How to maintain relationships with In-Laws/Daughter-In-Law Vs Mother-In-Law

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  • @DARKPRINCESS5185
    @DARKPRINCESS5185 Рік тому +2

    Hiii sis... Thanks for your information. Now a days, I feel very tired by handling my mom in law. Really its very pressurable for me. I just wanted to be a good daughter in law but she takes advantage of it... Because i never againsted her wills. But, now its really frustrating for me... What should i do

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  Рік тому

      Hello dear, check today’s vlog at 9 am, I hv highlighted this specifically…see if it might be of any help….

    • @DARKPRINCESS5185
      @DARKPRINCESS5185 Рік тому +1

      @@tamilmombybhanu3026 Ok sis... thank you very much... I really feel like you're my family member. It means lot for me...

  • @umavenkatesh3746
    @umavenkatesh3746 2 роки тому +4

    Hello Akka...Very nice to hear the life lesson,which is the utmost important thing in maintaining harmony in the family..what u said, was what I learnt from all the 5 years of my married life.. Seriously this Video is an Inspiration for the newly wed ones..I started to send my son to school and banging head about managing time..Seen your Videos.. Actually it's Motivating..Keep up the good work ka..

  • @keerthikitty3517
    @keerthikitty3517 2 роки тому +4

    Congratulations dear..same pinch for ur thoughts. I wonder how can two different individuals have same thinkings... I think this mentality is much needed in 2day's world.

  • @paravathinagasubramanian8749
    @paravathinagasubramanian8749 2 роки тому +3

    Good morning sister. Excellent message. Really correct message. Iam in 27 years with my mother in law. I follow the rule of silence.my husband told from the first day open all organs except mouth..hello sister where is your color bangles.inyour hand.i like your videos and hear your sweet voice sister.

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      😁lovely comment….sorry Ma’am nvr knew u were elder to me…dis happens bcos I don’t c anyone’s face..I shld thank appa(ur husband) 4 giving d right shot 4 d right situation..I remove my bangles at night n I 4got to wear it dat day…so glad u observe so much Ma’am….. thanks a lot 4 ur words…I’m smiling all through d comment….

  • @meenakshiaarna
    @meenakshiaarna 8 місяців тому

    Palla palaa kadachi end up getting BP and heart attack .
    Best thing is to accept them ❤

  • @muhammadhumar3327
    @muhammadhumar3327 Рік тому +1

    Sister vlog romba nalla iruku....
    Neenga sonna advice super.... And poosanikai kolambu pathi sonninga very nice.... Thank you ...
    Nan unga video onnu vida ma pathutu irukean .... Super...am new subscriber... Unga old videos yellathayum ipo paththu varean

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  Рік тому +1

      Hello dear, welcome to our little family…..romba sandosham unga comment padichadule…. Thank u so much for your love n support pa…

  • @sudhab1645
    @sudhab1645 2 роки тому +1

    Speech super enaku ithu mathiri yarum soli tharala marriage agi 10 years agiduchu ஓரவத்திக்காக support panni நிறைய பேசியிருக்கேன் கடைசியில் நான் கெட்டவளா ஆகிட்டேன் இரண்டு பேரும் ஒன்று சேர்ந்து கஷ்டபடுத்தறாங்க

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      Idhu naa therinja ortharoda same experience….avangalayum innum palarayum parthu daan enakku inda vishayngal purinjadhu…enakkum idhellam yaarum solli kudukalai dear….enna pandrada sila peru nambala maari ellarayum nambi yemandidurom……idhu oru paadama ninaichi future la jaagradaya iruppom sis…

    • @maheswarans812
      @maheswarans812 2 роки тому +1

      Same experience sis..

  • @princess.3456
    @princess.3456 Рік тому +2

    My marriage is fixed...so I am learning how to manage home after marriage...I dont want my in laws can find any fault in me... Thanks for your tips sis...Its very helpfull to learn something in advance...

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  Рік тому

      Wow congratulations…..I appreciate ur Gud n wise mindset…..this positive attitude itself will mk u a very gud wife n daughter-in-law dear….all d best….a very happy married life…. Thank u

    • @princess.3456
      @princess.3456 Рік тому +1

      @@tamilmombybhanu3026 thank you soooo much....sis...

  • @sheelaandavan656
    @sheelaandavan656 Рік тому +1

    how you manage so many steel vessels, you have a beautiful collection of them, please make a vlog on them... Super vlog

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  Рік тому

      I’ve got used to storing n washing sis😊Sure dear, I’ll try…. Thank u so much

  • @roshanadevivellai6763
    @roshanadevivellai6763 Рік тому +1

    Oh, Makanpeda Arcot Sweet, My hometown

  • @sts3983
    @sts3983 Рік тому +1

    Seriously great mam....thanks a lot.....intha mari enga amma kuda enaku soli tharala..my mother on law has a lot of grudges lot of hurting words....but going to follow your words...

