      @mariazaman7312 3 роки тому +1

      Me too💜

    • @nihel2117
      @nihel2117 3 роки тому

      Then u are lucky, and u just need to know how to live in between. cuz u can't find happiness until u taste the bitterness of the sadness

  • @indiee
    @indiee 3 роки тому +71

    "The chapter is close and done."
    Why does this hit me with a wave of emotions so hard wtf

  • @dianaalvarez2224
    @dianaalvarez2224 4 роки тому +188

    “it’s gonna be okay”

    • @dianaalvarez2224
      @dianaalvarez2224 3 роки тому +10

      damn it’s been 2 months, but i’m doing better!! Still not over him, but he’s happy!! I’m starting to realize my worth. It’s going to get better guys. Don’t lose hope :)❤️ Wish every single one of y’all the best

    • @katiehodgson6425
      @katiehodgson6425 3 роки тому +5

      @@dianaalvarez2224 wish you the best too ❤

    • @ashleymorton6570
      @ashleymorton6570 3 роки тому +2

      @@dianaalvarez2224 aw this is so cute. Hope you’re doing well

    • @natashaaaa7726
      @natashaaaa7726 3 роки тому +1

      he sent me “happy valentines lol single valentines” 🥺 i think i really lost him now

  • @aiyanaw420
    @aiyanaw420 4 роки тому +103

    I’m happy that Selena Gomez is making new music now

  • @biggay1690
    @biggay1690 4 роки тому +697

    Selena: you set fire to my forest and you let it burn
    Amazon forest: am i a joke to you?

    • @msyerim
      @msyerim 4 роки тому +8

      Big Gay she says purpose not forest lol

    • @belencarrasco9716
      @belencarrasco9716 4 роки тому +3

      @@msyerim oop-

    • @urmomisms
      @urmomisms 3 роки тому +7

      ms. yerim no she actually said forest-

    • @pandapoo03
      @pandapoo03 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @taesoreomcflurry2845
      @taesoreomcflurry2845 3 роки тому +10

      In behind the lyrics, it actually mentions the forest fires.

  • @mackobrien1606
    @mackobrien1606 4 роки тому +249

    me and my ex dated for almost three months, not that long, i know, but he pressured me into saying i love you WAY too early. i really did see the signs, and i really did ignore them. there were so many red flags from the start. i never got butterflies when we kissed or did anything together, and he got very distant a month into the relationship. of course, i liked him, but it just felt so off. i decided to break things off after multiple people were telling me he was going to publicly break up with me. i did it one morning before our classes started. i did it privately and i wasn't rude about it in any way. i then later found out he was going around telling people he "got what he wanted so it didn't matter if we ended or not anyways", and that he only "used me for head". he was going around spreading nasty things about me, about my BODY. he told people i smelled bad down there, and said things i don't even want to repeat. he called me controlling and told the guys in our grade to not date me. he completely tore down my confidence. i'm not longer comfortable in my own body, and i often feel disgusted with myself. i'm scared that nobody will ever like me again, and that i have no chance with anyone anymore. my entire self worth has been shattered by him. this song means so much to me, and i can relate with every single lyric in it. i really did need to lose him to start loving myself again.

    • @munibahq19
      @munibahq19 4 роки тому +28

      I'm so sorry this happened to you. Sending my love and positive vibes 💗

    • @mackobrien1606
      @mackobrien1606 4 роки тому +5

      @@munibahq19 thank you

    • @tinketywinkety5714
      @tinketywinkety5714 4 роки тому +15

      That guy should like a garbage human and you are worth so much

    • @Leah-iz4hs
      @Leah-iz4hs 4 роки тому +15

      that guys is called a dickhead :) love yourself dont let him bring you down your worth so much more

    • @Rainjojo
      @Rainjojo 3 роки тому +11

      You’re a beautiful person with an amazing personality, that garbage doesn’t deserve someone like you ❤️

  • @samahatimebye
    @samahatimebye 3 роки тому +43

    these lines make me think about me and my friendship with my toxic friend
    "I put you first and you adored it".
    ''I saw the signs but I ignored it''.
    ''I gave my all and they all know it''.
    ''Two months you replaced us, like it was easy made me think I deserved it.

