This is soooo relatable... 😭I thought I'm the only girl who thinks like this... As an introvert and overthinker I faced the same issues...but never shared these issues with anyone... Thank you vanika for bringing this up... ❤️🩹
As "a achi ladki" I felt this so much and I have tears in my eyes and a weird sence of peaceful discomfort in my heart which is telling me to stand up for myself everytime I don't and to tell people how they did wrong and be there for myself not to put anyone else down but to be there for my own peace and treate myself well Loved it ❤
Even being a boy I can relate to it , me Myself taking a lot of pressure to just being good in front of everyone, I'm unable to live my life, express my feelings, always have a single thing in my mind while talking to parents, teachers , friends, or anyone else ki kisi ko hurt 🤕 na kardu. Habit si bnn gyi hai being nice and good to people but now I'm going to undo my this behaviour Thanks vanika ❤
THIS IS EXACTLY MY SITUATION NOWADAYS.. I'm trying to help myself nd I'm feeling really happy abt it❤... coming out of so called good girl syndrome .Earlier when I was being good girl,it was never helpful for me nor for ppl around me other way around it used to hurt me alot nd that's the time I decided to take stand for myself,to express my emotions at the same time nd not to keep anything which is disturbing me in heart. IT REALLY FEELS LIGHT NOW❤
Pichle ek saal m i tried to escape this good girl syndrome, i started speaking for myself..but now i am a hath s nikal gai vali ladki, naukri ka dhaus dikhane vali ladki😅😅😅i lost my achi image..i know I should be happy that i changed for myself, but fr b kahi na kahi bura lgta h..pta ni kyu😅
Same here..bt Don't worry...don't overthink just let go every thing that disturb your peace of mind... You r not doing anything wrong just taking a stand for urself..stay in the boundary between good girl and bad girl..remember if you are happy , ultimately everyone around you will be happy...
My whole khandan has this syndrome of good good girl but i don't sometimes very rarely I feel guilty for being a bad bad girl my best friend has also once or twice said me that I'm being too straight forward but now after hearing story I've 00 regrets or guilts for taking stand for myself thank you vanika
Vanika vanika vanika!!!! You don't know how much I love hearing your performance..you're the one jiski wajah se I started listening stories..nd ab mujhe storytelling se pyaar ho gya...or yeh harbar relatable stories lane ke liye tumhara shukriyaa..I hope we meet soon..tab autograph chiye mujhee (or ek selfie bhi mil Jaye to baat ban jaye🤭)
I could feel uh vanika, I'm suffering from this good girl syndrome 😭😭 Being an overthinker and an introvert, I face all these situations, I feel the same but couldn't express my feelings thinking of what people would think or if I hurt them. I never try to express myself, and it takes me a tons of courage and million no. of time of practices to say a single line to somebody. K could feel uh vanika 🫂😭 in this show, uh just put me out.❤ I'm a bad bad girl.... Trying to rock my world ❤
Bro kya timing hai.. Like yesterday night only i realised how other people are using me but i am being the good girl Always helps people like a fool. Woh roommate jish ki bohot si harkate mujhe bilkul pasand nhi par ajj tak mai ushko nahi boli hunn....like you said i do all the things by my own .But when it comes to them they didn't even hesitate to point out on my little mistake. After all this i end up pleasing other people only.but fir vi ajj tak mai yeh nahi soch ti ki Ushko apni problems batau ishke badle mai ishi kosish mai reh ti hun ki mere se ekk bhi esa galti nahi hona chahiye jish se woh mere upar point out kare. Well said thank you for Opening the eyes of such Good Girls 💖 And hann Now I am a bad bad girl.....
This situation, this time and how I'm feeling completely tangled in this loop ....but this one have cleared my thoughts for all ... thoughts that I knew were necessary but couldn't have accepted without this!!
