I use to cry to this song..I held on to my daughter's father for 3 years after all he put me through. I didn't think I would EVER get over him..but I did! It was so freeing. I am now happily married to an amazing man! 💛 #dontsettle
Sometimes the things or people we hold on to is the reason we go through so much pain I'm happy that you made the decision to leave that situation and put you and your daughters peace first best wishes to you💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
my boyfriend treats me so useless he ain't know tht other man out the wnr make me their perfect wife this song hits my soul and I still choose him😢😭😭swear this man is begging me to leave him.
I really miss music like this...when music had real meaning. Today everything is about money and sex or violence. This generation is so shallow when it comes to music....
I felt this comment... this was just a thought in my head earlier... im 36 now and I was thinking of ex boyfriends I've been with how much shit I put them through in my 20s compared to the me now who has humbled out big time, I laugh off a nasty look or remark compared to b4 I'd just fight!
"Never make someone a priority, when all you are to them is an option." - Maya Angelou One of the wisest things I've ever heard someone say, especially when it comes to dating/relationships. Love the song, but to those with a broken heart, always remember: We teach people how to treat us. Set boundaries and stick to them. Otherwise, people will walk all over you. No man/woman can make or break you. Recognize your worth, and tell that mofo to kick rocks. Leave graciously, and with a smile on your face. You deserve better. ❤
As I’m older and listening to this I just love how she told this story of an unhealthy emotional rollercoaster relationship that’s she knows is not good but she doesn’t want to end. Omg shows how much we will put up with for love
Proud of her director to make the video totally about what the woman thinks is happening vs a guy out having fun with his friends. He was totally being "good" and she was at home losing her psychotic mind. Makes women seem CRAZY but not just any CRAZY it's the Kinda CRAZY you feel when you don't trust somebody!
Girl you have preached the sermon of life. Us women can really go off a cliff and die from a broken heart always speculating the unknown. Because of our insecurities, past baggage, and present relationship. We must do better, we need jesus! You're comment was funny but sadly true. Be Blessed!
Lyrics : Sitting here feeling kinda crazy But not just any crazy It's the kind you feel when you love somebody And I know that my baby Is calling somebody else baby And I can't sit still Look how gone it got me Who knew that my heart could have a bruise? You see this scar here on my chest? I'm hurting and he don't even care It's 4 AM and my lover won't answer He's probably somewhere with a dancer Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed It's 4 AM and I think I might lose it This mo'fucka thinking I'm stupid He must've bumped his head Don't he know it's 4 AM Standing here and I'm getting heated Pourin' me up a drink I swear I need it I think I'm about 'Bout to hurt somebody Swear this man is begging me to leave Him Getting sick of being so mistreated Another night without.. Without his arms around me Who knew that my heart could have a Bruise? You see this scar here on my chest? I'm hurting and he don't even care It's 4 AM and my lover won't answer He's probably somewhere with a dancer Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed It's 4 AM and I think I might lose it This mo'fucka thinking I'm stupid He must've bumped his head Don't he know it's 4 AM I don't deserve this life I'd make the perfect wife And I know love's a sacrifice But who's gonna sacrifice for me and Give me all their time and... Who knew that my heart could have a Bruise? You see this scar here on my chest? I'm hurting and he don't even care It's 4 AM and my lover won't answer He's probably somewhere with a dancer Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed It's 4 AM and I think I might lose it This mo'fucka thinking I'm stupid He must've bumped his head Don't he know it's 4 AM .. Sitting here feeling kinda crazy But not just any crazy It's the kind you feel when you love somebody
kewl kid that's pretty cool, are you feeling like that or are you just feeling the music either way Melanie Fiona lays it down let's us guys know what you guys go through
its unfortunate that we hurt people who loves us without knowing OR maybe thinking that they always be here with us. Peace and love to all broken hearts!!!
Tell me how he is hurting her? If you watch the video you will see that his phone fell, he was then drunk and fell asleep in his car. He was not cheating with no dancer.
It took me a while to truly understand this song. To be honest, it is quite ironic, she is getting emotional at home thinking about all the negative possibilities when in truth nothing like that is going on. Believe it or not, this has happened to a lot of people.
Sitting here feeling kinda crazy But not just any crazy It's the kind you feel when you love somebody And I know that my baby Is calling somebody else baby And I can't sit still Look how gone it got me Who knew that my heart could have a bruise? You see this scar here on my chest? I'm hurting and he don't even care It's four a.m. and my lover won't answer He's probably somewhere with a dancer Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed It's four a.m. and I think I might lose it This m***** thinking I'm stupid He must've bumped his head Don't he know it's four a.m. Standing here and I'm getting heated Pourin' me up a drink I swear I need it I think I'm about 'Bout to hurt somebody Swear this man is begging me to leave him Getting sick of being so mistreated Another night without Without his arms around me Who knew that my heart could have a bruise? You see this scar here on my chest? I'm hurting and he don't even care It's four a.m. and my lover won't answer He's probably somewhere with a dancer Sippin' cha.m.pagne while I'm in his bed It's four a.m. and I think I might lose it This m****** thinking I'm stupid He must've bumped his head Don't he know it's four a.m. I don't deserve this life I'd make the perfect wife And I know love's a sacrifice But who's gonna sacrifice for me and Give me all their time and Who knew that my heart could have a bruise? You see this scar here on my chest? I'm hurting and he don't even care It's four a.m. and my lover won't answer He's probably somewhere with a dancer Sippin' cha.m.pagne while I'm in his bed It's four a.m. and I think I might lose it This m****** thinking I'm stupid He must've bumped his head Don't he know it's four a.m.
