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Melanie Fiona - 4AM (Edited Version)

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2011
  • Music video by Melanie Fiona performing 4AM. (C) 2011 Universal Records, a Division of UMG Recordings, Inc. and SRC Records, Inc.

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  • @courtneyariel2732
    @courtneyariel2732 3 роки тому +3535

    I use to cry to this song..I held on to my daughter's father for 3 years after all he put me through. I didn't think I would EVER get over him..but I did! It was so freeing. I am now happily married to an amazing man! 💛 #dontsettle

    • @lisatinsley7373
      @lisatinsley7373 3 роки тому +41

      how u move on

    • @melishawilliams1157
      @melishawilliams1157 3 роки тому +83

      Please tell me how? I feel trapped, I'm suffocating...

    • @kwonhoeshi79
      @kwonhoeshi79 3 роки тому +66

      This makes me so happy. Idk you but I’m so proud of you for choosing better bc you deserve it 🥺

    • @chevellemorgan4956
      @chevellemorgan4956 3 роки тому +33

      Sometimes the things or people we hold on to is the reason we go through so much pain I'm happy that you made the decision to leave that situation and put you and your daughters peace first best wishes to you💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

    • @jessicalane4432
      @jessicalane4432 3 роки тому +41

      Just freed myself after 4 years of pain and I’m praying I don’t relapse

  • @esternamweya8135
    @esternamweya8135 7 місяців тому +814

    It's 2024 and this song is still on repeat 😢.. it's a beautiful song thank you Fiona ❤

    • @Wensleyd
      @Wensleyd 7 місяців тому +10

      Same, revisiting old music ❤😅

    • @melissae.8031
      @melissae.8031 7 місяців тому +5

      Facts❤

    • @cassandratramel1756
      @cassandratramel1756 7 місяців тому +8

      I'm with you when u right

    • @SittieAISAMayan
      @SittieAISAMayan 7 місяців тому +7

      Everyone can relate

    • @taureanenergyleslie
      @taureanenergyleslie 7 місяців тому +5

      I’m still listening…at 4am. Someone crossed my mind and this song popped up in my head suddenly. I’m feeling every emotion…💔

  • @sabatamapetla3349
    @sabatamapetla3349 5 місяців тому +201

    Feb 2024 im here blazing this jam... stuff is timeless

  • @aldrikastephens
    @aldrikastephens 4 місяці тому +737

    Anyone listening in 2024❤🗣️

  • @foreverxxx5821
    @foreverxxx5821 4 роки тому +3431

    When she said " I don't deserve this life and I make the perfect wife "...I felt that to my soul😩💔

  • @Vampmariez
    @Vampmariez 3 роки тому +5523

    2021 anyone? This will never get old man 😢
    Edit : where all my 2022 peeps at 😮‍💨👍🏼

  • @afrobunmislifestyle
    @afrobunmislifestyle 5 місяців тому +1308

    2024, who is here?🥹❤️

  • @albidekagraham843
    @albidekagraham843 Рік тому +1527

    2023 and this is still a hit❗️❗️

  • @jade4212
    @jade4212 5 років тому +2996

    I really miss music like this...when music had real meaning. Today everything is about money and sex or violence. This generation is so shallow when it comes to music....

    • @tulokrotona15
      @tulokrotona15 5 років тому +28

      Yes Tru the my type of music classic 😢😢😢 I born 1980

    • @pansysgarden
      @pansysgarden 5 років тому +34

      Couldn't agree more. This music will always triumph the garbage that's on the radio now.

    • @SlyFoxthegreatest
      @SlyFoxthegreatest 5 років тому +13

      I totally agree

    • @erinnirre
      @erinnirre 5 років тому +83

      Jade i hate comments like this. just don’t listen to that type of music. it’s that simple.