Every word you said, it's totally related to our lives. It's always a good girl for others, as a girl I always think to be a good daughter, sister, friend and so on. But it never stands out to be the one I want to. By listening to you I really want to be a bad girl. The girl who loves herself. Thank you Vanika❤
Mai khud ke sath Kuch galat nhi karna chahte…that actually resonates… literally that’s me…will always try to be honest with myself…had this syndrome earlier but realised that how important it is to prioritise yourself…it actually affects mental health…thanks Varnika…not pleasing this time😅
This wass sooo amazing Vanika diii!! I cant really express how every word you spoke resonated so deeply with me. It somehow made me realise ki I too need to make few changes in myself for 'My own' best!! So thankuuu!!! Anddd I really admire how beautifully you express your thoughts and the bambaiyya language on top is just chef's kiss!!! Best wishess
You just poured my heart out ❤✨ I felt Every single line of your story ❣️🙌🏻 You are doing great ❤ Thank you for giving us such beautiful and relatable stories 💕
Awesome Vanika ❣️ That's so relatable.... I mean so similar how I think. But yu actually gave it correct name when yu called it a Good Girl Syndrome 😅 Beautifully yu keep ur words More Power to yu Girl 🥰 I hardly comment after watching something but can't stop myself to appreciate yu... yu deserve lots of appreciation
yaar vanika ,thank you for saying this ,this is so true,i thought i only think like this ......but everybody does right, still wondering how to change ,i am dying to shift myself from this oh to be so nice bimari to sabuu
I literally cried ❤ and now I want to tell something that...... I am a bad bad girl.... I am a bad bad girl...... Trying to rock my world...... I am a bad bad girl ....... And I give a damn only when necessary ❤
This is me yesss thiss iss meee just few months agoo i too began this new journey of giving a damn only when necessary Youu aree jussttt awesomee Vanikaaaa❤❤
Woww. Just tired of being always right and good. Wanna do some bchkani harkatein which never done so far because of the label of being the most samajhdaar bcha of family.
I could relate so much with it.. for example when i have to study at night and my cousin sister gets stubborn that i have to go with her and i am not able to deny. 🙂
This is soooo relatable... 😭I thought I'm the only girl who thinks like this...
As an introvert and overthinker I faced the same issues...but never shared these issues with anyone...
Thank you vanika for bringing this up... ❤️🩹
I subscribed to TAT only for this girl, and only for that. I love the words she chooses and the way she presents them.😍😇😇
Same ❤
Same here bro
Same
Same here Dude 😊
As "a achi ladki" I felt this so much and I have tears in my eyes and a weird sence of peaceful discomfort in my heart which is telling me to stand up for myself everytime I don't and to tell people how they did wrong and be there for myself not to put anyone else down but to be there for my own peace and treate myself well
Loved it ❤
Even being a boy I can relate to it , me Myself taking a lot of pressure to just being good in front of everyone, I'm unable to live my life, express my feelings, always have a single thing in my mind while talking to parents, teachers , friends, or anyone else ki kisi ko hurt 🤕 na kardu. Habit si bnn gyi hai being nice and good to people but now I'm going to undo my this behaviour
Thanks vanika ❤
THIS IS EXACTLY MY SITUATION NOWADAYS.. I'm trying to help myself nd I'm feeling really happy abt it❤... coming out of so called good girl syndrome .Earlier when I was being good girl,it was never helpful for me nor for ppl around me other way around it used to hurt me alot nd that's the time I decided to take stand for myself,to express my emotions at the same time nd not to keep anything which is disturbing me in heart. IT REALLY FEELS LIGHT NOW❤
Pichle ek saal m i tried to escape this good girl syndrome, i started speaking for myself..but now i am a hath s nikal gai vali ladki, naukri ka dhaus dikhane vali ladki😅😅😅i lost my achi image..i know I should be happy that i changed for myself, but fr b kahi na kahi bura lgta h..pta ni kyu😅
Same here..bt Don't worry...don't overthink just let go every thing that disturb your peace of mind... You r not doing anything wrong just taking a stand for urself..stay in the boundary between good girl and bad girl..remember if you are happy , ultimately everyone around you will be happy...
