Our Dating Red Flags & Toxic Relationships!!!

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  • @tarrahgaris
    @tarrahgaris 7 місяців тому +1866

    not Zane thinking that alisha’s drunk alter ego is schoolisha 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @janellerod4865
      @janellerod4865 7 місяців тому +25

      That had me dead 😭😂😂

    • @Karina_42
      @Karina_42 6 місяців тому +6

      Dead 💀 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kseniak8781
    @kseniak8781 7 місяців тому +603

    I applaud Alisha for being the only one who brought quality red flags to the table

  • @ZaneHijazi
    @ZaneHijazi 7 місяців тому +2715

    YO... you don't even understand the amount of issues we got into my GOD HAHAHA I'm just happy it's up by the GRACE OF GODDDDDDDD

  • @AlishaMarie
    @AlishaMarie 7 місяців тому +2228

    SORRY IT TOOK SO LONG WOW SO MANY ISSUES!!!!!! COMMENT A 💞 IF YOU SEE THIS

  • @Chloenhawj
    @Chloenhawj 7 місяців тому +600

    That loading/buffer sign… OMG I thought it was my phone 😂😂 that was so good!!!

    • @kiramartinez2206
      @kiramartinez2206 7 місяців тому +12

      lol same! Then I saw his arm move and was tripping 😂😂

    • @Karina_42
      @Karina_42 6 місяців тому +5

      Omg SAME!
      I start checking my wifi

    • @hananellson6500
      @hananellson6500 3 місяці тому

      Omg same🤣🤣

  • @Lynnee808
    @Lynnee808 7 місяців тому +484

    The way Zane said “he’s been deaf for a long time” so confidently😂😂😂

    • @LynnzeNao
      @LynnzeNao 6 місяців тому

      Omg hi I had to comment bc I thought I saw my name! Lol

    • @Lynnee808
      @Lynnee808 6 місяців тому

      @@LynnzeNao hahah hey twin

  • @saraelenaf
    @saraelenaf 7 місяців тому +202

    Okay OBBBVIIIIOUSLY I've been a stan since this pod dropped but yall seem so much more comfortable and the convos are flowing UGH I'm obsessed

    • @theresag.4188
      @theresag.4188 7 місяців тому +8

      Yes! At the beginning some of it felt awkward and forced. But now they are more comfortable with eachother. It def has more flow! It's going to get better with time!

    • @mysteriousgal99
      @mysteriousgal99 7 місяців тому

      facts

  • @reginamoore6992
    @reginamoore6992 7 місяців тому +755

    Zanes hairline looks normal. He’s gonna regret not embracing how it looks now once it’s gone again haha. You look great sweetie!

    • @anuheajai
      @anuheajai 7 місяців тому +11

      hahaha this is so funny😂

    • @lilypichon8221
      @lilypichon8221 6 місяців тому +1

      Literally remove the hat

  • @Beautifulinside19out
    @Beautifulinside19out 7 місяців тому +253

    Heath is so cool and dad like , remi is so cute and relatable Zane is hot and funny and Alisha is so beautiful and adorable with her social anxiety . Everyone brings out the best side of each other .

    • @cinnabun11
      @cinnabun11 7 місяців тому +12

      I love these summaries lmao

    • @CheyWeenie.
      @CheyWeenie. 6 місяців тому +16

      Zane would die if he saw this comment lmao

  • @kaylah9206
    @kaylah9206 7 місяців тому +242

    “Everyone compliment it when we start” 😭😭

  • @valugarciar
    @valugarciar 7 місяців тому +129

    I love how they're just waving the flags the entire time. Such a wholesome episode, love you guys!

