So, I got two questions for you: FIRST: How many traits can you relate to (and please don't write none)? SECOND: Name one habit that you are trying to quit but just can't.
@@fraserwilliams5697 I've got my alevels and somehow I'm managing to waste every day with stupid stuff and thinking about revising but so far only have done 1/4 of the work
Yes it’s true I’m not a very loyal person. I love getting rid of relationships and old things that don’t work for me anymore to look for something better. It makes me feel happy and free. And my bad habit is moving countries every year.So far I have lived in Seoul, Tokyo, New York City, Santiago de Chile, Milan, London, Ibiza, Hamburg, Miami… 😅 Edit* I just moved to Amsterdam 🤦🏼♀️ 13.07.2021
I would argue Aquarius is very careful at who we accept as very close friends and truly show our whole selves to. Going along with that once we get to that point the loyalty is stronger than steel
Our “hypocrisy” you speak of is actually our unpredictable nature. We can feel a certain way about a thing one day then feel totally different about it the next day. Yes
As an Aquarius, I agree with about 70% the other 30% not at all. I will say, as far as my logic over emotions, I will say the majority of the time people are very boring, they don’t like have actual intellectual conversations, they only want that surface talk, I’m not going to waste my energy and emotions in that. When someone catches my attention and wants to have actual conversations, I’ll definitely open up a little more. I am fiercely independent and go against the grain as far as my work. I work with DoorDash, and work for a non profit organization, and school. Couldn’t be happier there. I don’t feel comfortable around a lot of people, so as far as my friendships, I have 3 people I consider best friends/family, ( I don’t trust easy ) We aren’t robots, and our feelings run very deep, we just want that equal give and take, and these days many people do not do that.... We just use that to our advantage. I heard that many Aquarians have a “ I know” motto, which I do say a lot lmao, I just am very research based person. I’m a person of logic more than anything. if I’m having a debate about something I make sure I research as much as I can so I prepared. LolAt least this is my version. Haha I am a nice person though, and passionate about many things.
I am so guilty. This is a true Aquarius trait. I was a the grocery store and overheard a toddler repeatedly respond to her mom, "I know". I asked the mom what her little girl's zodiac sign was and not surprisingly, she an Aquarius toddler..haha
Aquarius LOVE constructive criticism and seeing ways to improve ourselves. That being said, this can’t have been compiled by someone who has any grasp on Aquarius ♒️ train of thought. Unevolved Aquarius people can be your worst nightmare, but an evolved Aquarius can save the world. Also, EVERYONE has emotions, including Aquarius people. This video makes us sound like cold, evil robots. We have INTENSE emotions that we turn off and on at will to navigate through this life filled with hateful people who hate truth and information most. 🙏🏾 Namaste. 💚
@@kyachevall3758 I feel gifted as an Aquarian....i watch like all the critics and all of em are told by ones who have not kept it true to dem self....self truth is wat they lacking.... Aquarius aye dey better love it♒♒♒
I have an Aquarius Sun and a Capricorn Moon, and this described me completely. I’m complicated, unpredictable and everyday is something new, just don’t tell me what to do and we’ll be fine.
I'm weird, but thoughts about humanitarian hurts and not being able to meet people alike us hurts , such an unbearable affliction to withstand to share our lost thoughts with hence, we sound aloof , weird and so a psychopath.
1.Aquarius with water moons like myself are highly emotional and sensitive so it's not true for every Aquarius. I save my emotions for people close to me though, I wouldn't cry infront of strangers. I like hugs too from my loved ones. 2. I am pretty flexible with my spouse and loved ones. I may be stubborn regarding some topics but if it's creating a rift or tension at home then I much rather let go of my ego. People I love and care for are more important than my stubbornness. 3. I definitely compromise for the greater good. I won't compromise my principles or my standards. If my spouse likes something I don't like but they want it badly then I would cave and let them have it. 4. Every person on this earth has contradicted themselves some way so Aquarius is not an exception. 5. I do not settle for lesser things but if it's to make my family happy, I would make the sacrifice. I wouldn't do that for strangers or people I don't trust.
If I express an issue I’m having to someone and they just hugged me rather than helping me come up with a solution I’d be annoyed. How will emotional comfort solve my problem 🤨 this video makes Aquarian’s sound like psychopaths 😂😂😂
Girl I’m the same way...emotional coddling and sugar coating or “you’re not the only one” never helped me!!!! True Aquarius I be like how can this help me?!
As an Aquarius, I don't ask something of others if they've turned me down. If I feel I'm bothering someone I'll never do it again. I do have fixed ideas about some things, but other ideas are welcome as well. It is the mark of an intelligent mind to listen to a thought without having to accept it. I get crazy when someone says idiotic things as the truth. I love unconditionally.
@Nordik Cajun well thank you. My daughter and I are both Aquarius, I am January, she is February. Everyone tells her she acts just like me and she's the only other Aquarius I know in person. Nice to meet you. Peace
@Nordik Cajun I'm glad you agree with me. I have reservations about what I say because most people don't want or don't choose to understand what I'm saying. I feel I don't belong anywhere, yet everywhere. Idk, I'm weird but that's who we are isn't it? We are the most gifted when it comes to strange. Peace
I'm virgo my woman is aquarius she Is bringing me out of my comfort zone with her care free ways and I'm loving it just let her lead the way in the relationship and hang on for the best time you will ever have if she locks the bedroom door and hides the key you had better be ready , I love my aquarius woman gentle and kind and very intellectual just like me just go with the flow and be happy
The best answer to that question is no answer. A big lesson for Aquarians imo is being comfortable with not knowing the answer or solution to everything and that includes not having explanations for your actions. ❤️❤️
As an Aquarius,I feel kind of offended,some of these are true,but a lot of them are a little to negative.I don’t think we’re that mean,I am actually a super nice person, and I don’t get mad at 85% of that stuff.the only thing that gets me mad the most is when people try to correct me when I’m trying my best,and when people ask me the same question over and over again.
I'm a male aquarius. Indeed ice cold yet extremely warm when it's genuine. Absolutely apathically ruthless and callousness when there is a right reason to be so. I disagree with the disloyal part of the video. I'm extremely loyal and can keep a secret to my death. We do have a very logic based mind and we appreciate truth, honesty, authenticity and so on. I personally judge people on their authenticity and respect, a lot. I'm strong in judgements about good or wrong though. If a person has one severe "wrong trait", I discard them as I don't want them around (yet still friendly to them if they didn't wrong me or my loved ones). I'm personally intelligent and scare a lot of people off, especially with my stoic view of virtue. I feel that many people become self-aware of not being able to live up to my standards making them naturally intimidated by me, especially females that hide flaws/insecurities and wear a mask during social interactions. On the contrast I'm great at reading people, to a scary point even.