    • @peacebe_girl
      @peacebe_girl 5 років тому +2

      Yep

  • @aaliyah8556
    @aaliyah8556 6 років тому +534

    She doesent get enough credit for how gorgeous she is ❤️🤦🏽‍♀️🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @ep355
      @ep355 5 років тому

      ha🤣

    • @rajaywilliams9321
      @rajaywilliams9321 3 роки тому

      You're one to talk about gorgeous if thats you

  • @kinag7805
    @kinag7805 5 місяців тому +75

    I never in a million years thought I’d relate to this song on that level . Lord Have I been humbled
    😢

    • @TalkMyTruth
      @TalkMyTruth 5 місяців тому +5

      Singing it with my chest 12 years ago just to be singing from my soul today 😅😢

    • @amberfarrow8676
      @amberfarrow8676 4 місяці тому +4

      I felt this comment... this was just a thought in my head earlier... im 36 now and I was thinking of ex boyfriends I've been with how much shit I put them through in my 20s compared to the me now who has humbled out big time, I laugh off a nasty look or remark compared to b4 I'd just fight!

    • @Bptrsn1
      @Bptrsn1 3 місяці тому +3

      Sorry

    • @mrg-ghx8052
      @mrg-ghx8052 Місяць тому +1

      Hope you're doing good 👍

    • @amberfarrow8676
      @amberfarrow8676 Місяць тому

      Doing better now!

  • @Marcusaurelius825
    @Marcusaurelius825 2 роки тому +473

    This song hits the core when you go through the motions of the toxicity of narcissistic lovers. Kudos to Fiona who never got her accolades her talent is phenomenal! #4am #inthelife

    • @kelshawilliams1212
      @kelshawilliams1212 Рік тому +11

      Didnt know if I should put this here but your so right
      Am 29 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend was doing such the most last night because he had a lil to much to drink after work with the same friend I was trying to tell him about that not good company driving crazy going hard on potholes
      I had to even fight him one moment be he hit me in my chest
      The worst part about all of this is my 3 yr old that doesn't belong to him saw every inch of it
      Now am crying my eye out because am hurt no one to talk to other than his family which I don't wanna talk to
      Just need a hug rn feeling like the worst mother in the world

    • @queenalex7827
      @queenalex7827 Рік тому +2

      I’ve started to re experience trauma from my emotionally abusive relationship…

    • @anjuelle3997
      @anjuelle3997 Рік тому +7

      @@kelshawilliams1212 You're not the worst mother, and I know it's hard. I married a man who hit me in front of my child before. She was around six at the time, and he and I had just had a baby together. I loved that man more than I loved myself, and we have been married for thirteen years. We are separated now, and finally at the point of getting a divorce. Love can be blinding, but some things you have to do for your children and for yourself. I'll be praying for you.

    • @stormchaseriq
      @stormchaseriq 11 місяців тому

      @@kelshawilliams1212 Save up money in your own bank account. Have one trusted friend that you can call anything and give them a code word if you’re in immediate danger and can’t call 911. Don’t settle for love, go where you are treated graciously and like a queen. If you aren’t already in a DA help group or therapy I suggest you do. Make friends with like minded people that know what you’re going through. Stay safe.

    • @LourdesSantiago-rz9nw
      @LourdesSantiago-rz9nw 10 місяців тому +2

      Sweetie have a lot of faith on then man up stairs are created I'm talking about experience I been there and hurts you need to put your kids and yourself first they got help for abuse woman when they getting hurt by someone they love so much now thing for a moment does he really love you all he taking you like a punching bag that show you that he doesn't love you all he wouldn't hurt you and no way or matter God bless you and your kids stay always from the 👿

  • @vee7403
    @vee7403 8 років тому +6911

    at 10 years old this song had me cryin over an imaginary man who did me wrong smh

    • @vee7403
      @vee7403 8 років тому +36

      +Kaylah Robertson this was 5 years ago ????

    • @savannakimble3642
      @savannakimble3642 8 років тому +21

      I echo that

    • @garusfan
      @garusfan 8 років тому +59

      when she was 10 years old...not the song. (I assume)

    • @alerios5110
      @alerios5110 8 років тому +76

      Lmao same. I'm 15 now , still young but how the time passes 😂

    • @loriedoul7686
      @loriedoul7686 7 років тому +4

      not venitia

  • @bridavis401
    @bridavis401 4 роки тому +3682

    Unfortunately real singers do not get acknowledged. She is phenomenal

  • @thejhenryshow2818
    @thejhenryshow2818 4 місяці тому +43

    12 years later! Still jamming this on April 1, 2024👍🏾🌬️💨

  • @so_angelik3034
    @so_angelik3034 Рік тому +39

    As I’m older and listening to this I just love how she told this story of an unhealthy emotional rollercoaster relationship that’s she knows is not good but she doesn’t want to end. Omg shows how much we will put up with for love

  • @Mirendahm
    @Mirendahm 4 роки тому +287

    ‘ swear this man is begging me to leave him’ 🥺🥺😭😭 Jesus!