  • @abigailsmith8841
    @abigailsmith8841 3 роки тому +14

    Thankful God’s Love healed me from this type of pain - from every pain. His Love is better than everything❤️

    • @ameliowest132
      @ameliowest132 3 роки тому +4

      Couldnt have said it better ❤️

  • @milk5055
    @milk5055 3 роки тому +33

    The worst thing that can ever possibly happen to a human being is when someone crushes your soul to a point that you cannot breathe. The pain is overwhelming and chest crushingly horrible. We, as human, feel so much but this pain is something much different.

  • @Reeree0219
    @Reeree0219 4 роки тому +69

    “And now the chapter is closed and done....& now it’s goodbye it’s goodbye for us” 🥺🥺🥺

  • @delulubich
    @delulubich 4 роки тому +232

    Could you image:
    Dating someone and then breaking up with to figure out 2 months later your ex is getting married.
    Donating your Kidney.
    *And still getting hate* 😔😭.

    • @lolamichelle2953
      @lolamichelle2953 4 роки тому +8

      Shook Asf she never donated a kidney, I-

    • @kodiek7875
      @kodiek7875 4 роки тому +5

      Lola Michelle she did donate a kidney but to her friend not an ex

    • @honeymoonave1232
      @honeymoonave1232 4 роки тому +29

      Kodie K her friend donated her kidney to Selena

    • @tiffanytwo2652
      @tiffanytwo2652 3 роки тому +4

      bro why do people think this is for justin, lets not make him everything please, this is about our queen sel 😔🖐️

  • @username6089
    @username6089 3 роки тому +32

    when you haven't experienced love but still feel a connection to this song.....idk why or how but it is what it is

  • @yourfav904
    @yourfav904 2 роки тому +4

    this song helps me cope with sexual abuse trauma thx

  • @sh0y412
    @sh0y412 4 роки тому +59

    "I needed to lose you to love me" *ouch* 🥺

  • @narsismanafi3745
    @narsismanafi3745 4 роки тому +26

    listening to this at 3 am rlly hits different

  • @elenavlogs6445
    @elenavlogs6445 4 роки тому +86

    this hit me in so many ways.

  • @mariaclararocha1303
    @mariaclararocha1303 3 роки тому +3

    Oh.. it hits differently 💔

  • @keiradarlow3102
    @keiradarlow3102 4 роки тому +153

    And I’m crying again 🥴

  • @sorrowache
    @sorrowache 3 роки тому +11

    “you promised the world i fell for it.”
    that hit ngl 🥺

  • @anaisvargas1235
    @anaisvargas1235 4 роки тому +152

    I’m dedicating this song to all my Oreo cookies that I somehow managed to stop buying to get a healthy lifestyle 😂
    I needed to lose you to love me 💔

    • @danieljack6453
      @danieljack6453 2 роки тому +1

      Tell me you are single without telling me your single

  • @jaebandzz7827
    @jaebandzz7827 3 роки тому +31

    me and my bf broke up a few days ago . the relationship was very toxic, we would always get into arguments, we broke up multiple times and got back together, he liked other girls while we were together, etc. he promised he wouldn’t leave and we were gonna be “forever” but clearly that wasn’t true.. i noticed that he would always tell me how pretty i was and how he the prettiest gf and yeah i get that’s cute but i feel like that’s the only think he liked about me, he never told me how he loved my personality or anything. it was always about my face and my body. he told me how he was so loyal and he was never gonna leave but would always talk about his ex and other girls while we were texting or talking. it did hurt me but i never said anything because i didn’t wanna lose him, i loved him so much. But now it’s a few days later and i already found my self worth, likeee girlll im fucking gorgeous...idc what anyone has to say. AND BITCHHH GUESS WHATTTTT....i did it without him.
    remember that you need to love yourself before anyone else.
    edit: i got back with him 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Lara-wp2lw
      @Lara-wp2lw 3 роки тому +8

      Howwww girlllllll i cry and when i read the end i-

    • @vic174
      @vic174 3 роки тому +2

      THE EDIT NO -

    • @bunch3008
      @bunch3008 2 роки тому +2

      Your edit ruin my whole mood💀

    • @aya-_-3045
      @aya-_-3045 2 роки тому

      why in the world would you get back with him after all of that? this guy doesn’t care about you, love you or respect you. there’s so many good guys out there that would actually respect you but instead ur wasting ur time with this asshole. at this point, you’re just hurting yourself girl. so good luck with that

  • @anta7394
    @anta7394 4 роки тому +66

    Who's listening to this in Quarantine.

