Harry Styles trying desperately to come out for 11 years straight (no, gay)
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- Опубліковано 20 сер 2024
- How to be as out as one can be without being out, by Harry Styles. He has hinted about his sexuality more times than I can count, these are just a few of my favourite ones, and yet he is still in (Schrödinger's) closet.
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"It's a solo song and it's only for the brave"....
Ouch :( my heart
Reminds me of Elton John. The public couldn’t handle him coming out so he was closeted half his life.
I hadn’t seen the one at the beginning with the bisexual flag before, must be recent, loved it it’s so loud. Loved this compilation!
It was at a concert a few days ago, he helped a girl come out as Bi, he said "when I raise this flag, you're out, I've heard that's how it works"! Then he raised the flag and got on his knees and shouted FREEDOM. It was soooooo loud 🏳️🌈🥰
@@xcathyjx8462 and then like 2 days later he posts him running w a pride flag on instagram
The girl he helped to come out was an really rude anti and she aproved the rumor that a larrie got punched at harry's show recently :((
@@olytttlouis it's awful isn't it, poor Harry helping people and then they act like that! What happened to TPWK?!
@@xcathyjx8462 i know.. :(((
Recently, at his concert, he helped a fan(s) come out. Repeatedly, he said '"once I raise this flag, you're officially out". That is what Google said, so it must be true.
So, does that mean he googled it back in 2015?! When he first raised the flag.
When he went down on his knees and shouted freedom, you could see it was such a big moment for him. My heart went out to him. Love is love, let him freely express it.
Also, not Larry related, but I think Louis also is silently screaming at us. His song "only for the brave" it's sung for the community. However, it couldn't be written like the masterpiece that it is without personal experience. As he said, "when you know, you know, I'm too far gone to pray". He's talking in the first person". He's trying to speak the truth. At his festival, the joy in his face to see the flags raised, he looked like he wanted to cry.
The industry is fucked up.
"silently screaming" HAHAHA
I agree 💯
Now I'm crying in a Totally Uncool Way 😭😭😭😭😭
I think he is trying. He's using the rainbow flags more. Told security at him venue that didn't allow flags he told them to let them bring the flags in.
He also used lights to make the rainbow 🌈 colors
He's screaming loud
I feel so bad that he can’t just be happy with who he is and even when he’s screaming at us people would rather believe he’s straight for their own fantasy over what he’s screaming at us!!! Love the video tho love!!!
Im not surprised though, its all those larry and 1D fanfics and annoying ships that probably has scared him off a little. These were his bandmates he prob feels bad
@@syriana9575 Him not coming out and saying “I’m gay” has nothing to do with Larry or fan fics. I’m sure he was told from the very beginning to hide the fact he isn’t straight because it would hurt the band and the other members. Better to give Harry the reputation of being a womanizer, fuck boy who couldn’t keep it in his pants and screwed around with women in their 30’s and 40’s, breaking up marriages when he was only 17. Yeah much better than the truth that he was a gay teenage boy who most likely was in love with another boy in the band.
In 5 years, if he doesn't come out, he will be closeted for half of his life... So so depressing honestly.
Nicky - thinking about that makes my heart hurt
I'm not gay, so I ask: Is it so necessary a statement? I mean, to my opinion, he came out, he did every time has not eve tried to hide it, his female partner are quite all friends and if also he had straight relationships, I think yes, that never goes over the first honeymoon period. I think that his true love is a man, and this fact has conditioned his relationships with female partners
What if he just wants it to be private
@@alishaaaax he obviously does. it just also sucks that a lot of the general population assumes everyone is straight until proven otherwise and pushes negative agendas. Like his "womanizer" phase
I love and respect him, and I will always support him, whatever he is..... 💚🥺
Harry is already and still outing ever since, to need to say a word , we can see those signs, those actions as we say** ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS** 💞💚💞
Harry is fully out in his personal life with family, friends and many in the industry. He’s only straddling this line with the general public. Those in the industry keep his secret because he’s a nice person. They don’t want to hurt him. Besides it’s wrong to out people.