  • @GloryHernandez514
    @GloryHernandez514 7 місяців тому +566

    For a second I wondered how cold it was since I could see Zanes breath, but quickly realized it from the vape 😂

    • @jbnks1995
      @jbnks1995 7 місяців тому +20

      los angeles doesn’t ever get cold enough to see your breath lolol

    • @alinakarakay1011
      @alinakarakay1011 7 місяців тому

      Sameeeee

    • @Galaxyy_Dee
      @Galaxyy_Dee 7 місяців тому +1

      @@jbnks1995only in the dusk morning

    • @plk.404
      @plk.404 6 місяців тому +1

      timestamp?

  • @atiyasimmons5007
    @atiyasimmons5007 7 місяців тому +59

    Honestly this was one of my FAVORITE episodes. I love the laid back conversations. And I tend to laugh ALOT more with these kinds of episodes! I much prefer this kind over the structured kind. I hope you guys do these regularly!!

  • @AbbiGrasso13
    @AbbiGrasso13 6 місяців тому +57

    I am sorry, but everyone NEEDS an Alisha in the group to not just blindly love your new person!!! I needed one with my ex, and my friends were so afraid to say anything - Friends who care about you are never going to be the ones who trash a new partner, if the partner is truly good - and a GOOD friend and a GOOD partner will naturally get along just fine - because they both care about you. Every friend group needs an Alisha, just like we all need a Remi, and those two need to be best friends, lol.

  • @IssaHudgins
    @IssaHudgins 7 місяців тому +246

    The new logo is iconic.

  • @Mmeeks187
    @Mmeeks187 7 місяців тому +194

    Zane’s giving Ken vibes
    “he’s JUST ZANE,anywhere else he’d be insane “
    Don’t judge me , it just popped in my head lol 😎

    • @madayavalos1201
      @madayavalos1201 7 місяців тому +3

      I thought the same 😂

    • @amybudafulldisaster3646
      @amybudafulldisaster3646 6 місяців тому +1

      When the 🧠 adhd
      👁😜👁
      intrusive thought Wins 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @Mmeeks187
      @Mmeeks187 6 місяців тому +2

      @@amybudafulldisaster3646 absolutely accurate lmao

  • @caitlinjoy2828
    @caitlinjoy2828 6 місяців тому +19

    Alisha. We love hearing you talk!! You keep conversations moving and are such a light! 🩵🩵🩵🩵

  • @coldbrewbabyy
    @coldbrewbabyy 7 місяців тому +47

    a message for each of you!!
    Zane- your hair looks good. I think you can either keep the color OR the length. That length and color combined is what's giving cockateil. If it was a different color it would just be giving volume, and if it was shorter it would be giving 2000s which is very in right now. If I didn't listen to unfiltered I wouldnt even know you had work done.
    Heath- I've been watching Unfiltered since 2020 and have been so in love with your love with Mariah. You're so in sync and so meant to be. I have a 4 month old daughter, and I think you and Mariah are going to be incredible parents.
    Rem- You're an awesome aunt, but you're gonna be an even better mom. I hope you get your twins. It is a lot, but you also get it all out of the way at the same time. That's like at least a year of diapers off the timeline. Whatever you're blessed with, you will rock it. Fun doesn't end when you have kids, it just changes.
    Alisha- I'm so excited for your auntie era. You're gonna be the cool aunt they come to when they need advice. It's also been so nice watching you mature and grow in the last few years. You also inspired me to strengthen my faith. I was raised catholic, so I was admittedly weary to associate with Christianity again, but you're a prime example of how you can have faith (and express it) without it taking over your entire life. You have a balance I aspire to achieve.
    WHEW that was a long one, and you probably wont even read this lmao. Just feeling sentimental tonight, listening to this as I feed my baby :')

  • @valentinaleal3011
    @valentinaleal3011 7 місяців тому +108

    I love how Zane always brings up how Remi is Asian in every episode. It’s like he’s discovering something new every time

  • @livvyboone
    @livvyboone 7 місяців тому +30

    as a twin I can confirm that the comparison and jealousy is actually insane, because we are different on certain levels

