Autistics and ADHDers in media because I am and I wanted to do it.

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  • @fairyb0ii
    @fairyb0ii  6 місяців тому +57

    Read this:
    I decided to do this video because I am an AuDHDer (and dyslexic/dyscalculic) myself and wanted to show some representation.
    Personally, I don't like the Sheldon representation (too stereotypical), but I put him in the video because he is canonically autistic.
    I also put some of my headcanons, but remember that they are headcanons therefore they aren't confirmed by the author.
    If I made some mistakes (ex. I didn't know one of my headcanons has been confirmed), tell me.
    This video has not medical/psychological purposes, if you think you might be on the spectrum, do some research and go for a diagnosis.
    The last few things: ADHD and autism are not illnesses, but they are neurodivelopment conditions.
    Ok, Bye💜♾️✨️

    • @Melaniesaccount
      @Melaniesaccount 2 місяці тому

      Okay. Also, I didn't know you like Bluey, Sesame Street and MLP:FIM.

  • @pemanilnoob
    @pemanilnoob 3 місяці тому +16

    4:13 Yooo!!!! I agree!!! Belos is so autistic!!! And I’m glad you didn’t feel afraid to headcanon an evil villain as such!! So many people are like “they’re a bad guy, calling them autistic is harmful!” Which itself is ableist to say!!
    PREACH!!! I love Belos’ character, he’s so fun to watch

  • @a.k.pedroza224
    @a.k.pedroza224 6 місяців тому +64

    Funny how yesterday I got diagnosed with ADHD, after aparently living with it with 20 years, and now I realize why I felt Luz was so relatable

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  6 місяців тому +10

      I've been diagnosed with autism, ADHD, dyslexia and dyscalculia a year ago and now I feel understood. I'm glad you finally understood your traits and characteristics. ❤️

  • @jennysanimations4181
    @jennysanimations4181 5 місяців тому +26

    I was diagnosed with ADHD/ADD when I was 13 in 2017, three weeks ago I got diagnosed with autism and I'm 20, yet I never really connect with the characters a lot. I wish there was more representation for autistics who are masking since childhood and people are surprised they're autistic

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  5 місяців тому +7

      @@jennysanimations4181 In "Heartbrak High" Quinni explains that she is autistic and the other person didn't know, but yeah, a few autistic people are represented well. I'm working on a project where the main character is a AuDHD boy which has been masking for a long time.

  • @SomeNuerodiverseGuy
    @SomeNuerodiverseGuy 6 місяців тому +40

    never heard the term ADHDer before this..... makes sense why it's already easy for me to pronounce lol!

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  6 місяців тому +13

      I learnt this term when I got diagnosed. When someone speaks about their disability they can do it in 2 ways: identity first or person first.
      Person first language: "I have a disability and it doesn't completely define me. "
      Ex. "I have depression", "person with ADHD", etc...
      Identity first language: "my disability is part of my identity."
      Ex. "I am autistic", "I am an ADHDer", "she is bipolar", etc...
      The language a person uses is their choice.
      When I talk about my autism, ADHD, dyslexia and dyscalculia I prefer the identity first language, because I was born with these conditions and they influence everything in my life: the way I think, the way I laugh, the way I learn, and without them I wouldn't be myself anymore. I also prefer this language because they are not illnesses but neurodevelopmental conditions.
      When I talk about my mental health issues I prefer the person first language, because my illness doesn't define me and I wasn't born with it.
      So this is why I used the term ADHDer.
      Hope this is helpful. Bye.❤️

    • @SomeNuerodiverseGuy
      @SomeNuerodiverseGuy 6 місяців тому +3

      @@fairyb0ii in my case it's both, lol.... the word nuerodiverse means both? *confused screaming*

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  6 місяців тому +2

      @@SomeNuerodiverseGuy Neurodiverse means that every mind is different. Two autistic people are different. Even two neurotypical people are different.
      Neurodivergent is a political term and is referred to every mind that differ from what's considered typical.
      ADHD is a specific condition.

  • @kk_artist5446
    @kk_artist5446 5 місяців тому +33

    Bro when I saw Lucifer I was like “THEY NOTICED!!! IM NOT THE ONLY ONE!!”