@@brittanyjaneayres3924 😍♊♒...that is beautiful!... I love Aquarius..they listen to us and they are real..love there personalities.❤❤.Happy Holidays to you and your family.😘
I definitely feel people see me as robotic sometimes but am certainly not unemotional. Just have too many and trust too little that it doesn't make sense to share them, that iron clad defense is spot on.
Some people disagree about number 3, but i do, sometimes i don't compromise about certain things, even i stay away from people who made me fed up an agreement about something, some people stay away from me cos of it. It's better to have one friend who inspires you than having thosand of people who made us fed up.
If I didn't compromise I wouldn't have survived in my household. Being considerate is everything to me. I think aquarians are all about keeping the balance,Striving to become better,gaining knowledge etc. Down sides maybe procrastination,hard time with confrontation, forgiving ourselves and find it hard to process emotions. If aquarians are kind to themselves,put mindful effort into alliviating their bad habits and do proper emotion regulation,with time they will become healthier version of themselves. And remember it's the the little efforts u make regularly that matter. Rome wasn't built in one day.^_^
As an aqua, this is dead ass accurate. Maybe it's my aries moon or scorpio rising that decided to seek out counseling 10 yrs ago, but it's just as likely that my aqua sun was like 'these emotions can't run me, because I have to run shit, so let me see where the origin of every single one of these emotions comes from.' lol We weird af, but we want the world to work right & not oppress ppl.
Top 5 Points + Bonus 1. Aloof and unemotional 2. Hard to change their minds 3. Don't compromise 4. Hypocrisy 5. Don't like to settle Conclusion - Aquarians aren't evil individuals but they can benefit tremendously by trying to leave logic aside for a few seconds and trying to act like a human being.
you got your facts miss placed. Aquarius is vary loyal and will pout love before work or jobs. And i know this cuz im an Aquarius and only half of this video is on point. And we can see there's not just yes and no were a bit more open minded. then this video shows.
I'm an Aqua and the video fits me completely. I'd rather allocate my efforts towards work that will help the collective rather than focus on one individual that I'm obligated to help just because we're related or "loved ones"
Aries here, who has previously dated and is currently dating (and pretty hot for) an Aquarius. I see a lot of these traits in them, especially how it can be difficult to tell where I stand sometimes.
I'm an aq and I love talking to people? So this is wrong. And the girl I like I care about alot. And the fuck abt it being robotic. I talk to her about it like a normal human, so I usually comfort her and the next day I give her compliments. And I don't care abt being proven wrong. If I'm wrong then I accept that's shit right away. And also I love having deep conections. If the girl I like wants to do something, then what she wants? As an aquatic I'm DEFINITLY not like this.
Chasder, maybe it's because you're a male Aquarius? I'm not familiar with males that have the Aquarius sign, but man, for females this is spot on! All the female Aquarius that I've been friends with have all the traits they have described in this video! Perhaps the males are different? Or you are just an individual that doesn't fit the description. Anyway, good for you for being there for your girlfriend, she is very lucky to have you. Just out of curiosity, what sign is she?
@@dawndupre5240 Shit i didnt mean to say gf shes just my crush i did make it seem like we were dating lol ill ask her what her sign is and ill tell u lol
@@dawndupre5240 she is a virgo & to me dating for zodiac signs is bullshit🤣i hope you dont think thats why like her? Were u gna ask questions abt her? Cuz idc
@@dawndupre5240 thank, you i dont think itl happen, i mean she did like me for a while but she dsnt like any1 rn. Maybe shell end up likin me again cuz she knows i like her. Lol. But i really doubt it. I have hopes, but praying wont do nothin lol. I dont pray really but sometimes. Another thin if she ends up liking me then ion even think she'll fucken tell me tbh. Maybe 1 day. Maybe...
Psychopathy, or psychopathic personality,[1] is a personality construct[2][3] characterized by impaired empathy and remorse, in combination with traits of boldness, disinhibition, and egocentrism. These traits are often masked by superficial charm and immunity to stress,[4] which create an outward appearance of apparent normalcy
My North node conjunction with my moon in Aquarius intensify this and so I understand why I am a inhuman to all of them. May be one day (at least after I passed away) they understand I tell all advice to them only for their goodness 😊
I don't agree with the last part about Aquarius being selfish... I'm an Aquarius and I'm too compasionate about the feelings of people that I get used often!
I date two Aquarius and when watching ur video all these traits related to them as a Aries I say I will never date Aquarius again they are cold hearted people
Aquarians can be both logical AND creative. Ive found me, as an aquarius, tend to be logical when my negative or dark traits express, and creative when my positive or light traits express
What happens if I'm an Aquarius and an ISFP? I often feel like I contradict myself. I actually have plenty of debates by myself about a bunch of different topics. Aren't they also one of the rare signs?
Much of this is truth…..but like all human beings we have good and bad traits….people tend to mistake our kindness for weakness and when we have enough they act surprised.
I myself is an aquarius ♒ I hate when people say that I am cold harted because when I'm at school at lest some of my friend or gf are hurt people say I'm cold harted
Where did you come up with these characteristics? I'm an Aquarius and most of these are not true of me. My mom is a Cancer, dad Aquarian. Maybe that's why?
Lmfao dude if I ever try to come out to someone they go "wait, you also cry?"or "am I a therapist?" So it's better being unemotional and we take a lot of time to trust others we usually observes others from a far and if they fall into our friendship league we make them our friends 😔👋 Also dude we also compromise depending on how much we love a person and how close they are to us
I agree to every thing in this guidelines,as an Aquarius born on 7th I think too far and feel so different among peers, I can't settle with someone who can't reason faster than me because I feel ill cheat him'he as to be a smart ass too its not pride but am always ahead of peoples thoughts and its hard for me to trust any body but one thing when I love, it goes down in my and even if I break up verbally I'll still spend months trying to fix my heart
We are loyal and standing strong like an oak. If you're on the outs with an aquarius then you are probably a shit human being, to be honest. We have trouble because we expect people to match our level of loyalty.
I laughed at this whole video idk why but i kind of saw my self in diff situations while the little cartoons were playing. I agree with like 80% of the vid.
