As a twenty year old, recently graduated architect. this video presents a thought-provoking perspective on how societal shifts and changing dynamics are influencing the timing and nature of personal growth and maturation experiences across different generations. I hear you ladies mentioning how you were at twenty and here I am thinking those were my experiences at 16. The idea of "living life" can be quite puzzling, particularly in light of the concepts highlighted in this discussion. The notion that getting married and starting a family might not align with the idea of living life, but instead be viewed as restrictive, raises thought-provoking considerations. Why is the act of settling down often depicted as something reserved for after one has supposedly experienced the pinnacle of "living life"? This perspective overlooks the possibility that for some, a rich and rewarding life could involve journeying with a partner, sharing growth, exploring the world together, and collaboratively constructing a meaningful life together. Possibly, the acceleration in personal growth could be attributed to shifts in societal dynamics and influences. Alternatively, it might arise from the open-minded perspective nurtured by my upbringing. I was fortunate to be raised in an environment that doesn't prescribe a strict timeline or a set formula for living life. There's no universal script that everyone must adhere to, and the pace at which we progress varies-some move swiftly, while others take their time. It's not a race, nor is it a sluggish journey. It doesn't necessitate following a predetermined sequence of events. Interestingly, considering the life of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), we see that the women he married were diverse in every conceivable aspect: age, ethnicity, race, and prior relationship status. *They were at different stages of their life.* My intention isn't to criticize, but rather to express that your viewpoints, although appreciated, appear to be influenced by limited perspectives and personal inclinations. I acknowledge that biases are inevitable in decision-making, but to some extent... This contemplation unveils how we may have unconsciously or consciously embraced flawed elements of third-wave feminism, potentially giving rise to a mindset that portrays settling down as a subsequent step following the presumed completion of "living life" in its entirety. I am not married, nor am I looking to get married, not because I feel I am too young, but because I don't want to restrict myself by setting a specific time for it; you called her a baby girl. What if what she wants is to be someone's baby girl?
20 year old is not so young...it depends on the level of maturity she has...if she believes she has the right reasons and intentions to get marrried then tell your mother the reasons why he is a good candidate to marry. For example, if he has good akhlaq( character) and deen( rightuous religious guy) i believe he doesn't even need to be financially waaw if he already has those traits. However, this guy has his own business. Like what more could you possibly ask for. Its that cherry on top. So i don't see any good reason to reject him. And i don't be in the sex and the city ideologies...i think that 'live your life before your get married' ideology is not necessarily the right way to go... who said you aint living your life whislt being married like c'mon marriage is a blessing...a gift from Allah that we need to be thankful for.... I wanted to write more but..i am too lazy to type anymore... nevertheless, i love you kaltun snd hodo...love from your somali sister❤❤❤❤
Love the crazy stories you guys put out we need more , I might come one day on your channel to tell you a crazy story about a Somali guy he was never like any other Somali his story is very shocking 😂
The thing about HPV is that men can carry it and pass it to women even if they do not show symptoms of or . HPV is a virus that can be undetectable in men for years , as for women , it is quicker to identify and signs and symptoms show much much faster. So you really can’t pinpoint where or who she contracted it from , unfortunately.
You seem lovely but, I would urge you all read up on the role of the wife and husband in islam. For the wife it is not just to take care of the kids and be pretty. You are more than that, it is a partnership and a union. Yes the men should protect and provide but the wife should be the maintainer. If your man is working all day, it only makes sense that you as a stay at home wife should take care of appointments of the kids. Making sure it is clear what is needed in the house and etc. Anyway I would recommend you to read up on the roles of the wife and husband
20 years old is not a baby . But i realise that it could have been a big mistake to get married at this age for me. The questions that u have to answer is yeah ask Allah by praying istikhara (you'll find on the internet how to do it it is a duaa that u say before ending your prayer) , and do you know the reasons why you want to get married . I discovered many wisdoms about this topic very recently, i think we all should do our research about before engaging any relationship. Then when u do your reaserch and you know you want to go build a life with this person, try to convince ur mum, and the guy has his part in this as the girls said Allah makes it easy for us ❤ and bless you
Y’all they are right tho, something shifts in the female brain at 25 it’s astonishing. And obviously there are exceptions, but in general they meant focus on yourself, find who you are and reach your potential and work on yourself before pairing up. Not every female can prioritize herself and her personal growth when in a relationship
I’m 20 years old right now and I swear the only thing that matters is my Uni and my life, I’m also a homebody and an introvert so I think I’m not getting at that stage anytime soon😂
@@oversharerspodcast oh wow didn’t expect a reply!me and my mum listen to your podcasts all the time I’m really happy you took the time out of your day to reply May Allah bless you💗
As a twenty year old, recently graduated architect. this video presents a thought-provoking perspective on how societal shifts and changing dynamics are influencing the timing and nature of personal growth and maturation experiences across different generations. I hear you ladies mentioning how you were at twenty and here I am thinking those were my experiences at 16.
The idea of "living life" can be quite puzzling, particularly in light of the concepts highlighted in this discussion. The notion that getting married and starting a family might not align with the idea of living life, but instead be viewed as restrictive, raises thought-provoking considerations. Why is the act of settling down often depicted as something reserved for after one has supposedly experienced the pinnacle of "living life"? This perspective overlooks the possibility that for some, a rich and rewarding life could involve journeying with a partner, sharing growth, exploring the world together, and collaboratively constructing a meaningful life together.