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  5 місяців тому +4

      @@kk_artist5446 3 days ago I made a video where I explain my headcanon 💜

    • @preppygurloffical
      @preppygurloffical 5 місяців тому +1

      @@fairyb0ii Red has Headcanon ADHD and blue has Headcanon Autism

  • @Proudtoberoady
    @Proudtoberoady 6 місяців тому +30

    I'm not autistic but I really hate loud noise it really triggers me

    • @Not_a_Norm1e
      @Not_a_Norm1e 5 місяців тому +4

      You could have Misophonia.

    • @preppygurloffical
      @preppygurloffical 5 місяців тому +3

      Same here

    • @tearensills4874
      @tearensills4874 5 місяців тому +1

      Sounds like you have anxiety

    • @Not_a_Norm1e
      @Not_a_Norm1e 5 місяців тому +2

      @@tearensills4874 I don't think anxiety causes noise discomfort.

    • @inf1n1typlus1
      @inf1n1typlus1 4 місяці тому +2

      Same and TEXTURES. OMG TEXTURES. I can’t eat so much food bc it has a weird texture. In fact every day for the last 10 years I’ve had the exact same lunch lol (PB+J, apple slices and pretzels…one time my dad packed my lunch and switched the apple slices’ and pretzels’ positions in my lunchbox and I got mad 😭😭😭)

  • @preppygurloffical
    @preppygurloffical 5 місяців тому +9

    My headcanons!
    Blue - Autism (Colourblocks)
    Red - Adhder (Colourblocks)
    O - Nonverbal Autism (Alphablocks)
    Tig - Autism (Wooly and Tig)

  • @Ashington_78
    @Ashington_78 5 місяців тому +14

    I freaking love shaun murphy i always related to him ironic how i found out im a Neurodivigent thanks to him

  • @inf1n1typlus1
    @inf1n1typlus1 4 місяці тому +8

    6:08 TRANS FLAG TRANS FLAG TRANS FLAG

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  4 місяці тому +4

      @@inf1n1typlus1 OMG I didn't notice it

  • @antwholoveslightbulb
    @antwholoveslightbulb 5 місяців тому +10

    I don’t think this one’s canon, but I think it might be implied that Sierra (TDI) is autistic

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  5 місяців тому +6

      I watched Total Drama but I never thought Sierra might be autistic. I'll read something on reddit, tumblr, etc... because I'm curious

    • @antwholoveslightbulb
      @antwholoveslightbulb 5 місяців тому +2

      @@fairyb0ii alr!

  • @Tori1409
    @Tori1409 Місяць тому

    1:08 Max is from the movie Mary & Max.

  • @ButteredBread201
    @ButteredBread201 4 місяці тому +3

    1:15 I'm pretty sure he's from 'Mary & Max'

  • @I_a_Dumb
    @I_a_Dumb 6 місяців тому +11

    Video molto interessante!!! ❤
    Anche i gli headcanon!!

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  6 місяців тому +4

      Grazie mille ❤️

    • @I_a_Dumb
      @I_a_Dumb 6 місяців тому +4

      @@fairyb0ii prego!!! ❤️ Sai io adoro video del genere!!!

  • @DisaterTwinsLeeandDee
    @DisaterTwinsLeeandDee 5 місяців тому +4

    Nobody:
    Me: *still waiting for Rise Donnie*

  • @esmerulituli8780
    @esmerulituli8780 5 місяців тому +2

    I really love Sheldon Cooper, god

  • @VectorZero
    @VectorZero 2 місяці тому +1

    Well know I know that most of my favorite characters are like me.
    YIPPEE
    (Also I have AuDHD so yeah this is cool)
    :)

  • @teachugger
    @teachugger Місяць тому

    I’m a AAA battery (Autism, ADHD, and Anxiety) Luz always felt a bit relatable.

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  Місяць тому

      @@teachugger I love the term "AAA battery".