  • @mariamdialloip9089
    @mariamdialloip9089 3 роки тому +12

    that crazy how people lie every time wen they in a situation ..
    but that phrase hit different*I needed to lose you to find me*

  • @aireen9283
    @aireen9283 3 роки тому +4

    I feel the pain in her voice

  • @c.hrissa
    @c.hrissa 4 роки тому +24

    19.07.14 - 18.07.19
    This dancing was killing me softly

  • @sema2796
    @sema2796 3 роки тому +5

    I'm always here :')

  • @jemimah0863
    @jemimah0863 4 роки тому +47

    Im yawning and crying at the same time when listening this version

  • @thatoneperson9103
    @thatoneperson9103 4 роки тому +124

    Here and you are killing it ❤️

    • @aestheticg8681
      @aestheticg8681  4 роки тому +15

      That one Person thank you love youuu🥺🥺

  • @gemmaaloll2961
    @gemmaaloll2961 3 роки тому +3

    " I needed to lose you to love me 🥺 "

  • @bryson5504
    @bryson5504 4 роки тому +330

    My question is why is it Lana

  • @makenzie3610
    @makenzie3610 3 роки тому +7

    you know, i really liked this guy a few months ago even though we don't talk that much or anything and when i listened to this song for the first time I realized there were all these songs he didn't like me and I was going down with it and i realized that I did need to move on and lose that to remember who I am and that I deserve someone who feels the same way about me that I do them, so i wish i could thank her for helping me when not even knowing it

  • @emiliogomez806
    @emiliogomez806 3 роки тому +8

    Their needs to be a whole new era of slowed & reverb songs. It hits the soul different❤

  • @lanniechua2670
    @lanniechua2670 3 роки тому +1

    "you promised the world and i fell for it". "i saw the signs, and i ignored it". sigh, i should've listened to my gut feeling. :(

  • @bellah-oi7dm
    @bellah-oi7dm 4 роки тому +23

    “I saw the signs, and I ignored it.”
    “you promised the world and fell for it..”
    Loving people is to hard for me :T

  • @cymbalbrutz4909
    @cymbalbrutz4909 3 роки тому +5

    Whos Here on Valentins-Day?😔

  • @ilovegreenthea8909
    @ilovegreenthea8909 4 роки тому +17

    this song is so sad and it let me think about everything..

  • @Crolls12093
    @Crolls12093 3 роки тому +3

    My favourite part is when she says “to love love to love” I’m OBSESSED 😭

  • @ClaytonEShipe
    @ClaytonEShipe 3 роки тому +3

    LANAAAA!😫💅🥺

  • @kasheeizzhere5202
    @kasheeizzhere5202 3 роки тому +3

    I feel that sting on my chest again when i get a sudden depression wave....i like it and ive kinda missed it.

  • @laila-marie1997
    @laila-marie1997 3 роки тому +9

    Never has a song opened up my heart as much as this one

  • @elenavlogs6445
    @elenavlogs6445 4 роки тому +44

    0:58 so fk true.

  • @gracemerrett1404
    @gracemerrett1404 3 роки тому +4

    "you promised the world and I fell for it"

  • @lxphh9375
    @lxphh9375 2 роки тому +3

    “I gave my all and they all know it
    You turned me down and now it's showing
    In two months, you replaced us”felt that..

  • @irimirsua2211
    @irimirsua2211 2 роки тому +2

    This will make a true selenator cry

  • @Gettrolledlol1
    @Gettrolledlol1 4 роки тому +14

    losing someone is very very hurtful
    but losing yourself is worser
    keep your head up ily ❤️

    • @corriearcade60
      @corriearcade60 Рік тому

      Losing someone u love is worse than losing urself who u may not love

    • @Gettrolledlol1
      @Gettrolledlol1 Рік тому

      @@corriearcade60 excuse me what?

    • @corriearcade60
      @corriearcade60 Рік тому

      @@Gettrolledlol1 I meant, losing someone u love is worse then losing yourself, Cus that person could complete ur life, also if you don’t love yourself then it won’t make difference losing yourself

    • @Gettrolledlol1
      @Gettrolledlol1 Рік тому

      @@corriearcade60 broskie. Respectfully stfu. Losing yourself while losing a person will lead you to kill yourself if you aren’t careful. Bye- losing yourself is worser then losing someone.