  • @jessicagibson5314
    @jessicagibson5314 7 місяців тому +123

    Casually pitching the idea that Zane and Alisha go on one date just casually 🤭

  • @amberrrdanielle
    @amberrrdanielle 7 місяців тому +168

    zane’s hair looking mad luxurious

  • @drizzydana
    @drizzydana 7 місяців тому +42

    LIPS OF AN ANGEL ASL NEEDS TO GO ON UNFILTERED PATREON😭😭😭

  • @kaylah9206
    @kaylah9206 7 місяців тому +81

    I look forward to this podcast every week it’s so good

  • @Libertyyy.
    @Libertyyy. 7 місяців тому +317

    Zane and Alisha should AT LEAST go on a date together & see where it goes. I just feel like it would be perfect and nobody can convince me otherwise

    • @jbnks1995
      @jbnks1995 7 місяців тому +46

      if it’s meant to be, they will end up together !!

    • @LoganCarte
      @LoganCarte 7 місяців тому +44

      Ugh I wish I shipped! They give big friend vibes to me though.

    • @alexcobb8766
      @alexcobb8766 7 місяців тому +24

      Yall need to stop. Any time someone gets a long as a friend everyone wants them to date. It’s weird

    • @rosieoats
      @rosieoats 7 місяців тому +1

      Yes 100%

    • @jadanicole222
      @jadanicole222 7 місяців тому +9

      no that's weird you can't force it you have to let stuff happen naturally

  • @minpd257
    @minpd257 7 місяців тому +23

    love how yall would just keep waving the flag when answering, its so funny and cute to me😂😂

  • @sammaniscalco384
    @sammaniscalco384 7 місяців тому +53

    I feel Alicia was the most honest with her red flags everyone else was just corky lol

  • @Itstaniayanes
    @Itstaniayanes 7 місяців тому +35

    The flag waving while proving y’all’s points had me dead!!! 🤣

  • @AshleyRodriguez-pz9lv
    @AshleyRodriguez-pz9lv 7 місяців тому +71

    Zane’s hair is giving Ryan gosling 😂💕

    • @Yablahblah
      @Yablahblah 7 місяців тому

      That's funny cause Ryan gosling is also a Scorpio 😂

    • @edenmannon8686
      @edenmannon8686 6 місяців тому

      “I’m just Zen!!”

  • @kelseygomez258
    @kelseygomez258 6 місяців тому +16

    1:02 I love how they said “innocent until proven guilty” for Alisha but really it’s “guilty until proven innocent” 🤣

  • @kylieduren
    @kylieduren 7 місяців тому +41

    “He’s been deaf for a long time.” MY UNCLE?"¿

  • @kaylah9206
    @kaylah9206 7 місяців тому +48

    Y’all got me at 50:07 I thought it froze 😭

  • @veronica-AM
    @veronica-AM 7 місяців тому +74

    tbh I couldn't wait so I heard the audio already but I am down to watch the visuals now... it's like going from an audio book to watching a movie

    • @madayavalos1201
      @madayavalos1201 7 місяців тому +1

      Me too 😂😂 I heard it first and now I’m watching it I COULD NOT WAIT!

  • @hailyhouse4406
    @hailyhouse4406 7 місяців тому +7

    okay unsolicited thoughts (from a designer's perspective) but the blurred/undone logo in the signage and the intro is honestly iconic and totally think you could leave it as is. fits the whole pod's personality so well - a big vibe

  • @k.grace_02
    @k.grace_02 7 місяців тому +14

    I love this podcast!! It's just like being in a friend group, but you can just listen in and don't feel the pressure to talk. Love how you guys have a beautiful friendship! 💞💞

  • @taylorcyphert
    @taylorcyphert 7 місяців тому +9

    Zaynes comments on little face lines being beautiful was so sweet and genuine🥹

  • @XWOAH_ITScrazy
    @XWOAH_ITScrazy 7 місяців тому +36

    🚩 my red flag is holding back emotions cuz I was never tought how to express them