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  Рік тому +1

      Very happy to read ur words dear….. thank u so much for ur wholehearted n lovely comment pa

  • @rajeshwarishriram3200
    @rajeshwarishriram3200 Рік тому +1

    Hi sister intha video innaku dan pakren.neenga solrathu correct akka. Follow panna try panren. Silent, porumai . 😊😊😊

  • @madhavraji3647
    @madhavraji3647 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for your advice....
    Seriously u will go beyond ur dream sissy Vera level....I am a newly married girl thanks for this superb tip

  • @padmaprabhakar9733
    @padmaprabhakar9733 2 роки тому +1

    Ippo recently unga vlogs ellam naan parthutu irukken pa.supera irukku.unga voice super.different a irukku.unga mamiar ungaluku help panna matangala.ella work neengale panringa.

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      Thank u so much dear….avanganaala aanadai avanga kandippa seirangapa…

  • @devikanair4982
    @devikanair4982 2 роки тому +1

    Good advice chechi,but anta mammiyar annya value chyilla.second marumagala
    Nanee nokkum.anekku allathenum kuttam.nan atheranokoyalum anekku kuttam.chechi anta husband brother wife anneya value chyilla.chechi nan malyaliyanu nan paryunthu manselkummo

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому +1

      There is something gud in every situation dear….think it’s better dis way…u will not depend on anyone n u can do ur work without interference….yes I can understand Malayalam dear….I’m so glad dat u r following my channel n commenting ur thoughts…thank you dear….

  • @suganthiswaminathan8008
    @suganthiswaminathan8008 2 роки тому +1

    Hi bhanu. Both chutney as well as pumpkin gravy preps r so good. Though very tough to practice atleast to maintain our physical health and mental stamina we need to practice silence at many stages of our life to maintain good relationships with all.superb vlog.

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      Very true Ma’am…as women we hv no choice…thank u for ur valuable words Ma’am…

  • @vishnupriyam2137
    @vishnupriyam2137 2 роки тому +2

    Golden wordz Banu sis ... Sema advise....

  • @cljayanthy2218
    @cljayanthy2218 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi..it is a useful tips and 👍motivational talk also👏

  • @paravathinagasubramanian8749
    @paravathinagasubramanian8749 2 роки тому +1

    Sister I like your sweet voice sister. I don't want to tell me as mam.i think that some gap between you and me .you are my sister.

  • @nithyaashokkumar4158
    @nithyaashokkumar4158 2 роки тому +2

    Congrats Banu for1000 subscriber. Innum niraya heights neenga reach panna kadavula pray panren pa. Today s vlog nice 👍

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому +1

      Thank u for ur wishes my dear….ur comment is lifting my spirits today….

    • @r.saranyarathinam6669
      @r.saranyarathinam6669 2 роки тому +1

      Akka please dnt thank me. 11years i am struggling ka even she wont peel onion every thing I have to take care even my husband insist me resign my job to take care his parents. Now I am totally taking care of inlaws and my daughter. Ka let's pray who all facing this same situation god give us strength over come. This time i think this advice from gods angle like you give us practical solutions once again thank you and follow ka thank you so much akka.

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      I’m so touched by ur words dear….be patient ma…every cloud has a silver lining…things will get better…don’t worry…just do whatever u can ma…

  • @aravinthanmas2799
    @aravinthanmas2799 2 роки тому +1

    Hi bhanu very good message super sutha from Rajapalayam

  • @rosavathykarthik9637
    @rosavathykarthik9637 2 роки тому +1

    Sister try to avoid boiling the corn.. Just steam it..

  • @sudhab1645
    @sudhab1645 2 роки тому +1

    தேங்காய் கெடாது ஆனால் நம் உடலுக்கு நல்லது இல்லை சகோதரி

  • @jyothissmallcreativeworld8553
    @jyothissmallcreativeworld8553 Рік тому +2

    Superb vlog ❤

  • @r.saranyarathinam6669
    @r.saranyarathinam6669 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you ka last week nan comment la kaetan but nenga oru video post panitanga thank you

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      Thank u dear…..neenga kettadakku appuram daan yosichen unga nelamayile neraya per iruppanga nu..vlog potta useful aa irukkum nu post panne da….but ungalukku daan thanks sollanu…neenga kekalenna enakku thoniye irukkaadu…. Thank u once again dear….

  • @savitharajavel6984
    @savitharajavel6984 Рік тому +2

    Well said sis.. ❤️👍

  • @s.radjagopalanesrinivasan4940

    Getup time 5:30am sleeping time 11:30pm ...i am so tired bcase fast cooking but dinning time slow n late so health issues but nobody worry for that. Silent n steady going no use. What can I do?