I am Aquarius and I am careful around people. I trust very few people and do not trust people who hate animals and children. When I want something I never give up trying to get it. We are not cold, I am loyal to my friends and family. If you betray me I will walk away. This does not mean that if someone who betrays me and needs help I would not help them, I would. But never trust them or be a friends again. opinions but will listen to others opinions. We are not mean people.
I love a good drag and dang yall did it for filth 😅😂 I will say this. We usually communicate what we wabt. Now if u choose to use emotions and think its gonna sway us. U would be dead wrong. We feel emotions deeply but we refuse to let anything sabotage our own plans.
I am Aquarius ♒🤪 and I compromise all the time with people who deserve to be compromise with, but not other way around. No compromise with fools and idiots who bave no concept of life.
Susan, as a fellow Leo I can tell you that our sign has a very hard time getting along with Aquarius. We are like night and day. I have a friend who is an Aquarius and at this time we are not speaking to each other because we got into another fight last week. We argue and disagree more than not, and she is quick to hang up on me on the phone. She tends to be very cold, and doesn't understand that I am more emotional than her. I think we have too many differences to be friends anymore, and I would be slow to make friends with another Aquarius. That being said, there are always exceptions.
What’s the point of giving emotional comfort how will that solve the problem🧐🤨🤦🏽♀️ if I express an issue to someone and they just hugged me instead of a suggested solution I’d be annoyed 😒
On his last comment I thought that doesn't even make sense? Why would u put ur self out there like that? Some truth but not all. But some of it isn't logical to me
I'm an Aquarius and I'm very emotional but since I'm an Aquarius people always think I shouldn't be so people are mean to Me a lot I also have ADHD and ocd and it makes me sad sometimes idk what to do no I'm not selfish🙄✌
As an aquarius I can say that yes,I may be selfish but only to people who mean nothing to me like friends,relatives and non-blood cousins. But on the other hand I can be very loving and kind to people of my own blood such as my family and as well as the needy and poor!
Aquarius doesn't suffer fools, if it's selfish to you then so be it. We don't play therapist to drama kings and queens. Since we are so independent and strong willed, we do not respect weakness and laziness in people. I mean we aren't bullies or anything nor we are robotic but if your problem has a solution and you still choose to mope and whine about it instead of working on it then we aren't going to coddle you. We are lone wolves at heart and aren't afraid to walk alone but we definitely like companionship that isn't like an anchor on our neck trying to drown us. We are ambitious and positive sign, we highly appreciate a partner that also has goals and ambitions. I would do everything in my power to support them and expect them to do the same for me. We want someone who is going to uplift me and I will do the same for them. Lazy people are not our ideal type. Aquarius has 101 ideas and we are hustlers. If you join us and give our ideas shape, we are going to love you for it. We like intelligent and creative people. We like kindness in our partner. We are looking for someone who says, " I get you" not people who are judging us on the surface.
That's not totally correct. As humanitarians we tend to bring those with us up the ladder. Personally I like to see the last horse win. The Longshot to be successful. Most of us are very intelligent and with a blank of an eye usually can solve most problems and a way that most are not able to see or understand until we've shown them what can be done. When we learn something we learn it to the T! And we know how to dot the i. And it is Double Down when we are committed to the challenge. We don't like to be wrong so therefore we make sure that we've got it right. And when we don't have it right rest assure yourself that that will be the only one in time that we will be corrected on that mistake. It takes a lot of effort to be good at what one does. So we don't handle failure and when we are committed we will go the length. That an aquarius has a strong social conscience most of us can blend in at almost any setting and carry an intelligent conversation comfortably. But as a humanitarian we take those that support us that have been there for us we take them up with us. With a strong social conscience we don't want to be sitting at the top by our self we love to give credit. And most of us are very very patient and understanding and can go much farther when it comes to working with someone that most people don't have the tolerance or patience for but we will stick with them if we believe in them that they are worth more than what meets the eye because that is something we're able to see in people that most give up on but we will stick with them until it clicks and usually the one that had the hardest time catching the click when they do they've got it they're proud of their self and they will turn out to be one of the best you've ever seen. I was a general manager and work my way up from the bottom everywhere I went. They intimidated and inadequate to diagnose what a negative personality for an Aquarius would be. It sounds to me like whoever come up with this one probably went toe-to-toe with an aquarius at some point and didn't win the argument with an Aquarius. For something of a negative personality for an Aquarius sounds to me like it was written from somebody that has a bit of a chip on their shoulder because I don't feel like this is completely correct not by a long shot. We don't like to admit when you're wrong so we usually make sure we're damn right and that's where we hold our ground. We believe in truth and justice. When it comes to truth didn't you know we're going to be right. If it ain't true then you can expect to be right. However, we love people's individuality to be themself and respect honesty. We believe in people as much as we believe in our self. The downside to that is not everybody believes in themselves as much as we believe in them. We Believe that everything could be better. But in a negative world we try and we try harder to bring good and positive change with us everywhere we go. The truest form of negative when it comes to an Aquarius just about always comes from someone that's not qualified intimidated or jealous even envious has always had some kind of trash talk toward an Aquarius because we're usually a threat is someone that is not capable of doing a job or untrustworthy or faking it all together. I was held back by Dirty management and lo and behold they hung their self and I set at the top of the food chain and I made sure I took the best with me right up the ladder. And nobody suffered or went through the hell that I had to. I proudly gave the first professional resume to start the career of so many over the years. Has the humanitarians of the zodiac we believe in people. I didn't have time to waste when I was in high school I dropped out in the 10th grade I never got a a diploma or GED and held a professional position ever since I was 19! I never had to have one because my ability and determination thirst for challenge is where my actions spoke for myself. The funny thing is I only had a 10th grade education and I always set comfortable and confident next to all of the graduates and those with degrees and held my own and rewrote many policies for many companies over my years. It didn't matter if you had a diploma or degree didn't mean you could perform your job. If you're not dedicated to doing better they did what you did yesterday and doing better tomorrow than what you done today then I will take your damn job. I don't waste my time on something I don't believe in. When I retired I was a certified food handler and health inspector. Now I don't have a problem with admitting when I'm wrong because it's the opportunity to learn where I was incorrect on I didn't know otherwise. Usually from inadequate training. However, the next time it came up I didn't have to humble myself to admit that I was wrong. I had my facts straight. But we do things on our own and we study something that doesn't feel quite right to us then we know there's a better way or approach that usually makes money with less effort. Simplicity will always outdo something more complicated than it has to be. If a pencil Pusher has never done the job on their feet then they are not qualified to be writing procedures on how to do a job. I'm always open for constructive criticism. I believe everybody has the right to be heard whether they're right or wrong because that's where the start of something better comes from because when somebody is able to get off their mind what they think then others can start the correct any misunderstandings and resolved all problems for the greater good. When were dedicated we are usually the very Last Man Standing. The humanitarian cause we're usually the first to jump in to help the greater cause. But whoever wrote this obviously has lost a battle with an Aquarius because this was not a negative personality traits of an Aquarius this was from somebody that was scorned. And from the way it sounded I would imagine so. We can argue the case most of us don't have to have an attorney if we end up in court. And I'm laughing because I see right through this video. Not to say that we don't have negative traits cuz we do we're not perfect but we try not to be a screw up. But it gets tiresome trying to correct somebody else to screw up. And there's plenty and I do mean plenty that don't have the ability to see a bigger picture or half the understanding that they need just sit beside one of us. Negative traits and all we're still the best out of all the zodiac for our causes for truth and justice and that equals fairness. Everyone has an equal chance and the right to a fair chance and because you have a degree does it mean you still know how to do with job you might I know all about it but that still doesn't mean that you know how to do it. Lot of people know how to dress but they might not know how to coordinate it and look right.