    • @corriearcade60
      @corriearcade60 Рік тому

      @@Gettrolledlol1 but what if u care sm bout someone

  • @user-fb3jl8ey4c
    @user-fb3jl8ey4c 3 роки тому +5

    when i listened to this song i remembered my bff... this song is very emotional...

  • @rachetanarwal2399
    @rachetanarwal2399 4 роки тому +17

    The songs sounds so much better when you're thinking about someone

  • @aishwaryasinghhhh
    @aishwaryasinghhhh 2 роки тому +3

    "i saw the signs and i ignored it" i did that with every guy i liked and i ended up getting hurt so badly... Even now :(

  • @fatma4576
    @fatma4576 4 роки тому +9

    the amount of times i’ve listened to this is insane

  • @kaitlyn7956
    @kaitlyn7956 2 роки тому +3

    i had a toxic best friend (lets call her ella) we did everything together, i mean we became best friends when we were 7 & 8. i thought we had the *perfect* friendship, but it was the opposite of that. i thought it was normal for a friend to call you fat and ugly, she brainwashed me into thinking we had an amazing friendship.
    a few years ago one of my older best friends asked me how ella and i's friendship was doing, and i told her about all the things we did together, and even told her that she called me names, i thought it was funny, but when she didn't laugh, and instead frowned and hugged me, i knew something was wrong.
    she said that ella was a bad friend, and that i needed to get her out of my life. i was just in 6th grade, and confused. so i didn't drop her, and let her control me. it hurt me so fucking bad, i started to get anxiety and stopped eating because i thought i needed to lose weight, because of how much she called me fat.
    finally in 7th grade i dropped her, and i became happy but something just felt wrong. so i went back to her, a few months later i dropped her again, and then 3 weeks later we were friends again.
    we went back and forth for 2 years, then when COVID happened, i realized that i *needed* to drop her, otherwise i would just hurt more, and she would control me more. so i dropped her, and finally found myself.
    i realized that i was beautiful, and i was bisexual (she told me that i was straight, and only that). then COVID got even worse, and my mental health got worse, and i started to self-harm and stopped eating again.
    but what i did next i regret...
    i went back to her, she told me she had changed, and she was a better person. dumb 13 year old me believed her, and we were friend again.
    at first she was a different person, in a good way, and i thought she really changed.
    we then went into high school together, and she was sweet and i thought that a break was all we needed.
    then, she did something that i will never forget....
    she hit me when we got into a fight.
    that's when it hit me, she didn't change.
    she manipulated me.
    in that moment i didn't have time to cry, i just ran off and shouted
    "NEVER TALK TO ME AGAIN"
    now, i am going to be 15 in 3 days, and am happy as ever. at first it hurt me because i was left with all the memories she left me with, but i didn't let that stop me.
    to everyone who has a toxic friend
    leave them, don't trust them, they may say they have changed, but they didn't and it may hurt for a few weeks after leaving them, but it is best for you
    love you !!
    - kaitlyn

  • @ceecee3519
    @ceecee3519 3 роки тому +2

    This dancing was killing me softly..

  • @jaimoore514
    @jaimoore514 4 роки тому +15

    i really love this song especially this version 🤧

  • @estelle9009
    @estelle9009 3 роки тому +2

    I will always adore you my love even if we've let go

  • @Itsme-mak
    @Itsme-mak 3 роки тому +3

    “I need too lose you too find me “
    I can relate 💔

  • @charlottedoesstuff9274
    @charlottedoesstuff9274 3 роки тому +3

    *"We'd always go into it blindly"*
    That hit HOME

  • @catn_p
    @catn_p 4 роки тому +22

    Idk why but every time I hear this song, I start to cry. :(. It reminds me of when my crush said he didn’t like anyone.... because of what happened.... 💔💔

  • @karlotta7629
    @karlotta7629 3 роки тому +3

    "I needed to loose you to find me"
    But how how can I find myself?
    Do I first have to loose someone?
    Someone I truly love?
    Or do I really love that Person?
    Do we hurt each other by leaving?
    But when I leave will I really find myself?
    Or do I let this Person go and will regret it?
    I dont know.
    I never will.
    I just know that I dont know who i am at the moment and If it means to let someone go,
    someone I truly love,
    I will do It.
    Sorry I had to get that of my chest :)

  • @jihyunchwe
    @jihyunchwe 4 роки тому +45

    this is exactly what i need 😭❤

  • @sanchh
    @sanchh 3 роки тому +1

    Oh god..this song is already a sad song and you made it more sadder👀🥺

  • @rileysworld9344
    @rileysworld9344 2 роки тому +2

    " you tore me down and now it's showing " i felt that

  • @princessstaana5259
    @princessstaana5259 3 роки тому +7

    the line that hit different to me:
    "and now the chapter is closed and done"
    "and now it's goodbye it's goodbye for us"
    im crying...

