Most pathetic thing was that they can't help it but only tell them how they can improve. Actually that guy in starting was not going overboard he was saying truth in aquite polite they all must have listened these things already.
it's because if you judge others on things they do, you limit yourself from doing things like that in your personal time and you start to ridicule yourself on it harshly. then you fail to gain the perspective you could've earned from trying to put yourself in the other peoples' shoes. it goes kinda like that. and i know how it feels to realize all of these things at once, so it was beautiful to watch her do it too.
When he said “she doesn’t looks wife material to me” and in the video the girl told that the biggest thing that makes me is my daughter..... THAT SHOOKED ME.
To the guy who was wearing the green polo, saying you "don't know why you said that", is a lie. The reason why you said all those things because you didn't expect them to show up and listen to your criticism and judgement.
i think youre taking things a little too literally...hes self reflecting. he isnt pointing to the screen and going idk that guy idk what hes saying i cant take responsibility. its not like hes actually trying to convince anyone he is innocent or smth or trying to lie. hes realizing how much he regrets what he said and is wondering why he would say those things.
@@bailey2866 criticizing and being judgemental is what I believe our human nature. People needs to understand that we do have flaws and that we are different from each other. So to question himself why he said all those things is just him lying. All im saying is that he should own up to it. I mean his judgment represent what he sees.
Omg this is so awkward 🙈🙈, after everyone Said what they thought of each other They had to be in the same room together at the end 😂😂😂 Edited : Guess some people are stupid commenting shit here Don't know why you'll feeling butt hurt 😂😂😂
Thank you, after I watched the video I forgot how it all went down in the matter of seconds and this comment allowed me to remember instead of rewatching the video.
I thought this was just a simple one person drag but then they literally ALL dragged each other. I'm emotionally distraught this was so FUNNY and uncomfortable
“everyone looks better in person” this is so weirdly sweet. you could tell they didn’t really want to and it was awkward. they all seem lovely and this video is a great commentary on judgement and self image. great job guys
+Scorpionic Yes because judging is something we naturally do? We judge or food, others anything really. It gives us an expectation and while it has it flaws it also has it's usefulness.
크 역시 솔파네요 ㅠㅠ 우리 사회에서는 수많은 편견들과 말 그대로 얼굴평가를 숨쉬듯이 하는 것 같아요. 정작 본인 앞에서는 입에 담지도 못할 말들을 뒤에서는 너무 가볍게 하고있고요. 아주 흥미로운 비판적인 영상 잘봤어요! 이 영상으로 무의식적으로 사람을 판단하기 전에 한번 더 생각하는 사람이 된 것 같아요 .
외모 평가를 하라고 해놓고 외모평가를 한거에 대해서 비판하는데.. 차라리 처음부터 질문을 “얼평을 해라” 가 아니라 “어떤 생각이 드나요?” 라고 했으면 좀 더 만족스러운 비디오가 되지 않았을까 생각이 드네요. 도둑질 하라고 해서 했더니 그거가지고 도둑질 한건 잘못된거야 라고 하는 느낌이에요..
노한나 제가 생각하기에 얼굴평가는 비판이건 칭찬이건 모든것을 다 아울러서 보는것이라고 생각합니다. 칭찬을 했다고 해서 잘한게 아니고, 비판을 했다고 해서 칭찬보다 나쁜게 아닙니다. 듣는 사람이 기분좋게 들을 확률은 좀 높긴 하겠지만 말이죠. 얼평을 아예 안하는것은 거의 불가능합니다. 사람이 사람을 처음으로 대할때 유일하게 상대방을 파악할 수 있는 특징이기 때문이죠. 그것과 별개로 영상에서는 처음부터 상대방에 대한 얼평을 하라고 요구했기 때문에 영상속 인물들에 대한 자기반성을 유도하는 흐름은 좀 부족하다고 여겨질만 하다고 생각해요.
노한나 제작진이 본인의 미의 기준에 맞춰서 바뀌었으면 좋겠다는 부분을 말해달라고 했는데 이건 진짜 개인의 취향에 따라서 솔직하게 말할 수 있는 거 아닌가요? 살을 좀 빼셨으면 좋겠네요, 제 결혼상대로는 부적합할 거 같네요, 머리스타일이 마음에 바뀌었으면 좋겠네요 등등... 만약 얼굴평가만 하라고 하고 그 뒤에 추가적인 말을 안했으면 저렇게 자극적인 영상이 만들어 지진 않았을 거 같네요.
when he said she needed to diet my jaw hit the floor, but after seeing what she said I was like nevermind LOL. All I can say is their better than me because I would've cried
mmmm somethign that annoys me about these videos is the constant reminder of being 'wife material'; not every girl is born to be a wife or wants to be a wife
5:40 이 표정이 정말 공감이 됩니다. 출연자분들 인성 좋으시네요. 어찌보면 제작진이 속인건데 영상 내보내는것에 동의하시다니... 영상의도는좋지만, 어떤점을 고치면 좋을지 말하라고 하면 다 단점만 얘기하죠. 장단점을 다 말하라고 했다면 출연자분들의 영혼과 양심이 더 지켜졌을텐데...
This is what we exactly do in the internet... Edit: oh wow I got noticed thanks. But when I say ‘this is what we excactly do in the internet’ doesn’t literally mean I mean every single one of us do this, but it’s true that there’s thousands of judgy people I’m sure you get what I mean
Cultural context: I see a lot of comments about the "wife material" thing asking "why do they always bring up wife material, don't they know there's more to a person than that, etc." So in Korea, marriage is considered one of the most important things in life. If you're still single by your mid 30s people think there's something wrong with you, and the idea of even not getting married is a really foreign concept (of course there are unmarried people but they get judged hard). But it's not just a thing directed at women, husband material is also incredibly a huge issue in Korea. Wealth, job security, status, all of that factors into marriage when women are looking to date a guy. A lot of women in their mid to late 20s (in mainstream culture) date men based on whether or not they are marriage material. It's not crazy for women to bring up the subject of marriage on the first date either. For a lot of Koreans, almost everything about you is linked to marriage. The way you dress, the kind of tattoos you have, your job security, all comes back to marriage. I would love to see Solfa interview some Korean UA-camrs about this. I know some Korean UA-camrs who can't get girlfriends or have long term relationships with a lot of Korean women because their job is considered too unstable and risky for marriage. So why do Koreans keep bringing up wife material? Because marriage is like one of the most important things in Korea. Very very different from Western standards.
As far as I know you're korean-american if I'm not mistaken. I'm korean korean and I just want to inform you it's not like that anymore here. The culture has been changing rapidly and it's not really a norm everyone wants to get married. Yes a lot of old people still have that conservative mindset but young people have whole different perspective and I would say time of ppl choosing to get married just to satisfy their parents and other ppl has gone now
@@jk-yv1ls Super late, but as an American (not Korean) it's like that here too. Many guys say things like "she's not wife material" all the time! And the marriage culture is similar too. Most people get married but you don't have to (except for some older people who believe heavily in marriage).
This message holds a strong message that i feel like is so so relavant, especially with the internet today where people can just pour out hatred or thoughts in a tweet...or a message in a few seconds. Although it isn’t bad to have an opinion or preference or judgements, making assumptions is or can be a risk. These assumptions come in many different forms and imagine turning this into a comment everybody can see, which can spread like wildfire. The music emphasized the message more, nice touch.
