I don't agree with the notion that a woman is responsible for her husband's extramarital affairs. If a man has any fear of God he will refrain from such actions because this is infidelity which is a crime. Some people are plain ungrateful and they will never be satisfied with any amount of goodness they have in their life. I think the only real motivation behind extramarital affairs is immaturity. People who do not think through before taking decisions often fall in such crap. Plus in Pakistan the biggest mistake in many households is the fact that men are placed on a pedestal they are never expected to get involved in running the households or raising up kids, this IS a destructive behavior and the one reason why people in a marriage never bond. When two people in a Marriage work like a team they understand each other's importance in life.
I also want to ask this doctor when she says that a man expects his wife to be always well groomed, just like a girlfriend but DOES that same man TREAT his wife like a girlfriend after having kids and even some time like say 2-3years after marriage ? If we consider expectations, then that should be a two way road.
Nothing can justify cheating. If you are not happy, just leave. People cheat becoz they are not ready to leave the advantages coming from partner and want to have fun at the same time
in most cases women love their husbands unconditionally but the same man starts extra marital affairs knowing that woh toh hai hee...taking his wife for granted
The anchor is consistently interrupting the host speaker, maybe unconsciously, but it is certainly quite rude and betrays the ethics of good conversation.
jese mard k leay its ok, farq yeh hy k aurat poora muhala sar pe utha ly gi lakin mard aik lafz bhi ni boley ga bas ander he ander kurta rehe ga sirf aurat ki izat rakhne ke leay
Where is the scientific evidence and research based statistics to these claims? Where does it say that women are responsible for men’s extra marital affair? The conversation lacked scientific evidence! I’m quite disappointed.
محبت تو ہوتی ہی نکاح کے بعد ہے ۔ نکاح سے پہلے کی حرام محبت تو سوائے احساس گناہ کے اور کچھ بھی نہیں ۔ اگر کسی کو ہو بھی گئی تو اللہ کی معافی کے دروازے سے داخل ہو کر خوش اور پاکیزہ زندگی گزاریے ۔ ان خواتین کے چکر میں مت آئیں ۔
Dr nabiha ki kuch baaten bina sar per ki hain...70 percent aurten zimmedar hain mard ki bewafai ke liye...aur ye ke mohobbat sirf di jaati hai...matlab ye ke mohobbat dene wala ek machine hai wo mohobbat deta jaye aur doosra insaan bahar muh marta rahe...aur ye ke pehli mohobbat nhi marti....ye sab kitni immature baten hain...inhe psychology aur zyada study karne ki zaroorat hai....
I don't believe it has anything to do do with the other partner. When someone wants to cheat they will cheat. In the next breath you say they are not majboor. Neither one cheats out of necessity or majboori.
Absolutely wrong thesis ... tat women are largely responsible for their husbands affairs. Its nothing but blaming the victim. Very wrong and dangerous argument..why was this guest even called?
True wives are responsible if thier husbands have extra martial affairs. I have seen so many examples from life and in majority cases i found wives responsible
Dr ho k sawal samjha hi nahi tha 😂 anchor ki English Dr k sir se guzer gy! To soch ye kaise Dr he.sawal tha k orton k extra marital affair k berhne ki kia reason he but she didn’t got this point 😂😂😂 O Dr you really need some therapy along with some basic language courses.
Let's make good use of our time...what are the future challenges what skills we need to develop now to do good in the coming future how about sitting with some brainy people who can guide us on AI and future tech oops for that we will have to look for people with grey matter.😂
دوسری بات ایک اور ہے۔ میری بیوی بہت پردہ والی اور عبادت گزار عورت ہے۔ وہ مجھے ہر وقت طعنہ دیتی ہے۔ بولتی ہے تم مردوں کو اللّه نے ہمارا محافظ بنایا ہے اور تمہارا درجہ بھی ہم سے زیادہ ہے۔ پھر تم کیسے محافظ ہو جو رات میں ایک شیر خوار بچہ بن جاتے ہو اور ہمارے پستان کو چوستے ہو۔ بولتی ہے مرد ایک سال کا ہو یا اسسی سال کا وہ ہمیشہ بچہ ہوتا ہے۔ میں پٹھان ہوں اس کی بات سن کر شرمندہ ہو جاتا ہوں۔ اس مسئلہ کا کوئ حل بتاو؟
Usy kahyn mujhy tumahary jism ki bhook Hy na..yei chez m bahar dhundun GA agr tum mana krogi . Phir kya krunga m. Usy pyar SE smjayen k ye koi buri bat nai .. psychologically mard KO aurat ki zyada zarurat hoti .WO control nai Kar skta khud ko
I don't agree with the notion that a woman is responsible for her husband's extramarital affairs. If a man has any fear of God he will refrain from such actions because this is infidelity which is a crime. Some people are plain ungrateful and they will never be satisfied with any amount of goodness they have in their life. I think the only real motivation behind extramarital affairs is immaturity. People who do not think through before taking decisions often fall in such crap. Plus in Pakistan the biggest mistake in many households is the fact that men are placed on a pedestal they are never expected to get involved in running the households or raising up kids, this IS a destructive behavior and the one reason why people in a marriage never bond. When two people in a Marriage work like a team they understand each other's importance in life.