BS most of the part. Why? I have emotions, I cried every night for 2.5 years after a break up hurt to my soul. Yes I can be logical which I find I also emotional too. I can be cold when you cross me so much and I am very very good at cut people off. Clean cut. But I also care people’s feelings, I give when I can. I am far far from a machine, because inside of me filled with many wonderful memories and thoughts. Any sign can have people so unhealthy and so toxic, it is really more about how you grow up and how was your influence in your family. I was much more emotional and open hearted than an emotional unhealthy Scorpio, by your sign says, water sign should be so emotional and loyal and devoted. Yeah, end up he is the one playing mind games, I was the one constantly in fear of his hot and cold push and pull crap. I was the one consistently showing up my emotions and steady in my emotions. So just don’t put out things like this, you are going to get lots of Aquarius kick your back. Yes some Aquarius are very toxic and emotionally toxic, those can act like these descriptions. Not me. I work my assx off to get ahead and stay on top in my Field, I don’t step on others shoulders to get where I want to be.
Wait, hold up... You cried every night for 2½ _years,_ over a mere _breakup??_ That seriously worries me... I mean, I don't even think that most people cry for that length of time, after the DEATH of a loved one... Why was it such a big deal? How long had you been with this person?
So, I got two questions for you:
FIRST: How many traits can you relate to (and please don't write none)?
SECOND: Name one habit that you are trying to quit but just can't.
But only comment if you are an Aquarius ?
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Procrastinating
@@fraserwilliams5697 I've got my alevels and somehow I'm managing to waste every day with stupid stuff and thinking about revising but so far only have done 1/4 of the work
Yes it’s true I’m not a very loyal person. I love getting rid of relationships and old things that don’t work for me anymore to look for something better. It makes me feel happy and free.
And my bad habit is moving countries every year.So far I have lived in Seoul, Tokyo, New York City, Santiago de Chile, Milan, London, Ibiza, Hamburg, Miami… 😅
Edit* I just moved to Amsterdam 🤦🏼♀️ 13.07.2021
My dad.... omg
I would argue Aquarius is very careful at who we accept as very close friends and truly show our whole selves to. Going along with that once we get to that point the loyalty is stronger than steel
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Our “hypocrisy” you speak of is actually our unpredictable nature. We can feel a certain way about a thing one day then feel totally different about it the next day. Yes
Facts
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Stable mood is hard
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As an Aquarius, I agree with about 70% the other 30% not at all. I will say, as far as my logic over emotions, I will say the majority of the time people are very boring, they don’t like have actual intellectual conversations, they only want that surface talk, I’m not going to waste my energy and emotions in that. When someone catches my attention and wants to have actual conversations, I’ll definitely open up a little more. I am fiercely independent and go against the grain as far as my work. I work with DoorDash, and work for a non profit organization, and school. Couldn’t be happier there. I don’t feel comfortable around a lot of people, so as far as my friendships, I have 3 people I consider best friends/family, ( I don’t trust easy ) We aren’t robots, and our feelings run very deep, we just want that equal give and take, and these days many people do not do that.... We just use that to our advantage. I heard that many Aquarians have a “ I know” motto, which I do say a lot lmao, I just am very research based person. I’m a person of logic more than anything. if I’m having a debate about something I make sure I research as much as I can so I prepared. LolAt least this is my version. Haha I am a nice person though, and passionate about many things.
Im a Aquarius everything u said is correct we strongly believe in equality.....do as to others as done to you......
respect
So true
YAYAYAYAAAAAAA I AGREE WITH YOU ALL
I am so guilty. This is a true Aquarius trait. I was a the grocery store and overheard a toddler repeatedly respond to her mom, "I know". I asked the mom what her little girl's zodiac sign was and not surprisingly, she an Aquarius toddler..haha
Aquarius LOVE constructive criticism and seeing ways to improve ourselves. That being said, this can’t have been compiled by someone who has any grasp on Aquarius ♒️ train of thought. Unevolved Aquarius people can be your worst nightmare, but an evolved Aquarius can save the world. Also, EVERYONE has emotions, including Aquarius people. This video makes us sound like cold, evil robots. We have INTENSE emotions that we turn off and on at will to navigate through this life filled with hateful people who hate truth and information most. 🙏🏾 Namaste. 💚
Exactly,gang ♒🌌♾️ life purpose means a lot in the chaos of hatred world .
Indeed Tia robots are not of our decent.
I agree ♒♒♒
@@kyachevall3758 I feel gifted as an Aquarian....i watch like all the critics and all of em are told by ones who have not kept it true to dem self....self truth is wat they lacking.... Aquarius aye dey better love it♒♒♒
I agree 100% they make us seem like robots ♒
I have an Aquarius Sun and a Capricorn Moon, and this described me completely. I’m complicated, unpredictable and everyday is something new, just don’t tell me what to do and we’ll be fine.
I'm weird, but thoughts about humanitarian hurts and not being able to meet people alike us hurts , such an unbearable affliction to withstand to share our lost thoughts with hence, we sound aloof , weird and so a psychopath.