  • @simplyalycia5893
    @simplyalycia5893 7 років тому +8959

    This song had me mad at a boyfriend I never had 😂

  • @SeptemberBluez
    @SeptemberBluez 25 днів тому +2

    This song has been stuck in my head for the past week. I had to come listen to it.❤

  • @ericmontoya3447
    @ericmontoya3447 4 місяці тому +8

    Powerful song.. This song will always be relatable. This song is definitely going to remain a classic.

  • @triphop1681
    @triphop1681 4 роки тому +1365

    "Never make someone a priority, when all you are to them is an option."
    - Maya Angelou
    One of the wisest things I've ever heard someone say, especially when it comes to dating/relationships.
    Love the song, but to those with a broken heart, always remember:
    We teach people how to treat us. Set boundaries and stick to them. Otherwise, people will walk all over you. No man/woman can make or break you. Recognize your worth, and tell that mofo to kick rocks. Leave graciously, and with a smile on your face. You deserve better. ❤

  • @neftalymkabe8042
    @neftalymkabe8042 5 років тому +282

    You just gotta love this song even in 2019🙌🔥🔥

  • @sasha-anneramento7339
    @sasha-anneramento7339 9 місяців тому +67

    12 years later and still a banger

  • @seedsoflight8337
    @seedsoflight8337 Рік тому +9

    "But not just any crazy. Its the kind that you feel, when you love somebody"

  • @ivyjackson8471
    @ivyjackson8471 4 роки тому +2572

    Who still listening to this song 2020 hit like, I love this song❤

  • @theeitcar7356
    @theeitcar7356 5 років тому +1367

    If you are listening to This April 2019 Let See you And God Bless you All 🔥😍❤

    • @samantasmith1079
      @samantasmith1079 5 років тому +2

      Every morning after waking an prayin these r my music in my ears while home r goin to wrk 🥰

    • @ms.frierson818
      @ms.frierson818 5 років тому +4

      May 2019

    • @enoriega62
      @enoriega62 5 років тому +1

      THEE IT CAR may 2019

    • @theeitcar7356
      @theeitcar7356 5 років тому +4

      @@enoriega62 May 2019 and it's Still Rocking

    • @theeitcar7356
      @theeitcar7356 5 років тому

      @@ms.frierson818 I'm Still Here

  • @user-dd6ol5bv3c
    @user-dd6ol5bv3c 4 місяці тому +16

    Hits when you think about a ex you loved hard.

  • @Ariescertified
    @Ariescertified Рік тому +58

    The ladies need more songs like this ❤ I was to young to experience it right 😂😭

  • @quanne5644
    @quanne5644 3 роки тому +352

    Her voice is so powerful and beautiful

  • @jenillenoreiga8662
    @jenillenoreiga8662 5 років тому +703

    Listening in 2019😍🔥🔥🔥🔥stilll fireee

  • @makiahajenkins7187
    @makiahajenkins7187 Рік тому +125

    10 years ago had this song on repeat I can remember the exact reason it was sung my little heart out each time it played when I play it now it still give me goosebumps man when you know you know 😢

  • @madamcjwalker67
    @madamcjwalker67 11 місяців тому +8

    I love her voice. The lyrics make me ready for her to assert herself once & for all.

  • @inr4ever06
    @inr4ever06 2 роки тому +21

    When she says: "Who knew my heart could have a bruise...You see this knot here on my chest..I'm hurting and he don't even care.." I FELT THAT.

  • @youngluv4712
    @youngluv4712 8 років тому +70

    its unfortunate that we hurt people who loves us without knowing OR maybe thinking that they always be here with us. Peace and love to all broken hearts!!!