Not everyone thinks the same and acts the same, everyone has expectations.
I also want to ask this doctor when she says that a man expects his wife to be always well groomed, just like a girlfriend but DOES that same man TREAT his wife like a girlfriend after having kids and even some time like say 2-3years after marriage ? If we consider expectations, then that should be a two way road.
@@fatimamohsin5226 I agree here with ya
💯
Some says..Mera Tum se Dil Bhar gaya ha..
Shuru se he aurat badal badal kar chalty han ..baad me pata chalta ha..
Mard k Sath jitni Marzi mohabbat kr lo Jin ko aadit ho gandgi main Jany ke woh zror jata h
Nothing can justify cheating. If you are not happy, just leave. People cheat becoz they are not ready to leave the advantages coming from partner and want to have fun at the same time
Very true.
Right
in most cases women love their husbands unconditionally but the same man starts extra marital affairs knowing that woh toh hai hee...taking his wife for granted
Same here happening wd me
Jo bhi ho jin mrdon ki khaslat ganbi ho kuch bhi kr lo wo baz nhn aty
Aunty bura mat maneyay ga husband wife ki muhabbat do tarfa hoti hai..you can't water a dead plant for life
💯 agree
True
can u define that do tarfa muhabat?
Aap wrong hain its a two way phenomenon because love needs reciprocation .
Bilkul plz dua kry
Mera husband ko hdyt mil jay
you said it’s hard specifically for woman to share her partner. So you are saying it’s relatively easier for men to share his woman with another man?
Your words touch my heart
If you have no shame then do whatever you want
The anchor is consistently interrupting the host speaker, maybe unconsciously, but it is certainly quite rude and betrays the ethics of good conversation.
What a sentence "Khawateen tho bilkul nahi kar sakhti" 😂😂😂
😂 exactly.
jese mard k leay its ok, farq yeh hy k aurat poora muhala sar pe utha ly gi lakin mard aik lafz bhi ni boley ga bas ander he ander kurta rehe ga sirf aurat ki izat rakhne ke leay
Dr Sahiba 100 Right anser
Where is the scientific evidence and research based statistics to these claims? Where does it say that women are responsible for men’s extra marital affair?
The conversation lacked scientific evidence! I’m quite disappointed.
محبت تو ہوتی ہی نکاح کے بعد ہے ۔ نکاح سے پہلے کی حرام محبت تو سوائے احساس گناہ کے اور کچھ بھی نہیں ۔ اگر کسی کو ہو بھی گئی تو اللہ کی معافی کے دروازے سے داخل ہو کر خوش اور پاکیزہ زندگی گزاریے ۔ ان خواتین کے چکر میں مت آئیں ۔
What about a serial cheater ? What mistake wife did in this case !
Right 👍
This debate needs some extended time...
Both are equally responsible for it.
The voice of host awesome +decent
Dr nabiha ki kuch baaten bina sar per ki hain...70 percent aurten zimmedar hain mard ki bewafai ke liye...aur ye ke mohobbat sirf di jaati hai...matlab ye ke mohobbat dene wala ek machine hai wo mohobbat deta jaye aur doosra insaan bahar muh marta rahe...aur ye ke pehli mohobbat nhi marti....ye sab kitni immature baten hain...inhe psychology aur zyada study karne ki zaroorat hai....
I agree with u
Mard kye sahat cahi kitnye bhi mobhat karlo wajata gandagi my 😢😢
Male can never change ….