Yeah
If you want a friend that's just like you every time than your fucking weird. I'm an aquatic and I'm nothing like you other weirdod
Yup. Humanitarian at Heart yet humans annoy me so bad 🤧😞
1.Aquarius with water moons like myself are highly emotional and sensitive so it's not true for every Aquarius. I save my emotions for people close to me though, I wouldn't cry infront of strangers. I like hugs too from my loved ones.
2. I am pretty flexible with my spouse and loved ones. I may be stubborn regarding some topics but if it's creating a rift or tension at home then I much rather let go of my ego. People I love and care for are more important than my stubbornness.
3. I definitely compromise for the greater good. I won't compromise my principles or my standards. If my spouse likes something I don't like but they want it badly then I would cave and let them have it.
4. Every person on this earth has contradicted themselves some way so Aquarius is not an exception.
5. I do not settle for lesser things but if it's to make my family happy, I would make the sacrifice. I wouldn't do that for strangers or people I don't trust.
If I express an issue I’m having to someone and they just hugged me rather than helping me come up with a solution I’d be annoyed. How will emotional comfort solve my problem 🤨 this video makes Aquarian’s sound like psychopaths 😂😂😂
I m at this position but , evolving .
Girl I’m the same way...emotional coddling and sugar coating or “you’re not the only one” never helped me!!!! True Aquarius I be like how can this help me?!
@@belissimahoney69 exactly 🙌🏽
@@cosmic2096 me too I’ve realized that the majority uses emotions rather than logic 😶
@@Rasheens-Story exactly , we are aloof because of this dreadful society .
As an Aquarius, I don't ask something of others if they've turned me down. If I feel I'm bothering someone I'll never do it again. I do have fixed ideas about some things, but other ideas are welcome as well. It is the mark of an intelligent mind to listen to a thought without having to accept it. I get crazy when someone says idiotic things as the truth. I love unconditionally.
Totally 💯 %agree
@Nordik Cajun well thank you. My daughter and I are both Aquarius, I am January, she is February. Everyone tells her she acts just like me and she's the only other Aquarius I know in person. Nice to meet you. Peace
Same
@Middle-Child-Of-God I'm happy to meet someone who appreciates the same thing as me. You're truly a gift of love and joy. Peace be with you always.
@Nordik Cajun I'm glad you agree with me. I have reservations about what I say because most people don't want or don't choose to understand what I'm saying. I feel I don't belong anywhere, yet everywhere. Idk, I'm weird but that's who we are isn't it? We are the most gifted when it comes to strange. Peace
It’s 5:20 am
Same
5:30
Did I start too early? I’m only at 1 AM
5:38 am Damm
5:04 am FTW
1. Aloof and unemotional
2. Hard to change their minds
3. Don't compromise
4. Hypocrisy
5. Don't like to settle
Sounds pretty accurate
Sounds like y’all don’t mind being the side chicks lol
@@sickwitlyrics 🤣😂🤣
People born in the first decan of Aquarius.
trust, we don't care bc you're the side ho on our side of things too@@sickwitlyrics
I'm virgo my woman is aquarius she Is bringing me out of my comfort zone with her care free ways and I'm loving it just let her lead the way in the relationship and hang on for the best time you will ever have if she locks the bedroom door and hides the key you had better be ready , I love my aquarius woman gentle and kind and very intellectual just like me just go with the flow and be happy
It's so frustrating trying to explain myself. Why I'm a weird person that over thinks everything. Pretty much everything this said is true for me.
Stop “trying” to explain and make them hear you! We run shit!, always remember that!
Ikr??, 😂😂
The best answer to that question is no answer. A big lesson for Aquarians imo is being comfortable with not knowing the answer or solution to everything and that includes not having explanations for your actions. ❤️❤️
@@ryanhunt9836 yeah you gonna run shit into the ground! Gtfoh
As an Aquarius,I feel kind of offended,some of these are true,but a lot of them are a little to negative.I don’t think we’re that mean,I am actually a super nice person, and I don’t get mad at 85% of that stuff.the only thing that gets me mad the most is when people try to correct me when I’m trying my best,and when people ask me the same question over and over again.
Omg, I hate repeating myself SO MUCH!
Keep asking because you're answer is not clear. It's long winded not clear
I dated an Aquarius woman and of all zodiac signs, Aquarius tend to be the coldest and ruthless
I'm a male aquarius. Indeed ice cold yet extremely warm when it's genuine. Absolutely apathically ruthless and callousness when there is a right reason to be so.
I disagree with the disloyal part of the video. I'm extremely loyal and can keep a secret to my death. We do have a very logic based mind and we appreciate truth, honesty, authenticity and so on. I personally judge people on their authenticity and respect, a lot. I'm strong in judgements about good or wrong though. If a person has one severe "wrong trait", I discard them as I don't want them around (yet still friendly to them if they didn't wrong me or my loved ones). I'm personally intelligent and scare a lot of people off, especially with my stoic view of virtue. I feel that many people become self-aware of not being able to live up to my standards making them naturally intimidated by me, especially females that hide flaws/insecurities and wear a mask during social interactions. On the contrast I'm great at reading people, to a scary point even.
true
The gift and the curse of Aquarius ♒♒🤷🏾♂️😌
How many Aquarians just got mad at this video? 🤣😂🤯
Not me bcs its relatable
Me
@@jojojoe1077 totally me.
Not me because it's facts! Facts over emotion for me.
Yeah beep boop im a robot how offensive
As A Gemini I Love Aquarius.😘😘❤❤🌹🌹🌹MUCH LOVE FROM.♊
Me too!!! I’m a Gemini and I have 2 ♒️ sons and I’m dating an Aquarius!🤗
@@brittanyjaneayres3924 😍♊♒...that is beautiful!... I love Aquarius..they listen to us and they are real..love there personalities.❤❤.Happy Holidays to you and your family.😘
😍😍😍
@@ritahmutheumuia1604 😊😘😘😘😍❤♒♊.
Géminis and aquarius are very highly compatible. 🔥🙌
I definitely feel people see me as robotic sometimes but am certainly not unemotional. Just have too many and trust too little that it doesn't make sense to share them, that iron clad defense is spot on.
Some people disagree about number 3, but i do, sometimes i don't compromise about certain things, even i stay away from people who made me fed up an agreement about something, some people stay away from me cos of it. It's better to have one friend who inspires you than having thosand of people who made us fed up.