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      @williemaechaney7899 8 років тому

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    • @mariemaya2931
      @mariemaya2931 7 років тому +5

      Young Luv real

    • @gigeewilliams860
      @gigeewilliams860 7 років тому +3

      Young Luv so very true

    • @zimkhithaisidumo6452
      @zimkhithaisidumo6452 6 років тому

      Young Luv well said

    • @courtneywhyte1499
      @courtneywhyte1499 Місяць тому

      Tell me how he is hurting her? If you watch the video you will see that his phone fell, he was then drunk and fell asleep in his car. He was not cheating with no dancer.

  • @shannon2691
    @shannon2691 7 місяців тому +6

    This song is perfection: her vocals, the music, lyrics, everything is 🔥

  • @saraidouangmani84
    @saraidouangmani84 11 місяців тому +41

    I was 15 screaming this song over a heart break I never had😂

  • @samanthaboson8937
    @samanthaboson8937 3 роки тому +1926

    This song hits different when you know exactly what's she's talking😔😔

  • @michaelavalos5092
    @michaelavalos5092 7 років тому +138

    this song goes hard if you listen and feel what she feeling.

  • @christopherbrown5269
    @christopherbrown5269 Рік тому +26

    It really amazes me on how underrated melanie is as an artist and how she's just as good performing live as she is in the booth but be for real she gave us a few gems that we never saw coming or even thought we needed 🔥✅ #Timeless

  • @thenatural5268
    @thenatural5268 14 днів тому +3

    2024 and this song hits hard. Crazy because you’re really up all morning thinking you’re dealing with a cheater, meanwhile he’s out there being a whole alcoholic. Possibly cheating too, but definitely an immature alcoholic. Save yourself, don’t wait. Stop it, it’s hard but leave. You look up and 5yrs of your life was dedicated to this BS. Leave so you can heal, become stronger and find a healthy man that is level with you

  • @rachaelcohens1512
    @rachaelcohens1512 2 роки тому +909

    Almost 2022, I'm here! Can't let great music go to waste!

  • @tshepiibanda7768
    @tshepiibanda7768 4 роки тому +2425

    Quarantine got us doing a bit reflecting.

  • @rebeccamartin8916
    @rebeccamartin8916 Рік тому +22

    this song just hits all the spots the vibe is really Genuine.

  • @redboneb94
    @redboneb94 Рік тому +6

    It’s a different kind of crazy , when your in LOVE😭😭😭😭

  • @aaronnn5384
    @aaronnn5384 8 років тому +46

    it's scary that we will never see this quality again 😧😢

  • @mariping9988
    @mariping9988 4 роки тому +1019

    "I'm hurting and he doesn't even care"

  • @jasminedupree6493
    @jasminedupree6493 3 місяці тому +2

    The overthinkers anthem!!!!!! definitely mine.....we live in our heads

  • @teetanee1472
    @teetanee1472 2 роки тому +19

    “Who ever knew my ❤️ could bruise” damn that hits hard if you’ve ever had your heart broken

    • @DuaneLewis-rl3oc
      @DuaneLewis-rl3oc 3 місяці тому +1

      No oi😆😆😆😅😆😅😔😔😅😅😅

  • @gregoryhayes4172
    @gregoryhayes4172 8 років тому +94

    this song will never get old nobody could of done this better than her!!!

  • @Fosterz1020
    @Fosterz1020 8 років тому +2901

    Proud of her director to make the video totally about what the woman thinks is happening vs a guy out having fun with his friends. He was totally being "good" and she was at home losing her psychotic mind. Makes women seem CRAZY but not just any CRAZY it's the Kinda CRAZY you feel when you don't trust somebody!

    • @michaelcarroll7883
      @michaelcarroll7883 8 років тому +60

      Lol. I see what you did there

    • @Fosterz1020
      @Fosterz1020 8 років тому +22

      Like that?

    • @michaelcarroll7883
      @michaelcarroll7883 8 років тому +28

      You did a pun on the lyrics...

    • @icequeen1439
      @icequeen1439 8 років тому +178

      Girl you have preached the sermon of life. Us women can really go off a cliff and die from a broken heart always speculating the unknown. Because of our insecurities, past baggage, and present relationship. We must do better, we need jesus! You're comment was funny but sadly true. Be Blessed!