  • @madison-k8z
    @madison-k8z 7 місяців тому +24

    zane saying maybe they could make an announcement to see if any deaf people are here had me dying laughing 😂😂

    • @KarlaMejia96
      @KarlaMejia96 7 місяців тому +3

      THANK YOU!!! Like how would they hear the announcement 😂😂😂

    • @madison-k8z
      @madison-k8z 7 місяців тому

      @@KarlaMejia96 no one caught it and i was just cackling lmao

  • @kingjames9306
    @kingjames9306 7 місяців тому +5

    OMG‼️I fell out at Heath then Zane’s reaction when Alisha said she liked old salad. 😩🤣😭💀The confusion & concern on their respective faces. 😮🤨🤣 I had to rewind it back. Too funny.

  • @SydneyKong
    @SydneyKong 6 місяців тому +7

    “That’s why I always have his back on these conversations because when I come running to the front door” LMAOOOO AHAHAHAHAHAHA 💀💀💀💀💀

  • @iamokay516
    @iamokay516 7 місяців тому +25

    I don't really have a friend group and this is one of the reasons I like to watch this podcast. It makes me feel like a part of a friend group ❤

  • @anuheajai
    @anuheajai 7 місяців тому +6

    SO HAPPY THIS EPISODE IS UP!!! I COULDN’T WAIT A WHOLE WEEK. i’m also with remi on the eating things you shouldn’t due to dietary restrictions but having no self control 🚩

  • @chloenaff9926
    @chloenaff9926 7 місяців тому +62

    opened youtube and got so excited with only 4 minutes ago!

  • @ritarita108
    @ritarita108 Місяць тому +1

    me as a mom hearing them saying “twins is cute” 😅 i would DIEEE no ty! love my baby, but he was so needy especially with sleep, i got 2-4 hours of sleep every night for 6 months! and then add in breastfeeding?!! postpartum?!! i feel for moms with twins!

  • @RomneyRanjo
    @RomneyRanjo 6 місяців тому +6

    waiiiiitttttt Alisha looks so good? Like she keeps getting more gorg every episode? not sure if it's her skin or makeup???? OR BOTH?

  • @arikihetet3747
    @arikihetet3747 6 місяців тому +8

    Does anyone else find Remy's voice incredibly calming/pleasurable to listen to?
    Haha I need some audiobooks from her ❤

  • @mlalahful
    @mlalahful 7 місяців тому +14

    I thought my internet was going out with the buffering icon 😂

  • @marielizperez2604
    @marielizperez2604 7 місяців тому +5

    20:41 LESERATONIN! that is now their new name omg😂 Zane is a genius

  • @Devonbroyles
    @Devonbroyles 7 місяців тому +21

    I comment this on every video but this is seriously my favorite podcast ever! The vibe of this podcast makes me feel like I’m in the room with y’all it is sooo good 😂❤️

  • @bk7728
    @bk7728 6 місяців тому +1

    i’ve been in asl for two years and i’m taking it for another two, i actually love it, and being able to sign to people is genuinely such a sick experience and it’s actually really useful

  • @abdullahsofyan6958
    @abdullahsofyan6958 7 місяців тому +8

    Alisha looking extra cute on this episode..(slowly falling in love) 🥹❤️

  • @adaaleide
    @adaaleide 6 місяців тому +2

    zane was outdoing himself in this ep. hilarious!

  • @Ai-LeanneIgnacio
    @Ai-LeanneIgnacio 7 місяців тому +5

    zane looks so amazing in this episode like WOW

  • @b1u3st4rr
    @b1u3st4rr 3 місяці тому +2

    i will not take the apple music slander 😂😂😂 also alisha, you can see your most listened to song and artist and all that at the end of every year like spotify!!