앞으로 외국인이 남긴 댓글은 시간 내서라도 읽어봐야겠다 같은 문제를 얼마나 비슷하게 아니면 다르게 생각하는지 궁금함 ☞ I will read opinions that foreigns wrote even though I might take more time to understand. Because I am wondering how they thinking about same issues(topics).
Yea... feel the same.. But like just think that you're in the experiment, and if I were there, then i would be so embarrassed quite? Like umm a feeling that cannot be expressed but very similar to that feeling of a embarrassment and blaming my self how I saw the others, not the way of seeing benefits but only seeing the defaults of others..... I felt the same watching this video
Does judgement mean negative? When asked to judge, it doesn't always mean it's negative. I mean, it can be done nicer too. "I don't know why I said that". You know why you said that.
They literally ask what would you change about their appearance based on your standers, thats why the said negative things, they didn't just say "judge them"
This makes me want to cry. I used to hate how I looked and didn't even care about the person behind it. I was so cruel to myself and now I know that it was wrong.
반성했습니다. 어떤 모습을 가지고 있든 그사람과 말 한마디 섞지도 않는채 판단해왔던 제가 멍청한거 같아요 화장쎄게하고 옷도 튀게 입는 사랃들은 막 쎄고 남욕 틱틱 할거 같고 소극적이고 안꾸미는 사람은 소심해 보이고 말 잘 못하는사람 같다고 0.1초 만에 판단이 드는거 같아요 솔직히 첫인상은 외면밖에 볼수있는게 없으니 순간적으로 그렇게 “느낄”수는 있지만 그걸 넘어서 “판단”은 하면 안될것 같네요. 설사 그런 판단이 맞았다고 해도 그건 외면이 이유가 아니라 그냥 그런사람이라 그런거고.. 첫인상으로 그사람의 모든면을 못박아 바리는 습관 정말 안 좋은 습관입니다. 빨리 저도 이 색안경을 던져버리고 싶네요
the part where the girl was talking about her daughter followed up with the close up of the guy’s mouth saying negative things ... i got chills .. this is very beautifully shot/edited .. really emphasises the message and makes this video even more powerful
Namdo actually people that have a lot of tattoos if you really know them and talk to them they have a lot of past issues and mental problems that are coming out through the excessive tattooing. It's a form of body mutilation
The guy with mustache has the best reaction in the whole video from start to end 😂😂😂 But I feel like in the end its the mustache guy was the most honest he realized what he did and didn't disagree about it . I feel like he actually learned a great deal today
"The biggest thing that makes me who I am is... my daughter." AHHHH that shot me through the heart. Wasn't expecting that. Instant transport to the like button.
안녕하세요. 첫번째 남자로 나온 사람입니다. 제가 뭐라고 저 따위가 뭐라고 이런 말씀드리기가 조심스럽습니다. 제 이름이 생소하신 분들이 많으실 거라고 생각합니다. 우선 이 영상을 찍을 수 있게 기회주신 솔파 관계자분들께 진심으로 감사드리며 함께할 수 있어서 즐겁고 좋은 추억만들 수 있게 해 준 출연진 분들께도 감사의 말씀드립니다. 그리고 시청해주시고 알아봐주신 모든 시청자 여러분과 모든 댓글 남겨주신 여러분께도 진심으로 감사의 말씀올립니다. 이 영상을 통해 제 자신에 대해 부끄럽고 아직 갈 길이 멀구나 뼈저리게 느꼈습니다. 말 한마디가 정말 소중하고 함부로 내뱉어선 안된다는걸 알면서도, 다시 한 번 뉘우친 계기가 된 것 같습니다. 반성하고 또 반성하고 있습니다. 보시다시피 지금의 전, 아무런 보잘 것 없는 무명에 불과합니다. 아무것도 없이 닥치는대로 살아왔고, 열정 하나만 가지고 여기까지 달려왔습니다. 가슴으로 꾸던 꿈을 머리가 아닌 다시 가슴으로 꾸려고합니다. ‘열정에 기름붓기’란 타이틀이 정말 저에게 지금 가장 와 닿는 말이 아닐까 생각해봅니다. 제가 어디까지 보여드릴진 장담 못드리겠지만, 포기하지 않는다라는 약속은 꼭 드리고 싶습니다. 지키도록 노력하겠습니다. 모든 것에 감사하고, 받아들이고, 반성도 하며, 발전하는 그런 삶을 살겠습니다. 지금은 아무것도 아닌 저이지만, 더 노력하고 반드시 성장해서 좋은 모습 보여드리고 싶습니다. 배우가 되기전에 사람이 먼저 되어야겠습니다. 영상의 주제처럼 한마디 말보다 행동으로써 노력하겠습니다. 과분한 자리에, 과분한 말씀에 대해 꼭 감사의 말씀드리고자 남겨드립니다. 제가 말주변이 없어 정리한다고 한게 제 얘기만 주저리 주저리 늘어 놓았네요. 죄송스럽고, 다시 한번 진심으로 감사드리며 모든 분들이 모든 하시는 일에 행복과 기쁨이 가득하시기만 빌겠습니다. 여러분이 달려가는 동안 저도 어디선가 힘차게 달리며 여러분을 꼭 응원하겠습니다. 행복하세요:) instagram.com/u_hms
This video brought back really hurtful memories....I had a bestfriend who would always comment stuff like I went to surprise her with a septum I recently got and when I showed it to her she looked at my nose and said “waste of money if you ask me” and any time I stood face to face with her my smile always dropped because she’d say something about my appearance that didn’t need to be said out loud and I’d always laugh it off and if I brought it up she’d make me feel like I’m being ridiculous by using the excuse “I’d rather you know you look bad then having your hopes high and walking around all confident until you realize you look bad and then you’re sad” and she’d make me feel like she’s the victim and she’s the one always being criticized by me....I finally met a friend who made me realize the shit she was putting me through and I left her and made friends who brought me up and not down
I feel you. I have this guy friend, he made bad comments about me. Then whenever I asked him why he's being so mean, he just told me that he's just trying to be nice, telling me his opinion so that I can improve on myself 🤣🤣🤣
I think they’re only probably ashamed of themselves because the other person saw what they said about them- even if they had said nothing they still would’ve had those thoughts just like everyone else does, it shows how you only really feel embarrassed once the other person finds out but not because you had those thoughts in the first place. Idk if this makes sense but it’s how I interpret the video
There's more to that. This video does a lot to show how strong the "screen" is. Anyone can be critical without hesitance when there is a "screen" separating them from whatever they're talking about; what's being looked at isn't in the same space they are. They're talking about something that may as well not be real. This video reminds us that its always real. You participate in it just by talking about it and having an opinion about it. They're not just embarrassed because their opinions were heard, but also that it was their opinions when under the protection of the "screen" was heard. They thought just because what they talked about wasn't on the same side of the screen, their voice wouldn't have any effect whatsoever. But it's not always so simple, and this video just gives a direct way of how.
I see what you're saying, but maybe they needed to see it for themselves to realize just how much they judge. When it's only in your head, you don't notice it as much. I mean, that would've really been a reality-check for me. You understand what I mean?