Thanks for people like me " word deaf" I thought she said "4am and I'm thinkin bout usin..it's off..thinkin I'm stupid".. Cos that would be stupid..lol!..thanks again!
She's very under-rated I believe she has not been acknowledged for such a beautiful raw talent that she naturally has God given phenomenal angelic voice
This song hits the core when you go through the motions of the toxicity of narcissistic lovers. Kudos to Fiona who never got her accolades her talent is phenomenal! #4am #inthelife
Didnt know if I should put this here but your so right Am 29 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend was doing such the most last night because he had a lil to much to drink after work with the same friend I was trying to tell him about that not good company driving crazy going hard on potholes I had to even fight him one moment be he hit me in my chest The worst part about all of this is my 3 yr old that doesn't belong to him saw every inch of it Now am crying my eye out because am hurt no one to talk to other than his family which I don't wanna talk to Just need a hug rn feeling like the worst mother in the world
@@kelshawilliams1212 You're not the worst mother, and I know it's hard. I married a man who hit me in front of my child before. She was around six at the time, and he and I had just had a baby together. I loved that man more than I loved myself, and we have been married for thirteen years. We are separated now, and finally at the point of getting a divorce. Love can be blinding, but some things you have to do for your children and for yourself. I'll be praying for you.
@@kelshawilliams1212 Save up money in your own bank account. Have one trusted friend that you can call anything and give them a code word if you’re in immediate danger and can’t call 911. Don’t settle for love, go where you are treated graciously and like a queen. If you aren’t already in a DA help group or therapy I suggest you do. Make friends with like minded people that know what you’re going through. Stay safe.
Sweetie have a lot of faith on then man up stairs are created I'm talking about experience I been there and hurts you need to put your kids and yourself first they got help for abuse woman when they getting hurt by someone they love so much now thing for a moment does he really love you all he taking you like a punching bag that show you that he doesn't love you all he wouldn't hurt you and no way or matter God bless you and your kids stay always from the 👿
I've been through what her song is about, that's why he 6ft under now the next woman didn't accept all that 2 woman pregnant from him 5 buildings away and 1 more at the Hospital delivering his baby when she was.
It really amazes me on how underrated melanie is as an artist and how she's just as good performing live as she is in the booth but be for real she gave us a few gems that we never saw coming or even thought we needed 🔥✅ #Timeless
she doesnt have trust issues. She feels what is going on. lets turn the tables and he was in his bed while she was out at 4 am alone without him. The truth is when couples are together they are mindful of their behaviour and often engage in activities together. lf they do socialise apart they keep good time and come home at a fashionable time. lts called respect.
Its the reality of most women to be neglected in pregnancy. My advice to you is to focus on that bundle of love thats growing in your womb. l have experienced what you are going through and l focus on my babies they are bigger today but the love l gave them is all coming back to me.
@@melissataitt7762 I'm trying just tired of the no respect. I don't think a call or text isnt asking to much if someone takes off till 5 in the morning suppose to be working yet comes back with no money. Just took my money and bounced and partied for the night.
@@YvonneNonYa well its time to play the broke trick judging from your photo your a beautiful woman. You can move on, it wont be easy it takes small steps before the big one. you must first leave him in you mind and heart when you see him interact with him less. spend time alone talking to your baby and other people. when you earn money hide half, old back crack in the house anything. lf he force fully take the other half fine. talking to your child is important cause since your in pain its in pain and l mean emotional pain. You talking to it give it the command that your the voice to follow when its born. My reason for saying this because some babies born cranky because of the negative emotions it experiences with the mother while its in the womb. You dont want a difficult pregnancy and a cranky baby after thats too much pressure on a mother who has no support from a father. You know his habits his lack of respect so dont expect him to change. lf he is not sympathetic to a pregnant woman he wont change when the child is born crying needs changing needs holding and attention. Most men run when their spouse is pregnant. May be fear l dont know however, you got this. The love that you and your child will shear before its even born through communication from the womb will heal your heart and give you the strength to emerge as a Felix from the ashes. You are beautiful keep a positive attitude and consider he is doing you a favour because you don't want your child to experience the same hurt and neglect when its born. Observe him and drift away slowly when he comes in late say nothing and do nothing but save your money and he will drift back on his own if he has any love for you. He is doing as he pleases cause he knows your clingy and will show him love whenever he flies through the door. Your a sure thing. Let him go while living with him, if he goes it was the best thing. lf he stays and notice your distance simply say. You wanted your freedom so l let you have it l wont beg you for what should come natural go have fun, l wiĺl be fine. If he leaves he doesnt care. lf he ask questions he was just having too much fun. Then you can decide if you will continue to move on and let him chase you or leave. Let him cling stop chasing and be chased.