    • @godzdaughterh1180
      @godzdaughterh1180 8 років тому +9

      +Ice Queen AMEN. Sister Queen😍

  • @LHazely
    @LHazely 5 місяців тому +111

    One thing yall not is here in 2024

  • @LebohangThobejane
    @LebohangThobejane 4 місяці тому +2

    I love this song with all my heart

  • @debrada47
    @debrada47 3 роки тому +104

    A lot of women can relate to this song, and I’m one of them!
    Another of her songs which is a definite hit in my book! ❤️

  • @zephyrange618
    @zephyrange618 10 років тому +60

    Her first mistake was staying at home while he went out with his boys... Two can play that game!

    • @blackdubsociety
      @blackdubsociety 10 років тому +49

      Or instead of playing childish games, just move on.

    • @melvindenson1038
      @melvindenson1038 10 років тому +6

      It's cool to be confident enough to go out with your boys or girls if you both are secure and mature. Other than that, your mind will fill with suspicion. In the world of that video, he had no intention of cheating, but strange and sometimes the incredible comes into play that make things seems crazy and more so when your mind is inclined to think that way about your significant other.

    • @edgaraponteful
      @edgaraponteful 10 років тому

      B b Xcaret

    • @bryantbeauty
      @bryantbeauty 10 років тому

      Right!!

    • @ashleyavila1921
      @ashleyavila1921 10 років тому +4

      Not true. Your feeding fire with fire. Just because he is going out doesn't mean you need to go and instigate it either. If he's a good man he wouldn't do anything anyways.

  • @tiffanyholloway2800
    @tiffanyholloway2800 4 місяці тому +2

    Such a beautiful song. Melanie was perfect 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾

  • @breannabanton6047
    @breannabanton6047 Рік тому +134

    2023 and this song still hitting💯❤

  • @alexakearney
    @alexakearney 2 роки тому +50

    All the lyrics hit but that opening line hits the hardest. “Not just any kinda crazy. It’s the kind you feel when you love somebody”

    • @ambo9569
      @ambo9569 5 місяців тому

      🥺🥺

  • @ninalevi3207
    @ninalevi3207 3 роки тому +483

    It took me a while to truly understand this song. To be honest, it is quite ironic, she is getting emotional at home thinking about all the negative possibilities when in truth nothing like that is going on. Believe it or not, this has happened to a lot of people.

    • @rellgotti6366
      @rellgotti6366 2 роки тому +2

      They ain’t like that

    • @zariaanastacia9439
      @zariaanastacia9439 2 роки тому +4

      true that sameee

    • @anna-marykashella4353
      @anna-marykashella4353 2 роки тому +10

      Love is painful nothing can be compared to that feeling I guess. One can overcome anything but not love pain.

    • @timarryclarke9462
      @timarryclarke9462 2 роки тому

      tire

    • @dawnbowers9722
      @dawnbowers9722 Рік тому +2

      So true. I also took it as he possibly could've hurt her in the past and was doing well but now this! 😢

  • @Dyron-yx2hs
    @Dyron-yx2hs 9 місяців тому +5

    This deserves an academy award💎🏆 for a very dramatic part 💔 in a love film💯

  • @nicolettemashele8109
    @nicolettemashele8109 4 місяці тому +41

    2024 April who's here 😊❤❤

  • @rashad5077
    @rashad5077 9 років тому +461

    I see a lot broken hearted women on here I wish y'all da best

    • @cmarrero18
      @cmarrero18 8 років тому +17

      awwwww u so sweet

    • @miasonye9011
      @miasonye9011 8 років тому +11

      +Joe Huston THANKS BRO we wish yall men the best too

    • @Ms.R_NGuessan
      @Ms.R_NGuessan 8 років тому +1

      +Joe Huston hahaha you so mean :D LOL

    • @brendasolis705
      @brendasolis705 8 років тому

      you cute tho

    • @rashad5077
      @rashad5077 8 років тому

      +Brenda Solis thank you

  • @stacey-anndouglas6477
    @stacey-anndouglas6477 3 роки тому +373

    “I don’t deserve this life, I make the perfect wife”that part hit differently ♥️♥️😔♥️

  • @PhenomMy_Journey
    @PhenomMy_Journey 5 місяців тому +5

    2024!! Listening like it's brand new!! Love this song!! Give me chills!!