That's what a real influencer look like.Lots of love Vanikaa diiii❤❤❤
Faced the same issues and inse deal krna bhi Sikh rhi hu😌 ✨Thank you Dear Vanika💌🎀
My whole khandan has this syndrome of good good girl but i don't sometimes very rarely I feel guilty for being a bad bad girl my best friend has also once or twice said me that I'm being too straight forward but now after hearing story I've 00 regrets or guilts for taking stand for myself thank you vanika
every bone of my body felt each and every word. i hope one day i learn to fight for myself instead of fighting with myself
Woah I am also bad bad girl🎉❤
Thankyou for sharing ❤
Vanika vanika vanika!!!! You don't know how much I love hearing your performance..you're the one jiski wajah se I started listening stories..nd ab mujhe storytelling se pyaar ho gya...or yeh harbar relatable stories lane ke liye tumhara shukriyaa..I hope we meet soon..tab autograph chiye mujhee (or ek selfie bhi mil Jaye to baat ban jaye🤭)
I definitely could feel every single word coming out of ur mouth❤ This was just ahhhh awesome 🎀
Good ❤
Same ❤❤❤❤
@@ananyakumari6363 kyun kya hua aisa
I could feel uh vanika, I'm suffering from this good girl syndrome 😭😭
Being an overthinker and an introvert, I face all these situations, I feel the same but couldn't express my feelings thinking of what people would think or if I hurt them. I never try to express myself, and it takes me a tons of courage and million no. of time of practices to say a single line to somebody. K could feel uh vanika 🫂😭 in this show, uh just put me out.❤
I'm a bad bad girl....
Trying to rock my world ❤
😢😢❤❤❤
Bro kya timing hai..
Like yesterday night only i realised how other people are using me but i am being the good girl
Always helps people like a fool.
Woh roommate jish ki bohot si harkate mujhe bilkul pasand nhi par ajj tak mai ushko nahi boli hunn....like you said i do all the things by my own .But when it comes to them they didn't even hesitate to point out on my little mistake.
After all this i end up pleasing other people only.but fir vi ajj tak mai yeh nahi soch ti ki Ushko apni problems batau ishke badle mai ishi kosish mai reh ti hun ki mere se ekk bhi esa galti nahi hona chahiye jish se woh mere upar point out kare.
Well said thank you for Opening the eyes of such Good Girls 💖
And hann Now I am a bad bad girl.....
Sooo so relatable especially the roommate wala point
The feeling , the observations, and putting them in story❤
Giving vibe of lapata ladies❤❤❤
Fully relatable di ,😢 it's hurts a lot 😢
This situation, this time and how I'm feeling completely tangled in this loop ....but this one have cleared my thoughts for all ... thoughts that I knew were necessary but couldn't have accepted without this!!
I can totally totally relate to her every single words😫
Felt each and every line ❤
Just Loved this....
Beautifully narrated....
Relatable! Not only girls, it's with us too
Every word you said, it's totally related to our lives. It's always a good girl for others, as a girl I always think to be a good daughter, sister, friend and so on. But it never stands out to be the one I want to. By listening to you I really want to be a bad girl. The girl who loves herself. Thank you Vanika❤
Jb se maine sirf apne baare me socha...tbse sb meri lyf se jana chalu kr diye...pr phir bhi mai bahut khush hu...sukoon me hu❤😌
This one is best so so so relatable ❤ thanku for representing us❤
Vanika yaar so cute you are❤ you almost spoke what 80% of goods girls are suffering.....loved your performance 🎉
Mai khud ke sath Kuch galat nhi karna chahte…that actually resonates… literally that’s me…will always try to be honest with myself…had this syndrome earlier but realised that how important it is to prioritise yourself…it actually affects mental health…thanks Varnika…not pleasing this time😅
Her words touch my heart ❤️
In a very bad mood from long days , really needed this therapy ❤.
Just loved it❤ I will definitely apply how to say no when you are not comfortable & ready for anything!!!
What a incredible representation 👏
Keep shining dear vanika 😊
God bless u ❤
❣️can relate each and every line, beautifuly narrated 🙌
I am a boy and I can also relate everything।😀😌🥹
This wass sooo amazing Vanika diii!! I cant really express how every word you spoke resonated so deeply with me. It somehow made me realise ki I too need to make few changes in myself for 'My own' best!! So thankuuu!!!
Anddd I really admire how beautifully you express your thoughts and the bambaiyya language on top is just chef's kiss!!! Best wishess
You just poured my heart out ❤✨
I felt Every single line of your story ❣️🙌🏻
You are doing great ❤
Thank you for giving us such beautiful and relatable stories 💕
Kuchh aur bhut kuchh line aisa lga jaise kisi ne hmare bare m kh rha ho hmari baat ❤
Thanks for putting our inner storms into understandable context ❤
Gawwd!! It left me teary eyes
Thanks Vanika.. ❤️This is exactly what I am looking for.... 😍🤗
I don't know how,when and where but I'm manifesting this today,that I'll meet you Vanika di soon❤
You are so pyari 🥺.