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  Рік тому

      prepone ur sleeping time dear....get things done for d nxt day n mk sure to hv ur dinner early....we hv to take cr of our health, d more we compromise things for others d more we suffer...once in a while be firm n live ur life to ur needs....i know its tough to start off all of a sudden but slow n steady always wins d race isnt it?

  • @hmrgaming6238
    @hmrgaming6238 2 роки тому +1

    Supper akka. Ungala Maria eirukanum.

  • @VijayaLakshmi-tt9wp
    @VijayaLakshmi-tt9wp Рік тому +1

    Arumai Bhanu Sis. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @paravathinagasubramanian8749
    @paravathinagasubramanian8749 2 роки тому

    I like your comment. We are in joint family sister.

  • @rosavathykarthik9637
    @rosavathykarthik9637 2 роки тому +1

    Nice talk.. Different receipe..

  • @kalaivanisoundar3261
    @kalaivanisoundar3261 2 роки тому +1

    Banu aka....inlaws eppadi samalikanum nu romba practical la sonninga... super 👍 aka...

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      Thank u dear Kalai….ippadi koopitta ungalukku ok va…ennoda sis in law orutharukku unga name daan…avangalai naan ippadidaan koopiduven….vendam na paravaillai pa…

    • @kalaivanisoundar3261
      @kalaivanisoundar3261 2 роки тому +1

      Aka no problem...enakum apadi koopita romba pidikum😊

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      👍ok kalai…😊

  • @Sivaan_Lifestyle2
    @Sivaan_Lifestyle2 2 роки тому +1

    Dear banu your good

  • @divyae7628
    @divyae7628 2 роки тому +1

    Nice msg ma very useful tips

  • @bhagyalakshmi828
    @bhagyalakshmi828 2 роки тому

    Hey bhanu you're doing great...... lot of changes in my kitchen........keep going....

  • @vishnupriyam2137
    @vishnupriyam2137 2 роки тому +1

    Oru q&a podunga sis ..

  • @SUGASCreation
    @SUGASCreation 2 роки тому +1

    Very useful vlog

  • @HeylearnEnglish-p2o
    @HeylearnEnglish-p2o 2 роки тому +1

    Super sister..

  • @girijapalani9955
    @girijapalani9955 2 роки тому +1

    Super Sister ur tips

  • @fidelcastro4022
    @fidelcastro4022 2 роки тому +1

    Super Sister 👍

  • @v.dharjith7641
    @v.dharjith7641 2 роки тому +1

    👍👍 Happy days

  • @sudhab1645
    @sudhab1645 2 роки тому

    உங்க voice sweeta iruku ketukite Iruka thonuthu

  • @umaannamalai6405
    @umaannamalai6405 2 роки тому +3

    Very meatured.What you followed is you r advising.That is very appriciable.As a teacher I will give you Award.As a mother I will give you reward,❤️⭐🌟🌟

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      Thank u so much sis….I’m honoured…😊🙏🏻

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      Actually Uma I was wondering wht happened to u….it’s been a while since I saw ur comments….I hope everything is fine dear….

    • @umaannamalai6405
      @umaannamalai6405 2 роки тому

      Ya fine.I have some issues in my family .my father is not well.Now he is fine.,but I watched yur videos .it helps to pacify my struggles.really it is stimulated me to be active .Thank you Banu ❤️👍

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому +1

      I’m happy Uma to know dat my vlogs r of some value…ur Father In Law will get well n whatever struggles u r facing will soon be gone for gud..hv faith dear….thank u for d reply….

  • @manjusathish7468
    @manjusathish7468 Рік тому

    Ngt whn I'll yu sleep mam

  • @shankariravi9462
    @shankariravi9462 2 роки тому +1

    Hi, Good Morning ma, Actually naane innaikku idhu pathi kekkanumnu ninaichen ma. naanumungla madhirudhan pakka plan aah veetu velaigal seiven. But vara pora ponnu eppadi erupalo theriyavillai ma,yedho oru bayam varudhu

    • @tamilmombybhanu3026
      @tamilmombybhanu3026  2 роки тому

      Unga nalla manasukku nalla marumagal kidaippangamma….mugam theriyaada ennodave indalavukku manasu punpadada maari word use panni comment panreenga appo unga marumagalai eppadi vachipeenga….avangalum unga Mansa purinji nadapaangamma… kavalai Vendam…thank u….

    • @shankariravi9462
      @shankariravi9462 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much ma

  • @sriruthrasriruthra2971
    @sriruthrasriruthra2971 2 роки тому

    Super mam