Michelle H Of course it would have, and that's what so great about the video! It makes us think about something that's already happening; it's a demonstration that what we take for granted isn't as innocent as first thought. But that's the thing: it's not because we watch this situation play out that it becomes a problem; it was already a problem. I think that should be a major takeaway.
Michelle H But everyone has his own taste and preferences that’s why you can’t stop judging “in your head” I think it’s very important to notice your judgmental thoughts and push them asides as good as you can. That’s what I call open minded. Everyone is judging automatically and the ones who claim they don’t, just do it unconsciously which isn’t any better in my opinion. I tried to explain it in English but welp... hope you’ll understand
Heloise 613 Yeah, we cannot ignore the influence of being watched by other people, but I still think that this viedo did a great challenge to let us know that judging other person is a shameful behavior.
Of course they're not perfect bcs no one is actually perfect and no one is enough I don't know why people try to be perfect and try so hard to fit in and be enough for people like why do you guys strive for perfection instead of progress like strive for progress not perfection cuz no one is perfect I know that my comment is so irrelevant but I don't know why I needed to say that. 👍👍😊😊
I feel like, I rather someone criticize me, than me criticizing someone. Although it might hurt, at least I don’t feel as guilty and won’t hunt me. It won’t be easy to avoid someone who criticize you, but at least I can try I’m out of topic, but probably it make sense
We don't even realise that a social platform like UA-cam which has become a daily habit for us, can enlightens us with such emotional and thought provoking content
You create the most influential and purest videos. There is so much depth and meaning behind your content. You're like an angel, in a way. Opening the minds of others with respect and love for everyone. There is no negative undertone to your videos that involve judging other people. You express their emotions in a completely natural way to show the truth in life. You're providing so much positivity through what you do. Thank you.
I love this channel. I can tell every single thing is well thought of and organized. such a creative way to educate and connect people !! GOODD JOBBBBBB !!!!
이영상에서 마지막에 문신한여성분이 자신도 나답게살려고 하는데 막상 남들이 나답게사는걸 자신이 방해한다는 생각이 들어서 수치스러웠다는 말을듣고 너무 공감됬습니다 막상 나도 남들이 나를 무어라평가하던 나답게 나스스로를 존중하고 사랑하려고 노력하는데도 다른이들에 안좋은 이야기가 들려오면 나답게 살기가 힘들어지더라구요 의식하게되고 상대방기준에 맞추려고하면서요 그럼에도 불구하고 나라는 사람은 상대를 그사람 자체로 존중해주지 못하면서 살아가고 있다는 생각이들어 스스로 반성이 되네요
its savage because the producers told them to critically judge each other despite them being reluctant to do so. 0:55 think critically about the premise of the video & who told them to voice their judgement. at the end of the day, i'm sure they wouldn't have done it if they weren't told to do so. you & I already know we're capable of critical thought, but it's polite to have manners and to keep it to ourselves. nothing was substantially learned.
I usually don't comment on videos because I don't think it's worth my time but this specific video stroke me. The beginning was so well filmed and the whole video was constructed in such a confusing yet powerful way that it made me think... This is the type of content I like to see on UA-cam : quality content. Keep it up !
This was the biggest slap in the face I've seen my whole life
imma reply to your comment so you know how many likes you got
@@zaimaanas OMG 😂 mom I'm famous!
Jarassette JH because koreans all look the same
@@sparklingfashion6276 they don't really they look nothing alike
@@sparklingfashion6276 if you think they all look alike then it's either you have poor eye sight or you are racist or just super dumb.
I felt bad for the first guy cause he had to rate their looks, but then when they rated his looks, they seemed so much more negative than he was imo
Yeah
We do feel bad for GOOD people😘frst guy always knew he is surrounded by negative people 😍😍😍
I love ur profile pic
Tangid Mohsin Mohammad 🥺💕
@@soul3vBtw did u watch the trailer of the incoming movie??
저렇게 억지로 시켜서 한 얼평도 얼굴보고 다시보면 부끄러운데 본인이 자의로 당사자 동의도 없이 얼평 하는 사람들은 이거 보고 부끄러운 줄 알라는 의미같은데
그러게요..
Ouch. And they all just kinda laughed but you could see.some pain in their eyes
someone commented on my looks once,, i laughed it off because the air was tense but i was actually really hurt by it
@@israatasneem6250 Ugh how dare they. I always go by the rule "if it ain't positive don't say it" when it comes to permanent things like looks.
Sifat Siam uhh I hope that was a joke...but it wasn’t funny.
Most pathetic thing was that they can't help it but only tell them how they can improve. Actually that guy in starting was not going overboard he was saying truth in aquite polite they all must have listened these things already.
Sifat Siam kindly fuck off will you?
If someone ever asks you what awkwardness feels like, please show them this video
Raish PS ay army,, but did you see the guy with the leather jacket when the video started *-* xD I feel horrible
bangtan is death yeah, he was like the main bad guy XD
Yes
HILARIOUSLY awkward XD. That first guy was so nervous
Raish PS yea
어떻게보면 가식없이 남의생각을 들어볼수있는 좋은기회인데 모엿을때 ㅈㄴ 당황스럽겟다
"i realized that maybe the person that is preventing me from being me is actually just me" that's sooo deep and thoughtful i love that
Sky Kang
Yay I’m the 1000th like
it's because if you judge others on things they do, you limit yourself from doing things like that in your personal time and you start to ridicule yourself on it harshly. then you fail to gain the perspective you could've earned from trying to put yourself in the other peoples' shoes. it goes kinda like that. and i know how it feels to realize all of these things at once, so it was beautiful to watch her do it too.
bro... based on appearance only tell me why they look like a group of friends who chill together every weekend at a bar
Damnnn lol xD
Wtfff i actually see that wow
ACTUALLY THOO
Actually
In an 80s movie
"You all look much better in person" I laughed so hard lol he's smooth
Bradley B I think its true. To me they did look better than they did on the screen.
@@Anacaona4 you saw them irl?
@@0j00n lol think they meant day of the shooting
When he said “she doesn’t looks wife material to me” and in the video the girl told that the biggest thing that makes me is my daughter..... THAT SHOOKED ME.
Most likely a single mom. I would actually bet money on it
Mike K She's married lol
Mike K Well you guessed wrong, she's married
Mike K ya lost your money, mike :p
Mike K bruh where’s your money at
To the guy who was wearing the green polo, saying you "don't know why you said that", is a lie. The reason why you said all those things because you didn't expect them to show up and listen to your criticism and judgement.
It’s called regret and shame lol
the reason why he said all those things were because they asked him what he thinks about them. He was giving his honest opinion, really.
i think youre taking things a little too literally...hes self reflecting. he isnt pointing to the screen and going idk that guy idk what hes saying i cant take responsibility. its not like hes actually trying to convince anyone he is innocent or smth or trying to lie. hes realizing how much he regrets what he said and is wondering why he would say those things.
@@bailey2866 criticizing and being judgemental is what I believe our human nature. People needs to understand that we do have flaws and that we are different from each other. So to question himself why he said all those things is just him lying. All im saying is that he should own up to it. I mean his judgment represent what he sees.