So surreal and original ❤❤❤
Hame bachpan se bas acchi ladki banna sikhaya gya hai !! This line his hard❤
This is so sweet. And being a good girl, i am going to be a bad bad bad girl❤
Koi baat nhi bro chalta hai.. Hits different😢
Finally after a long time, vanikkkaaaa dii is here🥹🧿✨❤️
Commenting even before listening full story🫶🏻
Wowwwwww fantastic vanika you nailed it❤❤❤❤
Kudos kudos🎉.... Wow ..well written and well presented..🎉
U r absolutely amazing vanika diii i just love every single word of you ❤
Yarr itna relatable ❤🥺
beautifully described.
love the way she narrate 💜
So much relatable ❤
This is the best & so relatable😍😭
Awesome Vanika ❣️
That's so relatable.... I mean so similar how I think. But yu actually gave it correct name when yu called it a Good Girl Syndrome 😅
Beautifully yu keep ur words
More Power to yu Girl 🥰
I hardly comment after watching something but can't stop myself to appreciate yu... yu deserve lots of appreciation
Wow....bht sahi kaha....beacome a Good person every time for every one ye Sirf disease nai syndrome hai😅....Nice one Vanika❣️👏👏👏
Bestest story ever ❤😢
Why is this so relatable?😭😭😭
yaar vanika ,thank you for saying this ,this is so true,i thought i only think like this ......but everybody does right, still wondering how to change ,i am dying to shift myself from this oh to be so nice bimari to sabuu
Vanika your are the best !❤
After so much wait 🧿❤ love you so much ❤
Most relatable hai 😢😅
Wahhh vanika dii..🤩🤩 mast tha..❤️
Ekdam relatable hai ❤
U r just dam good 😅😅..after seeing this I think i should become bad slightly more not to do bad for others but to do right for self ❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ shez so evolving day by day
She is outstanding 🎉❤
Very very very very relatable
Waah vanika waah beautiful ❤❤
You are not a bad bad girl
I just love you.. So relatable.. Lovely. you are too good...
Loved it❤❤❤
seriously I relate with your each words❤❤❤ kaash.... 👌👌👌👌👌 very beautiful 😍 🤩 👌
Such a fierce performance, so true about our nasty society that makes a girl feel guilty for these petty things
Okhh...suddenly i saw this channel and came to it ..coz i know i found worth content here..and same happens
Why is this soo relatable man.🥲
Such a performerrrrrr
I literally cried ❤ and now I want to tell something that......
I am a bad bad girl....
I am a bad bad girl......
Trying to rock my world......
I am a bad bad girl .......
And I give a damn only when necessary ❤
So relatable🙌
Yarr so relatable 😢😢😢
This is me yesss thiss iss meee just few months agoo i too began this new journey of giving a damn only when necessary
Youu aree jussttt awesomee Vanikaaaa❤❤
Wow so relatable ❤
Woww.
Just tired of being always right and good. Wanna do some bchkani harkatein which never done so far because of the label of being the most samajhdaar bcha of family.
I can rwlate each and evry word by my heart❤❤ its all for me😊
Its so personal ❤
Never knew i cld relate so much with someone! ❤
Love from a fellow baddiee😁
This is so so wholesome❤️✨
I could relate so much with it.. for example when i have to study at night and my cousin sister gets stubborn that i have to go with her and i am not able to deny. 🙂
Simply beautiful ❤
Really so relatable 🥺🥺
You are too Good VANIKA ❤
Shayad yahi sunne ki aaj mere ko zaroorat hai❤
Average introverts 🥲 us..
I totally relate
Very true ❤
Atleast tumne show ke chakkar mein hi sahi bol tho Diya but meri sari baatein meri mobile ki notes tk hi atak gaya 🫠🙂
Wow Vanika!!! Amazing❤❤
This is my story relatable
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U r just wow❤❤
Mai bhi na kahna chahti hu, mai bhi ab logo ka soch soch kr guilt feel nhi krna chahti hu ye sun kr ab khud ko thik kr lugi ab 😃
8:09 😂
😊😊 very true.
vanika yr u are such a sweetheart❣