  • @YummyMummy-wf5py
    @YummyMummy-wf5py Рік тому +13

    This song still hits different!

  • @anitad5560
    @anitad5560 4 роки тому +2532

    Nobody:
    My single ass: It's 4am and my lover won't answerrrrr

  • @teegee4978
    @teegee4978 6 років тому +72

    The smartest creative video ever! He wasn't cheating and without this video u would've never known

  • @southernsuebanks1257
    @southernsuebanks1257 5 місяців тому +9

    2024 still 4am ❤❤

  • @efremcharlot9623
    @efremcharlot9623 9 місяців тому +4

    She put all her soul in this it just touched your heart

  • @lashandamanuel1606
    @lashandamanuel1606 8 років тому +344

    A WOMAN IS LIKE A PRECIOUS JEWEL, U TREASURE HER !

  • @tigariahernandez3846
    @tigariahernandez3846 9 років тому +199

    She's very under-rated I believe she has not been acknowledged for such a beautiful raw talent that she naturally has God given phenomenal angelic voice

    • @dashalabuford3607
      @dashalabuford3607 9 років тому +6

      I agree!!!!

    • @miraclesmith6405
      @miraclesmith6405 9 років тому +4

      That is so true

    • @alphonso1663
      @alphonso1663 9 років тому +4

      But the best ones are always the underrated ones too me because one they go really mainstream, people be on their dick , and try to find every flaw

    • @KimberleyBuckridge
      @KimberleyBuckridge 9 років тому +1

      Tigaria Hernandez so true i believe that Melanie Fiona and Jazmine Sullivan are really underrated...yet so talented

    • @dcomminc2301
      @dcomminc2301 9 років тому +4

      Phonzo Glade 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😨😨😨😨😨😨😨 😨😨😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😐😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😣😯😯😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😯😯😯😯😯😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😑😑😑😑😥😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😕😦🔡🔠🔠🔡🔢😇🐣😨😇🐮

  • @truelady1814
    @truelady1814 7 місяців тому +3

    Stilling loving this it gets better every time

  • @TreenPearson
    @TreenPearson Рік тому +9

    This song will always hit hard !! ❤❤❤

  • @nyikomichelle4895
    @nyikomichelle4895 2 роки тому +1345

    2022 but this still hits deep🔥🔥🔥❤️

  • @theuzumakikay8647
    @theuzumakikay8647 3 роки тому +371

    Playing this song loud asf and my husband is soo confused 😭😭😭
    This has nothing to do with you sir, I just like the song😂🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @elleelsie939
    @elleelsie939 9 місяців тому +5

    It feels like the younger generation understood the assignment they all players.

  • @phillipinemaretlwa5247
    @phillipinemaretlwa5247 Рік тому +10

    I used to listen to this song so much back in highschool and still hits

    • @bridadon5519
      @bridadon5519 Рік тому +1

      Right still going through shit like that now

  • @lagashalogan8761
    @lagashalogan8761 4 роки тому +212

    “Pour me up a drink, i swear i need it”
    So relatable 😩

  • @1Kaysha
    @1Kaysha 6 років тому +35

    Hitting them notes baby!

  • @Nontobeko-rp9cu
    @Nontobeko-rp9cu Місяць тому +5

    Anyone listening 2024-07-06😢

  • @donnastewart4666
    @donnastewart4666 4 місяці тому +2

    I love this song 💕

  • @melissataitt7762
    @melissataitt7762 5 років тому +1576

    she doesnt have trust issues. She feels what is going on. lets turn the tables and he was in his bed while she was out at 4 am alone without him. The truth is when couples are together they are mindful of their behaviour and often engage in activities together. lf they do socialise apart they keep good time and come home at a fashionable time. lts called respect.