Yes true i hate that guy
얼평 하라고 했으면서 '이런 식으로 바뀌면 좋겠다' 라고 하는건 제작진의 말 실수냐 아님 그냥 생각이 부족한거냐.
Omg this is so awkward 🙈🙈, after everyone Said
what they thought of each other
They had to be in the same room together at the end 😂😂😂
Edited : Guess some people are stupid commenting shit here
Don't know why you'll feeling butt hurt 😂😂😂
really? what the fuck? you watched the same video??
jess b Jesus calm down it was just sarcasm
Thank you, after I watched the video I forgot how it all went down in the matter of seconds and this comment allowed me to remember instead of rewatching the video.
No shit... I..I didn’t realize that
Joseph Lee STFU you fake ass Anime fan go spin some more beyblade 😆😆
I thought this was just a simple one person drag but then they literally ALL dragged each other. I'm emotionally distraught this was so FUNNY and uncomfortable
MangoBabyRican ikr
Best thing is: After you roasted each other for 10 minutes straight, please great each other.
And everybody: 안녕하세요 plus bowing 😂😂😂
“everyone looks better in person” this is so weirdly sweet. you could tell they didn’t really want to and it was awkward. they all seem lovely and this video is a great commentary on judgement and self image. great job guys
저기 나오신 분들 다 겉으로 티는 안 내지만 각자 큰 상처를 받았을거 같다
이런 컨텐츠는 조심해야할듯
이번 영상은 유튜브 채널의 한 콘텐츠라기보단 영상작품의 영역에 가깝고, 조심을 하네 마네보다는 얼마나 센세이션을 일으키느냐가 더 중요합니다.
그렇게 조심하다보면, 미디어의 창의성이 너무 제한됩니다
this is really a great example of how people judge others behind a screen and then can’t say what they said to these people in person.
Scorpionic if you said that to someone in person that could hurt their feelings
YOYA you missed the whole point of what I wrote.......
Scorpionic ok
PREACH!
+Scorpionic Yes because judging is something we naturally do? We judge or food, others anything really. It gives us an expectation and while it has it flaws it also has it's usefulness.
으악 보는사람이 다 민망해지네ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 얼평하지 맙시다
아이디어 대박이네ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 자기의 장점을 얘기하는 영상에 얼평을 시키네 와우.. 여러모로 많은 생각이 들게 하는 영상
숙연대잔치ㅜㅜ 보는 제가 왜 민망스럽나요
크 역시 솔파네요 ㅠㅠ 우리 사회에서는 수많은 편견들과 말 그대로 얼굴평가를 숨쉬듯이 하는 것 같아요. 정작 본인 앞에서는 입에 담지도 못할 말들을 뒤에서는 너무 가볍게 하고있고요. 아주 흥미로운 비판적인 영상 잘봤어요! 이 영상으로 무의식적으로 사람을 판단하기 전에 한번 더 생각하는 사람이 된 것 같아요 .
진짜 무섭네요 세상
물결 Angela 안녕하세요 물결남
물결님은 나이에 비해서 굉장히 성숙한 생각을 갖고 계시고 말씀을 너무 잘하세요 ㅎㅎ 영상 잘 보고있습니다❤️
물결 Angela 물결님!여기서 뵙네요,,♡
물결 Angela 그러게요 나도모르게 무의식적으로 애기할때도 있고요
외모 평가를 하라고 해놓고 외모평가를 한거에 대해서 비판하는데.. 차라리 처음부터 질문을
“얼평을 해라” 가 아니라
“어떤 생각이 드나요?”
라고 했으면 좀 더 만족스러운 비디오가 되지 않았을까 생각이 드네요.
도둑질 하라고 해서 했더니 그거가지고 도둑질 한건 잘못된거야 라고 하는 느낌이에요..
@@sujfr14 오오정말듣고보니 그 누구도 비판하라고한적이 없는데 다들 나쁜점을 쭉읊었네요 그게 이 소프가 원한 기획인거같네요
근데 바뀌었으면 하는점을 언급해라 했으면 비판하라는뜻 아닌가염??
노한나 제가 생각하기에 얼굴평가는 비판이건 칭찬이건 모든것을 다 아울러서 보는것이라고 생각합니다.
칭찬을 했다고 해서 잘한게 아니고, 비판을 했다고 해서 칭찬보다 나쁜게 아닙니다. 듣는 사람이 기분좋게 들을 확률은 좀 높긴 하겠지만 말이죠.
얼평을 아예 안하는것은 거의 불가능합니다. 사람이 사람을 처음으로 대할때 유일하게 상대방을 파악할 수 있는 특징이기 때문이죠.
그것과 별개로 영상에서는 처음부터 상대방에 대한 얼평을 하라고 요구했기 때문에 영상속 인물들에 대한 자기반성을 유도하는 흐름은 좀 부족하다고 여겨질만 하다고 생각해요.
노한나 제작진이 본인의 미의 기준에 맞춰서 바뀌었으면 좋겠다는 부분을 말해달라고 했는데 이건 진짜 개인의 취향에 따라서 솔직하게 말할 수 있는 거 아닌가요? 살을 좀 빼셨으면 좋겠네요, 제 결혼상대로는 부적합할 거 같네요, 머리스타일이 마음에 바뀌었으면 좋겠네요 등등... 만약 얼굴평가만 하라고 하고 그 뒤에 추가적인 말을 안했으면 저렇게 자극적인 영상이 만들어 지진 않았을 거 같네요.
어릴때부터 배우잖아 남에게 상처주지 말라고 그러니까 모르는 사람 비판하지 말라는거야 그게 진정 그사람이 나아졌으면 하는 생각에 하는말이 아니잖아 그런데 보고 배우는게 상대방 비평하는거니까... 이렇게 보면 사회 분위기가 그런데 사람이 무슨잘못인가 싶기도 하고
IM SORRY BUT I COULDNT STOP LAUGHING WHEN THEY WERE REACTING TO EACH OTHER AND I FEEL BAD ABOUT IT
It might seem bad but I was laughing too *Facepalm* I guess it was more of the embarrassment that was shown on their faces .-.
HAHAH IKR
I was like "oooh snap"
Girl: *I like thinner guys*
Also girl: *calls the other guy a twig*
There’s a balance lol
ikr for some reason i felt angry lmao
when he said she needed to diet my jaw hit the floor, but after seeing what she said I was like nevermind LOL. All I can say is their better than me because I would've cried
스스로 부끄러워 할 줄 아시고 돌아볼 줄 아시는 좋은 분들이 모이셨네요. 그마저도 못 하고 당당해하는 사람이 많은데...
왜 부끄러워 해야되나요
Un title 부끄러운줄 알아야죠
아 잘몰라서 댓글을 남기는데.. 정확한답변을해주시는분이있으면 감사하겠습니다.
컨텐트자체가 평가를 해달라고 해달라고 해서 그걸 그대로 이행을했는데.. 그게 부끄러운건지? 잘모르겠어요.
얼굴평가를 거부할수있는 ,말을아낄수있는 상황도 아니라고 저는 그렇게 생각하는데 혹시 짚어주실수있을까요?