I don't believe it has anything to do do with the other partner. When someone wants to cheat they will cheat. In the next breath you say they are not majboor. Neither one cheats out of necessity or majboori.
I completely disagree with you wives are not responsible at all stop this blame game on wives
Yes pehli muhbbat
U r right ORT wafa krti he mard bewafai krta he it has become very common fenomina
Anchor is very irritating she is not letting Dr to keep her words in full frame
Vice versa
Absolutely wrong thesis ... tat women are largely responsible for their husbands affairs. Its nothing but blaming the victim. Very wrong and dangerous argument..why was this guest even called?
I love Dr nabhia
AJ kll orat KO zana kr ne Ka shok ha sub SE zayda
True wives are responsible if thier husbands have extra martial affairs. I have seen so many examples from life and in majority cases i found wives responsible
Mana shadid piar dia husband ko lakin mara husband na teen teen larkyan rakhu jin m
Behn phir aap bhi usk nikkah mei ho
Same
Aur ager yahy Pyaar Kisi paray larkey ko diya hotha at least khush toh hothy
La taziro waziratu wizra ukhra. Koi bhoj uthanay wala doosray ka bhoj nahi uthaye ga. Stop blaming spouses for your own infidelity.
Interviewer is annoying .. she didn’t let the guest speak fluently .
Kept on interfering .
Mard k chakar toh toh chalte rahate hain bus married aurat aisa na kare es sa family barbad ho jati ha
Lol
mard ko zina maaf kab se ho gya jo cahkar cahlaey to koi baat nhi jo mard bahir mu marey us main or gali ke kuty main koi Fark nhi ha
why I wasted 8 min of my life. 🙄🙄
Y don't women leave after knowing an extra marital affair instead of staying
شادی کے بعد دوسری عورتوں سےملے تو بیوی کو کیا کرنا چاہیے اس پے کوئی ویڈیو بناے
Sawal kya tha seedha javad do
OMG the interviewer needs to improve her English
Fzul baten phela rhi hn yah inha ban kro
Dr ho k sawal samjha hi nahi tha 😂 anchor ki English Dr k sir se guzer gy! To soch ye kaise Dr he.sawal tha k orton k extra marital affair k berhne ki kia reason he but she didn’t got this point 😂😂😂 O Dr you really need some therapy along with some basic language courses.
Host to bolny ni daitee proper guest ko
Mard zata is bewafa
host is so interrupting
very shallow conversation. This woman just know how to make clickbait content that can generate only views but fails to solve actual problem.
What a women do when husband cheat .
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Apk saat asya how ye kia baat kar Rahi ho
Let's make good use of our time...what are the future challenges what skills we need to develop now to do good in the coming future how about sitting with some brainy people who can guide us on AI and future tech oops for that we will have to look for people with grey matter.😂
😢
اپ اردو میں بات کریں سب تو انگریزی نہی سمجہتی ہے
Bakwas
دوسری بات ایک اور ہے۔ میری بیوی بہت پردہ والی اور عبادت گزار عورت ہے۔ وہ مجھے ہر وقت طعنہ دیتی ہے۔ بولتی ہے تم مردوں کو اللّه نے ہمارا محافظ بنایا ہے اور تمہارا درجہ بھی ہم سے زیادہ ہے۔ پھر تم کیسے محافظ ہو جو رات میں ایک شیر خوار بچہ بن جاتے ہو اور ہمارے پستان کو چوستے ہو۔ بولتی ہے مرد ایک سال کا ہو یا اسسی سال کا وہ ہمیشہ بچہ ہوتا ہے۔ میں پٹھان ہوں اس کی بات سن کر شرمندہ ہو جاتا ہوں۔ اس مسئلہ کا کوئ حل بتاو؟
Usy kahyn mujhy tumahary jism ki bhook Hy na..yei chez m bahar dhundun GA agr tum mana krogi . Phir kya krunga m. Usy pyar SE smjayen k ye koi buri bat nai .. psychologically mard KO aurat ki zyada zarurat hoti .WO control nai Kar skta khud ko
@@Nooreysheroo نوری! جاہل سے مجھے اسی جواب کی توقع تھی۔ بات کا لیول تمہاری سمجھ سے بالا تر ہے۔ تم جا کر جوتا پالش کرو