  • @gigglyvibez
    @gigglyvibez 7 місяців тому +9

    thank you zane for making me feel good about my wrinkles.. love u 🥹🫶

  • @yeseniarosales1710
    @yeseniarosales1710 7 місяців тому +8

    Twin mama here! So fun, so hard during the newborn up like 1 year.. Now 3 years old and they are so independent. Love watching them grow up together, be the bestest of friends and just the way they love each other 🫶🏻💕
    Also, fun fact they are identical twins and there is not a single thing that they don’t do the same it’s CRAZY!!

  • @no-zd8qs
    @no-zd8qs 7 місяців тому +5

    i love the unstructered ADHD episodes

  • @loukiapavlana3209
    @loukiapavlana3209 7 місяців тому +2

    55:12 when heath said Mariah.. about the music it was the cutest thing ever

  • @ashleyaba13
    @ashleyaba13 7 місяців тому +6

    Not me taking the no friends red flag personally. I’m working through trauma

  • @marianagonzalez8029
    @marianagonzalez8029 7 місяців тому +33

    best part of the night

  • @Sad.strangelittleman
    @Sad.strangelittleman 7 місяців тому +4

    50:07 i thought my phone froze, i really rewinded it just for it to do the same thing😂

  • @jmonge2496
    @jmonge2496 7 місяців тому +5

    Heath pretending to be deaf I’m so deadddd

  • @naylaiman5207
    @naylaiman5207 6 місяців тому +4

    ALISHA LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL IN THIS EPISODE!!!!! Is it because of love hahahahahaha but for real Alisha looks so good!!!!❤

  • @saralyn03
    @saralyn03 6 місяців тому +1

    hear me out👀you guys should do a series on here where remi and heath try to find Zane and Alisha a partner, The Bachelor/Bachelorette style!!😂get contestants or ppl that would be interested in Zane and Alisha and make Zane’s one series and Alisha’s one series! Have the contestants live In the houses together,have to do contest/games,etc that would be so cool and funny to watch😂

  • @jamiecoppernoll
    @jamiecoppernoll 7 місяців тому +20

    Yay finally! Already listen to the audio but obviously got to watch the visuals lol! Love you guys 💞🚩

  • @cyrenaflaherty3303
    @cyrenaflaherty3303 7 місяців тому +11

    ITS UPPPPPP YAYYY so happy it all got figured out!

  • @A.and.H.Adventures
    @A.and.H.Adventures 7 місяців тому +10

    Congrats on 100k! Been loving ever pod so far 😍 ya’ll are Killin it 🔥

  • @anabelemmaldonado1611
    @anabelemmaldonado1611 6 місяців тому +4

    Alisha is such a combo of zane and heath!! Im sure zane and Alisha will end up together!!

  • @stephanieeder4022
    @stephanieeder4022 6 місяців тому

    Only in the first 23 minutes and had to comment on Heath knowing ASL!!!! I took a class in college (2013) and have been practicing ever since! I’ve had conversations with deaf families and to watch their eyes light up knowing that you understand is an incredible feeling!

  • @donnellewolfe7431
    @donnellewolfe7431 7 місяців тому +5

    I literally was just thinking that Zane’s hair looks sooo good!!! And then he started talkin shit about it😅😂😂

  • @musicforever6
    @musicforever6 6 місяців тому +1

    The buffering moments had me cracking up 😂

  • @AngelicaWalters
    @AngelicaWalters 7 місяців тому +5

    thank god this episode is finally out I cannot do just audio. I'm so audio/visual. I love you all so much! Thanks as always

  • @yodeebs
    @yodeebs 7 місяців тому +4

    This podcast is such a treat :’) I’m so grateful ❤

  • @kira43ver
    @kira43ver 7 місяців тому +5

    Zane looks so good without a hat!!