@@sbbb2866 '남의 외모를 평가한다' 라는 말 자체가 사회적으로 비판을 받잖아요
당사자가 없을 때, 듣지 못할 때 본인이 했던 말들이 실제 상대방 앞에서 하지 못하는 실례가 되는 말들이라 부끄럽다인 것 같아요
쓰고나니까 어렵네요
그러므로 모두 페미를 존중합시다 ^^
와 진짜 네분 다 얼마나 머쓱하셨을까ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ; 많은 생각을 하게되네요 정말ㅋㅋㅋㅋ ㅠㅠ
공개처형
mmmm somethign that annoys me about these videos is the constant reminder of being 'wife material'; not every girl is born to be a wife or wants to be a wife
Exactly some of us are lesbians and we prefer the "husband" roles.
恺晴Myuca girl, you aren’t even funny
@@tea5224 girl, yeah it was
@@tea5224 Who said I was a comedian? Just because Im gay?
@@Steambunbun girl,,,, don't feed the stereotypes
The first guy seems tame now that I’ve seen what everyone else said, damn 😂
deadass and i thought his was bad enough
He looks like a badass Korean villain
@@2dhoes240 he wants to be an actor, I think he can
Wow solfa really be hitting us with these thought provoking videos.
Niharika Ghosh I just saw you on a big marvel asmr video lmfaooo
Sραcє Pєиgυιи what were you doing there lmfaoooo
Sραcє Pєиgυιи Me too xD
Ayyeee I see Jackson Wang!
Thought provoking, maybe. But people will continue to judge others.
타투이스트 여성분 마지막에 넘나 좋은 말하셨네요 나는 나답게 살려고 노력하지만 남이 나답게 사는 걸 품평하면서 방해하는 거 같다는 말이요! 근데 비하인드는 언제 올라오는 겁니까ㅏㅏ
유튜버 안리나 님이셔요 !! 넘 좋으신분
본인도 품평했네요 어쩔 수 없나봐요
근데 재미있는 건, 이 영상을 보는 나도 품평을 자연스럽게 하고 있었다.
5:40 이 표정이 정말 공감이 됩니다. 출연자분들 인성 좋으시네요. 어찌보면 제작진이 속인건데 영상 내보내는것에 동의하시다니... 영상의도는좋지만, 어떤점을 고치면 좋을지 말하라고 하면 다 단점만 얘기하죠. 장단점을 다 말하라고 했다면 출연자분들의 영혼과 양심이 더 지켜졌을텐데...
만약 저렇게 만나지않고 그냥 끝났다면 남한테 미안함을 느낄까 라는 의문이 드네요
얼평을 조심스러워한다고 말하고 시작하는분을 데려다가 얼평을 하라고 하시면ㅎㅎ...; 평소 얼평하는걸 서슴없이 하는 사람으로 하셨으면 더 교훈적이었을텐데 이건 너무 괴롭히시는것같아요ㅠㅠ
유효진 ㅠㅠ그렇게 말씀하신다면 제가 더 뭐라고 하지는 못하지만... 영상을 보는데 제가 더 부끄러워져서...ㅎㅎ
This is what we exactly do in the internet...
Edit: oh wow I got noticed thanks. But when I say ‘this is what we excactly do in the internet’ doesn’t literally mean I mean every single one of us do this, but it’s true that there’s thousands of judgy people I’m sure you get what I mean
Nope, many of us dont really care about another persons look
Woe2theRepublic that’s rare though. Glad I’m one of those few people
@@fikrijuliansyah1601 right.
Like the picture u have on your
Profile 💜😂
-Ultraviolence - do you not care at all? Whatsoever? Even if someone is obese?
Cultural context: I see a lot of comments about the "wife material" thing asking "why do they always bring up wife material, don't they know there's more to a person than that, etc." So in Korea, marriage is considered one of the most important things in life. If you're still single by your mid 30s people think there's something wrong with you, and the idea of even not getting married is a really foreign concept (of course there are unmarried people but they get judged hard). But it's not just a thing directed at women, husband material is also incredibly a huge issue in Korea. Wealth, job security, status, all of that factors into marriage when women are looking to date a guy. A lot of women in their mid to late 20s (in mainstream culture) date men based on whether or not they are marriage material. It's not crazy for women to bring up the subject of marriage on the first date either.
For a lot of Koreans, almost everything about you is linked to marriage. The way you dress, the kind of tattoos you have, your job security, all comes back to marriage. I would love to see Solfa interview some Korean UA-camrs about this. I know some Korean UA-camrs who can't get girlfriends or have long term relationships with a lot of Korean women because their job is considered too unstable and risky for marriage.
So why do Koreans keep bringing up wife material? Because marriage is like one of the most important things in Korea. Very very different from Western standards.
As far as I know you're korean-american if I'm not mistaken. I'm korean korean and I just want to inform you it's not like that anymore here. The culture has been changing rapidly and it's not really a norm everyone wants to get married. Yes a lot of old people still have that conservative mindset but young people have whole different perspective and I would say time of ppl choosing to get married just to satisfy their parents and other ppl has gone now
@@jk-yv1ls Super late, but as an American (not Korean) it's like that here too. Many guys say things like "she's not wife material" all the time! And the marriage culture is similar too. Most people get married but you don't have to (except for some older people who believe heavily in marriage).
This message holds a strong message that i feel like is so so relavant, especially with the internet today where people can just pour out hatred or thoughts in a tweet...or a message in a few seconds. Although it isn’t bad to have an opinion or preference or judgements, making assumptions is or can be a risk. These assumptions come in many different forms and imagine turning this into a comment everybody can see, which can spread like wildfire.
The music emphasized the message more, nice touch.
True ( highkey writing this comment to inform you of all your likes)
Anna 818 oh wow
앞으로 외국인이 남긴 댓글은 시간 내서라도 읽어봐야겠다 같은 문제를 얼마나 비슷하게 아니면 다르게 생각하는지 궁금함
☞ I will read opinions that foreigns wrote even though I might take more time to understand. Because I am wondering how they thinking about same issues(topics).
반박불가 niceee
Yea... feel the same.. But like just think that you're in the experiment, and if I were there, then i would be so embarrassed quite? Like umm a feeling that cannot be expressed but very similar to that feeling of a embarrassment and blaming my self how I saw the others, not the way of seeing benefits but only seeing the defaults of others..... I felt the same watching this video
이건 진짜 잔인하다...이렇게 4명이서 모여서 보여준다는것을 알려준것도아니고...
알았으면 솔직히 못했겠죠
저 사람들이 사람 보자마자 얼평을 한것도 아니고 얼펑을 하라해서 한건데 그래서 잔인함이 와닿진 않음
공개처형
너가 남을 평가할때 남도 너를 평가한다는 교훈을 얻었겠죠
맞아.. 너무 잔인하다.....
Does judgement mean negative? When asked to judge, it doesn't always mean it's negative. I mean, it can be done nicer too.
"I don't know why I said that". You know why you said that.
agree with you !! i thought the same thing! if it was me i would've mentionned all their nice features and gave them only compliments.
but this is the whole point of this video. I'm pretty sure that's what the director told them
In korean, word 'judgement' sometimes implies negative mean.
off-topic but I love Jin's shoulders too
They literally ask what would you change about their appearance based on your standers, thats why the said negative things, they didn't just say "judge them"
This makes me want to cry. I used to hate how I looked and didn't even care about the person behind it. I was so cruel to myself and now I know that it was wrong.