I can honestly say i relate to this song to the t and i dont know WHAT to do i mean im not stupid but like sometimes love of you want to call that makes you do crazy shit but im literally almost there for myself and my heart
@@jennycanchola6844 MAYBE YOU LOVE TOO HARD.....YOU NEED TO SHOW LESS FEELINGS.......N JUST LOVE DO NOT LIKE ITS GONNA B D END OF THE WORLD....THE PERSON MIGHT TAKE ADVANTAGES OF YOUR LOVE....AS A 15 YEAR OLD.....IVE SEEN THIS ALOT....ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS NOT TO SHOW ALOT OF EMOTIONS N FEELINGS🙄😪✊💪
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CRAZY I WOKE UP OUT MY SLEEP AT 4AM 2LISTEN TO THIS SONG. AND YES ITS 4:01AM AND HE IS DOWN STAIRS WITH ANOTHER DANCER, WHILE IM IN HIS BED AND HE DONT EVEN CARE. SMH, LIFE IS SO HURTFUL SOMETIMES. THE THINGS YOU ACCEPT WHEN YOUR HEART IS ALREADY IN CRUMBLES.
I am so sorry that has to you and I know that all to well it’s sad and men have no clue how you be feeling because they could care less as long as they get them wifey duties but forgetting when they do that time in jail who will really there smh my life now
@@briabriah6807 I DID DARLING, BUT LOVE STILL IS SO RAW, RECKLESS, AND RIGHTFULLY WRONG THE MAJORITY OF THE TIME. I GUESS IM TIME TRAVELING STILL CONNECTING AND GRAVITATING TO GREATNESS. I CHOOSE 2B HAPPY AND FREE. I CHOOSE 2LIVE2LEARN AND LEARN2LIVE🌞💪✨💥💪🧡💪✨💪💛💪💥✨💪🌛💪✨🧡✨💪🔥🌞💪🔥💪✨💛🧡🌛🧡✨💛✨🧡✨🌞💥💛✨🧡💥🌛🔥🧡💥💛🧡
This is such an on point song for those that allow themselves to stay up and wait. Rich or poor we go through the same. I tell you what though. It's nice to have a song that goes w/ what your going through. So you don't feel alone! She's beautiful and she has a beautiful voice...
10/2021 🤯🤯 Damn! Still hits deep. Actually deeper than ever. I just sang this while in the shower with every note I had in me. I exhaled when I was finished. This is MUSIC. ❤️
10 years ago had this song on repeat I can remember the exact reason it was sung my little heart out each time it played when I play it now it still give me goosebumps man when you know you know 😢
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I use to cry to this song..I held on to my daughter's father for 3 years after all he put me through. I didn't think I would EVER get over him..but I did! It was so freeing. I am now happily married to an amazing man! 💛 #dontsettle
how u move on
Please tell me how? I feel trapped, I'm suffocating...
This makes me so happy. Idk you but I’m so proud of you for choosing better bc you deserve it 🥺
Sometimes the things or people we hold on to is the reason we go through so much pain I'm happy that you made the decision to leave that situation and put you and your daughters peace first best wishes to you💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
Just freed myself after 4 years of pain and I’m praying I don’t relapse
When she said " I don't deserve this life and I make the perfect wife "...I felt that to my soul😩💔
Yesss
Same asf..
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Why?
my boyfriend treats me so useless he ain't know tht other man out the wnr make me their perfect wife this song hits my soul and I still choose him😢😭😭swear this man is begging me to leave him.
It's 2024 and this song is still on repeat 😢.. it's a beautiful song thank you Fiona ❤
Same, revisiting old music ❤😅
Facts❤
I'm with you when u right
Everyone can relate
I’m still listening…at 4am. Someone crossed my mind and this song popped up in my head suddenly. I’m feeling every emotion…💔
Feb 2024 im here blazing this jam... stuff is timeless
SEPTEMBER 2024
November 2024
I really miss music like this...when music had real meaning. Today everything is about money and sex or violence. This generation is so shallow when it comes to music....
Yes Tru the my type of music classic 😢😢😢 I born 1980
Couldn't agree more. This music will always triumph the garbage that's on the radio now.
I totally agree
Jade i hate comments like this. just don’t listen to that type of music. it’s that simple.
Yep
2021 anyone? This will never get old man 😢
Edit : where all my 2022 peeps at 😮💨👍🏼
Never ever!!!
Never Ever!!!