  • @Biancalovestosew98
    @Biancalovestosew98 Місяць тому +1

    I’m autistic♾️❤️

  • @Tanthestickmanisback
    @Tanthestickmanisback 25 днів тому

    Why am I not there, also I'm making my own object show and some characters have adhd

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  25 днів тому

      @@Tanthestickmanisback Cool. What's your show's name?
      I'm writing a comic and the main themes are autism, ADHD, bullying, toxic relationships, self discovery, mental health.

    • @Tanthestickmanisback
      @Tanthestickmanisback 23 дні тому

      Mine is kinda like yours, but no self discovery, just some shenanigans and scary adventures, and some drama, but I think the official name shall be... Still thinking of it, thought of it yesterday

  • @friofrost09
    @friofrost09 Місяць тому

    2:41 I thought I was the only who brings legos in my backpack. Actually they're Minifigures but same principle. I'm autistic btw

  • @preppygurloffical
    @preppygurloffical 3 місяці тому

    My autism headcanons!
    Blue (Colourblocks)
    Tig (Wooly and tig bonus points fir being in my childhood)
    Da Vinci (101 DS)
    (I forgot some lol)

  • @honeycrisppineapplegames7430
    @honeycrisppineapplegames7430 Місяць тому

    Nimona has ptsd and depression. I can see that in the movie

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  Місяць тому

      @@honeycrisppineapplegames7430 She does, but I think she is ADHD too

  • @KevinCaudle-vh8qj
    @KevinCaudle-vh8qj 2 місяці тому +1

    Amazing Video

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  2 місяці тому

      @@KevinCaudle-vh8qj thank u

  • @Hydra299OSC
    @Hydra299OSC 5 місяців тому +3

    I didn’t know fluttershy was autistic

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  5 місяців тому +6

      @@Hydra299OSC Unfortunately It's not canon.🥹
      "Headcanon" is a term that refers to something a fan of a book/film/comic/cartoon/ecc... imagines to be true with or without proofs.
      When I make a headcanon I always notice the characters traits, and I noticed autistic traits in her. One day I'm going to explain why I think she might be autistic, but it's just my opinion as an autistic person myself.

    • @Hydra299OSC
      @Hydra299OSC 5 місяців тому

      @@fairyb0ii ohhhhhhh ok

  • @keipe008
    @keipe008 3 місяці тому

    max is from mary and max :) i have yet to watch it but it seems like a good movie

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  3 місяці тому

      @@keipe008 Thank you for the title. I have to watch it too and I think it is good.

  • @Luna-Moon.UnderFNAF
    @Luna-Moon.UnderFNAF 3 місяці тому +1

    Am I the only one who headcanon Moxxie Autisticand Millie ADHD?

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  3 місяці тому +1

      @@Luna-Moon.UnderFNAF I thought about them too, but I'm not completely sure about it. Maybe I'll put them in the part 2♾️❤️🌈

  • @preppygurloffical
    @preppygurloffical 3 місяці тому

    My adhd headcanons
    Jack russel (Bluey may be nit canon yet)
    Red (Colourblocks)

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  3 місяці тому

      @@preppygurloffical Jack is canon. But in Bluey I think Bluey and Muffin could be neurodivergent as well (Bluey ADHD, Muffin autism and ADHD).

    • @preppygurloffical
      @preppygurloffical 3 місяці тому

      @@fairyb0ii Did you check out my ADHD headcanon for Red yet

    • @fairyb0ii
      @fairyb0ii  3 місяці тому

      @@preppygurloffical I did but I didn't find if it's canon 😭

    • @preppygurloffical
      @preppygurloffical 3 місяці тому

      @@fairyb0ii Maybe ur looking at the wrong episodes

  • @autismwithnyaharty
    @autismwithnyaharty 3 місяці тому

    I am a level 1 high functioning autistic person with Sensory processing disorder,bilateral coordination disorder.

  • @mariasocorrodesaguedesdeod6778
    @mariasocorrodesaguedesdeod6778 2 місяці тому +1

    I THINK I have autism too, yay!!

  • @darkangel9104
    @darkangel9104 5 місяців тому +9

    Im autistic and dyslexia i feel different at normal people i don't fit in world i see world different at others loud noises or noises bother me and lights i don't like few foods or smells i love characters at are autistic and autism and adhd in movies and shows