  • @nikkizaa4812
    @nikkizaa4812 3 роки тому +7

    “I needed to lose you to find me”
    When you still love that person but you need to let go just to find yourself.

  • @jena2097
    @jena2097 4 роки тому +7

    i need this on soundcloud / spotify 😫

  • @skye8546
    @skye8546 4 роки тому +6

    u promised the world and i fell for it

  • @user-gw6vp3gz1p
    @user-gw6vp3gz1p 4 роки тому +33

    In love 😭❤️

  • @lobosleones9232
    @lobosleones9232 3 роки тому +2

    i had thought that i had found the one last year in october and everyday i’d look forward to living life with the person and eventually we reached a point of facetiming everynight and reminding each other of how much we “loved” each other in the moment i was in love with him and adored his town and friends but he cheated and emotionally led me on and abused me though and it was not until may that i found someone that is actually there for me and truly helped me grasp the concept of what a loving person is i don’t know where i’d be without this person because they have truly always been there for me and everyday i wake up truly happy again, he’s the best thing that has ever happened to me and everyday i’m still getting better and healing from that past because of him :,)

  • @parkersmessages3038
    @parkersmessages3038 4 роки тому +42

    “I needed hate you love me”
    - deep dude

  • @zoyeah28
    @zoyeah28 2 роки тому +6

    this song makes me sad about the breakup I've never had

  • @marielove4459
    @marielove4459 Рік тому +2

    I needed to lose you to love me

    • @jamessmith5748
      @jamessmith5748 Місяць тому +1

      Why do you lose so many important people?! 😢

    • @marielove4459
      @marielove4459 Місяць тому

      @@jamessmith5748 lessons .

  • @andreiofficial5231
    @andreiofficial5231 2 роки тому +3

    Slowed Reverbs Really Hits Different Makes You Feel Real.

  • @rianamaria7045
    @rianamaria7045 4 роки тому +22

    I need to think about my crush while hearing this, and it hurts cause he lives almost 2 1/2 hours from here away😫

  • @breegonzales13
    @breegonzales13 3 роки тому +7

    This song is basically me.😅
    😭😭😭🥺

  • @yoonbred
    @yoonbred 4 роки тому +6

    First thing that came to my head was Reddie, I am now CRYING they deserve everything 🥺

  • @lxna4608
    @lxna4608 4 роки тому +12

    whoever is reading this:
    I get that the reasons that we’re here may be different. But I think that we also have something in common, we both feel empty, and wish we could be *happy* again.

    • @lxna4608
      @lxna4608 3 роки тому

      nini i’m not. i’m really not but tysm nobody ever tells me this :(

  • @jalkrutimehta5945
    @jalkrutimehta5945 3 роки тому +2

    This feels different in the middle of the night, Rain and thunderstorms. Facts.

  • @nicolethomas8533
    @nicolethomas8533 4 роки тому +4

    “You promised the world and i fell for it” life is great right?!

  • @jamessmith5748
    @jamessmith5748 Місяць тому

    This is very beautiful music. This is real elite music. ❤

  • @Whatariot
    @Whatariot 2 роки тому +4

    IS NOBODY GONNA SAY HOW AMAZING LANA LOOKS???

  • @nadiakhan5159
    @nadiakhan5159 2 роки тому +1

    This Song Killing Me Softly..🖤✨

  • @jjkeuphoric5524
    @jjkeuphoric5524 2 роки тому

    Killing me softly :(
    Hits me so hardd

  • @alexisway6088
    @alexisway6088 4 роки тому +6

    i got chills

  • @antoniapusu9885
    @antoniapusu9885 4 роки тому +22

    this hits different when you have to cut a toxic friend off so you can evolve

  • @tinaolivares8978
    @tinaolivares8978 3 роки тому

    This is so much more emotional

  • @syama-gauri7117
    @syama-gauri7117 3 роки тому +3

    The goosebumps are so intense...

  • @ivanakayana6074
    @ivanakayana6074 2 роки тому +2

    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us