Naomi You are gorgeous and your name is so pretty
🐹🌻🐥🌿💫
저 문신하신 분 정수리 때리는거 개웃곀ㄱㅋㄱㅋㄱㅋㄱㅋㄱㅋㅅㅋㅅㅋㅅㅋㅅㅋㅅㅋㅅㅋㅆㅋㅋㅋㅋ
4:56
@저글링 탁탁탁ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
개인적으로 문신한 여자분 말씀이 인상깊어요..
그동안 살면서 저질렀을 수없이 많은 실언들이
뚜렷이 떠오르진 않지만 후회가 되네요..
그동안 말로써 얼마나 많은 사람을 상처줬을지,
또 나자신의 가치는 얼마나 깎아먹었을지..
그리고 이 후회는 과연 며칠이나 갈지..
저렇게 실제로 앞에서 못 할말들 하지말자 난 그게 제일 떠오르네
The first guy was the only one who really felt that shame inside. While the others jokes around, you can feel how he felt.
he couldnt even look them in the eye
And he's the only one who properly greeted them by standing and bowing
Girl with tattoos is actually pretty to me. Is it just me or?
I'm just a worthless piece of shit, but yessss, her IG is ahnlina 🌸
I agree with you
NPC 69420 prettier than you
She actually had plastic surgery, she‘s a famous tattoo artist. She was featured at the id hospital. (Koreas leading plastic surgery clinic)
Clarissa Brie okay but are we talking about plastic surgery here? :)
This video was unexpectedly intense. I'm getting anxiety over here.
UnderscoreBrian Dude, you’re giving me bad anxiety by your own anxiety.
UnderscoreBrian same
0:51 단톡방에 사진이 올라왔다..? 단톡방이 그런 평가의 장이 된다는 걸 단적으로 보여주는 멘트네요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ화자가 누군지는 모르겠지만
특히 여자들 장난아니죠 뒷담에 태우기에 어휴
@@user-ii9du7nb9i 엥 ㅋㅋㅋ̆̈ㅋ̆̈ 단톡방 품평질 하면 떠오르는건 무조건 남자인데 ? 여자들은 성희롱은 안함 정준영 톡방 기억 안나니 ?
뭘 해도 남자들 보단 심하지 않아 ㅋㅋ
@@user-ii9du7nb9i 어떤 여자들이 단톡에서 뒷담화를...
그니까요 남사진 단톡방에 왜올려
@휴휴 네 그렇구요 여자들도 그렇구요
전체적으로 평가를 날카롭게 하는듯... 그러고 보여주니까 급하게 사과하네
반성했습니다. 어떤 모습을 가지고 있든 그사람과 말 한마디 섞지도 않는채 판단해왔던 제가 멍청한거 같아요 화장쎄게하고 옷도 튀게 입는 사랃들은 막 쎄고 남욕 틱틱 할거 같고 소극적이고 안꾸미는 사람은 소심해 보이고 말 잘 못하는사람 같다고 0.1초 만에 판단이 드는거 같아요 솔직히 첫인상은 외면밖에 볼수있는게 없으니 순간적으로 그렇게 “느낄”수는 있지만 그걸 넘어서 “판단”은 하면 안될것 같네요. 설사 그런 판단이 맞았다고 해도 그건 외면이 이유가 아니라 그냥 그런사람이라 그런거고.. 첫인상으로 그사람의 모든면을 못박아 바리는 습관 정말 안 좋은 습관입니다. 빨리 저도 이 색안경을 던져버리고 싶네요
뭘 말하려는진 이해가 가긴하는데
그닥 공감은...
저 남자분 첨에 얼평하란 말들었을때
당황하고 그리고
살빼야할꺼같다하면서도
미안해서인지 귀엽다고도 하고
뒷담화까다 만난것도 아니고
얼평시킨담에 만나게하면
다 저렇지뭐
당연히 저 사람들은 컨텐츠 상 어쩔수없이 얼평을 하는거니깐 잘못이 없는데 , 말하고자 하는건 컨탠츠 목적상이 아닌 평소에 그런 말들을 하는 사람들에게 일침 가할려고 한거니깐..
@@user-ii8hy4nf7h 그런 사람들한테 일침가하는 수단이 여기 게스트들 수치스럽게 만들면서까지면 좀 잘못된듯
이 채널 좀... 강제로 교훈 주입시키는거같아서 무식해보임
뭘 말하려는지 이해도 안됨
애초에 어디를 고쳐야 하는지라는 질문도 깍아내려라 하는거임
그렇게 다 상처만 입는...
the part where the girl was talking about her daughter followed up with the close up of the guy’s mouth saying negative things ... i got chills .. this is very beautifully shot/edited .. really emphasises the message and makes this video even more powerful
"Everyone looks much better in person." 😂😂😂
Nice attempted save, lol. They do say the camera adds ten pounds. ;)
It's true, though (at least for me), even if it was an attempted save. Ppl usually do look better in person than in camera or photo in third person.
People told me I look better in photos... cries.. got me thinking if I’m ugly in real life lol
mariam zuhair I would have said that as well 😂😂😂 Oh that was so awkward
미친연출이란 이런것이다
"다른 사람이 나답게 사는것을 방해하는 것이 내가 아닌가 싶은 생각이 딜어서..."
와... 그것은 나를 감동시킨다. ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
피디가 싸이코인것같다.. 잔인해ㅜㅜ
I think the tattooed girl is absolutely stunning. Seems like an individual and creative. Doesn’t surprise me that she’s an artist.
I also thought she was gorgeous!
Oh yes how rare for people to be an individual
Namdo actually people that have a lot of tattoos if you really know them and talk to them they have a lot of past issues and mental problems that are coming out through the excessive tattooing. It's a form of body mutilation
This is her before she has plastic surgery if u search up in "ID hospital " u can see her transformation
That's pretty judgemental to assume she's creative just out of her tattoos
수치플 최고단계
김바다 ㅋㅋ ㅋㅋㅋ
The guy with mustache has the best reaction in the whole video from start to end 😂😂😂
But I feel like in the end its the mustache guy was the most honest he realized what he did and didn't disagree about it . I feel like he actually learned a great deal today
"The biggest thing that makes me who I am is... my daughter."
AHHHH that shot me through the heart. Wasn't expecting that. Instant transport to the like button.
넷다 존나 민망할듯
소름돋아버림
5:10 Everyone: "Why did I sign up for this..."
아니 진짜 이 채널은 좋은거 같다 전달 하고싶은 얘기를 자신 혼자 더 잘 와닿게 전달해주는 채널 인거 같다
아니요.어느정도 필터링이 필요해요ㅜㅜ 너무 상처입을거 같아요ㅜㅜㅜ
눈물 줄줄하면서 볼 듯...