If I didn't compromise I wouldn't have survived in my household. Being considerate is everything to me. I think aquarians are all about keeping the balance,Striving to become better,gaining knowledge etc. Down sides maybe procrastination,hard time with confrontation, forgiving ourselves and find it hard to process emotions.
If aquarians are kind to themselves,put mindful effort into alliviating their bad habits and do proper emotion regulation,with time they will become healthier version of themselves. And remember it's the the little efforts u make regularly that matter. Rome wasn't built in one day.^_^
"keeping the peace/balance" is the perfect description.
Imagine letting yourself suffer to fit in 😂 fuck that I’ll stick to my logic
Pretty much A-one. Age and experiences has allowed my inner light to shine and see the big pictures🙋🏽♀️
As an aqua, this is dead ass accurate. Maybe it's my aries moon or scorpio rising that decided to seek out counseling 10 yrs ago, but it's just as likely that my aqua sun was like 'these emotions can't run me, because I have to run shit, so let me see where the origin of every single one of these emotions comes from.' lol We weird af, but we want the world to work right & not oppress ppl.
Thank u Sir. Now I know all my negative thoughts in life. Try to be careful with my dealings to others.
Top 5 Points + Bonus
1. Aloof and unemotional
2. Hard to change their minds
3. Don't compromise
4. Hypocrisy
5. Don't like to settle
Conclusion - Aquarians aren't evil individuals but they can benefit tremendously by trying to leave logic aside for a few seconds and trying to act like a human being.
And stop seeing basic emotional expression as weak. It comes across as sociopathic.
Actually these do are positives at times ❤Aquarians are very intelligent ..they know how to tackle any situation
Yes completely correct 💯.. my husband is Aquarius 😢
you got your facts miss placed. Aquarius is vary loyal and will pout love before work or jobs. And i know this cuz im an Aquarius and only half of this video is on point. And we can see there's not just yes and no were a bit more open minded. then this video shows.
I'm an Aqua and the video fits me completely. I'd rather allocate my efforts towards work that will help the collective rather than focus on one individual that I'm obligated to help just because we're related or "loved ones"
Aries here, who has previously dated and is currently dating (and pretty hot for) an Aquarius. I see a lot of these traits in them, especially how it can be difficult to tell where I stand sometimes.
So true, someone even called me a robot before
Yeah man
The numerous qualities of the aquarians are well stated. Thank you
They sometimes have a “do as I say not as I do” type of energy that Lord knows I can’t stand 🙄
Absolute truth 😅
💯 - and can not see the hypocrisy in it.
I'm an aq and I love talking to people? So this is wrong. And the girl I like I care about alot. And the fuck abt it being robotic. I talk to her about it like a normal human, so I usually comfort her and the next day I give her compliments. And I don't care abt being proven wrong. If I'm wrong then I accept that's shit right away. And also I love having deep conections. If the girl I like wants to do something, then what she wants? As an aquatic I'm DEFINITLY not like this.
Chasder, maybe it's because you're a male Aquarius? I'm not familiar with males that have the Aquarius sign, but man, for females this is spot on! All the female Aquarius that I've been friends with have all the traits they have described in this video! Perhaps the males are different? Or you are just an individual that doesn't fit the description. Anyway, good for you for being there for your girlfriend, she is very lucky to have you. Just out of curiosity, what sign is she?
@@dawndupre5240 Shit i didnt mean to say gf shes just my crush i did make it seem like we were dating lol ill ask her what her sign is and ill tell u lol
@@dawndupre5240 she is a virgo & to me dating for zodiac signs is bullshit🤣i hope you dont think thats why like her? Were u gna ask questions abt her? Cuz idc
No questions, I was just curious what sign she was. Hope she ends up your girlfriend!
@@dawndupre5240 thank, you i dont think itl happen, i mean she did like me for a while but she dsnt like any1 rn. Maybe shell end up likin me again cuz she knows i like her. Lol. But i really doubt it. I have hopes, but praying wont do nothin lol. I dont pray really but sometimes. Another thin if she ends up liking me then ion even think she'll fucken tell me tbh. Maybe 1 day. Maybe...
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3. They don't compromise.
4. Completely contradict themselves.
5.They don't like to settle for anything.
6.Machined
Psychopathy, or psychopathic personality,[1] is a personality construct[2][3] characterized by impaired empathy and remorse, in combination with traits of boldness, disinhibition, and egocentrism. These traits are often masked by superficial charm and immunity to stress,[4] which create an outward appearance of apparent normalcy
Its not our fault that us aquarius people have a rough life. Stop with all the hate.
My North node conjunction with my moon in Aquarius intensify this and so I understand why I am a inhuman to all of them.
May be one day (at least after I passed away) they understand I tell all advice to them only for their goodness 😊
I don't agree with the last part about Aquarius being selfish... I'm an Aquarius and I'm too compasionate about the feelings of people that I get used often!
Yeap been there.
I date two Aquarius and when watching ur video all these traits related to them as a Aries I say I will never date Aquarius again they are cold hearted people
Sociopathic. Many of them see emotions or empathy as unnecessary and weak.
As an aquariun , I found these points appropriate
I'm an Aquarius ♒ in England 🏴
I can totalling relate to the above mentioned topics 😊
Thank you for the feedback, means a lot.
@@ZodiacTalks Thanks for your reply 🙏
Aquarians can be both logical AND creative. Ive found me, as an aquarius, tend to be logical when my negative or dark traits express, and creative when my positive or light traits express
Sometimes as an Aquarius, I feel like Spock, from Star Trek.
What happens if I'm an Aquarius and an ISFP? I often feel like I contradict myself. I actually have plenty of debates by myself about a bunch of different topics. Aren't they also one of the rare signs?
I'm an Aquarius and an INFP so I feel your struggle lol
Haters gotta hate Age of Aquarius 🌬🌊
We can take the pain Baby ! Take the hate and not shed a tear. Lol
Lez go Aquarius gang♒
Much of this is truth…..but like all human beings we have good and bad traits….people tend to mistake our kindness for weakness and when we have enough they act surprised.
Yeap
I myself is an aquarius ♒ I hate when people say that I am cold harted because when I'm at school at lest some of my friend or gf are hurt people say I'm cold harted
So according to this video I'm asocial phycho who only care about personal gain instead of bonding. Got it bip boop bip me 🤖 now
Where did you come up with these characteristics? I'm an Aquarius and most of these are not true of me. My mom is a Cancer, dad Aquarian. Maybe that's why?