Yes, I believe he has been out in his personal life for a long time, but being out publicly and being out in one’s personal life are two completely different and separate things. When I talk about Harry (or Louis) coming out, I talk about coming out to the public. He is closeted by the industry. Outing someone is obviously wrong, but closeting someone is a much bigger, industry-wide problem. Everyone should be able to come out on their own terms. I don’t think it’s about those in the industry keeping his secret. I think it’s about those in the industry strongly advising him to keep his secret, as well as old contracts making it difficult for him to come out. If he wanted to keep it secret, he wouldn’t do the things he does. He wouldn’t dance around with pride flags in every show, he wouldn’t perform dressed up as Dorothy, he wouldn’t hint about and even quite openly express attraction towards men. For some odd reason Harry seems to be pretty much the only celebrity who can do all that while still maintaining a (mostly) heterosexual image. Nevertheless, that’s not how people act if they are trying to keep their sexuality secret. It rather seems that he is as open as he can. I don’t think that people in the industry keep his secret out of solidarity or respect (except the ones who wouldn’t out anyone in the first place) but because keeping him closeted benefits them more.
@@FearlessCreature I’m not sure why you seem to think I was disagreeing with all of your video. I was merely adding my two cents. When I wrote about people in the industry keeping his secret, I was referring to other singers etc. I believe that Lizzo knows. I fully agree that those making money off him want him closeted. And yes, it is odd that with all that he has done, he still has a mostly hetero image. Maybe it has something to do with how he was marketed from day one: womanizer.
@@burnsmiddlegirl Ok, thanks for clearing that up! I reacted mainly because I got the impression that you meant that Harry doesn’t want to be out to the public, and also because I’ve seen people talk about coming out to family and coming out to the whole world like they were comparable, and I just wanted to make it clear that they are very different things. I’m not so sure about how much Harry’s collaborators know about his personal life, but I agree that his industry friends and collaborators probably wouldn’t out him. I just don’t think that him being nice has anything to do with it. Those who have any kind of moral compass wouldn’t out anyone in the first place. But I think that certain people in the industry (not other artists) would have absolutely no problem outing him if that benefitted them more than keeping him in the closet.
„Everyone else in the room can see it, everyone else but you“ Imaging say this to an anti while he‘s dancing with pride flags…
it physically hurts to see him trying to tell us all every chance he gets but he couldn't ever say it directly, it sucks
+do antis even still exist!?!
yes im ainti lgtv
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@@SP22GAMING ew
@@ben-fq9cu loolllll
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Huh. lgtv?
Awww poor little thing... what he's trying to tell you is that he was abused...
I'm living for the day when they headlines will be about Louis' coming out.
I'll weep tears of joy for his happiness and freedom
Cause yes, Harry is brave and an example and he may not be officially out, we all know
But Louis..Louis' situation breaks my heart.
I feel like he’s setting us up for a change of mind to get around the implication of beards and PR stunts… I forget what song on his most recent album (I believe), but there’s one where he talks about changing his mind and how we all change.
Harry: I'M GAYYYYYYY
Antis: hmm I suddenly can't hear you
I love this comment!
@@FearlessCreature girl did you notice that harry dressed as judy garland for Halloween . She was the first queer artist in the entertainment industry and the rainbow bear account has her as a pfp many times . Can you please spread the word in stan twt or something cuz harry really is screaming right now 💚
@@user-je2jx1gd2x I made three community posts about it. I didn’t really explain it, though, because I didn’t realise how many people don’t know The Wizard of Oz or Judy Garland, but I pinned a comment, in which someone explains it, in the first post here: ua-cam.com/users/postUgkxWyErHFxzeT3YVPqdjfHgEMpEpSn3iW5P
I could make a video explaining it in more detail. I’ll think about it.