안녕하세요. 첫번째 남자로 나온 사람입니다. 제가 뭐라고 저 따위가 뭐라고 이런 말씀드리기가 조심스럽습니다. 제 이름이 생소하신 분들이 많으실 거라고 생각합니다. 우선 이 영상을 찍을 수 있게 기회주신 솔파 관계자분들께 진심으로 감사드리며 함께할 수 있어서 즐겁고 좋은 추억만들 수 있게 해 준 출연진 분들께도 감사의 말씀드립니다. 그리고 시청해주시고 알아봐주신 모든 시청자 여러분과 모든 댓글 남겨주신 여러분께도 진심으로 감사의 말씀올립니다. 이 영상을 통해 제 자신에 대해 부끄럽고 아직 갈 길이 멀구나 뼈저리게 느꼈습니다. 말 한마디가 정말 소중하고 함부로 내뱉어선 안된다는걸 알면서도, 다시 한 번 뉘우친 계기가 된 것 같습니다. 반성하고 또 반성하고 있습니다. 보시다시피 지금의 전, 아무런 보잘 것 없는 무명에 불과합니다. 아무것도 없이 닥치는대로 살아왔고, 열정 하나만 가지고 여기까지 달려왔습니다. 가슴으로 꾸던 꿈을 머리가 아닌 다시 가슴으로 꾸려고합니다. ‘열정에 기름붓기’란 타이틀이 정말 저에게 지금 가장 와 닿는 말이 아닐까 생각해봅니다. 제가 어디까지 보여드릴진 장담 못드리겠지만, 포기하지 않는다라는 약속은 꼭 드리고 싶습니다. 지키도록 노력하겠습니다. 모든 것에 감사하고, 받아들이고, 반성도 하며, 발전하는 그런 삶을 살겠습니다. 지금은 아무것도 아닌 저이지만, 더 노력하고 반드시 성장해서 좋은 모습 보여드리고 싶습니다. 배우가 되기전에 사람이 먼저 되어야겠습니다. 영상의 주제처럼 한마디 말보다 행동으로써 노력하겠습니다. 과분한 자리에, 과분한 말씀에 대해 꼭 감사의 말씀드리고자 남겨드립니다. 제가 말주변이 없어 정리한다고 한게 제 얘기만 주저리 주저리 늘어 놓았네요. 죄송스럽고, 다시 한번 진심으로 감사드리며 모든 분들이 모든 하시는 일에 행복과 기쁨이 가득하시기만 빌겠습니다. 여러분이 달려가는 동안 저도 어디선가 힘차게 달리며 여러분을 꼭 응원하겠습니다. 행복하세요:)
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형 힘내세요
배우가 꿈인 분이셨군요! 앞으로의 행보 기대할게요:)
응원합니다.
영상보고 팬이 되었어요 ㅎㅎ 응원할게요!
올 나도 엄씨인데 반갑네요(?)
The guy in the jacket is so ashamed and feels so bad... I feel sorry for him😓
Lol all of them do
Your hot
I guess he felt better after realizing he wasn't he only one who had been asked to judge other's looks
u could tell he felt the worst tho cuz he was also judged the harshest in my opinion
They did him dirty
This video brought back really hurtful memories....I had a bestfriend who would always comment stuff like I went to surprise her with a septum I recently got and when I showed it to her she looked at my nose and said “waste of money if you ask me” and any time I stood face to face with her my smile always dropped because she’d say something about my appearance that didn’t need to be said out loud and I’d always laugh it off and if I brought it up she’d make me feel like I’m being ridiculous by using the excuse “I’d rather you know you look bad then having your hopes high and walking around all confident until you realize you look bad and then you’re sad” and she’d make me feel like she’s the victim and she’s the one always being criticized by me....I finally met a friend who made me realize the shit she was putting me through and I left her and made friends who brought me up and not down
Good for you. You don't need that toxicity in your life.
Monique van Wyk thank you ❤️
I feel you. I have this guy friend, he made bad comments about me. Then whenever I asked him why he's being so mean, he just told me that he's just trying to be nice, telling me his opinion so that I can improve on myself 🤣🤣🤣
Monique van Wyk agreed
@@slimeysnails2024 but your nose shape is beautiful
the stress that this guy was feeling lol i can’t!! 😂
I think they’re only probably ashamed of themselves because the other person saw what they said about them- even if they had said nothing they still would’ve had those thoughts just like everyone else does, it shows how you only really feel embarrassed once the other person finds out but not because you had those thoughts in the first place. Idk if this makes sense but it’s how I interpret the video
There's more to that. This video does a lot to show how strong the "screen" is. Anyone can be critical without hesitance when there is a "screen" separating them from whatever they're talking about; what's being looked at isn't in the same space they are. They're talking about something that may as well not be real.
This video reminds us that its always real. You participate in it just by talking about it and having an opinion about it. They're not just embarrassed because their opinions were heard, but also that it was their opinions when under the protection of the "screen" was heard. They thought just because what they talked about wasn't on the same side of the screen, their voice wouldn't have any effect whatsoever. But it's not always so simple, and this video just gives a direct way of how.
I see what you're saying, but maybe they needed to see it for themselves to realize just how much they judge. When it's only in your head, you don't notice it as much. I mean, that would've really been a reality-check for me. You understand what I mean?
Michelle H Of course it would have, and that's what so great about the video! It makes us think about something that's already happening; it's a demonstration that what we take for granted isn't as innocent as first thought.
But that's the thing: it's not because we watch this situation play out that it becomes a problem; it was already a problem. I think that should be a major takeaway.
Michelle H But everyone has his own taste and preferences that’s why you can’t stop judging “in your head”
I think it’s very important to notice your judgmental thoughts and push them asides as good as you can. That’s what I call open minded.
Everyone is judging automatically and the ones who claim they don’t, just do it unconsciously which isn’t any better in my opinion.
I tried to explain it in English but welp... hope you’ll understand
Heloise 613 Yeah, we cannot ignore the influence of being watched by other people, but I still think that this viedo did a great challenge to let us know that judging other person is a shameful behavior.
댓글이랑 비슷한것같다. 어차피 안볼사람이라서 할말 못할말 다하는데 막상만나면 똑같이못대하는 인터넷이 많은걸 바꿔놓았다는 생각이드네요
그걸 뒷담이라 하는데 , 뒷담은 옛날부터 있었고 나쁜것이죠.
The first guy is actually handsome imo.
@@ck8856 good/positive judgement is not bad idiot. Can't we compliment people now? Dumbbutt
2:52 i can feel the stress through the screen
I think he thought it would show only his comments and no one else's. His comments were harsh, but so were everyone else's lol
처음부터 그사람의 단점을 보는데 익숙한 우리들의 생활
배우고 갑니다.
@준호junho 그러나 님 프사는 누구에게나 혐오감을 줄 것 같아요
한수배우고갑니다 형님
단점 찾으라는 듯이 질문을 했는데 당연히 단점을 생각하지
와...소름이 돋네요... 다시금 제 자신의 생각에 대해서 고쳐야겠다고 생각이 드네요.....
진짜 창피하겠다... ㅌㄱㅋㄱㄱ 혼자 보는 것도 아니고... 무안해서 웃음밖에 안 나올 듯
The thing here is that none of them are perfect, but they're just so quick to judge.
yeet yah they’re told to do it..
Of course they're not perfect bcs no one is actually perfect and no one is enough I don't know why people try to be perfect and try so hard to fit in and be enough for people like why do you guys strive for perfection instead of progress like strive for progress not perfection cuz no one is perfect I know that my comment is so irrelevant but I don't know why I needed to say that. 👍👍😊😊
@@snowflakes1008 nicely said good sir
And who said only perfect people can judge?? No everyone can judge!!