Lmfao dude if I ever try to come out to someone they go "wait, you also cry?"or "am I a therapist?" So it's better being unemotional and we take a lot of time to trust others we usually observes others from a far and if they fall into our friendship league we make them our friends 😔👋
Also dude we also compromise depending on how much we love a person and how close they are to us
This is ridiculously spot the heck on🎯
I disagree with number 3, sometimes it’s a learning point of view on what to do and what not to do
Bruh... i get so tired being so logical all the time... i wanna be human for once 🤣🤣🤣🤣... it hurts. I wanna trade mine in 🤣
Aquarius sun, sag moon, aries rising .....this video is accurate.im the nicest guy ....until you push it too far...then, you're picking up your teeth.
Aquarius sun
Aries rising
Taurus moon
And I highly agree
My ex was an aquarius and this 💯 true
Our weaknesses are strengths. We'll take it.
In conclusion Aquarius are robots 🤖 omg I love how accurate the conclusion is.
I agree to every thing in this guidelines,as an Aquarius born on 7th I think too far and feel so different among peers, I can't settle with someone who can't reason faster than me because I feel ill cheat him'he as to be a smart ass too its not pride but am always ahead of peoples thoughts and its hard for me to trust any body but one thing when I love, it goes down in my and even if I break up verbally I'll still spend months trying to fix my heart
my gf is born on this day
We are loyal and standing strong like an oak.
If you're on the outs with an aquarius then you are probably a shit human being, to be honest.
We have trouble because we expect people to match our level of loyalty.
I laughed at this whole video idk why but i kind of saw my self in diff situations while the little cartoons were playing. I agree with like 80% of the vid.
Yaaaaassss 😂 same
I am Aquarius and I am careful around people. I trust very few people and do not trust people who hate animals and children. When I want something I never give up trying to get it. We are not cold, I am loyal to my friends and family. If you betray me I will walk away. This does not mean that if someone who betrays me and needs help I would not help them, I would. But never trust them or be a friends again. opinions but will listen to others opinions. We are not mean people.
I do compromise and try to find middle ground with others. Everything else is fairly accurate
OK so um I agree 50% . we need a do over. bcuz I'm very much outspoken with my feelings
Did an Aquarius hurt this man ??? 😂
No y’all just hate the truth
@@fuchsiadreamer5946 the woman too delusional
It crazy how they talk bad bout Aquarius Gemini lol
There is nothing to get mad at all. He only tells us the truth about Aquarians LIKE ME ....
Aquarius and Taurus are stubborn , are fixed signs
And are best couples
♒♉
And l love Taurus
My mother is a taurus and I am aquarius
I'm an Aquarius and my Taurus best friend of 25 years is a phsyco fucker like me. Loyal friend till the end.
One thing: They can be stubborn to heading to a clearly good advice, sometimes.
This is a almost perfect description of a narcissitic personnality.
And your point? Lol
I’m learning that they absolutely are!!
Yep & a sociopath.
This is pretty accurate, I'm like this
Aquarius people got so triggered because it's true.
Am a scorpio my girl is an aquarius i can feel her be unemotional
Because usually, I am not wrong, not conceited, its just facts, I have proven people wrong, far more often, then not, I am not stupid.
Being logical is always the best
I love a good drag and dang yall did it for filth 😅😂 I will say this. We usually communicate what we wabt. Now if u choose to use emotions and think its gonna sway us. U would be dead wrong. We feel emotions deeply but we refuse to let anything sabotage our own plans.
I'm a super emotional Aquarius tbh
What's your birthdate?
I know someone who acts exactly like that 😮😢😊
I respect this video
Aquarius are prone to being socially awkward
Damn I feel like my ex was talking to me😂😂😂
I am Aquarius ♒🤪 and I compromise all the time with people who deserve to be compromise with, but not other way around. No compromise with fools and idiots who bave no concept of life.
What's your birthdate?
Love this 👊🏻❣️🧩💯😁
🦄⛲🎨 Aquarius 🙄✌️🌹🦅🌠🌻
Aquarians are never wrong!
never?
Embrace Your Darkness,
Soon enough it will be a strength, not a weakness as it is now.
Lol yes that's definitely me
Cold calculated and completely uncarely
Basically Aquarius are Data (TNG) from Star Trek.
Hey man im a happy go lucky leo
Susan, as a fellow Leo I can tell you that our sign has a very hard time getting along with Aquarius. We are like night and day. I have a friend who is an Aquarius and at this time we are not speaking to each other because we got into another fight last week. We argue and disagree more than not, and she is quick to hang up on me on the phone. She tends to be very cold, and doesn't understand that I am more emotional than her. I think we have too many differences to be friends anymore, and I would be slow to make friends with another Aquarius. That being said, there are always exceptions.
Me second 😅
What’s the point of giving emotional comfort how will that solve the problem🧐🤨🤦🏽♀️ if I express an issue to someone and they just hugged me instead of a suggested solution I’d be annoyed 😒
On his last comment I thought that doesn't even make sense? Why would u put ur self out there like that? Some truth but not all. But some of it isn't logical to me
Sounds like -------------------- AQUARIUS is Selfish
I'm an Aquarius and I'm very emotional but since I'm an Aquarius people always think I shouldn't be so people are mean to Me a lot I also have ADHD and ocd and it makes me sad sometimes idk what to do no I'm not selfish🙄✌
As an aquarius I can say that yes,I may be selfish but only to people who mean nothing to me like friends,relatives and non-blood cousins. But on the other hand I can be very loving and kind to people of my own blood such as my family and as well as the needy and poor!
Aquarius doesn't suffer fools, if it's selfish to you then so be it. We don't play therapist to drama kings and queens. Since we are so independent and strong willed, we do not respect weakness and laziness in people. I mean we aren't bullies or anything nor we are robotic but if your problem has a solution and you still choose to mope and whine about it instead of working on it then we aren't going to coddle you.
We are lone wolves at heart and aren't afraid to walk alone but we definitely like companionship that isn't like an anchor on our neck trying to drown us. We are ambitious and positive sign, we highly appreciate a partner that also has goals and ambitions. I would do everything in my power to support them and expect them to do the same for me. We want someone who is going to uplift me and I will do the same for them. Lazy people are not our ideal type.
Aquarius has 101 ideas and we are hustlers. If you join us and give our ideas shape, we are going to love you for it. We like intelligent and creative people. We like kindness in our partner. We are looking for someone who says, " I get you" not people who are judging us on the surface.