🎶❤️💯
Here
Never gets old
Powerful song.. This song will always be relatable. This song is definitely going to remain a classic.
12 years later! Still jamming this on April 1, 2024👍🏾🌬️💨
I never in a million years thought I’d relate to this song on that level . Lord Have I been humbled
😢
Singing it with my chest 12 years ago just to be singing from my soul today 😅😢
I felt this comment... this was just a thought in my head earlier... im 36 now and I was thinking of ex boyfriends I've been with how much shit I put them through in my 20s compared to the me now who has humbled out big time, I laugh off a nasty look or remark compared to b4 I'd just fight!
Sorry
Hope you're doing good 👍
Doing better now!
You just gotta love this song even in 2019🙌🔥🔥
When she says: "Who knew my heart could have a bruise...You see this knot here on my chest..I'm hurting and he don't even care.." I FELT THAT.
End of 2024, forgot about this heat, heard a snip on social media, and was like mannnnnn, I forgot about that one, this is 🔥 work
Unfortunately real singers do not get acknowledged. She is phenomenal
She did
True
This true
the 49 million views say otherwise 🥴
she won a grammy dawg
‘ swear this man is begging me to leave him’ 🥺🥺😭😭 Jesus!
Word
Yessss that part!
Man listen!!!-
I felt that 😢
Stg 😭😭
"But not just any crazy. Its the kind that you feel, when you love somebody"
Anyone listening in 2024❤🗣️
Yep at 4:00 AM
Me
You’re my fav person ever ngl
Oh ofc!!!
Yes I am here
"Never make someone a priority, when all you are to them is an option."
- Maya Angelou
One of the wisest things I've ever heard someone say, especially when it comes to dating/relationships.
Love the song, but to those with a broken heart, always remember:
We teach people how to treat us. Set boundaries and stick to them. Otherwise, people will walk all over you. No man/woman can make or break you. Recognize your worth, and tell that mofo to kick rocks. Leave graciously, and with a smile on your face. You deserve better. ❤
Powerful Words !!!!!
Yes indeed!❤✊
True
Thank You!
🗣PREACH!!!
She doesent get enough credit for how gorgeous she is ❤️🤦🏽♀️🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼
ha🤣
You're one to talk about gorgeous if thats you
Listening in 2019😍🔥🔥🔥🔥stilll fireee
Me 🙋 love this song ❤️
You don't have to be alone
Me definitely
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Come back
As I’m older and listening to this I just love how she told this story of an unhealthy emotional rollercoaster relationship that’s she knows is not good but she doesn’t want to end. Omg shows how much we will put up with for love
Facts
Her voice is so powerful and beautiful
Ong
Yes it is!
at 10 years old this song had me cryin over an imaginary man who did me wrong smh
+Kaylah Robertson this was 5 years ago ????
I echo that
when she was 10 years old...not the song. (I assume)
Lmao same. I'm 15 now , still young but how the time passes 😂
not venitia
Almost 2022, I'm here! Can't let great music go to waste!
I agree with you 2022 no more drama no more stealing let's have a fresh year
December 30, 2021
January 2022 am here
01/27/22
Same here 2/4/22
12 years later and still a banger
Deff fire
If you are listening to This April 2019 Let See you And God Bless you All 🔥😍❤
Every morning after waking an prayin these r my music in my ears while home r goin to wrk 🥰
May 2019
THEE IT CAR may 2019
@@enoriega62 May 2019 and it's Still Rocking
@@ms.frierson818 I'm Still Here
"I'm hurting and he doesn't even care"
I hear that
@Bama Made ... thank you 😊
@@hunnyreynolds2588 , I'm sorry 😔
U dont deserve that i kniw i dont either
I can relate 😩
Me: "it's 4am and my lover won't answerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"
My mom: "what lover" *grabs belt*
Lolllll.....hilarious!!
🤣🤣🤣
ikr
😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Underrated comment 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
This song is perfection: her vocals, the music, lyrics, everything is 🔥
Proud of her director to make the video totally about what the woman thinks is happening vs a guy out having fun with his friends. He was totally being "good" and she was at home losing her psychotic mind. Makes women seem CRAZY but not just any CRAZY it's the Kinda CRAZY you feel when you don't trust somebody!
Lol. I see what you did there
Like that?
You did a pun on the lyrics...
Girl you have preached the sermon of life. Us women can really go off a cliff and die from a broken heart always speculating the unknown. Because of our insecurities, past baggage, and present relationship. We must do better, we need jesus! You're comment was funny but sadly true. Be Blessed!
+Ice Queen AMEN. Sister Queen😍
this song goes hard if you listen and feel what she feeling.
Lyrics :
Sitting here feeling kinda crazy
But not just any crazy
It's the kind you feel when you love somebody
And I know that my baby
Is calling somebody else baby
And I can't sit still
Look how gone it got me
Who knew that my heart could have a bruise?
You see this scar here on my chest?