@@FearlessCreature ok good job keep doing deae
Because of his bravery I did my coming out today 😄
I'm not a huge 1D fan but I feel bad for him( just started listening to them recently). Larry should've of been a thing
I have debated in my mind if Harry why Harry when Harry, (BTW love your videos) I finally came to a decision that Harry is the rare Unicorn that won't be pulled into the Sexual Orientation debate. He has always shown complete respect and inclusivity for any and all people. I feel that he is keeping his status on that level to himself and in doing so he is saying it is a non issue . It should be a non issue . Why has it become such a thing He is giving us life every time he is on stage. Anyone who followed 1D knows that he absolutely adored Louis and vise versa I will always follow and admire 1D I love their music to this day it is relevant
Thank you for your comment. I don’t see it as a sexual orientation debate, though. He doesn’t need to label his sexuality to come out as non-straight. That is not what this is about. I don’t care much about labels anyway. But he is hiding his sexuality. He has never explicitly said that he is non-straight, even though he has been hinting about it for 11 years. He has always retained plausible deniability (or, as some might say, heterosexual privilege). The general public and a major part of his fanbase still see him as straight. Many people in the LGBTQ+ community consider that queerbaiting. I don’t see it like that because I believe he is part of the community, and I have empathy and understanding for him not coming out, as he is working in two very homophobic industries. But, of course, him coming out properly (as anything non-straight) would mean a lot to me as a queer fan, and also, I just want him to be able to be openly who he is, as I believe he is also hiding his relationship with a man, which is a huge thing to hide, and it must be exhausting.
Loved "he absolutely adored Louis and vice versa" 💚💙💚💙💚💙
@@kitkats567 I think they still do
@@FearlessCreature see here you go again being absolutely clear, your thoughts and opinions are very hard to refute. It is a thing to be judged in the industry I mean years of information uphold that opinion. Yes , if he is having a relationship with a man(Louis) I could not imagine how difficult and emotionally draining that would be. Not to mention he has the whole world watching him. One thing that can be said from the beginning of 1D there was something very real with him and Louis. It was an amazing thing to watch & their songs really seem to uphold that connection Anyway Fearless I will be awaiting your next video They are quite amazing
@@FearlessCreature your thoughtfullness and hard work here is very appreciated! So, I just I wonder: Maybe H did try to convey his sexuality specifically - 2x at least: One was from 2014 when he tweeted quotes from a song by Mary Lambert called " Secrets" The other is a tweet from 2018 quoting a King Princess song called 1950. King Princess said her song was a metaphor to how cold it felt being in love and gay in the 1950's. Mary Lambert's song has the line "I can't think straight, I'm so gay" in it. Probably you know about those tweets. Am I totally off base?
the "not that important" is just like kind of hurts in a way but makes me glad i guess
I just wanna ask ... How can this asthmatic gorgeous lad still be energetic, dancing while singing and doing those crazy stuffs while I'm out here, just walking back and forth and I'm already exhausted asf. Like how'd you do that, luv? 😩
I think it's important to know that no one NEEDS to come out. There is no obligation for Harry or any queer person to ever publicly talk about their sexuality. They are free to express it in whatever way THEY SEE FIT. I love Harry and even the idea of Larry. I agree it's a terrible thing to be forced to be closeted by the music industry. But now, these celebrities - particularly Harry has the power and voice to change the situation if they do wish to. I wish we would stop fetishising the sexuality of celebrities and allow them to live their truth in peace. Maybe he has chosen this way of expression and that should be OK and acceptable.
Harry: when you wave this flag you're officially out
Harry 2 seconds later: waves the flag and screams FREADOM at the top of his lungs
Homophobics: but he's straight, that was him being an ally
At this point he could literally say he's queer and people would say: but does he really mean by that?