I feel attacked
😂
This was hurtful for a aquarius like myself im 👿🤬💔😂
That's not totally correct. As humanitarians we tend to bring those with us up the ladder. Personally I like to see the last horse win. The Longshot to be successful. Most of us are very intelligent and with a blank of an eye usually can solve most problems and a way that most are not able to see or understand until we've shown them what can be done. When we learn something we learn it to the T! And we know how to dot the i. And it is Double Down when we are committed to the challenge. We don't like to be wrong so therefore we make sure that we've got it right. And when we don't have it right rest assure yourself that that will be the only one in time that we will be corrected on that mistake. It takes a lot of effort to be good at what one does. So we don't handle failure and when we are committed we will go the length. That an aquarius has a strong social conscience most of us can blend in at almost any setting and carry an intelligent conversation comfortably. But as a humanitarian we take those that support us that have been there for us we take them up with us. With a strong social conscience we don't want to be sitting at the top by our self we love to give credit. And most of us are very very patient and understanding and can go much farther when it comes to working with someone that most people don't have the tolerance or patience for but we will stick with them if we believe in them that they are worth more than what meets the eye because that is something we're able to see in people that most give up on but we will stick with them until it clicks and usually the one that had the hardest time catching the click when they do they've got it they're proud of their self and they will turn out to be one of the best you've ever seen. I was a general manager and work my way up from the bottom everywhere I went. They intimidated and inadequate to diagnose what a negative personality for an Aquarius would be. It sounds to me like whoever come up with this one probably went toe-to-toe with an aquarius at some point and didn't win the argument with an Aquarius. For something of a negative personality for an Aquarius sounds to me like it was written from somebody that has a bit of a chip on their shoulder because I don't feel like this is completely correct not by a long shot. We don't like to admit when you're wrong so we usually make sure we're damn right and that's where we hold our ground. We believe in truth and justice. When it comes to truth didn't you know we're going to be right. If it ain't true then you can expect to be right. However, we love people's individuality to be themself and respect honesty. We believe in people as much as we believe in our self. The downside to that is not everybody believes in themselves as much as we believe in them. We Believe that everything could be better. But in a negative world we try and we try harder to bring good and positive change with us everywhere we go. The truest form of negative when it comes to an Aquarius just about always comes from someone that's not qualified intimidated or jealous even envious has always had some kind of trash talk toward an Aquarius because we're usually a threat is someone that is not capable of doing a job or untrustworthy or faking it all together. I was held back by Dirty management and lo and behold they hung their self and I set at the top of the food chain and I made sure I took the best with me right up the ladder. And nobody suffered or went through the hell that I had to. I proudly gave the first professional resume to start the career of so many over the years. Has the humanitarians of the zodiac we believe in people. I didn't have time to waste when I was in high school I dropped out in the 10th grade I never got a a diploma or GED and held a professional position ever since I was 19! I never had to have one because my ability and determination thirst for challenge is where my actions spoke for myself. The funny thing is I only had a 10th grade education and I always set comfortable and confident next to all of the graduates and those with degrees and held my own and rewrote many policies for many companies over my years. It didn't matter if you had a diploma or degree didn't mean you could perform your job. If you're not dedicated to doing better they did what you did yesterday and doing better tomorrow than what you done today then I will take your damn job. I don't waste my time on something I don't believe in. When I retired I was a certified food handler and health inspector. Now I don't have a problem with admitting when I'm wrong because it's the opportunity to learn where I was incorrect on I didn't know otherwise. Usually from inadequate training. However, the next time it came up I didn't have to humble myself to admit that I was wrong. I had my facts straight. But we do things on our own and we study something that doesn't feel quite right to us then we know there's a better way or approach that usually makes money with less effort. Simplicity will always outdo something more complicated than it has to be. If a pencil Pusher has never done the job on their feet then they are not qualified to be writing procedures on how to do a job. I'm always open for constructive criticism. I believe everybody has the right to be heard whether they're right or wrong because that's where the start of something better comes from because when somebody is able to get off their mind what they think then others can start the correct any misunderstandings and resolved all problems for the greater good. When were dedicated we are usually the very Last Man Standing. The humanitarian cause we're usually the first to jump in to help the greater cause. But whoever wrote this obviously has lost a battle with an Aquarius because this was not a negative personality traits of an Aquarius this was from somebody that was scorned. And from the way it sounded I would imagine so. We can argue the case most of us don't have to have an attorney if we end up in court. And I'm laughing because I see right through this video. Not to say that we don't have negative traits cuz we do we're not perfect but we try not to be a screw up. But it gets tiresome trying to correct somebody else to screw up. And there's plenty and I do mean plenty that don't have the ability to see a bigger picture or half the understanding that they need just sit beside one of us. Negative traits and all we're still the best out of all the zodiac for our causes for truth and justice and that equals fairness. Everyone has an equal chance and the right to a fair chance and because you have a degree does it mean you still know how to do with job you might I know all about it but that still doesn't mean that you know how to do it. Lot of people know how to dress but they might not know how to coordinate it and look right.
What's your birthdate?
It make sense now...
Idiosyncratic, simply years ahead. Prefer there on company 😮 watch out!
BS most of the part. Why? I have emotions, I cried every night for 2.5 years after a break up hurt to my soul. Yes I can be logical which I find I also emotional too. I can be cold when you cross me so much and I am very very good at cut people off. Clean cut. But I also care people’s feelings, I give when I can. I am far far from a machine, because inside of me filled with many wonderful memories and thoughts. Any sign can have people so unhealthy and so toxic, it is really more about how you grow up and how was your influence in your family. I was much more emotional and open hearted than an emotional unhealthy Scorpio, by your sign says, water sign should be so emotional and loyal and devoted. Yeah, end up he is the one playing mind games, I was the one constantly in fear of his hot and cold push and pull crap. I was the one consistently showing up my emotions and steady in my emotions. So just don’t put out things like this, you are going to get lots of Aquarius kick your back. Yes some Aquarius are very toxic and emotionally toxic, those can act like these descriptions. Not me. I work my assx off to get ahead and stay on top in my Field, I don’t step on others shoulders to get where I want to be.
Wait, hold up... You cried every night for 2½ _years,_ over a mere _breakup??_ That seriously worries me... I mean, I don't even think that most people cry for that length of time, after the DEATH of a loved one... Why was it such a big deal? How long had you been with this person?
What's your birthdate?