    • @opalridgway4878
      @opalridgway4878 5 років тому +35

      Thanks Melissa. Nicely said couldn't agree more,

    • @YvonneNonYa
      @YvonneNonYa 5 років тому +22

      What I'm going threw now 8 months pregnant smh

    • @melissataitt7762
      @melissataitt7762 5 років тому +38

      Its the reality of most women to be neglected in pregnancy. My advice to you is to focus on that bundle of love thats growing in your womb. l have experienced what you are going through and l focus on my babies they are bigger today but the love l gave them is all coming back to me.

    • @YvonneNonYa
      @YvonneNonYa 5 років тому +14

      @@melissataitt7762 I'm trying just tired of the no respect. I don't think a call or text isnt asking to much if someone takes off till 5 in the morning suppose to be working yet comes back with no money. Just took my money and bounced and partied for the night.

    • @melissataitt7762
      @melissataitt7762 5 років тому +18

      @@YvonneNonYa well its time to play the broke trick judging from your photo your a beautiful woman. You can move on, it wont be easy it takes small steps before the big one. you must first leave him in you mind and heart when you see him interact with him less. spend time alone talking to your baby and other people. when you earn money hide half, old back crack in the house anything. lf he force fully take the other half fine. talking to your child is important cause since your in pain its in pain and l mean emotional pain. You talking to it give it the command that your the voice to follow when its born. My reason for saying this because some babies born cranky because of the negative emotions it experiences with the mother while its in the womb. You dont want a difficult pregnancy and a cranky baby after thats too much pressure on a mother who has no support from a father. You know his habits his lack of respect so dont expect him to change. lf he is not sympathetic to a pregnant woman he wont change when the child is born crying needs changing needs holding and attention. Most men run when their spouse is pregnant. May be fear l dont know however, you got this. The love that you and your child will shear before its even born through communication from the womb will heal your heart and give you the strength to emerge as a Felix from the ashes. You are beautiful keep a positive attitude and consider he is doing you a favour because you don't want your child to experience the same hurt and neglect when its born. Observe him and drift away slowly when he comes in late say nothing and do nothing but save your money and he will drift back on his own if he has any love for you. He is doing as he pleases cause he knows your clingy and will show him love whenever he flies through the door. Your a sure thing. Let him go while living with him, if he goes it was the best thing. lf he stays and notice your distance simply say. You wanted your freedom so l let you have it l wont beg you for what should come natural go have fun, l wiĺl be fine. If he leaves he doesnt care. lf he ask questions he was just having too much fun. Then you can decide if you will continue to move on and let him chase you or leave. Let him cling stop chasing and be chased.

  • @christinadavis3288
    @christinadavis3288 8 років тому +114

    i looooooooooove this song guys make you feel like that sometimes

  • @madcaitt
    @madcaitt 9 місяців тому +5

    2023 still here listening to this amazing voice and song. I listened to this song on repeat when I found out my ex husband was cheating and screamed this song at the top of my lungs and still feel all of the emotions when I listen to it but not for him just the hurt he put me through!

  • @marterianfoulkes4456
    @marterianfoulkes4456 Рік тому +4

    Idk how I would feel after thiss song 💯💯💯💯💯💯 Must keep PRAYING ‼️‼️‼️

  • @AlwayzOneHunnit
    @AlwayzOneHunnit 2 роки тому +92

    She just had a beautiful baby... Congrats lady ❤️. I love her voice... She's so classy, beautiful, talented, under rated, etc. I like this song.

  • @Shesokholdd
    @Shesokholdd 5 років тому +251

    Still my song & going on 2019 🚩🇫🇷

    • @terrenceransom912
      @terrenceransom912 5 років тому +1

      valencia smith, Its February 5, 2019 I Totally Agree With You Whole Heartedly!!!!!!!! MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN😀😘👌🏾👍🏾👊🏾✊🏾💪🏾☝️🏾👏🏾✌️🏾💯📚USA🇺🇸👇MY ANCESTORS LAND BY BLOODLINE 🇦🇫

  • @user-di3vv7iz2t
    @user-di3vv7iz2t 10 місяців тому +5

    Her voice is fire😮

  • @user-vv6mm1zj2l
    @user-vv6mm1zj2l Рік тому +12

    I remember the first time I heard this and it wasn't from her, but from someone I grew up with and I still can't get enough of it 😊❤❤❤❤❤

  • @danielnjovu3652
    @danielnjovu3652 3 роки тому +64

    If you are still listening to this, 2021 feb going forward hit and leave a comment, you are blessed .