Possibly, the acceleration in personal growth could be attributed to shifts in societal dynamics and influences. Alternatively, it might arise from the open-minded perspective nurtured by my upbringing. I was fortunate to be raised in an environment that doesn't prescribe a strict timeline or a set formula for living life. There's no universal script that everyone must adhere to, and the pace at which we progress varies-some move swiftly, while others take their time. It's not a race, nor is it a sluggish journey. It doesn't necessitate following a predetermined sequence of events. Interestingly, considering the life of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), we see that the women he married were diverse in every conceivable aspect: age, ethnicity, race, and prior relationship status. *They were at different stages of their life.* My intention isn't to criticize, but rather to express that your viewpoints, although appreciated, appear to be influenced by limited perspectives and personal inclinations. I acknowledge that biases are inevitable in decision-making, but to some extent...
This contemplation unveils how we may have unconsciously or consciously embraced flawed elements of third-wave feminism, potentially giving rise to a mindset that portrays settling down as a subsequent step following the presumed completion of "living life" in its entirety.
I am not married, nor am I looking to get married, not because I feel I am too young, but because I don't want to restrict myself by setting a specific time for it; you called her a baby girl. What if what she wants is to be someone's baby girl?
Girl, i just love how articulate you presented your veiws on this matter...much appreciated🤍🤍🤍 Allahuma barik.
Sis how are you this articulate Mashallah ? Any tips
I love Aishas personality 😭bring her on again!
20 year old is not so young...it depends on the level of maturity she has...if she believes she has the right reasons and intentions to get marrried then tell your mother the reasons why he is a good candidate to marry. For example, if he has good akhlaq( character) and deen( rightuous religious guy) i believe he doesn't even need to be financially waaw if he already has those traits. However, this guy has his own business. Like what more could you possibly ask for. Its that cherry on top. So i don't see any good reason to reject him. And i don't be in the sex and the city ideologies...i think that 'live your life before your get married' ideology is not necessarily the right way to go... who said you aint living your life whislt being married like c'mon marriage is a blessing...a gift from Allah that we need to be thankful for....
I wanted to write more but..i am too lazy to type anymore... nevertheless, i love you kaltun snd hodo...love from your somali sister❤❤❤❤
Love the crazy stories you guys put out we need more , I might come one day on your channel to tell you a crazy story about a Somali guy he was never like any other Somali his story is very shocking 😂
I wish I had older sisters or friends😭
You can still make freinds. Just be open
Let's be friends!
I wish my older sisters liked me you can have sisters that don’t treat you like one
The thing about HPV is that men can carry it and pass it to women even if they do not show symptoms of or . HPV is a virus that can be undetectable in men for years , as for women , it is quicker to identify and signs and symptoms show much much faster. So you really can’t pinpoint where or who she contracted it from , unfortunately.
You seem lovely but, I would urge you all read up on the role of the wife and husband in islam. For the wife it is not just to take care of the kids and be pretty. You are more than that, it is a partnership and a union. Yes the men should protect and provide but the wife should be the maintainer. If your man is working all day, it only makes sense that you as a stay at home wife should take care of appointments of the kids. Making sure it is clear what is needed in the house and etc. Anyway I would recommend you to read up on the roles of the wife and husband
You need to bring Aisha back
All of those I loved plus Attorney Woo! 🎉
I love Aisha bring her back please 🎉
20 years old is not a baby . But i realise that it could have been a big mistake to get married at this age for me.
The questions that u have to answer is yeah ask Allah by praying istikhara (you'll find on the internet how to do it it is a duaa that u say before ending your prayer) , and do you know the reasons why you want to get married . I discovered many wisdoms about this topic very recently, i think we all should do our research about before engaging any relationship.
Then when u do your reaserch and you know you want to go build a life with this person, try to convince ur mum, and the guy has his part in this as the girls said
Allah makes it easy for us ❤ and bless you
Y’all they are right tho, something shifts in the female brain at 25 it’s astonishing. And obviously there are exceptions, but in general they meant focus on yourself, find who you are and reach your potential and work on yourself before pairing up. Not every female can prioritize herself and her personal growth when in a relationship
Love this 🥰
I’m 20 years old right now and I swear the only thing that matters is my Uni and my life, I’m also a homebody and an introvert so I think I’m not getting at that stage anytime soon😂
I like you sisters and i respect and if i can say one thing the music at the beginning is very annoying i hope you didn’t take the advice personal
20 years is not baby
It’s not clear what you are saying at the beginning.. when you are so enthusiastic
Girl listen to your mom you will realize in 2 years
That is willlllld 😮
I love her bless you Aisha
HPV is on the cervix (inside the female genitalia) not on the outer area of the female genitalia
it can be on the cervix and/ or on the external genitalia
There are multiple strains of HPV and some are more likely to cause one over the other
What are you promoting premarital relationships and zina, sharing stories like these normalises zina
By the way he robbed me 25k 😂😂😂
#first view 🤪
Legend!🎉
@@oversharerspodcast oh wow didn’t expect a reply!me and my mum listen to your podcasts all the time I’m really happy you took the time out of your day to reply
May Allah bless you💗
Also, love the guest 💞 what's her Instagram please. don't know if she is also Nigerian but she looks it.
She’s not