  • @MsAlestaa
    @MsAlestaa 7 місяців тому +4

    IVF stands for In Vitro Fertilization! So the fertilization happens in a vitro dish and then it gets inserted in the uterus afterwards

  • @britt8099
    @britt8099 7 місяців тому +6

    This one is for you Zane 🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @kristinhawkins6491
    @kristinhawkins6491 7 місяців тому +4

    Zane is sucha beautiful soul talking about those fine lines and wrinkles we all accumulate 🙃♥️

  • @LenaHillOnTour
    @LenaHillOnTour 7 місяців тому +2

    Zane asking if pineapple was a melon is a red flag for me 🫡🚩

  • @mfcarpena
    @mfcarpena 7 місяців тому +5

    😂 Alisha’s red flag…. Her just bragging she looked good

  • @kimbeuli
    @kimbeuli 6 місяців тому

    Always crying laughing every time I watch an episode, you guys are hilarious, looooove the podcast! 😭😂

  • @MitzuyaMiyo2
    @MitzuyaMiyo2 7 місяців тому +5

    Zane your hair looks great! Just listen to Alisha!

  • @mfcarpena
    @mfcarpena 7 місяців тому +6

    Heath… as someone who has ADD… your red flag scream ADD… love ya!

    • @jbnks1995
      @jbnks1995 7 місяців тому +1

      lol when he said that i was like sir that is adhd 😭

  • @kaylafox8524
    @kaylafox8524 7 місяців тому +3

    this episode is so good i was dying

  • @rachna847
    @rachna847 5 місяців тому

    you guys are so funny !!! thanks for the giggles. also pls don't stop the unfiltered chaotic energy and these kinda games; it's so entertaining

  • @ishitathakral
    @ishitathakral 7 місяців тому +6

    dont star at Zane like thattttttt he looked so GOOD WITHOUT THE HATTTTTTTTT

  • @b1u3st4rr
    @b1u3st4rr 3 місяці тому +1

    i wish y'all saw ateez (kpop group) at coachella 😭 you would've been so impressed 😭😭

  • @alysagaertner532
    @alysagaertner532 7 місяців тому +2

    Y’all all have such friendly vibes n caring!

  • @cwojo7777
    @cwojo7777 6 місяців тому

    JUSTICE FOR SOGGY SALADS!!! Its good when the dressing soaks in😂

  • @Cielstial
    @Cielstial 7 місяців тому +4

    Love ya’ll and I’m patient enough to wait for the video! So sorry you guys had trouble with youtube uploads lately😭

  • @juliajackson1264
    @juliajackson1264 6 місяців тому

    Something about them continuously waving the flags while still talking is SO FUNNY to me I cannot 😂

  • @shristiverma2896
    @shristiverma2896 7 місяців тому +4

    Y’all are so funny together

  • @jenniferkenney6095
    @jenniferkenney6095 4 місяці тому

    When the joke didn’t hit as hard as you expected 😂😂 “k, we’re done here” 😂😂😂😂

  • @samanviganga2056
    @samanviganga2056 7 місяців тому +7

    Why did I not know Cal’s family was rich

  • @marleyparra3859
    @marleyparra3859 7 місяців тому +1

    awhhh heath is too good!!! mariah and him are too perfect ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ariyanabustillos9876
    @ariyanabustillos9876 7 місяців тому +3

    loved this week’s episode, and love all of you even more ! 🚩

  • @vanessaperez8794
    @vanessaperez8794 6 місяців тому +1

    As a person who don’t have a close group of friends, I just love to be alone doing my own thing. I have a friendship break up a couple years ago because of my mental health and never was close to anyone again and I’m okay with that.

  • @kaitlinthomas5820
    @kaitlinthomas5820 7 місяців тому +3

    You guys should do an Am I The Asshole episode!!! Would love to hear your opinions on some of those🤗

  • @serenaxg14
    @serenaxg14 7 місяців тому

    lol the “WE ARE PLAYING” Haahhaha I love it ! That’s my team so YES WE ARE PLAYING 😂

  • @allysonherrera5141
    @allysonherrera5141 7 місяців тому +4

    i still think allegedly unfiltered was so good too 😭

  • @Urhottea
    @Urhottea 7 місяців тому +2

    I actually like the weekend upload because usually by the weekend I’ve watched all my favorite pods & shows 😂