  • @lillittle09
    @lillittle09 7 років тому +431

    she is beautiful with a excellent voice

  • @toniann5094
    @toniann5094 Рік тому +7

    I’m feeling this song right now to the CORE 😭 “who knew that my heart could ever bruised, sitting here feeling kinda crazy” 💔

  • @christelsamuel6866
    @christelsamuel6866 5 років тому +480

    I am listening this song in 2019 who else here with me

  • @talasiamarshall8658
    @talasiamarshall8658 9 років тому +27

    Love is
    a crazy
    Thing

  • @jasmine8120
    @jasmine8120 Рік тому +30

    I remember this song popped up on Pandora as a sign that my ex was cheating on me. This song still hits... Before I used to cry to it now I just love to hear it lol

  • @maverickjacksonexecutivedi7569
    @maverickjacksonexecutivedi7569 Місяць тому +1

    #Tictok brought me here 🎶 trending 2024 still Banging 🔥🔥🔥
    Awesome song!!
    Crazy story.
    I was walking in to a particular exotic adult club years ago in ATL this song was playing and a #gorgeous performer 💃 was going ham on stage while this song was playing.
    Needless to say many years later we still cool today 🤩

  • @MyClass21
    @MyClass21 2 роки тому +174

    One of the most underrated powerful love songs... blessed to be able to listen to this in 2021

    • @ebonibebahini6236
      @ebonibebahini6236 2 роки тому +1

      I've been through what her song is about, that's why he 6ft under now the next woman didn't accept all that 2 woman pregnant from him 5 buildings away and 1 more at the Hospital delivering his baby when she was.

    • @MyClass21
      @MyClass21 2 роки тому

      @@ebonibebahini6236 daaaammmmnnnn🤦🏾‍♀️you can not play with everybody or their emotions! That's tough😔

    • @jordandavis2110
      @jordandavis2110 Рік тому

      Jordan Davis 19 of The be Most

    • @ErickWright
      @ErickWright 9 місяців тому

      Imagine if the human race was monogamous from the beginning, none of us would be here to this day. To die for natural human urges what a sad story

  • @Unknown-sk3df
    @Unknown-sk3df 4 роки тому +399

    Before Jhené Aiko “the worst” it was melanie Fiona “4am” . 💗

    • @theunicornsin1144
      @theunicornsin1144 3 роки тому +3

      Brooooooo

    • @Sinnabunny1
      @Sinnabunny1 3 роки тому +29

      And before this ashanti- the way I loved u

    • @johnyalvarez59
      @johnyalvarez59 3 роки тому +17

      This song still better than “the worst”

    • @Ahn-mu3db
      @Ahn-mu3db 3 роки тому +2

      @@johnyalvarez59 facts

    • @lorngo9227
      @lorngo9227 3 роки тому +3

      @@johnyalvarez59 agree 👌

  • @latoyacuthbert
    @latoyacuthbert 6 місяців тому +2

    Yes Melanie Fiona I Love Your Songs

  • @hugovalerio1171
    @hugovalerio1171 4 місяці тому +1

    I love this song, Nostalgic 🙌🏼

  • @missmanu7701
    @missmanu7701 5 років тому +125

    Such a beautiful song. Vocals are really spectacular. 2019 artist give me some rnb like this again

    • @mjmorgan2005
      @mjmorgan2005 5 років тому +1

      Miss Manu they won’t they ain’t they not

    • @missmanu7701
      @missmanu7701 5 років тому

      @@redjohnson2030 Indeed it truly is😄

    • @missmanu7701
      @missmanu7701 5 років тому

      @@mjmorgan2005 lol... I know right. I'm still keeping hope alive.

    • @anthraxxvl2216
      @anthraxxvl2216 4 роки тому

      Look up non mainstream R&B

    • @yoligoodi4663
      @yoligoodi4663 3 роки тому

      We begging but looks like wishful begging at this point