Thank you for this! You're videos are always so well structured. You also never leave out any important details. I feel like a lot of people in the 1d fandom, don't really know or care to know, about the background/ industry aspects of it. As someone who's always been intrigued by that, it means a lot to see someone talking about it. Thanks love 😘
"If you come out tonight, they're coming out tonight, cuz you're supportive."
Great video. The vodka straight part had me laughing so hard!
First💞. Recently subscribed, love your videos!
I absolutely love Harry and I believe he’s gay, which makes me love him even more!!! Harry and Louis had something really special!! Devotion, love and mutual respect for each other. 💚💙💚💙💚💙💚🌈🌈🌈
Your real fans see you Harry!!! & Support & love you!! Be you!!!
he's just supporting,he doesn't need to come out,he did come out as heterosexual 14 years ago,lol
the title is everything
Ot dosent really bother me if he comes out I just wanna see him happy and not with the demon Olivia wild can't stand her!!! Hes such an amazing artist an his soul is beautiful 💙💚
i’m crying and mentally break, thank u
Love your videos! 💙💚😍💙💚
Harry you can come out don't come out not gay it doesn't matter. We 💞💞💞💞💞 You.
Funny thing about this video had it been Louis making all those declaration some people would have ha a field day of negativity, however with Harry the antis will come up with a ton of excuses that he is not trying to come out publicly.
I don't think he's making excuses to come out, he's being told by the music industry to not come out of the closet!
@3:19 how have I never seen this 😂
Smiling so much I'm crying
come on out harry
🥰🥰💚
@FearlessCreature I am Mexican and new to this fandom....in searching for information about the topic "larry" I found a channel called "docuwonder" in which it is stated that the romantic relationship was between Zayn and Harry and that it was a very abusive relationship because part of Zayn. It is said that the songs meet me in tha hall way and matilda talk about this. Can someone tell me if this is possible? How true is it? I hope someone answers me. Thank you
I also saw one at Coucella but he said I'm Gay
The Puppet playing the agenda
The last clip😭😭😭🌈
The second one I loveee cause I am trans and i love his music 😊🥺
Блин, почему такие талантливые люди геи .....
i think like he never said he s straight he said he doesnt label his sexuality ( maybe he does it with family and friends but maybe he just doesnt labels it, i dont too) and he s got some queer coding around and also who s gonna tell him he s not acting straight
Our bisexual king
he said he's not bi, in 2013 gq interview
Imo he is gay
Ele é gay, já disse que não é bissexual e também tem uma entrevista dele no tempo 1D que pergunta o que ele acha das mulheres. Foi aí que tive certeza que H é gay
Larry 😭
Is there a room for a coming out from Harry? Maybe he should have said it after 1D was gone! Maybe he should say more about why he doesn't want to define himself and that he belongs to the plus in LGBTQIA+. The plus stands for everyone who does not find themselves in these designations. On the other hand, he is very loud and any idiot would have to realize that he is not straight, which he is then accused of as queerbaiting. Of course, it's kind of weird when he's loud, waving the rainbow flag, and helping people come out in a way he's never done. Maybe he'll give an interview one day and in the course of the conversation he might say something like, I don't care about a person's gender! Or write an even more explicit song than "Medicine". I would wish for him! Maybe it's just his record company that's the problem. If so, then I really feel sorry for him.
I think one day, years from now, he’s going to come out as gay and say, “how could some people not see it, I was making it so fucking obvious”.
More explicit than Medicine lol. He now uses all sorts of mouth/tongue/body gestures when he performs it and ppl are still confused 🤣
@@CL-re3dy Confused or they don’t want to see it.
True. So annoying when ppl try to argue “treat you like a gentleman” can someone mean he is referring to a woman. Absolutely not. One would act like a gentleman when treating a woman like a lady. The you in the song is a dude and his gestures SHOULD make that abundantly obvious if the salt reference wasn’t enough. It’s really willful ignorance at this point unless one is too young to understand the song.