I'm hurting and he don't even care
It's 4 AM and my lover won't answer
He's probably somewhere with a dancer
Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed
It's 4 AM and I think I might lose it
This mo'fucka thinking I'm stupid
He must've bumped his head
Don't he know it's 4 AM
Standing here and I'm getting heated
Pourin' me up a drink I swear I need it
I think I'm about
'Bout to hurt somebody
Swear this man is begging me to leave
Him
Getting sick of being so mistreated
Another night without..
Without his arms around me
Who knew that my heart could have a
Bruise?
You see this scar here on my chest?
I'm hurting and he don't even care
It's 4 AM and my lover won't answer
He's probably somewhere with a dancer
Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed
It's 4 AM and I think I might lose it
This mo'fucka thinking I'm stupid
He must've bumped his head
Don't he know it's 4 AM
I don't deserve this life
I'd make the perfect wife
And I know love's a sacrifice
But who's gonna sacrifice for me and
Give me all their time and...
Who knew that my heart could have a
Bruise?
You see this scar here on my chest?
I'm hurting and he don't even care
It's 4 AM and my lover won't answer
He's probably somewhere with a dancer
Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed
It's 4 AM and I think I might lose it
This mo'fucka thinking I'm stupid
He must've bumped his head
Don't he know it's 4 AM ..
Sitting here feeling kinda crazy
But not just any crazy
It's the kind you feel when you love somebody
kewl kid that's pretty cool, are you feeling like that or are you just feeling the music either way Melanie Fiona lays it down let's us guys know what you guys go through
kewl kid Thanks
Me either lol
Idk why this only have 59 likes. Should have more.
jam
it's scary that we will never see this quality again 😧😢
“I don’t deserve this life, I make the perfect wife”that part hit differently ♥️♥️😔♥️
Yes. Still waiting on my ring.
True amen amen amen
A lot of women can relate to this song, and I’m one of them!
Another of her songs which is a definite hit in my book! ❤️
Such a beautiful song. Melanie was perfect 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾
The smartest creative video ever! He wasn't cheating and without this video u would've never known
its unfortunate that we hurt people who loves us without knowing OR maybe thinking that they always be here with us. Peace and love to all broken hearts!!!
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Young Luv real
Young Luv so very true
Young Luv well said
Tell me how he is hurting her? If you watch the video you will see that his phone fell, he was then drunk and fell asleep in his car. He was not cheating with no dancer.
Nobody:
My single ass: It's 4am and my lover won't answerrrrr
Anita D you’re not alone 😂😂
HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA SAME
Youbwill meet someone who will love you in the ways you deserve, stay grounded honey ! 💋
🤣🤣🤣
Same
Who's Streaming In November 2024? 😅❤❤
They need to bring back this type of music
Underated song cc
this song will never get old nobody could of done this better than her!!!
It took me a while to truly understand this song. To be honest, it is quite ironic, she is getting emotional at home thinking about all the negative possibilities when in truth nothing like that is going on. Believe it or not, this has happened to a lot of people.
They ain’t like that
true that sameee
Love is painful nothing can be compared to that feeling I guess. One can overcome anything but not love pain.
tire
So true. I also took it as he possibly could've hurt her in the past and was doing well but now this! 😢
Who still listening to this song 2020 hit like, I love this song❤
I do
Ivy Jackson I do
Me
still a hit that's a fact
Meeeee
Haven’t heard this song in YEARS. Here I am in 2024 remembering all the lyrics ❤️😂
Omg me too! It came up on my Facebook from forever ago and I had completely forgot about this song. Now here I am remembering every damn word.
All the lyrics hit but that opening line hits the hardest. “Not just any kinda crazy. It’s the kind you feel when you love somebody”
🥺🥺
This song hits different when you know exactly what's she's talking😔😔
Babyyyyyy😢💔
Yes she
Facts
You are the best
You are the best
Sitting here feeling kinda crazy
But not just any crazy
It's the kind you feel when you love somebody
And I know that my baby
Is calling somebody else baby
And I can't sit still
Look how gone it got me
Who knew that my heart could have a bruise?
You see this scar here on my chest?
I'm hurting and he don't even care
It's four a.m. and my lover won't answer
He's probably somewhere with a dancer
Sippin' champagne while I'm in his bed
It's four a.m. and I think I might lose it
This m***** thinking I'm stupid
He must've bumped his head
Don't he know it's four a.m.
Standing here and I'm getting heated
Pourin' me up a drink I swear I need it
I think I'm about
'Bout to hurt somebody
Swear this man is begging me to leave him
Getting sick of being so mistreated
Another night without
Without his arms around me
Who knew that my heart could have a bruise?
You see this scar here on my chest?
I'm hurting and he don't even care
It's four a.m. and my lover won't answer
He's probably somewhere with a dancer
Sippin' cha.m.pagne while I'm in his bed
It's four a.m. and I think I might lose it
This m****** thinking I'm stupid
He must've bumped his head
Don't he know it's four a.m.