서로 상처만 남는 실험인데..?ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅠㅠ
소파에 앉아서 얼평하시는 남자분이 말씀하실때 되게 망설이시면서 조심스럽게 말하는게 좀 맘에 드네요
ㅇㅈ 마인드 엄청 좋으신분같음
사실 남 얼굴을 평가한다는거 자체가 자기기준에 맞춰서 하는거라
되게 꺼려지는게 사실이죠...
아무래도 요즘 이런거에 예민하기때문에
난 남자분 좀 불쌍해보였음 스태프가 시켜서 한건데 그걸 당사자들 앞에서 다같이 지켜보고..
친구들끼리 있을때도 요즘같은때는 조심스러운데 촬영하는데 저렇게 하라고 하면...ㅜㅜ 힘들지
와....존나 소름돋는다...한명씩 얼평을 시킨다음 다같이 한자리에 모여서 각자가 뱉은 말을 다시 보는거니까...진짜...영상 존나 잘만들었다...
똥일이 스포....반전인데....
스포일러다!!!
Solfa 처음에 아무 생각없이 봤는데...갑자기 소름이....
억,, 스포당했따 ㅋㅋㅋ
똥일이 그걸꼭말하고있나...
this is sooo good. the content and topics that they bring up in each video are amazing and really makes you think about it.
I feel like, I rather someone criticize me, than me criticizing someone. Although it might hurt, at least I don’t feel as guilty and won’t hunt me. It won’t be easy to avoid someone who criticize you, but at least I can try
I’m out of topic, but probably it make sense
Same
여자분 말이 와닿네요 나는 나답게 살려고 하는데 얼평을 함으로써 남들이 나답게 사는걸 방해한다.. 깨닫고 갑니다
윤슬 이해가 안가는게 pd가 품평하래서 했는데 그럼 촬영거부했어야 나답게 사는거였을까요?.. 앞뒤가 안맞는느낌임
리 리 제 생각엔 시작 땐 아무생각없이 했다가 실험후에 깨달음이 오신듯
ㅋㅋ걍 지랄임 인간이 저런생각도 안하고 살면 그게 스님이나 수녀급 종교인이지 일반인이냐 어후 피곤해
내 주변 여자들도 남자 품평 심함
그러면서 자기들 평가받는건 싫어하는게 모순..
류혜영 인간이면 남자가 잘생기고 여자가 예쁘고 그정도는 누구나하는건데 랜선으로 페미배우고는 이상한사명감에 빠져서 그런거 하면안돼!라고 스스로 족쇄를 걸고 생각하는거죠
He must've felt awkward
Woojong all of them did
The first guy felt more shame than awkwardness if you ask me.
Woojong ~ i love seeing you on so many videos i watch too. 🖤💪🏼
Damn... this made me want to cry for the people being rated. They were all so cute
Lmaoooo leather jacket almost shii himself when he walked up in there....
my guy said: “ I’m ready to GET TF!! ASAP .. after this shii”
We don't even realise that a social platform like UA-cam which has become a daily habit for us, can enlightens us with such emotional and thought provoking content
Bangtan's Bae yes 😄
Deeper than my bias list...
Yay! You’re also here! :D
I Got No Jams. the door is wide open
Bangtan's Bae - Yeah
You create the most influential and purest videos. There is so much depth and meaning behind your content. You're like an angel, in a way. Opening the minds of others with respect and love for everyone. There is no negative undertone to your videos that involve judging other people. You express their emotions in a completely natural way to show the truth in life. You're providing so much positivity through what you do. Thank you.
Penguinssss yeah. It's not like "look at kids these days. All of em judgen each other just off looks"
Please go check out solfa's collaboration with studio onstyle. He does a beautiful job there as well.
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That was lovely written :) Thankyou
I love this channel. I can tell every single thing is well thought of and organized. such a creative way to educate and connect people !! GOODD JOBBBBBB !!!!
The moment it’s their turn to watch him.. i bet he thought “I’m screwed”.. don’t be mad w me ok😂😂
이영상에서 마지막에 문신한여성분이 자신도 나답게살려고 하는데 막상 남들이 나답게사는걸 자신이 방해한다는 생각이 들어서 수치스러웠다는 말을듣고 너무 공감됬습니다 막상 나도 남들이 나를 무어라평가하던 나답게 나스스로를 존중하고 사랑하려고 노력하는데도 다른이들에 안좋은 이야기가 들려오면 나답게 살기가 힘들어지더라구요 의식하게되고 상대방기준에 맞추려고하면서요 그럼에도 불구하고 나라는 사람은 상대를 그사람 자체로 존중해주지 못하면서 살아가고 있다는 생각이들어 스스로 반성이 되네요
lmao this video so savage
its savage because the producers told them to critically judge each other despite them being reluctant to do so. 0:55
think critically about the premise of the video & who told them to voice their judgement. at the end of the day, i'm sure they wouldn't have done it if they weren't told to do so.
you & I already know we're capable of critical thought, but it's polite to have manners and to keep it to ourselves. nothing was substantially learned.
"Savage" ? what is this 2015
do you understand what a savage is? it surely isn't what you think it is.
The girl with the tattoos reminds me of Ryujin from Itzy, anyone else or is it just me?
yeahh she does
Peachy ikr she is like alittle like alittle older version of her
Now that you mention it yeah lol
That looks like the set of Wonder Girls’ “Tell Me” music video.
Just... well done. wow. It felt like a short movie, the cuts, the testimonials, the camera work... I’m at a loss of words... well done
The tattoed woman though, she's so pretty, and the other girl is so cute.
The two guys are really cute as well.
Hiendral not really
tastes
So basically everyone is cute lmao
yeah haha. But actually most people they pick in those videos are models or celebrities so... That's why most of the time they're quite pretty
Hiendral im shure theyre not all models lmao
자신이 가장 사랑하는 사람을 (나 자신포함)제3자가 얼마나 아껴줄수있는지 확인할수있는 좋은 영상인것같습니다.
THIS IS SO AWKARD 😂
the short guy made me laugh cuz when the three enters the room he already have an idea of whats gonna happen 😂😂😂
이거 진짜 자기가 어떻게 행동해야할 지 뼛속까지 알게 해주는 교훈적인 영상이다... 멋있어요
정말 많은 것을 느끼게해주는 영상이네요
I usually don't comment on videos because I don't think it's worth my time but this specific video stroke me.
The beginning was so well filmed and the whole video was constructed in such a confusing yet powerful way that it made me think...
This is the type of content I like to see on UA-cam : quality content. Keep it up !
+San Nguyen The BIG impact this video had on me were @1:35 and @2:08. Those 2 points were like a "woah" moment. I love SOLFA content like this.
Dope editing
평가를 해주세요라고 말을 던지는거 자체가 질문을 받은 사람이 윗시선이 되버리고 품평을 당하는사람이 자연스럽게 아랫사람(평가받는사람) 되는거같아요 설명하긴어렵지만 뭔지모르게 영화 익스페리먼트가 생각나는 영상이네요..
One of the best video i have ever watched..Made me reflect on myself 👍🏻