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he is so loud
Yes but still there are people not listening to him.
no wonder why one direction broke
I mean, he stated that he isn't part of the lgbt "and that he's pretty sure about it", stating that he just does it because "it's cool and dress fambloyantly because it looks cool" so I don't think he is in the rainbow spectrum, but it's funny as a pan and genderfluid person to see the gag about it.
Are you referring to the GQ interview in which the interviewer asked if Harry was dating Nick Grimshaw, and when he said he wasn’t, the interviewer said “so you’re not bisexual”, to which Harry answered that he is pretty sure he isn’t? In the same interview, the interviewer asked how many people Harry had slept with and harassed him until he answered, after Harry had said multiple times that he doesn’t want to answer. People’s inability to understand context shouldn’t really surprise me, but it still really baffles me how people can think that what a 19-year-old, possibly closeted person answered to an interviewer who bullied him into giving answers to uncomfortable, intrusive questions about his sexuality and sex life must be the absolute truth that still stands now, nine years later. I, as a trans and queer person, would probably have given the same answer if I had been in his position, and I wasn’t certain about every aspect of my identity at that age anyway. I’d expect a little more understanding and compassion for potentially closeted people from someone who is pan and genderfluid…
@@FearlessCreature I had no idea about that interview. Damn, that changes a lot indeed. Well, in any case, I must admit that my source for my statement earlier is Wikipedia’s paragraph on his sexuality.
I just felt like he is trying hard to show it… obviously he shows more than a lot of support for our community live, which really cheers me up, I just wasn’t sure because I don’t want to make assumptions.
It’s sad how easy it is to read media sound bites out of context and take it as gospel. Hence why het Harries continue to exist 🙄 This is why videos like these matter - esp when made by members of the community. When he kissed the flag before returning it to the audience 🥹❤️🌈
Female 😭😭😭
All these people who think he's genuinely gay are just dumb. He's pretending because IT SELLS! He's pandering to the current trend
lmao then why did he answer every question about what he looks for in a girl with gender neutral answers like “someone” since 2011? he’s not straight. he’s closeted. he’s literally been screaming that he’s queer since the x factor
@@emmablodgett5546 Then why doesn't he come out properly?
@@simonpenum because there’s a thing called CLOSETING?! he literally replaced his lyrics in golden with “I’m hoping someday I could be open”. even back in 2011 he’d get asked “what do you look for in a girl” and answer “I think I’d want to date SOMEONE that’s funny, and has a nice smile” and stuff like that, back in one direction he was asked when was the last time you kissed a girl and Liam asked him “when was the last time you liked it”- this was like 2013!! he made tons of sexual innuendos and was fighting tooth and nail against the closeting by like 2015- he was asked “what four things do you suck at” and pursed his lips and sorta smirked as Liam said “suck at DOING” and looked at him, Niall said he wouldn’t have sex with a guy and Harry said “don’t knock it til you try it”, he was asked “what would you do if you were a girl for a day” and said “I’d do Niall… happy pride”, Liam said being female would be an “important trait” and Harry said “not that important”… he has multiple clearly fake/PR relationships with women, the media likes to link him with any woman he’s within 6 feet of even though he himself never confirms ANY of the relationships, he let slip a male pronoun in one interview about someone he’d like to date (back in 2014)… “if you can have a conversation with him” *double takes* “ummm obviously that helps”, he has a song where he sings “I mess around with him and I’m okay with it”, he replaced “she” with “he” to say “just like he already owned it” in 1D days, he sang a cover of “girl crush” that reclaimed it as a queer song, he still parallels his songs with Louis tomlinson’s who is also definitely closeted, and he’s tweeted lyrics to “secrets”, a very gay song, back in 2014. now he’s able to be more feminine in his gender presentation but he’s ALWAYS been gay.
@@simonpenum in short he can’t come out properly for the exact same reason he didn’t come out properly in 2011, he isn’t allowed to.
He still hasn’t come out. Why?
Why they have to ruin the colors of a rainbow with this shit
why you have to ruin a nice video with this shit comment