I don't deserve this life
I'd make the perfect wife
And I know love's a sacrifice
But who's gonna sacrifice for me and
Give me all their time and
Who knew that my heart could have a bruise?
You see this scar here on my chest?
I'm hurting and he don't even care
It's four a.m. and my lover won't answer
He's probably somewhere with a dancer
Sippin' cha.m.pagne while I'm in his bed
It's four a.m. and I think I might lose it
This m****** thinking I'm stupid
He must've bumped his head
Don't he know it's four a.m.
Thank you
Thanks for people like me " word deaf" I thought she said "4am and I'm thinkin bout usin..it's off..thinkin I'm stupid"..
Cos that would be stupid..lol!..thanks again!
@@kdmok 😭
😭
Thank u
The ladies need more songs like this ❤ I was to young to experience it right 😂😭
2023 and this is still a hit❗️❗️
Facts
A definite bop!
Ong! 😩
Yes it is❤
Same here
She's very under-rated I believe she has not been acknowledged for such a beautiful raw talent that she naturally has God given phenomenal angelic voice
I agree!!!!
That is so true
But the best ones are always the underrated ones too me because one they go really mainstream, people be on their dick , and try to find every flaw
Tigaria Hernandez so true i believe that Melanie Fiona and Jazmine Sullivan are really underrated...yet so talented
Phonzo Glade 😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😨😨😨😨😨😨😨 😨😨😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😨😐😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😯😣😯😯😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😯😯😯😯😯😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😑😑😑😑😥😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😕😦🔡🔠🔠🔡🔢😇🐣😨😇🐮
This song hits the core when you go through the motions of the toxicity of narcissistic lovers. Kudos to Fiona who never got her accolades her talent is phenomenal! #4am #inthelife
Didnt know if I should put this here but your so right
Am 29 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend was doing such the most last night because he had a lil to much to drink after work with the same friend I was trying to tell him about that not good company driving crazy going hard on potholes
I had to even fight him one moment be he hit me in my chest
The worst part about all of this is my 3 yr old that doesn't belong to him saw every inch of it
Now am crying my eye out because am hurt no one to talk to other than his family which I don't wanna talk to
Just need a hug rn feeling like the worst mother in the world
I’ve started to re experience trauma from my emotionally abusive relationship…
@@kelshawilliams1212 You're not the worst mother, and I know it's hard. I married a man who hit me in front of my child before. She was around six at the time, and he and I had just had a baby together. I loved that man more than I loved myself, and we have been married for thirteen years. We are separated now, and finally at the point of getting a divorce. Love can be blinding, but some things you have to do for your children and for yourself. I'll be praying for you.
@@kelshawilliams1212 Save up money in your own bank account. Have one trusted friend that you can call anything and give them a code word if you’re in immediate danger and can’t call 911. Don’t settle for love, go where you are treated graciously and like a queen. If you aren’t already in a DA help group or therapy I suggest you do. Make friends with like minded people that know what you’re going through. Stay safe.
Sweetie have a lot of faith on then man up stairs are created I'm talking about experience I been there and hurts you need to put your kids and yourself first they got help for abuse woman when they getting hurt by someone they love so much now thing for a moment does he really love you all he taking you like a punching bag that show you that he doesn't love you all he wouldn't hurt you and no way or matter God bless you and your kids stay always from the 👿
Can't believe it's been 13 years... feels like yesterday, when I was pumping this on max. Beautiful!
I see a lot broken hearted women on here I wish y'all da best
awwwww u so sweet
+Joe Huston THANKS BRO we wish yall men the best too
+Joe Huston hahaha you so mean :D LOL
you cute tho
+Brenda Solis thank you
One of the most underrated powerful love songs... blessed to be able to listen to this in 2021
I've been through what her song is about, that's why he 6ft under now the next woman didn't accept all that 2 woman pregnant from him 5 buildings away and 1 more at the Hospital delivering his baby when she was.
@@ebonibebahini6236 daaaammmmnnnn🤦🏾♀️you can not play with everybody or their emotions! That's tough😔
Jordan Davis 19 of The be Most
Imagine if the human race was monogamous from the beginning, none of us would be here to this day. To die for natural human urges what a sad story
Such a beautiful song. Vocals are really spectacular. 2019 artist give me some rnb like this again
Miss Manu they won’t they ain’t they not
@@redjohnson2030 Indeed it truly is😄
@@mjmorgan2005 lol... I know right. I'm still keeping hope alive.
Look up non mainstream R&B
We begging but looks like wishful begging at this point
It really amazes me on how underrated melanie is as an artist and how she's just as good performing live as she is in the booth but be for real she gave us a few gems that we never saw coming or even thought we needed 🔥✅ #Timeless
she doesnt have trust issues. She feels what is going on. lets turn the tables and he was in his bed while she was out at 4 am alone without him. The truth is when couples are together they are mindful of their behaviour and often engage in activities together. lf they do socialise apart they keep good time and come home at a fashionable time. lts called respect.
Thanks Melissa. Nicely said couldn't agree more,
What I'm going threw now 8 months pregnant smh
Its the reality of most women to be neglected in pregnancy. My advice to you is to focus on that bundle of love thats growing in your womb. l have experienced what you are going through and l focus on my babies they are bigger today but the love l gave them is all coming back to me.
@@melissataitt7762 I'm trying just tired of the no respect. I don't think a call or text isnt asking to much if someone takes off till 5 in the morning suppose to be working yet comes back with no money. Just took my money and bounced and partied for the night.
@@YvonneNonYa well its time to play the broke trick judging from your photo your a beautiful woman. You can move on, it wont be easy it takes small steps before the big one. you must first leave him in you mind and heart when you see him interact with him less. spend time alone talking to your baby and other people. when you earn money hide half, old back crack in the house anything. lf he force fully take the other half fine. talking to your child is important cause since your in pain its in pain and l mean emotional pain. You talking to it give it the command that your the voice to follow when its born. My reason for saying this because some babies born cranky because of the negative emotions it experiences with the mother while its in the womb. You dont want a difficult pregnancy and a cranky baby after thats too much pressure on a mother who has no support from a father. You know his habits his lack of respect so dont expect him to change. lf he is not sympathetic to a pregnant woman he wont change when the child is born crying needs changing needs holding and attention. Most men run when their spouse is pregnant. May be fear l dont know however, you got this. The love that you and your child will shear before its even born through communication from the womb will heal your heart and give you the strength to emerge as a Felix from the ashes. You are beautiful keep a positive attitude and consider he is doing you a favour because you don't want your child to experience the same hurt and neglect when its born. Observe him and drift away slowly when he comes in late say nothing and do nothing but save your money and he will drift back on his own if he has any love for you. He is doing as he pleases cause he knows your clingy and will show him love whenever he flies through the door. Your a sure thing. Let him go while living with him, if he goes it was the best thing. lf he stays and notice your distance simply say. You wanted your freedom so l let you have it l wont beg you for what should come natural go have fun, l wiĺl be fine. If he leaves he doesnt care. lf he ask questions he was just having too much fun. Then you can decide if you will continue to move on and let him chase you or leave. Let him cling stop chasing and be chased.
I am listening this song in 2019 who else here with me
Me!!!
I am
Me
Hbj
Also me.. this song will be unforgettable
“Pour me up a drink, i swear i need it”
So relatable 😩
That part!!!
Tru
I love her voice. The lyrics make me ready for her to assert herself once & for all.
She just had a beautiful baby... Congrats lady ❤️. I love her voice... She's so classy, beautiful, talented, under rated, etc. I like this song.
STILL LISTENING TO THIS
JANUARY 1 2020😪😢💔
I can honestly say i relate to this song to the t and i dont know WHAT to do i mean im not stupid but like sometimes love of you want to call that makes you do crazy shit but im literally almost there for myself and my heart
@@jennycanchola6844 MAYBE YOU LOVE TOO HARD.....YOU NEED TO SHOW LESS FEELINGS.......N JUST LOVE DO NOT LIKE ITS GONNA B D END OF THE WORLD....THE PERSON MIGHT TAKE ADVANTAGES OF YOUR LOVE....AS A 15 YEAR OLD.....IVE SEEN THIS ALOT....ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS NOT TO SHOW ALOT OF EMOTIONS N FEELINGS🙄😪✊💪
Feb 22 2020😩
Broke we are broke up.
Yup
If you are still listening to this, 2021 feb going forward hit and leave a comment, you are blessed .
...at 1:24am....lol
Loving this song
We here
We here
"You see the scar here on my chest"
This deserves an academy award💎🏆 for a very dramatic part 💔 in a love film💯
Still my song & going on 2019 🚩🇫🇷
valencia smith, Its February 5, 2019 I Totally Agree With You Whole Heartedly!!!!!!!! MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEEN😀😘👌🏾👍🏾👊🏾✊🏾💪🏾☝️🏾👏🏾✌️🏾💯📚USA🇺🇸👇MY ANCESTORS LAND BY BLOODLINE 🇦🇫
2024
ugh!! i love Melanie Fiona!! sings this song with so much passion , like u can
almost feel her pain !!``
Yes i
Hitting them notes baby!
It’s a different kind of crazy , when your in LOVE😭😭😭😭
Man i love this sister she can sing im a grown man and i live her music 💪🏿💪🏿✊🏿❤️
A WOMAN IS LIKE A PRECIOUS JEWEL, U TREASURE HER !
k
+M2OO 😂
M2OO lmao
Lashanda Manuel.
Lashanda Manuel 😚
2018 and this song still the realist song ever
I’m happily married to an awesome man but still love listening to struggle love music.. 😂
Same im engaged but bouta send this shit to him just for the laughs lmao
Lol 😂
Lol. Same
Not struggling 😅😂
She sings from her soul, the way the old schoolers did.
All I can say is that this song deserves a lot more views!!💜
she is beautiful with a excellent voice
Good song to listen to
Yeesss i love this song
Mrgo getit no
She definitely is
I love this song
Playing this song loud asf and my husband is soo confused 😭😭😭
This has nothing to do with you sir, I just like the song😂🤦🏽♀️
😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Future goals✊💕
😬😅☺️
It's the subtlety for me😂
2024, who is here?🥹❤️
❤me honey
Me ❤
I am 😢❤
I'm here 😊
Here i am❤
2020 still listening 🔥
Yeah and quarantined south africa is boring now
✊✊🔥 🔥
Never grows old. Cause heartbreak never does. Love this ish!!
May 2019 and i still get goosebumps when i hear this😭🔥🔥🙌
Raphie same but I like it
This was THE songggggg before social media!!! Real girls felt this !
2022 but this still hits deep🔥🔥🔥❤️
fr
Love this song in 2022💔💞
🔥🔥🔥
love this for years
frl this hit
CRAZY I WOKE UP OUT MY SLEEP AT 4AM 2LISTEN TO THIS SONG. AND YES ITS 4:01AM AND HE IS DOWN STAIRS WITH ANOTHER DANCER, WHILE IM IN HIS BED AND HE DONT EVEN CARE. SMH, LIFE IS SO HURTFUL SOMETIMES. THE THINGS YOU ACCEPT WHEN YOUR HEART IS ALREADY IN CRUMBLES.
THANK YALL 4 THE LIKES! HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY 💋❤💋❤💋❤
I am so sorry that has to you and I know that all to well it’s sad and men have no clue how you be feeling because they could care less as long as they get them wifey duties but forgetting when they do that time in jail who will really there smh my life now
@@mrzcaramel925 CRAZY 10 MONTHS LATER AND MY HEART IS STILL IN CRUMBLES ❤💔💔💔💔🙅LOVE DOESN'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE🙅
PIA SHA'DON ONFROY LEAVEEEE
@@briabriah6807 I DID DARLING, BUT LOVE STILL IS SO RAW, RECKLESS, AND RIGHTFULLY WRONG THE MAJORITY OF THE TIME. I GUESS IM TIME TRAVELING STILL CONNECTING AND GRAVITATING TO GREATNESS. I CHOOSE 2B HAPPY AND FREE. I CHOOSE 2LIVE2LEARN AND LEARN2LIVE🌞💪✨💥💪🧡💪✨💪💛💪💥✨💪🌛💪✨🧡✨💪🔥🌞💪🔥💪✨💛🧡🌛🧡✨💛✨🧡✨🌞💥💛✨🧡💥🌛🔥🧡💥💛🧡
I'm listening this song November 2019....I love this song
Me too....👌🏽💯.....
Leiona Graham hey voice is crazy
Amazing voice. Damn
December 2019
I'm in December
this song just hits all the spots the vibe is really Genuine.
2019 and still my jam!
I just discovered this song 2 days ago and it’s been on repeat.
Me too....literally....exactly!
How could u miss this Gem lolol😧😂😂😂
Yrll Ben asleep🙌
I accidentally found this song again.
Glad u woke now 😂
This is such an on point song for those that allow themselves to stay up and wait. Rich or poor we go through the same. I tell you what though. It's nice to have a song that goes w/ what your going through. So you don't feel alone!
She's beautiful and she has a beautiful voice...
I was 15 screaming this song over a heart break I never had😂
Sorry😢
how cute😂😂 but GOOD! lhh
Cringe
Ouch, Sooo deep,
I'm still loving dis 2019
Ella Nah dggcfg
10/2021 🤯🤯 Damn! Still hits deep. Actually deeper than ever. I just sang this while in the shower with every note I had in me. I exhaled when I was finished. This is MUSIC. ❤️
Who still here in 2019?
Thinking I'm stupid? When you know dam well that I'm not
Joelisa Kelly me
I'm in Love with this😍
This song has been stuck in my head for the past week. I had to come listen to it.❤
Insecurities can really distroy a relationship btw I love this song!!!
Feeling crazy, but not just any crazy.. The kind you feel when you love somebody.
Kansas
just wanted to go forward
That bit right there... Sad
This song hits different when this is exactly what's happening with you rn💔👌
Right
😭😭😭
Say that again✊🏾
I hope you're doing better 💓
I had no business at 11 singing my heart out to this song! And now at 24 singing it with my whole heart! 🥲
Help😂
10 years ago had this song on repeat I can remember the exact reason it was sung my little heart out each time it played when I play it now it still give me goosebumps man when you know you know 😢
Yesss
😔
Felt this 💔
Chilllleeeee
Exactly
i've been searching for this song my gosh can't believe it's her that sing it smh she's so underrated y'all sign
THAT VOICE OMFG.
My favourite song since I was a teenager ❤❤❤